Speaker 1: Well, this is technical director Ashton. It looks like I'm
Speaker 1: the only one that showed up on a classic Saturday
Speaker 1: second Day update. So I'm gonna leave my Venmo code
Speaker 1: at the bottom. If anyone wants to send me some
Speaker 1: extra cash, that would be awesome.
Speaker 2: How do you go from zero matches, no prospects on
Speaker 2: your dating profile to suddenly having your inbox full of
Speaker 2: available singles all wanting to meet you.
Speaker 3: Instead.
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about like catfishing or lying about yourself
Speaker 2: to trick people, because one of our listeners says he
Speaker 2: adjusted one little thing on his app that instantly changed
Speaker 2: the game for him.
Speaker 4: Immediately he got.
Speaker 2: Way more swipes and he wishes that he'd done this
Speaker 2: years ago. You're gonna hear how he pulled it off,
Speaker 2: coming up in your second date.
Speaker 4: Update, next second date update.
Speaker 5: Date.
Speaker 2: Dating older women, it's like adult braces, because you're gonna
Speaker 2: get to a point in your life where it's like, gosh,
Speaker 2: I probably need it. I know it's good for me,
Speaker 2: but it's also gonna be weird because everyone around me
Speaker 2: is gonna see me, They're gonna be judging me for it.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try and keep it a secret. You know,
Speaker 2: keep my mouth shut. Literally, that is a younger man's
Speaker 2: perspective on dating up above his age. But because you're
Speaker 2: yet yeah, one day, one day, I might get to
Speaker 2: the point where I need adult braces and I need
Speaker 2: an older woman. But one of our listeners says he's
Speaker 2: brave enough to admit it right here on our show,
Speaker 2: and even braver to admit that she's not calling him
Speaker 2: back after their date. Okay, so let's talk to him. Nate,
Speaker 2: welcome to the show.
Speaker 6: Hi, thanks for having me.
Speaker 4: You're very brave.
Speaker 3: Why is this brave?
Speaker 7: Like?
Speaker 3: Why is like that is such a weird for her
Speaker 3: to take on a hid to deal with them? It's
Speaker 3: such a weird thing to say, Like how much older
Speaker 3: is this woman? I mean, I guess if she's thirty
Speaker 3: years older, then that's a yeah, that's a thing to tax.
Speaker 2: Which retirement home did you meet this gal at?
Speaker 6: I didn't meet it at a retirement home. I met
Speaker 6: her on a dating app.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, And what's your guys' age gap? Do you know?
Speaker 6: Well, I'm thirty two and she's forty nine.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's not like you're a twenty two year old.
Speaker 3: That would be weird. Yeah, yeah, only because like, what
Speaker 3: do you want to do with a twenty two year olds?
Speaker 2: Are kind of which did the map? It's seventeen years
Speaker 2: difference between the two of them, is that right?
Speaker 6: Yeah? That sounds about right.
Speaker 3: That's a big gap, but you know it's not undoable noticeable.
Speaker 2: What's her name?
Speaker 6: By the way, her name is Laurie.
Speaker 2: Okay, and how did you find Lauri online?
Speaker 6: Well? I decided, after a long time of just using
Speaker 6: dating apps, like with people around my own age, that
Speaker 6: I needed to branch out, okay, because I was getting
Speaker 6: kind of bored.
Speaker 3: So what do you think, like an older woman has
Speaker 3: to offer you instead of a woman in her thirties.
Speaker 6: Well, obviously experienced wisdom, but frankly, I just wanted something new.
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, there's probably not much pressure for like babies
Speaker 3: and marriage because that's I could be her daughter. That's done.
Speaker 2: Actually, Nate might be going out with your mom.
Speaker 3: I mean, no, my mom is not Laurie, thank god.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe online she is. Okay, So you went out
Speaker 2: with Laurie? Where'd you guys go?
Speaker 6: You know, we want to have to eat. We had
Speaker 6: a nice time.
Speaker 5: Good? Oh?
Speaker 7: Really?
Speaker 3: Like, what'd you guys connect over we.
Speaker 6: Just sort of talked. She actually invited me out and
Speaker 6: picked the place. She's much more successful than I am.
Speaker 6: She was like, I'm going to treat you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, the older people tend to be for some reason,
Speaker 5: it comes to the territory.
Speaker 2: They just have more money. You didn't feel emasculated at all.
Speaker 6: No, I mean I'm a pretty progressive guy, you know,
Speaker 6: I'm not. I don't need to be quote unquote the
Speaker 6: man all the time.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2: When you say that she was successful, what do you
Speaker 2: mean by that? Like you're talking about her job, sort
Speaker 2: of dealing her job.
Speaker 6: She's a businesswoman. She's like, is one of like a
Speaker 6: higher up some company. Like she's like a boss.
Speaker 3: Dude, that's awesome.
Speaker 6: I like that.
Speaker 2: What do you do? Do you mind us asking?
Speaker 6: I am a valet?
Speaker 3: Okay, she's a boss. You're an employee. Did you notice,
Speaker 3: like at any point in your guys' conversation like, oh god,
Speaker 3: we do come from two different generations.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 6: I initially I was worried about that, but it ended
Speaker 6: up working. Okay. We talked about video games a lot,
Speaker 6: Like we talked about Rocket.
Speaker 2: League, which is crazy, Like I can't believe that she
Speaker 2: even knows knows Rocket Leaning.
Speaker 6: You get all.
Speaker 3: Was there anything like sexy about that?
Speaker 2: Yeah, she plays video games. Brook That is sexy to
Speaker 2: a man, you.
Speaker 3: Know, But I mean to her, it probably feels like
Speaker 3: she's talking to a teenage boy. I don't know she
Speaker 3: brought it up, did she or did he bring it up?
Speaker 3: She just knew what it was.
Speaker 6: Yeah, We're just talking about what we were into. And
Speaker 6: I said, lately, I've been playing a lot of Rocket League.
Speaker 6: She was like, I know a Rocket League.
Speaker 3: She didn't just say, oh, it's a game with a buckets,
Speaker 3: it's actually a card game, or like I buy it
Speaker 3: for my sons.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, Nate tell us, was there any like weird
Speaker 2: stuff that happened during the day.
Speaker 6: I mean, like the waiter thought it was weird. The
Speaker 6: waiter was kept looking at me like really, man.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's kind of rude.
Speaker 2: I imagine nature's like drawing with crayons on the What
Speaker 2: do you do?
Speaker 9: What you do?
Speaker 2: So how did the night end?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 6: I invited her back to my place, which she declined,
Speaker 6: which is in her right to do, okay, and then
Speaker 6: she gave me a kiss on the forehead.
Speaker 3: Oh oh, I told you if she thinks of him
Speaker 3: as like it.
Speaker 2: Well, it's like a cute, funny thing. I mean, back
Speaker 2: in the day, I used to take things a lot
Speaker 2: slower romantically. So you started with the forehead kiss and
Speaker 2: then you slowly there was way more basis back in
Speaker 2: the day. I bet you kissed the server on the forehead.
Speaker 3: Was I born in the fifties or forties or something like?
Speaker 3: Have you seen what Alexis's mom is wearried out? Oh,
Speaker 3: she's not doing for head cans.
Speaker 2: No, I don't wear much. Let's do you left the
Speaker 2: day she went home? What's happened since then?
Speaker 6: Well, I've been trying to get a second date, but
Speaker 6: she's like really busy. I mean, she's got this crazy
Speaker 6: job and everything. But she did try to see if
Speaker 6: I was free this coming Tuesday at two pm, So
Speaker 6: weird time.
Speaker 3: Did you say yes or no to Tuesday.
Speaker 6: At two I said no because I'm at work. I mean,
Speaker 6: I love to meet her at two pm on a Tuesday,
Speaker 6: but okay, I'm parking cars man.
Speaker 2: Yeah makes sense.
Speaker 3: And then she's just been elusive when you've asked her out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, this is definitely a new one for us.
Speaker 3: You don't think it's just that she's not interested because
Speaker 3: he's a younger guy that spent the day talking about
Speaker 3: video games and he, you know, doesn't have an equal
Speaker 3: job to her.
Speaker 2: I don't see a single wrong thing that what she
Speaker 2: said there, So.
Speaker 6: She wouldn't meet me at all, though the thing I
Speaker 6: think if she didn't like me.
Speaker 2: She pursued him on the app, like she swiped right
Speaker 2: on him, just the same way she's wiped right on
Speaker 2: her or whatever.
Speaker 3: We have ideas and that they turn out to be
Speaker 3: not as great as you thought. I don't okay, I don't.
Speaker 2: Appreciate that attitude. Coming into the second part. We're going
Speaker 2: to call this lovely, mature woman who is totally into
Speaker 2: you one hundred.
Speaker 3: Not going to call her that when we talk to her.
Speaker 2: Okay, whatever the right thing to call her is. We're
Speaker 2: going to figure that out, and then we'll try and
Speaker 2: get you a second date update right after this.
Speaker 6: Thank you?
Speaker 4: All right, Hold on second date update.
Speaker 2: We have a guy on the line named Nate who
Speaker 2: just revealed to us he went on a date with
Speaker 2: a woman seventeen years his senior.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a big gap and size.
Speaker 2: They're not connecting afterwards, and I know the girls in
Speaker 2: the room. Think it's because he was too immature and
Speaker 2: she's not going to want to talk to him about
Speaker 2: video games and Rocket League and that was a turnoff
Speaker 2: age gap.
Speaker 3: Yeah, excuse me.
Speaker 2: Let me remind me you. The man to my left,
Speaker 2: Jose Bolanios, plays video games all the time and he's
Speaker 2: the most mature person I know. Hit him up at
Speaker 2: hilarious Jose on Twitch and find out what a catch
Speaker 2: she truly is. And I will say, for the record,
Speaker 2: I am the most single person I know.
Speaker 4: That's my choice.
Speaker 2: That's no woman holds him down, and that's.
Speaker 4: But I also think that's it.
Speaker 2: I think our listener name brought up a good point
Speaker 2: to the ladies. Think she regrets going out with a
Speaker 2: younger guy after the date, but she's the one who
Speaker 2: is asking him to hang out again, not.
Speaker 3: A younger guy, just him and ask him a time.
Speaker 3: No one's ever free.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well tuesday. Just the point that she's reaching out,
Speaker 2: still engaging him, asking to see him again. I mean
Speaker 2: that must mean something, right.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like me to some degree, But she hasn't answered
Speaker 6: my last four text.
Speaker 3: She's busy. Okay, she's busy. She's a career woman.
Speaker 2: Let's just give it a shot. We're speculating forever. We
Speaker 2: need to call and find out. I've never called someone
Speaker 2: this old before, so I wonder if she'll take a
Speaker 2: lot do that.
Speaker 3: When we're on the phone with her, she is going
Speaker 3: to hang up on us.
Speaker 2: Okay, I won't say it.
Speaker 3: Do we need Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: I promise I'm not crossing any body parts. I won't
Speaker 2: say it. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, is this slurry.
Speaker 5: Speaking?
Speaker 8: Just call it?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Sorry, you're on the radio right now. Your voice
Speaker 2: kind of took me by surprise. I don't know.
Speaker 3: Uh, I know why you have some weird I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: We're show called broken Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 10: Yeah, why are you calling?
Speaker 3: It's a great question, Laurie.
Speaker 2: Yeah. We do a segment called the Second Date Update,
Speaker 2: and that's where we help our listeners who have gone
Speaker 2: out with somebody hook up with them one more.
Speaker 3: Time, go out with them one more time.
Speaker 11: I don't know if you have.
Speaker 10: I think you might have a number. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 2: The name are you? Are you the LORI that went
Speaker 2: up with a guy recently named Nate to dinner? Oh God,
Speaker 2: a little younger than you?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 9: I'm sorry?
Speaker 11: How do we know this.
Speaker 3: You were having a reaction right now to that name.
Speaker 2: Sorry, we're not trying to like make this awkward for you,
Speaker 2: but Nate reached out to our show and told us
Speaker 2: that you guys went out and he's been trying to
Speaker 2: see you again.
Speaker 3: But oh god, he really liked you. Oh no, okay, okay, why.
Speaker 7: I'm well, I just I don't I think something got
Speaker 7: like some liars have been crossed here.
Speaker 2: What do you mean we're we're a little bit confused
Speaker 2: because he told us that you even mentioned a specific
Speaker 2: time and a date like two o'clock on a Tuesday,
Speaker 2: where you wanted to meet up with you and you
Speaker 2: couldn't make it.
Speaker 7: Yeah. Well, I'm I feel bad because I had to
Speaker 7: be honest. I haven't been one hundred percent up front
Speaker 7: with him about my I guess my intentions for wanting
Speaker 7: to meet up with him.
Speaker 3: You met him on the dating app, right, Like, I mean,
Speaker 3: if you meet anybody on a dating app, it feels
Speaker 3: like the intention is to date romantic.
Speaker 2: Oh, so you're just looking for a fling.
Speaker 11: No, I'm not.
Speaker 12: I'm married.
Speaker 3: Wait what? Oh wow, what do you mean you're married?
Speaker 3: Why are you want an app?
Speaker 13: I didn't mean to be on a dating the dating
Speaker 13: lay on this app and you can you can look
Speaker 13: for friendship. I was, you know, I put on my profile.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, WoT so you were on.
Speaker 3: The wrong section or he was on the wrong section.
Speaker 2: Did you did that come up during your date that
Speaker 2: you're trying to be his friend?
Speaker 9: You know?
Speaker 12: I I guess I didn't. I wasn't like explicitly saying,
Speaker 12: you know, I'm just looking for a friend.
Speaker 13: I think I just what's.
Speaker 12: Happening is I have a step son and he is
Speaker 12: he's seventeen, and he can't draw, he can't think you're
Speaker 12: aut driving. And I was looking at this app.
Speaker 8: You know, some friends of mine use it, and they said,
Speaker 8: you know, take a look because sometimes you can meet
Speaker 8: people that have different skills that can actually help you
Speaker 8: out in the real world.
Speaker 3: I don't get it.
Speaker 8: I came across Nate's profile and I saw he's a
Speaker 8: valet and.
Speaker 12: My son is having trouble with parking.
Speaker 3: Oh, like, why wouldn't you just be out front and
Speaker 3: ask him like hey, and tell him what's going on?
Speaker 3: As soon as you message him on the app?
Speaker 13: Well, I mean, he we were talking about you know,
Speaker 13: what do you like to do in your spare time.
Speaker 13: And so Nate brought up that he likes to play
Speaker 13: this game, rocket League, and I was like, oh, I
Speaker 13: know Rocket League because I have a kid who plays
Speaker 13: Rocket League.
Speaker 1: Oh that's.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: Well this is clearing up a lot of things.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't know what to say other than we need
Speaker 2: to tell you that Nate is on the other line
Speaker 2: right now and has been listening to this conversation.
Speaker 3: Oh great, okay, God, wouldn't that be good because now
Speaker 3: it's clear Nate, I mean.
Speaker 10: Actually, yeah, I think this is I mean, I I don't.
Speaker 10: I can't believe he wouldn't just talk to me, but
Speaker 10: I could.
Speaker 2: Now's your chance to do it, Nate.
Speaker 6: You there, Yeah, I'm here. I'm in shocked.
Speaker 3: Nate, did you have any idea she was looking to
Speaker 3: just hire you to help her son?
Speaker 6: No, And I'm regretting calling the radio about it.
Speaker 3: That's a little darress.
Speaker 11: Why do you think I bought you dinner?
Speaker 13: I bought you dinner.
Speaker 10: It wasn't a date.
Speaker 11: I didn't want you to think it was a date.
Speaker 10: It was like sort of an interview.
Speaker 3: You know, you don't want a dinner for interviews, Like
Speaker 3: I've never taken a babysitter out to dinner because I wanted.
Speaker 3: I been like, Hey, is there a young thirty something
Speaker 3: man that wants to babysit my kids and let me
Speaker 3: take you out to dinner?
Speaker 4: Like that just seems you should give it a try.
Speaker 2: Works out really.
Speaker 3: Well, that's weird, it doesn't because she's here.
Speaker 13: Well, on the app, we.
Speaker 8: Were chatting before the date and he was saying how
Speaker 8: he was interested in, you know, and other.
Speaker 12: Business and e commerce and so I have experience in that,
Speaker 12: and I thought, you know, I'll scratch his back if
Speaker 12: he can scratch mine.
Speaker 3: I think he meant literally and.
Speaker 2: Some actual skin to skin contact.
Speaker 3: Huh.
Speaker 2: I can't see that.
Speaker 3: Like, I can see why there's a miscommunity.
Speaker 2: And Nate, are we clearing things up for a year.
Speaker 6: So just to be clear, the two pm thing, that's
Speaker 6: not like a hangout afternoon delight sort of.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you have to hang out with him on
Speaker 2: a Tuesday at two.
Speaker 12: No, my son's off from school at that time, so
Speaker 12: you know, I just thought that's.
Speaker 11: Perfect time for driving lesson before his lacross start lessons.
Speaker 3: Or a perfect time before your husband gets home.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I still think, but Okay.
Speaker 11: No, you can go to my profile right now, I says,
Speaker 11: looking for friendship.
Speaker 2: Okay, hot tip. Men don't read the profiles.
Speaker 6: That just usually means you're not looking for something serious.
Speaker 3: Yeah right, I mean, maybe include a picture of you
Speaker 3: and your husband next time. That could be something else.
Speaker 11: Yeah, I guess I'll do that.
Speaker 5: I will do that.
Speaker 2: Well, hold on, we still have Nate on the phone
Speaker 2: with us here. Maybe there's some sort of deal that
Speaker 2: we could strike up.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, are you still looking for like helping
Speaker 6: your son out, because like I could use some money.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, he's interested.
Speaker 6: I'll pick money over forehead kiss any day.
Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm so sorry about the forehead kiss.
Speaker 12: I honestly I didn't know what to do there.
Speaker 3: I do that to all my babysitters and people that
Speaker 3: help with my kids too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't every day when we leave. It's super awkward.
Speaker 11: I mean, I'm I'm absolutely willing, you know, if the
Speaker 11: offer stands, I'm willing to help you out with some business.
Speaker 12: Business document and you know, different tips and everything. If
Speaker 12: you can help me.
Speaker 3: With my son, that's pretty good.
Speaker 2: What do you say, Nate, This once of a lifetime opportunity, you.
Speaker 6: Know, I've got your number, let's work something out.
Speaker 3: Okay, right now, we're actually paying for a real business
Speaker 3: dinner this time, I.
Speaker 2: Guess, sir. Look at that, Nate. We're trying to hook
Speaker 2: you up with like a romantic partner, but we may
Speaker 2: have just gotten you a part time job insteadyhow.
Speaker 6: You know what, I'll take it?
Speaker 3: Hey, make sure to put us on your LinkedIn Okay.
Speaker 14: Well, it'll be a reference for you freaking Jeffrey in
Speaker 14: the morning.
Speaker 2: We get a lot of text in seventy five nine
Speaker 2: two from people saying they meet friends on these dating
Speaker 2: apps all the time dating apps.
Speaker 3: Will you go in the friend part?
Speaker 2: Yes, you could meet friends on the dating part two.
Speaker 2: According to our listeners, it's more common than you'd think.
Speaker 2: Should we set up a friend Maybe we should set
Speaker 2: up a friend seeking profile for Brooke on Tinder.
Speaker 3: Sketchy dude, to have all these people who want to
Speaker 3: be your friend and you can.
Speaker 2: Reject them one by one.
Speaker 3: Yeah, or just claim I was just hiring him for
Speaker 3: my kid. I swear, now you get it.
Speaker 2: Then you'll end up on some other morning show during
Speaker 2: another second.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so sketchy. All that is so sketchy.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, it's not for everybody, but if you ever
Speaker 2: do go out on a date, please just let's save
Speaker 2: it for the dates. Yeah, we're not doing the friend
Speaker 2: match online for this second. Yeah. If your friend's not
Speaker 2: calling you back, don't care.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry that hurts more.
Speaker 2: Yeah, painful. No, if you want help hooking up your
Speaker 2: romantic live email the show, we'll call that person wasn't calling.
Speaker 14: You back, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: In the history of this show, we've had outrageous second dates,
Speaker 2: awkward ones pull your car over to the side of
Speaker 2: the road and weep into your hands while hugging your
Speaker 2: steering wheel type of wow. Oh, we've had all different kinds.
Speaker 2: It's like a hundred car pile up on the side
Speaker 2: of the freeway of criers.
Speaker 3: You didn't know that was our fault.
Speaker 2: Sorry, oops are bad, But this I promise you today,
Speaker 2: out of all the ones we've done this year, is
Speaker 2: probably the most memorable of the entire bus Wow. And
Speaker 2: it all started with an unexpected situation that happened right
Speaker 2: after dinner was over, and it's something we've definitely never
Speaker 2: heard before.
Speaker 3: I honestly am still scarred. Can I say that.
Speaker 2: Scarred with love? You're gonna hear it in your extra
Speaker 2: memorable second date update happening right after this.
Speaker 4: Second date up dated.
Speaker 2: When listeners submit requests for phone taps or second date updates,
Speaker 2: they'll send it an email. Or you can also fill
Speaker 2: out like a little questionnaire on our website.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we have like a submit form. You actually go
Speaker 3: to Brooknjeffrey dot com slash submit.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: That's almost too easy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you do it.
Speaker 2: There's a section on there where we ask people to
Speaker 2: tell us a little bit about themselves so that we
Speaker 2: can get an idea of who they are. And the
Speaker 2: guy on the phone today wrote in the about me
Speaker 2: section he alligator wrestles on the weekends, what has a
Speaker 2: collection of inflatable blow up dolls, and used to drive
Speaker 2: submarines for Russia until they fired him when he opened
Speaker 2: a window underwater and they didn't like that.
Speaker 3: Shut up, he's joking.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I'm just going to take him at his word for it.
Speaker 2: Please welcome disgraced Russian submarine captain Eric to the show.
Speaker 11: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hello, Wow, Eric's not a very Russian name, And yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't detect any Russian accent. You must be just
Speaker 2: be quite the spy now.
Speaker 3: I mean, I get it, like you'd want fresh air
Speaker 3: if you're on a submarine. You know, makes sense. I'm
Speaker 3: just so funny.
Speaker 2: Guessing some of that about me section wasn't one hundred
Speaker 2: percent true.
Speaker 5: Well, I think you can all agree it gets a
Speaker 5: little stuffy with all the men on a submarine.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, got hey, thanks for the laugh already.
Speaker 3: We didn't even get you on the phone before I
Speaker 3: started laughing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Brook, it doesn't laugh that hard at any of
Speaker 2: my jokes, so you should probably be in my role.
Speaker 2: But we I know you wanted to do a second
Speaker 2: date update here. You went out with a woman recently.
Speaker 6: I do.
Speaker 5: Yes, I went out with a very lovely woman by
Speaker 5: the name of Dana, and he had what I thought
Speaker 5: was a terrific date.
Speaker 3: Can I ask, real quick, did you guys meet on
Speaker 3: a dating app?
Speaker 6: We did?
Speaker 3: Does your dating app include the Russian submarine information?
Speaker 5: I don't remember whether I included that on the app.
Speaker 5: I mean, you know, I've got so many things that
Speaker 5: I used. It may have, I don't.
Speaker 2: So what stood out to you about Dana?
Speaker 5: Well, there was one butarticular photo that I really liked.
Speaker 5: It was part of the city that's near and dear
Speaker 5: to me, and I saw her sitting there and it
Speaker 5: just it really attracted me to her.
Speaker 3: Oh, it's interesting, like she obviously loves something you love.
Speaker 2: Is it the sewer or you wrestle alligators? Is that
Speaker 2: the area of the city?
Speaker 5: Well, you know what, as funny as that would be, no, really,
Speaker 5: we we uh connected on travel, That's probably the main thing. Okay,
Speaker 5: she was a fan of that, and I had a
Speaker 5: lot of photos from my travel experiences. I not to
Speaker 5: say I'm the around the world an eighty days guy
Speaker 5: or anything, but I've I've been to a number of
Speaker 5: countries that I've enjoyed.
Speaker 2: So which country did you travel to for your first date?
Speaker 2: Was that exotic?
Speaker 1: Oh my god?
Speaker 2: Or did you go simpler with it?
Speaker 12: Well?
Speaker 5: No, we went much simpler, and really I don't want
Speaker 5: to name names. We were mostly on opposite sides of
Speaker 5: the city, and she set it up. She was willing
Speaker 5: to come toward my side of the city to uh
Speaker 5: a small place I hadn't heard of.
Speaker 3: Oh, she found the spot that was near you.
Speaker 5: It was closer to me. I wouldn't say near me,
Speaker 5: but closer to me. She came more than halfway to
Speaker 5: meet me.
Speaker 3: Okay, was it like a bar restaurant where we at?
Speaker 5: It was a restaurant. It was a very small, independent
Speaker 5: Italian restaurant. It was lovely weather. We sat outside at
Speaker 5: a glass of wine, had dinner, just rehash some of
Speaker 5: what we had talked about on our initial phone calls.
Speaker 3: Okay, what was the vibe between you two?
Speaker 5: I was very much attracted to her, and I very
Speaker 5: much thought she was attracted to me.
Speaker 2: Okay, based on what was there, like a moment or
Speaker 2: like a like something that happened that gave you that feeling.
Speaker 5: Oh, that she was attracted to me. Nothing, Well, perhaps
Speaker 5: you you read into this what you think.
Speaker 3: But she showed up.
Speaker 2: She didn't leaves at least so sort of until times
Speaker 2: when I talked, she responded, when she went to the restroom,
Speaker 2: she actually came back.
Speaker 7: Wow.
Speaker 2: I mean, I know this sounds crazy, but a lot
Speaker 2: of these second dates and with them going to the
Speaker 2: bathroom and never coming.
Speaker 5: Back, When will she be back from the restroom?
Speaker 6: Okay, I do want to mention.
Speaker 5: I do want to mention the moment that you asked for,
Speaker 5: and you can tell me what you think of this.
Speaker 5: That is when it was time to leave, I had
Speaker 5: such an enjoyable time with her that we got up
Speaker 5: to leave and she was standing in front of me.
Speaker 5: Her hair was up okay, and the back of her
Speaker 5: bare neck was in front of me, and I just
Speaker 5: couldn't help that. I bent down and I gave her
Speaker 5: a kiss on the neck.
Speaker 3: And then on the back of her neck back like
Speaker 3: she didn't even see you coming.
Speaker 5: Did not see me coming.
Speaker 2: That just made me like clench my neck.
Speaker 5: As crazy as it sounds, or creepy as it tempts,
Speaker 5: she turned around and smiled.
Speaker 3: Are you sure it wasn't a cringe?
Speaker 5: I am sure her because some things happened later on.
Speaker 5: I don't want to go into detail.
Speaker 4: It was nothing that she kissed the back of your legs.
Speaker 5: No, not at all.
Speaker 3: He starts top, she starts down.
Speaker 5: We got to know each other a little bit better.
Speaker 5: We were slightly more intimate than that.
Speaker 3: Well, maybe you did find a good match, because I
Speaker 3: my gut reaction to somebody doing that would probably be
Speaker 3: like turn around and elbow and the face or something.
Speaker 4: You know, you know what's bad.
Speaker 2: When Brook says she isn't into it because she hasn't
Speaker 2: gotten any action for years, Honestly.
Speaker 3: Lick my neck. Well, I'm kidding, I'm kidding.
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe that's the reason why she's not reaching back
Speaker 5: to me.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's hard to think though, because she she did. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm assuming you're saying made out with you later.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that was it exactly. I kissed her as tenderly
Speaker 5: as I could, and she certainly wasn't against it.
Speaker 2: Okay. The more you describe your kissing, the less I likes. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we're gonna go into as little description as possible when
Speaker 2: we call her, and then we'll come back get your
Speaker 2: second date update. Hopefully if she answers no, I don't know, Okay,
Speaker 2: I think she's had enough tender stuff happened in the
Speaker 2: last few hours. We'll come back get your second date
Speaker 2: update right after this hold.
Speaker 4: On second date update.
Speaker 2: You know, for our social media, I feel like we
Speaker 2: don't do quite enough to describe what's happening in these
Speaker 2: second date phone calls.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I mean because it's we obviously can't have
Speaker 3: the listener on video.
Speaker 2: Right, I think we need to give people more of
Speaker 2: a visual of what happened on Eric's date the other night.
Speaker 2: So we're gonna start rolling some video right here in
Speaker 2: the studio and have brook get up out of her
Speaker 2: seat and walk around to Alexis tenderly kiss her on
Speaker 2: the back of the neck the same way that Eric did.
Speaker 7: Tod Wine Impasta.
Speaker 2: I have a feeling Alexis, you're gonna like this way
Speaker 2: more than.
Speaker 4: You think you will think so.
Speaker 2: Actually, we've had this request on the text wort we do.
Speaker 2: But you might go back after this happens and start
Speaker 2: kissing all of your female roommates on the back of
Speaker 2: the neck. This might be a new like bonding activity.
Speaker 3: My breath is hot because I just had I had
Speaker 3: friedos with my but I've never seen this excited. You
Speaker 3: can feel me coming from like four inches away.
Speaker 2: All right, here comes Brooks. You're doing a little saunter
Speaker 2: dance over behind Alexis. Alexis exposed your neck to her.
Speaker 2: Please just digging through your hair. It's not gonna work
Speaker 2: too much.
Speaker 4: God, should we get the scissors out.
Speaker 3: I'm just to let you know I'm turned off.
Speaker 4: Sorry you turn off, exulting dude.
Speaker 3: Your neck is kind of hairy.
Speaker 2: We tried the girls and studio. Do you think, though,
Speaker 2: that's the reason that Eric is not getting a call back,
Speaker 2: because that was his go to.
Speaker 3: Move anything like what I just felt. I can't imagine
Speaker 3: being Eric and making that decision to make that.
Speaker 5: Eric.
Speaker 2: They're thinking that might be the reason that she's not
Speaker 2: calling you back.
Speaker 5: I certainly hope not. At the time, it seemed like
Speaker 5: the thing to do.
Speaker 3: Had you pulled that move before? Or is this the
Speaker 3: first time.
Speaker 9: That a question?
Speaker 5: No, first and only time. I couldn't help myself.
Speaker 6: I was tracked to her.
Speaker 2: That's honestly better because she had been down leaving her
Speaker 2: neck a little bit exposed in like a shark on
Speaker 2: Shark Week. Eric swam out from behind one of the
Speaker 2: tables and just pointed one on her open neck.
Speaker 5: There were no teeth involved, that no tea.
Speaker 3: I mean they did make out later, so she wasn't
Speaker 3: completely turned out.
Speaker 2: Must have been sort of into it. Those Italian wines
Speaker 2: at that restaurant must have hit pretty hard.
Speaker 3: But I need some of that right now.
Speaker 4: Now we got to call it Dana.
Speaker 2: Here we go. I'm going to dial her number right now.
Speaker 2: We'll see if she picks up. Hello, Hey, we're looking
Speaker 2: for Dana.
Speaker 5: Yes, this.
Speaker 2: Is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: That's why I said, we hi.
Speaker 3: There's more people here.
Speaker 10: Okay, Hi, can I help you?
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're doing a segment called a second Date Update,
Speaker 2: and we're trying to help a guy that you went
Speaker 2: out with get in touch with you again so that
Speaker 2: you guys can meet up one more time.
Speaker 9: I'm not sure I'm interested in participating in this, to
Speaker 9: be honest with you, when.
Speaker 2: You find out who it is, you know, because as
Speaker 2: far as we've heard, it was a great night, at
Speaker 2: least according to Eric.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Italian restaurant.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I got it.
Speaker 2: What did you think about the date?
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 10: I mean it was going okay, but I don't know.
Speaker 9: After we hung out, I was kind of just reflecting
Speaker 9: on the whole date thing, and he he just seems
Speaker 9: overly comfortable and experienced, like more than I expected, and
Speaker 9: more than other guys that I've.
Speaker 3: Met on this app have been experienced.
Speaker 9: Like he seems really used to dating, like he just
Speaker 9: did this all the time.
Speaker 3: Like he's an adult male awkward.
Speaker 2: I feel like he would want somebody who feels comfortable
Speaker 2: around him.
Speaker 10: I guess I'm not describing it right.
Speaker 9: I'm talking more of like a Jigalotle type of vibe,
Speaker 9: like an escort.
Speaker 3: Okay, like, what do you mean Sameeric that we were
Speaker 3: talking about, who uses the word tender a lot.
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 9: So I went home and I was telling my roommate
Speaker 9: about it, and she told me that there's this Facebook
Speaker 9: page called are We Dating the Same Guy?
Speaker 4: Do you know what that is? I thought, what that is?
Speaker 3: I thought you were going to say, and my roommate
Speaker 3: told me she hired him for me.
Speaker 2: What are we dating the same guy?
Speaker 12: So?
Speaker 10: Are we dating the same guy?
Speaker 9: As the thing on Facebook where like it's basically a
Speaker 9: mainly women and you post the picture of the guy
Speaker 9: you're dating, and you see anybody in there is also
Speaker 9: dating the same guy to.
Speaker 10: See if he's like, you know, dating multiple people at
Speaker 10: the same time.
Speaker 9: Yeah, my roommate convinced me to post a picture on it.
Speaker 10: I was like, whatever, doesn't seem like a bad idea.
Speaker 3: I don't know. That page seems pretty toxic. I've seen
Speaker 3: showed it to me and it's like it's sketch.
Speaker 2: Are I bet Eric came back with glowing reviews.
Speaker 3: I don't take any woman on that page just one
Speaker 3: nice thing dude. Ever, it's never.
Speaker 2: Like here's the one that got away.
Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes it says, I don't know him. I haven't
Speaker 3: heard anything.
Speaker 2: Maybe nobody said anything, But did you get any responses,
Speaker 2: any feedback.
Speaker 9: Well, the interesting response is that there were people that
Speaker 9: says that they've been out with him on dates before
Speaker 9: and whatever. But the most talking part was that like
Speaker 9: three other women have commented saying that he kissed him
Speaker 9: on the back of the neck and I didn't even
Speaker 9: mention it.
Speaker 10: I post what.
Speaker 9: Yeah, Like the one girl comments in the picture saying
Speaker 9: that she had been out with him and he does
Speaker 9: this weird, super weird like back to the neck kiss,
Speaker 9: and then two.
Speaker 10: Other girls comment under that, like, oh my gosh, me too.
Speaker 2: He told us that he had never used that move
Speaker 2: on any other woman before you that you inspired him
Speaker 2: to do it.
Speaker 9: It was honestly so weird and so creepy. And it's like,
Speaker 9: this is like his bwlling card.
Speaker 3: I love that. Jeffrey so upset like you got lied
Speaker 3: to I. You know, It's like, jeff is upset.
Speaker 2: First I find out he's not really a Russian submarine captain,
Speaker 2: and now I find out he's actually kissing multiple women
Speaker 2: on the back of the neck. What are you tell
Speaker 2: me next? That he's secretly on the other line listening,
Speaker 2: wanting to talk to you because he is.
Speaker 3: Oh he's there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, that's how the segment works.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, Dana, Eric, Hello, Gana, Hello, I'm here.
Speaker 14: Eric.
Speaker 3: This is so this is almost as awkward as the
Speaker 3: net kiss.
Speaker 2: You told us that you didn't you didn't kiss anybody else.
Speaker 10: Is this just something you do to everyone? No, not
Speaker 10: at all.
Speaker 5: It was it was only you that what we had
Speaker 5: during the dinner. I couldn't control myself and you were Eric.
Speaker 9: Probably Eric, I literally just said on the radio that
Speaker 9: three other women said the same exact thing.
Speaker 3: So without her prompting them.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Well, I don't know.
Speaker 5: I don't know what to say to that. All I
Speaker 5: know is, yeah, I was so overtaken.
Speaker 3: Just own up to it. Eric, it's a dumb move
Speaker 3: that you use that you thought was romantic.
Speaker 5: Well, I don't think it was a dumb move. I
Speaker 5: mean it certainly progressed a.
Speaker 4: Date, that's true.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you didn't. You did stick around after
Speaker 2: the net kiss, Dana.
Speaker 11: I thought it was I.
Speaker 10: Only stuck around because I thought it was only me.
Speaker 10: I didn't know he was a serial neck kisser going
Speaker 10: around the city.
Speaker 9: Wait, you would have been okay if it was only you,
Speaker 9: it seemed like a spontaneous romantic moment.
Speaker 6: That's all Eric.
Speaker 2: We're running out of time here, so I'm going to
Speaker 2: give you twenty seconds to talk to Dana. You can
Speaker 2: tell her whatever you want to say and try and
Speaker 2: convince her that you are really into her and you
Speaker 2: want to go out with her one more time.
Speaker 5: Go ahead, Dana, I had such a lovely time with you,
Speaker 5: and I know you enjoyed being with me too. Oh
Speaker 5: please never mind whatever else it is that you're hearing.
Speaker 5: Please give us another chance. I know we spent some
Speaker 5: more time together that you're going to enjoy it. I
Speaker 5: really think there's something there.
Speaker 3: It's like he read he read a bad like sales
Speaker 3: book always belo.
Speaker 2: I felt like it was Anthony Hopkins reading a line
Speaker 2: from Silence of the Lambs. It's up to you, Dana.
Speaker 2: Would you like to go out with Eric one more time?
Speaker 2: We would pay for that date.
Speaker 9: I mean, look, it was a little bit weird that
Speaker 9: other girls said it, but up until that point I
Speaker 9: was totally fine with it. But once you got on
Speaker 9: in denying, the other girl said that, now you're just
Speaker 9: a creepy analyar like now.
Speaker 3: It's a triangle thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Eric, I'm sorry.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 2: We tried for you, and I.
Speaker 5: Really was hoping for a different outcome.
Speaker 10: But Dane, are you sure? Yeah, I'm sure.
Speaker 9: Please stop dating women in this town.
Speaker 4: We all know about it.
Speaker 2: You don't have to find a new move. I think, dude,
Speaker 2: you're gonna have to go for a different part of
Speaker 2: the body. Maybe behind the ears.
Speaker 4: That's his go to.
Speaker 2: He's a sneak attack guy to go to everyone kisses
Speaker 2: on the.
Speaker 14: List, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Well, gentlemen, take surprise back of the neck kiss out
Speaker 2: of your rolodex of first date moves. Eric ruined it
Speaker 2: for us. Er, I picture of my mind at least
Speaker 2: like seven hundred men taking out a little black book,
Speaker 2: giant red marker crossing it off. I was actually thinking this, like,
Speaker 2: as a bro if one of my homies and I'm like, dude,
Speaker 2: how was your date last night? And if he said, well,
Speaker 2: I got a net kiss, I would be worried congratulating.
Speaker 3: I mean, maybe when you're kissing and you move down,
Speaker 3: if it's like just that, not the back of the neck,
Speaker 3: And that's where the next where we're starting the.
Speaker 2: Problem with the kiss was not that it isn't sexy.
Speaker 2: It's that it's too played out. Eric has done it
Speaker 2: to too many women in issue now it's not unique anymore.
Speaker 2: It's like gently brushing the hair out of a girl's face.
Speaker 2: Everybody's done it. It's not sweet. Don't don't touch my hair.
Speaker 3: I don't want to see you for a reason, actually.
Speaker 2: Say from Alexis.
Speaker 3: I feel like Alexis would flinch.
Speaker 14: She would.
Speaker 2: But even though that move is now officially not allowed anymore,
Speaker 2: No more net kisses. There's plenty of other things you
Speaker 2: can go with, plenty of other ways you can screw
Speaker 2: things up, and we're gonna We're gonna be there for you.
Speaker 2: We'll help you through all the mistakes. You will help
Speaker 2: you get back on track. Email the show. We'll call
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