1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: I Put with Alexia Napola and Marissa Patton, an iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 1: Hi guys, it's been a while. Maricel and I are 3 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:11,480 Speaker 1: back in I Put Favored. 4 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 2: Hi, welcome back, Thanks for listening. 5 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,600 Speaker 1: We've really missed you, guys. I hope you've missed us 6 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 1: as much. 7 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 2: Of course they did, of course getting dms that people 8 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:22,119 Speaker 2: miss us. 9 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: Of course, been busy filming, yes, and there's so much 10 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:27,159 Speaker 1: to catch up on. 11 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:29,479 Speaker 2: Oh my god, we always have a lot to talk about. 12 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I feel like so much has happened 13 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: in our lives since our last episode of ipor Forward. 14 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, stuff happens on the daily. 15 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:41,919 Speaker 1: It's true. We would have to actually be getting on 16 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 1: our podcast every day to updates. 17 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 3: And you you might need to be institutionalized if you 18 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 3: listen to us daily because there's too much going on. 19 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: Let's talk about some of the things that have been 20 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: going on in our lives, because, as you all are aware, 21 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: we are filming our season seven of Real Housewives and 22 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: that keeps us pretty busy. And most recently we've gone 23 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,960 Speaker 1: on cast trips and we also did the Bravo fan Fest, 24 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: which was a lot of fun because it was finally 25 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: here in our city, finally getting some much time and respect, 26 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: and it was really cool to have Bravo fan. I mean, 27 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: it was a small version of the big Brabo fan 28 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 1: that we've gone to in Vegas and New York. 29 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 3: But hopefully it was a lot easier though when it's 30 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 3: in your own backyard and it. 31 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 1: Was different, well that is that is a big bark 32 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: and a big plus, but it was a very small 33 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,959 Speaker 1: dimension of what really Bravo cons about. But the fact 34 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: that we got to host it here in our city 35 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 1: and we're filming was really really cool. We love that 36 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: Auntie loves Miami. Well, Miami. 37 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 2: It's like the hottest city in the country. 38 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: Right. Who doesn't love Miami? Right? Everybody wants to be here. 39 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: Actually everything traffic is horrible. 40 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 3: Traffic's horrible, but everyone's moved here and it were just 41 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 3: like the hottest thing in the country. 42 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: We are, you know, and with that comes a lot 43 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: of good and a lot of bad. We have so 44 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: many new restaurants that I've opened up this year, I know, 45 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: like two hundred restaurants. It's crazy. I can't I feel 46 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: like that's the thing that everybody does nowadays, you know, 47 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:09,239 Speaker 1: I don't know so much about the clubs, but I 48 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: feel like everybody loves to go to like a good restaurant, 49 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,239 Speaker 1: have a nice meal, and then it's like the ambiance, 50 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:17,239 Speaker 1: and then you stay and you hang out, maybe there's 51 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: a DJ. So we're really enjoying that a lot, and 52 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: so is everybody else that wants to live here. 53 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:22,839 Speaker 2: Or entertain at home. 54 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 1: Well, you're really good at throwing parties, and I know 55 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 1: you love that. You recently had one that I couldn't 56 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: attend unfortunately. 57 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was very made, very sad. But all your 58 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 2: gifts are over there by the door, taking from my party. 59 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 3: I had a Christmas gifting luncheon and it was so 60 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 3: much fun, and yeah, some of the girls could come. 61 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 3: Only a few girls could come, and you weren't there, 62 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 3: which made me super sad. 63 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: I know. So don't think it's weird guys when you 64 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: don't see that I'm in Marysol's Christmas party when you're watching. 65 00:02:56,000 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 1: And because I was actually hosting something at the at 66 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: the Beauty Bar at Alexei and Frankie's, Frankie decided to 67 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: have a happy hour last minute at the Beauty Bar, 68 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 1: and Marisa had been planning this party for months now 69 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: because she plans with time and on very last minute. 70 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 2: And then my date switched and then my date became 71 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 2: your date, and then we couldn't go. 72 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: To each other's right, So then the girls had to 73 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: kind of like split up. But you guys will see that. 74 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: I don't know that we can talk so much about 75 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 1: the show whatever, but you know, for whatever reason, you 76 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: guys love that honestly, like you guys just want to 77 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 1: know everything about it. You know, It's so funny. 78 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 3: I was just talking about this with Alexia. Everyone keeps 79 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 3: trying to make us fight and we don't. We're not 80 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 3: going to do it. Like they're always trying to separate us, 81 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 3: you and me, and divide us and not have this 82 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 3: film together and push us with other people and try 83 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 3: and create a division between us. 84 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: But it ain't happening. It's not gonna happen. Not going 85 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 1: to happen. And you were speaking about that, you know, 86 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: we you know that we have like, well, a new 87 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: girl in the group and she's in your Housewives definitely show. 88 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: J and Andy actually finally announced her at the Bravo 89 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: FanFest and people like are asking us like around town, 90 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: like do you have any connection to her? Like before 91 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: the Housewives, and I mean me in particular. I when 92 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: when they started recasting the show for season four, I 93 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 1: had heard about her and her husband, and I didn't 94 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: know her personally, but I knew about her and I 95 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 1: always thought she would be a great addition, you know, 96 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 1: to the show. I felt like she had so much 97 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 1: to offer, you know, besides her lifestyle. You know, I 98 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: think that she's a very you know, smart girl. She's empowering, 99 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 1: and you know, I thought she was good. She's opinionated, 100 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: she's strong, she's a Latina. So I always like wanted 101 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: her to try her for season four. But we are 102 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 1: like three seasons later, season seven, she tried out and 103 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 1: she was selected, and we're very happy with that. 104 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 2: We are very happy with that selection. 105 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 1: But with that happening, you know, so well there's a 106 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 1: new girl in the group, right, so what happens, so 107 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 1: it shifts the whole dynamic of the group. But again, 108 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 1: I think that we kind of needed that shakeup. 109 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 2: We did, but it wasn't that bad of a It 110 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 2: wasn't too bad of a shakeup. 111 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 3: She kind of fitted, we can't, we can't, you guys, 112 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 3: we're not talking about it anymore, right, No, I mean. 113 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 1: We don't want to give too much away, nor can we, right, 114 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, like it's the reason why we're 115 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: sharing this is because it's public information already. When Andy 116 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: announced her, and we do get off that, well, what 117 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 1: was your connection? Well, you guys were going to have 118 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:37,040 Speaker 1: to see you know, I always knew about her Miami. 119 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 1: Even though it's such a big city and it's going 120 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 1: into such a big city, it's still like a tiny 121 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: circle of people, you know. And I love that she's 122 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 1: Latina and she's you know, she runs her company with 123 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: her husband, and I think like she has a lot 124 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: of things to share and good things, you know, to say, 125 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 1: she's been a good addition, and yeah, excited about that. 126 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 1: But you have to watch, yeah, and you guys don't 127 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: have to watch. 128 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, did you like it? 129 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 1: Okay, guys, So it's no secretcy. That's the thing. Like 130 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: these shows are so different because when we started doing 131 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 1: the show in twenty ten, there was no Instagram, there's 132 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: no social media. We would actually get in trouble for 133 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: sharing what we were filming. But nowadays they can't control that, 134 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: right because we live in this world that everything's on 135 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 1: like our phone and social media and even if we're 136 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 1: not there and we don't post something, somebody else will 137 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: do it. So it's no secret that we went to 138 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 1: save Yes Pain for one of our cast trips. 139 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 2: We had to sell cast trips. 140 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: We have, but I feel like that was the best one. 141 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: It was and by the way, where we're not going 142 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: to I was gonna say more. You see, that's why 143 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:45,479 Speaker 1: I can't talk about the housewives, because you know, I 144 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,720 Speaker 1: have like we can get a diary of the mouth, 145 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: and I talk too much and I just want to 146 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:52,720 Speaker 1: share everything with you guys, and I can't because I 147 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 1: want to get in trouble. But anyways, I just thought 148 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:56,119 Speaker 1: it was the most beautiful trip. 149 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 2: It was a good trip. 150 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: Thank you Marathon, don't think me. And anyways, it was 151 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 1: really beautiful. Thank you a breaker and one car Philippe. 152 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 2: Thank you King. 153 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: So it was really beautiful. You guys are gonna love 154 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: it because Sevilla is a very, very beautiful city in 155 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: the south of Spain, and that Lucilla. 156 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 3: We did spend a day wearing Flamenco outfits and it 157 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 3: was gorgeous. 158 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: It's very picture incredible. Was that. 159 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you feel it's it's. 160 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 1: First of all, it's a look that I've always looked on. 161 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: I lived in Spain. I actually got to go. It's 162 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 1: quite cool. So I had me with Seviano and I 163 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 1: don't know, I just think it's so beautiful and it's 164 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 1: so part of their culture and the dance. The dance 165 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 1: is so sexy. And we got to dance Seviana Flamenco 166 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: and and just hit the town and go to all 167 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: the good restaurants in in Sevilla, which they will always 168 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 1: remember us never. 169 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 3: They're never going to forget us in Sevilla, and the 170 00:07:57,440 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 3: audience isn't going to forget us once they watch that. 171 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 1: They were probably saying, these crazy Americans are coming to 172 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 1: our country and to our city. Well they didn't say that. 173 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 2: I didn't call the Cuban, that's for sure. 174 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: So I mean, I really feel like the audience is 175 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 1: going to be so pleased when they see that we 176 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 1: finally got like an incredible trip to Europe, which was 177 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: way over dubile that took forever. Yeah, and I love 178 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: that it was Spain because Spain is like for us Latinos, 179 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 1: like our mother country. And I lived in Madrid for 180 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: many years. My mother lived there for thirty years I 181 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: still visited frequently. My sister was born in Salamanca, Spain. 182 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: So I have such a dear place in my heart 183 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: that I was so happy that I got to share 184 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:43,439 Speaker 1: it with you girls, because it was really incredible. 185 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really awesome. Thanks bro, Thanks for sharing 186 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:47,199 Speaker 2: your country with us. 187 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's my country. 188 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 3: You know, my step son's going to go to college 189 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 3: in Spain now too, and I em for me too. 190 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: I'm so excited for him because he's gonna have such 191 00:08:58,240 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 1: a great time. 192 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 3: He's worked really hard to get good grades and he 193 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 3: made it into the school he wanted to. 194 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:04,679 Speaker 2: So next year he's gonna be living in Spain. I'm 195 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 2: gonna miss out. 196 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 1: We know, we need to go visit him. 197 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, you and I will go. 198 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: We has to work, you know, I feel like everybody's 199 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: figuring it out and everybody wants to move to Spain. 200 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 1: I should have listened to my mom. 201 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:19,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, we never listened to our mother. You know, 202 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 3: we'd been in a lot of different places, I mean, 203 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 3: a much different place. We'd listen to our mothers. But 204 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 3: I'm okay with where I am right now. 205 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 1: So yeah, so guys, so right after our trip, just 206 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 1: to Sevilla. Like if that wasn't enough, my friend over 207 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 1: here thought it was a great idea to go on 208 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:39,559 Speaker 1: a cruise with the girls. 209 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, listen, we got, you know, a personal invite from 210 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 3: Richard Branson. I'm like, who am I to say no 211 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 3: to Dick? 212 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Exactly? Well, thank you, thank 213 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 1: you for your connection. 214 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 2: Thanks Dick. 215 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: Actually, I feel like that was our best trip ever 216 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: because for me it wasn't like the whole experience. It's 217 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 1: for me. It was also like we had such a 218 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: good time and we did a great you know, the 219 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 1: girls just needed like we we had so much fun. 220 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: I feel like a cruise always brings like happy and joy. 221 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 1: It's like you you think of a cruise and you think, 222 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 1: like some were fun. You want to get wasted, you 223 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: want to drink, you want to dance, and there's so 224 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: much food. It's just like a whole party first thing, 225 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: right y, Like you go with that mentality like you're 226 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 1: gonna have fun. Like I don't know, maybe I'm wrong. 227 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 1: Has anybody had like a bad time at a cruise? 228 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: I feel like everybody unless you get sick, Well you 229 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 1: gotta go with fun people, right, Well actually did and 230 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 1: we did you know. I feel like all the girls 231 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: were ready for some fun. Yeah, and you guys will 232 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 1: get to see it. That was a good one. 233 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Alexia. 234 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 3: So last week was our puzzle and I didn't go 235 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 3: because I have PADTSD from when I used to throw 236 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 3: all those art bozzel events. 237 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 2: Like I can't even think about driving into that ship hole. 238 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 1: Sorry, oh my god, that disaster. Right, but you went, 239 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 1: how was it? No? I actually didn't. You didn't know. Well, 240 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 1: I was in the middle of it because before I'm 241 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 1: living right now. Yeah, so it was traffic insane. So 242 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 1: you know, we did go to one art party that 243 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 1: we all went to in the friend group, and then 244 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: after that, I just went to the girls for dinner 245 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 1: and we had to go like somewhere by there because 246 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 1: the traffic was so terrible. It takes you in two hours. 247 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 2: Miami traffic's bad enough you throwing our buzzle or a 248 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,719 Speaker 2: concert at the arena, or a basketball game or a 249 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 2: football game, and you cannot move. We need those flying cars. 250 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 1: Well, that would be scary, especially here in Miami. People 251 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: can't drive in a car flying card. I want one, 252 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:33,719 Speaker 1: like all these accidents got forbidding in the air. 253 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 2: Do you know what I saw today. I saw drones 254 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 2: dropping food off in people's yards. Have you seen the 255 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 2: drones that do food delivery? It's so cool, so cool. 256 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: I can imagine it could be really cool. Yeah. 257 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, wow, fascinating. We're really jumping into the future. 258 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 1: That's so scary. I'm not ready for that. 259 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 2: I am. 260 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 3: I'm ready for it, and I want to sit on 261 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 3: a drone and just be driven over the traffic in 262 00:11:59,160 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 3: the sky. 263 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 1: That's possible because it's ninety pounds, but like for other people, 264 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: I don't know that. Don't worry. 265 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 3: If it's gonna make money, they'll make it happen. That's 266 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:13,440 Speaker 3: you're own for heavy people to take them across town 267 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 3: and don't. 268 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 2: Just so so. But you also, aside from art Buzzle 269 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 2: and getting stuck in the traffic, you were recognized by 270 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 2: the Miami Herald as one of the six Miami based 271 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 2: taste makers. 272 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: How is that? Oh? That was fun. 273 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you. Very well deserved. 274 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 1: So yeah, I was in the art Bozzel special edition 275 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:36,439 Speaker 1: that they put in the Herald. 276 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 3: The Herald insert that's like, if let me tell you 277 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 3: guys something. I used to have a pr firm and 278 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 3: if I could get a client of mine in the 279 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 3: Miami Herald Art Bozzele insert was like the biggest coup 280 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 3: so for you to get in. 281 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: There, thank you, it was huge. Right. I guess my 282 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: hair is a piece of art because it was kind 283 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 1: of like my thing like this like my sexy thing, 284 00:12:57,520 --> 00:13:00,200 Speaker 1: like my beauty thing, and it's really my hair, you know. 285 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 1: I feel like my hair identifies me. Well if everybody 286 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 1: like the segment that I was in, it was like 287 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 1: what I was recognized for. And I feel like people 288 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: recognize me for like for many things, but in this case, 289 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,839 Speaker 1: it was about my blonde hair. Like I feel like 290 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 1: a lot of people don't want like my blonde color. 291 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: They want like my curls, they want like whatever they 292 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 1: want my hair. 293 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 2: I want your eyes. Your eyes are awesome. 294 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 1: Oh thank you. 295 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:28,840 Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you. Once that come out, it 296 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 2: already came out. Oh I tried it to come out. 297 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 2: That was last week. 298 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 1: Weeks the week right, and so it comes out right 299 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 1: before our boso because it's like the answert like what 300 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: to watch out for and like different things like that. 301 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 1: So yeah, I was sorry. 302 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:43,959 Speaker 2: I was all busy and we don't get the hair 303 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 2: out here. 304 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 1: Neither do I, but my friends did. Julia brought me 305 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: the even and Aina also saw it and she texted me. 306 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: So a lot of people, which, by the way, I 307 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 1: love the people still get a newspaper even though I 308 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: don't receive it. I still love for people to receive 309 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 1: I didn't go on my fingers and all over my shad. 310 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: You feel like that doesn't happen anymore because everything's so advanced. 311 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: I know back in the day I didn't like to 312 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 1: read the paper because of that, and then right after 313 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 1: I read it or touched it, I would make everybody 314 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 1: go and wash their hands who had touched it. But 315 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 1: with that being said, I still like appreciate that people 316 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 1: still get, you know, the paper at home and they 317 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 1: read it and and that's how I found out about it. 318 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 3: Actually, I can't remember the last time I saw a 319 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 3: paper in anyone's yard on this. 320 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: Street and does everything online. But again I still think 321 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: that I love the idea of receiving the paper be able. 322 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 1: Maybe I'll subscribe to it again because I used to 323 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: receive the newspaper too. 324 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 2: What did you do with Thanksgiving? 325 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 1: So that was before Boso. So I am doing things 326 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving because I actually loved that holiday. I never 327 00:14:57,080 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: actually cooked myself because I think that in my house 328 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 1: because we weren't American that way. You gotta let young no, no, no, 329 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: you loved an American Thanksgiving. But what I'm saying is 330 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: like my mother, like my grandmother, my family wasn't like 331 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: they didn't know how to do the turkey, you know, 332 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: like they wanted it, like it's hard to do good turkey, right, 333 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: So we never we always celebrated Thanksgiving. And by the way, 334 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 1: I love the American traditional Thanksgiving like I'm in a 335 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 1: mota like that day for me is American turkey. You know, 336 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 1: the corn bread, the stuffing, the cranberry, the mashed potatoes, 337 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 1: the green beans, the sweet potato with a marshmallow. You 338 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 1: love food. I love food, but I love good food, 339 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 1: and I love Thanksgiving and American Thanksgiving like I have 340 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 1: no patience for the people that is Thanksgiving and I 341 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: want to eat like boyd, I'm like, can't you wait 342 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 1: till like the twenty fourth or they want to eat 343 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 1: like hip but not on Thanksgiving. 344 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 3: Do you remember that time when we were in your 345 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 3: house we were filming Season one and made the pig, 346 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 3: and I love it. When I was eating all the 347 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 3: crunchy skin, and they were they were like room tone, 348 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 3: which means you're supposed to be silent. You can't make 349 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 3: any noise when production tells your room tone. That means 350 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 3: microphones are getting like. 351 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: Thank god, they don't die anymore, by the way, I know. 352 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 2: And all you can hear is me crunching. 353 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: And then we saw a bo and then we saw 354 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 1: like a hair because you know, the pig has like 355 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: those hairs, hair vibers, and you're stop chewing. I just 356 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 1: wanted you to stop because there was like a hair, 357 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 1: and it's like the pig's hair, you know. There It 358 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 1: was delicious though, I hair, But you know, I still 359 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 1: after all these years, I loved the American Thanksgiving, and 360 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 1: that's how I celebrated the American way. Like I don't 361 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: want to have white rice that day or pork or 362 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: black things. I'm more into that. What about you, I 363 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: did you cook anything? No? I didn't. 364 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 3: We went to the yacht club with Hunter and his 365 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 3: girlfriend and my other step son, Garrett was home sick, 366 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 3: and then we went Then they went to see her parents, 367 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 3: and then Steve and I went to see his parents 368 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:04,880 Speaker 3: and his sisters, and she. 369 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 1: Did more like. 370 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:12,440 Speaker 3: Turkey sandwich bar, but had all the sides. But then 371 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 3: it was like build your own sandwich type of it. 372 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was all sides and then build your own. 373 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 1: Yeah it was. 374 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 2: It was quite clever and it was a smart. 375 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:23,400 Speaker 1: Way to do it. I like that. I've never heard 376 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 1: of that. 377 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was good. I didn't have any of it, though. 378 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:31,879 Speaker 1: Would it look good? How you can every there and 379 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:34,200 Speaker 1: not eat anything? Because I wasn't. 380 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 2: Hungry and I can hear him go, So I'm like, 381 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 2: you I. 382 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 1: Do that, guys when I love the food, I'm like, 383 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:44,199 Speaker 1: it's just just like you hear it and taste it. 384 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 3: But when you take a sip of champagne or drink 385 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 3: and you're like, like. 386 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:53,400 Speaker 1: It tastes so good. So, speaking of that, I went 387 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving dinner because I wasn't doing it this year, 388 00:17:57,720 --> 00:17:59,360 Speaker 1: like you know, as a family, just like with Peter 389 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: obviously with Peter and his girlfriend and Frankie. So just 390 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 1: as four and we went to Prime one twelve and 391 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 1: it was spectacular. I mean, I feel like the steakhouses 392 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 1: that day we want to go out to dinner. That's 393 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:14,880 Speaker 1: another thing, you know, I've been seeing that. I don't 394 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 1: know if it's trending or not, because I don't really 395 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:19,680 Speaker 1: look at TikTok, but I can tell you Alexia is 396 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 1: saying that I feel like a lot of people are 397 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 1: going out to dinner for Thanksgiving and you know, just 398 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 1: not like cooking at home because there's so much work, 399 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 1: you know, and then all your guests just get there, 400 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:30,360 Speaker 1: eat and they get up and they go, and it's 401 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 1: really hard to find help that day. Also, right, oh, 402 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 1: nobody wants to work. So maybe since like or I'm 403 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:37,680 Speaker 1: living and stuff, it's very like touristy, so a lot 404 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 1: of people, you know, from out of town. So all 405 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 1: the restaurants were super full, Prime one twelve. The food 406 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 1: was incredible, the best sides, and then you could choose 407 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 1: whether like the turkey or like steak, but you know, 408 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:52,919 Speaker 1: we all chose turkey. It's funny by all of us 409 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 1: chose turkey. We like love the American turkey traditional Thanksgiving. 410 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 1: And then I run a tape and Jodie Lee's way 411 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:03,680 Speaker 1: with el and like our tables were write next to 412 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 1: each other. So that was that was fun, and that 413 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:08,639 Speaker 1: was like really sweet because you know that Lisa is 414 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: always so nice and sweet, and when she sees us, 415 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 1: you know, we're like so happy to see each other. Yeah, 416 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 1: and then we blew some candles for ell and our birthday. 417 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 1: She had just celebrated her birthday like a few weeks before, 418 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:23,959 Speaker 1: but not like with the cake and stuff like that. 419 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 1: So it was actually a really nice evening. And you know, 420 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: because it's like you say, you know, sometimes it's like 421 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,400 Speaker 1: your friends or like your family. Oh my god. Yeah, 422 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: so it was really nice. And she insisted for us 423 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 1: to your and you know, Peter and Frankie love you know, 424 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: we all like love each other and our kids. So 425 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 1: you Logan was in New York, so she was missing Logan, so, 426 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: you know, without even planning it, it turned out to 427 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 1: be like a really nice, you know, Thanksgiving. So what 428 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:56,159 Speaker 1: are you going to do for Christmas? Uh, I'm not 429 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: there yet. No, I'm not there yet. Christmas is a 430 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:05,199 Speaker 1: little bit more complicated for me. I feel like Christmas 431 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 1: has always been like really I love Christmas. It's like 432 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 1: my favorite holiday. But it's like bittersweet because it reminds 433 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 1: me like when I was growing up, like when my 434 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 1: parents were divorced. So it was like am I going 435 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:18,600 Speaker 1: with my dad? Am I going to stay with my mom. 436 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 2: So hard when your parents I'm any more. 437 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: Terrible, Like I would leave my mom, but I'll be 438 00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 1: with my dad. It was always like I was never happy. 439 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 1: You didn't get up. 440 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:29,399 Speaker 2: I don't yes the twenty fourth and. 441 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:32,439 Speaker 1: Mode, but it doesn't matter, Like even if I okay, 442 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 1: so if we celebrated the twenty fourth and I would 443 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 1: be with my mom, but then that would hurt my 444 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 1: dad's feelings. So then on the twenty fifth, I would 445 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,320 Speaker 1: be with my dad. So I feel like since I 446 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: grew up with that, like from a divorce, you know, 447 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 1: with divorce parents, and with that struggle, like I never 448 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,720 Speaker 1: allowed myself to be happy. Like to me, it was 449 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:52,639 Speaker 1: like I wanted it to get over it. I was 450 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 1: like I didn't even want to the holidays because I 451 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 1: knew it was always going to be a problem. And 452 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 1: when they were going to be fighting for us, they 453 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 1: both wanted to be with us. You're still carrying that 454 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 1: with you. Childhood trauma. That's a real thing, baby, And 455 00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:09,679 Speaker 1: you have your childhood traumas too. I do. I'm just 456 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 1: very open and I talk about them. Some people don't, 457 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 1: but for sure, that's a childhood trauma that has a 458 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 1: lot to do with why I don't like certain holidays. 459 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 1: And yeah, so for me, it's like I get excited 460 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: because I love Christmas because it's so beautiful, like the 461 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 1: meaning of. 462 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 3: It, significant presents and buying presents and giving presents and 463 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 3: getting presents. 464 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 1: It's beautiful. And it's also like and New Year's don't 465 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,359 Speaker 1: even get me started. I hate that day, like the 466 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: last day of the year. 467 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 2: Really, since when I always just about it. 468 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 1: I never saw what You've never asked me because you 469 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:48,240 Speaker 1: don't like to talk about those things. Like, no, I know, 470 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:52,400 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving doesn't bother me. Thanksgiving is a different thing, but Christmas, 471 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 1: I do feel like that. And and you know, and 472 00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: then New Year's for me, it's kind of like it's 473 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: a last day of the year. And then you start 474 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:06,440 Speaker 1: reflecting about all the year, you know, everything that you 475 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 1: you know, lived that year. It's like bittersweet. You're kind 476 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 1: of excited what's to come. You know. I'm always welcoming 477 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 1: and looking forward to the new year, and I'm always like, 478 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 1: it's going to be a great year, right. 479 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, everybody goes into it that way. Yeah, turning the page, 480 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:20,919 Speaker 3: starting fresh. 481 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 1: So but I to me, it's still it's like I 482 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,679 Speaker 1: think it's a day that's like overrated. Everybody wants it 483 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:30,199 Speaker 1: to be something that's true. It's always overrated. Yeah, and 484 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,399 Speaker 1: so I really don't look forward to it. Rather like 485 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 1: last year we went on a trip. We actually were Madrid, 486 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 1: trying to know our Madrid, and we had a great time. 487 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: We had a great time. Johnny was there, and I 488 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 1: feel like because I was on a trip from you, 489 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: it was more like a trip. It wasn't like it's 490 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,359 Speaker 1: the last day of the year and you're in your house. 491 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:50,879 Speaker 1: Like I really didn't have to make acai, you know, 492 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,200 Speaker 1: I didn't have to think about it. 493 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:56,120 Speaker 2: Well, these are quite interesting and new and peculiar things 494 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:56,680 Speaker 2: that happen. 495 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 1: You know, you're deep, my friend, You're very deep and 496 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,639 Speaker 1: quite to kill you. Well, no, I feel like a 497 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,679 Speaker 1: lot of people feel exactly like me, and you know no, 498 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:10,439 Speaker 1: and even like kids they came from divorce parents and 499 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: lived in you know, they they've they've gone through that. 500 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:14,680 Speaker 1: So it's like you don't want to hurt your mom 501 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: or your dad. If you go with your dad, then 502 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 1: oh my god, I feel bad for my mom. But 503 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 1: it's my mom gonna feel So I always felt I 504 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 1: was always like in the struggle. And again, I had 505 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 1: two very loving parents that adored us and they both 506 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,440 Speaker 1: wanted to be with us. And then you know, that's 507 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 1: that's the story. And I feel like a lot of 508 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,320 Speaker 1: parents and children, you know, go through those things. So 509 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 1: you know, just just be careful, you know, because again 510 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: you didn't know I had that childhood trauma. Yeah, and 511 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 1: you know, and I never really disgusted with my parents, 512 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 1: but I kind of like don't like Christmas because of that. 513 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 3: Oh my god, we need to like change this shit around. 514 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:53,440 Speaker 3: You need to enjoy Christmas. Christmas is such a lovely holiday. 515 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 1: No, I love it, Like I said, it's like bittersweet, 516 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 1: Like I love it to me, like the significance, the 517 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,879 Speaker 1: time of year, everything like you said, the presence, like 518 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 1: the decoration, the energy, like I love it. But if 519 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 1: you even read about it, there's a lot of depression 520 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 1: in this time of year. So it's a lot you 521 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 1: just want to be like, you go, hey, it's fun, 522 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:15,680 Speaker 1: it's so beautiful. You got to like it. Oh yeah, 523 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 1: that's all great, but you can't, you know. 524 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,119 Speaker 3: And I miss my parents at Christmas and spending with 525 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,760 Speaker 3: my brothers. They do their own thing because now my 526 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 3: parents aren't around. They always make sure we were always 527 00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 3: together for Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter. 528 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 2: But now my parents are gone and not forcing everyone together. 529 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 1: Everyone does their own thing. 530 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,200 Speaker 2: So I just spend an hour with Steve and his family, 531 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 2: and it's you know, there's always that boy, like, where's 532 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 2: my family? 533 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:42,639 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, of course, so absolutely so same. And you know, 534 00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 1: this year for me too, is going to be kind 535 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:50,120 Speaker 1: of strange as well, peculiar, like you like to call it, right, 536 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,399 Speaker 1: But I mean, anything can happen. I mean I'm always 537 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,719 Speaker 1: like open and happy and you know and whatever and 538 00:24:55,760 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 1: accepting of everything. But I just feel like Christmas is 539 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 1: a tough holiday, especially when you don't have your loved 540 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 1: ones here like her parents. Yeah, and you know, and yeah, 541 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 1: it's it's just hard. So what's your favorite part about 542 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 1: celebrating Christmas? 543 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:13,400 Speaker 2: Getting presents? 544 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:18,120 Speaker 1: I love getting I like that part. And Steve's a. 545 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 2: Really good gift giver. He puts so much start into 546 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,160 Speaker 2: every gift. Every even if it's a little thing. 547 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,560 Speaker 3: He'll have like twenty eight little presents and you know, 548 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 3: maybe one or two are like really big, and then 549 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,960 Speaker 3: everything else is super meaningful. He remembers all these things 550 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:37,199 Speaker 3: throughout the year. That all will have said or just 551 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 3: said that I like. 552 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 2: And then he remembers and he has it and I'm like. 553 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you remember that. 554 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, I listen to you. He's a good 555 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:46,680 Speaker 2: listener and he's a very good gift giver. 556 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 1: I love that. 557 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:48,199 Speaker 2: Yeah. 558 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: Apart from receiving presents, we also love to give gifts. 559 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 1: Yes we do. And we do an annual toy drive. 560 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 1: And I know this year in your Christmas party you 561 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 1: collected to so you were collected toys here. I was 562 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 1: collecting toys at the Beauty Bar and we're donating them 563 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:10,440 Speaker 1: to Voices for Children, which is an incredible organization here 564 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 1: in Miami. 565 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 2: For foster children, for foster care foster children. 566 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 1: And yes, we we love to give back, you know 567 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 1: as well always what Well, you definitely went all out 568 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:26,239 Speaker 1: for your decorations. Yeah, because why she has like two 569 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 1: Christmas trees. Well, I think you should even see one 570 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 1: back here right now, as soon as you walk into 571 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 1: her house, there's two beautiful Christmas trees. 572 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 2: I had fifteen Christmas trees on my property. 573 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: Like a winter wonderland. 574 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 3: Was it was beautiful for my I had a Christmas 575 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:47,679 Speaker 3: reset recharge after our puzzle, so reset and recharge for 576 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:53,439 Speaker 3: Christmas luncheon. So there was you know, ivs and facials 577 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,359 Speaker 3: and treatments and gifts. 578 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:58,160 Speaker 1: And any way we do Christmas parties in Miami. IVS. 579 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:03,160 Speaker 3: Listen, after our basle, everyone's like dead, You're like flattened out. 580 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,240 Speaker 3: You don't want to do anything. You can't go anywhere, 581 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,399 Speaker 3: and then you got to get your energy back for 582 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 3: Christmas and you don't want to get sick. So it 583 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 3: was like a like a recharge on health. It was 584 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 3: a health and wellness lunch and it was quite fun and. 585 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 2: Everyone wored pjs. 586 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,800 Speaker 3: And we had a beautiful lunch and you know, it 587 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,400 Speaker 3: was good, and we collected toys. 588 00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 2: It's a lot of fun. 589 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 3: And I always go over the top and I like, 590 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 3: I love a decor and themes and tabletop, Like I 591 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 3: just go bonkers with that stuff. 592 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 1: You're so good with that. I mean, I like it 593 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:34,880 Speaker 1: and I appreciate it, and I love that you love 594 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 1: to do that. I used to be better. But you 595 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,199 Speaker 1: have to have a lot of time, you know, I 596 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:43,520 Speaker 1: have like a guta have the liking for it, but 597 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 1: I just don't have the time. 598 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to have the time to sit and 599 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:50,920 Speaker 3: imagine and come up with the diis and the creativity. 600 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:54,000 Speaker 3: You definitely need some time. I make time because I 601 00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:55,879 Speaker 3: love doing it. You know, you make time for the 602 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 3: things you love. You go on your walks. I don't 603 00:27:58,520 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 3: go on walks because I don't make time. 604 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 1: But you make time for Yeah, I guess we do. 605 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,880 Speaker 1: And that's really like what you story for. You need 606 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,920 Speaker 1: to do the things that make you happy and bring 607 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:11,399 Speaker 1: you joy and bring you peace and comfort. And you know, 608 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:13,439 Speaker 1: but I just don't like to walk anywhere. Let's make 609 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 1: that clearer. I like to walk where I can see 610 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 1: the ocean, walking with purpose, talking with the purpose. It's 611 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 1: not so much like where I'm walking to. I like 612 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 1: to disconnect, but it needs to be like a pretty 613 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,720 Speaker 1: walk like I love the ocean. You know, I feel 614 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 1: like it gives me a lot of energy. And you know, 615 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 1: while I'm walking, you know, I'm praying and I'm envisioning 616 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 1: things and you know, so it's like therapeutic for me. Absolutely. 617 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:39,719 Speaker 1: So you know, I like it because it makes me 618 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 1: feel good. That's how I like to do it too. 619 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,720 Speaker 1: I got to see something beautiful if I go on 620 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 1: a walk. 621 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 3: If you see me on a walk, which you might 622 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 3: not ever, but if you do, know that I'm taking 623 00:28:50,920 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 3: in the nature and I'm manifesting. So at the end 624 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 3: of the year coming up, do you reflect on how 625 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 3: the year went? 626 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 1: Well. I feel like I'm reflecting constantly to right and 627 00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 1: thank you because my friends also make me reflect and 628 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:18,719 Speaker 1: I'm part of this friend group that I feel like 629 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 1: they're always making you self reflect and you know, I 630 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: feel like self reflection is a big part of growing 631 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,200 Speaker 1: and growth, and I've had a lot of growth this 632 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:32,880 Speaker 1: year personally in my own journey. Not because I wanted it, 633 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 1: but it was necessary and it's what like I had 634 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 1: to do, and I just think it's been really good 635 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 1: for me. You know, I think it's really good. Sometimes 636 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 1: you're the only person that can figure it out. 637 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:49,240 Speaker 3: You're always and the universe just hands your things whether 638 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 3: you want them or not. 639 00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 2: Because they want you to learn and figure things out, 640 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 2: and only you can figure to one. 641 00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 1: Me like I learned my lesson. Please, I know I 642 00:29:58,680 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 1: talked to the universe. 643 00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 2: I was like, yes, they have the universe has a 644 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 2: mind of tone. 645 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 1: It's not up to me, right, no, But you know, 646 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:12,959 Speaker 1: I feel like it's it's an important process. You know 647 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: that we all have to go through you know, sometimes 648 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 1: you have to go through pain, you know, to appreciate 649 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 1: pleasure and enjoy. And you know, I think that all 650 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 1: these life lessons just you know, make you stronger. So 651 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 1: I'm always self reflecting because I want to be better. 652 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: I want to be a better person. I'm always trying 653 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 1: to learn more about myself and learn about those that 654 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:38,440 Speaker 1: I love. So and I love a lot of people, 655 00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,120 Speaker 1: so I'm always. 656 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 2: Trying to so many there's only a handful. 657 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 1: But I mean it's like lettle money die. Like humans are, 658 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 1: they're difficult. You know, it's hard to you know, to 659 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,400 Speaker 1: kind of like people understand everyone and a lot of times, 660 00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 1: you know, we love people and we love difficult people, 661 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,959 Speaker 1: so we want to like understand them better because you 662 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,160 Speaker 1: don't want them in their life. You know. Fixing is 663 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: a big job and it's a big word. I don't 664 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:09,719 Speaker 1: think anybody fixes anybody. But I feel that you you know, 665 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 1: you could get better. You know you could get better, 666 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: and you can. Like I said, this entire year for 667 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 1: me has been about self reflection, about self awareness, about 668 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 1: just just thinking for everybody, what about for you? Like, 669 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 1: don't you think it's been a year about like relationships, 670 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 1: or maybe that's just my phone that listens to everything 671 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 1: I talk about I think, and everything I get is 672 00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 1: like about you know, self care, self love, relationships, and 673 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 1: and my awareness. 674 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,959 Speaker 3: That's what you're looking at. And when I was looking 675 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:46,080 Speaker 3: for help in that genre and that moment in my life, 676 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 3: that's what was coming up on my phone. 677 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 2: Now I'm just. 678 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 1: Okay, how do we turn it off? Okay, I already got. 679 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,239 Speaker 2: On, honey, I don't know. 680 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, phone, yeah, I done. 681 00:31:56,760 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 3: Mine shows me like cooking recipes and people was extreme 682 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 3: plastic surgery. 683 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 2: That's what I'm getting on my phone. People are doing 684 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 2: some weird shit to themselves. That's what I'm looking at. 685 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,080 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Well, we don't have time to talk 686 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 1: about Lindsay Lohan's transformation, because it's pretty good. I think 687 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 1: I'm going to book her doctor. She looks good. Well 688 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,840 Speaker 1: it's the same doctor. But she's very young. She's thirty eight. Well, 689 00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 1: I mean she has just super young. She shouldn't have 690 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 1: had any such jobay, but she in her case, she 691 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 1: started doing a lot of these people start doing a 692 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:29,560 Speaker 1: lot of things at a very young age, which we 693 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 1: didn't do. So of course she's thirty eight, but she 694 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 1: looked like she was fifty. 695 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 2: How about Donna Tella Johnna? 696 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 1: That's photoshop, isn't it? Because that I don't know, No 697 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 1: that I don't think that that's I think it's just photoshop. 698 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 1: In Lindsay's case, I think it's real. Just like Demi 699 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 1: Moore and Broad Pitt. I believe they all went to 700 00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 1: the same doctor. And we need to book them before 701 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 1: all like booked for the. 702 00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 2: Last ten years before his hands break. 703 00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 1: And what about you? Have you done any reflection this year? 704 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:01,680 Speaker 2: Not really, I'm feeling pretty good. 705 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 1: I hate you how hard it is to talk to her. 706 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 2: But I've reflected in the past on many things. It's 707 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 2: not a reflection here for me. It's like savoring living 708 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 2: in the moment. And I'm loving where I am right now. 709 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 2: You know, I'm not in a reflecting moment. I'm going 710 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:20,600 Speaker 2: to enjoying the moment. 711 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:24,719 Speaker 3: Cheers to that, and God bless hope I stay in 712 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 3: this moment because I don't want to go back to 713 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 3: those reflecting moments. 714 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 1: They're hard. I mean, they don't have to be painful 715 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,040 Speaker 1: like moments. You know, they could be a little bit 716 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 1: of everything. But I just feel like, unless we take 717 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,880 Speaker 1: that time and we self reflect, there's no growth, and 718 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,080 Speaker 1: we want to continue to grow in every aspect of 719 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 1: our life, you know, not only in our personal relationships, 720 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:50,080 Speaker 1: but you know, in our professional as a mother, as 721 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,800 Speaker 1: a daughter, you know, like just like in general, as 722 00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 1: a friend, you know, as a humanitarian, always so many things. 723 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 3: You know, I always want to be better and better 724 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 3: than I was. Yes, always, So yeah, you know that. 725 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:05,080 Speaker 3: I guess that's a form of self reflection. 726 00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know, I feel like the good thing 727 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:10,799 Speaker 1: about both of us is that we stay positive. So 728 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:14,600 Speaker 1: for the new year, for twenty twenty five, my mindset 729 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 1: is always positive, optimistic. Yep. I know God has a 730 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,800 Speaker 1: planned and I've always known that, and you know, whatever 731 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 1: it is, I'm ready for it. I'm accepting it, and 732 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:30,719 Speaker 1: I'm embracing it. And I'm just grateful because you know, we. 733 00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,719 Speaker 2: Got to be grateful every day every day we wake up, all. 734 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:38,359 Speaker 1: Is good health. All we need is good health so 735 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,319 Speaker 1: that I can be here around because I need to 736 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 1: take care of a lot of people. But yeah, you know, 737 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,799 Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm happy, you know, I'm happy where I 738 00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,319 Speaker 1: am today. Good, And it was like until I want 739 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 1: to be herry, Yeah, and I'm looking forward to twenty 740 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 1: twenty five too. 741 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 2: I'm very excited about twenty twenty five. I feel like 742 00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:58,600 Speaker 2: some good shit's gonna happen. 743 00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:02,120 Speaker 1: I feel like we say that every year, you know, I'm. 744 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:05,320 Speaker 2: Really like feeling like good vibes for twenty twenty five. 745 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 1: Good because you know what, it's been a hard year, 746 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,719 Speaker 1: not only for me, but for so many people. Yeah, 747 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:12,879 Speaker 1: for so many people. And I'm grateful. I'm not even 748 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,919 Speaker 1: complaining or like acting as a victim at all, because 749 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 1: I have a great life and I'm grateful as long 750 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:21,319 Speaker 1: as I have good health. Everything else is secondary and 751 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 1: I know that. But you know, I'm always gonna I'm 752 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,960 Speaker 1: always going to stay optimistic and positive. Like that's just hard. 753 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 1: That's something about you. 754 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:32,239 Speaker 3: I actually learned to be more positive and optimistic through you. 755 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,399 Speaker 3: You're always positive, You're always optimistic. 756 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:37,839 Speaker 1: Yay, bro. No, I mean it's the only way to live. 757 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:41,479 Speaker 1: I mean, like, life is hard. You know, life is hard, 758 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 1: and it's harder for some more than for others. Yeah, 759 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,799 Speaker 1: so the only thing you got is your spirit and 760 00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 1: you cannot let anybody break your spirit. 761 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 2: And hell no, don't let anyone break your spirit. 762 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 1: People, you know, we're gonna have bad days and that's okay. 763 00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,879 Speaker 1: And we're gonna go through shit and that's okay too, 764 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:01,920 Speaker 1: as long as we learn from it and not make 765 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 1: the same mistakes. But you know, we need to stay strong, 766 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:07,920 Speaker 1: and we need to stay grateful, and we need to 767 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 1: stay positive. 768 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,520 Speaker 2: Did you do you make Do you ever make resolutions 769 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,719 Speaker 2: for New Years? Or do you just skip that whole thing? 770 00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:17,319 Speaker 1: No, what I'm making resolutions are your long Like for me, 771 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:18,880 Speaker 1: it's not just like, oh, the end of the year, 772 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,239 Speaker 1: because I feel like a lot of people it's like 773 00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,799 Speaker 1: the end of the year and it's like, okay, let's 774 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 1: write our goals. Let's write the resolutions. I want to 775 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 1: work on this, that and the other. I feel like 776 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 1: I have I do this like month to month or 777 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 1: even weekly, you know, like I'll be driving I'll be like, Okay, 778 00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 1: I need to work on this this and not this week. 779 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,160 Speaker 1: You know, it's good to be prepared mentally and kind 780 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,879 Speaker 1: of have like a mental list saying, well, these were 781 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,840 Speaker 1: things that I did in twenty twenty four that I 782 00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:47,799 Speaker 1: really want to work on for me personally. But you know, 783 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 1: I feel like that resolutions too is like overrated. It's like, okay, 784 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:52,319 Speaker 1: it's like a way to like I'm going to write 785 00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,120 Speaker 1: this that you want to keep something, and it's the 786 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,560 Speaker 1: same stupidity like oh, I want to lose weight, I 787 00:36:56,600 --> 00:37:04,200 Speaker 1: want to work out, you know, you know, blah blah blah. Right, yeah, 788 00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,680 Speaker 1: well now with those impic I'm sure people don't even 789 00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 1: put that anymore. For me. Instead of resolutions, I like 790 00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 1: to use the word goals, like I like to like 791 00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 1: set goals for myself, and then what I do is 792 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 1: and actually I owe a lot of that to Todd 793 00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:21,200 Speaker 1: because Todd loves to do that as well, and so 794 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,239 Speaker 1: we would do it sometimes as a family. We did 795 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:26,719 Speaker 1: it a few times as a couple. And so what 796 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,720 Speaker 1: I like to do is do like general broad goals. 797 00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,319 Speaker 1: It's so funny because I would do them for like 798 00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,799 Speaker 1: Alexi and Frankie's beauty bar. Then I would do them 799 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,200 Speaker 1: for Alexia personally. Then I would do them like it's 800 00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,400 Speaker 1: my relationship, and then I would do them with my kids. 801 00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 1: Like what I want to call it a work. It's 802 00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,840 Speaker 1: a lot of work, baby, And think what it brings you, 803 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,880 Speaker 1: like self awareness, like it kind of like you connect 804 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,240 Speaker 1: and say, wow, these are like a lot of things, 805 00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,439 Speaker 1: but you know how gratifying it is to like sit 806 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,959 Speaker 1: there after and check everything off and say I did this, 807 00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:57,640 Speaker 1: I accomplish this. So this year, because I have a 808 00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 1: lot of things that I want to do with the 809 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,680 Speaker 1: beauty bar, I'm going to make those goals again. 810 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 2: Of course you are. 811 00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:04,520 Speaker 1: I'm going to make those goals again, especially a lot 812 00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:07,239 Speaker 1: of marketing things I want to do. So for the beauty. 813 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,640 Speaker 1: It's so funny because for me, for the business, it's 814 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:13,240 Speaker 1: always easier to check it off, and the personal it's harder. 815 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 3: It's harder well because sometimes personal depends on other people 816 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 3: and then you can't control that. 817 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:24,799 Speaker 1: And because I'm so exherented, like what's axpherenting, demanding, demanding. Yeah, 818 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:26,879 Speaker 1: like you know, with myself, I feel like I'm hard 819 00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:30,040 Speaker 1: on myself. So I'm like, okay, whatever, me too. Yeah. 820 00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:33,239 Speaker 1: So I'm like, it's just easier just to like hire 821 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,400 Speaker 1: a social media manager, hire three more girls, you know, 822 00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:38,839 Speaker 1: send us one to training for lashes, like for that, 823 00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,160 Speaker 1: Like I could get all that done like in a week. 824 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,360 Speaker 1: But then the other stuff that's kind of like ongoing, 825 00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 1: like about yourself and your life, that's that's a little 826 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,680 Speaker 1: bit more work. Listen, We're working progress. 827 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 2: Every damn day is a work in progress. 828 00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I think we're going to wrap it up, 829 00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:01,840 Speaker 3: and you know, we really want to wish everyone a 830 00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:08,839 Speaker 3: my Christmas, happy happy Holidays, Happy Holidays exactly, Happy New Year. 831 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:13,560 Speaker 3: And this is our last episode for this season, but 832 00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,920 Speaker 3: we'll be back at you in twenty twenty five. 833 00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:19,719 Speaker 1: Thank you for all of your love and support throughout 834 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:23,360 Speaker 1: the year. We've had so much fun connecting with you guys. 835 00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:27,160 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening to us, for all your love 836 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 1: and support. We can't wait to come back next year 837 00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 1: and keep on sharing our lives with you guys, and 838 00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:37,759 Speaker 1: our opinions and our big mouths, and we wish you 839 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:38,640 Speaker 1: only the best. 840 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:42,200 Speaker 2: We wish everyone the best in twenty twenty five. See 841 00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:43,000 Speaker 2: you next year. 842 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:48,240 Speaker 1: Bye, guys, I go follow on Thanks for listening. 843 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,920 Speaker 3: Follow us on Instagram at iPort Forward Podcast. 844 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:54,359 Speaker 1: Make sure to write us a review and leave us 845 00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 1: five stars at Taluelo a Stella Proxima