Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back
Speaker 1: with yet another Can'tfully Reckless episode with your girl just hilarious. Look,
Speaker 1: I got a special guests in the building, somebody who
Speaker 1: ain't been here in a long, long long time.
Speaker 2: No, it's not Taylor, it's excuse me.
Speaker 1: You got a little bit too much going on. You
Speaker 1: got you got, you got too much going on with
Speaker 1: the sound effects and the huffing and puffing like you're
Speaker 1: about to blow a house down and share the girl, say,
Speaker 1: what's up to my best friend?
Speaker 2: That's my best friend period.
Speaker 1: So she here today. We're gonna go over this mess
Speaker 1: and she's gonna help me fix y'all ship. Y'all listen,
Speaker 1: we got some holiday stories.
Speaker 2: You tell me we was doing that. Yeah, we got
Speaker 2: some holidays. Hey, yo, yo, you got to help me
Speaker 2: fix these people masks. It's the holidays and people going
Speaker 2: through some ship y'all.
Speaker 1: Right, come on, y'all, all right, don't come up here
Speaker 1: like doing all this.
Speaker 2: Come on, I need more, all right.
Speaker 1: So this was a long a story, but I had
Speaker 1: to basically summarize it. So this man started beefing with
Speaker 1: his girl around holidays every year around the holidays. Lay
Speaker 1: not yet, and she's starting to think it's on purpose
Speaker 1: to avoid getting her gifts. Yeah, so she asked me,
Speaker 1: what did she think she should do. She basically like,
Speaker 1: leave him or whatever, because this is the third year
Speaker 1: in the world that he's done this.
Speaker 2: They've been together for four years. The first year, he
Speaker 2: didn't do this. Shit. The second year, yeah, it was
Speaker 2: a beef.
Speaker 1: She just thought it was like a little quarrel, a
Speaker 1: little speed bump in a relationship. The third year, he
Speaker 1: went to go spend Christmas the New Year's at his
Speaker 1: mom's house without her, didn't even invite her, and she
Speaker 1: said they reconvened after the New Year and shit. And
Speaker 1: then this year he's starting to pick, like he's been
Speaker 1: picking with her since, you know, since Thanksgiving up. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: I've been through something similar before, but it was birthdays.
Speaker 1: So the first birthday was in the beginning of the year,
Speaker 1: so they would get all that ship this the beginning
Speaker 1: of the year. My birthday in October, so come October
Speaker 1: we beefing every year.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, wait a minute, and then roll back
Speaker 2: around to February. Uh, now shit.
Speaker 1: Cool, shit cool because Valentine's Day, yeah, and then the
Speaker 1: birthday coming up, so it's like, you know, everything good, Okay,
Speaker 1: So yeah, I would say definitely I stayed longer than
Speaker 1: I should have.
Speaker 2: But I would definitely say the book up out of it.
Speaker 1: And now when you say you stayed longer than you
Speaker 1: should have, was it because everything else that was happening,
Speaker 1: like it was that like the only thing that was
Speaker 1: like the only thing was in love? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: all niggas was in love and ship. Oh my god, anyway, please,
Speaker 1: I mean, so I loudly hellout, excuse.
Speaker 2: Clean through, I got a little cool. Oh what the
Speaker 2: fuck are you doing in here sitting next to me? Shit,
Speaker 2: I got a fucking daughter who's going on four months.
Speaker 2: You can't trying to be six for sick for Christmas? Damn.
Speaker 1: And I got two shows. So anyway, anyway, it's so
Speaker 1: wild sick right now, he's gonna send me the is
Speaker 1: something going around a way, He's something going around this
Speaker 1: country ship anyway. So all right, so you was in love?
Speaker 1: So maybe yeah, maybe she just in love too, because
Speaker 1: this is the third year that she said that he
Speaker 1: has actually picked like picked fights, like started like little
Speaker 1: beefs or whatever. And she caught on the second year,
Speaker 1: but she didn't want to make it a thing. But
Speaker 1: this year is definitely a thing, and she wants to
Speaker 1: know what.
Speaker 2: She should do.
Speaker 1: I think you should sit down with that, nigga. I'm like, nah, no,
Speaker 1: nigga started of sitting down.
Speaker 2: Niggas tied of sitting down.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, out of the baby will stand up ship,
Speaker 1: stand up and talk and walk out the door.
Speaker 2: Don't be telling nobody to leave. It's like, and what
Speaker 2: a thing? Got Like, all right, what kind of work
Speaker 2: does he do? Like you do this year? And then
Speaker 2: next year in the gift of that Oh my no,
Speaker 2: where you put it like that?
Speaker 1: It's like no, but she even gets to the bottom
Speaker 1: of it. He already put into He already does he did,
Speaker 1: he already started like three times.
Speaker 2: All right, so it is the pattern. Yes, we do know.
Speaker 1: I still all right, even if she don't, I think
Speaker 1: she should still sit down with him and talk some
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 2: Let her let him know. Like, look, I'm sure she
Speaker 2: did this three times, she said.
Speaker 1: The first time she didn't, the second time she ain't
Speaker 1: want to make it a big deal, and the third
Speaker 1: year she noticing it I'm at the point where I'm
Speaker 1: not I'm not doing no more repeating myself, you know.
Speaker 1: So I'm like this, look, you don't get it all right,
Speaker 1: maybe two times, but come on, yeah.
Speaker 2: For this, how did I get it? She' I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: she was. That's why I said they'd be leaving hell
Speaker 2: of met off the bone.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm about to start putting a form on
Speaker 1: the website, like you have to be able to tell
Speaker 1: me a lot more about shit. We know something, but
Speaker 1: we don't know everything. We need to know how old
Speaker 1: y'all are, Like what kind of work he does? Because
Speaker 1: to be honest with you, listen, I can even sympathize
Speaker 1: with him if that's what that's I don't care.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm not going to start beefs. But
Speaker 2: as an adult, as a.
Speaker 1: Thirty two year old woman, oh no, Christmas is very
Speaker 1: expensive and I'm like, everybody feel like they should get something.
Speaker 2: Fuck no, I feel like if you ain't, if you.
Speaker 1: Ain't my children, then now I barely got something for
Speaker 1: Chris baby, I barely got something for my mom and
Speaker 1: my dad.
Speaker 2: Shit, y'all got me and my beautiful child.
Speaker 1: Oh please please, Now you don't even have no house,
Speaker 1: you don't have no bills, you don't have nothing.
Speaker 2: You need to get everybody something you don't want with
Speaker 2: all the moody shit, send me on a trip.
Speaker 1: Shit, man, y'all these people don't went to Jamaica without
Speaker 1: me because I was stuck breastpeeding.
Speaker 2: You know you were stuck at work.
Speaker 1: Oh, baby, never been stuck at Yeah, you was big
Speaker 1: stuck because you had to come back after having that
Speaker 1: little baby. Yeah, the little baby that cried when she
Speaker 1: saw you.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, because she's jealous of me. What she tried
Speaker 2: to steal my best friend all the baby. Oh damn,
Speaker 2: Hold up, hold up.
Speaker 1: I know the ship getting good, But listen to just
Speaker 1: a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me,
Speaker 1: you'll listen anyway. Yeah, back to this the lady story.
Speaker 1: Talk to him, honey, I think you should talk to
Speaker 1: this man.
Speaker 2: Because I mean, it's some some stories are just obvious.
Speaker 2: Some ship is just obvious. Like to me, it's just
Speaker 2: like you know, I love going through the struggle. I know,
Speaker 2: get you a woman, Okay.
Speaker 1: Uh uh No, we are not pushing. We're not pushing
Speaker 1: the gay agenda. No, we are not pushing.
Speaker 2: Don't do that. But yeah, I mean I feel but yeah,
Speaker 2: do something.
Speaker 1: But all right, because I want to also know she
Speaker 1: needs to update me, because I want to also know
Speaker 1: do you get him gifts every year?
Speaker 2: I mean not getting anything? Like is he not getting
Speaker 2: you shit? Doing everything? Okay?
Speaker 1: Well yeah, or she wouldn't be writing me. But did
Speaker 1: you not get nothing for Christmas in the past three years?
Speaker 2: Like is it just like.
Speaker 1: Or is it like the bare minimum he's doing or
Speaker 1: is it just the fact that he's picking arguments to
Speaker 1: not have to spend time with you, or because you
Speaker 1: just said the thing about gifts, but the second year
Speaker 1: you said he went and spent Christmas with his parents
Speaker 1: and shit and didn't even invite you. What about other
Speaker 1: holidays and like, yeah, birthdays and things like that?
Speaker 2: Do he shot up for you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So I think you need to like give us a
Speaker 1: little bit more you know, context around this or whatever,
Speaker 1: because I ain't trying to have you leave somebody when
Speaker 1: it can really just be a conversation, or I ain't
Speaker 1: trying to have you stayed with somebody when.
Speaker 2: It's really downhill, like nah, it ain't.
Speaker 1: Nothing else to say, it's like nah, yeah, nah, nah,
Speaker 1: that's that's petty we together, and we together, you can
Speaker 1: tell me if it's because you're struggling, nigga, open communication.
Speaker 2: Let me know.
Speaker 1: Look, I ain't got it with the ship that you
Speaker 1: want to be too expensive, so I don't know.
Speaker 2: Or baby, every day is Christmas for you or every
Speaker 2: month is Christmas, so.
Speaker 1: It's like yo, I mean, I ain't really got it
Speaker 1: this time, anything like there needs to be a communication.
Speaker 2: You don't tell me you talk to him? No, not
Speaker 2: every year?
Speaker 1: But what unless the man got another bit somewhere? Shit,
Speaker 1: because that seemed like that's what you are trying to
Speaker 1: hear that for three years straight. Oh baby, my pocket
Speaker 1: is no, I can't do it. Like no, nigga, what
Speaker 1: if I asked one of burking, what if she want
Speaker 1: to like you know what I'm saying, what yeah, what
Speaker 1: if she want something that this man cannot afford every year?
Speaker 1: What if she is you know, because the first year
Speaker 1: he had no problems, That's what did she said?
Speaker 2: The first year? No, they was together four years.
Speaker 1: The first year he you know, they bought each other
Speaker 1: gifts every day, spent Christmas together, everything was good. The
Speaker 1: next year she said, he picked a fight and you
Speaker 1: know he didn't get her anything for Christmas, yeah said,
Speaker 1: or anything and so updated, and I'm let us know
Speaker 1: what's going on on kind and by the time they updated,
Speaker 1: she won't be here. So let me know what the
Speaker 1: fuck is going on, and we're gonna move on, all right,
Speaker 1: all kind, all right, So again I'm summarizing because I
Speaker 1: want to get It's three Christmas stories that I chose,
Speaker 1: and I think these are they all three of them
Speaker 1: are different. Yes the fuck this person doesn't get along
Speaker 1: with their family, but they want advice on keeping it
Speaker 1: cool on Christmas. Okay, so you don't get along with
Speaker 1: the whole family. Now this person did say the whole family.
Speaker 1: She only gets along with her two aunts and her cousin.
Speaker 1: But they have a really really big family and they
Speaker 1: they the grandmother has a huge, huge, huge home and
Speaker 1: they all meet there. They all meet there for Christmas
Speaker 1: every year. But she has an issue with basically the
Speaker 1: whole family outside of her two aunts and her cousin,
Speaker 1: and but she wants to want advice on how she
Speaker 1: can keep it cool, just going in on fucking say shit,
Speaker 1: because obviously if everybody got a problem with she you
Speaker 1: the problem, she judge.
Speaker 2: But that's all we're going on.
Speaker 1: For Yeah, because if it's a big, big, big family.
Speaker 1: Now she said, it's about three full fucking are you
Speaker 1: sure she ain't say you more than that?
Speaker 2: No? What that like her? Yeah? Just two aunts?
Speaker 1: Oh no, she says she has a very problematic family.
Speaker 1: Everybody's toxic and they all have a problem with her.
Speaker 1: So don't sit down and say she's a problem So
Speaker 1: everybody niggas is weird. No, no, no, no, I'm not
Speaker 1: to believe everybody just got a problem with you. If
Speaker 1: they're problematic and toxic, then everybody shouldn't like each other.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. It should be more beefs
Speaker 2: than just with her.
Speaker 1: No that it's only two aunts and a cousin that
Speaker 1: you fuck with, And I imagine these are the family
Speaker 1: members that.
Speaker 2: That she comes for.
Speaker 1: Like, because I wouldn't go, I don't family or not
Speaker 1: if I know y'alln't fuck with me, and I don't
Speaker 1: fuck with y'all, I'm.
Speaker 2: Not showing up, said Jing Google and Google Bell Like, no,
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. We know, I'm trying to
Speaker 2: make a plate.
Speaker 1: Not if everybody don't like you, and not if you
Speaker 1: don't like everybody, you're not eating my food.
Speaker 2: Baby, never call.
Speaker 1: My turkey if the fuck I don't like you, Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right for Christmas, I've never not liked you.
Speaker 2: Make a turkey for I made up certain even thinks
Speaker 2: givings and you are any here because you ain't call
Speaker 2: me back? Why the fuck do I need to call you?
Speaker 2: She need you?
Speaker 1: Listen, You're a pop up in my house even when
Speaker 1: I fuck, I'm not dead, I come home you on
Speaker 1: my pool, baby, So please, what the fuck do I
Speaker 1: need to call you back for? Because I called you whatever?
Speaker 1: And I live for yo, I lived so fucking far
Speaker 1: from her, but she drives and she a driver for
Speaker 1: her fucking career.
Speaker 2: Baby, drive every day. So it's like, why you can't
Speaker 2: drive my house when I call you? Call me back?
Speaker 2: The point is what we're gonna tell this lady about this? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So yeah, I can't do my podcast. You be not
Speaker 1: helping people. We fucking fussing each other. All right, just
Speaker 1: tell her? I mean all right, I'm telling you.
Speaker 2: Okay to you don't even remember the story. She got a.
Speaker 1: Problem with her family, Yeah, yeah, family met us. So
Speaker 1: try to work be with your to try to work
Speaker 1: it out whatever the issue is. You know, y'all gott
Speaker 1: to talk, y'all gott to come together, Yeah, and figure
Speaker 1: this thing out.
Speaker 2: I need more information.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like wow, now and listen and listen. I'm summarizing
Speaker 1: these but she really didn't give me much. She didn't
Speaker 1: say where the beef came from. She didn't say she
Speaker 1: did she she is thirty eight, so I feel like
Speaker 1: she's a little too old to be mean. She's a
Speaker 1: little bit too old to be dealing with this ship.
Speaker 1: Don't have Christmas by your damn self.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she got kids.
Speaker 1: She don't have children. Oh no, she's not. She don't
Speaker 1: have children. She's not married. Shane's saying she got a
Speaker 1: man or not, but she she don't have kids and
Speaker 1: she's not married. So this is and you know why,
Speaker 1: probably because she's fucking problematic and toxic on her way
Speaker 1: to forty just just just fucking everything up.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. That's crazy. You don't so
Speaker 2: you are inside? Why? Because man, your family don't like
Speaker 2: you even.
Speaker 1: Excuse my family love me exactly, so you don't even
Speaker 1: know how I don't like them.
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm joking. I'm joking.
Speaker 1: I love my family, right, but I don't know I
Speaker 1: feel like she I'm going to encourage therapy, I will say,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, because I mean and with like
Speaker 1: I said, I'm summarizing, But she did seem like she
Speaker 1: wanted to be around her family.
Speaker 2: She did want like she.
Speaker 1: Still wanted to be around them, because, like she said,
Speaker 1: family and fellowship during the holidays just goes together, and
Speaker 1: she just wanted to be around some love, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: She lives by herself and and cousins.
Speaker 1: She yo she could be bipolar, she could be schizophrenic.
Speaker 1: She could like have an.
Speaker 2: Issue with like I don't know.
Speaker 1: I was ready to say she could just have an
Speaker 1: issue with everybody individually, but who knows, Like you don't
Speaker 1: just do that, like you know what I'm saying it.
Speaker 2: But she could be an introvert.
Speaker 1: She could be introvert, but introverts usually everybody still be
Speaker 1: liking introverse Like it ain't like she says, she don't
Speaker 1: get along with her family at all, none of them
Speaker 1: except for those three. So I think she needs to
Speaker 1: seek out therapy because I feel like she's the common
Speaker 1: denominator underlying it. Might, yeah, it might might most definitely
Speaker 1: be an underlying issue. Yeah, I think you should seek
Speaker 1: out therapy definitely. And it's this pamphlet that like a
Speaker 1: little holiday book on grief miess for it's have a
Speaker 1: merry Little Grief Miness or whatever how people handle and
Speaker 1: navigate being alone and losses and just pain and trauma,
Speaker 1: like how they handle that during the holidays or whatever.
Speaker 1: And the author is Shanti Dies. She was up at
Speaker 1: breakfast club. And the pamphlet is like, I wish I
Speaker 1: knew the address, I would send it to you. I
Speaker 1: would gift to you for free. But it's only about
Speaker 1: twelve or thirteen dollars and it just gives you healthy
Speaker 1: tips on how you can navigate through, you know, your
Speaker 1: emotions at a time like this. You know, it teaches
Speaker 1: you about recognizing your boundaries and recognizing you know, how
Speaker 1: pains of like different different trauma and stuff can haunt
Speaker 1: you more. And then how it also is a part
Speaker 1: in there that tells you, like it helps you with
Speaker 1: like being on social media, because being on social media
Speaker 1: during the holidays and seeing people with their families and
Speaker 1: shit like that, and seeing people like with their parents
Speaker 1: and having fun and all that that can that can
Speaker 1: push you further into your depression or you know, I
Speaker 1: can stress you the fuck out, and you home already
Speaker 1: alone and you know, lonely and shit. Because this girl
Speaker 1: said that she goes to our family even though they
Speaker 1: they don't fuck with her like that she don't fuck
Speaker 1: with them, she still goes there.
Speaker 2: You know, what I'm saying shows that it shows that
Speaker 2: she's alone too. She says she lives alone.
Speaker 1: No kids, no man, you know, I mean, no no marriage,
Speaker 1: like she's just that I'm not married and I don't
Speaker 1: have kids. So she didn't say, well, she had a boyfriend,
Speaker 1: girlfriend or whatever, but she obviously obviously is not socially
Speaker 1: where she wants to be. If you love me, you'll
Speaker 1: listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back.
Speaker 1: So I yeah, I do encourage therapy, and just keep
Speaker 1: me updated, bull and just you know, next time you
Speaker 1: update me, update me with more detail. I mean, your
Speaker 1: story wasn't too long, but I still, for the sake
Speaker 1: of this only being a twenty minute episode that I
Speaker 1: wanted to drop on Christmas, I shortened it up. So
Speaker 1: I know I'm not leaving anything out, but I think
Speaker 1: you need to drop some more information. But happy holidays, bro,
Speaker 1: I try to get through that, all right.
Speaker 2: We got one more story.
Speaker 1: Like, Okay, now this person can't decide which family to
Speaker 1: spend the time I was cleaning my fucking throat.
Speaker 2: So person, oh, I probably caught it from you, motherfucker.
Speaker 2: I ain't that quick shit. I don't know. Person ain't. No, no,
Speaker 2: you better know. So this person can't decide which family
Speaker 2: to spend time with. Got a baby mother right right now?
Speaker 2: He not with his baby mama.
Speaker 1: Okay, they haven't been together in six years, but he
Speaker 1: never missed the usually he usually yes, you know, he's
Speaker 1: been with his girlfriend for a year and this will
Speaker 1: be their first Christmas together. Yeah, and well they not
Speaker 1: he said eight months, but after Christmas it'll be a
Speaker 1: year or whatever more into twenty twenty five. But like
Speaker 1: he he loves his girlfriend like there's no complaints, no nothing.
Speaker 2: His baby mother don't give him problems.
Speaker 1: His girlfriend is never beefed with the baby mom, but
Speaker 1: she has an issue that he wants.
Speaker 2: To spend Christmas with his kids. They got two boys
Speaker 2: and the girl the girlfriend have an issue with that.
Speaker 1: The girlfriend got yeah, because she's like, why do you
Speaker 1: have to spend the night over there? Yeah, So they
Speaker 1: do this thing where they do like it's like a
Speaker 1: whole Christmas Eve. They watch movies, they big cookies for Santa,
Speaker 1: They do the elf on the shelf thing. And she
Speaker 1: cool with the baby mother. She has met the baby
Speaker 1: mom and she because she has met his kids. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's he said, the baby Mather is like not like
Speaker 1: beefing at all. He now with stuck out me. He
Speaker 1: said he don't think she has feelings for him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he said he don't think she do. He said,
Speaker 2: he moved.
Speaker 1: He's not he don't have feelings for her, but he
Speaker 1: don't think that she got feelings for him usually you
Speaker 1: know when y'all yeah, yeah, and he said he would.
Speaker 1: He said that if his kids were weren't so young,
Speaker 1: it wouldn't be a problem. But his kids are three
Speaker 1: two and you know, they got like Stairstep kids, so
Speaker 1: they're pretty young.
Speaker 2: Do the baby mother have a boyfriend? No, she does not.
Speaker 1: M He said that she dates, but she don't bring
Speaker 1: She hasn't brought a man around the children.
Speaker 2: A man has never been in the house to his knowledge.
Speaker 2: So I just feel like, WHOA.
Speaker 1: Okay, So it's a different it's a couple of different
Speaker 1: ways to dissect this here. Because the girlfriend, while I
Speaker 1: do understand how she feels.
Speaker 2: I understand that ship.
Speaker 1: I mean, there's no way getting around even thinking like that,
Speaker 1: Like why the fuck do you need to go spend
Speaker 1: the night with them? Yeah, I don't think he needs
Speaker 1: I can go. Yeah, that's what I'm about to say.
Speaker 1: I would make it a family.
Speaker 2: Especially if the baby mother cool with the girlfriend. That's
Speaker 2: what I was asking that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I do believe because he said he don't
Speaker 1: think she's over him.
Speaker 2: And where do you sleep after y'all put the kids
Speaker 2: to bed?
Speaker 1: Do you sleep in the room with the kids or
Speaker 1: do you sleep on the couch?
Speaker 2: Do you sleep with her? Like what?
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure all of this is going to go
Speaker 1: through the girlfriend's mind if you do still take it.
Speaker 2: That's something he would have changed.
Speaker 1: If he's if he's serious about this girlfriend and they're
Speaker 1: like everything's going good, he would have to really consider
Speaker 1: He got to consider her feelings absolutely, and he's gonna
Speaker 1: have to change all that spending the night. Now, I'm
Speaker 1: going over there as fire. You know, I would even
Speaker 1: enjoy going with him if I was the girlfriend.
Speaker 2: They're cool like that way.
Speaker 1: It makes you feel more comfortable and you're with their
Speaker 1: relationship as well. Because you have to deal with this
Speaker 1: person anyway, because that's his baby mother.
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to deal with it.
Speaker 1: Yes, So I would say, you know, make your rounds
Speaker 1: like old, stop past there with the kids, enjoy yourself
Speaker 1: with them, go with the girlfriend and you know, yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: and really bring people together.
Speaker 2: If you're really serious about this young lady, then yeah,
Speaker 2: because I know you love your kids.
Speaker 1: I know you love your kids, but a part of
Speaker 1: it is not really about the kids.
Speaker 2: For the girlfriend.
Speaker 1: The girlfriend is like, yo, y'a ain't been together in
Speaker 1: six years and you still spending you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: But this is something that they've been doing for a
Speaker 2: few years now.
Speaker 1: That's because he didn't I guess he was single before that,
Speaker 1: so this is like a a problem to him now.
Speaker 1: He hasn't talked to either one of them yet. He
Speaker 1: did say, but he was like, yo, I just want
Speaker 1: to know what I should do.
Speaker 2: Now. That's advice on a girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Now on the on the baby mom, you need to
Speaker 1: really sit with her and figure out all y'all done
Speaker 1: or not, Like if she thinks that y'all finished or whatever,
Speaker 1: y'all need to figure that shit out, okay, because you
Speaker 1: can't be straddling the fence with that ship. You said
Speaker 1: you love your girlfriend, and you also don't want to
Speaker 1: confuse your children, you know what I'm saying, because if
Speaker 1: you don't live with them already, and daddy just come over,
Speaker 1: you know, and and and you play Santa Claus and
Speaker 1: then they wake up in the middle of the night
Speaker 1: and see mommy kids saying Santa Clans. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying that, But yeah, you need to sit down
Speaker 1: and be honest with yourself.
Speaker 2: First.
Speaker 1: I think you know your baby mother ain't over you. However,
Speaker 1: she has never given your girlfriend no problems. That ain't
Speaker 1: the problem. The problem would be your girlfriend sitting at
Speaker 1: home by herself wondering what the fuck is going on
Speaker 1: at night, you know what I'm saying. So that's gonna
Speaker 1: be that's gonna make her feel uneasy, and then that's
Speaker 1: going to create tension in your household. So you either
Speaker 1: take her or you tell your baby moms you can't
Speaker 1: spend the night. I can be there early Christmas morning
Speaker 1: for my kids. I can be their lead at night
Speaker 1: Christmas Eve for my kids, but I can't stay the night.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it. We can add and the kids gonna
Speaker 2: be fine. You can. You showed up. You showed up
Speaker 2: for them.
Speaker 1: They're not gonna miss the be They won't even be
Speaker 1: worried about to stay in the night Parduct.
Speaker 2: That's right. That nigga need to update us though, because
Speaker 2: I need to know what happened in the new year.
Speaker 2: And just like that, we've come down it and yeah
Speaker 2: we done. I got to go and do the news.
Speaker 2: Do you work?
Speaker 1: Oh well, baby, you can record John goddamn podcast pitchaw.
Speaker 2: I'll see y'all in the new year.
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