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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back

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Speaker 1: with yet another Can'tfully Reckless episode with your girl just hilarious. Look,

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Speaker 1: I got a special guests in the building, somebody who

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Speaker 1: ain't been here in a long, long long time.

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Speaker 2: No, it's not Taylor, it's excuse me.

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Speaker 1: You got a little bit too much going on. You

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Speaker 1: got you got, you got too much going on with

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Speaker 1: the sound effects and the huffing and puffing like you're

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Speaker 1: about to blow a house down and share the girl, say,

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Speaker 1: what's up to my best friend?

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Speaker 2: That's my best friend period.

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Speaker 1: So she here today. We're gonna go over this mess

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Speaker 1: and she's gonna help me fix y'all ship. Y'all listen,

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Speaker 1: we got some holiday stories.

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Speaker 2: You tell me we was doing that. Yeah, we got

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Speaker 2: some holidays. Hey, yo, yo, you got to help me

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Speaker 2: fix these people masks. It's the holidays and people going

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Speaker 2: through some ship y'all.

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Speaker 1: Right, come on, y'all, all right, don't come up here

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Speaker 1: like doing all this.

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Speaker 2: Come on, I need more, all right.

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Speaker 1: So this was a long a story, but I had

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Speaker 1: to basically summarize it. So this man started beefing with

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Speaker 1: his girl around holidays every year around the holidays. Lay

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Speaker 1: not yet, and she's starting to think it's on purpose

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Speaker 1: to avoid getting her gifts. Yeah, so she asked me,

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Speaker 1: what did she think she should do. She basically like,

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Speaker 1: leave him or whatever, because this is the third year

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Speaker 1: in the world that he's done this.

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Speaker 2: They've been together for four years. The first year, he

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Speaker 2: didn't do this. Shit. The second year, yeah, it was

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Speaker 2: a beef.

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Speaker 1: She just thought it was like a little quarrel, a

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Speaker 1: little speed bump in a relationship. The third year, he

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Speaker 1: went to go spend Christmas the New Year's at his

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Speaker 1: mom's house without her, didn't even invite her, and she

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Speaker 1: said they reconvened after the New Year and shit. And

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Speaker 1: then this year he's starting to pick, like he's been

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Speaker 1: picking with her since, you know, since Thanksgiving up. Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: I've been through something similar before, but it was birthdays.

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Speaker 1: So the first birthday was in the beginning of the year,

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Speaker 1: so they would get all that ship this the beginning

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Speaker 1: of the year. My birthday in October, so come October

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Speaker 1: we beefing every year.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, wait a minute, and then roll back

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Speaker 2: around to February. Uh, now shit.

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Speaker 1: Cool, shit cool because Valentine's Day, yeah, and then the

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Speaker 1: birthday coming up, so it's like, you know, everything good, Okay,

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I would say definitely I stayed longer than

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Speaker 1: I should have.

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Speaker 2: But I would definitely say the book up out of it.

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Speaker 1: And now when you say you stayed longer than you

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Speaker 1: should have, was it because everything else that was happening,

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Speaker 1: like it was that like the only thing that was

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Speaker 1: like the only thing was in love? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: all niggas was in love and ship. Oh my god, anyway, please,

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Speaker 1: I mean, so I loudly hellout, excuse.

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Speaker 2: Clean through, I got a little cool. Oh what the

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Speaker 2: fuck are you doing in here sitting next to me? Shit,

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Speaker 2: I got a fucking daughter who's going on four months.

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Speaker 2: You can't trying to be six for sick for Christmas? Damn.

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Speaker 1: And I got two shows. So anyway, anyway, it's so

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Speaker 1: wild sick right now, he's gonna send me the is

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Speaker 1: something going around a way, He's something going around this

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Speaker 1: country ship anyway. So all right, so you was in love?

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Speaker 1: So maybe yeah, maybe she just in love too, because

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Speaker 1: this is the third year that she said that he

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Speaker 1: has actually picked like picked fights, like started like little

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Speaker 1: beefs or whatever. And she caught on the second year,

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Speaker 1: but she didn't want to make it a thing. But

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Speaker 1: this year is definitely a thing, and she wants to

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Speaker 2: She should do.

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Speaker 1: I think you should sit down with that, nigga. I'm like, nah, no,

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Speaker 1: nigga started of sitting down.

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Speaker 2: Niggas tied of sitting down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, out of the baby will stand up ship,

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Speaker 1: stand up and talk and walk out the door.

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Speaker 2: Don't be telling nobody to leave. It's like, and what

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Speaker 2: a thing? Got Like, all right, what kind of work

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Speaker 2: does he do? Like you do this year? And then

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Speaker 2: next year in the gift of that Oh my no,

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Speaker 2: where you put it like that?

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Speaker 1: It's like no, but she even gets to the bottom

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Speaker 1: of it. He already put into He already does he did,

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Speaker 1: he already started like three times.

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Speaker 2: All right, so it is the pattern. Yes, we do know.

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Speaker 1: I still all right, even if she don't, I think

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Speaker 1: she should still sit down with him and talk some

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Speaker 2: Let her let him know. Like, look, I'm sure she

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Speaker 2: did this three times, she said.

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Speaker 1: The first time she didn't, the second time she ain't

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Speaker 1: want to make it a big deal, and the third

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Speaker 1: year she noticing it I'm at the point where I'm

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Speaker 1: not I'm not doing no more repeating myself, you know.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like this, look, you don't get it all right,

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Speaker 1: maybe two times, but come on, yeah.

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Speaker 2: For this, how did I get it? She' I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: she was. That's why I said they'd be leaving hell

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Speaker 2: of met off the bone.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm about to start putting a form on

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Speaker 1: the website, like you have to be able to tell

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Speaker 1: me a lot more about shit. We know something, but

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Speaker 1: we don't know everything. We need to know how old

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Speaker 1: y'all are, Like what kind of work he does? Because

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Speaker 1: to be honest with you, listen, I can even sympathize

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Speaker 1: with him if that's what that's I don't care.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm not going to start beefs. But

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Speaker 2: as an adult, as a.

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Speaker 1: Thirty two year old woman, oh no, Christmas is very

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Speaker 1: expensive and I'm like, everybody feel like they should get something.

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Speaker 2: Fuck no, I feel like if you ain't, if you.

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Speaker 1: Ain't my children, then now I barely got something for

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Speaker 1: Chris baby, I barely got something for my mom and

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Speaker 1: my dad.

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Speaker 2: Shit, y'all got me and my beautiful child.

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Speaker 1: Oh please please, Now you don't even have no house,

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Speaker 1: you don't have no bills, you don't have nothing.

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Speaker 2: You need to get everybody something you don't want with

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Speaker 2: all the moody shit, send me on a trip.

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Speaker 1: Shit, man, y'all these people don't went to Jamaica without

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Speaker 1: me because I was stuck breastpeeding.

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Speaker 2: You know you were stuck at work.

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Speaker 1: Oh, baby, never been stuck at Yeah, you was big

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Speaker 1: stuck because you had to come back after having that

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Speaker 1: little baby. Yeah, the little baby that cried when she

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, because she's jealous of me. What she tried

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Speaker 2: to steal my best friend all the baby. Oh damn,

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Speaker 2: Hold up, hold up.

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Speaker 1: I know the ship getting good, But listen to just

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Speaker 1: a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me,

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Speaker 1: you'll listen anyway. Yeah, back to this the lady story.

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Speaker 1: Talk to him, honey, I think you should talk to

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Speaker 2: Because I mean, it's some some stories are just obvious.

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Speaker 2: Some ship is just obvious. Like to me, it's just

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Speaker 2: like you know, I love going through the struggle. I know,

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Speaker 2: get you a woman, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Uh uh No, we are not pushing. We're not pushing

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Speaker 1: the gay agenda. No, we are not pushing.

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Speaker 2: Don't do that. But yeah, I mean I feel but yeah,

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Speaker 2: do something.

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Speaker 1: But all right, because I want to also know she

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Speaker 1: needs to update me, because I want to also know

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Speaker 1: do you get him gifts every year?

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Speaker 2: I mean not getting anything? Like is he not getting

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Speaker 2: you shit? Doing everything? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, or she wouldn't be writing me. But did

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Speaker 1: you not get nothing for Christmas in the past three years?

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Speaker 2: Like is it just like.

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Speaker 1: Or is it like the bare minimum he's doing or

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Speaker 1: is it just the fact that he's picking arguments to

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Speaker 1: not have to spend time with you, or because you

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Speaker 1: just said the thing about gifts, but the second year

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Speaker 1: you said he went and spent Christmas with his parents

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Speaker 1: and shit and didn't even invite you. What about other

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Speaker 1: holidays and like, yeah, birthdays and things like that?

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Speaker 2: Do he shot up for you? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So I think you need to like give us a

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Speaker 1: little bit more you know, context around this or whatever,

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Speaker 1: because I ain't trying to have you leave somebody when

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Speaker 1: it can really just be a conversation, or I ain't

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Speaker 1: trying to have you stayed with somebody when.

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Speaker 2: It's really downhill, like nah, it ain't.

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Speaker 1: Nothing else to say, it's like nah, yeah, nah, nah,

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Speaker 1: that's that's petty we together, and we together, you can

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Speaker 1: tell me if it's because you're struggling, nigga, open communication.

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Speaker 2: Let me know.

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Speaker 1: Look, I ain't got it with the ship that you

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Speaker 1: want to be too expensive, so I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Or baby, every day is Christmas for you or every

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Speaker 1: It's like yo, I mean, I ain't really got it

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Speaker 1: this time, anything like there needs to be a communication.

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Speaker 2: You don't tell me you talk to him? No, not

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Speaker 1: But what unless the man got another bit somewhere? Shit,

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Speaker 1: because that seemed like that's what you are trying to

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Speaker 1: hear that for three years straight. Oh baby, my pocket

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Speaker 1: is no, I can't do it. Like no, nigga, what

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Speaker 1: if I asked one of burking, what if she want

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Speaker 1: to like you know what I'm saying, what yeah, what

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Speaker 1: if she want something that this man cannot afford every year?

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Speaker 1: What if she is you know, because the first year

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Speaker 1: he had no problems, That's what did she said?

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Speaker 2: The first year? No, they was together four years.

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Speaker 1: The first year he you know, they bought each other

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Speaker 1: gifts every day, spent Christmas together, everything was good. The

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Speaker 1: next year she said, he picked a fight and you

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Speaker 1: know he didn't get her anything for Christmas, yeah said,

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Speaker 1: or anything and so updated, and I'm let us know

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Speaker 1: she won't be here. So let me know what the

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Speaker 1: fuck is going on, and we're gonna move on, all right,

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Speaker 1: all kind, all right, So again I'm summarizing because I

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Speaker 1: want to get It's three Christmas stories that I chose,

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Speaker 1: and I think these are they all three of them

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Speaker 1: are different. Yes the fuck this person doesn't get along

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Speaker 1: with their family, but they want advice on keeping it

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Speaker 1: cool on Christmas. Okay, so you don't get along with

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Speaker 1: the whole family. Now this person did say the whole family.

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Speaker 1: She only gets along with her two aunts and her cousin.

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Speaker 1: But they have a really really big family and they

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Speaker 1: they the grandmother has a huge, huge, huge home and

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Speaker 1: they all meet there. They all meet there for Christmas

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Speaker 1: every year. But she has an issue with basically the

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Speaker 1: and but she wants to want advice on how she

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Speaker 1: because obviously if everybody got a problem with she you

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Speaker 1: the problem, she judge.

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Speaker 2: But that's all we're going on.

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Speaker 1: For Yeah, because if it's a big, big, big family.

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Speaker 1: Now she said, it's about three full fucking are you

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Speaker 1: Like, Okay, now this person can't decide which family to

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Speaker 2: And where do you sleep after y'all put the kids

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure all of this is going to go

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Speaker 2: They're cool like that way.

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Speaker 1: It makes you feel more comfortable and you're with their

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Speaker 1: it is not really about the kids.

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Speaker 2: For the girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: The girlfriend is like, yo, y'a ain't been together in

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Speaker 1: six years and you still spending you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: But this is something that they've been doing for a

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Speaker 2: few years now.

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Speaker 1: That's because he didn't I guess he was single before that,

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Speaker 1: so this is like a a problem to him now.

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Speaker 1: He hasn't talked to either one of them yet. He

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Speaker 1: did say, but he was like, yo, I just want

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Speaker 1: to know what I should do.

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Speaker 2: Now. That's advice on a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Now on the on the baby mom, you need to

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Speaker 1: really sit with her and figure out all y'all done

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Speaker 1: or not, Like if she thinks that y'all finished or whatever,

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Speaker 1: y'all need to figure that shit out, okay, because you

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Speaker 1: can't be straddling the fence with that ship. You said

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Speaker 1: you love your girlfriend, and you also don't want to

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Speaker 1: confuse your children, you know what I'm saying, because if

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Speaker 1: you don't live with them already, and daddy just come over,

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Speaker 1: you know, and and and you play Santa Claus and

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Speaker 1: then they wake up in the middle of the night

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Speaker 1: and see mommy kids saying Santa Clans. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying that, But yeah, you need to sit down

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Speaker 1: and be honest with yourself.

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Speaker 2: First.

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Speaker 1: I think you know your baby mother ain't over you. However,

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Speaker 1: she has never given your girlfriend no problems. That ain't

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Speaker 1: the problem. The problem would be your girlfriend sitting at

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Speaker 1: home by herself wondering what the fuck is going on

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Speaker 1: at night, you know what I'm saying. So that's gonna

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Speaker 1: be that's gonna make her feel uneasy, and then that's

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Speaker 1: going to create tension in your household. So you either

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Speaker 1: take her or you tell your baby moms you can't

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Speaker 1: spend the night. I can be there early Christmas morning

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Speaker 1: for my kids. I can be their lead at night

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Speaker 1: Christmas Eve for my kids, but I can't stay the night.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it. We can add and the kids gonna

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Speaker 2: be fine. You can. You showed up. You showed up

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Speaker 2: for them.

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Speaker 1: They're not gonna miss the be They won't even be

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Speaker 1: worried about to stay in the night Parduct.

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Speaker 2: That's right. That nigga need to update us though, because

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Speaker 2: I need to know what happened in the new year.

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Speaker 2: And just like that, we've come down it and yeah

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Speaker 2: we done. I got to go and do the news.

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Speaker 2: Do you work?

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Speaker 1: Oh well, baby, you can record John goddamn podcast pitchaw.

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Speaker 2: I'll see y'all in the new year.

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