WEBVTT - Michelle & Nayte Discuss Their Exciting Next Chapter! 0:00:01.960 --> 0:00:05.000 What is a Bachelor Happy Hour? Listeners, We're back this 0:00:05.040 --> 0:00:08.280 week and it's actually our last one before the holidays. 0:00:08.280 --> 0:00:11.639 We're gonna be taking a quick little break until twenty 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:14.200 twenty two, but have no fear because we have a 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:18.840 very exciting episode with a very in love, newly engaged couple, 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:21.320 and we just have to cover everything from that amazing 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:24.800 finale and after the final rose. That's right, you guys. 0:00:24.920 --> 0:00:29.800 Michelle's journey is officially come to an end, and her 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:32.440 and Nate are fascily in love, and we are so 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:36.640 excited to have them here today. I cannot wait. In Tasia, 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:38.640 each week we always do a quick little recap, but 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:41.440 let's just let's just cross it out, because I just 0:00:41.479 --> 0:00:43.080 want to bring on the happy couple. I want to 0:00:43.120 --> 0:00:45.640 see the ring, I want to see the smiles. I 0:00:45.840 --> 0:00:48.199 have to also say, I mean, everyone from this franchise 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:51.120 is of course beautiful and studying, but they might be 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:53.800 one of the hottest couples I have ever seen. I'm 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:57.200 not gonna the Bachelor Bautchelorette. I definitely stare at them 0:00:57.240 --> 0:00:59.600 when I watched them on television, like how is it possible? 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:01.680 Like actually in their babies. God, I don't. I don't 0:01:01.680 --> 0:01:04.200 want to start talking about babies already, but like lord Jesus, 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.160 i'd better be an aunt and they probably name with 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:09.440 their children. Taient just saying, but I think it's time 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:13.399 to have them on the show because I have so 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:15.199 many questions. I want to know if there's a date. 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:18.360 I want to know if they're living together soon. I 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:20.320 want to know if Nate knows how to express them. 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:22.160 So I want to know all of it. So here 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:25.920 we go. Bran, Well, I'm so sad I was not 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:28.920 able to be there last night. But hi, guys, welcome 0:01:28.959 --> 0:01:32.680 to have the hour. We're so pumped that you're both here. Finally, 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:36.440 you guys, I've been waiting for this moment. Oh gosh, 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:42.800 yes too. It's nice nice, Okay, Well, Nate and Michelle, 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:46.160 you guys are actually in the same room together, being 0:01:46.200 --> 0:01:48.800 on camera and this together recording, being able to talk 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:52.280 about your relationship freely. Welcome to the show, future, mister 0:01:52.400 --> 0:02:01.440 and missus Oakora. How are you guys doing right? I mean, 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:05.960 it's been a whirlwind for sure, going through this. I 0:02:06.000 --> 0:02:08.960 feel like you can kind of prepare yourself as much 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:13.520 as possible and as it unfolds, like you can continue 0:02:13.639 --> 0:02:17.280 to try to prepare yourself. But man, we learned how 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:23.119 to communicate, didn't we Believe me, it's we've all been there, 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:26.919 Becca and I, so don't worry about it. It's nothing new. 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:29.400 But you guys have done an amazing job thus far. 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:33.200 So m well, welcome to the club. This is exciting 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:37.520 if anyone understands just the weird transition that you go 0:02:37.639 --> 0:02:41.720 from filming to then being in this weird secluded hiding 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:45.040 space now to being able to shout names from the 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:48.480 rooftop Tasia and I get it. We're so thrilled. What 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:50.919 has that What has that part been like for you too? 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:53.480 Where you can't even or I guess now you can, 0:02:53.520 --> 0:02:56.520 but you couldn't even say each other's names in public 0:02:56.600 --> 0:02:59.040 to make it seem like your boyfriend and girlfriend h 0:03:00.400 --> 0:03:04.440 slash fiances. Yeah yeah yeah no. Um for me, I 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:06.880 mean what I did, because I mean Michelle and I 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:09.800 are all obviously always texting, so I actually have her 0:03:09.880 --> 0:03:12.919 name in my phone backwards, so it's like eleseum joy 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:17.720 or right, and so that was kind of funny. But 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:19.600 that's like one of the like examples of like you 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:22.119 really like it's just it's just you have to wait 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:25.000 until you can actually be out in the public too 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:27.520 to talk about stuff like this, So like nobody really knows. 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:30.679 People don't can't tell who I'm texting unless they read 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:35.720 everything backwards. So yeah, that's just like one of the examples, 0:03:35.720 --> 0:03:38.880 like just really excited that. Now, Um, we don't have 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:40.920 to do weird things like putting each other's names in 0:03:40.960 --> 0:03:44.840 our phone's backward. You know, Wait, Michelle, what was your 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:50.600 nickname for Nate? Oh there's there's a kidney face. It's 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:53.480 just like you know, like the kids face emoj Yes, okay, 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:57.720 got it. Oh that's it, the kiss of the lips. Yeah, 0:03:57.920 --> 0:04:05.960 what's real? What's what's my real? People know kind of 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:08.680 said yoke, but his Okay, there is a kissy face. 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:13.400 But before that, it's red because, um, everybody calls him 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:15.440 the walking red Flags. So I just think name in 0:04:15.600 --> 0:04:19.480 my red, you know, I like that runs a good color. 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:24.640 It's a sexy color. Yeah, it really flies joke about. Yes, 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:28.080 his name is, his name's red, just because I mean, hey, 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:31.160 that first time going through like this man was falling 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:35.160 in love. He was talking to his family about all 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:38.360 of his emotions for the first time ever. You are 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:41.440 in the situation where you're talking about your feelings, Like 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:44.000 I remember me going through that. That was not easy, 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:47.200 let alone for somebody who normally doesn't do that regardless. 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:50.440 And so yeah, only times where like I wanted to 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:54.440 ask for clarification and we kind of joked about it 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:57.320 after like the that finale on that day because I 0:04:57.360 --> 0:05:00.920 was like, nit, sometimes like wa is this what you meant? 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:02.159 Or is this what you meant? He's like, that is 0:05:02.160 --> 0:05:04.000 not what I meant. I'm not that kind of and 0:05:04.000 --> 0:05:06.240 I'm like, WoT it. So we kind of just like 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:08.719 started to laugh and joke about it, and just the 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:12.080 fact of like you know, like I'm learning how to 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:15.160 communicate through this. He's learning how to communicate through this. Um. 0:05:16.080 --> 0:05:24.320 But yeah, it's definitely listen people, it's funny because he's 0:05:24.360 --> 0:05:26.080 not a red flag. I think if he actually was 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:27.840 a red flag, I probably wanted to do that. And 0:05:28.200 --> 0:05:30.599 maybe people we'll just like make like the height the 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:31.960 red flag, you know what I mean, Like I feel 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:35.680 like anybody could sort you out through like you're high alone, 0:05:35.800 --> 0:05:38.400 so that's the red flag we're all like talking about 0:05:38.440 --> 0:05:41.160 lessen n Nate. If it makes you feel any better. 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:44.400 My boyfriend Thomas was considered a huge red flag on 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:46.200 the past season of The Bad Scherette too, and I 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:48.240 was like, fuck it, Red's my favorite color. I'm just 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:50.480 gonna own it. And you know people are gonna say whatever, 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:53.159 just tune them out. And it sounds like you have 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:55.039 been making a joke about it and can just laugh 0:05:55.080 --> 0:05:56.560 it off. And that's really all you can do at 0:05:56.560 --> 0:06:01.520 this point. It's we'll get you and Thomas together and 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:07.720 really give people something to talk about. I want to know, 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:11.120 kind of plane into the fact that now you can 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:14.400 say each other's names in public, you can go outside 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:17.000 and go grocery shopping and hold hands, and everyone can 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:22.120 now see who Michelle you ended up with. Ultimately, it's 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:23.920 one thing for you too to be able to feel 0:06:23.960 --> 0:06:26.360 those things together. But I'm sure your families, who are 0:06:26.440 --> 0:06:30.560 so thrilled and excited and have probably been bottling this 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:33.640 up so hard inside too since you got back from 0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:37.560 the show from filming, how have they been able to 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:40.920 contain their excitement. It sounds like the families are hitting 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:42.720 it off, So give us a little bit more of 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:45.120 the family and how they're doing and how they want 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:47.840 to welcome you both to their families. I think one 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:50.280 of My favorite parts about this entire thing is just 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:53.280 even going through the process, Nate and I were constantly 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:56.440 talking about what type of family we wanted in the future, 0:06:56.520 --> 0:06:59.680 what we wanted for our families together like after this, 0:06:59.839 --> 0:07:02.240 And I think the best part is that everything that 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:04.800 we talked about and everything that we kind of put 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:08.240 in place, it's that's the direction it's going. And so 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:12.880 like our moms, our moms talk all the time, me 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:18.480 and his siblings and vice versa, and just like being 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:22.880 able to truly feel supported by both of our families, 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:25.720 and it's it's just been really nice that we can 0:07:25.760 --> 0:07:28.800 now really like truly all embrace that together and all 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:32.440 be together because obviously we were going back and forth 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:34.160 and able to see each other like here and there, 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:36.560 But now our families can actually be together too, and 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:40.400 that Michelle Michelle my sister, like faced on each other 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:44.400 all the time, like it really is has like another 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:47.480 big sister now, So it's nice. I love that bringing 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:51.680 the families together. So difficult during that time of like 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:54.160 being kind of in hiding, you feel like you're kind 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:57.920 of living this double life and your parents can't even 0:07:58.600 --> 0:08:00.840 kind of chime in that with you. But now that 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:02.840 everything's out in the open, because I'm sure you're going 0:08:02.920 --> 0:08:05.559 to make so many memories and be able to spend 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:08.000 this new year like really getting to know each other, 0:08:08.040 --> 0:08:10.360 have family parties and all that kind of stuff. But 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:13.840 I'm really dying to know what the kids think. Have 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:16.440 the kids weren't the kids able to ever guess that 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:18.640 you were in love and you had found somebody or 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:21.320 what were they on to you? I have to have 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:27.280 a feeling that they did, Like honestly, I don't know. 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:31.720 I feel like we I really did not open the 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:33.720 floor too much to have them be able to talk 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:36.199 about it, because then that's just like that's a black 0:08:36.200 --> 0:08:43.120 hole going down that. But I will say that, you know, 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:52.240 they're excited Nate's tall. They asked about it. It's grade 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:59.440 like the boys are like whoa and the girls are like, oh, 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:01.560 I did for the day, where like he gets to 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:06.800 come in and I don't know, teach him something. You know, 0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:10.080 majority of my life, like once I gave up on 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:13.160 like basketball NBA dreams, which you guys all show how 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:21.560 that happens. Please enlighten us when wash or when did 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:26.120 you give up your basketball NBA dreams? Oh Man, probably 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:28.560 a really young age like what like three, like two 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:36.679 three completely, you know, the airballing every shot I took. No, 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:38.760 like that is that is gonna be something fun? Like 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:41.080 if that is something that um can be done for 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:43.240 me to come and meet the kids. Um And and 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:46.480 you know, teach maybe like class or something that'd be 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:48.240 really cool, because I did want to be a teacher. 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:51.120 My mom's a teacher, my stepmom's a teacher, my auntie's 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:54.360 a teacher, A lot of teachers of my family, and um, 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:56.520 I went to business route, but I did started my 0:09:56.600 --> 0:10:00.240 college career. I guess I'm going as a going the 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:02.120 route to be a teacher. Then I just wished, like 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:07.640 halfway through, oh wow, that's incredible. I give you know, 0:10:07.720 --> 0:10:11.000 I'm just picturing Nate walking into this. I just remember 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:14.360 elementary schools. You know, everything is so small, like watching 0:10:14.480 --> 0:10:17.400 Nate walking, Like is your head even gonna fit through 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:20.920 the doorways? Like picturing you at these little tiny desks. 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:23.080 Not that fifth graders are tiny by any means, but 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:26.800 compared to you, they would be. That actually leads me 0:10:26.840 --> 0:10:30.319 to my next question, because Michelle, before you ever left 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:32.640 for filming, you and I actually went out grabbed lunch 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:36.040 or dinner talked about your future goals, and I'd think 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:38.240 at that point you had mentioned you you know, you 0:10:38.320 --> 0:10:41.280 still wanted to stay with your career, you potentially wanted 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:44.679 to become a principal. And last night you shared some 0:10:44.679 --> 0:10:48.240 big news with the world that Nate has plans to 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:50.800 move to Minnesota and that you two are looking to 0:10:50.880 --> 0:10:54.760 buy a house, which is so exciting to begin with. So, Nate, 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:57.600 I'm also from Minnesota, so you picked a good state. 0:10:57.920 --> 0:11:00.800 Just bundle up in the wintertime. You will enjoy the holidays. 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:04.120 Let me tell you what, but what is how is 0:11:04.200 --> 0:11:06.560 that going? What is that like now? You know, getting 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:10.240 ready to move and to go house hunting and next 0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:13.960 steps in Minnesota? Um, well we started that a while ago. 0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:16.520 But it's it's it's something to really look forward to, right, 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:19.640 Like I'm excited to be to be moving. Um, you know, 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:22.080 Austin has been the fun for the last two years. 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:25.680 But I'm always for the adventure and honestly, like being 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:29.000 only a seven hour drive from my home city, all 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:32.040 my childhood friends, my whole family. Um, that's something that 0:11:32.720 --> 0:11:36.560 albums are looking forward to, right because yeah, like we're 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:38.880 just so close, Like a seven hour drive is nothing, right, 0:11:39.000 --> 0:11:41.760 so it's across the border. And now we're in my neighborhood. 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:44.120 My family can come down, hang out with Michelle's family 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:46.839 at any time they want. It's close. So it's we're 0:11:46.880 --> 0:11:49.480 looking forward to this. And so you're used to the cold, Yeah, 0:11:49.520 --> 0:11:54.400 because it's a breeze. Minnesota's a breeze compared to that. Yeah, 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:56.960 Winnipeg is cold. And I actually already did look because 0:11:57.000 --> 0:11:58.679 you know, I'm not a fan of being cold. That's 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:03.200 why I guess on the average, Whinnipeg is like a 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:07.240 solid ten degrees colder than Minnesota at all times. So 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:10.679 you know what, See, you got this cold sun, So 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:13.960 it's not like that. You know. The last time I 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:15.960 was in winning Peg was a couple of years ago, 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:19.640 and I kid you not, it was negative fifty seven degrees. 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:23.560 And I am not exaggerating negative fifty seven. That's that's 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:26.400 not real. That was real, Tasia. Let me tell you 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:29.600 what the frozen bookers in my nose. It was real. 0:12:29.760 --> 0:12:34.600 It was real. What lashes? That's like when your your 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:38.240 eyelashes these little icicles. Yeah, how do people function? Like? 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:42.200 Absolutely not? I would not do that. Well. I took 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:44.840 the city bus everywhere I went, like to class, to school, 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:48.520 to to university everything, like to practice everything. So like, yeah, 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:56.680 I know that that those are like high You're definitely 0:12:56.760 --> 0:12:59.959 leveling up. Oh no, so I'm just happy. That's not 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:02.640 that cool. But hey, you know I do, I do. 0:13:02.679 --> 0:13:08.239 I'd even do Winnipeg weather from Michelle, you know. So 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:11.640 I have to comment on the way you too smile. 0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:14.400 You just are lighting up our screen right now. I 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:16.520 wish all of the viewers, all of the listeners could 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:18.520 see this, because I mean, obviously we saw it on 0:13:18.559 --> 0:13:21.679 the season two. I think Michelle, you just you were 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:23.839 giddy around Nate and you just lit up in such 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:26.400 a different way when you tour together. But it's really 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:29.560 special to see you two now just on your own 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:34.160 in a home, just chilling. It so special. I'm yeah, 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:35.840 I'm happy that everyone else SUPs to see that. I 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:37.920 think that that was a hard part of not being 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:41.800 able to talk about it, because I a producer brought 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:44.839 it up to me that like anytime somebody said Nate like, 0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:47.840 I was just like, who like my soul just like 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:52.760 light up? Tasha, you were there like yeah, you will 0:13:53.240 --> 0:13:56.040 go away when you're like at home, And so I 0:13:56.080 --> 0:14:00.560 had to consciously like not smile at times because we'd 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:02.480 be out in public and like a fan would come 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:05.560 up and somebody would ask on Nate and I'd be like, like, 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:11.920 you know, but that was hard. It's the best cup 0:14:11.920 --> 0:14:16.160 of secret. Yeah, seriously, though, it's a hard secret to keep, 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:18.920 you know, Like my brother just found out, you know, 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:21.400 five with the with the rest of the world. Um, 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:23.480 so you know, it's it is. It is a hard 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:26.200 secret to keep, that's for sure. You know, because you're excited. 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:27.640 You want to tell everybody. You want to tell your brother, 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:29.760 you want to tell everybody you know, but you gotta 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:32.400 you gotta kind of picking shoes exactly who you can tell. Like, 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:36.680 you know, sister most is my best friend, you know 0:14:36.760 --> 0:14:39.080 what I mean. So that's why she definitely, she definitely 0:14:39.080 --> 0:14:43.040 and she she's in love with Michelle. Like it's anyways, 0:14:43.040 --> 0:14:47.720 I'm a tangent right now. It is it is hard. Wait, okay, 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:49.760 I need to go back to my initial question because 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:51.880 we went off on such a tangent about Canada and 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:54.840 it being cold. Have you guys started to look at 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:57.920 homes in Minnesota? Have you fund anything that's cut your 0:14:57.920 --> 0:15:01.880 eye a lot? Yeah, has caught her eye. What was 0:15:02.440 --> 0:15:06.120 so like we started looking and even like with the 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:10.400 housing market right now, it goes so fast and times 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:12.600 where like it pops up and I'm like, we're like, 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:15.360 is it early to like go for that one. I mean, 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:17.080 we really would love to be in it, but like 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:20.000 we're not out in public yet. So now now it's 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:21.680 just really really to the racist now that we're like 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:29.040 she came on, really in this really like really well 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:33.520 uh well built out spreadsheet on Google sheets or whatever 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:35.960 for we we can like all of our favorite listings. Yeah, 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:37.720 we've we've been going, we've been going crazy on this. 0:15:37.800 --> 0:15:39.800 Now that we're public, I think it's gonna be a 0:15:39.840 --> 0:15:44.680 lot easier for us to what is spreadsheet or is 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:49.280 it Nate? It has to be Michelle. Okay, I started 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:53.360 a spreadsheet and he reorganized it and it's like top quality, 0:15:53.400 --> 0:16:00.440 like y'all, y'all saw it. Ryan, I was gonna teaching 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:03.880 my student spreadsheets, do you think? Yeah? His like Excel 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:09.800 technology skills are honestly above and beyond. Okay, so I'm 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:14.440 organized and efficient, Yeah, I'm yes, he teaches me daily 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:17.920 like new tech tools. Oh look see that that's not 0:16:17.960 --> 0:16:20.480 a red flag. That's you see you might be red 0:16:20.520 --> 0:16:24.840 still but that's not a red flag. He means, I'm 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:26.320 going to send you some list to make me some 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:32.480 exults for you. Absolutely. Okay, wait so we okay, so 0:16:32.520 --> 0:16:34.000 this house. What were you just about to say, You're 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:37.880 about to say something until I interrupted, No, that we're 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:41.320 just we're really we're really looking. And I mean with this, 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:44.520 I think everyone kind of just different couples go different 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:47.320 directions with I guess I am and him and I 0:16:47.360 --> 0:16:52.040 are like, nah, let's go. Well. I think it's also 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:55.360 like it's different for you too, because you have a 0:16:55.400 --> 0:16:58.840 career in Minnesota that doesn't really allow you to kind 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:01.040 of just take time off for months on end and 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:02.840 just kind of like really get to know each other. 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:04.840 But I feel like this is such a good way 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:07.639 for you both to kind of just jump into real life. 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:10.600 You're gonna definitely see her and her element, and I 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:12.520 feel like you're going to find your own element and 0:17:12.600 --> 0:17:14.679 this is I don't know, I think this might be 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:17.400 a recipe for success, and especially if you're finding a house. 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:20.240 I'm coming over. I'll bring it home housewarming gift. Just 0:17:20.359 --> 0:17:23.120 let me know what you guys need. I got you. Yeah, 0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:25.119 we're definitely looking forward to this. This is gonna be 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:28.200 like a lot of fun, finding the house, moving in together. 0:17:28.640 --> 0:17:31.479 We're looking forward. I feel like you were you were 0:17:31.520 --> 0:17:34.160 the first person. You asked me first, like, okay, cool, 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:39.880 when am I coming to Minnesota? Yeah, he's ready, He's ready. 0:17:40.320 --> 0:17:42.960 I remember that conversation because it was like great after 0:17:42.960 --> 0:17:45.639 the engagement where we're still in Mexico, We're laying bed together. 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:47.840 I'm like, we were just talking having fun. I think 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:49.280 it was like a couple of days passed by and 0:17:49.320 --> 0:17:52.160 I was like, so I could probably cancel my lease, 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:57.600 like really soon, like sho, He's like next month if 0:17:57.640 --> 0:18:03.000 you want, Like oh, like Michelle, this this is so important. 0:18:03.000 --> 0:18:05.720 You have to find somebody that actually gets excited and 0:18:05.840 --> 0:18:09.280 loves coming to Minnesota, because I feel like most people, 0:18:09.359 --> 0:18:11.480 and I will say I've been in relationships in the 0:18:11.520 --> 0:18:14.160 past where people have kind of pooh pooed and they've 0:18:14.160 --> 0:18:15.679 been like, no, what, it's cold, I'm not that excited. 0:18:15.720 --> 0:18:17.520 But I will say it's game changing when you have 0:18:17.560 --> 0:18:21.199 a partner who is thrilled like Nate. I love this attitude. 0:18:21.240 --> 0:18:25.560 I love that you are already what's the word, Um, 0:18:26.520 --> 0:18:31.760 you're already Minnesotan or whatever. Yeah, you're only projecting of 0:18:31.880 --> 0:18:34.280 what your futures could look like together. And I mean 0:18:34.359 --> 0:18:38.040 we've I mean Tasiana, We've seen season after season and 0:18:38.080 --> 0:18:40.320 people sometimes couples come from the show and they're like, 0:18:40.440 --> 0:18:42.840 see you, we're not quite sure yet, and well, maybe 0:18:42.840 --> 0:18:44.639 we'll go here, maybe we'll go there. But it's so 0:18:44.680 --> 0:18:46.639 important when you guys are on the same page and 0:18:46.920 --> 0:18:50.919 can actually make plans and put down roots because at 0:18:50.920 --> 0:18:52.840 the end of the day, like, it's you too in 0:18:52.920 --> 0:18:55.359 your relationship, and that's really all that matters. But having 0:18:55.800 --> 0:18:58.679 somebody who is supportive and gung ho about coming to 0:18:58.760 --> 0:19:06.120 Minnesota is so key. You get some points, Nate. Yeah, see, 0:19:06.160 --> 0:19:07.840 these are the points that I've been wanting to share 0:19:07.840 --> 0:19:13.320 with everybody, but I couldn't. So now, well, let's talk 0:19:13.320 --> 0:19:16.360 about some more points that Nate has possibly scored throughout 0:19:16.400 --> 0:19:18.359 this season. Because now you guys are out in the open, 0:19:18.400 --> 0:19:20.920 we can really talk about your true feelings now and 0:19:21.320 --> 0:19:23.840 get some better insight between both of you. But let's 0:19:23.840 --> 0:19:29.880 go back to Night one. Nate, You've got the first 0:19:29.920 --> 0:19:35.160 impression Rose and the first kiss. I mean, did you know, 0:19:35.640 --> 0:19:38.040 okay for both both of you, Michelle, did you know 0:19:38.119 --> 0:19:39.600 he was the one? And Nate, did you know she 0:19:39.720 --> 0:19:41.679 was the one? Just from that kiss alone or just 0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:46.000 from that night I think, I think, well, we've actually 0:19:46.000 --> 0:19:49.359 had this conversation before. We are both not really like 0:19:49.520 --> 0:19:53.720 love at first sight people, and I think for us, 0:19:53.760 --> 0:19:55.960 but I was like, we just always have wanted to 0:19:56.000 --> 0:19:58.239 make sure that there's like depths there and we like 0:19:58.359 --> 0:20:00.639 connect on all these different levels and that we're going 0:20:00.680 --> 0:20:05.840 to connect outside of this entire point. So as much 0:20:05.840 --> 0:20:07.879 as it seems like you spend a lot of time together, 0:20:07.920 --> 0:20:11.359 like you really don't like our conversations. They definitely were progressive, 0:20:11.640 --> 0:20:13.520 but they were also so quick and so I feel 0:20:13.560 --> 0:20:16.080 like we're asking the questions that we needed to ask. 0:20:16.640 --> 0:20:19.280 But for sure, like we were both like nah, I 0:20:19.400 --> 0:20:21.720 love that first site. No, Like I mean he was attractive, dude. 0:20:21.720 --> 0:20:26.879 I remember him walking out a limit and be like, okay, partly, 0:20:26.960 --> 0:20:30.719 but it definitely that whole season to make sure that 0:20:30.760 --> 0:20:32.239 we were on the same page with each other and 0:20:32.280 --> 0:20:34.560 that we you know, we could see a partner and 0:20:34.760 --> 0:20:37.480 both of us yeah, and like and going back to 0:20:37.560 --> 0:20:39.440 kind of like that night one, Like Night one was 0:20:39.480 --> 0:20:42.720 really special, especially getting like like I'm not the type 0:20:42.720 --> 0:20:45.000 two to like going for for kisses and whatnot. So 0:20:45.040 --> 0:20:47.359 I remember like when Michelle did kiss me, I was like, 0:20:47.920 --> 0:20:49.800 you just unlocked a can of worms because every time 0:20:49.800 --> 0:20:54.040 I know, and I learned my lessons really quick at 0:20:53.680 --> 0:20:58.560 the date when she she she sweared me. But but anyways, 0:20:58.800 --> 0:21:04.200 m Michelle, that very first night when she came down, 0:21:04.800 --> 0:21:07.440 she said something along the lines of I'm looking for 0:21:07.480 --> 0:21:13.679 somebody to make or be or make the most natural 0:21:13.720 --> 0:21:17.720 out of an unnatural environment. I was really like what 0:21:17.800 --> 0:21:20.359 I was focused on pretty much the entire time. Okay, 0:21:20.400 --> 0:21:22.200 I want to know because it might not have been 0:21:22.680 --> 0:21:25.480 love at first sight for you too, but for both 0:21:25.520 --> 0:21:28.199 of you, when was the moment that you knew and 0:21:28.280 --> 0:21:31.520 it clicked where Michelle you were like, Okay, it's Nate. 0:21:31.960 --> 0:21:34.240 It's gonna be Nate. This is it, and vice versa 0:21:34.280 --> 0:21:37.320 for you, Nate, m that's do you want to start? 0:21:37.320 --> 0:21:41.159 You want me to start? For me, i'd have to 0:21:41.200 --> 0:21:45.720 say after the basketball group day, the conversation that Michelle 0:21:45.760 --> 0:21:47.840 and I had, the conversation that Michelle and I had 0:21:47.880 --> 0:21:51.880 after that basketball day, I just remember kind of going 0:21:51.880 --> 0:21:54.720 back to my hotel room after that cocktail party, laying 0:21:54.760 --> 0:21:59.359 in bed and just thinking to myself, like, well, you know, 0:21:59.400 --> 0:22:01.520 like I was just like, okay, this is what's going 0:22:01.520 --> 0:22:04.840 on here? Like I didn't, I just I was fully 0:22:05.840 --> 0:22:09.320 I guess I was like, okay, I'm, I'm, I'm I'm 0:22:09.359 --> 0:22:13.480