WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Double Kiss Surprise

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta just say, I love the real ones for

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<v Speaker 1>not skipping through the intros.

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<v Speaker 2>It's true, you know. I see those people who comment

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<v Speaker 2>are like, hey, it starts at four fifty five, try

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<v Speaker 2>to skip this.

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<v Speaker 1>We see you.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you call them out? Yes, sure, all right, Welcome

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<v Speaker 2>to Your Second Date Podcast. This is the official place to.

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<v Speaker 1>Find Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we love

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<v Speaker 1>that you're here. That's why we always highlight you and

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<v Speaker 1>what you love to say say to us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, questions, comments, what do you guys? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Psychic Moose commented and said, my husband told me he

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<v Speaker 1>loved me on our third date.

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<v Speaker 2>My response was, and what does that mean to you?

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<v Speaker 2>That is a good response. But we celebrated our ten

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<v Speaker 2>year universary last week.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, that is almost like a pad on the head.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cute, honey, What does that mean to you?

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<v Speaker 2>Those words? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I love it? Well, happy Ted the anniversary. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you finally have said it back to him.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you earned it by now. Uh huh, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>for sure? All right. Your second Date update starts right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date updates.

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<v Speaker 4>Making a friendly bent during a first date. It could

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<v Speaker 4>be a good move. Yes, it's kind of flirty a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit, have a little excitement to the night. Like,

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<v Speaker 4>for example, beer chugging contest loser has to do the

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<v Speaker 4>other person's taxes for the next five years. Ready go,

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<v Speaker 4>you suck at chugging beer. Okay, So here's my W

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<v Speaker 4>four and a list of my assets. So if you

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<v Speaker 4>could follow those guys tomorrow, they're already overdue. I have

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<v Speaker 4>a bunch, by the way, that not working for you, Brook.

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<v Speaker 2>This was we your W two four.

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<v Speaker 4>Good good thing. You know how to do it, because

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<v Speaker 4>I certainly don't. But one of our listeners had a

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<v Speaker 4>friendly wager going during her first date and apparently didn't

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<v Speaker 4>go quite the way she planned. So let's talk to

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<v Speaker 4>Tricia about it. Tricia, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>You owe more to the irs than you expected to.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what happened?

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<v Speaker 3>Not exact? Actually?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, No, you didn't do the tax bad thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gessing I know I didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Look now he's not calling you back?

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<v Speaker 2>Who is it? Who did you go out with?

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<v Speaker 1>So?

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<v Speaker 3>I met this guy named Gino, you know, and we

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<v Speaker 3>met online and he really seems like very kind of happy.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like a very chill guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, those are good qualities in a person.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's super cute, So I was like, why not? So, like,

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<v Speaker 3>I know by his profile that he's like a sporty guy,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm pretty sporty myself. Okay, So I thought we

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<v Speaker 3>would do a game of pickup basketball.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, that's a great day.

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<v Speaker 4>So you'd go to the game, not be in a game.

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<v Speaker 4>That does sound as fun, But that's not like a

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<v Speaker 4>sporty thing to do. Watching sports is not an athletic thing.

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<v Speaker 5>But that's not.

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<v Speaker 4>Athletic as I thought I was because I've watched so

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<v Speaker 4>many sports.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that doesn't get.

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<v Speaker 4>On my couch down in two plates of nachos and

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<v Speaker 4>under twenty seconds? Is it is kind of athletics. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>competitive food, but I don't think that's what Tricia had

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<v Speaker 4>in mind. Okay, So you guys wanted to do something sporty.

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<v Speaker 4>What was your bet?

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<v Speaker 3>So the loser had to buy the drinks?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's good to play basketball before drinking.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, certainly, don't want to do that the other way around.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you could make its tummy cramp.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So who won?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, he was pretty good and I'm not bad at all.

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<v Speaker 3>So it was close, but I guess he just called

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<v Speaker 3>it a tie because when I made the last shot,

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<v Speaker 3>it hit the rim, and when he turned around to

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<v Speaker 3>make the rebound, it hit him in the nose.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh did it bleed?

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<v Speaker 3>No, but it looks like it hurt.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so his pride is hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>He has it like really dominated the game and then

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<v Speaker 1>he just got an awe.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah he had an alley and then but he bought

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<v Speaker 3>drinks anyhow.

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<v Speaker 4>Okaya hit him in the face with the ball. You

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<v Speaker 4>didn't pay for the din?

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<v Speaker 3>Do it purposely hit the rim? Wasn't my fock?

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<v Speaker 2>And she didn't lose Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, she's a stickler for the rules. Yeah, okay, the

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<v Speaker 4>drinks go good.

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<v Speaker 3>Drinks were great. We have like really good conversation too.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, this all sounds so good.

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<v Speaker 4>You're getting hit doesn't sound that bad.

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<v Speaker 2>What is there any bad things that happened?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean he was talking about like what he is

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<v Speaker 3>looking for in a relationship and how he wants an

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<v Speaker 3>active person, which is awesome because I do too. And

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<v Speaker 3>he talks a little bit about Uh, he loves fantasy football,

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<v Speaker 3>which I don't understand at all, but whatever, okay, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And then he talked about like how he had a

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<v Speaker 3>big party for his family for their anniversary for his parents.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's cute and.

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<v Speaker 3>There's like fifty people, so like he's really family oriented,

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<v Speaker 3>which I thought was great.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sorry, yeah, this is all cute.

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<v Speaker 4>How did you end that date?

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<v Speaker 2>So?

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<v Speaker 3>I kissed him on my car?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you initiated the kiss?

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<v Speaker 5>I did?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, kiss his No, so it felt better.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you kiss him on the mouth?

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<v Speaker 3>I kiss him on the mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well it was great.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I went to get my car and he

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<v Speaker 3>started walking towards his car, So then I figured I

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<v Speaker 3>was going to try and be really cute. And then

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<v Speaker 3>I ran up to him by his car and I

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<v Speaker 3>gave him another kiss.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, what did you be so excited? If you

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<v Speaker 2>were a guy, I'd love that. I don't know you're saying, no.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeff, is there any chance that maybe he thought you

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<v Speaker 4>were going to attack him and try and knock him

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<v Speaker 4>down again to finish the job.

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<v Speaker 1>No? No, I mean all that sounds okay kisses than

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds really romantic.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, how's the conversation been after the date? Or has

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<v Speaker 4>there been conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like I've texted him like quite a few times

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<v Speaker 3>and he does respond, but it's like spotty, so like

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<v Speaker 3>he'll ringin every three texts or something. So that kind

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<v Speaker 3>of makes me feel like, oh, maybe I did something wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>Any texting from the same number every time?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, I mean from the same three burner phones

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<v Speaker 1>that she has.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, she seems likes to do the sneak attack things.

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<v Speaker 2>So do you have any ideas.

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<v Speaker 3>I have no clue. Did he not like me kiss him?

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<v Speaker 3>Is he like afraid because of the ball noyes? I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not sure what's going on. Like it's been a few

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<v Speaker 3>weeks now too, so sometimes.

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<v Speaker 4>A woman can seem a little bit too overeager with

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<v Speaker 4>things too.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I forward. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I love an eager woman, you do.

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<v Speaker 4>But all right, Well, we'll come back. We'll call Geno

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<v Speaker 4>for you, and we'll try not to like sneak attack

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<v Speaker 4>him too much, but we'll politely ask if he's willing

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<v Speaker 4>to see you another time and try and get your

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<v Speaker 4>second date update right after this. Okay, okay, okay, hold on,

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<v Speaker 4>can Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>In the morning second date updates out in.

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<v Speaker 4>The parking lot she lurks so dumb, ducking between cars,

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<v Speaker 4>applying her blueberry lip bomber, watching waiting for her moment okay,

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<v Speaker 4>to run up and strike.

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<v Speaker 2>It hurts.

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<v Speaker 4>Her name is Tricia. She is the notorious south Side

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<v Speaker 4>surprise smoocher.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did that guy get sick? I thought her date

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<v Speaker 2>liked it?

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<v Speaker 4>Not to be fair, it was her second kiss of

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<v Speaker 4>the night with Gino, and she was just trying to

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<v Speaker 4>be cute and flirty about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But puke sound for her.

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<v Speaker 4>The sneak kiss may have scared him away to the

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<v Speaker 4>point where he's avoiding her now.

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<v Speaker 2>If she was ducking behind cars, maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he's just waiting for her to surprise him again

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<v Speaker 1>and she hasn't done it.

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<v Speaker 3>I can really hope that it wasn't the second kiss.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's insane.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, let's call Geno and try and get some answers

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<v Speaker 4>from him. Maybe it's just a big misunderstanding, Okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe it's a way on business or something, and hasn't

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<v Speaker 2>told you.

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<v Speaker 4>Getting his nose reconstructed after you shattered it into a

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<v Speaker 4>little piece.

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<v Speaker 2>Of rhinoplast I've heard takes a.

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<v Speaker 4>While, So maybe he's just trying to get himself pretty

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<v Speaker 4>again for you. Let's see what he has here we go. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>is this Gino?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 6>This is Geno.

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<v Speaker 5>Man who's calling?

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<v Speaker 2>Doesn't sound no good?

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<v Speaker 4>We're we're we're radio show man. We're uh called. It's

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<v Speaker 4>called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's I mean, I've heard of you guys. That's

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<v Speaker 5>kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's cool that you've heard of us. We're

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<v Speaker 4>doing something on our show called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 4>You know that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, yeah, I mean i've heard of that.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't okay, I didn't actually think that happened. That's

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<v Speaker 5>kind of yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're the lucky guy that we're calling today because

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<v Speaker 4>you recently went out with somebody named Tricia.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, it was kind of a minute ago, right,

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<v Speaker 1>like a couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's been a two and a half week okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So you're one of those guys who likes to

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<v Speaker 4>just take it slow.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I guess.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean what you guys are asking about how the

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<v Speaker 6>date went.

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<v Speaker 2>Or well, it's just.

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<v Speaker 4>Like you just give us a nutshell, like your take

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<v Speaker 4>on that date big picture.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean I don't know, I got hit in

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<v Speaker 6>the face with a like a basketball, but I had not.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that good for you?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Was it embarrassing? I bet it was embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I got to say that the reason I'm

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<v Speaker 6>not reaching out is because of like not the date,

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<v Speaker 6>but because of like some of her texts after.

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<v Speaker 5>They gave me some red flags.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, we didn't hear about any of the texts that

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<v Speaker 4>you had. She just said you guys were kind of

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<v Speaker 4>in spotty communication and you weren't responding to her.

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<v Speaker 2>What'd she say? Was it clingy or something?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>You could say that.

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<v Speaker 6>Like after I got home later that night, I got

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<v Speaker 6>like a one sentence text that said, what's the best

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<v Speaker 6>case scenario for USO?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, relationship?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>And I was like, how do I answer this?

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<v Speaker 5>I I literally was like, football in the face and

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<v Speaker 5>more drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty funny.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a fantastic response.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, Okay, maybe she's drunk or something, and

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<v Speaker 6>that was that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's funny. But there was more than just that.

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<v Speaker 5>The thing is, the next day she texts me it

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<v Speaker 5>was like, if we got married someday, would you consider

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<v Speaker 5>ditching your fantasy football league to spend time with me?

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<v Speaker 3>It was something like that, and.

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<v Speaker 4>The media answers no question right, yeah, after first date.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it gives you a good gauge. I guess.

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<v Speaker 4>Nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Was she trying to be funny?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>That was two serious questions, like that's a big picture question.

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<v Speaker 3>That's two in a row.

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<v Speaker 4>How did you respond to that one?

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<v Speaker 1>I totally ditched my friends in my interest just for you.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I just got to a point where I thought, Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>this is just a lot off of one date. I

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<v Speaker 6>just I don't want to be planning out my future

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<v Speaker 6>with this person.

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<v Speaker 2>Be a lot for anybody.

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<v Speaker 4>Doesn't sound like you asked her any deep introspective questions

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<v Speaker 4>about her life. And now is actually your chance, gino,

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<v Speaker 4>because she's on the other line right now, waiting to

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<v Speaker 4>tell you what she wants out of your future together.

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<v Speaker 5>This is going to be cute.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh great, so she planned this too, of course she did.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, this doesn't make it less intense.

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<v Speaker 4>Question is what would you do if I surprisingly put

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<v Speaker 4>you on a radio Patricia?

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<v Speaker 3>You there, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 4>You know you didn't mention any of those texts that

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<v Speaker 4>you sent down.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I didn't think that they were really like that important.

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<v Speaker 2>Who so he hearing what he just said, had you

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<v Speaker 2>changed your mind.

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<v Speaker 3>About that's mom issue. It's like, I would like to

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<v Speaker 3>know I am a planner.

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<v Speaker 4>I could understand you wanting to like plan out your

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<v Speaker 4>week or your month than you planning out your entire

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<v Speaker 4>rest of your life. That's a lot to ask a

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<v Speaker 4>guy after one date.

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<v Speaker 3>No, we're not getting any younger. And my deal is,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not even going to bother wasting a minute if oh,

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<v Speaker 3>he's not going to tell me honestly what's going on

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<v Speaker 3>with us, or I'm not going to waste a minute

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<v Speaker 3>if he's gonna be like, no, I'm totally keeping my

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<v Speaker 3>fantasy football and then I lose them like every Friday night. No,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so, it's actually really on Friday give

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<v Speaker 3>up his.

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<v Speaker 2>Stuff for you? Ginah?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we don't know that, Gino. Are you willing to

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<v Speaker 4>give up your stuff?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, like I said, this is one day, like

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<v Speaker 6>I have to go on a few more dates, Like

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<v Speaker 6>you can't. You can't just corner someone like that. I

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<v Speaker 6>don't think anybody's gonna.

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<v Speaker 3>That could have been your answer to the first question

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<v Speaker 3>I asked you, what's the best case, Maria? Okay, maybe yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>let's go out a few more times. Okay, maybe that

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't have led me to the next question. You're thinking

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<v Speaker 3>me and that I'm so psycho or something.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, I don't think your psycho. I just I just

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<v Speaker 6>want I did remember another thing you asked, which is,

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<v Speaker 6>would your parents ever let us stay in their house

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<v Speaker 6>so we can say for our future?

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<v Speaker 5>That was like another one.

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<v Speaker 4>That's kind of a sweet little image.

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<v Speaker 6>She hadn't met my parents, and I hadn't met her,

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<v Speaker 6>aren't anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, because you're being selfish and you're keeping them

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<v Speaker 4>all to yourself. You should spread the wealth of this

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<v Speaker 4>wonderful family that you have.

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<v Speaker 3>You also said you had fifty people in there, so

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<v Speaker 3>it was big enough.

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<v Speaker 5>For all of us.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, you actually responded that it was Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't respond.

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<v Speaker 3>I already told you guys, and we talked about this.

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<v Speaker 3>He told me about nan versary party for his parents

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<v Speaker 3>where he had fifty people.

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<v Speaker 2>Time I can move in with.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, she's a planner, She's got him for every

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<v Speaker 4>bad case scenario that might play out.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just a little too much, you know. I know

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<v Speaker 2>you want to know everything right now, but there's just

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<v Speaker 2>no way to know, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Made it this far in life with knowing everything, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm gonna be fine, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be fine without him. But you could have just

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<v Speaker 3>been honest and said, hey, a few more dates and

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<v Speaker 3>I would been like okay, and then I would have

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<v Speaker 3>chilled out. But then it led me into this big

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<v Speaker 3>spiral wanting to know more and more and more.

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<v Speaker 4>Gino, we could just mooth this whole thing over. If

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<v Speaker 4>you're just willing to admit right now it was all

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<v Speaker 4>your fault.

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<v Speaker 5>Go ahead, yes, this is all my fault.

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<v Speaker 4>Now let's move forward. And since Tricia is such a planner,

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<v Speaker 4>I would love to help her plan your next date,

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<v Speaker 4>which we will pay for out of the generosity of

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<v Speaker 4>our hearts?

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<v Speaker 2>Are we asking? Are you asking?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, that's a good point I do. I should ask

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<v Speaker 4>Tricia for permission. Tricia, is it okay if I co

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<v Speaker 4>plan your next date with you?

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<v Speaker 5>It is?

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<v Speaker 3>It is fine with me for you to co plan.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, So what you're still up for it? So, Gino,

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<v Speaker 4>would you like to meet up with Tricia one more

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<v Speaker 4>time on our bill? Your future bride wants to know?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh wow, yes, if we can just kind of take it.

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<v Speaker 4>A little slower what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, yeah, I mean, like I said, I had a

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<v Speaker 6>fun time. I just if you're really serious about just

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<v Speaker 6>moving really fast, that's not me. But if you're willing

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<v Speaker 6>to just like go out and have fun, then.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm down to go out for another day.

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<v Speaker 1>But what we never heard was about that fantasy league

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<v Speaker 1>willing to give it up.

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<v Speaker 4>This is a good start to the communication. A little

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<v Speaker 4>bit of honesty and transparency. It never happens on our show.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm proud of us like it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>It just feel kind of but it's what you wanting.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that okay with you? Tricia to move slower?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I promise I'll slow it down. I won't ask

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<v Speaker 3>any future questions like about our children's names or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I will I will it in because you already have

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<v Speaker 1>those planned out and he doesn't really Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there we go again.

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<v Speaker 4>Welcome to the rest of your life, Gino. In the morning, Brook,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just gonna ask, Okay, where do you see the

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<v Speaker 4>show going. What's the best case scenario for us here?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's too soon to ask, and that

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<v Speaker 1>makes me feel kind of uncomfortable. I mean, we've only

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<v Speaker 1>been together for over a deck and I'm not ready

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<v Speaker 1>for this level of commitment.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, i'm gonna tell you, I'm scared from what I

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<v Speaker 4>just heard. I don't think we're heading to a very

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<v Speaker 4>good place.

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<v Speaker 1>What they're going out again, Jeff, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Suddenly we have people on the phone communicating, listening to

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<v Speaker 4>each other. That's taking a breath and respecting boundaries.

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<v Speaker 2>No, not very funny. I want to say that we.

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<v Speaker 4>Need to get this train back on track.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, if your life is a wreck, that's who we

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<v Speaker 1>need to have.

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<v Speaker 4>If you want to scream cry at someone for taking

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<v Speaker 4>a creuton off of your salad without asking first, you're

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<v Speaker 4>just the type of person we need. Yeah, email the

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<v Speaker 4>show and help us write this sinking ship. We'll call

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<v Speaker 4>the person who wasn't calling you back