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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they.

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Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. So

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Speaker 2: imagine that we're writing in our Moleskin diaries, which we

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Speaker 2: all have. Of course, now we had the ones with

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Speaker 2: little lock on it, remember those when you were a kid,

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Speaker 2: like the lock as if that couldn't be broken into.

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Speaker 3: I'm also read it very easily.

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Speaker 1: Yeah what age was she reading it?

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Speaker 3: Like writing of my whole life? She didn't believe in privacy?

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Speaker 1: Wow, she's yeah, that explained a lot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll talk about it therapy.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, so really, so did you actually daily

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Speaker 2: write in a diary?

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Speaker 4: When I was younger, I had sins and then also

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Speaker 4: I had my cousins read it at one point and

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Speaker 4: I was like, I just need to stop writing diaries.

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Speaker 4: But very on brand, I did write that one of

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Speaker 4: my very I was very young and wrote that one

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Speaker 4: of my friend's dads I had a crush.

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Speaker 3: On him, So that kind of tracks.

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Speaker 4: I also said, ps, my favorite band is the Jackson Five.

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Speaker 1: Now yeah, so I mean same.

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Speaker 4: So like like I was in the ninety so.

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Speaker 1: It is kind of fine.

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Speaker 2: I can remember being young and listening to stuff like

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of an example like just music

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Speaker 2: that nobody else would have listened to.

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Speaker 1: That because my parents told me about it and listened

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Speaker 3: I was listening to like Van Morrison.

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Speaker 2: It's very odd I was hamming a Whitney Houston people.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I should have off. Ye, Maybe maybe there's more

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Speaker 2: to me than I know. Maybe he could really like

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Speaker 2: our friend Trevor was the boss in a couple of

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Speaker 2: places where we're on. You know, he was asking begging

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Speaker 2: his parents to take him to Seleneian at eight years old,

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Speaker 2: and they didn't know that he was gay.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, so I don't know. Maybe maybe

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Speaker 1: you do go to West Palm a lot all the.

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Speaker 2: Time and the Keys. I'm always at the Keys. I'm

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Speaker 2: always at that place.

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Speaker 3: The naked bar.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the naked bar on the roof for you, Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's what it's called.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: For some reason, all of my straight, white married friends

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Speaker 2: wanted I don't know what white has to do with it.

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Speaker 1: They were, they were white, but for some reason, the

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Speaker 1: right they didn't wait to go there.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, guys, what do you think is really happening

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Speaker 2: at a naked bar in Key West?

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Speaker 1: And it's exactly what I thought it would be.

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Speaker 2: I didn't go it is it is old man with

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Speaker 2: walking around naked at the bar. Yeah, where your friends naked, No,

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Speaker 2: they kept their clothes on.

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Speaker 1: But my thing is like, what what do you do?

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Speaker 1: You you needs a strip club? Like what do you like?

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Speaker 1: What do you think is?

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Speaker 2: What do you think it's a bar where you can

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Speaker 2: walk around naked. It's like if you've been to a

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Speaker 2: nude beach in Europe, it's different, but a lot of

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Speaker 2: nude beaches are not what you would hope that it

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Speaker 1: Correct. I stayed at a hotel.

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Speaker 2: Near a nude beach one time where we rented like

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Speaker 2: an Airbnb or something, I don't remember where we were,

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Speaker 2: and I was, that's a nude beach, yes, And I

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Speaker 2: that is not in my mind what I thought I

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Speaker 5: So a certain space in life where you don't care,

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Speaker 1: I'm there. I'm pretty much there.

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Speaker 2: I eat some Yeah, I think my no craps given,

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Speaker 2: My no crap's given.

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Speaker 1: Jason's like, really, I go with it.

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Speaker 2: I think I think it's happening for me earlier than

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Speaker 2: it happens for most like for my mom had happened

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Speaker 2: and I don't know, maybe I'll maybe be a happier existence.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure. Uh, Caitlin, take it away, do a blog, please,

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Speaker 3: So, I don't know if you guys have noticed.

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Speaker 4: Obviously, you know, it's a very good thing that a

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Speaker 4: health these days. It's a very big question. But I

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Speaker 4: not just therapists, psychiatrists are now trying to like figure

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Speaker 4: out if you have good mental health, which.

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Speaker 3: Is probably a good thing.

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Speaker 4: But there's places you don't expect it, like the dentist

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Speaker 3: I needed a new chiropractor. I'm in like a ton

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Speaker 4: I have TMJ, which is with your John it kind

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Speaker 4: of like, may're asking me this?

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Speaker 1: So they gave cat you might have to do with

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Speaker 1: the stress that you're carrying. Well, in that case, you

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Speaker 2: But I want to say that this is a thing

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Speaker 1: Internal message.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think it's because you're like alone in

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Speaker 2: with you. So then they ask you this question that

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Speaker 2: your your rescue to be like, yeah, no, I actually

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Speaker 2: could I think that's why they do it for sure.

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Speaker 4: And I'm used to being asked like are you anxious,

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Speaker 3: Whatever? And I'm was like check check, check one of everything.

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Speaker 2: But they're also casting for Bravo shows too, Oh good,

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Speaker 2: yeah right, yeah, but I could use it.

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Speaker 4: But this time they were giving me categories like friends, family,

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Speaker 3: So it was a little more in depth.

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Speaker 4: And they also asked me all in your health one

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Speaker 4: out of one hundred percent, what would you rank yourself

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Speaker 4: including mental, physical, everything?

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Speaker 1: What did you say?

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Speaker 3: I think?

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Speaker 1: I said, that is higher than I would give myself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I'm I'm starting to I'm not at.

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Speaker 1: Three lying.

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Speaker 3: No, my men, I lie at the doctor about your

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Speaker 3: mental health.

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Speaker 1: Well, no, I just like about everything. How many drinks

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Speaker 2: Many week in fifteen minute period? And then on a

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Speaker 2: it's like how many you know what else? They ask you, Oh,

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Speaker 2: that sexual partner is like I don't know, yah, don't

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Speaker 4: A life But and then I told you, well, yeah,

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Speaker 4: my physical knock on wood is good, but yeah, And

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Speaker 4: then the nurse asked me to ask how tall I was?

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Speaker 4: How high are you? And I said, not right now,

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Speaker 4: maybe later, Like have you ever heard someone ask higher?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So I don't know about this.

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Speaker 1: I mean I'd like to be higher.

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Speaker 3: Actually not right now, you know.

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Speaker 4: But so it was very interesting, and I of course

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Speaker 4: a lot of factors, depends on the day.

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Speaker 3: What I would rank you, Okay, in.

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Speaker 1: My life, Ki, would you rate your mental health?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 5: I would have put one hundred on everything. That's why

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Speaker 5: when she was like what did you put? I was like,

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Speaker 5: I hope she put tens across the board. Look, I've

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Speaker 5: got the doctor for you to figure out all this stuff.

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Speaker 5: You know, I would I'm great every.

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Speaker 1: Other job.

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Speaker 3: In physical mentale, I.

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Speaker 1: Gotta go fifty. I'm like half and half hour.

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Speaker 3: So we got to check on Jason later.

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Speaker 1: Like that's for real. Yeah, no, I believe that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I get that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it varies two days ago actually.

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Speaker 2: So it varies significantly day by day. I would have

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And I also get really nervous about the pregnancy question,

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Speaker 4: I get They asked me, any chance you could be pregnant?

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Speaker 4: Every doctor asked you that, and I'm like no, and

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Speaker 4: I get really like nervous, and then I said like, well,

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Speaker 4: I'm on my period right now, like I tried to

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Speaker 4: prove it, and this gay nurse was like.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I believe you.

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Speaker 1: I don't need to see that.

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Speaker 3: It just started today.

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Speaker 2: He's like okay, a verbal Will more Fred Show next