WEBVTT - Baby Daddy’s Weekend with Elle King 0:00:00.960 --> 0:00:06.200 Oh, good morning Catherine, Good morning Chelsea. It's not morning, 0:00:06.519 --> 0:00:08.520 is it morning? I don't know what time frame I'm on. 0:00:08.880 --> 0:00:12.639 I've decided that time zones do not exist. I just 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:14.920 flew in. I was in New York for thirty six hours, 0:00:14.960 --> 0:00:17.279 and now it's in my new Vegas residency. By the way, God, 0:00:17.400 --> 0:00:21.360 I'm so excited. Chelsea at the Chelsea at the Cosmopolitan Theater. 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:22.720 Tickets go on sale. 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:27.480 Pre sale starts Saturday, and my first date is September first. 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:30.760 For Labor Day weekend. And I have four more. 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:34.199 Dates that I announced in September and October for Vegas, 0:00:34.840 --> 0:00:37.280 and then we also added a whole other bunch of 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:40.600 shows for my Little Big Bitch tour. It's all the same, 0:00:40.760 --> 0:00:43.080 so you know, whether you come there, you come to Vegas, 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:45.240 or come twice. 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:46.560 We love to come twice. 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:49.639 Yes, everyone likes to come twice. That's what I'll name 0:00:49.640 --> 0:00:50.200 my next tour. 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:51.080 That'll be that. 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:54.080 Every time I name a tour, I put some bad 0:00:54.120 --> 0:00:57.080 word in it, Like last tour was vaccinated, so it 0:00:57.120 --> 0:01:01.160 got flats. Anytime someone forwarded it it would be like flagged. 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:03.880 And this time it was a Little Big Bitch, which 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:06.000 is also a problem putting bitch in a title. It's 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:08.200 like I don't know how to do anything. And I 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:10.360 remind her that I'm coming to the Santa Barbara Bowl, 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:12.080 which I'm so excited about. 0:01:11.920 --> 0:01:14.520 And the King's Theater in Brooklyn. I cannot woo. 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:17.480 So yeah, that's the other. I'm playing some venues that 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:19.440 I've wanted to for a long time. 0:01:19.520 --> 0:01:20.640 Yeah, Santa Barbara Bowl I. 0:01:20.640 --> 0:01:22.720 Played once before and it was epic. It's such a 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:23.440 beautiful spot. 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:23.800 Love it. 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:26.840 And then no, I've never played the King's Theater in Brooklyn, 0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:30.320 and so that's exciting. Yes, I had a great time, 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:33.920 and I went. I saw Juliana Marguli's, you know, our 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:37.840 co host. She's great. She got a haircut and so 0:01:38.080 --> 0:01:41.000 her hair was looking very she was looking very sexual. 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:43.679 Lest I mean, like still curly though right now straight. 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:45.279 It's been straight for a while. 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:47.000 I missed the curls. 0:01:47.200 --> 0:01:51.280 I know, I know, but maybe it's been up. 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:51.800 I know. 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:55.080 You have to respect her and her privacy, which is 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:56.560 what I'm not doing. 0:01:56.320 --> 0:01:59.120 Right now by outing her for having straight hair. 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:03.920 I'm also coming to Dallas, Texas, Austin, Texas, sugar Land, Texas, 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:07.040 all in November fifteenth, sixteen seventeenth, and I'm coming to 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:10.919 New Orleans and Atlanta, Georgia at the end of December, 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:13.720 so please get your tickets right before New Year's Eve? 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:15.720 What will I do this year for New Year's E? 0:02:15.840 --> 0:02:16.480 What will you do? 0:02:17.160 --> 0:02:20.399 Celebrate that? My house will fucking be done? Sorry, sorry, guys, 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:21.440 I hate to get aggressive. 0:02:21.560 --> 0:02:24.240 That's okay. We had a little incident with the little 0:02:24.240 --> 0:02:26.320 ol lady who runs the studio this morning. 0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:28.720 Were dated on the floor like Doug did when we 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:30.240 shot the promos for Vegas. 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:34.280 Basically we headed out this morning and so I'm very 0:02:34.280 --> 0:02:35.840 glad that we'll be at your podcast studio, which is. 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:36.560 Mon Oh you did. 0:02:36.600 --> 0:02:38.119 You got to do it with her, and you know what, 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:41.760 Like it feels so fun when you're like totally justified 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:45.000 to be like back the fuck up, as you would say. 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:48.160 Yeah, yeah, back the duck up. According it depending on 0:02:48.200 --> 0:02:48.880 who you're talking to. 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:51.400 But you know, there's always something when we come in 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:53.720 because somebody has changed a setting or locked out or whatever. 0:02:54.080 --> 0:02:55.639 And she had the audacity to call me a pain 0:02:55.680 --> 0:02:56.799 in the ass. And I went back and I said, 0:02:56.800 --> 0:02:59.040 don't talk to me like that. And it was amazing. 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:01.880 I was joking as I said I know you were joking, 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:03.880 but don't talk to me like that. I don't appreciate it. 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:05.640 This is the workplace. I mean it just it felt 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:07.120 so good. Yess it felt. 0:03:07.960 --> 0:03:10.280 I'm right wearing your Dear Chelsea hat. By the way, 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:13.520 merch is available at Chelseahandler dot com. Right where you 0:03:13.560 --> 0:03:15.640 buy all your tickets from my shows. You can also 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:18.760 get merch for Dear Chelsea. I had a really really 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:21.799 meaningful conversation or exchange i should say, with this woman 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:24.400 at the airport the other day. Yes, I don't know 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:26.680 where data is, okay, so I just came straight from 0:03:26.720 --> 0:03:28.359 the airport, so it could have been this morning, I'm 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:30.959 not sure, but about the podcast. And she was telling 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:33.600 me about an episode that really impacted her and how 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:35.480 much she loved it. It was really sweet, and I 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:37.960 was like, oh, She's like, thank God for your podcast, 0:03:38.320 --> 0:03:41.320 thank you and such great advice. I was like, really, 0:03:41.640 --> 0:03:44.400 I sometimes I forget I even have a podcast, and 0:03:44.400 --> 0:03:46.200 then I'm like, that's so wonderful. 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:48.000 I don't. I'm like, please let me pin you down 0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:49.360 for like an hour so we can record. 0:03:49.520 --> 0:03:50.840 I know, I know we have. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.400 We just signed a new deal for our podcast. Guys, 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:55.480 so we're being here for a long time, that's right, 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:58.400 going into going into another two seasons. 0:03:58.560 --> 0:04:00.600 Oh fabulous hearing that. 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:03.720 That's exciting, and so yes, I'm very grateful to all 0:04:03.720 --> 0:04:04.480 of our listeners. 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:05.640 Do we have a call to action? 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:09.040 Karen, Karen, Karen, Karen, Karen in your life. 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:11.839 Karen, my old assistant, is back in my life, you guys. 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:16.000 Karen was my assistant. She was an intern on Chelsea Lately. 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:17.880 You could tell that I just had a caffeine pack. 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:21.800 I can't drink coffee, you guys, because I don't. It 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:23.600 makes me sweat. And I just got off a plane 0:04:23.600 --> 0:04:26.480 from New York, which I'm already sweating because of how 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:29.039 gross that is, even though I took a shower and 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:31.039 then I took a wet white shower when I got here, 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:33.640 like a like a horse bath, which I'm not opposed 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:34.279 to at all. 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:36.520 But yes, Karen was an intern. 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:39.479 On Chelsea Lately, and then she became like an assistant 0:04:39.520 --> 0:04:42.240 to my assistant, and then she became my main assistant, 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:44.840 and then she wanted to go work in the music business, 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:47.560 and now she's back in my life. 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:49.599 I'm thrilled. She is an awesome lady. 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:51.599 She's the best. She is the best. 0:04:51.760 --> 0:04:54.880 It's so nice to be reunited with someone in your 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:57.200 life that you care so much about. 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.920 And someone who just like facilitates things and it's like pleasant. 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:02.760 I mean, it's just she's great. I just think she's wonderful. Yes, 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:04.880 not as opposed to anyone else other than maybe the 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:05.760 lady from this morning. 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:10.680 Pleasantry is always nice, pleasant behavior. 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:13.720 We have a guest who's gonna be in studio today, Chelsea. 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:16.240 Oh yes, I love this s girls music. I love 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:19.640 I love her attitude. I like everything about her. She's 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:22.360 got a new single out called Baby Daddy's Weekend and 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:23.320 her name is el King. 0:05:24.120 --> 0:05:26.840 This is my first time. I never get to say 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:27.440 that anymore. 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:28.839 Wow. 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:32.520 Doug, Oh, Doug, dog, it's going down on our gust. 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:34.440 It's already going so well. 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:37.640 Oh my god, I'm so sorry. 0:05:37.760 --> 0:05:39.400 He just please know each other. 0:05:39.480 --> 0:05:41.840 Please welcome Doug Handler and el King. 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:44.880 They arrived together in studio and Doug was just got 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:47.839 caught between her legs. Okay, now he's lying down, el King. 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:49.160 I want to talk about it. First of all, I'm 0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:49.839 a huge fan. 0:05:49.720 --> 0:05:52.440 Of your music. I love you. Would you consider yourself 0:05:52.440 --> 0:05:53.760 a country music artist? 0:05:53.880 --> 0:05:57.479 Yeah, okay, I would good because I shouldn't be categorizing 0:05:57.520 --> 0:05:58.400 any sort of music. 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:00.440 Okay, so you're a country musician. 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:04.000 Yeah, now I make country now, yes. 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:06.600 As opposed to earlier when you did it make country? 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:06.920 Well. 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:10.960 When I first started, I was making alternative rock and 0:06:11.320 --> 0:06:13.880 it crossed over into pop. So I was in that 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:18.560 kind of whole world for a while. And then I 0:06:18.720 --> 0:06:21.200 sang a duet with this big country his named Dirk Spentley, 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:24.760 and i'le him, I know him, okay, sick, yeah, great, 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:29.919 great guy, thank you, chiseled Abs, And I was like, 0:06:30.000 --> 0:06:30.800 Country's more fun. 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:33.640 Country does that? Country is more fun? 0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:36.719 But it also feels like country is broader than it 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:37.280 used to be. 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:40.840 And it still is evolving and changing in a lot 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:43.640 of different ways. And they haven't well, they tried to 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:46.000 kick me out, but I'm holding on for dear life. 0:06:46.160 --> 0:06:46.560 How did they? 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:48.520 I mean, first of all, I want to comment on 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:50.680 all of your tattoos, because you're the first woman that 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:51.880 I've sat this close to with a. 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:52.800 Necked up do I think? 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:52.919 Oh? 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:55.800 Okay, yeah, and I've never I've never seen what is 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:58.520 that a snake? A serpent? Yeah? Yeah, a serpent? Yeah? 0:06:58.600 --> 0:07:01.960 My favorite? Really fucking hate snakes. I don't want to 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:04.400 like hold one, but you want one on your neck? 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:07.599 Yeah right, Okay, So when they first tried to kick 0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:08.479 you out, what happened? 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:11.280 No, they didn't try to kick me out for a while. 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:16.040 I feel like Country was pretty like warm and welcoming 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:18.400 to me, and they still are. I think a lot 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:21.000 of the people in the country world are rebels in 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:24.640 a lot of ways, which I kind of related to. 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:28.120 And my family's from Ohio, and so I felt kind 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:30.360 of at home in that space where I felt very 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:35.679 not at home or comfortable in the pop world because 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:38.720 I was like this thick bitch and people were kind 0:07:38.720 --> 0:07:41.280 of mean and drinking green drinks and I was. 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:42.679 Like, I like getting shit fazed. 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:47.440 So yeah, and a lot of people just didn't really 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:51.400 vibe with me. And then Country was like, we drink 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:54.400 and have fun and it's cool and we also like 0:07:54.440 --> 0:07:57.040 play arenas, and I was like, oh, that's sick. 0:07:57.240 --> 0:07:58.840 I know, it's funny to think that, like a certain 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:02.320 genres of music for certain types of behavior. Yeah, like 0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:06.120 rap is one category and then country. But pop stars 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:08.680 aren't allowed to be fucked up or drinking or smoking. 0:08:08.720 --> 0:08:11.520 Why I don't know. I mean, that's the problem. 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:14.000 Is that they should be drinking and smoking, like out 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:16.200 in the open so it doesn't become such a problem. 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:18.280 You know, like a little bit of this and a 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.320 little bit of that goes a longer way than most 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:23.080 people think, rather than putting up guardrails and saying no, 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:26.320 you can't do this. Yeah, that usually backfires. So what 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:28.680 age did you start to become pretty successful? 0:08:29.160 --> 0:08:33.800 I'd say like around twenty six I got signed. I 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:36.200 mean I've been playing shows and touring since I was 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:37.520 like fifteen years old. 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:40.360 And did that mean you missed out on high school? 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:43.800 Oh my gosh. I went to so many different schools. 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:45.440 I got kicked out of every school that I went to. 0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:47.920 I was very bad in school. I didn't give a shit. 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:51.360 And I don't know, but like teachers from all the 0:08:51.360 --> 0:08:53.160 schools I went to would like come to my shows, 0:08:53.440 --> 0:08:55.280 and my mom would like help me get into bars. 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:57.040 She didn't care I had a fake ID or anything. 0:08:57.520 --> 0:08:59.960 And I got signed around like twenty two, twenty three, 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:03.600 and then slept with a lot of people, wrote x's 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:07.400 and no's and I was probably around twenty six, And 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:09.840 that song kind of just blew up. 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:12.120 A lot of things you're saying. Remind me very much 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:15.520 of my own experience. Okay, yeah, yeah, I wrote My 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:18.400 first book was about sleeping with a lot of guys, 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:20.560 and that put me on the map in books. 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:22.360 I mean, there's money in hoeing. 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:24.160 There is, and there weren't enough. 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:25.880 You know what the thing is is there weren't enough 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:28.760 women talking about it because we're only now experiencing women 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:31.800 being proud of being able to say, yeah, I sleep 0:09:31.840 --> 0:09:33.599 around a lot and I actually enjoy that. 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:36.520 Yeah, I enjoy multiple lovers in my life. 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:39.439 That is a goal of mine and I have accomplished 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:41.160 it and I'm very happy about it. 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:42.880 Yeah, you have a son. 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:46.080 I do because one of your songs is Baby Baby 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:46.840 Daddy's Weekend. 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:49.720 Yeah right, and that's about your baby's daddy. Yeah. 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:53.520 So how does that play into your lifestyle? How does 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:55.199 that play into touring? What do you do with your son? 0:09:55.200 --> 0:09:56.080 How old is he? 0:09:56.080 --> 0:09:56.839 He's two and a half. 0:09:57.000 --> 0:10:01.120 Oh, he's yeah, he's like like have like a kid. 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:04.240 He's so cute, he's so cool. He's traveled all over 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:07.800 the world with me. He's like hugged kangaroos in Australia 0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:12.439 at two years old. Like, that's pretty cool. And he's 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:14.480 I don't know, he's my little road dog. 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:16.839 And how does you just take him everywhere you go? 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:18.120 I take him everywhere I go. 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:20.360 And how many days a year are you touring? Like 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:21.720 how many shows a year do you do? 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:22.400 Typically? 0:10:22.720 --> 0:10:25.120 Probably like one hundred and fifty two hundred. 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:27.640 Oh yeah, last year we did a lot and the 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:30.000 baby was with me, I mean everywhere that I went. 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:33.480 Now he's getting a little bit older, and I because 0:10:33.480 --> 0:10:36.760 I co parent, he'll come with me on my weeks. 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:40.439 Right, So tell me about the music, like the industry, 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:43.280 and your experience as a woman, and your experience with 0:10:43.320 --> 0:10:46.320 other women who've helped you like along the way or 0:10:46.400 --> 0:10:47.960 men who have helped you along the way. 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:51.560 I mean, I've had like a lot of great people 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:53.040 that I've met along the way. 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:54.360 A lot of men never. 0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:57.520 Really knew what to do with me because they either 0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:59.760 like didn't like me because they weren't attracted to me, 0:11:00.280 --> 0:11:02.320 or they hated me because they weren't attracted to me. 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:04.880 But they knew that I was a good singer, and 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:06.800 so like I had like a lot of like weird 0:11:07.280 --> 0:11:09.319 experiences of like having to push to that. 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:12.079 But I also grew up like like a. 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:15.480 Fat girl, so I had to be really funny, and 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:17.880 I was always in trouble and I could talk my 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:20.480 way like I've never been arrested, Like believe it or not. 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:23.160 I know, neck tattoo is shocker, but like I've talked 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:24.760 my way out of handcuffs because I can. 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:26.920 Make some I could make guy laugh, you know. 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:30.880 But I saw a lot of weird things in Hollywood, 0:11:31.400 --> 0:11:33.960 and it was like kind of weird to me, and 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:38.040 nobody seemed very happy. But I loved music and I 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:41.880 was a very emotional teenager and a really really sensitive 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:45.800 and emotional child, and when I started playing music, it 0:11:45.880 --> 0:11:47.880 was like the only thing that I could like put 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:52.600 my emotions down. And it's like this cathartic thing to 0:11:52.679 --> 0:11:56.400 like write songs, you know. So I got like my 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:59.480 first residency in Brooklyn when I was like sixteen years old, 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:02.800 and people just started hearing me and I went by 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:06.120 my mom's last name and just kind of took off 0:12:06.120 --> 0:12:08.839 from there. And then the people who helped me are 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:11.200 like a lot of friends. Like I was laughing with 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:14.760 my friend today of fifteen years she was like, yeah, bitch. 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:17.160 Your first help myself, West, I fucking gave you money 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:20.120 to buy fucking clothes. And I don't know. I feel 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:20.760 very blessed. 0:12:21.000 --> 0:12:23.880 I always think like, no success is your own, you 0:12:23.960 --> 0:12:25.559 know what I mean, It belongs to all of the 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:26.520 people who helped. 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:26.880 You achieve it. 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:27.400 Totally. 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:29.960 I always get asked that question about women because when 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:32.640 I was coming up, women were like, you weren't on 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:34.960 each other's side. There wasn't room for a lot of women, 0:12:35.320 --> 0:12:37.320 and so like now that just seems to be melting 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:39.319 away where people are like, oh no, we can actually 0:12:39.400 --> 0:12:42.600 celebrate the success someone. You know, blowing somebody else's candle 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:45.000 out doesn't make yours brighter. There's a room for everybody. 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:50.840 But that feels more recent that vibe. Yeah, unfortunately. 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:54.480 Yeah, my candle is usually like behind and like a 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:57.200 dumpster or something, or under your car. Yeah, under my 0:12:57.280 --> 0:13:02.760 car fucking just got towed. So so do you like touring? 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:03.880 Do you like being on the road? 0:13:04.160 --> 0:13:06.640 I do. I feel like I'm better at that. 0:13:06.720 --> 0:13:09.200 You're either made for touring or you're not, and you 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:12.600 find out real fucking quick. I'm definitely made for it. 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:15.760 I don't do well sitting in one place for a 0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:19.920 long time. I go totally nuts. I'm kind of kooky, 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:22.679 I guess in a lot of ways, but like I 0:13:22.720 --> 0:13:29.120 actually crave schedule and routine, and also like my touring family, 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:31.480 like my band. Most of them have been with me 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:34.760 for like over eight years, so they're my longest relationship 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:40.240 and they're incredible human beings and they're the most talented musicians. 0:13:40.280 --> 0:13:43.200 They've taught me everything that I know, and they've stuck 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:45.720 by me through like a lot of bullshit. 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:49.880 What you're just saying about structure, you know, with personalities 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:53.400 that are very creative. Because I don't like everything you're saying. 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:55.000 I can't I agree with so much. I don't like 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:56.760 to be stuck in one place. I don't like to 0:13:56.760 --> 0:13:58.680 be tethered. I don't like someone to say I have 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:00.920 to even be anywhere for like six unless it's my 0:14:01.040 --> 0:14:02.720 choice and I'm skiing because I could do that for 0:14:02.760 --> 0:14:06.000 six weeks, but I don't like that. And when when 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:10.800 structure is provided, even in like you know, as you're 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:13.120 wandering around the world, but there's a structure to it, 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:16.680 you're able to actually let your creative juices fly in 0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:19.000 a much more Yeah, you know, because you do have 0:14:19.000 --> 0:14:21.280 the structure. Without the structure, you'd be a fucking hot mess, 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:23.080 Like I would be a mess. I need some sort 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:24.000 of parameters. 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:26.200 As long as I'm in control and no one is 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:28.000 telling me what to do, that's great. 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:30.800 That's great. Yeah, exactly. 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:33.560 Have you had any major blow ups with men in 0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:36.160 this business? You don't have to name names, but where 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:39.600 you really had to lay into a man, because I 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:41.200 did that recently and it felt great. 0:14:41.600 --> 0:14:42.000 Oh. 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:44.480 My friend was listening outside because I was just retelling 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:46.640 the story this weekend and my friend was listening outside 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:48.160 and when I came out of the room that I was, 0:14:48.720 --> 0:14:51.200 you know, reading him in, she said, how did you 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:53.560 learn how to talk to men like that? And I 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:55.640 was like, oh, I'll teach you. Yeah, you got to 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:56.800 stand up for yourself, girl. 0:14:57.560 --> 0:15:00.800 Yeah, I've had like a lot of moments, and I 0:15:00.840 --> 0:15:03.600 mean probably too many that I can't even be like, like, let. 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:06.040 Me just sift through and see not any particular ones 0:15:06.040 --> 0:15:08.560 that you're very proud of the way you handled yourself. 0:15:09.040 --> 0:15:14.040 Never that's a hard, no. 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:17.360 Good answer. 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:21.200 Yeah, but I think it from their perspective, because you know, 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:23.920 I hate this about myself, but like, I try to 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:25.360 see from both sides. 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:28.480 But I don't know, I grew up around a lot 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:29.320 of actors, and. 0:15:29.280 --> 0:15:33.040 Like it's just weird that like people get mad at 0:15:33.080 --> 0:15:37.640 you because of who your parents are. And I don't 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:39.920 know if my son is gonna want to be a singer. 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:42.080 I don't Maybe he wants to be an actor, you know, 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:44.600 no offense, but I hope not a comedian, and like 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:47.760 I don't want him to be like, well fuck me, 0:15:47.960 --> 0:15:50.280 like my mom is. Like the drunk country singer. 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:53.000 You know, you had a bad experience right where you 0:15:53.240 --> 0:15:55.520 were performing somewhere and you got in trouble for being 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:56.400 drunk on stage. 0:15:56.600 --> 0:16:00.880 Yes, I've also been there, Okay, and what happened. 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:03.640 I didn't really get into trouble, but I did it, 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:06.080 and like it was, it was a big show with 0:16:06.120 --> 0:16:09.800 thousands of people. Yeah, and I just was embarrassed. I 0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:11.760 wasn't like a news item, but I've done. 0:16:11.600 --> 0:16:14.440 It, Chelsea. Was it in like the time before everything 0:16:14.560 --> 0:16:16.000 was picked apart on social media? 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:16.560 Yeah? 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:17.400 Yeah yeah yeah. 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:18.440 Oh that's so nice. 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:20.120 Yeah that's great. That's what Yeah. 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:24.680 Yeah, I'm okay, So this is my first time actually 0:16:24.680 --> 0:16:25.480 talking about it. 0:16:25.760 --> 0:16:29.720 Okay, that was really crazy. 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:30.720 Tell us what happened? 0:16:30.800 --> 0:16:35.840 All right, Okay, Okay, So I did a big no. No, 0:16:37.880 --> 0:16:43.160 I not only cussed on stage, hammered at the Grand 0:16:43.160 --> 0:16:46.800 ol Opry, but it was Dolly Parton's birthday and it 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:50.960 was the Opry was doing a Dolly Parton tribute. I 0:16:51.000 --> 0:16:54.920 haven't spoken about it because one I. 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:55.800 Had to just chill. 0:16:56.520 --> 0:16:59.520 It was a big deal. There were two shows that night. 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:02.320 I know, in in like stand up comedy, like a 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:04.600 lot of times, there's two shows a day, so there 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:06.800 was an early show and then a late show. I 0:17:06.800 --> 0:17:10.439 had been going through something very heavy and traumatic in 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:14.040 my life at the time, and that day was a 0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:16.560 really big day dealing with what I was going through, 0:17:16.600 --> 0:17:19.000 and then I'm still going through and I suffer from 0:17:19.040 --> 0:17:20.440 like severe PTSD. 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:21.520