Speaker 1: I gotta just say, I love the real ones for
Speaker 1: not skipping through the intros.
Speaker 2: It's true, you know. I see those people who comment
Speaker 2: are like, hey, it starts at four fifty five, try
Speaker 2: to skip this.
Speaker 1: We see you.
Speaker 2: Thank you call them out? Yes, sure, all right, Welcome
Speaker 2: to Your Second Date Podcast. This is the official place to.
Speaker 1: Find Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we love
Speaker 1: that you're here. That's why we always highlight you and
Speaker 1: what you love to say say to us.
Speaker 2: Yes, questions, comments, what do you guys? Well?
Speaker 1: Psychic Moose commented and said, my husband told me he
Speaker 1: loved me on our third date.
Speaker 2: My response was, and what does that mean to you?
Speaker 2: That is a good response. But we celebrated our ten
Speaker 2: year universary last week.
Speaker 1: Dude, that is almost like a pad on the head.
Speaker 1: That's cute, honey, What does that mean to you?
Speaker 2: Those words? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I love it? Well, happy Ted the anniversary. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: hope you finally have said it back to him.
Speaker 2: I hope you earned it by now. Uh huh, Yeah,
Speaker 2: for sure? All right. Your second Date update starts right now.
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Second Date updates.
Speaker 4: Making a friendly bent during a first date. It could
Speaker 4: be a good move. Yes, it's kind of flirty a
Speaker 4: little bit, have a little excitement to the night. Like,
Speaker 4: for example, beer chugging contest loser has to do the
Speaker 4: other person's taxes for the next five years. Ready go,
Speaker 4: you suck at chugging beer. Okay, So here's my W
Speaker 4: four and a list of my assets. So if you
Speaker 4: could follow those guys tomorrow, they're already overdue. I have
Speaker 4: a bunch, by the way, that not working for you, Brook.
Speaker 2: This was we your W two four.
Speaker 4: Good good thing. You know how to do it, because
Speaker 4: I certainly don't. But one of our listeners had a
Speaker 4: friendly wager going during her first date and apparently didn't
Speaker 4: go quite the way she planned. So let's talk to
Speaker 4: Tricia about it. Tricia, welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Hi, thank you.
Speaker 2: You owe more to the irs than you expected to.
Speaker 2: Is that what happened?
Speaker 3: Not exact? Actually?
Speaker 4: Okay, No, you didn't do the tax bad thing.
Speaker 3: I'm gessing I know I didn't.
Speaker 4: Look now he's not calling you back?
Speaker 2: Who is it? Who did you go out with?
Speaker 1: So?
Speaker 3: I met this guy named Gino, you know, and we
Speaker 3: met online and he really seems like very kind of happy.
Speaker 3: He's like a very chill guy.
Speaker 2: Okay, those are good qualities in a person.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's super cute, So I was like, why not? So, like,
Speaker 3: I know by his profile that he's like a sporty guy,
Speaker 3: and I'm pretty sporty myself. Okay, So I thought we
Speaker 3: would do a game of pickup basketball.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's a great day.
Speaker 4: So you'd go to the game, not be in a game.
Speaker 4: That does sound as fun, But that's not like a
Speaker 4: sporty thing to do. Watching sports is not an athletic thing.
Speaker 5: But that's not.
Speaker 4: Athletic as I thought I was because I've watched so
Speaker 4: many sports.
Speaker 2: I mean, that doesn't get.
Speaker 4: On my couch down in two plates of nachos and
Speaker 4: under twenty seconds? Is it is kind of athletics. I'm
Speaker 4: competitive food, but I don't think that's what Tricia had
Speaker 4: in mind. Okay, So you guys wanted to do something sporty.
Speaker 4: What was your bet?
Speaker 3: So the loser had to buy the drinks?
Speaker 2: Oh that's cute.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's good to play basketball before drinking.
Speaker 4: Yeah, certainly, don't want to do that the other way around.
Speaker 2: I mean, you could make its tummy cramp.
Speaker 4: Okay, So who won?
Speaker 3: Well, he was pretty good and I'm not bad at all.
Speaker 3: So it was close, but I guess he just called
Speaker 3: it a tie because when I made the last shot,
Speaker 3: it hit the rim, and when he turned around to
Speaker 3: make the rebound, it hit him in the nose.
Speaker 2: Oh oh did it bleed?
Speaker 3: No, but it looks like it hurt.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so his pride is hurt.
Speaker 1: He has it like really dominated the game and then
Speaker 1: he just got an awe.
Speaker 3: Yeah he had an alley and then but he bought
Speaker 3: drinks anyhow.
Speaker 4: Okaya hit him in the face with the ball. You
Speaker 4: didn't pay for the din?
Speaker 3: Do it purposely hit the rim? Wasn't my fock?
Speaker 2: And she didn't lose Jeffrey.
Speaker 4: Okay, she's a stickler for the rules. Yeah, okay, the
Speaker 4: drinks go good.
Speaker 3: Drinks were great. We have like really good conversation too.
Speaker 2: Okay, this all sounds so good.
Speaker 4: You're getting hit doesn't sound that bad.
Speaker 2: What is there any bad things that happened?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: I mean he was talking about like what he is
Speaker 3: looking for in a relationship and how he wants an
Speaker 3: active person, which is awesome because I do too. And
Speaker 3: he talks a little bit about Uh, he loves fantasy football,
Speaker 3: which I don't understand at all, but whatever, okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 3: And then he talked about like how he had a
Speaker 3: big party for his family for their anniversary for his parents.
Speaker 2: Oh that's cute and.
Speaker 3: There's like fifty people, so like he's really family oriented,
Speaker 3: which I thought was great.
Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, yeah, this is all cute.
Speaker 4: How did you end that date?
Speaker 2: So?
Speaker 3: I kissed him on my car?
Speaker 4: Oh you initiated the kiss?
Speaker 5: I did?
Speaker 3: Yeah, kiss his No, so it felt better.
Speaker 4: Did you kiss him on the mouth?
Speaker 3: I kiss him on the mouth.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well it was great.
Speaker 3: And then I went to get my car and he
Speaker 3: started walking towards his car, So then I figured I
Speaker 3: was going to try and be really cute. And then
Speaker 3: I ran up to him by his car and I
Speaker 3: gave him another kiss.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, what did you be so excited? If you
Speaker 2: were a guy, I'd love that. I don't know you're saying, no.
Speaker 4: Jeff, is there any chance that maybe he thought you
Speaker 4: were going to attack him and try and knock him
Speaker 4: down again to finish the job.
Speaker 1: No? No, I mean all that sounds okay kisses than
Speaker 1: it sounds really romantic.
Speaker 4: Yeah, how's the conversation been after the date? Or has
Speaker 4: there been conversation.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I've texted him like quite a few times
Speaker 3: and he does respond, but it's like spotty, so like
Speaker 3: he'll ringin every three texts or something. So that kind
Speaker 3: of makes me feel like, oh, maybe I did something wrong.
Speaker 4: Any texting from the same number every time?
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, I mean from the same three burner phones
Speaker 1: that she has.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, she seems likes to do the sneak attack things.
Speaker 2: So do you have any ideas.
Speaker 3: I have no clue. Did he not like me kiss him?
Speaker 3: Is he like afraid because of the ball noyes? I'm
Speaker 3: not sure what's going on. Like it's been a few
Speaker 3: weeks now too, so sometimes.
Speaker 4: A woman can seem a little bit too overeager with
Speaker 4: things too.
Speaker 3: Maybe I forward. I don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love an eager woman, you do.
Speaker 4: But all right, Well, we'll come back. We'll call Geno
Speaker 4: for you, and we'll try not to like sneak attack
Speaker 4: him too much, but we'll politely ask if he's willing
Speaker 4: to see you another time and try and get your
Speaker 4: second date update right after this. Okay, okay, okay, hold on,
Speaker 4: can Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: In the morning second date updates out in.
Speaker 4: The parking lot she lurks so dumb, ducking between cars,
Speaker 4: applying her blueberry lip bomber, watching waiting for her moment okay,
Speaker 4: to run up and strike.
Speaker 2: It hurts.
Speaker 4: Her name is Tricia. She is the notorious south Side
Speaker 4: surprise smoocher.
Speaker 2: Why did that guy get sick? I thought her date
Speaker 2: liked it?
Speaker 4: Not to be fair, it was her second kiss of
Speaker 4: the night with Gino, and she was just trying to
Speaker 4: be cute and flirty about it.
Speaker 2: But puke sound for her.
Speaker 4: The sneak kiss may have scared him away to the
Speaker 4: point where he's avoiding her now.
Speaker 2: If she was ducking behind cars, maybe.
Speaker 1: Maybe he's just waiting for her to surprise him again
Speaker 1: and she hasn't done it.
Speaker 3: I can really hope that it wasn't the second kiss.
Speaker 3: I mean, that's insane.
Speaker 4: Okay, let's call Geno and try and get some answers
Speaker 4: from him. Maybe it's just a big misunderstanding, Okay, Okay.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's a way on business or something, and hasn't
Speaker 2: told you.
Speaker 4: Getting his nose reconstructed after you shattered it into a
Speaker 4: little piece.
Speaker 2: Of rhinoplast I've heard takes a.
Speaker 4: While, So maybe he's just trying to get himself pretty
Speaker 4: again for you. Let's see what he has here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 4: is this Gino?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 6: This is Geno.
Speaker 5: Man who's calling?
Speaker 2: Doesn't sound no good?
Speaker 4: We're we're we're radio show man. We're uh called. It's
Speaker 4: called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5: Oh that's I mean, I've heard of you guys. That's
Speaker 5: kind of cool.
Speaker 4: I think it's cool that you've heard of us. We're
Speaker 4: doing something on our show called the Second Date Update.
Speaker 4: You know that.
Speaker 3: No, yeah, I mean i've heard of that.
Speaker 5: I didn't okay, I didn't actually think that happened. That's
Speaker 5: kind of yeah.
Speaker 1: A lot.
Speaker 4: So you're the lucky guy that we're calling today because
Speaker 4: you recently went out with somebody named Tricia.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was kind of a minute ago, right,
Speaker 1: like a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's been a two and a half week okay.
Speaker 4: Okay, So you're one of those guys who likes to
Speaker 4: just take it slow.
Speaker 3: Oh I guess.
Speaker 6: I mean what you guys are asking about how the
Speaker 6: date went.
Speaker 2: Or well, it's just.
Speaker 4: Like you just give us a nutshell, like your take
Speaker 4: on that date big picture.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I don't know, I got hit in
Speaker 6: the face with a like a basketball, but I had not.
Speaker 2: Was that good for you?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 2: Was it embarrassing? I bet it was embarrassing.
Speaker 6: I mean I got to say that the reason I'm
Speaker 6: not reaching out is because of like not the date,
Speaker 6: but because of like some of her texts after.
Speaker 5: They gave me some red flags.
Speaker 4: Oh, we didn't hear about any of the texts that
Speaker 4: you had. She just said you guys were kind of
Speaker 4: in spotty communication and you weren't responding to her.
Speaker 2: What'd she say? Was it clingy or something?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 5: You could say that.
Speaker 6: Like after I got home later that night, I got
Speaker 6: like a one sentence text that said, what's the best
Speaker 6: case scenario for USO?
Speaker 4: Yeah, relationship?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: And I was like, how do I answer this?
Speaker 5: I I literally was like, football in the face and
Speaker 5: more drinks.
Speaker 1: That's pretty funny.
Speaker 2: That's a fantastic response.
Speaker 6: I was like, Okay, maybe she's drunk or something, and
Speaker 6: that was that.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's funny. But there was more than just that.
Speaker 5: The thing is, the next day she texts me it
Speaker 5: was like, if we got married someday, would you consider
Speaker 5: ditching your fantasy football league to spend time with me?
Speaker 3: It was something like that, and.
Speaker 4: The media answers no question right, yeah, after first date.
Speaker 2: I mean, it gives you a good gauge. I guess.
Speaker 4: Nice.
Speaker 2: Was she trying to be funny?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 6: That was two serious questions, like that's a big picture question.
Speaker 3: That's two in a row.
Speaker 4: How did you respond to that one?
Speaker 1: I totally ditched my friends in my interest just for you.
Speaker 6: You know, I just got to a point where I thought, Okay,
Speaker 6: this is just a lot off of one date. I
Speaker 6: just I don't want to be planning out my future
Speaker 6: with this person.
Speaker 2: Be a lot for anybody.
Speaker 4: Doesn't sound like you asked her any deep introspective questions
Speaker 4: about her life. And now is actually your chance, gino,
Speaker 4: because she's on the other line right now, waiting to
Speaker 4: tell you what she wants out of your future together.
Speaker 5: This is going to be cute.
Speaker 6: Oh great, so she planned this too, of course she did.
Speaker 2: Oh god, this doesn't make it less intense.
Speaker 4: Question is what would you do if I surprisingly put
Speaker 4: you on a radio Patricia?
Speaker 3: You there, I'm here.
Speaker 4: You know you didn't mention any of those texts that
Speaker 4: you sent down.
Speaker 3: Well, I didn't think that they were really like that important.
Speaker 2: Who so he hearing what he just said, had you
Speaker 2: changed your mind.
Speaker 3: About that's mom issue. It's like, I would like to
Speaker 3: know I am a planner.
Speaker 4: I could understand you wanting to like plan out your
Speaker 4: week or your month than you planning out your entire
Speaker 4: rest of your life. That's a lot to ask a
Speaker 4: guy after one date.
Speaker 3: No, we're not getting any younger. And my deal is,
Speaker 3: I'm not even going to bother wasting a minute if oh,
Speaker 3: he's not going to tell me honestly what's going on
Speaker 3: with us, or I'm not going to waste a minute
Speaker 3: if he's gonna be like, no, I'm totally keeping my
Speaker 3: fantasy football and then I lose them like every Friday night. No,
Speaker 3: I don't think so, it's actually really on Friday give
Speaker 3: up his.
Speaker 2: Stuff for you? Ginah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't know that, Gino. Are you willing to
Speaker 4: give up your stuff?
Speaker 6: I mean, like I said, this is one day, like
Speaker 6: I have to go on a few more dates, Like
Speaker 6: you can't. You can't just corner someone like that. I
Speaker 6: don't think anybody's gonna.
Speaker 3: That could have been your answer to the first question
Speaker 3: I asked you, what's the best case, Maria? Okay, maybe yeah,
Speaker 3: let's go out a few more times. Okay, maybe that
Speaker 3: wouldn't have led me to the next question. You're thinking
Speaker 3: me and that I'm so psycho or something.
Speaker 6: Okay, I don't think your psycho. I just I just
Speaker 6: want I did remember another thing you asked, which is,
Speaker 6: would your parents ever let us stay in their house
Speaker 6: so we can say for our future?
Speaker 5: That was like another one.
Speaker 4: That's kind of a sweet little image.
Speaker 6: She hadn't met my parents, and I hadn't met her,
Speaker 6: aren't anything.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, because you're being selfish and you're keeping them
Speaker 4: all to yourself. You should spread the wealth of this
Speaker 4: wonderful family that you have.
Speaker 3: You also said you had fifty people in there, so
Speaker 3: it was big enough.
Speaker 5: For all of us.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, you actually responded that it was Okay.
Speaker 6: I didn't.
Speaker 4: I didn't respond.
Speaker 3: I already told you guys, and we talked about this.
Speaker 3: He told me about nan versary party for his parents
Speaker 3: where he had fifty people.
Speaker 2: Time I can move in with.
Speaker 4: I mean, she's a planner, She's got him for every
Speaker 4: bad case scenario that might play out.
Speaker 2: It's just a little too much, you know. I know
Speaker 2: you want to know everything right now, but there's just
Speaker 2: no way to know, I.
Speaker 3: Made it this far in life with knowing everything, and
Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna be fine, you know what I mean,
Speaker 3: I'll be fine without him. But you could have just
Speaker 3: been honest and said, hey, a few more dates and
Speaker 3: I would been like okay, and then I would have
Speaker 3: chilled out. But then it led me into this big
Speaker 3: spiral wanting to know more and more and more.
Speaker 4: Gino, we could just mooth this whole thing over. If
Speaker 4: you're just willing to admit right now it was all
Speaker 4: your fault.
Speaker 5: Go ahead, yes, this is all my fault.
Speaker 4: Now let's move forward. And since Tricia is such a planner,
Speaker 4: I would love to help her plan your next date,
Speaker 4: which we will pay for out of the generosity of
Speaker 4: our hearts?
Speaker 2: Are we asking? Are you asking?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 4: Actually, that's a good point I do. I should ask
Speaker 4: Tricia for permission. Tricia, is it okay if I co
Speaker 4: plan your next date with you?
Speaker 5: It is?
Speaker 3: It is fine with me for you to co plan.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, So what you're still up for it? So, Gino,
Speaker 4: would you like to meet up with Tricia one more
Speaker 4: time on our bill? Your future bride wants to know?
Speaker 6: Oh wow, yes, if we can just kind of take it.
Speaker 4: A little slower what you're saying.
Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, I mean, like I said, I had a
Speaker 6: fun time. I just if you're really serious about just
Speaker 6: moving really fast, that's not me. But if you're willing
Speaker 6: to just like go out and have fun, then.
Speaker 5: I'm down to go out for another day.
Speaker 1: But what we never heard was about that fantasy league
Speaker 1: willing to give it up.
Speaker 4: This is a good start to the communication. A little
Speaker 4: bit of honesty and transparency. It never happens on our show.
Speaker 4: I'm proud of us like it.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 4: It just feel kind of but it's what you wanting.
Speaker 2: Is that okay with you? Tricia to move slower?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I promise I'll slow it down. I won't ask
Speaker 3: any future questions like about our children's names or anything.
Speaker 1: I will I will it in because you already have
Speaker 1: those planned out and he doesn't really Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there we go again.
Speaker 4: Welcome to the rest of your life, Gino. In the morning, Brook,
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna ask, Okay, where do you see the
Speaker 4: show going. What's the best case scenario for us here?
Speaker 1: I feel like it's too soon to ask, and that
Speaker 1: makes me feel kind of uncomfortable. I mean, we've only
Speaker 1: been together for over a deck and I'm not ready
Speaker 1: for this level of commitment.
Speaker 4: Well, i'm gonna tell you, I'm scared from what I
Speaker 4: just heard. I don't think we're heading to a very
Speaker 4: good place.
Speaker 1: What they're going out again, Jeff, exactly.
Speaker 4: Suddenly we have people on the phone communicating, listening to
Speaker 4: each other. That's taking a breath and respecting boundaries.
Speaker 2: No, not very funny. I want to say that we.
Speaker 4: Need to get this train back on track.
Speaker 1: Okay, if your life is a wreck, that's who we
Speaker 1: need to have.
Speaker 4: If you want to scream cry at someone for taking
Speaker 4: a creuton off of your salad without asking first, you're
Speaker 4: just the type of person we need. Yeah, email the
Speaker 4: show and help us write this sinking ship. We'll call
Speaker 4: the person who wasn't calling you back