WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Driving Miss Laurie + Lick My Neck 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.200 Well, this is technical director Ashton. It looks like I'm 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:04.800 the only one that showed up on a classic Saturday 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:08.200 second Day update. So I'm gonna leave my Venmo code 0:00:08.200 --> 0:00:09.959 at the bottom. If anyone wants to send me some 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:11.639 extra cash, that would be awesome. 0:00:13.200 --> 0:00:17.240 How do you go from zero matches, no prospects on 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:21.520 your dating profile to suddenly having your inbox full of 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:24.160 available singles all wanting to meet you. 0:00:26.880 --> 0:00:27.240 Instead. 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:33.760 I'm not talking about like catfishing or lying about yourself 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:36.280 to trick people, because one of our listeners says he 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:41.159 adjusted one little thing on his app that instantly changed 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:42.120 the game for him. 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:44.440 Immediately he got. 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:46.879 Way more swipes and he wishes that he'd done this 0:00:47.040 --> 0:00:49.880 years ago. You're gonna hear how he pulled it off, 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:51.560 coming up in your second date. 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:54.600 Update, next second date update. 0:00:54.720 --> 0:00:54.960 Date. 0:00:56.680 --> 0:01:01.760 Dating older women, it's like adult braces, because you're gonna 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:03.680 get to a point in your life where it's like, gosh, 0:01:03.760 --> 0:01:06.679 I probably need it. I know it's good for me, 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:10.039 but it's also gonna be weird because everyone around me 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:12.240 is gonna see me, They're gonna be judging me for it. 0:01:12.280 --> 0:01:14.440 I'm gonna try and keep it a secret. You know, 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:18.040 keep my mouth shut. Literally, that is a younger man's 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:22.440 perspective on dating up above his age. But because you're 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:25.160 yet yeah, one day, one day, I might get to 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:27.479 the point where I need adult braces and I need 0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:30.600 an older woman. But one of our listeners says he's 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:33.399 brave enough to admit it right here on our show, 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:36.520 and even braver to admit that she's not calling him 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:39.840 back after their date. Okay, so let's talk to him. Nate, 0:01:39.880 --> 0:01:40.640 welcome to the show. 0:01:41.280 --> 0:01:42.399 Hi, thanks for having me. 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:43.360 You're very brave. 0:01:43.400 --> 0:01:44.400 Why is this brave? 0:01:44.760 --> 0:01:44.840 Like? 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:47.080 Why is like that is such a weird for her 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:49.120 to take on a hid to deal with them? It's 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:51.240 such a weird thing to say, Like how much older 0:01:51.280 --> 0:01:53.000 is this woman? I mean, I guess if she's thirty 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:56.200 years older, then that's a yeah, that's a thing to tax. 0:01:56.320 --> 0:01:58.760 Which retirement home did you meet this gal at? 0:01:59.320 --> 0:02:02.440 I didn't meet it at a retirement home. I met 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:03.600 her on a dating app. 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:07.360 Okay, okay, And what's your guys' age gap? Do you know? 0:02:08.360 --> 0:02:13.040 Well, I'm thirty two and she's forty nine. 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:15.720 Okay, it's not like you're a twenty two year old. 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:18.200 That would be weird. Yeah, yeah, only because like, what 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:20.440 do you want to do with a twenty two year olds? 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:23.040 Are kind of which did the map? It's seventeen years 0:02:23.160 --> 0:02:25.239 difference between the two of them, is that right? 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:26.720 Yeah? That sounds about right. 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:30.520 That's a big gap, but you know it's not undoable noticeable. 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:31.240 What's her name? 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:33.079 By the way, her name is Laurie. 0:02:33.320 --> 0:02:35.760 Okay, and how did you find Lauri online? 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:41.280 Well? I decided, after a long time of just using 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:44.720 dating apps, like with people around my own age, that 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:47.240 I needed to branch out, okay, because I was getting 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:47.880 kind of bored. 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:49.959 So what do you think, like an older woman has 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:52.600 to offer you instead of a woman in her thirties. 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:58.000 Well, obviously experienced wisdom, but frankly, I just wanted something new. 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:01.720 Okay, Okay, there's probably not much pressure for like babies 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:04.480 and marriage because that's I could be her daughter. That's done. 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:07.519 Actually, Nate might be going out with your mom. 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:12.040 I mean, no, my mom is not Laurie, thank god. 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:17.679 Yeah, maybe online she is. Okay, So you went out 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:19.079 with Laurie? Where'd you guys go? 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:21.600 You know, we want to have to eat. We had 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:22.400 a nice time. 0:03:22.800 --> 0:03:23.160 Good? Oh? 0:03:23.280 --> 0:03:23.560 Really? 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:26.120 Like, what'd you guys connect over we. 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:28.560 Just sort of talked. She actually invited me out and 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:32.280 picked the place. She's much more successful than I am. 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:33.799 She was like, I'm going to treat you. 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:37.160 Yeah, the older people tend to be for some reason, 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:39.640 it comes to the territory. 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:42.360 They just have more money. You didn't feel emasculated at all. 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:45.640 No, I mean I'm a pretty progressive guy, you know, 0:03:45.760 --> 0:03:48.760 I'm not. I don't need to be quote unquote the 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:49.840 man all the time. 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:50.200 Yeah. 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:51.120 Yeah, for sure. 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:54.000 When you say that she was successful, what do you 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:57.200 mean by that? Like you're talking about her job, sort 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:58.080 of dealing her job. 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:00.800 She's a businesswoman. She's like, is one of like a 0:04:00.880 --> 0:04:04.120 higher up some company. Like she's like a boss. 0:04:04.440 --> 0:04:05.280 Dude, that's awesome. 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:06.960 I like that. 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:08.880 What do you do? Do you mind us asking? 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:10.280 I am a valet? 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:13.480 Okay, she's a boss. You're an employee. Did you notice, 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:16.520 like at any point in your guys' conversation like, oh god, 0:04:16.560 --> 0:04:19.640 we do come from two different generations. 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:19.320 You know. 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:22.000 I initially I was worried about that, but it ended 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:26.040 up working. Okay. We talked about video games a lot, 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:27.599 Like we talked about Rocket. 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:31.000 League, which is crazy, Like I can't believe that she 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:33.600 even knows knows Rocket Leaning. 0:04:33.640 --> 0:04:34.120 You get all. 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:36.359 Was there anything like sexy about that? 0:04:36.640 --> 0:04:40.039 Yeah, she plays video games. Brook That is sexy to 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:40.719 a man, you. 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:43.080 Know, But I mean to her, it probably feels like 0:04:43.080 --> 0:04:45.400 she's talking to a teenage boy. I don't know she 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:48.280 brought it up, did she or did he bring it up? 0:04:48.320 --> 0:04:49.359 She just knew what it was. 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:52.240 Yeah, We're just talking about what we were into. And 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:54.520 I said, lately, I've been playing a lot of Rocket League. 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:58.160 She was like, I know a Rocket League. 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:00.360 She didn't just say, oh, it's a game with a buckets, 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:03.320 it's actually a card game, or like I buy it 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:04.000 for my sons. 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:04.360 Yeah. 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:06.760 Yeah, Well, Nate tell us, was there any like weird 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:08.080 stuff that happened during the day. 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:12.080 I mean, like the waiter thought it was weird. The 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:14.560 waiter was kept looking at me like really, man. 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:17.920 Okay, that's kind of rude. 0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:21.960 I imagine nature's like drawing with crayons on the What 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:22.279 do you do? 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:22.640 What you do? 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:25.200 So how did the night end? 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:25.840 Well? 0:05:25.880 --> 0:05:29.640 I invited her back to my place, which she declined, 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:34.200 which is in her right to do, okay, and then 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:36.720 she gave me a kiss on the forehead. 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:40.880 Oh oh, I told you if she thinks of him 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:41.320 as like it. 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:43.800 Well, it's like a cute, funny thing. I mean, back 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:45.479 in the day, I used to take things a lot 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:49.159 slower romantically. So you started with the forehead kiss and 0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:52.200 then you slowly there was way more basis back in 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:54.040 the day. I bet you kissed the server on the forehead. 0:05:54.520 --> 0:05:57.479 Was I born in the fifties or forties or something like? 0:05:57.520 --> 0:06:00.159 Have you seen what Alexis's mom is wearried out? Oh, 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:01.440 she's not doing for head cans. 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:05.880 No, I don't wear much. Let's do you left the 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:08.360 day she went home? What's happened since then? 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:11.520 Well, I've been trying to get a second date, but 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:14.120 she's like really busy. I mean, she's got this crazy 0:06:14.200 --> 0:06:17.240 job and everything. But she did try to see if 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:21.560 I was free this coming Tuesday at two pm, So 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:22.320 weird time. 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:24.760 Did you say yes or no to Tuesday. 0:06:24.360 --> 0:06:27.440 At two I said no because I'm at work. I mean, 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:29.919 I love to meet her at two pm on a Tuesday, 0:06:30.040 --> 0:06:32.240 but okay, I'm parking cars man. 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:34.080 Yeah makes sense. 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:36.720 And then she's just been elusive when you've asked her out. 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:39.760 Yeah, okay, this is definitely a new one for us. 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:42.560 You don't think it's just that she's not interested because 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:44.400 he's a younger guy that spent the day talking about 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:47.239 video games and he, you know, doesn't have an equal 0:06:47.360 --> 0:06:47.920 job to her. 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:50.359 I don't see a single wrong thing that what she 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:51.400 said there, So. 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:53.640 She wouldn't meet me at all, though the thing I 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:54.760 think if she didn't like me. 0:06:55.760 --> 0:06:58.560 She pursued him on the app, like she swiped right 0:06:58.600 --> 0:07:00.640 on him, just the same way she's wiped right on 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:01.239 her or whatever. 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:03.400 We have ideas and that they turn out to be 0:07:03.440 --> 0:07:05.760 not as great as you thought. I don't okay, I don't. 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:08.680 Appreciate that attitude. Coming into the second part. We're going 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:12.160 to call this lovely, mature woman who is totally into 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:12.920 you one hundred. 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:14.760 Not going to call her that when we talk to her. 0:07:14.800 --> 0:07:16.840 Okay, whatever the right thing to call her is. We're 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:18.440 going to figure that out, and then we'll try and 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:20.600 get you a second date update right after this. 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:21.400 Thank you? 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:25.000 All right, Hold on second date update. 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:28.400 We have a guy on the line named Nate who 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:30.640 just revealed to us he went on a date with 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:33.040 a woman seventeen years his senior. 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:36.200 Yeah, that's a big gap and size. 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:39.560 They're not connecting afterwards, and I know the girls in 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:43.080 the room. Think it's because he was too immature and 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:45.280 she's not going to want to talk to him about 0:07:45.400 --> 0:07:49.080 video games and Rocket League and that was a turnoff 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:50.440 age gap. 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:52.760 Yeah, excuse me. 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:55.720 Let me remind me you. The man to my left, 0:07:56.040 --> 0:07:59.600 Jose Bolanios, plays video games all the time and he's 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:03.480 the most mature person I know. Hit him up at 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:06.800 hilarious Jose on Twitch and find out what a catch 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:09.760 she truly is. And I will say, for the record, 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:11.680 I am the most single person I know. 0:08:12.120 --> 0:08:13.520 That's my choice. 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:19.040 That's no woman holds him down, and that's. 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:21.520 But I also think that's it. 0:08:21.640 --> 0:08:23.480 I think our listener name brought up a good point 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:26.480 to the ladies. Think she regrets going out with a 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:29.440 younger guy after the date, but she's the one who 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:32.000 is asking him to hang out again, not. 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:34.480 A younger guy, just him and ask him a time. 0:08:34.520 --> 0:08:35.360 No one's ever free. 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:39.640 Yeah, well tuesday. Just the point that she's reaching out, 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:42.040 still engaging him, asking to see him again. I mean 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:43.960 that must mean something, right. 0:08:44.880 --> 0:08:47.400 Yeah, like me to some degree, But she hasn't answered 0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:48.480 my last four text. 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:52.800 She's busy. Okay, she's busy. She's a career woman. 0:08:53.040 --> 0:08:56.200 Let's just give it a shot. We're speculating forever. We 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:58.360 need to call and find out. I've never called someone 0:08:58.400 --> 0:08:59.800 this old before, so I wonder if she'll take a 0:08:59.800 --> 0:09:00.720 lot do that. 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:02.960 When we're on the phone with her, she is going 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:03.880 to hang up on us. 0:09:03.880 --> 0:09:04.880 Okay, I won't say it. 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:06.400 Do we need Jeffrey. 0:09:06.720 --> 0:09:09.280 I promise I'm not crossing any body parts. I won't 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:20.880 say it. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, is this slurry. 0:09:22.040 --> 0:09:22.480 Speaking? 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:23.280 Just call it? 0:09:25.120 --> 0:09:28.040 Yeah? Sorry, you're on the radio right now. Your voice 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:30.800 kind of took me by surprise. I don't know. 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:36.320 Uh, I know why you have some weird I'm sorry. 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:40.640 We're show called broken Jeffrey in the morning. 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:43.480 Yeah, why are you calling? 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:45.920 It's a great question, Laurie. 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:48.720 Yeah. We do a segment called the Second Date Update, 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:51.520 and that's where we help our listeners who have gone 0:09:51.520 --> 0:09:53.920 out with somebody hook up with them one more. 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:56.720 Time, go out with them one more time. 0:09:57.720 --> 0:09:58.560 I don't know if you have. 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:03.280 I think you might have a number. I'm so sorry. 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.920 The name are you? Are you the LORI that went 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:10.880 up with a guy recently named Nate to dinner? Oh God, 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:16.040 a little younger than you? 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:16.280 What? 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:18.320 I'm sorry? 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:19.080 How do we know this. 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:21.520 You were having a reaction right now to that name. 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:24.240 Sorry, we're not trying to like make this awkward for you, 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:27.600 but Nate reached out to our show and told us 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:29.080 that you guys went out and he's been trying to 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:29.760 see you again. 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:38.520 But oh god, he really liked you. Oh no, okay, okay, why. 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:41.760 I'm well, I just I don't I think something got 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:44.520 like some liars have been crossed here. 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:47.760 What do you mean we're we're a little bit confused 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:51.439 because he told us that you even mentioned a specific 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:55.280 time and a date like two o'clock on a Tuesday, 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:56.760 where you wanted to meet up with you and you 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:57.439 couldn't make it. 0:10:57.920 --> 0:11:03.440 Yeah. Well, I'm I feel bad because I had to 0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:05.440 be honest. I haven't been one hundred percent up front 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:10.640 with him about my I guess my intentions for wanting 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:11.520 to meet up with him. 0:11:11.720 --> 0:11:14.000 You met him on the dating app, right, Like, I mean, 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:16.000 if you meet anybody on a dating app, it feels 0:11:16.040 --> 0:11:18.200 like the intention is to date romantic. 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:19.720 Oh, so you're just looking for a fling. 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:22.199 No, I'm not. 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:23.079 I'm married. 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:26.640 Wait what? Oh wow, what do you mean you're married? 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:27.559 Why are you want an app? 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:30.880 I didn't mean to be on a dating the dating 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:33.760 lay on this app and you can you can look 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:37.040 for friendship. I was, you know, I put on my profile. 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:40.679 Oh my god, WoT so you were on. 0:11:40.640 --> 0:11:43.160 The wrong section or he was on the wrong section. 0:11:43.640 --> 0:11:45.680 Did you did that come up during your date that 0:11:45.760 --> 0:11:47.120 you're trying to be his friend? 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:47.920 You know? 0:11:48.160 --> 0:11:52.199 I I guess I didn't. I wasn't like explicitly saying, 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:54.040 you know, I'm just looking for a friend. 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:57.320 I think I just what's. 0:11:57.080 --> 0:12:00.839 Happening is I have a step son and he is 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:06.160 he's seventeen, and he can't draw, he can't think you're 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:08.840 aut driving. And I was looking at this app. 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:12.400 You know, some friends of mine use it, and they said, 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:15.240 you know, take a look because sometimes you can meet 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:18.040 people that have different skills that can actually help you 0:12:18.120 --> 0:12:19.400 out in the real world. 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:20.640 I don't get it. 0:12:20.840 --> 0:12:23.719 I came across Nate's profile and I saw he's a 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:25.440 valet and. 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:29.120 My son is having trouble with parking. 0:12:29.440 --> 0:12:32.800 Oh, like, why wouldn't you just be out front and 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:35.280 ask him like hey, and tell him what's going on? 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:37.320 As soon as you message him on the app? 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:42.040 Well, I mean, he we were talking about you know, 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:44.120 what do you like to do in your spare time. 0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:46.600 And so Nate brought up that he likes to play 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:50.520 this game, rocket League, and I was like, oh, I 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:53.720 know Rocket League because I have a kid who plays 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:54.480 Rocket League. 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:55.679 Oh that's. 0:12:58.120 --> 0:12:59.000 Okay. 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:01.600 Well this is clearing up a lot of things. 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:02.360 Yeah. 0:13:02.800 --> 0:13:05.079 I don't know what to say other than we need 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:07.080 to tell you that Nate is on the other line 0:13:07.160 --> 0:13:10.239 right now and has been listening to this conversation. 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:15.040 Oh great, okay, God, wouldn't that be good because now 0:13:15.040 --> 0:13:17.280 it's clear Nate, I mean. 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:19.880 Actually, yeah, I think this is I mean, I I don't. 0:13:19.920 --> 0:13:22.560 I can't believe he wouldn't just talk to me, but 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:23.000 I could. 0:13:23.360 --> 0:13:24.720 Now's your chance to do it, Nate. 0:13:24.760 --> 0:13:29.440 You there, Yeah, I'm here. I'm in shocked. 0:13:32.040 --> 0:13:34.280 Nate, did you have any idea she was looking to 0:13:34.360 --> 0:13:35.760 just hire you to help her son? 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:40.200 No, And I'm regretting calling the radio about it. 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:41.320 That's a little darress. 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:44.160 Why do you think I bought you dinner? 0:13:44.200 --> 0:13:45.280 I bought you dinner. 0:13:45.480 --> 0:13:46.320 It wasn't a date. 0:13:46.360 --> 0:13:48.000 I didn't want you to think it was a date. 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:49.960 It was like sort of an interview. 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:52.599 You know, you don't want a dinner for interviews, Like 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:59.599 I've never taken a babysitter out to dinner because I wanted. 0:13:57.840 --> 0:14:03.080 I been like, Hey, is there a young thirty something 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:06.000 man that wants to babysit my kids and let me 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:07.080 take you out to dinner? 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:09.360 Like that just seems you should give it a try. 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:10.240 Works out really. 0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:12.480 Well, that's weird, it doesn't because she's here. 0:14:12.800 --> 0:14:13.960 Well, on the app, we. 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:15.960 Were chatting before the date and he was saying how 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:18.240 he was interested in, you know, and other. 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:22.000 Business and e commerce and so I have experience in that, 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:25.400 and I thought, you know, I'll scratch his back if 0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:26.400 he can scratch mine. 0:14:27.160 --> 0:14:28.640 I think he meant literally and. 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:32.680 Some actual skin to skin contact. 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:33.160 Huh. 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:34.080 I can't see that. 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:36.840 Like, I can see why there's a miscommunity. 0:14:36.600 --> 0:14:38.720 And Nate, are we clearing things up for a year. 0:14:39.520 --> 0:14:41.760 So just to be clear, the two pm thing, that's 0:14:41.800 --> 0:14:44.360 not like a hangout afternoon delight sort of. 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:46.840 Oh yeah, you have to hang out with him on 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:48.000 a Tuesday at two. 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:52.840 No, my son's off from school at that time, so 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:55.480 you know, I just thought that's. 0:14:55.360 --> 0:15:01.200 Perfect time for driving lesson before his lacross start lessons. 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:03.360 Or a perfect time before your husband gets home. 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:09.320 I don't know, I still think, but Okay. 0:15:09.680 --> 0:15:12.320 No, you can go to my profile right now, I says, 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:13.640 looking for friendship. 0:15:13.880 --> 0:15:18.240 Okay, hot tip. Men don't read the profiles. 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:21.400 That just usually means you're not looking for something serious. 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:25.560 Yeah right, I mean, maybe include a picture of you 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:29.480 and your husband next time. That could be something else. 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:32.880 Yeah, I guess I'll do that. 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:33.720 I will do that. 0:15:33.760 --> 0:15:36.640 Well, hold on, we still have Nate on the phone 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:39.040 with us here. Maybe there's some sort of deal that 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:40.000 we could strike up. 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:43.160 Yeah, I mean, are you still looking for like helping 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:46.160 your son out, because like I could use some money. 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:49.240 Oh okay, he's interested. 0:15:50.120 --> 0:15:53.160 I'll pick money over forehead kiss any day. 0:15:54.000 --> 0:15:56.000 Yeah, I'm so sorry about the forehead kiss. 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:57.880 I honestly I didn't know what to do there. 0:15:57.920 --> 0:16:01.040 I do that to all my babysitters and people that 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:02.040 help with my kids too. 0:16:02.360 --> 0:16:05.520 Yeah, don't every day when we leave. It's super awkward. 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:09.360 I mean, I'm I'm absolutely willing, you know, if the 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:12.479 offer stands, I'm willing to help you out with some business. 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:15.920 Business document and you know, different tips and everything. If 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:16.840 you can help me. 0:16:17.080 --> 0:16:18.880 With my son, that's pretty good. 0:16:19.200 --> 0:16:22.080 What do you say, Nate, This once of a lifetime opportunity, you. 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:24.160 Know, I've got your number, let's work something out. 0:16:24.360 --> 0:16:28.160 Okay, right now, we're actually paying for a real business 0:16:28.240 --> 0:16:29.640 dinner this time, I. 0:16:29.640 --> 0:16:32.080 Guess, sir. Look at that, Nate. We're trying to hook 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:34.280 you up with like a romantic partner, but we may 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:38.320 have just gotten you a part time job insteadyhow. 0:16:38.040 --> 0:16:39.120 You know what, I'll take it? 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:42.320 Hey, make sure to put us on your LinkedIn Okay. 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:45.880 Well, it'll be a reference for you freaking Jeffrey in 0:16:45.920 --> 0:16:47.160 the morning. 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:49.880 We get a lot of text in seventy five nine 0:16:49.960 --> 0:16:52.480 two from people saying they meet friends on these dating 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:54.280 apps all the time dating apps. 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:55.640 Will you go in the friend part? 0:16:56.760 --> 0:16:59.840 Yes, you could meet friends on the dating part two. 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:02.600 According to our listeners, it's more common than you'd think. 0:17:03.520 --> 0:17:05.960 Should we set up a friend Maybe we should set 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:08.439 up a friend seeking profile for Brooke on Tinder. 0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:15.119 Sketchy dude, to have all these people who want to 0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:16.280 be your friend and you can. 0:17:16.240 --> 0:17:17.800 Reject them one by one. 0:17:18.000 --> 0:17:21.359 Yeah, or just claim I was just hiring him for 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:25.040 my kid. I swear, now you get it. 0:17:25.520 --> 0:17:27.640 Then you'll end up on some other morning show during 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:28.280 another second. 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:32.360 Yeah, so sketchy. All that is so sketchy. 0:17:32.560 --> 0:17:35.000