1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: What is a Bachelor Happy Hour? Listeners, We're back this 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: week and it's actually our last one before the holidays. 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:11,639 Speaker 1: We're gonna be taking a quick little break until twenty 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: twenty two, but have no fear because we have a 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: very exciting episode with a very in love, newly engaged couple, 6 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: and we just have to cover everything from that amazing 7 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 1: finale and after the final rose. That's right, you guys. 8 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: Michelle's journey is officially come to an end, and her 9 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 1: and Nate are fascily in love, and we are so 10 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: excited to have them here today. I cannot wait. In Tasia, 11 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: each week we always do a quick little recap, but 12 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: let's just let's just cross it out, because I just 13 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: want to bring on the happy couple. I want to 14 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: see the ring, I want to see the smiles. I 15 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,199 Speaker 1: have to also say, I mean, everyone from this franchise 16 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: is of course beautiful and studying, but they might be 17 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: one of the hottest couples I have ever seen. I'm 18 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: not gonna the Bachelor Bautchelorette. I definitely stare at them 19 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: when I watched them on television, like how is it possible? 20 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: Like actually in their babies. God, I don't. I don't 21 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: want to start talking about babies already, but like lord Jesus, 22 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: i'd better be an aunt and they probably name with 23 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: their children. Taient just saying, but I think it's time 24 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 1: to have them on the show because I have so 25 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:15,199 Speaker 1: many questions. I want to know if there's a date. 26 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: I want to know if they're living together soon. I 27 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 1: want to know if Nate knows how to express them. 28 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 1: So I want to know all of it. So here 29 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 1: we go. Bran, Well, I'm so sad I was not 30 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: able to be there last night. But hi, guys, welcome 31 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 1: to have the hour. We're so pumped that you're both here. Finally, 32 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: you guys, I've been waiting for this moment. Oh gosh, 33 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: yes too. It's nice nice, Okay, Well, Nate and Michelle, 34 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: you guys are actually in the same room together, being 35 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: on camera and this together recording, being able to talk 36 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: about your relationship freely. Welcome to the show, future, mister 37 00:01:52,400 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: and missus Oakora. How are you guys doing right? I mean, 38 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: it's been a whirlwind for sure, going through this. I 39 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: feel like you can kind of prepare yourself as much 40 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 1: as possible and as it unfolds, like you can continue 41 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: to try to prepare yourself. But man, we learned how 42 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:23,119 Speaker 1: to communicate, didn't we Believe me, it's we've all been there, 43 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 1: Becca and I, so don't worry about it. It's nothing new. 44 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 1: But you guys have done an amazing job thus far. 45 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: So m well, welcome to the club. This is exciting 46 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 1: if anyone understands just the weird transition that you go 47 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: from filming to then being in this weird secluded hiding 48 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 1: space now to being able to shout names from the 49 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: rooftop Tasia and I get it. We're so thrilled. What 50 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 1: has that What has that part been like for you too? 51 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: Where you can't even or I guess now you can, 52 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: but you couldn't even say each other's names in public 53 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: to make it seem like your boyfriend and girlfriend h 54 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 1: slash fiances. Yeah yeah yeah no. Um for me, I 55 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: mean what I did, because I mean Michelle and I 56 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 1: are all obviously always texting, so I actually have her 57 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: name in my phone backwards, so it's like eleseum joy 58 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: or right, and so that was kind of funny. But 59 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: that's like one of the like examples of like you 60 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:22,119 Speaker 1: really like it's just it's just you have to wait 61 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: until you can actually be out in the public too 62 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: to talk about stuff like this, So like nobody really knows. 63 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,679 Speaker 1: People don't can't tell who I'm texting unless they read 64 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: everything backwards. So yeah, that's just like one of the examples, 65 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: like just really excited that. Now, Um, we don't have 66 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: to do weird things like putting each other's names in 67 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: our phone's backward. You know, Wait, Michelle, what was your 68 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: nickname for Nate? Oh there's there's a kidney face. It's 69 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: just like you know, like the kids face emoj Yes, okay, 70 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: got it. Oh that's it, the kiss of the lips. Yeah, 71 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: what's real? What's what's my real? People know kind of 72 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: said yoke, but his Okay, there is a kissy face. 73 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: But before that, it's red because, um, everybody calls him 74 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: the walking red Flags. So I just think name in 75 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: my red, you know, I like that runs a good color. 76 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: It's a sexy color. Yeah, it really flies joke about. Yes, 77 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: his name is, his name's red, just because I mean, hey, 78 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 1: that first time going through like this man was falling 79 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:35,160 Speaker 1: in love. He was talking to his family about all 80 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: of his emotions for the first time ever. You are 81 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: in the situation where you're talking about your feelings, Like 82 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: I remember me going through that. That was not easy, 83 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 1: let alone for somebody who normally doesn't do that regardless. 84 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: And so yeah, only times where like I wanted to 85 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: ask for clarification and we kind of joked about it 86 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: after like the that finale on that day because I 87 00:04:57,360 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: was like, nit, sometimes like wa is this what you meant? 88 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 1: Or is this what you meant? He's like, that is 89 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: not what I meant. I'm not that kind of and 90 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, WoT it. So we kind of just like 91 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: started to laugh and joke about it, and just the 92 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: fact of like you know, like I'm learning how to 93 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 1: communicate through this. He's learning how to communicate through this. Um. 94 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's definitely listen people, it's funny because he's 95 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 1: not a red flag. I think if he actually was 96 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:27,840 Speaker 1: a red flag, I probably wanted to do that. And 97 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 1: maybe people we'll just like make like the height the 98 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: red flag, you know what I mean, Like I feel 99 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: like anybody could sort you out through like you're high alone, 100 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: so that's the red flag we're all like talking about 101 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:41,160 Speaker 1: lessen n Nate. If it makes you feel any better. 102 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: My boyfriend Thomas was considered a huge red flag on 103 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: the past season of The Bad Scherette too, and I 104 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 1: was like, fuck it, Red's my favorite color. I'm just 105 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: gonna own it. And you know people are gonna say whatever, 106 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 1: just tune them out. And it sounds like you have 107 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,039 Speaker 1: been making a joke about it and can just laugh 108 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: it off. And that's really all you can do at 109 00:05:56,560 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: this point. It's we'll get you and Thomas together and 110 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:07,720 Speaker 1: really give people something to talk about. I want to know, 111 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: kind of plane into the fact that now you can 112 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: say each other's names in public, you can go outside 113 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: and go grocery shopping and hold hands, and everyone can 114 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 1: now see who Michelle you ended up with. Ultimately, it's 115 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 1: one thing for you too to be able to feel 116 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: those things together. But I'm sure your families, who are 117 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 1: so thrilled and excited and have probably been bottling this 118 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: up so hard inside too since you got back from 119 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: the show from filming, how have they been able to 120 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: contain their excitement. It sounds like the families are hitting 121 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 1: it off, So give us a little bit more of 122 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: the family and how they're doing and how they want 123 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 1: to welcome you both to their families. I think one 124 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: of My favorite parts about this entire thing is just 125 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:53,280 Speaker 1: even going through the process, Nate and I were constantly 126 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 1: talking about what type of family we wanted in the future, 127 00:06:56,520 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 1: what we wanted for our families together like after this, 128 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 1: And I think the best part is that everything that 129 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 1: we talked about and everything that we kind of put 130 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: in place, it's that's the direction it's going. And so 131 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: like our moms, our moms talk all the time, me 132 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: and his siblings and vice versa, and just like being 133 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 1: able to truly feel supported by both of our families, 134 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: and it's it's just been really nice that we can 135 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: now really like truly all embrace that together and all 136 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: be together because obviously we were going back and forth 137 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: and able to see each other like here and there, 138 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: But now our families can actually be together too, and 139 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: that Michelle Michelle my sister, like faced on each other 140 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 1: all the time, like it really is has like another 141 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: big sister now, So it's nice. I love that bringing 142 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: the families together. So difficult during that time of like 143 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: being kind of in hiding, you feel like you're kind 144 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: of living this double life and your parents can't even 145 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: kind of chime in that with you. But now that 146 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: everything's out in the open, because I'm sure you're going 147 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,559 Speaker 1: to make so many memories and be able to spend 148 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: this new year like really getting to know each other, 149 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: have family parties and all that kind of stuff. But 150 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 1: I'm really dying to know what the kids think. Have 151 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: the kids weren't the kids able to ever guess that 152 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: you were in love and you had found somebody or 153 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: what were they on to you? I have to have 154 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: a feeling that they did, Like honestly, I don't know. 155 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: I feel like we I really did not open the 156 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 1: floor too much to have them be able to talk 157 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,199 Speaker 1: about it, because then that's just like that's a black 158 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: hole going down that. But I will say that, you know, 159 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 1: they're excited Nate's tall. They asked about it. It's grade 160 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 1: like the boys are like whoa and the girls are like, oh, 161 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 1: I did for the day, where like he gets to 162 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: come in and I don't know, teach him something. You know, 163 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 1: majority of my life, like once I gave up on 164 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 1: like basketball NBA dreams, which you guys all show how 165 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 1: that happens. Please enlighten us when wash or when did 166 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: you give up your basketball NBA dreams? Oh Man, probably 167 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 1: a really young age like what like three, like two 168 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:36,679 Speaker 1: three completely, you know, the airballing every shot I took. No, 169 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: like that is that is gonna be something fun? Like 170 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 1: if that is something that um can be done for 171 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 1: me to come and meet the kids. Um And and 172 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: you know, teach maybe like class or something that'd be 173 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: really cool, because I did want to be a teacher. 174 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: My mom's a teacher, my stepmom's a teacher, my auntie's 175 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 1: a teacher, A lot of teachers of my family, and um, 176 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: I went to business route, but I did started my 177 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 1: college career. I guess I'm going as a going the 178 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 1: route to be a teacher. Then I just wished, like 179 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: halfway through, oh wow, that's incredible. I give you know, 180 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 1: I'm just picturing Nate walking into this. I just remember 181 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: elementary schools. You know, everything is so small, like watching 182 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 1: Nate walking, Like is your head even gonna fit through 183 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 1: the doorways? Like picturing you at these little tiny desks. 184 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 1: Not that fifth graders are tiny by any means, but 185 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 1: compared to you, they would be. That actually leads me 186 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:30,319 Speaker 1: to my next question, because Michelle, before you ever left 187 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: for filming, you and I actually went out grabbed lunch 188 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: or dinner talked about your future goals, and I'd think 189 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 1: at that point you had mentioned you you know, you 190 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: still wanted to stay with your career, you potentially wanted 191 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 1: to become a principal. And last night you shared some 192 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: big news with the world that Nate has plans to 193 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: move to Minnesota and that you two are looking to 194 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 1: buy a house, which is so exciting to begin with. So, Nate, 195 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 1: I'm also from Minnesota, so you picked a good state. 196 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 1: Just bundle up in the wintertime. You will enjoy the holidays. 197 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 1: Let me tell you what, but what is how is 198 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 1: that going? What is that like now? You know, getting 199 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 1: ready to move and to go house hunting and next 200 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 1: steps in Minnesota? Um, well we started that a while ago. 201 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: But it's it's it's something to really look forward to, right, 202 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 1: Like I'm excited to be to be moving. Um, you know, 203 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 1: Austin has been the fun for the last two years. 204 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 1: But I'm always for the adventure and honestly, like being 205 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 1: only a seven hour drive from my home city, all 206 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 1: my childhood friends, my whole family. Um, that's something that 207 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 1: albums are looking forward to, right because yeah, like we're 208 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: just so close, Like a seven hour drive is nothing, right, 209 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: so it's across the border. And now we're in my neighborhood. 210 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: My family can come down, hang out with Michelle's family 211 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:46,839 Speaker 1: at any time they want. It's close. So it's we're 212 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 1: looking forward to this. And so you're used to the cold, Yeah, 213 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 1: because it's a breeze. Minnesota's a breeze compared to that. Yeah, 214 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:56,960 Speaker 1: Winnipeg is cold. And I actually already did look because 215 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:58,679 Speaker 1: you know, I'm not a fan of being cold. That's 216 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 1: why I guess on the average, Whinnipeg is like a 217 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:07,240 Speaker 1: solid ten degrees colder than Minnesota at all times. So 218 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:10,679 Speaker 1: you know what, See, you got this cold sun, So 219 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 1: it's not like that. You know. The last time I 220 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 1: was in winning Peg was a couple of years ago, 221 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: and I kid you not, it was negative fifty seven degrees. 222 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:23,560 Speaker 1: And I am not exaggerating negative fifty seven. That's that's 223 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: not real. That was real, Tasia. Let me tell you 224 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 1: what the frozen bookers in my nose. It was real. 225 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 1: It was real. What lashes? That's like when your your 226 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 1: eyelashes these little icicles. Yeah, how do people function? Like? 227 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 1: Absolutely not? I would not do that. Well. I took 228 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 1: the city bus everywhere I went, like to class, to school, 229 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: to to university everything, like to practice everything. So like, yeah, 230 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 1: I know that that those are like high You're definitely 231 00:12:56,760 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 1: leveling up. Oh no, so I'm just happy. That's not 232 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: that cool. But hey, you know I do, I do. 233 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:08,239 Speaker 1: I'd even do Winnipeg weather from Michelle, you know. So 234 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 1: I have to comment on the way you too smile. 235 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: You just are lighting up our screen right now. I 236 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 1: wish all of the viewers, all of the listeners could 237 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: see this, because I mean, obviously we saw it on 238 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 1: the season two. I think Michelle, you just you were 239 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:23,839 Speaker 1: giddy around Nate and you just lit up in such 240 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 1: a different way when you tour together. But it's really 241 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 1: special to see you two now just on your own 242 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 1: in a home, just chilling. It so special. I'm yeah, 243 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 1: I'm happy that everyone else SUPs to see that. I 244 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 1: think that that was a hard part of not being 245 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: able to talk about it, because I a producer brought 246 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:44,839 Speaker 1: it up to me that like anytime somebody said Nate like, 247 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: I was just like, who like my soul just like 248 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 1: light up? Tasha, you were there like yeah, you will 249 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: go away when you're like at home, And so I 250 00:13:56,080 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 1: had to consciously like not smile at times because we'd 251 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 1: be out in public and like a fan would come 252 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 1: up and somebody would ask on Nate and I'd be like, like, 253 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 1: you know, but that was hard. It's the best cup 254 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: of secret. Yeah, seriously, though, it's a hard secret to keep, 255 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: you know, Like my brother just found out, you know, 256 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 1: five with the with the rest of the world. Um, 257 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 1: so you know, it's it is. It is a hard 258 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: secret to keep, that's for sure. You know, because you're excited. 259 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: You want to tell everybody. You want to tell your brother, 260 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 1: you want to tell everybody you know, but you gotta 261 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 1: you gotta kind of picking shoes exactly who you can tell. Like, 262 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: you know, sister most is my best friend, you know 263 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 1: what I mean. So that's why she definitely, she definitely 264 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 1: and she she's in love with Michelle. Like it's anyways, 265 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: I'm a tangent right now. It is it is hard. Wait, okay, 266 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: I need to go back to my initial question because 267 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: we went off on such a tangent about Canada and 268 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 1: it being cold. Have you guys started to look at 269 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 1: homes in Minnesota? Have you fund anything that's cut your 270 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 1: eye a lot? Yeah, has caught her eye. What was 271 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: so like we started looking and even like with the 272 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 1: housing market right now, it goes so fast and times 273 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 1: where like it pops up and I'm like, we're like, 274 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: is it early to like go for that one. I mean, 275 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 1: we really would love to be in it, but like 276 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: we're not out in public yet. So now now it's 277 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: just really really to the racist now that we're like 278 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: she came on, really in this really like really well 279 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 1: uh well built out spreadsheet on Google sheets or whatever 280 00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 1: for we we can like all of our favorite listings. Yeah, 281 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 1: we've we've been going, we've been going crazy on this. 282 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: Now that we're public, I think it's gonna be a 283 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 1: lot easier for us to what is spreadsheet or is 284 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: it Nate? It has to be Michelle. Okay, I started 285 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 1: a spreadsheet and he reorganized it and it's like top quality, 286 00:15:53,400 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: like y'all, y'all saw it. Ryan, I was gonna teaching 287 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: my student spreadsheets, do you think? Yeah? His like Excel 288 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 1: technology skills are honestly above and beyond. Okay, so I'm 289 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 1: organized and efficient, Yeah, I'm yes, he teaches me daily 290 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: like new tech tools. Oh look see that that's not 291 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 1: a red flag. That's you see you might be red 292 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 1: still but that's not a red flag. He means, I'm 293 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: going to send you some list to make me some 294 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 1: exults for you. Absolutely. Okay, wait so we okay, so 295 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: this house. What were you just about to say, You're 296 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 1: about to say something until I interrupted, No, that we're 297 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 1: just we're really we're really looking. And I mean with this, 298 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: I think everyone kind of just different couples go different 299 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 1: directions with I guess I am and him and I 300 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 1: are like, nah, let's go. Well. I think it's also 301 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 1: like it's different for you too, because you have a 302 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 1: career in Minnesota that doesn't really allow you to kind 303 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 1: of just take time off for months on end and 304 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 1: just kind of like really get to know each other. 305 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: But I feel like this is such a good way 306 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:07,639 Speaker 1: for you both to kind of just jump into real life. 307 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 1: You're gonna definitely see her and her element, and I 308 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 1: feel like you're going to find your own element and 309 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:14,679 Speaker 1: this is I don't know, I think this might be 310 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:17,400 Speaker 1: a recipe for success, and especially if you're finding a house. 311 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 1: I'm coming over. I'll bring it home housewarming gift. Just 312 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:23,120 Speaker 1: let me know what you guys need. I got you. Yeah, 313 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 1: we're definitely looking forward to this. This is gonna be 314 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 1: like a lot of fun, finding the house, moving in together. 315 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:31,479 Speaker 1: We're looking forward. I feel like you were you were 316 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:34,160 Speaker 1: the first person. You asked me first, like, okay, cool, 317 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:39,880 Speaker 1: when am I coming to Minnesota? Yeah, he's ready, He's ready. 318 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 1: I remember that conversation because it was like great after 319 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:45,639 Speaker 1: the engagement where we're still in Mexico, We're laying bed together. 320 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, we were just talking having fun. I think 321 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 1: it was like a couple of days passed by and 322 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:52,160 Speaker 1: I was like, so I could probably cancel my lease, 323 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: like really soon, like sho, He's like next month if 324 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: you want, Like oh, like Michelle, this this is so important. 325 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 1: You have to find somebody that actually gets excited and 326 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 1: loves coming to Minnesota, because I feel like most people, 327 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 1: and I will say I've been in relationships in the 328 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:14,160 Speaker 1: past where people have kind of pooh pooed and they've 329 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:15,679 Speaker 1: been like, no, what, it's cold, I'm not that excited. 330 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 1: But I will say it's game changing when you have 331 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:21,199 Speaker 1: a partner who is thrilled like Nate. I love this attitude. 332 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 1: I love that you are already what's the word, Um, 333 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: you're already Minnesotan or whatever. Yeah, you're only projecting of 334 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 1: what your futures could look like together. And I mean 335 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 1: we've I mean Tasiana, We've seen season after season and 336 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 1: people sometimes couples come from the show and they're like, 337 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: see you, we're not quite sure yet, and well, maybe 338 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 1: we'll go here, maybe we'll go there. But it's so 339 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 1: important when you guys are on the same page and 340 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:50,919 Speaker 1: can actually make plans and put down roots because at 341 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:52,840 Speaker 1: the end of the day, like, it's you too in 342 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 1: your relationship, and that's really all that matters. But having 343 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 1: somebody who is supportive and gung ho about coming to 344 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:06,120 Speaker 1: Minnesota is so key. You get some points, Nate. Yeah, see, 345 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: these are the points that I've been wanting to share 346 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 1: with everybody, but I couldn't. So now, well, let's talk 347 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:16,360 Speaker 1: about some more points that Nate has possibly scored throughout 348 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:18,359 Speaker 1: this season. Because now you guys are out in the open, 349 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:20,920 Speaker 1: we can really talk about your true feelings now and 350 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 1: get some better insight between both of you. But let's 351 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:29,880 Speaker 1: go back to Night one. Nate, You've got the first 352 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:35,160 Speaker 1: impression Rose and the first kiss. I mean, did you know, 353 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 1: okay for both both of you, Michelle, did you know 354 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 1: he was the one? And Nate, did you know she 355 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:41,679 Speaker 1: was the one? Just from that kiss alone or just 356 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: from that night I think, I think, well, we've actually 357 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 1: had this conversation before. We are both not really like 358 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 1: love at first sight people, and I think for us, 359 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 1: but I was like, we just always have wanted to 360 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,239 Speaker 1: make sure that there's like depths there and we like 361 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,639 Speaker 1: connect on all these different levels and that we're going 362 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: to connect outside of this entire point. So as much 363 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:07,879 Speaker 1: as it seems like you spend a lot of time together, 364 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:11,359 Speaker 1: like you really don't like our conversations. They definitely were progressive, 365 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 1: but they were also so quick and so I feel 366 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 1: like we're asking the questions that we needed to ask. 367 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 1: But for sure, like we were both like nah, I 368 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 1: love that first site. No, Like I mean he was attractive, dude. 369 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 1: I remember him walking out a limit and be like, okay, partly, 370 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:30,719 Speaker 1: but it definitely that whole season to make sure that 371 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:32,239 Speaker 1: we were on the same page with each other and 372 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 1: that we you know, we could see a partner and 373 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 1: both of us yeah, and like and going back to 374 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,440 Speaker 1: kind of like that night one, Like Night one was 375 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: really special, especially getting like like I'm not the type 376 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 1: two to like going for for kisses and whatnot. So 377 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:47,359 Speaker 1: I remember like when Michelle did kiss me, I was like, 378 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 1: you just unlocked a can of worms because every time 379 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 1: I know, and I learned my lessons really quick at 380 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 1: the date when she she she sweared me. But but anyways, 381 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 1: m Michelle, that very first night when she came down, 382 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 1: she said something along the lines of I'm looking for 383 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:13,679 Speaker 1: somebody to make or be or make the most natural 384 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 1: out of an unnatural environment. I was really like what 385 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: I was focused on pretty much the entire time. Okay, 386 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 1: I want to know because it might not have been 387 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 1: love at first sight for you too, but for both 388 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,199 Speaker 1: of you, when was the moment that you knew and 389 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 1: it clicked where Michelle you were like, Okay, it's Nate. 390 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 1: It's gonna be Nate. This is it, and vice versa 391 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 1: for you, Nate, m that's do you want to start? 392 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:41,159 Speaker 1: You want me to start? For me, i'd have to 393 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 1: say after the basketball group day, the conversation that Michelle 394 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 1: and I had, the conversation that Michelle and I had 395 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:51,880 Speaker 1: after that basketball day, I just remember kind of going 396 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,720 Speaker 1: back to my hotel room after that cocktail party, laying 397 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:59,359 Speaker 1: in bed and just thinking to myself, like, well, you know, 398 00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 1: like I was just like, okay, this is what's going 399 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 1: on here? Like I didn't, I just I was fully 400 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 1: I guess I was like, okay, I'm, I'm, I'm I'm 401 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 1: gonna have to like really see, like see what's going 402 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,879 Speaker 1: on here because this is this is somebody that after 403 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 1: that one conversation, I was like, okay, like I am, 404 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 1: I'm seriously drawn to this individual. Um And I don't 405 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 1: know what I was expecting, but I didn't think I 406 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 1: was going to feel that so soon. And so it 407 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,919 Speaker 1: was that I was on and I remember Yeah, like 408 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 1: I said, we had a conversation and everything that was 409 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,360 Speaker 1: said in that conversation and the way that we were 410 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 1: just the conversation that we had, the way that we 411 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 1: were bouncing off each other, the way that we couldn't 412 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:43,639 Speaker 1: stop smiling, like I haven't felt that way before. Um 413 00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:48,160 Speaker 1: and maybe like per se, the whole like sparks and 414 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:51,360 Speaker 1: and and love at first night wasn't necessarily the first night. 415 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 1: There was so much going on that first night with Yeah, 416 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 1: that that first conversation, the true conversation after a cocktail, 417 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 1: like for me at least, I was a definition of 418 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: like sparks were flying and I never experienced that before, 419 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 1: and I was like, I was, I just remember being nervous. 420 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 1: I was just like, I need to hold on to this, 421 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,400 Speaker 1: like I gotta I gotta like really see this through 422 00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 1: and see what's lawn here, because I've never felt this 423 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 1: way before. And that was, you know, the first group date. 424 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: So that was when I was like, I'm happy I came. 425 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:22,639 Speaker 1: You know. So back to I thinking back to your 426 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,639 Speaker 1: first conversation where he yelled like, I'm so happy I 427 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 1: signed that contract. I'm so happy. I'm so happy. Oh 428 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 1: you mean to be on the show happy that you 429 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 1: did too, But for me, it was um that. So 430 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 1: the conversation that Nate was talking about was after that conversation, 431 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,440 Speaker 1: I had actually taken a minute to step aside because 432 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 1: I had become really emotional. It's just like that I 433 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 1: was having for Nate and not realizing that you could 434 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 1: feel that strongly for somebody. But then you know, him 435 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:59,760 Speaker 1: and I are both very um realistic, like logical people too, 436 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: and wanting to make sure, okay, is this something that 437 00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,879 Speaker 1: can last. I don't want this to be infatuation, you know, 438 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 1: especially from his point or from his point, there's a 439 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,680 Speaker 1: bunch of other men. From my point, it's like I'm 440 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:18,439 Speaker 1: the only girl, I'm the only option. Wait, didn't you know? 441 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:23,119 Speaker 1: There's just all these different layers and for me coming 442 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,040 Speaker 1: into it. And I think, Tasha you know this too, 443 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,400 Speaker 1: because we had some conversations about this. But I give 444 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:32,119 Speaker 1: everything one hundred and ten percent. Maybe that's that maybe 445 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 1: too much at times, but I really did like force 446 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:40,120 Speaker 1: myself to be open and so that you know, could 447 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,440 Speaker 1: I have shut off early on and been like, Yep, 448 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 1: this is my strongest connection, this is who I'm madly 449 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,880 Speaker 1: in love, like feeling like I'm falling madly in love. 450 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 1: What can be done? Yes? But I also felt like 451 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: are you left with what ifs? And so I did 452 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,480 Speaker 1: really challenge myself to stay open. But with that said, 453 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 1: like that also puts a lot on him, you know, 454 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 1: watching all of this back and having me be so 455 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:09,880 Speaker 1: open with everybody and you know, really instilling one hundred 456 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,360 Speaker 1: percent into this entire journey and process, and it can 457 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,120 Speaker 1: it's a beautiful thing, but it's also a really difficult 458 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,320 Speaker 1: thing to handle. And I mean he, I mean, he's 459 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 1: been awesome, but it's not going to be easy and 460 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,880 Speaker 1: it hasn't been. But to be able to actually finally 461 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,640 Speaker 1: like be together now and start taking steps forward where 462 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,399 Speaker 1: it's like yep, okay, like this is mine, like let's 463 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:34,880 Speaker 1: you know, do you feel like that? And yeah, but 464 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 1: it was There's definitely a lot of moments where I 465 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,720 Speaker 1: felt so so, so so strong, and it's like is 466 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:45,160 Speaker 1: this do I say it? Do not say? Well, Michelle, 467 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: we knew. I think everyone watching just knew how gravitated, 468 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 1: gravitated towards Nate you were. Is that the right phrase 469 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:57,120 Speaker 1: to use? Towards gravitated towards me? And you just And 470 00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 1: it's easy for us as viewers to kind of pick 471 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 1: up are every relationship that you have and be like, oh, well, 472 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 1: she's more like this with somebody and more like this. 473 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,680 Speaker 1: But every time you were with Nate and you two 474 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: were together, it was just it was like you could 475 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:14,399 Speaker 1: just tell you just radiated and you were just and 476 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 1: I kind of remember being in your position like trying 477 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,120 Speaker 1: trying to keep things in enough where you don't give 478 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,040 Speaker 1: all of your cards away, you know, like you can't 479 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,080 Speaker 1: because again, like you are dating multiple people at that point. 480 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 1: But now, like you just said, you are in public 481 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,719 Speaker 1: like he is yours. Now you can shout it from 482 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 1: the rooftops. It's just this is where your true story begins. 483 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,439 Speaker 1: But it's not easy. And going back to when you 484 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,679 Speaker 1: said you know you had to be open to every relationship, 485 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:42,639 Speaker 1: I think that that just solidifies how you now feel 486 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 1: for Nate because you went through every relationship, you had 487 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,479 Speaker 1: the what ifs, you asked, all the questions, you got 488 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,879 Speaker 1: to the very end to know, Okay, who can I 489 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 1: not live without? Who can I not picture leaving here 490 00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,480 Speaker 1: without this? Whatever man is by my side, and it 491 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 1: of course is Nat And I think that's so important, 492 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:03,159 Speaker 1: And you been such I would say, a solid foundation 493 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:06,160 Speaker 1: for Nate to feel open, and you know it's not 494 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,880 Speaker 1: always easy expressing everything we're feeling and all of these 495 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 1: crazy emotions that are basically on a roller coaster through 496 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:17,400 Speaker 1: each season. So Nate, I want to ask you, because 497 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,800 Speaker 1: if Michelle has been very vocal about where she's at 498 00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 1: in your relationship, how she's feeling, and trying to get 499 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,720 Speaker 1: the right questions from you answered. So last night we 500 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 1: saw your final date between the two of you was 501 00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,880 Speaker 1: with the Shaman, and you know you struggled a bit. 502 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,439 Speaker 1: I think it was maybe uncomfortable to completely open up, 503 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 1: especially in front of a stranger. I totally get it, 504 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: and I would have laughed. I would have felt uncomfortable too, 505 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: So I totally understand how you were probably feeling in 506 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:49,119 Speaker 1: that moment. So and so you were finally able to 507 00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 1: open up more towards the evening with Michelle about where 508 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,119 Speaker 1: you were at and give her the reassurance that she 509 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,840 Speaker 1: was looking for in that moment. So what was it 510 00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:00,880 Speaker 1: about her that helped you finally let your guard down 511 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,480 Speaker 1: and be fully vulnerable and get to the point on 512 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:05,400 Speaker 1: that last day where you both were able to say 513 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:14,199 Speaker 1: yes to an engagement. Yeah. Um, honestly, I think, like 514 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:20,200 Speaker 1: I think for me, it's like I I just don't 515 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,440 Speaker 1: know how to properly. I just just I don't think it, Honestly. 516 00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 1: I don't think it's a bad thing about me. Everybody 517 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:28,120 Speaker 1: has their own like opinions, but like when it comes 518 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:32,480 Speaker 1: to like moments like that of trying to express yourself 519 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 1: and you know, especially just you know, I don't know, Um, 520 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 1: it's hard for me to like really get into expressing myself. 521 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: You know, for whatever teach their ow and everybody everybody, 522 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:47,960 Speaker 1: you know, some people are really good at baking cakes 523 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 1: and some people can't bake. For I express myself those 524 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 1: type of environments like you know, Um, but I tried 525 00:28:58,440 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 1: my best. You know, I tried my best, and I 526 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,760 Speaker 1: think at the end of the day, like my um 527 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 1: how I felt came out clear enough for Michelle to 528 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:11,640 Speaker 1: understand in that moment exactly where I was. Um, you know, 529 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: I think I think Michelle knows now you know that 530 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 1: we left that bubble that I'm much better at expressing 531 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 1: myself when there isn't a lot of weird things going on, 532 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 1: and there isn't play and smoke being blown in your 533 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 1: face and the shaman and twenty people watching behind the cameras. Yes, 534 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 1: I think, Um, when I have time to fully understand, 535 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:42,600 Speaker 1: like or fully get how I feel inside down on 536 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 1: a piece of paper, Um, that's where I really shine. 537 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 1: Because if it's just right there in the moment and 538 00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: there's everything's going on and you want to tell you 539 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 1: like you know, like hey, how do how exactly do 540 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 1: you feel about this? It's like okay, like let me 541 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 1: like have some time to really like I don't want 542 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,920 Speaker 1: to misspeak, you know what I mean? So like one 543 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 1: thing that I do, it really enjoys like letting Michelle 544 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,240 Speaker 1: know all the time how I feel so I am 545 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 1: like a love letter type individual, right. Michelle has received 546 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 1: a few of those, and I think it's just a testament. 547 00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:13,000 Speaker 1: It's like people feel comfortable in different settings, and by 548 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 1: no means is having cameras in your face, catching every conversation, 549 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 1: every kiss easy. And that's why I mean, I will 550 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 1: say that you did have the best person by your 551 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:25,800 Speaker 1: side in Michelle to kind of pull that out of you. 552 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 1: But now now is the time, like now is where 553 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 1: your story actually begins as a couple and you can 554 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 1: and I'm sure you've already done this in your happy 555 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 1: couple weekends when you spend time together. Is now this 556 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 1: is when you can really have those conversations away from 557 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 1: everyone else, the things that are important to both of 558 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: you to ask to answer. And I trust both of 559 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 1: you and I know that you've probably gotten there, and 560 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 1: you'll have so much more time now to be able 561 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 1: to feel comfortable and open up in those safe spaces 562 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 1: away from all of our prying eyes and ears. Exactly. 563 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 1: I mean the first time that Michelle and I said 564 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 1: that we loved each other, that we were falling in 565 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,440 Speaker 1: love with each other, that we were falling for each other, 566 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 1: we did all that the best we could to be 567 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,280 Speaker 1: off camera, you know, like we I remember the first 568 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 1: time I told her that I loved her, there was 569 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: like a lot of noise going on and the camera 570 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 1: wasn't pointed at us. So I was like, this is 571 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 1: a perfect opportunity, Like I told her, like, I do 572 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 1: not want the first time I tell you this to 573 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 1: be shared with anybody but you. I don't need America 574 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,200 Speaker 1: to see me saying this for the first time. So 575 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,680 Speaker 1: like there's there's so much stuff going on in the background, 576 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 1: and I noticed that there's no camera on us. I 577 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 1: was like, I need you to know that I genuinely 578 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 1: love you. Obviously, I know that this is a television 579 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 1: show and it is for entertainment, but like, my feelings 580 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 1: aren't entertainment. My feelings aren't just this thing for people 581 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,000 Speaker 1: to watch, right, So that's why it was really important 582 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 1: for me that every single like the first time that 583 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,720 Speaker 1: Michelle hears me say I love you, and the first 584 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 1: time that Michelle's hears that I'm falling in love with you, 585 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 1: I want that to be between you and me only 586 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 1: like the very first time, the second, third, thousand times. Sure, 587 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,280 Speaker 1: let the rest of the world that, but the first time, 588 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:02,920 Speaker 1: I only want you to hear that, you know what 589 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 1: I mean. So like that's when I would like wait 590 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 1: to wait for that small little moment where there's not 591 00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 1: a camera on us and that there's a lot of 592 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 1: people talking in between, like what we're doing, activities on 593 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:14,000 Speaker 1: on on different dates and whatnot for me to like 594 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 1: say like teller, like I just want you to hear this, 595 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 1: and like this is the first time I'm telling you 596 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 1: this time I generally love you or I'm genuinely falling 597 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,479 Speaker 1: in love with you, because that's not that's not anybody 598 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 1: else else's business. For the first time I say something 599 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,280 Speaker 1: like that, that's for me and you you know, so um, 600 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 1: and it was just like it was first Yes it 601 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 1: was the first time you're saying it to me, but 602 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,080 Speaker 1: it was the first time you're saying it. Yeah, you know, 603 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:38,280 Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah. I hope hopefully that's you know, doesn't 604 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 1: come across weird or anything like that. But like I 605 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 1: know that this this is for entertainment, but like to 606 00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 1: a certain point, like this this is so my feelings, 607 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,320 Speaker 1: Like this is somebody that wants to the rest of 608 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,280 Speaker 1: my life with and I don't need that to be 609 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 1: people's entertainment. I need that to be for you and 610 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 1: I you know, I respect that. I think the hell 611 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 1: about that so much, and I want you, I want 612 00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,720 Speaker 1: you to hold on to that as I feel like 613 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,840 Speaker 1: as much as it's exciting and it's so fun to 614 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 1: share it with everyone and we all are rooting for you, 615 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:07,800 Speaker 1: we all want to like kind of like, you know, 616 00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 1: put our advice to help everybody like flourish in the 617 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:15,720 Speaker 1: situation like it's between you two, and I just really 618 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 1: want you guys to remember that and hold on to 619 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 1: that because it gets loud. It gets real damn loud, 620 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,520 Speaker 1: but at the same time, like it's just like when you're, well, 621 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a dignity. I was gonna say 622 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 1: it's when you're playing a basketball game, but but it 623 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 1: just gets really loud in the stands and you're like 624 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 1: there's so much like noise going on. But you have 625 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:39,800 Speaker 1: to be like centered in yourself and like talk, you 626 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:41,560 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like give yourself a pump up, 627 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 1: and you two need to just have these conversations behind 628 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 1: closed doors and remember what you fell in love with 629 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:53,280 Speaker 1: and why you guys are together, and that'll make all 630 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 1: of this, all of this so much more worth it 631 00:33:56,600 --> 00:34:00,480 Speaker 1: and so many more happy memories. Like it's just that's 632 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 1: what this is all about, not all of our little opinions, 633 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 1: you know, obviously, you know, we want to include people 634 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:08,960 Speaker 1: and we want you know, like it is. It is 635 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 1: this amazing thing to be able to to showcase like 636 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:16,279 Speaker 1: these relationships and falling in love and yeah, but it 637 00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 1: is really nice to have that private moment and I 638 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 1: think Nate and I will definitely continue to do that 639 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 1: where there's a moment that we have to step back 640 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:25,920 Speaker 1: and be like, okay, like let's just be humans together. 641 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,680 Speaker 1: And they kind of explain it as there are times 642 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,200 Speaker 1: where you do you do feel like you're in like 643 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:34,720 Speaker 1: a zoo exhibit where everybody's constantly, like you know, watching 644 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,800 Speaker 1: everything you're doing and wanting to take pictures and they 645 00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,759 Speaker 1: forget that you're human. And in that moment when Nate 646 00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,759 Speaker 1: was able to do that, it was like, I, you know, 647 00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 1: I was a bachelorette and there's a lot that comes 648 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:49,200 Speaker 1: with that, but to be able to have that private 649 00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:53,080 Speaker 1: moment was actually just really special for me. It's always 650 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 1: a good thing to set boundaries and if there's any 651 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 1: advice that we could give you at this point in time, 652 00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:02,120 Speaker 1: it's okay to step aside and not be in this 653 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:06,200 Speaker 1: quote unquote bachelorette and contestant role, Like you will need 654 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 1: to say no to people at times. You will need to, 655 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,440 Speaker 1: you know, have your private moments when you're still in 656 00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 1: public and just focus on the two of you, And 657 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 1: that's totally okay. One thing, and this is actually something 658 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:18,799 Speaker 1: that he should touched on a couple of weeks ago 659 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 1: with Rodney and your final four. But you two have 660 00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:26,920 Speaker 1: made history within this franchise and it's such an incredible 661 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:30,320 Speaker 1: moment for you too, because you truly are the first 662 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:34,160 Speaker 1: couple of color to come from the Bachelor or the Bachelorrette. 663 00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:36,920 Speaker 1: And so how does that feel for both of you? 664 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 1: It's about time, Yeah, I mean it is a very 665 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:49,240 Speaker 1: cool thing for that to be to be shown. And 666 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 1: I think with that is just I mean, Nate and 667 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:57,200 Speaker 1: I have have always been like goal setter. As we 668 00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,760 Speaker 1: talked about that, I have always been a goal setter 669 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:03,200 Speaker 1: um when he's when he came in and our conversations 670 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 1: that we had, like we definitely really align with that um. 671 00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 1: And so it's been cool to be a part of 672 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 1: this experience intimate history in this way, um, but yeah, 673 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,719 Speaker 1: it's it's just kind of a trampoline for us with 674 00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:20,399 Speaker 1: all we're gonna do night. No, I agree back maybe, 675 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:27,000 Speaker 1: Hey Nate, Michelle, one thing you've said since the beginning 676 00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:30,479 Speaker 1: is you want to change the world, and I think 677 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 1: so many, especially young younger people, younger I don't want 678 00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 1: to say kids, but just the younger generation watching this 679 00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 1: can now see you two and this this successful love 680 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 1: story from the franchise and the first time that this 681 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 1: has happened on a batcherette season, and it's so incredible 682 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 1: and you know, taking it back to Rachel Lindsay season, 683 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,279 Speaker 1: this is why she signed up to be the Bachelorette 684 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,279 Speaker 1: years ago, is because she hoped she would pave the 685 00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:02,440 Speaker 1: way for young women and men people of color to 686 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,959 Speaker 1: join the franchise and to you know, depict these real 687 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 1: life love stories. And I think that's so important. So 688 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:11,080 Speaker 1: this is just a small baby step in how I'm 689 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,040 Speaker 1: sure you both will change the world. But I can't 690 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:16,279 Speaker 1: wait to see you too do it together. One thing 691 00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:20,800 Speaker 1: I want to say before aletatia aside question is just you. 692 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 1: You seem so up and this is a compliment. You 693 00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,799 Speaker 1: seem so calm and just grounded with each other. It's 694 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,799 Speaker 1: of course such an exciting time for you both, but 695 00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 1: you both just have this content I would say, ease 696 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:38,319 Speaker 1: with one another. That's really great to see. I mean, 697 00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:42,279 Speaker 1: don't let this flu you. But no, it comes down 698 00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:44,080 Speaker 1: to what it really did. Like this, there's a lot 699 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,200 Speaker 1: to deal with, there's a lot to navigate through, and 700 00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 1: it's like we both have our moments where we like 701 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 1: where he struggles, where I struggle, and then we both 702 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:56,080 Speaker 1: struggle at the same time, and then we figure out 703 00:37:56,080 --> 00:38:00,480 Speaker 1: a way through it. Um. But definitely I use planes. 704 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:03,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean we literally, uh like how we 705 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 1: spent our time during the Fantasy Suits the overnights, was 706 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,760 Speaker 1: sitting criss cross album sauce in bed and just talked 707 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,759 Speaker 1: for like five six seven hours, like just not so 708 00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 1: talk like super aggies, like we're just kicking. I just 709 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:18,520 Speaker 1: had a good time. Um. And that that definitely is 710 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,839 Speaker 1: a good way to sum up how I feel when 711 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:22,880 Speaker 1: I am with Michelle is just you know, I'm just 712 00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:24,799 Speaker 1: I'm just with my person. You know, I'm just with 713 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:30,719 Speaker 1: my first time uncomfortable. We're just your guys are giving 714 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 1: me the chills over No. I mean, I have to 715 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:39,640 Speaker 1: say at least you guys have you know, started the 716 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,080 Speaker 1: relationship off with the firm foundation that you guys know 717 00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 1: that you love each other. So that's all that matters. 718 00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,920 Speaker 1: But how are you going to spend the holidays? I 719 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,320 Speaker 1: want to know you guys are making your memories. Christmas 720 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,040 Speaker 1: is coming up, New Year's is coming up. Nate, you 721 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:56,160 Speaker 1: better get some mistletoe. You got a cute girl to kids, 722 00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,360 Speaker 1: and Michelle's gold probably to jump up there and get you. 723 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 1: But how are you guys gonna sit in the holidays? Um? 724 00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:08,359 Speaker 1: Our family, So we'll be with my family to start off, 725 00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:12,959 Speaker 1: and then we'll be driving into Winnipeg to visit his dad, 726 00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 1: his sisters to mean I for the first time. I'm 727 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:21,040 Speaker 1: so excited. Get ready for the waterworks. Oh my gosh. Well, 728 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,359 Speaker 1: and then his mom Charles are going to come back 729 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 1: to Minnesota spend some time with both Nate and I 730 00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,240 Speaker 1: and my family. So we're gonna bring the families together, 731 00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:33,080 Speaker 1: uh yeah, yeah, you know, and then next Christmas it 732 00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,840 Speaker 1: will definitely I can see all this being together in 733 00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:39,560 Speaker 1: the same room. This year, with travel and with COVID 734 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,120 Speaker 1: and everything, we definitely have to you know, travel to 735 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:47,839 Speaker 1: see you know, families in different areas. But yeah, I'm 736 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:49,360 Speaker 1: just I'm happy that we are going to get some 737 00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:52,960 Speaker 1: time with both of our families together. Okay, driving distance 738 00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,279 Speaker 1: isn't bad. That's that's amazing actually that you guys are 739 00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:57,759 Speaker 1: able to do that. Seriously, it really all worked out 740 00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:02,279 Speaker 1: for the best. Really, didn't you another like pro to 741 00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:04,560 Speaker 1: to moving to Minnesota? It really is just a seven 742 00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:08,840 Speaker 1: hour drive, you know, quick one hour flight, you got it. 743 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 1: So I hate to be this person. I remember cringing 744 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,560 Speaker 1: every time I was asked this, right when I was 745 00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:18,560 Speaker 1: newly engaged in don't do it. I have to I 746 00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:20,799 Speaker 1: have to do I have to be the first person 747 00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,800 Speaker 1: to ask this for anyone else, because they are a 748 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:32,280 Speaker 1: first interview any wedding plans, any dates, any ideas anything. 749 00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 1: Told me later, Yeah, summertime, um, and we are going 750 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,840 Speaker 1: to leave it at that summertime. Just okay, but in 751 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:46,040 Speaker 1: the next year. Hey, this is more than most couples 752 00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:48,560 Speaker 1: of every day know and give us. So this is good, 753 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,279 Speaker 1: this is gold. This is what I wanted. Absolutely told 754 00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:54,040 Speaker 1: me later for asking that again. He was a person like, 755 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,959 Speaker 1: so when do you want to start talking about dates? 756 00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 1: I was like, all right, keeper, Nate, you are just 757 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 1: I'm very proud of you. I am too. I am too, Nate. 758 00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:08,759 Speaker 1: I will say last week on the podcast, I was 759 00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:12,839 Speaker 1: a little hesitant because of the whole you know, you've 760 00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,279 Speaker 1: never been in love before. But I am eating my 761 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 1: words now and again. I trust Michelle, and just seeing 762 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:22,040 Speaker 1: you too, talking with the both of you together just 763 00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:25,680 Speaker 1: reassures me. And it just this is such a good period. 764 00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,880 Speaker 1: I get it now. It totally fits, and I'm so 765 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:31,440 Speaker 1: happy for you both. Many double dates to come. I'm 766 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,680 Speaker 1: gonna say that, I'm going to manifest that now. Wait, 767 00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:37,000 Speaker 1: I want to say, Wheel, that's so rude. I'm here, 768 00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:40,840 Speaker 1: I don't. Well, we will, we will triple date. We 769 00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:46,600 Speaker 1: will find a nice Minnesotan man for you. But listen, 770 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:53,719 Speaker 1: I just okay, we'll we'll talk about so aside from 771 00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:56,359 Speaker 1: all of that, you know, before we start getting into 772 00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:58,480 Speaker 1: the game and have some fun with you both. Um, 773 00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:00,880 Speaker 1: I want to ask you what the rose and thorn 774 00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:05,080 Speaker 1: of this entire experience was for each of you. Who 775 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:11,279 Speaker 1: wants to go first? Okay, my rose would definitely have 776 00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 1: to be meeting a person that I had no idea 777 00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:21,040 Speaker 1: that any like man like him existed when like but 778 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 1: when it really though when it comes to like intellectual setting, 779 00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:29,440 Speaker 1: just supporting and how do you want, you know, your 780 00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,640 Speaker 1: partner to be in a relationship. But then also like 781 00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:35,359 Speaker 1: showing me all these new things that I've truly come 782 00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,560 Speaker 1: to like love and enjoy. So I feel like he 783 00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:41,960 Speaker 1: just takes me as I am, you know, whether I mean, 784 00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:43,799 Speaker 1: I had this really bad habit of like getting out 785 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:48,280 Speaker 1: of the shower without drying off. The whole bathroom is soaked, 786 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,719 Speaker 1: and to the point where like he slipped before, my 787 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 1: mom has slipped, Like I've gotten grounded for it in 788 00:42:54,040 --> 00:43:01,640 Speaker 1: the past because it's been like thing to do and 789 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:05,080 Speaker 1: I have places to be, Okay, so I get out 790 00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:07,880 Speaker 1: and I you know, I've noticed, like he's like, you 791 00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,719 Speaker 1: get the like why is the bathroom always soaked? And 792 00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:12,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm sorry, Like I'll work on it. I 793 00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:13,800 Speaker 1: know that I've made a lot of people mad with it, 794 00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:15,680 Speaker 1: and he's like no, no, no, He's like, leave it. 795 00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:17,759 Speaker 1: I love it because it's your flaw, and I just 796 00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,200 Speaker 1: love it. It's because because you do it. So he 797 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:23,319 Speaker 1: just he truly accepts me. And that's that's my rose 798 00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:28,480 Speaker 1: m my Thorn would probably have to be just like 799 00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:33,879 Speaker 1: honestly just navigating through all of this, all these different things, 800 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:36,200 Speaker 1: and so many of the moments you know, where you 801 00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,960 Speaker 1: really do fall in love and with everything how the 802 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,200 Speaker 1: edit goes, and it's not like obviously all of that 803 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:45,000 Speaker 1: isn't shown or can't be shown or wasn't shown. And 804 00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:48,080 Speaker 1: so I think that was the hardest part at times, 805 00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:52,200 Speaker 1: is because you know, but those are memories for us. 806 00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,880 Speaker 1: For me, I would have to say the rose is 807 00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:00,759 Speaker 1: I mean one hundred percent just falling for the first time, 808 00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:05,600 Speaker 1: really really being able to um experience what this is like, 809 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 1: and and and feeling just like just so lucky, right, 810 00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:13,200 Speaker 1: Like I don't I truly feel like I felt the person. 811 00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:15,680 Speaker 1: I wow, I truly feel like I've met the person 812 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,080 Speaker 1: for me. Um. And I'm seven years old, you know, 813 00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:19,520 Speaker 1: I got the rest of my life to really like 814 00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:23,040 Speaker 1: just continue having this this once in a lifetime type 815 00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:26,440 Speaker 1: of experience type of love. UM. And I'm you know, 816 00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:30,239 Speaker 1: it's just it really is beautiful, right, it really is beautiful. UM. 817 00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,880 Speaker 1: So I'm really happy about that. UM. And then for 818 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:37,040 Speaker 1: the Thorn, UM, I mean, it has it has been difficult. 819 00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:39,439 Speaker 1: I was just kind of watching this season play back, 820 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,640 Speaker 1: UM and and and at the end of the day. 821 00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,759 Speaker 1: I understand that that this is a television show for entertainment, 822 00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:50,320 Speaker 1: and that, um, you know, people have like this, this 823 00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:52,440 Speaker 1: is people's jobs right to edit the show and tell 824 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,279 Speaker 1: the story that they wanted that they want to tell. 825 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:56,839 Speaker 1: So that that was a little frustrating at times. Um. 826 00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,839 Speaker 1: And and to be questioned too, Um, it is never fun, 827 00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:02,720 Speaker 1: you know. I don't. I don't really like being questioned. 828 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:04,640 Speaker 1: I kind of kind of lead my life to make 829 00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:08,239 Speaker 1: sure that I don't get questions too too often, and 830 00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:10,400 Speaker 1: so it does kind of sucks to be questions so 831 00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:15,200 Speaker 1: um publicly. But hey, at the end of the day, 832 00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,840 Speaker 1: my rose, my rose, what was it, the rose in 833 00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:19,919 Speaker 1: the thorn? Yeah, my rose definitely out weighs my thorn. 834 00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,360 Speaker 1: So you know, I can't I can't be Um, I 835 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:25,160 Speaker 1: can't be disappointed for too long, right, I have Michelle, 836 00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,800 Speaker 1: So I'm not. I was just gonna say at the 837 00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:31,280 Speaker 1: end of the day, like, if you guys have anything, 838 00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:34,560 Speaker 1: you guys just you have you found true love and 839 00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:37,880 Speaker 1: like at aside from all of that, I feel like 840 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,000 Speaker 1: it is really difficult. It's really difficult to put yourself 841 00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:42,840 Speaker 1: out there. Um. Michelle and I even talked about it, 842 00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:47,040 Speaker 1: like definitely going to it wholeheartedly, like challenge yourself, make 843 00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:48,480 Speaker 1: sure you feel all the feels about the end of 844 00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,239 Speaker 1: the day, like she knows that she want to do 845 00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:54,440 Speaker 1: and you wanted her and that's all you guys need. 846 00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:58,680 Speaker 1: So it's difficult, Believe me, I understand that I have 847 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:02,640 Speaker 1: definitely been there, and that's what I was trying to 848 00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:05,560 Speaker 1: tell you guys earlier. It doesn't necessarily get easier with 849 00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,560 Speaker 1: all of the noise, but that's why you guys have 850 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 1: to keep yourself grounded and with each other and really 851 00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:14,160 Speaker 1: just keep relying on each other. You have all of us, 852 00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:16,920 Speaker 1: you have me, you have all the other bachelorettes to 853 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:20,040 Speaker 1: always come ask for help, and you've got this. You 854 00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:22,680 Speaker 1: absolutely do got this, and at the end of the day, 855 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:24,879 Speaker 1: this makes you ten times stronger. But when you get 856 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:26,600 Speaker 1: through all of this, you'll have all this look back 857 00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:28,560 Speaker 1: on and know that you guys freaking did it and 858 00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:32,239 Speaker 1: you're stronger than ever. So Roses and Thorn's hey, you 859 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,480 Speaker 1: gotta have them both. But I have to say, you 860 00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:38,000 Speaker 1: guys are such a beacon of light together. I think 861 00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:41,680 Speaker 1: you guys radiate positivity and I can absolutely see that 862 00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 1: you guys are going to be a power couple, a 863 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 1: force to be reckoned with. And I cannot wait to 864 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,919 Speaker 1: just watch and see what you guys do in life. 865 00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:50,919 Speaker 1: So I have a quick game for us all to play. 866 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,040 Speaker 1: I really want to put you guys to the Chestis 867 00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,680 Speaker 1: are gonna be very difficult, Okay, very difficult. I hope 868 00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,400 Speaker 1: you guys know each other very well. It's called the 869 00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:03,000 Speaker 1: newly engaged game? Are you do you? Okay? Who is 870 00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:10,520 Speaker 1: the funniest? Why do you know? Okay? I don't Okay, 871 00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, because I would say we sit and 872 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:16,239 Speaker 1: we are rolling laughing all the time. Okay, that's fair, 873 00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:24,399 Speaker 1: that's good. Yeah, okay, Well who is more romantic? Yeah? 874 00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:32,480 Speaker 1: It really? Yeah, Like I get flowers, scent like constantly 875 00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:37,920 Speaker 1: letters like little mid day check in love you text. 876 00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:43,279 Speaker 1: Um fiance has not texted him back until five pm 877 00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:48,520 Speaker 1: because she's trying and it's just just so chaotic and busy. 878 00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 1: So so yeah, yeah, he's more romantic. Actually, I love that. 879 00:47:53,719 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 1: More points for you. Um. Who is the loudest? For 880 00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:12,200 Speaker 1: black lettle baby kid, He's always you. He's singing a lot. 881 00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:16,240 Speaker 1: He's constantly singing I'm too but you can't tell because 882 00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:22,120 Speaker 1: you're singing still I think I know the answer to this. 883 00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:31,080 Speaker 1: But who is messier? I was actually gonna say that, 884 00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 1: which is so funny. I cleaned it up, but like 885 00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm constantly on the go, and so like I come 886 00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:46,879 Speaker 1: in he's, oh yeah, he like insanely clean. Like I'm 887 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:48,839 Speaker 1: a germophobe. I feel like, just a certain extent, I'm 888 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 1: in Stanley clean, but like I lose everything. So I 889 00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,680 Speaker 1: come into my clean room and I tear it up 890 00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:57,000 Speaker 1: just trying to find my car keys. I hear that, 891 00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:59,680 Speaker 1: I hear that. Okay, well we'll have to work on 892 00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 1: that one. Yeah. But see who is more likely to cook? Oh? 893 00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:09,080 Speaker 1: Definitely right here, no, no, now, Michelle alone wants to cook, 894 00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,960 Speaker 1: and I'd like to be in there. I'd like to 895 00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:14,640 Speaker 1: be cheffing up saying I love to chef up. And 896 00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,279 Speaker 1: I'm like, maybe I got it. I'm gonna let me 897 00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:18,360 Speaker 1: cook for me clean. You just sit there having me 898 00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,399 Speaker 1: as you know, let's watching a movie, listen to music, 899 00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:25,040 Speaker 1: listen to podcasts. I just you know. But she definitely 900 00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,759 Speaker 1: barges her way into the kitchen and tries to house 901 00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:34,000 Speaker 1: and whatnot, which is cool. It's nice. I'll get even. Okay, 902 00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,000 Speaker 1: what a shame she wants to make you dinner. But hey, 903 00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:39,160 Speaker 1: at the same time, it's not bad that he wants 904 00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:42,360 Speaker 1: to make you dinner. Catering to Michelle. You know, I 905 00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:46,040 Speaker 1: gotta man. So my mom like gets on, like, are 906 00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:49,400 Speaker 1: you like me? What's your favorite meal to make her? 907 00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:51,400 Speaker 1: And what's your favorite? Well, since you haven't, have you 908 00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:53,440 Speaker 1: made a meal for him? At least? Has he let 909 00:49:53,520 --> 00:50:03,480 Speaker 1: you no breakfast? Okay? Is he a good cook at least? Yeah? Yeah, 910 00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:08,160 Speaker 1: I feel like we both Yeah. But you know, like 911 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,399 Speaker 1: if you know she she's working, you know, she's dealing 912 00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:12,200 Speaker 1: with kids all day, Like, let me, let me take 913 00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:14,319 Speaker 1: care of it. I love that. I love that, let 914 00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,200 Speaker 1: me take care of it. Okay, So who is more 915 00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:20,880 Speaker 1: likely to do the dishes after cooking? If he cooks, 916 00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:24,040 Speaker 1: I do the dishes. If I cook, she does the dishes. Yeah. 917 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:26,600 Speaker 1: We love a compromise. I love that we are off 918 00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:29,479 Speaker 1: to a great start, Ladies and gentlemen. Who takes longer 919 00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:36,960 Speaker 1: to get ready me? Yeah? Okay, Hey girl, it takes 920 00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:38,520 Speaker 1: a little bit of work, but you don't need that 921 00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:43,160 Speaker 1: much work. You're gorgeous. Who is the better dancer? Yeah, 922 00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:49,520 Speaker 1: definitely Michell. Oh he's dancing though even on the sea, 923 00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:51,560 Speaker 1: Like I'm just kind of in my own little world. 924 00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:54,920 Speaker 1: I dance through the store, I dance through that. I'm 925 00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:57,239 Speaker 1: always she'll always ask you, and she's good at it. 926 00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:00,320 Speaker 1: Like I danced. You know it's not good, but I 927 00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:02,879 Speaker 1: like that. So you don't have rhythm? No, he does. 928 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:06,480 Speaker 1: He hold himself to a very high standards when he's 929 00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:08,520 Speaker 1: saying he can't dance, like like if you gave him 930 00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:10,200 Speaker 1: a dance er team, he would be able to do 931 00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:13,400 Speaker 1: it and make it not look awkward. Maybe and make 932 00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:17,919 Speaker 1: it not look awkward. That's really good. Okay, so you're good. Yeah, 933 00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:20,799 Speaker 1: so dancy the stars. Maybe we'll talk about it. Might 934 00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:26,040 Speaker 1: take a lot of work. Two rookies on the same team. 935 00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:31,400 Speaker 1: Let's go, that'd be amazing. Um, who has better taste 936 00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:36,279 Speaker 1: in music? Oh, we're really good. That's both. We both 937 00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:39,320 Speaker 1: have very similar taste. But I will say he is 938 00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:42,839 Speaker 1: the DJ because I love like everything. He just pulls 939 00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:44,759 Speaker 1: up any whatever song he pulls up. I'm like, oh, 940 00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:48,160 Speaker 1: this is news vibe. This is a vibe. Weally like 941 00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:50,520 Speaker 1: genuinely listen, Like you know when people are oh, what 942 00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:52,239 Speaker 1: do you listen to? Listen everything, they're like they really 943 00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:55,600 Speaker 1: listened to just like four genres like yeah, I literally 944 00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:57,919 Speaker 1: listen to everything. Yeah. I come home and he's listening 945 00:51:57,960 --> 00:51:59,800 Speaker 1: to eminem I come home and he's crying to it. 946 00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:07,919 Speaker 1: Have you cried to the adult out of me? That's 947 00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,920 Speaker 1: the next question. Okay, a few of those songs hit. 948 00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:14,800 Speaker 1: That was a great album. It's actually phenomenal. I listened 949 00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,160 Speaker 1: to it on the daily. I know every word. I 950 00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:20,279 Speaker 1: know every word. I was like, you go a dawn, 951 00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:22,920 Speaker 1: Let you let these below who was most likely to 952 00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:27,960 Speaker 1: steal the sheets? To what steal the sheets? See, we 953 00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:32,560 Speaker 1: don't have that issue. What happens? I get crowded and 954 00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,560 Speaker 1: next you know, I'm half my bodies off the bed. 955 00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:41,480 Speaker 1: He is a cuddle er. Let me tell I love it. 956 00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:43,920 Speaker 1: I love every second of it. But I was like, 957 00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:45,799 Speaker 1: you know, can I get like a little bit more room, 958 00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:50,400 Speaker 1: a little bit more to the last? Let me let 959 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:52,160 Speaker 1: me this. I have to wake her up. It'll be 960 00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,320 Speaker 1: like three am anything like, can I get like like 961 00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:56,839 Speaker 1: three more inches so left? Like I'm halfway up? Hey, 962 00:52:56,920 --> 00:53:01,840 Speaker 1: let me tell you this. It's all about spots. Picked 963 00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:05,919 Speaker 1: your spot wisely. If you you don't pick your spot 964 00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:08,480 Speaker 1: in the pick your spot in the middle, so that 965 00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,200 Speaker 1: when I talk to you, you're still in the middle 966 00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:13,680 Speaker 1: this man or like whether I'm in the bed or not. 967 00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:18,000 Speaker 1: You know, like, yeah, people sleep on their side, like 968 00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:19,520 Speaker 1: on the side of the bed, but like when nobody 969 00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:21,160 Speaker 1: else is in it, like I swear he likes to 970 00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:23,919 Speaker 1: like feel like adrenaline junkie, like halfway off the beds 971 00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:28,800 Speaker 1: still just like, oh my gosh, who is most likely 972 00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:33,840 Speaker 1: to plan an adventure? Both? Oh? Would you? I'm a planner. 973 00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:36,239 Speaker 1: I'm a huge pans a planner. I'll just find myself 974 00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:38,000 Speaker 1: I'm adventure and not knowing that I'm in the middle 975 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:39,880 Speaker 1: of adventure. Michelle will be the one who plants it 976 00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:43,320 Speaker 1: out for us, like top planning for like would you 977 00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:48,399 Speaker 1: plan like a spontaneous state adventure day? Oh? Yeah, yeah, 978 00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:50,359 Speaker 1: she would do it more often than that would Yeah 979 00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:57,280 Speaker 1: for sure. That's good. Well, guys, that's all the questions 980 00:53:57,360 --> 00:53:59,879 Speaker 1: I have for you. I mean, I feel like we've 981 00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,600 Speaker 1: really got to know y'all. This was so fun. Again. 982 00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,359 Speaker 1: I am so sorry for not being here last night, 983 00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,200 Speaker 1: but I think I got the better half. Honestly, I 984 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:08,480 Speaker 1: think this is exactly what I wanted to talk about 985 00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:09,880 Speaker 1: today and get to know you guys. A little bit more. 986 00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:12,440 Speaker 1: You guys look so happy and radiant. I'm so happy 987 00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:14,000 Speaker 1: you guys are able to be out in the open, 988 00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:16,640 Speaker 1: have so much fun for Christmas and for New Years. 989 00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:21,440 Speaker 1: Behave yourself, but have fun with your families and make 990 00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:26,520 Speaker 1: the most of it. You're free, well, thank you. I 991 00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:30,759 Speaker 1: we free well enjoy it you guys. We're wishing you 992 00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:34,960 Speaker 1: all the very best. Congratulations to the future mister and 993 00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:41,040 Speaker 1: missus Olukoya. Truthfully, I am just so incredibly happy for them. 994 00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:44,200 Speaker 1: They you could just feel it, you could feel it 995 00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,480 Speaker 1: through the screen that they are just so happy, and 996 00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:49,279 Speaker 1: I truthly think that they're a match me in heaven. 997 00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:52,280 Speaker 1: So thank you so much to all of our Bachelor 998 00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:55,640 Speaker 1: Happy our listeners for following with us this entire season. 999 00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:58,480 Speaker 1: Thank you so much to Michelle and Nate for being here, 1000 00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:03,239 Speaker 1: and thank you Michelle for being an incredible bachelorette to 1001 00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:05,719 Speaker 1: whom we all have actually looked up to. 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