WEBVTT - Chaos on Christmas 

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back

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<v Speaker 1>with yet another Can'tfully Reckless episode with your girl just hilarious. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a special guests in the building, somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>ain't been here in a long, long long time.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's not Taylor, it's excuse me.

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<v Speaker 1>You got a little bit too much going on. You

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<v Speaker 1>got you got, you got too much going on with

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<v Speaker 1>the sound effects and the huffing and puffing like you're

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<v Speaker 1>about to blow a house down and share the girl, say,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up to my best friend?

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<v Speaker 2>That's my best friend period.

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<v Speaker 1>So she here today. We're gonna go over this mess

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<v Speaker 1>and she's gonna help me fix y'all ship. Y'all listen,

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<v Speaker 1>we got some holiday stories.

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<v Speaker 2>You tell me we was doing that. Yeah, we got

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<v Speaker 2>some holidays. Hey, yo, yo, you got to help me

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<v Speaker 2>fix these people masks. It's the holidays and people going

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<v Speaker 2>through some ship y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, come on, y'all, all right, don't come up here

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<v Speaker 1>like doing all this.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, I need more, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So this was a long a story, but I had

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<v Speaker 1>to basically summarize it. So this man started beefing with

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<v Speaker 1>his girl around holidays every year around the holidays. Lay

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<v Speaker 1>not yet, and she's starting to think it's on purpose

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<v Speaker 1>to avoid getting her gifts. Yeah, so she asked me,

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<v Speaker 1>what did she think she should do. She basically like,

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<v Speaker 1>leave him or whatever, because this is the third year

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<v Speaker 1>in the world that he's done this.

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<v Speaker 2>They've been together for four years. The first year, he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't do this. Shit. The second year, yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 2>a beef.

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<v Speaker 1>She just thought it was like a little quarrel, a

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<v Speaker 1>little speed bump in a relationship. The third year, he

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<v Speaker 1>went to go spend Christmas the New Year's at his

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<v Speaker 1>mom's house without her, didn't even invite her, and she

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<v Speaker 1>said they reconvened after the New Year and shit. And

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<v Speaker 1>then this year he's starting to pick, like he's been

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<v Speaker 1>picking with her since, you know, since Thanksgiving up. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been through something similar before, but it was birthdays.

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<v Speaker 1>So the first birthday was in the beginning of the year,

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<v Speaker 1>so they would get all that ship this the beginning

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<v Speaker 1>of the year. My birthday in October, so come October

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<v Speaker 1>we beefing every year.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, wait a minute, and then roll back

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<v Speaker 2>around to February. Uh, now shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool, shit cool because Valentine's Day, yeah, and then the

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<v Speaker 1>birthday coming up, so it's like, you know, everything good, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I would say definitely I stayed longer than

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<v Speaker 1>I should have.

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<v Speaker 2>But I would definitely say the book up out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>And now when you say you stayed longer than you

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<v Speaker 1>should have, was it because everything else that was happening,

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<v Speaker 1>like it was that like the only thing that was

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<v Speaker 1>like the only thing was in love? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all niggas was in love and ship. Oh my god, anyway, please,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so I loudly hellout, excuse.

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<v Speaker 2>Clean through, I got a little cool. Oh what the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck are you doing in here sitting next to me? Shit,

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<v Speaker 2>I got a fucking daughter who's going on four months.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't trying to be six for sick for Christmas? Damn.

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<v Speaker 1>And I got two shows. So anyway, anyway, it's so

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<v Speaker 1>wild sick right now, he's gonna send me the is

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<v Speaker 1>something going around a way, He's something going around this

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<v Speaker 1>country ship anyway. So all right, so you was in love?

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe yeah, maybe she just in love too, because

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<v Speaker 1>this is the third year that she said that he

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<v Speaker 1>has actually picked like picked fights, like started like little

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<v Speaker 1>beefs or whatever. And she caught on the second year,

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<v Speaker 1>but she didn't want to make it a thing. But

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<v Speaker 1>this year is definitely a thing, and she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know what.

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<v Speaker 2>She should do.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should sit down with that, nigga. I'm like, nah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>nigga started of sitting down.

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<v Speaker 2>Niggas tied of sitting down.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, out of the baby will stand up ship,

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<v Speaker 1>stand up and talk and walk out the door.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't be telling nobody to leave. It's like, and what

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<v Speaker 2>a thing? Got Like, all right, what kind of work

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<v Speaker 2>does he do? Like you do this year? And then

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<v Speaker 2>next year in the gift of that Oh my no,

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<v Speaker 2>where you put it like that?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like no, but she even gets to the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of it. He already put into He already does he did,

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<v Speaker 1>he already started like three times.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, so it is the pattern. Yes, we do know.

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<v Speaker 1>I still all right, even if she don't, I think

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<v Speaker 1>she should still sit down with him and talk some

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<v Speaker 1>about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Let her let him know. Like, look, I'm sure she

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<v Speaker 2>did this three times, she said.

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<v Speaker 1>The first time she didn't, the second time she ain't

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<v Speaker 1>want to make it a big deal, and the third

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<v Speaker 1>year she noticing it I'm at the point where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not I'm not doing no more repeating myself, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like this, look, you don't get it all right,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe two times, but come on, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>For this, how did I get it? She' I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>she was. That's why I said they'd be leaving hell

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<v Speaker 2>of met off the bone.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm about to start putting a form on

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<v Speaker 1>the website, like you have to be able to tell

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<v Speaker 1>me a lot more about shit. We know something, but

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<v Speaker 1>we don't know everything. We need to know how old

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<v Speaker 1>y'all are, Like what kind of work he does? Because

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest with you, listen, I can even sympathize

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<v Speaker 1>with him if that's what that's I don't care.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, I'm not going to start beefs. But

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<v Speaker 2>as an adult, as a.

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<v Speaker 1>Thirty two year old woman, oh no, Christmas is very

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<v Speaker 1>expensive and I'm like, everybody feel like they should get something.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck no, I feel like if you ain't, if you.

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<v Speaker 1>Ain't my children, then now I barely got something for

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<v Speaker 1>Chris baby, I barely got something for my mom and

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<v Speaker 1>my dad.

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<v Speaker 2>Shit, y'all got me and my beautiful child.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh please please, Now you don't even have no house,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have no bills, you don't have nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to get everybody something you don't want with

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<v Speaker 2>all the moody shit, send me on a trip.

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<v Speaker 1>Shit, man, y'all these people don't went to Jamaica without

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<v Speaker 1>me because I was stuck breastpeeding.

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<v Speaker 2>You know you were stuck at work.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, baby, never been stuck at Yeah, you was big

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<v Speaker 1>stuck because you had to come back after having that

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<v Speaker 1>little baby. Yeah, the little baby that cried when she

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<v Speaker 1>saw you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, because she's jealous of me. What she tried

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<v Speaker 2>to steal my best friend all the baby. Oh damn,

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<v Speaker 2>Hold up, hold up.

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<v Speaker 1>I know the ship getting good, But listen to just

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll listen anyway. Yeah, back to this the lady story.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk to him, honey, I think you should talk to

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<v Speaker 1>this man.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I mean, it's some some stories are just obvious.

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<v Speaker 2>Some ship is just obvious. Like to me, it's just

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, I love going through the struggle. I know,

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<v Speaker 2>get you a woman, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh uh No, we are not pushing. We're not pushing

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<v Speaker 1>the gay agenda. No, we are not pushing.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't do that. But yeah, I mean I feel but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>do something.

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<v Speaker 1>But all right, because I want to also know she

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<v Speaker 1>needs to update me, because I want to also know

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<v Speaker 1>do you get him gifts every year?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean not getting anything? Like is he not getting

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<v Speaker 2>you shit? Doing everything? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, or she wouldn't be writing me. But did

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<v Speaker 1>you not get nothing for Christmas in the past three years?

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<v Speaker 2>Like is it just like.

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<v Speaker 1>Or is it like the bare minimum he's doing or

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<v Speaker 1>is it just the fact that he's picking arguments to

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<v Speaker 1>not have to spend time with you, or because you

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<v Speaker 1>just said the thing about gifts, but the second year

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<v Speaker 1>you said he went and spent Christmas with his parents

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<v Speaker 1>and shit and didn't even invite you. What about other

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<v Speaker 1>holidays and like, yeah, birthdays and things like that?

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<v Speaker 2>Do he shot up for you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So I think you need to like give us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more you know, context around this or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>because I ain't trying to have you leave somebody when

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<v Speaker 1>it can really just be a conversation, or I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>trying to have you stayed with somebody when.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really downhill, like nah, it ain't.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing else to say, it's like nah, yeah, nah, nah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's petty we together, and we together, you can

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<v Speaker 1>tell me if it's because you're struggling, nigga, open communication.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me know.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I ain't got it with the ship that you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be too expensive, so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Or baby, every day is Christmas for you or every

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<v Speaker 2>month is Christmas, so.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like yo, I mean, I ain't really got it

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<v Speaker 1>this time, anything like there needs to be a communication.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't tell me you talk to him? No, not

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<v Speaker 2>every year?

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<v Speaker 1>But what unless the man got another bit somewhere? Shit,

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<v Speaker 1>because that seemed like that's what you are trying to

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<v Speaker 1>hear that for three years straight. Oh baby, my pocket

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<v Speaker 1>is no, I can't do it. Like no, nigga, what

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<v Speaker 1>if I asked one of burking, what if she want

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<v Speaker 1>to like you know what I'm saying, what yeah, what

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<v Speaker 1>if she want something that this man cannot afford every year?

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<v Speaker 1>What if she is you know, because the first year

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<v Speaker 1>he had no problems, That's what did she said?

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<v Speaker 2>The first year? No, they was together four years.

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<v Speaker 1>The first year he you know, they bought each other

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<v Speaker 1>gifts every day, spent Christmas together, everything was good. The

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<v Speaker 1>next year she said, he picked a fight and you

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<v Speaker 1>know he didn't get her anything for Christmas, yeah said,

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<v Speaker 1>or anything and so updated, and I'm let us know

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on on kind and by the time they updated,

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<v Speaker 1>she won't be here. So let me know what the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck is going on, and we're gonna move on, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>all kind, all right, So again I'm summarizing because I

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<v Speaker 1>want to get It's three Christmas stories that I chose,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think these are they all three of them

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<v Speaker 1>are different. Yes the fuck this person doesn't get along

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<v Speaker 1>with their family, but they want advice on keeping it

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<v Speaker 1>cool on Christmas. Okay, so you don't get along with

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<v Speaker 1>the whole family. Now this person did say the whole family.

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<v Speaker 1>She only gets along with her two aunts and her cousin.

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<v Speaker 1>But they have a really really big family and they

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<v Speaker 1>they the grandmother has a huge, huge, huge home and

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<v Speaker 1>they all meet there. They all meet there for Christmas

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<v Speaker 1>every year. But she has an issue with basically the

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<v Speaker 1>whole family outside of her two aunts and her cousin,

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<v Speaker 1>and but she wants to want advice on how she

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<v Speaker 1>can keep it cool, just going in on fucking say shit,

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<v Speaker 1>because obviously if everybody got a problem with she you

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<v Speaker 1>the problem, she judge.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's all we're going on.

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<v Speaker 1>For Yeah, because if it's a big, big, big family.

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<v Speaker 1>Now she said, it's about three full fucking are you

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<v Speaker 1>sure she ain't say you more than that?

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<v Speaker 2>No? What that like her? Yeah? Just two aunts?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, she says she has a very problematic family.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody's toxic and they all have a problem with her.

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<v Speaker 1>So don't sit down and say she's a problem So

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<v Speaker 1>everybody niggas is weird. No, no, no, no, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>to believe everybody just got a problem with you. If

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<v Speaker 1>they're problematic and toxic, then everybody shouldn't like each other.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. It should be more beefs

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<v Speaker 2>than just with her.

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<v Speaker 1>No that it's only two aunts and a cousin that

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<v Speaker 1>you fuck with, And I imagine these are the family

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<v Speaker 1>members that.

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<v Speaker 2>That she comes for.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, because I wouldn't go, I don't family or not

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<v Speaker 1>if I know y'alln't fuck with me, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>fuck with y'all, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Not showing up, said Jing Google and Google Bell Like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't give a fuck. We know, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 2>make a plate.

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<v Speaker 1>Not if everybody don't like you, and not if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like everybody, you're not eating my food.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby, never call.

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<v Speaker 1>My turkey if the fuck I don't like you, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right for Christmas, I've never not liked you.

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<v Speaker 2>Make a turkey for I made up certain even thinks

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<v Speaker 2>givings and you are any here because you ain't call

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<v Speaker 2>me back? Why the fuck do I need to call you?

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<v Speaker 2>She need you?

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, You're a pop up in my house even when

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<v Speaker 1>I fuck, I'm not dead, I come home you on

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<v Speaker 1>my pool, baby, So please, what the fuck do I

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<v Speaker 1>need to call you back for? Because I called you whatever?

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<v Speaker 1>And I live for yo, I lived so fucking far

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<v Speaker 1>from her, but she drives and she a driver for

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<v Speaker 1>her fucking career.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby, drive every day. So it's like, why you can't

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<v Speaker 2>drive my house when I call you? Call me back?

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<v Speaker 2>The point is what we're gonna tell this lady about this? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I can't do my podcast. You be not

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<v Speaker 1>helping people. We fucking fussing each other. All right, just

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<v Speaker 1>tell her? I mean all right, I'm telling you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay to you don't even remember the story. She got a.

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<v Speaker 1>Problem with her family, Yeah, yeah, family met us. So

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<v Speaker 1>try to work be with your to try to work

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<v Speaker 1>it out whatever the issue is. You know, y'all gott

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<v Speaker 1>to talk, y'all gott to come together, Yeah, and figure

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<v Speaker 1>this thing out.

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<v Speaker 2>I need more information.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like wow, now and listen and listen. I'm summarizing

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<v Speaker 1>these but she really didn't give me much. She didn't

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<v Speaker 1>say where the beef came from. She didn't say she

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<v Speaker 1>did she she is thirty eight, so I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>she's a little too old to be mean. She's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit too old to be dealing with this ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't have Christmas by your damn self.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she got kids.

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<v Speaker 1>She don't have children. Oh no, she's not. She don't

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<v Speaker 1>have children. She's not married. Shane's saying she got a

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<v Speaker 1>man or not, but she she don't have kids and

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<v Speaker 1>she's not married. So this is and you know why,

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<v Speaker 1>probably because she's fucking problematic and toxic on her way

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<v Speaker 1>to forty just just just fucking everything up.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. That's crazy. You don't so

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<v Speaker 2>you are inside? Why? Because man, your family don't like

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<v Speaker 2>you even.

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<v Speaker 1>Excuse my family love me exactly, so you don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know how I don't like them.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, I'm joking. I'm joking.

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<v Speaker 1>I love my family, right, but I don't know I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like she I'm going to encourage therapy, I will say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean, because I mean and with like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I'm summarizing, But she did seem like she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be around her family.

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<v Speaker 2>She did want like she.

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<v Speaker 1>Still wanted to be around them, because, like she said,

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<v Speaker 1>family and fellowship during the holidays just goes together, and

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<v Speaker 1>she just wanted to be around some love, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>She lives by herself and and cousins.

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<v Speaker 1>She yo she could be bipolar, she could be schizophrenic.

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<v Speaker 1>She could like have an.

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<v Speaker 2>Issue with like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was ready to say she could just have an

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<v Speaker 1>issue with everybody individually, but who knows, Like you don't

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<v Speaker 1>just do that, like you know what I'm saying it.

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<v Speaker 2>But she could be an introvert.

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<v Speaker 1>She could be introvert, but introverts usually everybody still be

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<v Speaker 1>liking introverse Like it ain't like she says, she don't

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<v Speaker 1>get along with her family at all, none of them

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<v Speaker 1>except for those three. So I think she needs to

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<v Speaker 1>seek out therapy because I feel like she's the common

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<v Speaker 1>denominator underlying it. Might, yeah, it might might most definitely

0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:23.520
<v Speaker 1>be an underlying issue. Yeah, I think you should seek

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<v Speaker 1>out therapy definitely. And it's this pamphlet that like a

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<v Speaker 1>little holiday book on grief miess for it's have a

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<v Speaker 1>merry Little Grief Miness or whatever how people handle and

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<v Speaker 1>navigate being alone and losses and just pain and trauma,

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<v Speaker 1>like how they handle that during the holidays or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>And the author is Shanti Dies. She was up at

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast club. And the pamphlet is like, I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>knew the address, I would send it to you. I

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<v Speaker 1>would gift to you for free. But it's only about

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<v Speaker 1>twelve or thirteen dollars and it just gives you healthy

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<v Speaker 1>tips on how you can navigate through, you know, your

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<v Speaker 1>emotions at a time like this. You know, it teaches

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<v Speaker 1>you about recognizing your boundaries and recognizing you know, how

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<v Speaker 1>pains of like different different trauma and stuff can haunt

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<v Speaker 1>you more. And then how it also is a part

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<v Speaker 1>in there that tells you, like it helps you with

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<v Speaker 1>like being on social media, because being on social media

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<v Speaker 1>during the holidays and seeing people with their families and

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<v Speaker 1>shit like that, and seeing people like with their parents

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<v Speaker 1>and having fun and all that that can that can

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<v Speaker 1>push you further into your depression or you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>can stress you the fuck out, and you home already

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<v Speaker 1>alone and you know, lonely and shit. Because this girl

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<v Speaker 1>said that she goes to our family even though they

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<v Speaker 1>they don't fuck with her like that she don't fuck

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<v Speaker 1>with them, she still goes there.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, what I'm saying shows that it shows that

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<v Speaker 2>she's alone too. She says she lives alone.

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<v Speaker 1>No kids, no man, you know, I mean, no no marriage,

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<v Speaker 1>like she's just that I'm not married and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have kids. So she didn't say, well, she had a boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend or whatever, but she obviously obviously is not socially

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<v Speaker 1>where she wants to be. If you love me, you'll

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<v Speaker 1>listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 1>So I yeah, I do encourage therapy, and just keep

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<v Speaker 1>me updated, bull and just you know, next time you

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<v Speaker 1>update me, update me with more detail. I mean, your

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<v Speaker 1>story wasn't too long, but I still, for the sake

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<v Speaker 1>of this only being a twenty minute episode that I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to drop on Christmas, I shortened it up. So

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm not leaving anything out, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>you need to drop some more information. But happy holidays, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>I try to get through that, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>We got one more story.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, Okay, now this person can't decide which family to

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<v Speaker 1>spend the time I was cleaning my fucking throat.

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<v Speaker 2>So person, oh, I probably caught it from you, motherfucker.

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't that quick shit. I don't know. Person ain't. No, no,

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<v Speaker 2>you better know. So this person can't decide which family

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<v Speaker 2>to spend time with. Got a baby mother right right now?

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<v Speaker 2>He not with his baby mama.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, they haven't been together in six years, but he

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<v Speaker 1>never missed the usually he usually yes, you know, he's

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<v Speaker 1>been with his girlfriend for a year and this will

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<v Speaker 1>be their first Christmas together. Yeah, and well they not

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<v Speaker 1>he said eight months, but after Christmas it'll be a

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<v Speaker 1>year or whatever more into twenty twenty five. But like

0:17:14.880 --> 0:17:17.960
<v Speaker 1>he he loves his girlfriend like there's no complaints, no nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>His baby mother don't give him problems.

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<v Speaker 1>His girlfriend is never beefed with the baby mom, but

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<v Speaker 1>she has an issue that he wants.

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<v Speaker 2>To spend Christmas with his kids. They got two boys

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<v Speaker 2>and the girl the girlfriend have an issue with that.

0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:35.000
<v Speaker 1>The girlfriend got yeah, because she's like, why do you

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<v Speaker 1>have to spend the night over there? Yeah, So they

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<v Speaker 1>do this thing where they do like it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>whole Christmas Eve. They watch movies, they big cookies for Santa,

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<v Speaker 1>They do the elf on the shelf thing. And she

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<v Speaker 1>cool with the baby mother. She has met the baby

0:17:50.119 --> 0:17:53.320
<v Speaker 1>mom and she because she has met his kids. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's he said, the baby Mather is like not like

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<v Speaker 1>beefing at all. He now with stuck out me. He

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<v Speaker 1>said he don't think she has feelings for him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he said he don't think she do. He said,

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<v Speaker 2>he moved.

0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:09.520
<v Speaker 1>He's not he don't have feelings for her, but he

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that she got feelings for him usually you

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<v Speaker 1>know when y'all yeah, yeah, and he said he would.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that if his kids were weren't so young,

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<v Speaker 1>it wouldn't be a problem. But his kids are three

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<v Speaker 1>two and you know, they got like Stairstep kids, so

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<v Speaker 1>they're pretty young.

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<v Speaker 2>Do the baby mother have a boyfriend? No, she does not.

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<v Speaker 1>M He said that she dates, but she don't bring

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<v Speaker 1>She hasn't brought a man around the children.

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<v Speaker 2>A man has never been in the house to his knowledge.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just feel like, WHOA.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So it's a different it's a couple of different

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<v Speaker 1>ways to dissect this here. Because the girlfriend, while I

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<v Speaker 1>do understand how she feels.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand that ship.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's no way getting around even thinking like that,

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<v Speaker 1>Like why the fuck do you need to go spend

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<v Speaker 1>the night with them? Yeah, I don't think he needs

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<v Speaker 1>I can go. Yeah, that's what I'm about to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I would make it a family.

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<v Speaker 2>Especially if the baby mother cool with the girlfriend. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what I was asking that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I do believe because he said he don't

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<v Speaker 1>think she's over him.

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<v Speaker 2>And where do you sleep after y'all put the kids

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<v Speaker 2>to bed?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you sleep in the room with the kids or

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<v Speaker 1>do you sleep on the couch?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you sleep with her? Like what?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure all of this is going to go

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<v Speaker 1>through the girlfriend's mind if you do still take it.

0:19:31.240 --> 0:19:32.800
<v Speaker 2>That's something he would have changed.

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<v Speaker 1>If he's if he's serious about this girlfriend and they're

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<v Speaker 1>like everything's going good, he would have to really consider

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<v Speaker 1>He got to consider her feelings absolutely, and he's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have to change all that spending the night. Now, I'm

0:19:43.280 --> 0:19:45.600
<v Speaker 1>going over there as fire. You know, I would even

0:19:46.040 --> 0:19:48.520
<v Speaker 1>enjoy going with him if I was the girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>They're cool like that way.

0:19:50.480 --> 0:19:53.040
<v Speaker 1>It makes you feel more comfortable and you're with their

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<v Speaker 1>relationship as well. Because you have to deal with this

0:19:56.160 --> 0:19:58.440
<v Speaker 1>person anyway, because that's his baby mother.

0:19:58.560 --> 0:19:59.679
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna have to deal with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, So I would say, you know, make your rounds

0:20:02.359 --> 0:20:05.359
<v Speaker 1>like old, stop past there with the kids, enjoy yourself

0:20:05.359 --> 0:20:09.440
<v Speaker 1>with them, go with the girlfriend and you know, yeah yeah,

0:20:09.480 --> 0:20:10.840
<v Speaker 1>and really bring people together.

0:20:11.119 --> 0:20:13.720
<v Speaker 2>If you're really serious about this young lady, then yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>because I know you love your kids.

0:20:15.040 --> 0:20:16.879
<v Speaker 1>I know you love your kids, but a part of

0:20:16.880 --> 0:20:19.200
<v Speaker 1>it is not really about the kids.

0:20:19.200 --> 0:20:20.040
<v Speaker 2>For the girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>The girlfriend is like, yo, y'a ain't been together in

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<v Speaker 1>six years and you still spending you know what I'm saying.

0:20:27.440 --> 0:20:29.280
<v Speaker 2>But this is something that they've been doing for a

0:20:29.320 --> 0:20:29.879
<v Speaker 2>few years now.

0:20:29.920 --> 0:20:32.720
<v Speaker 1>That's because he didn't I guess he was single before that,

0:20:33.320 --> 0:20:35.600
<v Speaker 1>so this is like a a problem to him now.

0:20:35.600 --> 0:20:37.080
<v Speaker 1>He hasn't talked to either one of them yet. He

0:20:37.119 --> 0:20:39.360
<v Speaker 1>did say, but he was like, yo, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to know what I should do.

0:20:41.119 --> 0:20:43.080
<v Speaker 2>Now. That's advice on a girlfriend.

0:20:43.160 --> 0:20:46.200
<v Speaker 1>Now on the on the baby mom, you need to

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<v Speaker 1>really sit with her and figure out all y'all done

0:20:47.960 --> 0:20:50.400
<v Speaker 1>or not, Like if she thinks that y'all finished or whatever,

0:20:50.520 --> 0:20:53.399
<v Speaker 1>y'all need to figure that shit out, okay, because you

0:20:53.440 --> 0:20:55.880
<v Speaker 1>can't be straddling the fence with that ship. You said

0:20:55.920 --> 0:20:57.760
<v Speaker 1>you love your girlfriend, and you also don't want to

0:20:57.760 --> 0:21:00.520
<v Speaker 1>confuse your children, you know what I'm saying, because if

0:21:00.520 --> 0:21:02.680
<v Speaker 1>you don't live with them already, and daddy just come over,

0:21:03.040 --> 0:21:05.919
<v Speaker 1>you know, and and and you play Santa Claus and

0:21:05.960 --> 0:21:07.320
<v Speaker 1>then they wake up in the middle of the night

0:21:07.359 --> 0:21:09.920
<v Speaker 1>and see mommy kids saying Santa Clans. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying that, But yeah, you need to sit down

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<v Speaker 1>and be honest with yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>First.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you know your baby mother ain't over you. However,

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<v Speaker 1>she has never given your girlfriend no problems. That ain't

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<v Speaker 1>the problem. The problem would be your girlfriend sitting at

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<v Speaker 1>home by herself wondering what the fuck is going on

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<v Speaker 1>at night, you know what I'm saying. So that's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be that's gonna make her feel uneasy, and then that's

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<v Speaker 1>going to create tension in your household. So you either

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<v Speaker 1>take her or you tell your baby moms you can't

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<v Speaker 1>spend the night. I can be there early Christmas morning

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<v Speaker 1>for my kids. I can be their lead at night

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas Eve for my kids, but I can't stay the night.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's it. We can add and the kids gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be fine. You can. You showed up. You showed up

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<v Speaker 2>for them.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not gonna miss the be They won't even be

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<v Speaker 1>worried about to stay in the night Parduct.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right. That nigga need to update us though, because

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<v Speaker 2>I need to know what happened in the new year.

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<v Speaker 2>And just like that, we've come down it and yeah

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<v Speaker 2>we done. I got to go and do the news.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you work?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, baby, you can record John goddamn podcast pitchaw.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll see y'all in the new year.

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