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Speaker 1: Harry Styles one or two point seven Kiss FM. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: So fifty minutes of NonStop kiss music. I'm gonna ligne

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Speaker 1: that up. Also, we have some disney Land tickets for

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Speaker 1: you inside the fifty minutes of NonStop kiss music. So

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Speaker 1: Devon Franklin in the training Report. So he's a friend

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Speaker 1: of the show. We love him because he's always looking

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Speaker 1: at situations from like a thoughtful, growing perspective. And he

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Speaker 1: was on an episode of Red Table Talk and he

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Speaker 1: was shutting a little bit of insight into what happens

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Speaker 1: after you say I don't to a marriage. And I

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Speaker 1: found it to be a really great perspective because I

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Speaker 1: feel like oftentimes people are always being bitter and they're

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Speaker 1: like bash talking the other person or being immature about divorce,

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Speaker 1: when in reality, the most productive thing that you can

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Speaker 1: do is to really look in the mirror. He said.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes in relationships, it's very easy to say, oh, that

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Speaker 1: person is the problem. No, look in the mirror and

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Speaker 1: say what's my part in this and what can I

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Speaker 1: do to make change in myself? And I feel like

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Speaker 1: it's natural to obviously have feelings of anger bitterness when

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Speaker 1: things don't work out, but that is ultimately just going

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Speaker 1: to poison you from the inside out. And I think

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Speaker 1: it's such a great idea to look at like what

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Speaker 1: you attributed to the failure of a marriage, and like

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Speaker 1: make sure that you correct your side of things that

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Speaker 1: you don't bring that into your next relationship. And I

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Speaker 1: also thought it was an interesting perspective of like I don't.

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Speaker 1: When you start saying like I don't do I don't,

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Speaker 1: can you explain it? I don't part to me, because

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Speaker 1: when you get married, you say like I do, do

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Speaker 1: you solemnly swear to you know, in sickness and health

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Speaker 1: and that I do. I do. But there gets to

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Speaker 1: be a point when you say I don't, which means

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Speaker 1: it's over, or which means you're having trouble with the

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Speaker 1: I do, and you've turned it up to and I don't.

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Speaker 1: It means you're having trouble with the I do and

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Speaker 1: you don't wanna, you don't want to work for it

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Speaker 1: anywhere you say I don't. This is about when you

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Speaker 1: are out of a relationship, not taking what you did

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Speaker 1: wrong into the new one. Yeah, you know, when people

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Speaker 1: can go through divorce, oftentimes they're like trash talking the

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Speaker 1: other person, like um My ex husband is worse or

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Speaker 1: my ex wife was the worst person the world, instead

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Speaker 1: of taking yeah, it takes two to tango, like look

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Speaker 1: like yes, I think sometimes when people cheat, obviously they

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Speaker 1: ruin the relationship, like by their action, But what did

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Speaker 1: you contribute to that action is taking place? Do you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, it takes two to tango.

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Speaker 1: Every relationship takes two. So it's like looking in the

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Speaker 1: mirror and taking accountability for the things you may have

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Speaker 1: done wrong and then making sure you correct those for

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Speaker 1: your next questionship pretty easy for me usually I pretty

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Speaker 1: much know, but a lot of people don't. So if

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Speaker 1: someone cheated on you, as he's saying, look in the

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Speaker 1: mirror and say, why was I cheated on? I mean, look,

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Speaker 1: he's not. I don't know what happened in his relationship.

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Speaker 1: I was just saying that as like yeah, mhm, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And we talked to him about all this. I know.

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Speaker 1: You just never know what's going on with people, do

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Speaker 1: you know? You don't? So why did I miss that?

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Speaker 1: I thought he was talking about that. I didn't realize

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Speaker 1: it was him specific Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I know

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Speaker 1: he went through or he's I don't know if it's

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Speaker 1: you know there's all these legal things. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if the divorce is final, but um it definitely. The

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Speaker 1: news came out last year. Alright, fifteen minutes of Nonsop,

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