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Speaker 2: I just say that because you've had children before and

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Speaker 1: Sugarl Dre and the call and you.

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Speaker 3: Are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds.

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Speaker 1: Where's your mind speaks? Sober thought?

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Speaker 3: We got some guests, Saday, we got some guests today.

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm excited me too me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, because first of all, we have the bosses, all

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Speaker 1: And like I said, miss Ceo herself, Okay, we got baby,

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Speaker 3: And okay, let's talk about it because we got to

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Speaker 1: So let's talk about the book, y'all. What's what's team?

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Speaker 1: How did y'all decide that y'all wanted to write a book?

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Speaker 2: Like we didn't? I didn't want to. I just felt

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Speaker 3: Do y'all feel like that's a conflict sometimes, Like she'd

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Speaker 1: no they haven't. TikTok has it specifically set up where

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Speaker 1: and it's said like sixty thousand dollars. You'd be like, oh, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I think you like me? You want to take me

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my god, fuck me up

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Speaker 2: so bad. I called myself getting some hennessy. I pulled

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Speaker 2: the couch. I said, you know what, you are losing

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Speaker 1: Here we go? Now we know here we go together?

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Speaker 1: What happened? She goes to me. First of all, let's

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Speaker 1: I not if somebody don't answer their phone after four

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Speaker 1: o'clock or three o'clock, what you're thinking, I'm gonna think

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Speaker 1: you got a girlfriend or a boyfriend. She keeps saying that.

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Speaker 1: But for real, for real, I used to be addicted

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Speaker 2: But she, of course don't believe it.

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Speaker 1: Well that and if you invited somebody to leave from

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Speaker 1: come back from there? Yeah? I was a few times

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Speaker 1: I was scared to meet up with you, like I

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Speaker 2: You remember the time we met up at my homeboy

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Speaker 2: And I didn't want to smile, like I felt like

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Speaker 1: She's the most nurturing and human being I have ever

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Speaker 1: you know how we do. Yeah, but again she goes

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Speaker 2: We had been talking, okay, regardless to the one or

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Speaker 2: like three, four, five times. Because remember when you came

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Speaker 1: I know that's right.

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Speaker 1: But I had had a whole bunch of other bitches.

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Speaker 1: I had some cleaning up to do so much. But

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Speaker 1: that was no communication. But about telling you, there was

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Speaker 1: no You tell somebody that you could lose them. You

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Speaker 1: could Are they cover? Are they respected? Maybe they'll just

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Speaker 1: mushed it in her face and I said, I'm giving

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Speaker 1: you what it was like a month when she said,

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Speaker 1: you got out the car timeline right to know. I

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Speaker 1: don't need to know who went well or whatever. Just

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Speaker 1: get that ship if you interested, get rid of that ship,

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Speaker 1: and get rid of that ship in a reasonable amount

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna continue to entertain you, and I'm

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Speaker 2: That was after the fact that that was after you

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Speaker 2: had got a boyfriend. Let's let's read wine back because

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Speaker 2: when you said I'm ghosting you and stuff like that,

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Speaker 2: It's better off talking if you got if you got

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Speaker 2: six seven other people though, but you didn't know it

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Speaker 2: Then I didn't answer my phone got down to three.

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Speaker 2: Probably listen, No, it was a few happened whatever, beautiful.

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Speaker 2: So she went from six or seven down to three.

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Speaker 2: I look up. This bitch got a boyfriend. She's on Instagram.

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00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:40,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, wait a minute, are.

432
00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:42,320
Speaker 1: Y'all you was like in a public relationship. I'm like,

433
00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,920
Speaker 1: who is this nigga at in her house?

434
00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:46,760
Speaker 2: I see the back of this nigga head like, and

435
00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:49,000
Speaker 2: she all hugged up on this nigga at her house.

436
00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, wait a minute, bitch, you ain't even tell

437
00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:54,040
Speaker 2: me that she was moving on. At least tell me

438
00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:56,399
Speaker 2: you moving on because you're gone. Then I need to

439
00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:57,040
Speaker 2: clean up.

440
00:19:57,040 --> 00:20:01,040
Speaker 1: Get my Do you think it's fair for her to

441
00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:03,240
Speaker 1: think that I should have communicated that I was moving on,

442
00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 1: even though she didn't communicate that she was cleaning up,

443
00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,679
Speaker 1: nor did she answer when I flew to Atlanta.

444
00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:14,440
Speaker 4: So y'all just like abruptly stopped talking. It wasn't no conversation, y'all. Okay,

445
00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:17,960
Speaker 4: And I think it's not a right or wrong. You

446
00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:19,560
Speaker 4: did what was right for you, and you did what

447
00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:21,800
Speaker 4: was right for you because there was a communication. Because

448
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:22,520
Speaker 4: I'm the same way.

449
00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:24,200
Speaker 1: If you don't tell me that you love me and

450
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,320
Speaker 1: you want to be my man forever, I'm going to

451
00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:28,280
Speaker 1: get anot I'm gonna go get another one. Yeah, but

452
00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,800
Speaker 1: not fast. So that's the thing we were. We were,

453
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:33,359
Speaker 1: I mean, And if that's the thing, don't ask me

454
00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:36,639
Speaker 1: to fly to your motherfucking city like I could. We

455
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,600
Speaker 1: could be talking and discussing and playing whatever on the phone,

456
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:42,440
Speaker 1: but you want me to continuously fly to your city,

457
00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,639
Speaker 1: and you ignored it. This bitch flew everywhere.

458
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,679
Speaker 2: She acts like she was super broken, couldn't fly any

459
00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:49,600
Speaker 2: but she flew everywhere. She flew to get people's ship

460
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,119
Speaker 2: for miracle jobs. She was in Atlanta anyway, I did

461
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,639
Speaker 2: because when she link with me, she was linking with

462
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 2: other not other people to get promo.

463
00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:00,440
Speaker 1: No, she was coming here working anyway in Atlanta. No,

464
00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 1: but the she was now all right, I get the

465
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,320
Speaker 1: first the first time we had a Valentine's Day that

466
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:14,639
Speaker 1: we were not like we were just talking, not dating.

467
00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:20,920
Speaker 1: She posted like seven eight different flowers. Now you was

468
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,439
Speaker 1: picking me in the ones from you came from one

469
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:26,040
Speaker 1: eight hundred flowers. They were in a box. I hate

470
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,680
Speaker 1: one eight hundred flowers. They were in a box and

471
00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:31,840
Speaker 1: and and they could come on, you know. So first

472
00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 1: of all, my personal assistant got that, and after that happened,

473
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:39,680
Speaker 1: they bought her this venus at Floyd and name out

474
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 1: and I sent it to her job and did the

475
00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 1: whole entire thing. But I only said that today seven flowers.

476
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,439
Speaker 1: You doing something? No, like I can't you sit up?

477
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:54,440
Speaker 1: I love, I can't help it.

478
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 2: If people want to buy me flowers on Valentine's Day,

479
00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 2: that don't necessarily mean I'm doing nothing with them.

480
00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:01,680
Speaker 1: Were you talking about with those posts ons? No?

481
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 2: And they was just so pretty, like Ricky Smiley got

482
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:06,880
Speaker 2: me flowers, Jermaine dupre got me flowers.

483
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 1: I had quite.

484
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:12,480
Speaker 4: Ad you just put in hearts and saying because if

485
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:14,159
Speaker 4: you would have packed like thanks bro.

486
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:17,280
Speaker 1: No, I thought I posted it because they were so

487
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:21,200
Speaker 1: plentiful and there was so many. I was like, you

488
00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:24,200
Speaker 1: was being a little petty, But no, I wasn't that

489
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 1: that didn't come from them. Yes it did, as Ricky,

490
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:32,120
Speaker 1: you could ask all the people, Yes it did. We're

491
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 1: here now, boyfriend, boyfriend, got got got gone. So I

492
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:41,720
Speaker 1: stopped her page once she got a boyfriend. I was like, Damn,

493
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:42,399
Speaker 1: I fucked up.

494
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 2: I have lost what I really wanted. I have lost

495
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,200
Speaker 2: the thing that made me feel like I never felt before.

496
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 2: So I was like, fuck, what I was gonna do?

497
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 1: Humble?

498
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 2: So how did I come back together? I stalked that

499
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 2: page until that nigga was gone. I watched that page

500
00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:01,200
Speaker 2: every fucking day, like it's this nigga gone? And then

501
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 2: I scrolled down and see him.

502
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 1: Damn. Then I see him. I'm like, he ain't gone yet. Yeah.

503
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 2: So it took like maybe almost a year. Oh wow,

504
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:13,320
Speaker 2: that motherfucker. You what that motherfucker for? Like, it seemed

505
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:16,679
Speaker 2: like almost a year that I was like stalking your page.

506
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like, Damn, this motherfucker been

507
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 2: around forever. I know he gonna fuck up. I know

508
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 2: something gonna happen. So eventually, Lord knows, it took a

509
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,919
Speaker 2: long time. The nigga wasn't on the page, no more.

510
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 1: To the page. Come on a text her say how

511
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:37,639
Speaker 1: you doing? You all right? What you been up to?

512
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 1: And that's what I found out.

513
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 2: She blocked me because the nigga felt like, you know,

514
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 2: he read her page, her texts communicating he ain't like

515
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,440
Speaker 2: the you know, communication, so she blocked me. So I

516
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 2: found out that's why she blocked me. Okay, but yeah,

517
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,640
Speaker 2: so so you know, yeah, we prevailed and we're here

518
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 2: now and we married and were happy.

519
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:57,200
Speaker 1: You got this book.

520
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 4: Such a beautiful wedding. Oh my god, it was so

521
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 4: beautiful and y'all both looked so amazing. But I did

522
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 4: want to touch back on you saying that she was

523
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 4: the most nurturing person that you ever met. So do

524
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 4: you feel like that had a lot to do with

525
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 4: y'all deciding to go ahead and have a child together,

526
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 4: Because I know I used to watch some of the

527
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 4: episodes of y'all show, and I know you was kind

528
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 4: of trying to convince her to have right and I've.

529
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: Done it right, and I know how she is, and

530
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,159
Speaker 1: I know the type of things that she cherished, and

531
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: I told her I would have did it. I didn't.

532
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 1: I didn't mind caring for her. I actually told her

533
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 1: that early in our relationship.

534
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 2: I told her they slide right out of her. Be easy,

535
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 2: for she had three already. So see when you say

536
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:40,679
Speaker 2: I could say this in this room because we can

537
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 2: curse this stuff. When you say stuff like that, people

538
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 2: because you have sex with me. People think that you're

539
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 2: saying my pussy is wide.

540
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 1: Open, beautiful.

541
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 2: But I'm trying to say that I know, but that's

542
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 2: what that's that's that's what it sounds like. That's horrible,

543
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 2: And I don't want to say that.

544
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: That's what you said when you say the baby gonna

545
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 1: slide right out.

546
00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 2: I just say that because you've had children before and

547
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 2: your body can form shape to have babies, and mine

548
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 2: ain't never did that before. I feel like my pussy

549
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 2: too little for a baby to come out. I didn't

550
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 2: know it open and all that shit. I just thought,

551
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 2: you know, once a woman this Before I knew any

552
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 2: about any of this. I just thought, when a woman

553
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 2: have a baby, her body is already conditioned to have

554
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 2: more because she's been through that process before.

555
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 1: You know.

556
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 2: I feel like my whole so little. Ain't nobody coming

557
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 2: through that. So yeah, I understand now, So okay, I

558
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 2: won't say it no more.

559
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: But yeah, oh you're the girl you just said it

560
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,640
Speaker 1: on Tell national television. Everything okay, But then I kep

561
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: saying as far as the nurture thing, I knew, I

562
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: know the type of stuff that she likes to cherish

563
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 1: and I wasn't trying to convince her technically. I just

564
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:44,959
Speaker 1: wanted to let her know that it would be an

565
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 1: experience that she would cherish, you know. And then I

566
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 1: even try to record some of our personal moments and

567
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 1: give it to the public, Like the first time the

568
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 1: baby moved, you know, it brought it to tears, and

569
00:25:56,119 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 1: the whole entire thing. Like she this is one of

570
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:03,159
Speaker 1: her life's biggest accomplishments. But she said, and this is

571
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 1: what she feels like, like, out of all the things

572
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: I could have ever done, this is the thing that

573
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 1: has brought her so much joy. Yeah, I don't I

574
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: can't speak for her, but I'm pretty sure she wouldn't

575
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: have had it no other way.

576
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,359
Speaker 4: Now, it was really heartwarming seeing you pregnant because you

577
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 4: were really enjoying and you.

578
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 1: Was really shocked all the time.

579
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 2: I thought I had to drink milk for my titties

580
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 2: to get milky. I kept telling my wife, I'm not

581
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 2: drinking enough milk. My titties ain't getting big. She was like,

582
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm gonna record joy.

583
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 3: So I do want to talk about like the IVF

584
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 3: journey that y'all went through and things like that, because

585
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 3: there's so many decisions that you have to make going

586
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 3: into that, like you know, the sperm downer, who eggs

587
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 3: y'all want to use and things like that. And I

588
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 3: know y'all made headlines because everybody was talking about the

589
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 3: sperm donor that.

590
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: Y'all chose and why y'all made that decision.

591
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:55,680
Speaker 3: And everybody was in a hooplop. But I was like,

592
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 3: I don't think it's a big deal. They're a decision.

593
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 3: When they winded things down, so talk about the process

594
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 3: of choosing the sperm donor and how y'all went with

595
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:08,679
Speaker 3: the one that you chose, Well, it was.

596
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 1: My AX and they do something called genetic testing. And

597
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 1: when they did my genetic testing, there were like seven

598
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: different things that I carry genes for. And so when

599
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,399
Speaker 1: you do that, when you're choosing your sperm donor, you

600
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 1: have to go in is it seven or nine whatever?

601
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: It's a lot. It made you feel like, bitch, what yeah? Right,

602
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 1: So then you you go to the different banks and

603
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 1: you have to enter into seven to make sure the

604
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 1: person is not not positive of those things as well. Okay, right,

605
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,399
Speaker 1: then your child, right, because if they have it, then

606
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 1: your child is gonna have the thing. Something okay. When

607
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,400
Speaker 1: that happened, I think a lot of people don't even

608
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 1: realize how small the pool is for black men at all.

609
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: When that happened, our black man choice went down to zero.

610
00:27:56,119 --> 00:28:00,119
Speaker 1: Oh wow, So we had choice of white Asian and

611
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 1: like our baby, he's technically bulgarian or it's like it's

612
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 1: not even I guess it's technically a white. Yeah, but

613
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: it's not even a white. He's got a few little

614
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: things going on. Yeah, we picked his donor based off

615
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 1: of once we saw that we couldn't have somebody that

616
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 1: was our race. We try to see hype, we try

617
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:28,880
Speaker 1: to see build. And then they also even went into

618
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 1: like the person left something and what they do, Like

619
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 1: they had one of her choices was Asian and he

620
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 1: was a musician I think, and mine was a thriving

621
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 1: entrepreneur that did something.

622
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 2: And so we just figured the history search and stuff

623
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 2: and to see what they've done in life and how

624
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 2: they progressed.

625
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 1: And yeah, I think we made an awesome choice. Very

626
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: proud of the choice we made, whether people understand it

627
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 1: or not.

628
00:28:54,640 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 3: I don't give a beautiful, adorable and I knew it

629
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 3: was more behind.

630
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 1: I'm like everybody hosted that, but nobody wanted to hear

631
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: it because my motherfucking wife asked wanted to say, And

632
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 1: I didn't think about it on our show when we

633
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 1: were looking like you know how when you film you

634
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: have to like stay some scenes and you're saying it

635
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 1: was fake, but we had to look through a whole

636
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: bunch of choices, and we would look through a whole

637
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 1: bunch of choices that had nothing to do with genetic testing.

638
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: And her ass called one of the motherfucking candidates Jiminy

639
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: fucking Cricket. So people clipped that, and they made it

640
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: seem like that she felt about everybody. And so then

641
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 1: we go on Tameron trying to talk about it, this

642
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: and the other. The thing that bothered me the most

643
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: was she was pregnant at the time when it was

644
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 1: going on, and people were wishing death on our child

645
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 1: and wishing that the pregnancy was ended and would terminating.

646
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: You know, I can't believe y'all this and the other.

647
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 1: And I was like, no, I don't go in these comments,

648
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 1: and because Saint Nobody, I am the mild one out

649
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 1: of these, but y'all got me fucked up right now,

650
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: because like, who you like, is it that serious, right

651
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 1: to some people, I guess it is or it's it's

652
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 1: the it's the most relatious thing that they're talking about

653
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: at the time. But our baby is healthy, I was

654
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: born and he has you know, he has his he

655
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 1: has ten toes, ten fingers, all of the things that

656
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 1: you know, he's he's living, he's active, and that's what

657
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 1: we wanted. We want because if it's still it's still

658
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 1: on my page some of the some of the fucking

659
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: shit that they had on that had mutationists and mute

660
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: you know, and I'm like, what, you.

661
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 2: Never know what you have that runs through your blood

662
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 2: line or through your family line. So it's important to

663
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 2: really get that genetic testing because a lot of these

664
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 2: people are here fucking and they just fucking and they're

665
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 2: having babies and you might have some things that don't

666
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 2: mix with that person. So whether you heterosexual or whatever

667
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 2: you are, you should get tested to make sure you

668
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 2: don't have.

669
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: Those disease and diseases and those.

670
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 2: Different things abnormal abnormal abnormalities that run you know, through

671
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 2: your bloodline, because that can you know, it can make

672
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 2: a child not healthy.

673
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 4: No, yeah, I agree. I think we talked about this

674
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 4: before on the show. Neither one of us have kids yet.

675
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 4: But I did genetic test and maybe like six years

676
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 4: ago because I just wanted to see too if I had.

677
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 1: Any things, you know, in my genetics, and luckily I didn't.

678
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 4: But like with a lot, especially in a black community,

679
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 4: with sickle cell, that's something that happens a lot, Like

680
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 4: two people won't know that they have the sickle cell

681
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:35,239
Speaker 4: tray and then they have a baby together, and then

682
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 4: a baby's yeah, yeah, that's actually.

683
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 1: A good point to get tested with her. It is

684
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 1: no matter what you are. Yeah, yeah, but nobody thinks

685
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 1: about nobody ever thinks aboudy here.

686
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 4: But I'm glad that y'all did touch on it because

687
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 4: maybe they'll make a lot of people go.

688
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: And was a motherfucker. I wouldn't do it again. You wouldn't,

689
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 1: would you do? We got, we got, We got a

690
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 1: couple of embryos left. So yeah, So I was staying

691
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 1: there because I wound up in a hospital with blood

692
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: clots in my lungs.

693
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, large heart, overstimulated, overach something hyper stimulated. One day

694
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 2: she was like I can't breath. I'm like, what you

695
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 2: mean you can't breathe? And she's like I need to

696
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 2: go to the emergency room. I'm like, oh, ship, like

697
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 2: what's going on? And they had extracted her eggs already

698
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 2: or whatever. So when we got there, they said she

699
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 2: had blood a blood clot in her lungs.

700
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:26,800
Speaker 1: They told me, yeah, they told me, uh is a

701
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: will updated make sure this o lord? So yeah, sure

702
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: to send your family for it, just in case. Make

703
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 1: sure to send your family, you know, all of the

704
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 1: things and if anything happens.

705
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 2: They put me on blood and called the fucking family

706
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 2: like I was sitting there like this is that's a lot.

707
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 2: And then they admitted her into the hospital and they

708
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 2: kept her. Then then she ended up having an enlarged

709
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 2: heart because the.

710
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: Whatever it is is working. So whatever, all of the

711
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: medicine that you got to pump all the time, I mean,

712
00:32:57,880 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 1: I was, I think it's point zero one chance.

713
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 3: I was the pointed. And so you said, y'all have

714
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 3: some bros and embryo. You have some embryos, So y'all

715
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 3: pay egg grint. You know you gotta pay rent on them.

716
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all do. Y'all pay a yearly er monthly yearly

717
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: twenty seven hundred. Oh but that's not that bad. He

718
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 1: sat one hundred not that bad. The way.

719
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 4: We had a guest on the show recently and she

720
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 4: was telling us about like eggrint and stuff, and the

721
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 4: way she was talking, I don't know what I thought

722
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 4: she was going.

723
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 1: Money, you know. Let me say. I will say the

724
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 1: person that we did it with the doctor, because we

725
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: brought her so much business does look okay? So I'll

726
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: say that she does look out for us because we

727
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 1: brought her. We got a little section eighty and brown.

728
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 1: I like that section for the because we're doing this podcast.

729
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 1: Is everything okay at home? That's our baby about my

730
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 1: mama too. I'm an called you and see where he is?

731
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 1: See if you can? Is it coming? So okay? Love

732
00:33:58,560 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 1: you by.

733
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 2: She like, Jordan ain't home yet, and you know it's dark.

734
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 2: You know she don't like being in the house byself.

735
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 2: I don't care what she says.

736
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: She's like, just Jordan ain't here yet. You know, she's

737
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: probably walking around with the gun holding the checking all

738
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 1: the locks.

739
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 4: Okay, we have we haven't even got into the fire stop.

740
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:22,319
Speaker 4: But I do want to ask y'all one more question

741
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 4: about the book. What is the biggest takeaway that y'all

742
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 4: want people to take away?

743
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:33,239
Speaker 1: From reading the book and we're human. Mm. Yeah, I

744
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: would say that, and that everybody does. Yeah, everybody does.

745
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 1: We have parts in there called like golden rules where

746
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: you know, because I'm not a reader all the way,

747
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 1: so I need somebody to break it down, summarize it,

748
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 1: break it down to many layman's terms, and so we

749
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 1: have a whole bunch of those and there, so it

750
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: could be you know, not just for the people that

751
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: love to read, but also the people that like to

752
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 1: skim or if you read, you have ad HG and

753
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,719
Speaker 1: by the time you got to the forgot Oh that's me.

754
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 1: That's wait to read it. Is it on audible? Yep? Audible?

755
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 1: We did it like, well, that's what I just about

756
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: to ask. So she did her parts and then I

757
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: did the truth.

758
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 2: Okay, you know she did her parts and I did

759
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:20,319
Speaker 2: the truth. I kept in one hundred girl ex all

760
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 2: the way.

761
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 4: I love listening to audible books when the actual authors

762
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 4: read it in there, righty, I thought.

763
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 1: You need to do that. I don't have a book,

764
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

765
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:31,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, or read the books for people because your voice

766
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 3: is soothing isy, Okay, so we don't.

767
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 1: Get oh, we want to go to that. Okay, yeah,

768
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 1: drinking today, all right, we're about to get some funk. Bye.

769
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 4: So with Missus de Brade and Miss Judy today, we're

770
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 4: gonna call this one The Way Love Goes, in honor

771
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 4: of their book that they were just mentioning. So this one,

772
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:58,240
Speaker 4: we have some Repiicidal tequila. We have some lime juice,

773
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 4: a little bit of orange liqueur, some hickory smoke syrup,

774
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 4: and then a splash of grapefruit juice. And then I

775
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:07,320
Speaker 4: have garnished it with a crimber laid orange slice. So

776
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 4: I basically added some brown sugar on top of the orange,

777
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 4: kind of just smoked it crimberlated, and then topped it

778
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:13,360
Speaker 4: on top.

779
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 1: Of that cocktail.

780
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:16,800
Speaker 4: And then from Miss Judy, we have some sweet wine

781
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 4: a little moscato to get a going today.

782
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: The Way Love Goes. I heard you back there with

783
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: the torch. I was like, what's she back? The burning?

784
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 3: Back there doing something. People said that we can always

785
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 3: hear time to back today, but like I could hear it,

786
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 3: and I was trying to We got in the house,

787
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:42,919
Speaker 3: had to cut ups. Never gonna let y'all forget Miss

788
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 3: Chicago the building. Yes, okay, we're gonna start with our

789
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 3: first topic today. Finally, y'all, we were a little chatty,

790
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 3: so y'all gonna have to excuse us. Okay, So how

791
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 3: do you how do you feel when women start dating

792
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 3: women only because they feel like things aren't working out

793
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 3: with they'd be like, you know what, I'm tired, I

794
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 3: don't want to do this no more. And they necessarily

795
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 3: aren't really into women, but they're just kind of like, oh,

796
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 3: let me try something.

797
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 1: They're gonna rind up with a woman that's just like

798
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: that nigga they just left, fact because that's what she

799
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 1: was attracted to. And I say that respectfully because people

800
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: you know, they gonna dip, they towing the pond. Yeah,

801
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: girls ain't hitty to sometimes h.

802
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 2: But I must say we are more affectionate, no agree,

803
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 2: more attention than niggas.

804
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 1: Do, okay, and women know what women love right and

805
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 1: what women love. Agree. But they still can be dogs

806
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 1: and date seven eight different girls. But until they find

807
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:43,839
Speaker 1: the main bitch that but that's the case for them

808
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:45,879
Speaker 1: to do. That's my point though, because if they going

809
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,439
Speaker 1: from a nigga just to figure something, like to see

810
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,839
Speaker 1: if it's better over there, it might not be. Yeah,

811
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: that's true.

812
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:56,239
Speaker 4: I definitely think that people have this misconception that like, oh,

813
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 4: if I go date women, she not gonna do me

814
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 4: wrong or they not gonna do wrong Like you said,

815
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 4: these ain't she women just as much as it is

816
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,359
Speaker 4: me And yeah, you still have to eat the right one.

817
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, Now, women are all the things that she said,

818
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 1: We all monre carry more and not trying to convince

819
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 1: the better. Nothing right, you know, because everybody's cup of tea,

820
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 1: you know, it's that own cup of tea.

821
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's true because I feel like sometimes though, like

822
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 3: I have friends in the community and they're like, I

823
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 3: don't like dating somebody who's unsure like some women i've

824
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 3: met there, Like I don't like to date by sexual

825
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 3: women because I feel like you're just saying you're bisexual,

826
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 3: but you're just experimenting with women, but you really like men.

827
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 3: Like before obviously when y'all were like single and dating,

828
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 3: would y'all be okay with like dating a girl who

829
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 3: was like, oh, I'm unsure or I'm on the fence, Like.

830
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 1: How was that for y'all? One of the first girls

831
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 1: I dated was like that mmm, And I felt like

832
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 1: she when she was doing that, it was more like

833
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 1: attension like we would. We was kind of we both

834
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: was shaped the same by the way, So when we

835
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: would go in public places, she would like to hold

836
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,320
Speaker 1: my hand when niggas was around, like she would. It

837
00:38:58,400 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: almost seemed like she was doing it for the attention

838
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 1: of it. Yeah, and yeah it didn't maybe a month. Yah.

839
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:09,280
Speaker 3: That's a little weird because I feel like in lesbian

840
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 3: relationships they already have to deal because I see this

841
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 3: online a lot with men.

842
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: Like, oh, she just ain't had me, she just ain't

843
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 1: had a man good enough, because I think we both

844
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:21,279
Speaker 1: fucked with niggas and bitches. Yeah, yeah, yeah, people don't.

845
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. Do people know that about you? Do

846
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 1: they know that about you? What? I'm not gonna lie

847
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,879
Speaker 1: with me and and women I got I got four

848
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 1: children down total. Well yes, I mean in the day. Yeah,

849
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: you mean do they know that the with women before?

850
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: I think so. I've been transparent Yeah, yeah.

851
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:44,919
Speaker 2: With niggas all through the church, high school, yeah, junior high,

852
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 2: the beginning of the career, all of that.

853
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 1: I remember, I mean, I remember you used today AI

854
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,719
Speaker 1: backing the day. Couple of people, Yeah right, but that's

855
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:58,879
Speaker 1: I need the only one person they steak out. Yeah,

856
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 1: and I'm so t hear about anybody. Let me tell

857
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 1: you why this motherfucker won't go do an interview please though,

858
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: and talk about something that that they did that it's

859
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:15,320
Speaker 1: sexually explicit, and then they got clipped and got posted everywhere.

860
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: So I'm scowling, no ideam, but motherfucking post. I have

861
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 1: my wife talking about something with her ex, and I

862
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:24,879
Speaker 1: don't care that she has exes, but I don't want

863
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: to know what the fuck you did? Right, And that's

864
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: the worst one. She got viral because you can't block

865
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 1: all this well. I didn't even expect that to happen.

866
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 2: That was probably the very first podcast I had ever

867
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 2: did Handy, I Love You, but you was up it

868
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 2: and it was wigged candy, and I.

869
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: Just didn't think that. I don't know.

870
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 2: I just didn't think that. Had I known it was

871
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 2: gonna piece her off, I wouldn't have did it.

872
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 1: I had never done Had you know, if if I

873
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 1: got went on the podcast and told somebody about my

874
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 1: sexual excursions with my ex, that wouldn't do nothing.

875
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 2: I don't know if I would be mad at you

876
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 2: because it's something you've been through and something that you

877
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 2: did or lived. You ain't fucking with the nigga no

878
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 2: more or the bitch no more. You with me where

879
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 2: you need to be, where you're supposed to be, so

880
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 2: it wouldn't matter because that's your past experience. But I

881
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 2: didn't realize it was gonna make you feel fucked up.

882
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 2: And I definitely didn't think it was gonna go viral

883
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: because I was just having a conversation with Candy, who

884
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 2: I've been knowing since I was a child. It was

885
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 2: I was just comfortable. I didn't think. I just didn't

886
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 2: think that was gonna happen. And I keep apologizing to

887
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:25,799
Speaker 2: you for that. So stop bringing this sh up because

888
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 2: I said I'm sorry already, because I really am.

889
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 1: I felt bad.

890
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 2: Had I known that was gonna offend you, I would

891
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 2: have never fucking talked about it.

892
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 1: Have I done it since? Have I talked about any

893
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 1: other every fucking body ever since then? Did I dated police? No?

894
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 1: I hadn't. It's not that it's specific rules, but it's

895
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: I know you're right, I get it, I get it.

896
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 1: You definitely made me understand.

897
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 4: But I think it's Rachel you're coming from, though, because

898
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,280
Speaker 4: I feel like I'm more sout am on the side

899
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 4: with you where I was still heart of my past,

900
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 4: had a past, right, we all have exies. But I

901
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:00,080
Speaker 4: was in a situation like this before, like Lakes and

902
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 4: I did somebody's podcasts like a few years ago, and

903
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 4: I got asked the question and I talked about like

904
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,280
Speaker 4: an encounter that I had with one of my exies

905
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 4: and my boyfriend at the time was so mad at me.

906
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 1: He was peased, But you didn't think it was gonna

907
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: piss them up, and you thought it was gonna Yeah.

908
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I get where you're coming from because I

909
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:22,439
Speaker 3: love you. You had sex before me, You are doing

910
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 3: things before you met me. I don't want to know,

911
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 3: but not even that part. It's not that I don't

912
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 3: know that you did stuff before me. It was it

913
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 3: was specific detail.

914
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I don't want to hear about like the details.

915
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 1: So I feel you. I definitely feel you. So how

916
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: do y'all feel now? Though? Like, like y'all are married,

917
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 1: y'all have children, So how did y'all.

918
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 3: Deal with it in the beginning? Because I know men

919
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 3: used to say things like that to y'all, like, oh,

920
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 3: you need to be with me, you don't need that, Like,

921
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 3: how do y'all deal with that we don't give about that.

922
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't do nothing. I don't do nothing.

923
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 1: I can't nothing fuck with us in our relationship at all.

924
00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: I didn't give a fuck about what nobody say kill

925
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,399
Speaker 1: the sugar water. You didn't and you ain't and you can't.

926
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:05,439
Speaker 1: So it is what it is. Yeah, And do y'all

927
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 1: deal with that too?

928
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 3: Like a lot of people when they see y'all's relationship,

929
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:10,879
Speaker 3: they want that and they don't mind.

930
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 1: People be like if y'all don't even love it us

931
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: like Bred and Judy, we don't want it.

932
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 3: But do y'all deal with like people being like, oh,

933
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 3: I want to date you or I want to like

934
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,880
Speaker 3: because people sometimes they see relationships they be like, oh

935
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 3: I want her and I don't care.

936
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,359
Speaker 1: I'll be aside. Do y'all deal with that? I kill

937
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 1: somebody over this one? I know that. I know that's right. Yea,

938
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 1: we don't do that good. But I'm saying that people

939
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:37,919
Speaker 1: message y'all like that, like I saw. That's what I'm saying.

940
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 1: I know it happens like people either, but neither one

941
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 1: of us entertain it. Our The password to her phone

942
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 1: is the same password to mine, right, that's real? Absolutely

943
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 1: I love that and that saying it's perfect though, because

944
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: I think that's the whole and not to bring it

945
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 1: back to the book, but it's the main reason we

946
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: did that is to say, yes, nice, pretty and shiny,

947
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 1: but we also go through our struggles also, you know,

948
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 1: we also fight, We also fussed. But this is how

949
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 1: we got to the other side of it, right, Like,

950
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna express something that I don't like,

951
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:14,280
Speaker 1: She's gonna express something that she doesn't like. I'm gonna

952
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,479
Speaker 1: hear her out and listen to her side. She's gonna

953
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: hear me out and listen to my side. And but

954
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 1: but if we have a motherfucking discord this bitch, car hole,

955
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: little grud.

956
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 2: I tell you, boy, were the fussing and arguing about something,

957
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 2: and I'll be ready to like we fussing and she

958
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 2: will just get up and walk the fuck out.

959
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 1: I can't stand that. How you feel like back here,

960
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 1: we need to talk about this and can resolve it.

961
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 2: Well, she need to walk away, take a break and

962
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: compartmentalize and go, you know, so she don't say nothing,

963
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 2: she don't mean you know, or know she can't take back.

964
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 2: So I'm like, damn, you would say something to read

965
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 2: that you can't take that. So in the heat of

966
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 2: the moment in anger, you possible we could. So I

967
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 2: try to understand that, but I still don't fucking like it. Yeah,

968
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 2: this day, I don't want to go to bed mad.

969
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:09,800
Speaker 2: Tomorrow is not promised. I don't like that ship. I

970
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 2: can't sleep at night if we mad at each other

971
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 2: and we're sleeping on the other.

972
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: Side of the bed. She on the edge, but I'm cold.

973
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 1: I want some skin, you know what I'm saying. Sit

974
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: over there.

975
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, God, damn it. Why didn't we resolve this ship? Yeah,

976
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 2: but she could take it on for a couple of

977
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 2: days and us not talk about it.

978
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: I need to resolve it. Yeah, y'all.

979
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 4: We resonate with y'all in so many ways, even though

980
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 4: I mean it's like we have a platonic relationship.

981
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 1: It's not romantic, But.

982
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 4: Y'all remind me still so much, literally, because having a

983
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 4: business with somebody is like a fucking mass relationship.

984
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 1: People do not realize that.

985
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:46,840
Speaker 4: And I'm like you, like, I'll be like, no, we

986
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 4: can to talk about these shp wow, and then she'll

987
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 4: go daze without wanting to talk about I don't here

988
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:54,280
Speaker 4: mad at an attitude.

989
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 2: Let's watch either one of us have an attitude, think

990
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 2: about it. Otherwise we're trying to be mad at each other.

991
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 2: I ain't fing to kisself.

992
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: Will I leave that? Doing that? Make it up like

993
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: that ship is hard because make it heavy.

994
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 4: It gets teddy, like a time that passed about what

995
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 4: I y'all having a conversation now y'all both being petty.

996
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, but that's the thing though, it's not

997
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: that I haven't I haven't carried it. Yeah, I put

998
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: it away, but you can't put it away. I don't like,

999
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: don't put it away? Where does it go? Because it's

1000
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 1: they always say this as a CEO running the company,

1001
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 1: it is really hard to carry all of the things

1002
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 1: in life right and get up and function right right.

1003
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 1: So I've learned how to compartmentalize all of it. Otherwise,

1004
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: carrying carrying it all, you lose your dad mind. Yeah,

1005
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 1: I want to take the journey. You don't want to

1006
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 1: do the thing. So along with having the business, I

1007
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: also support my family. I also, you know, all of

1008
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 1: these extra things, and so when it comes to our

1009
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 1: our home and our lives, it's like I hear you

1010
00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:00,399
Speaker 1: beautiful right now. But I'm gonna tuck this right away

1011
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 1: in this box over because I know I'm mad. I know,

1012
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:05,359
Speaker 1: I know how I can respond to this and right,

1013
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 1: but I'm still sitting over here my feelings her yeah

1014
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: moved on. Two days later, I'd be like, oh, yeah, ship,

1015
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,399
Speaker 1: I forgot that we even fussed about that. Yeah, because

1016
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 1: I hadn't put it to the side. You don't forget,

1017
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: she like, and still her yeah thing, like oh yeah,

1018
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 1: like that's that. Okay. Let's yeah, bitch, when we gonna

1019
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 1: talk about.

1020
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:29,880
Speaker 2: After you make the miracle drops and do all that

1021
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 2: ship and go do content at the warehouse, when is

1022
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:33,800
Speaker 2: we gonna talk like we still.

1023
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: Need to talk? Yeah? I know.

1024
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:37,839
Speaker 3: So let me ask you when y'all first like started dating.

1025
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 3: Had you came out already?

1026
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 1: No?

1027
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 3: Okay, that's what I want to talk about, because I

1028
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 3: remember like seeing like rumors.

1029
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: And things like that y'all were dating.

1030
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 3: But I was like, it was a mixed reaction when

1031
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 3: you came out because everyone was like, I thought she

1032
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 3: already came out, We already knew that, and then people

1033
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:54,359
Speaker 3: was like, oh my gosh, it was a big deal.

1034
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,359
Speaker 3: So how were y'all dating and still. But I mean,

1035
00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:58,839
Speaker 3: of course you want to keep it quiet. But at

1036
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 3: the same time, it's like, okay, I still want to

1037
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 3: go out with my person high dinner, like a regular

1038
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 3: dating situation. So how was that dating somebody that's extremely popular.

1039
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: And famous but they're in the closet in privy? I was.

1040
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: I was actually fired. I used to text her manager

1041
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: all the time. I ask questions, am I supposed to?

1042
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:18,800
Speaker 1: How do I send her? Send her something? Do I

1043
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: not put my name on it?

1044
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 3: You know?

1045
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: But I liked her so much I was willing to

1046
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 1: date her. However, I needed to date her whether she

1047
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 1: came to my place, so we had to meet somewhere

1048
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 1: or you know, hide in the back of the car.

1049
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 1: It was it was her, Yeah. And then when we

1050
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: went to Essence, she held my hand first.

1051
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 2: Because at that point I was ready to come the

1052
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 2: fuck out of it. Ah, you made me want to

1053
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 2: just tell everybody I wanted to hold your hand. I

1054
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 2: sat down. I wanted her to sit on my life.

1055
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 2: I wanted that ass in my life. One of that

1056
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:51,439
Speaker 2: asks on me, I don't know. I for the first

1057
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 2: time in my life, I wanted to scream it from

1058
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 2: the mountain. Oh, like I wanted her front center stage

1059
00:48:57,920 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 2: when I'm rapping. I want to look at her when

1060
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 2: I'm wrapped like everything, like I just want oh my god,

1061
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,440
Speaker 2: my My fucking team lost their mind because I had

1062
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:09,320
Speaker 2: never been like that at all in public for years,

1063
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:11,240
Speaker 2: like thirty years.

1064
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 1: So when I would hold her hand, they would all

1065
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:15,720
Speaker 1: grab hands like okay.

1066
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 2: We walked like we walking through the crowd together, like

1067
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 2: they was trying to protect me because they know.

1068
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: What was going on. They're like, what are you doing?

1069
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 2: Like I'm like, nah, man, I want everybody to know

1070
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:27,839
Speaker 2: I'm holding her hand. I was kissing on her cheek

1071
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 2: and public and our niggas was like, my team was like,

1072
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 2: what are you doing? What are you sure this is

1073
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 2: what you want to do?

1074
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 1: Are you okay? But yes, like yes, it was amazing.

1075
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 2: We went to Morrows and had dinner and when Patty

1076
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 2: Lavelle was there, it was essence right and we was

1077
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 2: all in there and that's the we sat next to

1078
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:50,800
Speaker 2: each other. I was rubbing on my foot under the

1079
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 2: table like whit ch'all fucking loved.

1080
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 1: Every you know.

1081
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 2: My team was still looking around like be people are watching.

1082
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:01,760
Speaker 2: I'm like I don't like I wanted to sit close

1083
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:04,800
Speaker 2: to it. I wanted to feed her, but who was watching,

1084
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 2: who had their camera out? For the first time, I

1085
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 2: felt like free and did not give a fuck.

1086
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, prior to Judy, was it something that you just wanted,

1087
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 4: like you didn't want people to know? Or do you

1088
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 4: did you just feel like this is my business, Like

1089
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 4: I don't owe y'all to let y'all know.

1090
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:22,800
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't want people to know. And back in

1091
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 2: the day, it wasn't cool. It wasn't safe to let

1092
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 2: people know.

1093
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 1: You know, Ellen lost her whole show, she lost her

1094
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 1: whole shit when she came out, and shit was not

1095
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 1: cool back in the day.

1096
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 2: You couldn't tell people you like girls and you like

1097
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 2: women or whatever. Fuck that, you lose your whole career

1098
00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 2: and your whole shit. So I had a lot to lose.

1099
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 2: Like in the industry, they want you to be fuckable.

1100
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 2: They tell you you want the niggas to want you,

1101
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:45,839
Speaker 2: and you want the bidgess to want you. You can't

1102
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 2: say you in a relationship, you can't be pregnant, you

1103
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 2: can't do none of that shit because then you're gonna

1104
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 2: fuck up the record sales and you're fucking up the money.

1105
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:53,879
Speaker 2: So that is what we are taught, we was taught

1106
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:55,800
Speaker 2: growing up, you know what I'm saying, in the industry.

1107
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:58,800
Speaker 2: And then after a while it became like, Okay, this

1108
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 2: is my sacred thing, like my relationships ships in my

1109
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 2: private life is the only thing that I have to

1110
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:07,280
Speaker 2: myself because everybody else is in the business, they create

1111
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:08,720
Speaker 2: lives and they want to make up stuff.

1112
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:10,960
Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna keep this to myself. So that's

1113
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 1: what it became, like a protected thing.

1114
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 2: But then when I met her, I was like, fuck

1115
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 2: that I need people to know I love this motherfucker.

1116
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 2: Like not saying all the other people wasn't shit, but

1117
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 2: it's the way she made me feel, you know what

1118
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:25,719
Speaker 2: I'm saying. She made me feel safe, and I wanted

1119
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:28,879
Speaker 2: people to know I got a bad bitch. I got

1120
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 2: a bad bitch with motherfucking a business, a big ass,

1121
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 2: a beautiful face, smart as fuck.

1122
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:37,360
Speaker 1: What the fuck is you said? She's mine? And I

1123
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 1: want the world to fucking know. Yaes I love it.

1124
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:43,919
Speaker 3: I do too, because I feel like in the moment,

1125
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 3: like I remember when it was happening and it was like,

1126
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 3: like I said, mixed things that people were saying are like, oh,

1127
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 3: I thought we already knew that. I'm like, no, cause

1128
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:53,520
Speaker 3: I'll be on the blogs, baby, I know the t Yeah,

1129
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 3: she has never said that what her sexuality was.

1130
00:51:57,719 --> 00:51:59,800
Speaker 1: But I think it's such a good thing that you

1131
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 1: did come out. And how like, cause I do think this.

1132
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 3: I think people overly sexualize same sex couples. I do

1133
00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:09,120
Speaker 3: so I love the fact that y'all show so much

1134
00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 3: of y'all's relationship as far as.

1135
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 1: The business, the family, because again.

1136
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 3: I think they always do that to same sex couples,

1137
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 3: and I think it's a little awkward, like when I

1138
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 3: see people interview in same sex coucause they be like, oh,

1139
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 3: they want to talk about them in the bedroom. I'm like,

1140
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 3: y'all would never do this to a regular you know,

1141
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 3: like a man and a woman. Y'all will never ask

1142
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 3: them what they do in the bedroom and things like that. Well,

1143
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 3: I think the line gets really really weird and gray.

1144
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 3: That area gets gray. But I think how y'all show

1145
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:39,240
Speaker 3: y'all's relationship, it's very inspiring to all types of couples.

1146
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 3: Y'all can be couple goals for anybody, Like because I'm

1147
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 3: saying having a business with somebody, a family, you know,

1148
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:46,800
Speaker 3: it's inspiring.

1149
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 1: It's beautiful to see it is.

1150
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I just saw another interview that y'all did,

1151
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:54,879
Speaker 4: and I loved with ts medicine. Y'all loves to see

1152
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 4: his medicine. Yes, but yes, And I saw that she

1153
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:01,759
Speaker 4: was asking you do you put labels on yourself? And

1154
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 4: he was like, no, I don't like when people try

1155
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 4: to put me in a box because at the end

1156
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 4: of the day, I'm still a woman.

1157
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 1: I still like to be sixty. I like my bra

1158
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 1: in my pennies to match.

1159
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 4: And I love that because I feel like people probably

1160
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 4: do automatically always try to put you in a category

1161
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 4: and call you a study.

1162
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I've never First of all, I

1163
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:22,719
Speaker 2: never understood the labels, like I guess because they came

1164
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 2: after Yeah. Like so I'm just like, what is all

1165
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 2: these things? It's so many fucking labels. I don't know

1166
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 2: you are here day a day of shame alive, like

1167
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 2: I is the pronoun? Is it an adjective? Like I

1168
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 2: don't fucking know what it is? But I just I'm

1169
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 2: just me, you know what I'm saying. I'm mean, I

1170
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 2: don't feel like I'm a stud. I feel like I'm

1171
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 2: a tomboy. You know, I like some boy clothes. I

1172
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:47,320
Speaker 2: like some girl clothes.

1173
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:49,440
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Like, I love nails. I

1174
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:51,319
Speaker 1: need my nails to be fresh, you know what I'm saying.

1175
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:53,839
Speaker 1: I love makeup. I love to be beat bitch.

1176
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 2: I don't wear thongs, but I like bikini panties. I

1177
00:53:58,200 --> 00:53:59,879
Speaker 2: like the bras to match, you know what I'm saying.

1178
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 2: I keep my toes done. I like to be well manicured,

1179
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 2: like and and and that's just who I am. Like

1180
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:09,080
Speaker 2: I some some girls that are studs don't, or some

1181
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 2: girls that are tomboys don't. Like they don't want nothing

1182
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 2: to do with makeup and nails, and that's them. They

1183
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 2: gonna beat them, and I'm gonna be me, and I

1184
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:17,279
Speaker 2: just don't.

1185
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 3: I've never done labels like yeah, I mean, you've always

1186
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 3: been feminine to me.

1187
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 1: Yes, like I'm say every how, like when we will.

1188
00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 3: Watch this nation, you always make up done, hair, hair,

1189
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:27,840
Speaker 3: everything is very much right.

1190
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 1: But my style is I'm just comfortable.

1191
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 2: I've been dressing like this is the motherfucking nineties, and

1192
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,319
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna let nobody people be like she need

1193
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 2: to change her sta No, bitch, I'm not changing.

1194
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:39,959
Speaker 1: This is how I'm comfortable. You know what I'm saying.

1195
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:41,840
Speaker 1: I might put on a men soon on your ass, but.

1196
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:44,440
Speaker 2: I've seen a bunch of women wear men and they

1197
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:46,799
Speaker 2: do and it's cute, like I So I really don't

1198
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:48,880
Speaker 2: give a shit what nobody says as long as I'm comfortable.

1199
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 2: Most likely I'm not putting on no heels unless it's

1200
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 2: Halloween and I'm dressing with Sherry Shepherd I'm.

1201
00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 1: Drinking in one of her wigs and something like that.

1202
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: But other than that, this is me.

1203
00:54:57,719 --> 00:54:59,759
Speaker 2: I'm comfortable in my own skin and who I am,

1204
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 2: and I'm black, and I'm fucking proud and gay as

1205
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 2: fucking in love with my beautiful wife.

1206
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1207
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 4: I just think all of that shit is just annoying anyways,

1208
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 4: because I just it's not fair that people put labels

1209
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:11,520
Speaker 4: on public figures in the first place.

1210
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:15,440
Speaker 3: Explanation I don't there's a lot of pressure to do,

1211
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 3: like you knows, and it's hard because it's like you

1212
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:20,640
Speaker 3: don't want to offend people. But it's like, I don't

1213
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:24,360
Speaker 3: think anybody saying it is deliberately doing things to offend

1214
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 3: people are making somebody or exclude I'm just being myself

1215
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 3: and we're all learning to be better every day. Life

1216
00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 3: is already hard enough as it is. And now you're

1217
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 3: trying to put a label on me that I never said.

1218
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 3: I was no offense to the people who do label

1219
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 3: themselves that way, but that's not me, you know what

1220
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:38,920
Speaker 3: I mean.

1221
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:41,000
Speaker 1: So we gonna go ahead and get in a topic

1222
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 1: to y'all. Were moving along, y'all too yet Damn, we

1223
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: ain't done yet. Okay, We're gonna have a questionable lyric break.

1224
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:52,320
Speaker 1: I'm play a little game, yes, all right, what we

1225
00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 1: got dream?

1226
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 4: Okay, So some of the most iconic rap songs have

1227
00:55:56,360 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 4: had some of the weirdiest and most controversial lyrics. We

1228
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:03,399
Speaker 4: don't read some of them, see y'all and just see

1229
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 4: what y'all think they mean?

1230
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: Needs leving.

1231
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 4: Okay, So first we have a Webbie Bad Bitch classic record,

1232
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:13,320
Speaker 4: by the way, classic record. He said the girl be

1233
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:16,600
Speaker 4: cooking and cleaning and cleaning and cooking, she'd be constantly

1234
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 4: dushing and cleaning her pussy.

1235
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:23,760
Speaker 1: Why was she constantly dushing? What was the reason?

1236
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 4: And I feel like something was wrong? Constantly means all

1237
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 4: the time? Okay, crazy if we try to analyze it, right, But.

1238
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:38,919
Speaker 1: No, because no I can't say that. You can say

1239
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:44,280
Speaker 1: it because we probably will do we feel like healthcare

1240
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:49,399
Speaker 1: is different in different communities. Oh yes, so then maybe

1241
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: the healthcare wasn't there in the community that he was dating. Okay,

1242
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:59,239
Speaker 1: so yeah, I'm saying that she might not have had

1243
00:56:59,320 --> 00:57:02,840
Speaker 1: the best kind of medical service and go to college

1244
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:04,840
Speaker 1: just to figure out what was what was going on,

1245
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 1: she had to keep dushing. M I've seen this trend y'all.

1246
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 3: I'm not lying where like girls are like going to

1247
00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 3: the bathroom and showing their pennies like clean, Like they're

1248
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 3: taking off their pennies and they're showing that their penties

1249
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 3: are clean.

1250
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 1: Where are you seeing these on Twitter? It gets real

1251
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: dancy in the streets just so they can. I don't

1252
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 1: you know a lot of are people still on that platform? Yes,

1253
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:30,240
Speaker 1: they all not even what they call it x X.

1254
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 3: But I say that because I feel like that is

1255
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 3: such a male centered thing to do, like, look my

1256
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 3: penties clean, I doush all.

1257
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,479
Speaker 1: The first of all, you're not even supposed to doush

1258
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

1259
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:45,360
Speaker 3: Right, because I mean it's like a it's self cleaning

1260
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 3: up and if you will, you know, you know it

1261
00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 3: does what it's supposed to do. So I feel like,

1262
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 3: you know, it was cute for the song, but you

1263
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:54,520
Speaker 3: know in the club, ladies, raise your hand if you

1264
00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 3: puss it on stanks.

1265
00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 1: Shut shut up, girl, We need to let go on

1266
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 1: all that. But because half the time it's.

1267
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 3: Some balls that stink, some balls that they needed something

1268
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 3: to some ball wash, you know what I'm saying.

1269
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 1: But dunk the duckt butter beyonder that and he be thick.

1270
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:12,640
Speaker 1: You see what you said? That makes you think that

1271
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 1: maybe she was constantly dushing because he gave us something.

1272
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:19,400
Speaker 1: Break it down. Maybe it came from here.

1273
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 4: Something now let us know song and there back in

1274
00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:27,240
Speaker 4: them days, like when that song came out, this sh

1275
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 4: it was like a popular way for vaginal cleaning, you know,

1276
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 4: Like I say this all the time. Growing up, my

1277
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 4: aunts and stuff used to tell you you were supposed

1278
00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 4: to do this.

1279
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 1: Put yeah, while had worse that other thing. They used

1280
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 1: to have the bag day, Yeah, a little bag, a

1281
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 1: little red bag ground half what it was, a long

1282
00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 1: white bag youself, your grandmama have it hanging over the showers,

1283
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:58,240
Speaker 1: a red bagge and it's got a long chord. And

1284
00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 1: they put water, put water in and they clean theyselves out,

1285
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 1: put vinegar and water, and they used to be using

1286
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 1: him North forms and every wow.

1287
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 3: Crazy, leave that couch alone. Okay, all right, let's see

1288
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 3: what we got. Did we say we was gonna do

1289
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 3: this one? Noh, yeah, we're gonna skip that one.

1290
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 1: Okay.

1291
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:20,480
Speaker 3: So next we have Biggie me and my bitch. You

1292
00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 3: look so good, huh. I suck on your daddy dick.

1293
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 1: If a nigga ever came up to me, I think

1294
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 1: that you just want to suck some dick. You just

1295
00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 1: need an excuse because that is some that's that's that's crazy.

1296
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:44,520
Speaker 1: That was her friend. Okay, let me try it lightly.

1297
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 1: Then why did your friends say that? I really don't know.

1298
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:49,320
Speaker 2: I just think he was a genius with the lyrics.

1299
00:59:49,360 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 2: I don't know why he said that. And it was

1300
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 2: not a problem back then. But because the way the

1301
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 2: world is now, now that's like an issue. But if

1302
00:59:58,000 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 2: it wasn't made a big deal of when it was

1303
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 2: out in he was alive, then it shouldn't be made

1304
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 2: a big deal of now.

1305
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:04,200
Speaker 1: So how did they feel back then when it came

1306
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:06,280
Speaker 1: out like niggas was in the club rapping it. Yeah,

1307
01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 1: it didn't matter it was Biggie.

1308
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was phenomenal and the world loved him, and

1309
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 2: then nobody sation about it.

1310
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: Then they were singing it. Yeah, I know that I

1311
01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 1: suck your daughter the club singing. I'm like, okay, get

1312
01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 1: into it.

1313
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 4: I feel like the climate has definitely changed, Like it's

1314
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 4: so many things that were just not a big deal

1315
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 4: back in the day that now everybody be wanted to

1316
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:29,160
Speaker 4: make a huge thing. And I think it's a lot

1317
01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 4: of homophobia going on these days because they gave everybody also,

1318
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 4: he said, because most of the people that have homophobia

1319
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 4: and just like real gay against baby, they and they

1320
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 4: trapped in the cloud.

1321
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 1: They are come on out, come tell us about it.

1322
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 3: And let me ask you this, just out of curiosity,

1323
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 3: how do you feel about, obviously this is your friend,

1324
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 3: how do you feel about like the documentaries that are

1325
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 3: coming out right now and him being involved, like and

1326
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:00,680
Speaker 3: you've seen the people are talking.

1327
01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:02,600
Speaker 1: How does that make you feel knowingly that you knew

1328
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 1: him in real life?

1329
01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 4: Oh, Biggie, like with documentary, you know, like the document

1330
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 4: Biddy documentaries that were saying like things that happened with

1331
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 4: his funeral and you know how you know.

1332
01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:17,240
Speaker 2: I'm not privy to knowing like the real information or

1333
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 2: whatever that is. So you know, I know that documentary

1334
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 2: was you know, not because they were fans of Ditty,

1335
01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 2: like brought out all the bad things. So I really

1336
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 2: don't know all the information to comment on.

1337
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:30,040
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that's fair.

1338
01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:32,560
Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, I just know Biggie and

1339
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:35,160
Speaker 2: I love Biggie. He was an amazing person. He was

1340
01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:37,720
Speaker 2: like a big Teddy Bear. I don't know Diddy like that.

1341
01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:40,400
Speaker 2: I met Diddy a few times, never went to the

1342
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:42,920
Speaker 2: parties and know none of that. So you know, I

1343
01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 2: was I did a song with Total, I did songs

1344
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 2: with Biggie. You know what I'm saying.

1345
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 1: But you know, I just know I love Biggie because

1346
01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:51,400
Speaker 1: he was an amazing person and a great friend.

1347
01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 2: And it was an amazing lyricist. I had never seen

1348
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:56,960
Speaker 2: nobody not write with a pen, write they lyrics down.

1349
01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 2: He would sit there and memorize and writing in his

1350
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 2: head and then go in the booth and record it.

1351
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:02,960
Speaker 2: And that was the first time I had ever seen that.

1352
01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 2: Because I'm sitting there writing my lyrics. We did a

1353
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:07,440
Speaker 2: song called the B Side. I'm writing my lyrics. I'm

1354
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:09,040
Speaker 2: like I'm about to be done, nigga. He was like, oh,

1355
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 2: I'm done already. I'm like, no, you're not.

1356
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 1: You ain't even write shit down. He got up and

1357
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 1: winning the booth and he was done, and he spit

1358
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 1: it off the top of his head.

1359
01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 2: I don't know how he did that, because he smoked

1360
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 2: a whole lot of weeds. His memory should have been

1361
01:02:19,400 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 2: fucked up. But he's genius.

1362
01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 1: That's amazing. I love hearing stories like that. They don't

1363
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 1: make artists like that no more. No, they get in

1364
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:29,360
Speaker 1: the studio like your toes bitch yea and us a

1365
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 1: punch you do two lines you stop you punch in yeah,

1366
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:35,920
Speaker 1: punch in two lines, punch in yeah. Nah. That's what

1367
01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:39,600
Speaker 1: the audience wants now, yeah, baby, maybe like in Popcorn Rat.

1368
01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 1: I do like to hear. I like to hear somebody

1369
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,240
Speaker 1: like I said the Kendrick album, Like that's the stuff

1370
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 1: we need. We want to hear. Yeah, Like I want

1371
01:02:46,600 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: to dance still, yeah, because that's what Biggie with. He

1372
01:02:49,160 --> 01:02:50,560
Speaker 1: had the tunes that would just make.

1373
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:54,840
Speaker 4: Us, you know, on on were so much lyrics yes,

1374
01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:56,840
Speaker 4: same time, And I just feel like a lot of

1375
01:02:56,960 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 4: music is missing at these days. Speaking of you, M

1376
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:06,120
Speaker 4: de brad ain't got time to waste. I'm individually wrapped

1377
01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 4: like a fresh twinkie. So if I cream in the middle, nigga,

1378
01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 4: leaky leaky, leaky leaky.

1379
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 1: Now you wrote that, you wrote it, Yeah, you wrote

1380
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:16,240
Speaker 1: that down. Tell us about I think that's self explaining.

1381
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:20,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I taste good as fuck, and when I

1382
01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:23,320
Speaker 1: get we get the lick in this pussy. I know

1383
01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 1: that's right.

1384
01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 3: You never like look at some of the songs because

1385
01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:29,320
Speaker 3: I know, like we talk about this all the time

1386
01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 3: because obviously we're not artists. But sometimes I'll look back

1387
01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 3: and like maybe pictures I post it and I'm like,

1388
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:34,640
Speaker 3: oh my god, why did I do that?

1389
01:03:34,840 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 1: Yeah? You ever look back on the lyrics like, oh

1390
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 1: my god, why did I say that? Never, you don't

1391
01:03:38,760 --> 01:03:41,640
Speaker 1: have not one No, no, that's right, she said, I'm

1392
01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:43,400
Speaker 1: standing beside it. Yeah.

1393
01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 2: I wouldn't change nothing that I ever did in my

1394
01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 2: life because it's gotten me to where I am now.

1395
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 2: It's kind of like the movie Back to the Future. Yeah,

1396
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:51,440
Speaker 2: you change one thing, you might not be where you're

1397
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 2: at now. So I don't regret anything I'm saying. I'm

1398
01:03:54,400 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 2: just grateful for all the blessings and all the experiences

1399
01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:58,720
Speaker 2: I had in life, and that's.

1400
01:03:58,600 --> 01:03:59,959
Speaker 1: What got me here where I'm at today.

1401
01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:03,840
Speaker 2: I love whether it's prison, whether it's hitting some money

1402
01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:06,880
Speaker 2: in the head with a bottle, whether it's whether it's

1403
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:08,680
Speaker 2: so many different things that I've been through.

1404
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:10,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, it's it's it's a lesson

1405
01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 1: to be learned in all of it.

1406
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:15,000
Speaker 2: And I think I learned a lot of lessons, and

1407
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 2: I'm wiser and I'm who I am, Like I'm here now.

1408
01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 1: Some people ain't here no more exactly. To still be

1409
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:22,760
Speaker 1: here being seen and.

1410
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 3: Not viewed, Yes, amen, Yes, I love that. And you

1411
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 3: know what, I love the way Tyree screamed his name

1412
01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:29,560
Speaker 3: at the beginning of your song.

1413
01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 1: Dary, Do you know what I'm saying? He had to

1414
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:40,240
Speaker 1: let him know I'm here, already here and real quick.

1415
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:42,280
Speaker 3: I do want to ask you this because I feel

1416
01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:45,480
Speaker 3: like the women in rap right now have taken over.

1417
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 3: I feel like the girls are just doing a big one.

1418
01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 3: How do you feel about the state of rap right

1419
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 3: now with women?

1420
01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 1: I love it. I love the fact that women are

1421
01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 1: doing their thing. It's about damn time.

1422
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 2: I think it's enough room for everybody, Like it's enough

1423
01:04:56,840 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 2: money to be made for everybody, and I just commend

1424
01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 2: every body for doing their thing, no matter how to fuck.

1425
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 1: You rap, how the fuck you look. I support all

1426
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:06,960
Speaker 1: the women doing their thing one hundred percent love it.

1427
01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 1: Who's your favor right now?

1428
01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:09,880
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't know if I have a favorite.

1429
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:12,760
Speaker 2: I love Cardi b I love mag thee Stallion. I

1430
01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 2: wish people wouldn't beef. I love Lotto. I wish the

1431
01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 2: women wouldn't beef though. I love you know, Missy Elliott.

1432
01:05:18,360 --> 01:05:20,880
Speaker 2: I love Little Kid, I loved, I love every fucking

1433
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:23,760
Speaker 2: my like. I'm a unity type chick when it comes

1434
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 2: to female rappers, you know what I'm saying.

1435
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 1: And I just wish we.

1436
01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 2: Wouldn't beef because it's a you know what I'm saying.

1437
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 2: It's enough to go around for everybody.

1438
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:31,880
Speaker 1: Greed agreed.

1439
01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:34,200
Speaker 2: I know, and I know beef is part of hip

1440
01:05:34,240 --> 01:05:35,680
Speaker 2: hop and all of that, but I just wish the

1441
01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:37,840
Speaker 2: bitches wouldn't do it, Yeah, because.

1442
01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:39,640
Speaker 1: I feel like girls they can make it real, nasty

1443
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 1: and candy. They get bad.

1444
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 4: Today more women got along and I used to collaborate

1445
01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 4: more like like that. I was gonna says, I tried.

1446
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:54,200
Speaker 1: Bitches don't want to get together, y'all going down with

1447
01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:57,400
Speaker 1: my song. I want to get together. They want to

1448
01:05:57,480 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 1: charge one hundred thousand to do a verse. You know

1449
01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 1: I tried. Damn, I do it. Where is the camaraderie? Yeah, damn.

1450
01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:07,880
Speaker 1: That was such a good video. It was like I

1451
01:06:08,080 --> 01:06:13,959
Speaker 1: just seeing Mary was in the back left eye. Oh God,

1452
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 1: what a time. Yep. I love it.

1453
01:06:16,920 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 4: Okay, So now it's time to get into the bet

1454
01:06:20,840 --> 01:06:30,520
Speaker 4: bow bow bow bow to get into the bed. Okay, Well,

1455
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 4: y'all know the bed is sponsored by Sadic. This is

1456
01:06:34,560 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 4: our favorite brand. Y'all know we always raving about this

1457
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 4: coochie wash. It's gonna get the job done.

1458
01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 1: Okay. She gonna smell and taste like it ate a pepper,

1459
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:47,480
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And I like my slippery

1460
01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 1: em It's the job done. Okay.

1461
01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:52,200
Speaker 3: So the bad topic is, you know, we have a

1462
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 3: sex topic every week that we like to discuss, okay,

1463
01:06:55,880 --> 01:06:59,120
Speaker 3: and we wanted to talk about does body count matter

1464
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:01,240
Speaker 3: and a lesbian relationship?

1465
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:03,680
Speaker 1: Like is that something that y'all be like discussing, like oh.

1466
01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:06,240
Speaker 3: Because I feel like I don't think men do it

1467
01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 3: like now, but in my college days, I feel like

1468
01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:11,680
Speaker 3: that was like a thing. How many people have you

1469
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:13,680
Speaker 3: slept with? And when I think about that, now, that

1470
01:07:13,800 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 3: is such a weird question to ask. So is that

1471
01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:20,600
Speaker 3: something that happens in you know, in the world of

1472
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:21,240
Speaker 3: dating women?

1473
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:24,840
Speaker 1: When do you start counting though your own bodies? Do

1474
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:27,680
Speaker 1: you count? I used to have people count. It started

1475
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 1: getting too hot. I needed it just in case somebody

1476
01:07:31,160 --> 01:07:35,840
Speaker 1: list I had as you. Yeah, but I was young

1477
01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:39,440
Speaker 1: at the time. Yeah, it wasn't a law, but you

1478
01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:41,720
Speaker 1: it was like, okay, I wrote the person and it's

1479
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:43,520
Speaker 1: not like you was trying to add to it. It

1480
01:07:43,640 --> 01:07:45,880
Speaker 1: was just like it's like a secret, sacred thing. But

1481
01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:49,120
Speaker 1: then it just like this shit don't matter. I was

1482
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:51,640
Speaker 1: that way and then even visiting the list again, I

1483
01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 1: was like, ew, my mam ma looked. I said, who now,

1484
01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 1: who is this? Yeah? No, that's not ringing a bell,

1485
01:07:59,600 --> 01:07:59,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

1486
01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:03,080
Speaker 3: But like, like I said, being older now, like if

1487
01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:05,200
Speaker 3: I was dating, I would never I would think that

1488
01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:08,000
Speaker 3: was such a weird question to ask. But I think

1489
01:08:08,080 --> 01:08:10,400
Speaker 3: men in no shade or really like slow when it

1490
01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 3: comes to that, because they'd be like, oh, that thing

1491
01:08:12,080 --> 01:08:15,320
Speaker 3: stretched out, it's a hot dog in the hallway. They

1492
01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:18,080
Speaker 3: love saying things like that, is that like a conversation

1493
01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:19,879
Speaker 3: that women have in dating like ever.

1494
01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 1: Oh not us? Yeah, I ain't ever had that conversation. Yeah,

1495
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:25,080
Speaker 1: not us.

1496
01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:28,240
Speaker 2: And I don't give a fuck who you used to

1497
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Speaker 2: date as long as they don't try to come back. Yeah,

1498
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:36,800
Speaker 2: I don't care, because everybody got a past. Yeah, you know,

1499
01:08:36,960 --> 01:08:39,640
Speaker 2: we all are grown ups now and we did what

1500
01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:41,640
Speaker 2: we did and we are who we are because of

1501
01:08:41,680 --> 01:08:45,600
Speaker 2: the mistakes we did and didn't make, and it is

1502
01:08:45,720 --> 01:08:47,559
Speaker 2: what it is. Like, I ain't gonna be like, oh

1503
01:08:47,640 --> 01:08:49,519
Speaker 2: you said with fifty eleven people, I don't want you

1504
01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:51,760
Speaker 2: no more. Know, Like whatever she did in the past,

1505
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:53,920
Speaker 2: so I did in the past. Like we love each

1506
01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:56,080
Speaker 2: other now, yeah, and we're here for each other now

1507
01:08:56,160 --> 01:08:57,080
Speaker 2: and support each other now.

1508
01:08:57,160 --> 01:08:59,559
Speaker 1: So I don't think. I don't think that should matter.

1509
01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 1: We've never even had this conversation really never. Oh wow.

1510
01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:09,280
Speaker 1: But in the beginning, I was like, I wonder if

1511
01:09:09,320 --> 01:09:11,599
Speaker 1: she gonna ask me all of these random ask questions

1512
01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 1: be asking.

1513
01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:18,000
Speaker 3: Did but would you feel like relationships both being at y'all,

1514
01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:20,639
Speaker 3: like both in the industry, would you feel like, oh,

1515
01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:22,880
Speaker 3: I know, Brad used to talk to this girl and

1516
01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:24,439
Speaker 3: I used to date her, would y'all feel like you

1517
01:09:24,479 --> 01:09:26,560
Speaker 3: would have to tell your partners you dated somebody that

1518
01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 3: they knew, Like, did y'all ever date somebody that, like

1519
01:09:30,560 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 3: y'all was cool?

1520
01:09:31,439 --> 01:09:35,680
Speaker 1: Well, so we've had pillow talk on pillow talk. That

1521
01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 1: might be conversation, but it's not like, you know, it's

1522
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:40,760
Speaker 1: not like who did you date back in the day?

1523
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:43,640
Speaker 2: You date somebody in the industry. She would tell me

1524
01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:45,559
Speaker 2: about people that may have flirted with her.

1525
01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:48,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's like okay, Like, but it's so crazy

1526
01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:52,760
Speaker 3: because men, especially in the industry, are like that, who man,

1527
01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 3: let me know, because I don't want to be a

1528
01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:55,080
Speaker 3: nigga's faces knowing that.

1529
01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:56,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, Now, I.

1530
01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:58,639
Speaker 3: Will say to this day, they may not do body count,

1531
01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:01,320
Speaker 3: but they want to know if they're in the industry,

1532
01:10:01,360 --> 01:10:04,040
Speaker 3: they want to know every industry man you have ever

1533
01:10:04,160 --> 01:10:04,760
Speaker 3: even text.

1534
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:08,639
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even tell them. I wouldn't even tell Yeah,

1535
01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 1: they are very much like that you wasn't around. Is

1536
01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:15,759
Speaker 1: half of them probably have been with every damn by exactly?

1537
01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:19,960
Speaker 1: How is it fair that if it's thirty people, you

1538
01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:21,680
Speaker 1: didn't hit all thirty, but you don't want me to

1539
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:26,360
Speaker 1: have talk to fucking one. Yeah, it's unrealistic. For real.

1540
01:10:27,600 --> 01:10:31,960
Speaker 1: It's a huge double standard. It's very strange. But I

1541
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:32,280
Speaker 1: don't know.

1542
01:10:32,479 --> 01:10:36,320
Speaker 4: Cycling back to the topic, I definitely when I was younger,

1543
01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:38,080
Speaker 4: be cause I used to date girls when I was younger,

1544
01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:41,040
Speaker 4: and I definitely used to feel like the girls I slipt,

1545
01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:41,800
Speaker 4: we didn't count.

1546
01:10:45,800 --> 01:10:48,040
Speaker 1: When you're dating a nigga, they don't care as one.

1547
01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 1: They don't and they don't count it. No, when you

1548
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:53,320
Speaker 1: date niggas, they didn't. They didn't care like the women.

1549
01:10:53,400 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 1: It was just like, oh whatever, yeah take it. Even

1550
01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 1: let you date the women on the side. If it didn't,

1551
01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:06,840
Speaker 1: that's true, it's like because they had ship going on on.

1552
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:10,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, But I think sometimes it's like a little sick,

1553
01:11:10,160 --> 01:11:13,360
Speaker 4: little fantasy that they have to feel like.

1554
01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:16,200
Speaker 3: Men let their women that they're dating talk to other

1555
01:11:16,280 --> 01:11:18,960
Speaker 3: women because they be hoping, like he can come along

1556
01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:22,240
Speaker 3: one day, y'all gonna include him. It's not like to

1557
01:11:22,479 --> 01:11:24,080
Speaker 3: free because as soon as she said I want.

1558
01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:29,479
Speaker 1: Somenother dick say that, you know what I'm saying. So

1559
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:32,720
Speaker 1: they like to let that line be very, very gray. Yeah.

1560
01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:35,960
Speaker 4: I also think women we're just way less judgment to

1561
01:11:36,040 --> 01:11:37,160
Speaker 4: about those type of things.

1562
01:11:37,280 --> 01:11:40,240
Speaker 1: Men are, So why don't you count women as a body.

1563
01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:42,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess I just didn't feel like

1564
01:11:42,520 --> 01:11:45,760
Speaker 1: it was the same thing. So I didn't count. You

1565
01:11:45,760 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 1: don't count women as a body. I'm saying if you

1566
01:11:48,479 --> 01:11:51,800
Speaker 1: d men, yeah, that don't count. They don't count. To

1567
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:58,720
Speaker 1: get women in the other set, how they don't count though,

1568
01:11:58,880 --> 01:12:01,479
Speaker 1: I don't get her that. I don't know. I was young.

1569
01:12:02,560 --> 01:12:05,360
Speaker 1: I think you because it is it because of the penetration.

1570
01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:10,920
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, like I'm not being penetrated, so maybe,

1571
01:12:11,280 --> 01:12:14,640
Speaker 1: but you're still coming. That's true. But I don't know.

1572
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:16,320
Speaker 1: I didn't used to look at it like that. I

1573
01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:19,360
Speaker 1: really need it like that. I don't know why.

1574
01:12:19,760 --> 01:12:21,920
Speaker 4: You know, they say your body, your body can't start

1575
01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:22,880
Speaker 4: over every year anyway.

1576
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:29,240
Speaker 1: He's like on the first I like that every year

1577
01:12:29,479 --> 01:12:35,120
Speaker 1: every year. Okay you nobody, Yes, what we got next? Dreyer. Okay,

1578
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 1: now it's time to get into the bat the pop

1579
01:12:39,680 --> 01:12:48,719
Speaker 1: bow bowl. We're almost done, Like, wrap this up, wrap

1580
01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:49,360
Speaker 1: it up, okay.

1581
01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:51,559
Speaker 3: So Bob of the Week is whatever music that we've

1582
01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:54,240
Speaker 3: been listening to. It could be new oh whatever you've

1583
01:12:54,280 --> 01:12:57,040
Speaker 3: been you know, listening to when you jam in, working

1584
01:12:57,080 --> 01:12:57,519
Speaker 3: out whatever.

1585
01:12:57,640 --> 01:12:59,719
Speaker 1: Okay, so y'all know I'm a R and B girly.

1586
01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:01,280
Speaker 1: I love when I discover new artists.

1587
01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:04,080
Speaker 3: This is an artist's name is Ohso and he has

1588
01:13:04,120 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 3: a song called all about You or y'all R and

1589
01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:08,720
Speaker 3: B people. This is like a kind of song you

1590
01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:10,559
Speaker 3: can like, this will be a perfect song for y'all

1591
01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:11,519
Speaker 3: because it's like all about you.

1592
01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:13,840
Speaker 1: I'm in love. This is my men, my men, my woman,

1593
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:14,679
Speaker 1: my woman, whatever.

1594
01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:17,360
Speaker 3: It's that kind of song like on a Sunday when

1595
01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:19,360
Speaker 3: you cleaning up the house and you just want to

1596
01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:22,120
Speaker 3: listen to and vibe. And y'all are in y'all's beautiful

1597
01:13:22,160 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 3: home with your big shining diamonds. I see it's getting chilly.

1598
01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:28,680
Speaker 3: So this is just like a cute love song. You know,

1599
01:13:29,360 --> 01:13:31,840
Speaker 3: love is in the air. We love February March.

1600
01:13:31,920 --> 01:13:34,760
Speaker 1: It's like love is in the air. So also all

1601
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:37,320
Speaker 1: about you. That's my bop of the week. What y'all

1602
01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: been listening to? Oh, it don't have to be new.

1603
01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:48,400
Speaker 1: It's a lot of kiddy songs. Okay, so simple right

1604
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:53,479
Speaker 1: now he gets super excited about this song. So it's

1605
01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:57,120
Speaker 1: something that we have on repeating the host Okay, and

1606
01:13:57,280 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 1: we all fall down. Oh she excited because now he

1607
01:14:01,560 --> 01:14:02,160
Speaker 1: does the action.

1608
01:14:04,560 --> 01:14:06,200
Speaker 3: I get it through because the hot Dog from the

1609
01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:11,479
Speaker 3: Mickey Mounse Club, Hot hot Dog, hot Dog Lord my

1610
01:14:11,640 --> 01:14:16,040
Speaker 3: nephews enough to turn onel.

1611
01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:21,280
Speaker 1: It's Rachel. Yeah, oh yeah corner. Yeah, okay, all right

1612
01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:29,320
Speaker 1: there Grace and having a bop? She don't you want

1613
01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:33,639
Speaker 1: to play? Yes? Actually that what sound? Does that matter?

1614
01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:34,040
Speaker 3: Man?

1615
01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:39,160
Speaker 1: Does that matter? Man? That is funny? Okay, I can

1616
01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:41,479
Speaker 1: do a little Grace's corner. I can do that. Yeah.

1617
01:14:43,240 --> 01:14:47,479
Speaker 4: I haven't really been listening to anything new, not like

1618
01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 4: for the past week or two, because I feel like, no,

1619
01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:52,040
Speaker 4: at least not for me, no good new music has

1620
01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:55,240
Speaker 4: really been coming out. But Ladies Night was a vibe.

1621
01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:58,360
Speaker 4: So it's gonna be my viob because that was a

1622
01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:01,400
Speaker 4: good song and cause we was just talking about it.

1623
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 3: That was when like videos were like a big thing

1624
01:15:05,960 --> 01:15:07,880
Speaker 3: on like MTV and b When that song would come on.

1625
01:15:07,920 --> 01:15:12,960
Speaker 1: You hear that dice shake yes to the mess? That

1626
01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:15,800
Speaker 1: was the I mean it was such a fun video.

1627
01:15:15,880 --> 01:15:19,519
Speaker 1: Did y'all have fun? We did? Yes, We never forget it.

1628
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:22,080
Speaker 1: We had a great time. I love that. I remember

1629
01:15:22,120 --> 01:15:23,320
Speaker 1: I was just like, oh my god, I want to

1630
01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:27,160
Speaker 1: be there. Everybody was dead, everybody, it was everybody was

1631
01:15:27,200 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 1: in a video, y'all.

1632
01:15:28,160 --> 01:15:31,280
Speaker 3: I loved me so Missy Elliott too, Yeah, a legend.

1633
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:33,760
Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna get into our favorite segment. It's

1634
01:15:33,800 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 3: the last one, the last one.

1635
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:38,280
Speaker 1: We hear. Now, y'all give good advice. I know y'all

1636
01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:41,640
Speaker 1: do give good advice. Yes, this is advice. Okay, so

1637
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:44,320
Speaker 1: this is the poor of your heart out segments.

1638
01:15:44,439 --> 01:15:45,880
Speaker 3: You know, if you want your question to answered on

1639
01:15:45,920 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 3: the show, make sure you email us at ask poor

1640
01:15:48,200 --> 01:15:52,960
Speaker 3: Minds at gmail dot com. All right, here we go, Hey, Lexandrea,

1641
01:15:53,240 --> 01:15:55,040
Speaker 3: I really loved the show, and I just wanted to

1642
01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:57,240
Speaker 3: I wanted to ask you guys what you guys think

1643
01:15:57,320 --> 01:16:01,240
Speaker 3: about relationships at eighteen and b a part at college.

1644
01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:04,320
Speaker 3: I'm not worried about any cheating, but sometimes I want

1645
01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:06,280
Speaker 3: to talk every day, but it just seems like he

1646
01:16:06,400 --> 01:16:09,160
Speaker 3: has so much going on to where he doesn't always

1647
01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:12,640
Speaker 3: take initiative to communicate as much as I feel like

1648
01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:15,720
Speaker 3: he should, because to me, it doesn't take long to

1649
01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:19,320
Speaker 3: send a small text. Granted I do text first sometimes,

1650
01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:22,639
Speaker 3: but the other times I don't on purpose to see

1651
01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:23,839
Speaker 3: if he's gonna say anything.

1652
01:16:24,280 --> 01:16:26,200
Speaker 1: I do give grace and I don't want to put a.

1653
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:28,960
Speaker 3: Lot of pressure on him, so I'll fall back at times,

1654
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:31,320
Speaker 3: but I don't know what to do overall. He is

1655
01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:33,600
Speaker 3: a sweet person and does express his love for me,

1656
01:16:33,920 --> 01:16:37,080
Speaker 3: but I'm not entirely sure if that's enough. Also, we've

1657
01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:39,559
Speaker 3: been with each other for ten months now and he's

1658
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:42,280
Speaker 3: never given me flowers, and I don't like that. Is

1659
01:16:42,400 --> 01:16:46,000
Speaker 3: this again time thing because we're young or something else?

1660
01:16:48,640 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 1: Good? In college? Is going buck? Why that motherfucker? Yeah,

1661
01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:55,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1662
01:16:56,040 --> 01:16:59,080
Speaker 4: I like college relationships, saysition. When y'all don't go to

1663
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:02,200
Speaker 4: the same school, it's a little difficult. I cheated on

1664
01:17:02,320 --> 01:17:03,439
Speaker 4: my colleague same.

1665
01:17:04,960 --> 01:17:05,559
Speaker 1: We was dating.

1666
01:17:05,640 --> 01:17:07,280
Speaker 4: I was just giving it that I went to college

1667
01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:10,320
Speaker 4: and he was still in Houston, and I definitely cheated

1668
01:17:10,360 --> 01:17:12,040
Speaker 4: out him, and then we broke up shortly after, because

1669
01:17:12,080 --> 01:17:13,840
Speaker 4: I mean, it's just difficult when you're not in the

1670
01:17:13,880 --> 01:17:16,920
Speaker 4: SCA city anymore and you in school day night, so

1671
01:17:17,080 --> 01:17:17,760
Speaker 4: y'all are just living.

1672
01:17:19,560 --> 01:17:22,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and then he's so young that h That's

1673
01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:24,400
Speaker 1: what I was like. But I know at that age,

1674
01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:26,720
Speaker 1: we didn't want to hear that. Yeah, we did, you know,

1675
01:17:26,880 --> 01:17:29,519
Speaker 1: but it's and yeah, girl, he's doing his thing. Yeah,

1676
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:31,840
Speaker 1: and I think you should do your thing. Yeah right.

1677
01:17:32,240 --> 01:17:34,320
Speaker 3: I feel like both the years where you really discover

1678
01:17:34,560 --> 01:17:36,720
Speaker 3: what you like as a woman, what you want to

1679
01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:38,800
Speaker 3: do with your career. Like there's so many things that

1680
01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:41,680
Speaker 3: you need to be focused on outside of a relationship,

1681
01:17:41,880 --> 01:17:43,640
Speaker 3: because I feel like when I was in college, I

1682
01:17:43,680 --> 01:17:45,640
Speaker 3: feel like society told us, Okay, college is where you

1683
01:17:45,720 --> 01:17:48,080
Speaker 3: find your husband and you settle down by the time

1684
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:50,200
Speaker 3: you graduate, y'all supposed to get married and have kids.

1685
01:17:50,240 --> 01:17:52,759
Speaker 3: And it's just like, no, I don't want to focus

1686
01:17:52,800 --> 01:17:54,160
Speaker 3: on how to be a wife. I want to learn

1687
01:17:54,280 --> 01:17:56,800
Speaker 3: things and you know, be a boss and figure out

1688
01:17:56,840 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 3: what I want to do with my life. And later

1689
01:17:58,560 --> 01:18:00,680
Speaker 3: on you're not going to even be attracted to the

1690
01:18:00,760 --> 01:18:04,160
Speaker 3: same type of person that you are at eighteen. Right,

1691
01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:08,920
Speaker 3: that's true, you know true. So girl, don't stretch yourself out.

1692
01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:11,880
Speaker 3: Enjoy college because once you get out, shit gets real.

1693
01:18:12,120 --> 01:18:17,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, hello, gets too real? Chair have a real responsibility?

1694
01:18:18,120 --> 01:18:20,880
Speaker 1: None right, All right, y'all bottled up?

1695
01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:22,880
Speaker 3: If you have something in chest, send us a thirty

1696
01:18:22,960 --> 01:18:25,600
Speaker 3: to sixty second little voicemail and we might play it

1697
01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:26,080
Speaker 3: on the show.

1698
01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:28,880
Speaker 5: Go ahead, Morgan, I'm starting to think that the women

1699
01:18:28,960 --> 01:18:31,599
Speaker 5: are the problem, and it's not the men. We see

1700
01:18:31,640 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 5: all these podcasts, all these relationship advice, all this shit.

1701
01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:37,519
Speaker 5: But I have at the point where I believe that

1702
01:18:37,680 --> 01:18:41,960
Speaker 5: men are just simply hurt because men are men do

1703
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:43,280
Speaker 5: not let go of shit like we do.

1704
01:18:43,360 --> 01:18:45,360
Speaker 1: We're hope it's romantics. Men are not right.

1705
01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:47,960
Speaker 5: So I think all these men that are fucking up

1706
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:49,960
Speaker 5: out here and hurting women, they're just doing it out

1707
01:18:49,960 --> 01:18:51,559
Speaker 5: of hurt. And we need to have a real come

1708
01:18:51,600 --> 01:18:54,360
Speaker 5: to Jesus and on these podcasts, stop bashing each other,

1709
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:56,479
Speaker 5: but just come to a consensus that we both need.

1710
01:18:56,439 --> 01:19:00,400
Speaker 1: Grace, we both need space to heal and to deal and.

1711
01:19:00,560 --> 01:19:04,080
Speaker 5: To really like shape back and love each other because

1712
01:19:04,200 --> 01:19:05,760
Speaker 5: it's just the battle of the black family. And we

1713
01:19:05,760 --> 01:19:08,000
Speaker 5: already got enough against us, including Trump and Venezuela and

1714
01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:08,639
Speaker 5: all the bullshit.

1715
01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:14,559
Speaker 1: But that's for me. I got some word.

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01:19:14,680 --> 01:19:16,760
Speaker 3: No, I do agree with that, but I do think

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01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:19,479
Speaker 3: that's an excuse that hurt people.

1718
01:19:19,560 --> 01:19:20,040
Speaker 1: Hurt people.

1719
01:19:20,120 --> 01:19:22,160
Speaker 3: No, you go work on yourself before you out here

1720
01:19:22,280 --> 01:19:26,240
Speaker 3: terrorizing motherfuckers. So I do think that people deserve grace,

1721
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:28,160
Speaker 3: But I'm not giving you grace if you're going around

1722
01:19:28,479 --> 01:19:30,800
Speaker 3: terrorizing women just because somebody didn't want to give you

1723
01:19:30,840 --> 01:19:34,000
Speaker 3: their crayons in kindergarten, go here and go to therapy.

1724
01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:37,439
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So is it all it

1725
01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:39,640
Speaker 1: was always our responsibility? You know what I'm saying. Why

1726
01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:41,639
Speaker 1: is it always back on the women that we gotta

1727
01:19:42,040 --> 01:19:44,200
Speaker 1: we have to just we always got to get every

1728
01:19:44,240 --> 01:19:49,200
Speaker 1: great we always have, no because I do think when women,

1729
01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:51,160
Speaker 1: when we're hurt, we don't take it out on the world.

1730
01:19:51,560 --> 01:19:52,160
Speaker 1: We don't do that.

1731
01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:54,200
Speaker 3: We deal with it internally and we figured out we

1732
01:19:54,320 --> 01:19:56,000
Speaker 3: lean on our girlfriends, lean on our family.

1733
01:19:56,080 --> 01:19:58,400
Speaker 1: But we taught to carry that at very early age. Yeah,

1734
01:19:58,520 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 1: like we're taught to carry Yeah. So we're supposed to

1735
01:20:01,960 --> 01:20:05,280
Speaker 1: be healers. Yeah, No, I'm not healing no nigga, especially

1736
01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:07,280
Speaker 1: no grown as. I agree. I agree.

1737
01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:10,639
Speaker 3: So let everybody know where they can find. No book,

1738
01:20:10,960 --> 01:20:12,240
Speaker 3: what's going on with Coladas?

1739
01:20:12,600 --> 01:20:14,240
Speaker 1: What's going on? Let's let everybody know.

1740
01:20:16,840 --> 01:20:21,240
Speaker 2: Beautiful, go ahead, beautiful. Well, the link is on all

1741
01:20:21,320 --> 01:20:24,960
Speaker 2: of our pages. My Instagram is so So Brad Hers

1742
01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:27,360
Speaker 2: is the real bb Judy. It's on my YouTube. My

1743
01:20:27,479 --> 01:20:30,840
Speaker 2: YouTube is the Brat TV. It's on TikTok, it's on everything.

1744
01:20:30,920 --> 01:20:33,120
Speaker 2: It's on all of our pages. In the link, you

1745
01:20:33,200 --> 01:20:35,360
Speaker 2: can go to Ami Style. You can go to HarperCollins

1746
01:20:35,400 --> 01:20:38,439
Speaker 2: dot com to get the book and you can pre

1747
01:20:38,640 --> 01:20:39,120
Speaker 2: order now.

1748
01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:43,240
Speaker 1: And we're starting a book tour this weekend. It starts

1749
01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:46,320
Speaker 1: Sunday in DC and we're doing a whole book too.

1750
01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:47,920
Speaker 1: We're going all over the place. You can check our

1751
01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:50,360
Speaker 1: social media to see where we're gonna be at. We

1752
01:20:50,479 --> 01:20:51,519
Speaker 1: come in and have a good time.

1753
01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:55,080
Speaker 2: It's gonna be intimate, good conversations, and we're gonna make

1754
01:20:55,080 --> 01:20:57,320
Speaker 2: it real memorable for y'allf y'all come out and see us.

1755
01:20:57,400 --> 01:21:00,280
Speaker 1: So it's your ticket to get your tickets. Get your

1756
01:21:00,360 --> 01:21:04,599
Speaker 1: ticket and the book. Come with the ticket. Get the ticket. Yeah, okay, yeah,

1757
01:21:04,680 --> 01:21:07,719
Speaker 1: you better I'm coming. If you don't, I'm posting about

1758
01:21:11,720 --> 01:21:14,360
Speaker 1: I promise I'm coming. And I'm gonna have read it too,

1759
01:21:14,800 --> 01:21:16,640
Speaker 1: That's what I say. And get your Colleidi scope by

1760
01:21:16,720 --> 01:21:17,000
Speaker 1: the bread.

1761
01:21:17,040 --> 01:21:19,840
Speaker 2: I got everything you need for your hair, for protective styles,

1762
01:21:19,920 --> 01:21:22,960
Speaker 2: for braids, locks, so so slick Grip Jail is the

1763
01:21:23,320 --> 01:21:26,400
Speaker 2: number one grip jail in the country. It's sold at Walmart,

1764
01:21:26,560 --> 01:21:31,479
Speaker 2: all your beauty supply stores, everywhere else. What else we

1765
01:21:31,840 --> 01:21:33,879
Speaker 2: have she has new products like I have new products

1766
01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:36,240
Speaker 2: coming out it's all kind of happened, and my wife

1767
01:21:36,800 --> 01:21:37,920
Speaker 2: was like, what is wrong with you?

1768
01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:40,479
Speaker 1: You've been wearing braids since the nineties. You need your

1769
01:21:40,520 --> 01:21:44,160
Speaker 1: own line. I agree. Why about It's like, why you're

1770
01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:46,800
Speaker 1: not about to make this money so right? Like tell

1771
01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:48,559
Speaker 1: me the stuff that that you feel like it's best

1772
01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:51,320
Speaker 1: for protective styles since you are missings protected. I like her,

1773
01:21:51,439 --> 01:21:55,439
Speaker 1: You're gonna figure out the business. I'm gonna start selling.

1774
01:21:55,520 --> 01:22:00,559
Speaker 1: Diaper has its own collection that launched in December. Make

1775
01:22:00,600 --> 01:22:04,240
Speaker 1: sure to get that too. It's know that's right. Well,

1776
01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:06,519
Speaker 1: thank y'all so much. This was so much fun. I'm

1777
01:22:06,560 --> 01:22:09,120
Speaker 1: coming through the bu signing. Yes, we're both gonna pull up.

1778
01:22:09,200 --> 01:22:11,519
Speaker 1: This is amazing and God bless y'all.

1779
01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:15,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, blessing all your endeavors moving forward, and we're gonna

1780
01:22:15,720 --> 01:22:16,559
Speaker 3: see y'all real son.

1781
01:22:17,720 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 1: This was so fun you.

1782
01:22:20,040 --> 01:22:26,439
Speaker 4: I mean watching you so very long, trying to get

1783
01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:31,519
Speaker 4: my nerve bills up to be so strong. I really

1784
01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:36,559
Speaker 4: want to meet you, but I'm kind of scared because

1785
01:22:36,720 --> 01:22:42,200
Speaker 4: you're the kind of lady with so much glass. I

1786
01:22:42,320 --> 01:22:47,519
Speaker 4: get my thoughts together for the very next day, but

1787
01:22:47,840 --> 01:22:53,000
Speaker 4: when I see you, I forget what to say.

1788
01:22:55,560 --> 01:23:00,599
Speaker 1: But your beautiful tone, the way you dress, saying walk

1789
01:23:01,320 --> 01:23:08,519
Speaker 1: it really turns me on. Oh you're gonna turn me home.

1790
01:23:10,240 --> 01:23:15,160
Speaker 1: Come and talk to me. I really wanna be you.

1791
01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:20,600
Speaker 1: Can I talk to you. I really wanna know you.

1792
01:23:21,400 --> 01:23:25,560
Speaker 1: Come and talk to me. I really won't up me.

1793
01:23:26,240 --> 01:23:32,960
Speaker 1: You Can I talk to you. I really wanna know you. Period.

1794
01:23:34,720 --> 01:23:38,200
Speaker 1: We'll see y'all next week. Ho atney are y'all