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Speaker 2: It's true, you know. I see those people who comment

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Speaker 1: We see you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you call them out? Yes, sure, all right, Welcome

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Speaker 2: to Your Second Date Podcast. This is the official place to.

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Speaker 1: Find Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we love

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Speaker 1: that you're here. That's why we always highlight you and

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Speaker 1: what you love to say say to us.

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Speaker 2: Yes, questions, comments, what do you guys? Well?

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Speaker 1: Psychic Moose commented and said, my husband told me he

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Speaker 1: loved me on our third date.

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Speaker 2: My response was, and what does that mean to you?

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Speaker 2: That is a good response. But we celebrated our ten

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Speaker 1: Dude, that is almost like a pad on the head.

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Speaker 1: That's cute, honey, What does that mean to you?

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Speaker 2: Those words? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I love it? Well, happy Ted the anniversary. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: hope you finally have said it back to him.

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Speaker 2: I hope you earned it by now. Uh huh, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: for sure? All right. Your second Date update starts right now.

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 3: Second Date updates.

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Speaker 4: Making a friendly bent during a first date. It could

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Speaker 4: be a good move. Yes, it's kind of flirty a

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Speaker 4: for example, beer chugging contest loser has to do the

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Speaker 4: you suck at chugging beer. Okay, So here's my W

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Speaker 4: a bunch, by the way, that not working for you, Brook.

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Speaker 2: This was we your W two four.

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Speaker 4: Good good thing. You know how to do it, because

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Speaker 4: Tricia about it. Tricia, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, thank you.

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Speaker 2: You owe more to the irs than you expected to.

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Speaker 2: Is that what happened?

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Speaker 3: Not exact? Actually?

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Speaker 4: Okay, No, you didn't do the tax bad thing.

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Speaker 4: Look now he's not calling you back?

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Speaker 2: Who is it? Who did you go out with?

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Speaker 3: I met this guy named Gino, you know, and we

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Speaker 2: Okay, those are good qualities in a person.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's super cute, So I was like, why not? So, like,

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Speaker 3: I know by his profile that he's like a sporty guy,

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's a great day.

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Speaker 4: So you'd go to the game, not be in a game.

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Speaker 4: What was your bet?

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Speaker 3: So the loser had to buy the drinks?

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Speaker 4: How did you end that date?

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Speaker 4: Oh you initiated the kiss?

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, what did you be so excited? If you

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Speaker 4: Jeff, is there any chance that maybe he thought you

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Speaker 1: No? No, I mean all that sounds okay kisses than

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I've texted him like quite a few times

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Speaker 4: Any texting from the same number every time?

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, I mean from the same three burner phones

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, she seems likes to do the sneak attack things.

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Speaker 3: I have no clue. Did he not like me kiss him?

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Speaker 3: Maybe I forward. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love an eager woman, you do.

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Speaker 2: In the morning second date updates out in.

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Speaker 4: The parking lot she lurks so dumb, ducking between cars,

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Speaker 2: It hurts.

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Speaker 4: Her name is Tricia. She is the notorious south Side

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Speaker 2: Why did that guy get sick? I thought her date

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Speaker 4: Not to be fair, it was her second kiss of

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Speaker 2: But puke sound for her.

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Speaker 4: The sneak kiss may have scared him away to the

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Speaker 2: If she was ducking behind cars, maybe.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he's just waiting for her to surprise him again

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Speaker 4: is this Gino?

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Speaker 6: This is Geno.

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Speaker 5: Man who's calling?

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Speaker 2: Doesn't sound no good?

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Speaker 4: We're we're we're radio show man. We're uh called. It's

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Speaker 5: Oh that's I mean, I've heard of you guys. That's

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Speaker 4: I think it's cool that you've heard of us. We're

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Speaker 4: You know that.

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, I mean i've heard of that.

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Speaker 4: So you're the lucky guy that we're calling today because

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was kind of a minute ago, right,

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Speaker 4: Okay, So you're one of those guys who likes to

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Speaker 4: Like you just give us a nutshell, like your take

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I don't know, I got hit in

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Speaker 2: Was that good for you?

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Speaker 2: Was it embarrassing? I bet it was embarrassing.

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Speaker 4: Oh, we didn't hear about any of the texts that

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Speaker 5: You could say that.

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Speaker 6: Like after I got home later that night, I got

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Speaker 4: Yeah, relationship?

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Speaker 6: And I was like, how do I answer this?

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Speaker 5: I I literally was like, football in the face and

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Speaker 1: That's pretty funny.

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Speaker 2: That's a fantastic response.

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Speaker 6: I was like, Okay, maybe she's drunk or something, and

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's funny. But there was more than just that.

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Speaker 5: The thing is, the next day she texts me it

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Speaker 3: It was something like that, and.

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Speaker 4: The media answers no question right, yeah, after first date.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it gives you a good gauge. I guess.

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Speaker 6: That was two serious questions, like that's a big picture question.

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Speaker 4: How did you respond to that one?

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Speaker 1: I totally ditched my friends in my interest just for you.

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Speaker 6: You know, I just got to a point where I thought, Okay,

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Speaker 2: Be a lot for anybody.

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Speaker 4: Doesn't sound like you asked her any deep introspective questions

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Speaker 5: This is going to be cute.

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Speaker 6: Oh great, so she planned this too, of course she did.

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Speaker 4: you on a radio Patricia?

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Speaker 3: You there, I'm here.

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Speaker 4: You know you didn't mention any of those texts that

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Speaker 3: Well, I didn't think that they were really like that important.

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Speaker 3: About that's mom issue. It's like, I would like to

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Speaker 4: I could understand you wanting to like plan out your

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Speaker 3: No, we're not getting any younger. And my deal is,

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Speaker 3: if he's gonna be like, no, I'm totally keeping my

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Speaker 3: I don't think so, it's actually really on Friday give

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Speaker 2: Stuff for you? Ginah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't know that, Gino. Are you willing to

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Speaker 6: I mean, like I said, this is one day, like

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Speaker 6: Okay, I don't think your psycho. I just I just

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Speaker 6: want I did remember another thing you asked, which is,

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Speaker 6: so we can say for our future?

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Speaker 5: That was like another one.

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Speaker 4: That's kind of a sweet little image.

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Speaker 6: She hadn't met my parents, and I hadn't met her,

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, because you're being selfish and you're keeping them

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Speaker 3: You also said you had fifty people in there, so

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Speaker 3: it was big enough.

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Speaker 5: For all of us.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, you actually responded that it was Okay.

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Speaker 6: I didn't.

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Speaker 4: I didn't respond.

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Speaker 3: I already told you guys, and we talked about this.

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Speaker 3: He told me about nan versary party for his parents

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Speaker 2: Time I can move in with.

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Speaker 4: I mean, she's a planner, She's got him for every

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Speaker 2: It's just a little too much, you know. I know

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Speaker 3: Made it this far in life with knowing everything, and

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Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna be fine, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 4: Gino, we could just mooth this whole thing over. If

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Speaker 4: you're just willing to admit right now it was all

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Speaker 5: Go ahead, yes, this is all my fault.

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Speaker 4: Now let's move forward. And since Tricia is such a planner,

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Speaker 4: I would love to help her plan your next date,

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Speaker 2: Are we asking? Are you asking?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 4: Actually, that's a good point I do. I should ask

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Speaker 5: It is?

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Speaker 3: It is fine with me for you to co plan.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, So what you're still up for it? So, Gino,

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Speaker 4: would you like to meet up with Tricia one more

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Speaker 4: time on our bill? Your future bride wants to know?

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Speaker 6: Oh wow, yes, if we can just kind of take it.

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Speaker 4: A little slower what you're saying.

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Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, I mean, like I said, I had a

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Speaker 5: I'm down to go out for another day.

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Speaker 1: But what we never heard was about that fantasy league

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Speaker 4: This is a good start to the communication. A little

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Speaker 4: I'm proud of us like it.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 4: It just feel kind of but it's what you wanting.

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Speaker 2: Is that okay with you? Tricia to move slower?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I promise I'll slow it down. I won't ask

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Speaker 1: I will I will it in because you already have

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there we go again.

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Speaker 4: Welcome to the rest of your life, Gino. In the morning, Brook,

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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna ask, Okay, where do you see the

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's too soon to ask, and that

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Speaker 4: Well, i'm gonna tell you, I'm scared from what I

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Speaker 1: What they're going out again, Jeff, exactly.

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Speaker 4: Suddenly we have people on the phone communicating, listening to

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Speaker 2: No, not very funny. I want to say that we.

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Speaker 4: Need to get this train back on track.

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Speaker 1: Okay, if your life is a wreck, that's who we

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Speaker 4: If you want to scream cry at someone for taking

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