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Speaker 1: Well, this is technical director Ashton. It looks like I'm

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Speaker 1: the only one that showed up on a classic Saturday

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Speaker 1: second Day update. So I'm gonna leave my Venmo code

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Speaker 1: at the bottom. If anyone wants to send me some

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Speaker 2: How do you go from zero matches, no prospects on

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Speaker 2: your dating profile to suddenly having your inbox full of

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Speaker 2: available singles all wanting to meet you.

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Speaker 3: Instead.

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Speaker 2: I'm not talking about like catfishing or lying about yourself

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Speaker 2: to trick people, because one of our listeners says he

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Speaker 2: adjusted one little thing on his app that instantly changed

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Speaker 2: the game for him.

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Speaker 4: Immediately he got.

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Speaker 2: Way more swipes and he wishes that he'd done this

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Speaker 2: years ago. You're gonna hear how he pulled it off,

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Speaker 2: coming up in your second date.

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Speaker 4: Update, next second date update.

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Speaker 5: Date.

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Speaker 2: Dating older women, it's like adult braces, because you're gonna

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Speaker 2: get to a point in your life where it's like, gosh,

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Speaker 2: I probably need it. I know it's good for me,

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Speaker 2: but it's also gonna be weird because everyone around me

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Speaker 2: is gonna see me, They're gonna be judging me for it.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna try and keep it a secret. You know,

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Speaker 2: keep my mouth shut. Literally, that is a younger man's

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Speaker 2: perspective on dating up above his age. But because you're

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Speaker 2: yet yeah, one day, one day, I might get to

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Speaker 2: the point where I need adult braces and I need

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Speaker 2: an older woman. But one of our listeners says he's

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Speaker 2: brave enough to admit it right here on our show,

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Speaker 2: and even braver to admit that she's not calling him

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Speaker 2: back after their date. Okay, so let's talk to him. Nate,

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Speaker 2: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: Hi, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 4: You're very brave.

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Speaker 3: Why is this brave?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 3: Why is like that is such a weird for her

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Speaker 3: such a weird thing to say, Like how much older

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Speaker 3: is this woman? I mean, I guess if she's thirty

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Speaker 2: Which retirement home did you meet this gal at?

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Speaker 6: I didn't meet it at a retirement home. I met

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, And what's your guys' age gap? Do you know?

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Speaker 6: Well, I'm thirty two and she's forty nine.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's not like you're a twenty two year old.

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Speaker 3: That would be weird. Yeah, yeah, only because like, what

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Speaker 3: do you want to do with a twenty two year olds?

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Speaker 2: Are kind of which did the map? It's seventeen years

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Speaker 2: difference between the two of them, is that right?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? That sounds about right.

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Speaker 3: That's a big gap, but you know it's not undoable noticeable.

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Speaker 2: What's her name?

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Speaker 6: By the way, her name is Laurie.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and how did you find Lauri online?

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Speaker 6: Well? I decided, after a long time of just using

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Speaker 6: dating apps, like with people around my own age, that

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Speaker 6: I needed to branch out, okay, because I was getting

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Speaker 3: So what do you think, like an older woman has

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Speaker 3: to offer you instead of a woman in her thirties.

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Speaker 6: Well, obviously experienced wisdom, but frankly, I just wanted something new.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, there's probably not much pressure for like babies

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Speaker 3: and marriage because that's I could be her daughter. That's done.

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Speaker 2: Actually, Nate might be going out with your mom.

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Speaker 3: I mean, no, my mom is not Laurie, thank god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe online she is. Okay, So you went out

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Speaker 6: You know, we want to have to eat. We had

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Speaker 6: a nice time.

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Speaker 5: Good? Oh?

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Speaker 7: Really?

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Speaker 6: Just sort of talked. She actually invited me out and

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Speaker 6: She was like, I'm going to treat you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, the older people tend to be for some reason,

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Speaker 2: They just have more money. You didn't feel emasculated at all.

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Speaker 6: No, I mean I'm a pretty progressive guy, you know,

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Speaker 2: When you say that she was successful, what do you

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Speaker 6: She's a businesswoman. She's like, is one of like a

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Speaker 3: Dude, that's awesome.

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Speaker 2: What do you do? Do you mind us asking?

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Speaker 6: I am a valet?

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Speaker 3: we do come from two different generations.

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Speaker 6: I initially I was worried about that, but it ended

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Speaker 6: You get all.

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Speaker 3: Was there anything like sexy about that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she plays video games. Brook That is sexy to

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Speaker 3: Know, But I mean to her, it probably feels like

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Speaker 3: she's talking to a teenage boy. I don't know she

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Speaker 3: She just knew what it was.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, We're just talking about what we were into. And

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Speaker 6: I said, lately, I've been playing a lot of Rocket League.

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Speaker 6: She was like, I know a Rocket League.

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Speaker 3: it's actually a card game, or like I buy it

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Speaker 3: for my sons.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, Nate tell us, was there any like weird

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Speaker 6: I mean, like the waiter thought it was weird. The

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's kind of rude.

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Speaker 2: I imagine nature's like drawing with crayons on the What

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Speaker 2: So how did the night end?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 6: I invited her back to my place, which she declined,

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Speaker 6: which is in her right to do, okay, and then

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Speaker 6: she gave me a kiss on the forehead.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, I told you if she thinks of him

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Speaker 2: Well, it's like a cute, funny thing. I mean, back

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Speaker 3: Was I born in the fifties or forties or something like?

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Speaker 2: No, I don't wear much. Let's do you left the

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Speaker 6: Well, I've been trying to get a second date, but

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Speaker 6: she's like really busy. I mean, she's got this crazy

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Speaker 3: Did you say yes or no to Tuesday.

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Speaker 6: At two I said no because I'm at work. I mean,

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Speaker 6: but okay, I'm parking cars man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah makes sense.

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Speaker 3: And then she's just been elusive when you've asked her out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, this is definitely a new one for us.

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Speaker 3: You don't think it's just that she's not interested because

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Speaker 2: I don't see a single wrong thing that what she

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Speaker 6: She wouldn't meet me at all, though the thing I

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Speaker 2: She pursued him on the app, like she swiped right

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Speaker 3: We have ideas and that they turn out to be

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Speaker 3: not as great as you thought. I don't okay, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Appreciate that attitude. Coming into the second part. We're going

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Speaker 2: to call this lovely, mature woman who is totally into

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Speaker 3: Not going to call her that when we talk to her.

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Speaker 2: Okay, whatever the right thing to call her is. We're

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Speaker 2: get you a second date update right after this.

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Speaker 6: Thank you?

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Speaker 4: All right, Hold on second date update.

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Speaker 2: We have a guy on the line named Nate who

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Speaker 2: just revealed to us he went on a date with

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a big gap and size.

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Speaker 2: They're not connecting afterwards, and I know the girls in

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Speaker 2: video games and Rocket League and that was a turnoff

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Speaker 3: Yeah, excuse me.

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Speaker 2: Let me remind me you. The man to my left,

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Speaker 2: Jose Bolanios, plays video games all the time and he's

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Speaker 2: I am the most single person I know.

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Speaker 4: That's my choice.

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Speaker 2: That's no woman holds him down, and that's.

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Speaker 4: But I also think that's it.

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Speaker 2: I think our listener name brought up a good point

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Speaker 2: to the ladies. Think she regrets going out with a

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Speaker 2: younger guy after the date, but she's the one who

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Speaker 2: is asking him to hang out again, not.

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Speaker 3: A younger guy, just him and ask him a time.

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Speaker 3: No one's ever free.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well tuesday. Just the point that she's reaching out,

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Speaker 2: still engaging him, asking to see him again. I mean

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Speaker 2: that must mean something, right.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like me to some degree, But she hasn't answered

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Speaker 6: my last four text.

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Speaker 3: She's busy. Okay, she's busy. She's a career woman.

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Speaker 2: Let's just give it a shot. We're speculating forever. We

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Speaker 2: need to call and find out. I've never called someone

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Speaker 3: When we're on the phone with her, she is going

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Speaker 3: to hang up on us.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I won't say it.

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Speaker 3: Do we need Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: I promise I'm not crossing any body parts. I won't

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Speaker 2: say it. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, is this slurry.

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Speaker 5: Speaking?

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Speaker 8: Just call it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Sorry, you're on the radio right now. Your voice

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Speaker 2: kind of took me by surprise. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Uh, I know why you have some weird I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: We're show called broken Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, why are you calling?

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Speaker 2: Yeah. We do a segment called the Second Date Update,

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Speaker 3: Time, go out with them one more time.

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Speaker 11: I don't know if you have.

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Speaker 10: I think you might have a number. I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: The name are you? Are you the LORI that went

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Speaker 2: up with a guy recently named Nate to dinner? Oh God,

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Speaker 2: a little younger than you?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 9: I'm sorry?

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Speaker 11: How do we know this.

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Speaker 3: You were having a reaction right now to that name.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, we're not trying to like make this awkward for you,

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Speaker 3: But oh god, he really liked you. Oh no, okay, okay, why.

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Speaker 7: I'm well, I just I don't I think something got

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Speaker 7: Yeah. Well, I'm I feel bad because I had to

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Speaker 11: No, I'm not.

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Speaker 12: I'm married.

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Speaker 3: Why are you want an app?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, WoT so you were on.

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Speaker 3: The wrong section or he was on the wrong section.

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Speaker 2: Did you did that come up during your date that

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Speaker 9: You know?

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Speaker 12: I I guess I didn't. I wasn't like explicitly saying,

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Speaker 8: You know, some friends of mine use it, and they said,

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Speaker 3: I don't get it.

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Speaker 8: I came across Nate's profile and I saw he's a

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Speaker 12: My son is having trouble with parking.

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Speaker 3: Oh, like, why wouldn't you just be out front and

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Speaker 3: ask him like hey, and tell him what's going on?

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Speaker 3: As soon as you message him on the app?

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Speaker 13: Well, I mean, he we were talking about you know,

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Speaker 13: And so Nate brought up that he likes to play

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Speaker 13: Rocket League.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Well this is clearing up a lot of things.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what to say other than we need

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Speaker 2: right now and has been listening to this conversation.

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Speaker 3: Oh great, okay, God, wouldn't that be good because now

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Speaker 3: it's clear Nate, I mean.

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Speaker 10: Actually, yeah, I think this is I mean, I I don't.

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Speaker 10: I can't believe he wouldn't just talk to me, but

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Speaker 10: I could.

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Speaker 2: Now's your chance to do it, Nate.

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Speaker 6: You there, Yeah, I'm here. I'm in shocked.

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Speaker 3: Nate, did you have any idea she was looking to

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Speaker 3: just hire you to help her son?

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Speaker 6: No, And I'm regretting calling the radio about it.

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Speaker 3: That's a little darress.

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Speaker 11: Why do you think I bought you dinner?

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Speaker 13: I bought you dinner.

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Speaker 10: It wasn't a date.

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Speaker 11: I didn't want you to think it was a date.

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Speaker 10: It was like sort of an interview.

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Speaker 3: You know, you don't want a dinner for interviews, Like

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Speaker 3: I've never taken a babysitter out to dinner because I wanted.

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Speaker 3: I been like, Hey, is there a young thirty something

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Speaker 4: Like that just seems you should give it a try.

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Speaker 2: Works out really.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's weird, it doesn't because she's here.

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Speaker 13: Well, on the app, we.

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Speaker 8: Were chatting before the date and he was saying how

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Speaker 12: Business and e commerce and so I have experience in that,

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Speaker 12: and I thought, you know, I'll scratch his back if

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Speaker 3: I think he meant literally and.

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Speaker 2: Some actual skin to skin contact.

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Speaker 3: Huh.

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Speaker 2: I can't see that.

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Speaker 3: Like, I can see why there's a miscommunity.

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Speaker 2: And Nate, are we clearing things up for a year.

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Speaker 6: So just to be clear, the two pm thing, that's

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you have to hang out with him on

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Speaker 12: No, my son's off from school at that time, so

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Speaker 11: Perfect time for driving lesson before his lacross start lessons.

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Speaker 3: Or a perfect time before your husband gets home.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I still think, but Okay.

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Speaker 11: No, you can go to my profile right now, I says,

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Speaker 2: Okay, hot tip. Men don't read the profiles.

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Speaker 6: That just usually means you're not looking for something serious.

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Speaker 3: Yeah right, I mean, maybe include a picture of you

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I guess I'll do that.

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Speaker 5: I will do that.

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Speaker 2: Well, hold on, we still have Nate on the phone

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, are you still looking for like helping

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, he's interested.

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Speaker 6: I'll pick money over forehead kiss any day.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm so sorry about the forehead kiss.

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Speaker 12: I honestly I didn't know what to do there.

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Speaker 3: I do that to all my babysitters and people that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't every day when we leave. It's super awkward.

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Speaker 11: I mean, I'm I'm absolutely willing, you know, if the

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Speaker 12: Business document and you know, different tips and everything. If

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Speaker 3: With my son, that's pretty good.

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Speaker 2: What do you say, Nate, This once of a lifetime opportunity, you.

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Speaker 6: Know, I've got your number, let's work something out.

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Speaker 3: Okay, right now, we're actually paying for a real business

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Speaker 3: dinner this time, I.

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Speaker 2: Guess, sir. Look at that, Nate. We're trying to hook

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Speaker 6: You know what, I'll take it?

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Speaker 3: Hey, make sure to put us on your LinkedIn Okay.

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Speaker 14: Well, it'll be a reference for you freaking Jeffrey in

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Speaker 2: We get a lot of text in seventy five nine

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Speaker 3: Will you go in the friend part?

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Speaker 2: Yes, you could meet friends on the dating part two.

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Speaker 2: Should we set up a friend Maybe we should set

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Speaker 2: up a friend seeking profile for Brooke on Tinder.

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Speaker 3: Sketchy dude, to have all these people who want to

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Speaker 2: Reject them one by one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, or just claim I was just hiring him for

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Speaker 2: Then you'll end up on some other morning show during

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so sketchy. All that is so sketchy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, it's not for everybody, but if you ever

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Speaker 2: it for the dates. Yeah, we're not doing the friend

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry that hurts more.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, painful. No, if you want help hooking up your

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Speaker 14: You back, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: In the history of this show, we've had outrageous second dates,

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Speaker 3: You didn't know that was our fault.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, oops are bad, But this I promise you today,

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Speaker 2: it all started with an unexpected situation that happened right

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Speaker 3: I honestly am still scarred. Can I say that.

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Speaker 2: Scarred with love? You're gonna hear it in your extra

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Speaker 4: Second date up dated.

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Speaker 2: When listeners submit requests for phone taps or second date updates,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we have like a submit form. You actually go

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: That's almost too easy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if you do it.

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Speaker 2: There's a section on there where we ask people to

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Speaker 2: section he alligator wrestles on the weekends, what has a

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Speaker 2: collection of inflatable blow up dolls, and used to drive

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Speaker 3: Shut up, he's joking.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm just going to take him at his word for it.

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Speaker 2: Please welcome disgraced Russian submarine captain Eric to the show.

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Speaker 11: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Wow, Eric's not a very Russian name, And yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't detect any Russian accent. You must be just

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Speaker 3: if you're on a submarine. You know, makes sense. I'm

453
00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:04,080
Speaker 3: just so funny.

454
00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,959
Speaker 2: Guessing some of that about me section wasn't one hundred

455
00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:07,840
Speaker 2: percent true.

456
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:10,359
Speaker 5: Well, I think you can all agree it gets a

457
00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:14,240
Speaker 5: little stuffy with all the men on a submarine.

458
00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:21,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, got hey, thanks for the laugh already.

459
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:23,080
Speaker 3: We didn't even get you on the phone before I

460
00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:23,600
Speaker 3: started laughing.

461
00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, Brook, it doesn't laugh that hard at any of

462
00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,400
Speaker 2: my jokes, so you should probably be in my role.

463
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:29,720
Speaker 2: But we I know you wanted to do a second

464
00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:31,800
Speaker 2: date update here. You went out with a woman recently.

465
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Speaker 6: I do.

466
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:36,640
Speaker 5: Yes, I went out with a very lovely woman by

467
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Speaker 5: the name of Dana, and he had what I thought

468
00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:40,400
Speaker 5: was a terrific date.

469
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Speaker 3: Can I ask, real quick, did you guys meet on

470
00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:43,000
Speaker 3: a dating app?

471
00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:44,200
Speaker 6: We did?

472
00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:48,159
Speaker 3: Does your dating app include the Russian submarine information?

473
00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,280
Speaker 5: I don't remember whether I included that on the app.

474
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:54,800
Speaker 5: I mean, you know, I've got so many things that

475
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:56,320
Speaker 5: I used. It may have, I don't.

476
00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,320
Speaker 2: So what stood out to you about Dana?

477
00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:02,000
Speaker 5: Well, there was one butarticular photo that I really liked.

478
00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,080
Speaker 5: It was part of the city that's near and dear

479
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:06,680
Speaker 5: to me, and I saw her sitting there and it

480
00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 5: just it really attracted me to her.

481
00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,920
Speaker 3: Oh, it's interesting, like she obviously loves something you love.

482
00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:14,600
Speaker 2: Is it the sewer or you wrestle alligators? Is that

483
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 2: the area of the city?

484
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:18,399
Speaker 5: Well, you know what, as funny as that would be, no, really,

485
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 5: we we uh connected on travel, That's probably the main thing. Okay,

486
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 5: she was a fan of that, and I had a

487
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:32,639
Speaker 5: lot of photos from my travel experiences. I not to

488
00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,640
Speaker 5: say I'm the around the world an eighty days guy

489
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:36,639
Speaker 5: or anything, but I've I've been to a number of

490
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:37,880
Speaker 5: countries that I've enjoyed.

491
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Speaker 2: So which country did you travel to for your first date?

492
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 2: Was that exotic?

493
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:45,359
Speaker 1: Oh my god?

494
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Speaker 2: Or did you go simpler with it?

495
00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:47,360
Speaker 12: Well?

496
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Speaker 5: No, we went much simpler, and really I don't want

497
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Speaker 5: to name names. We were mostly on opposite sides of

498
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:56,479
Speaker 5: the city, and she set it up. She was willing

499
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Speaker 5: to come toward my side of the city to uh

500
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:02,720
Speaker 5: a small place I hadn't heard of.

501
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 3: Oh, she found the spot that was near you.

502
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 5: It was closer to me. I wouldn't say near me,

503
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 5: but closer to me. She came more than halfway to

504
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 5: meet me.

505
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,160
Speaker 3: Okay, was it like a bar restaurant where we at?

506
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 5: It was a restaurant. It was a very small, independent

507
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:24,680
Speaker 5: Italian restaurant. It was lovely weather. We sat outside at

508
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 5: a glass of wine, had dinner, just rehash some of

509
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Speaker 5: what we had talked about on our initial phone calls.

510
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:32,880
Speaker 3: Okay, what was the vibe between you two?

511
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 5: I was very much attracted to her, and I very

512
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 5: much thought she was attracted to me.

513
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 2: Okay, based on what was there, like a moment or

514
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 2: like a like something that happened that gave you that feeling.

515
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:51,640
Speaker 5: Oh, that she was attracted to me. Nothing, Well, perhaps

516
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 5: you you read into this what you think.

517
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,800
Speaker 3: But she showed up.

518
00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 2: She didn't leaves at least so sort of until times

519
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 2: when I talked, she responded, when she went to the restroom,

520
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 2: she actually came back.

521
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 7: Wow.

522
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,440
Speaker 2: I mean, I know this sounds crazy, but a lot

523
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,320
Speaker 2: of these second dates and with them going to the

524
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Speaker 2: bathroom and never coming.

525
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 5: Back, When will she be back from the restroom?

526
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 6: Okay, I do want to mention.

527
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 5: I do want to mention the moment that you asked for,

528
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:23,639
Speaker 5: and you can tell me what you think of this.

529
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:27,680
Speaker 5: That is when it was time to leave, I had

530
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 5: such an enjoyable time with her that we got up

531
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Speaker 5: to leave and she was standing in front of me.

532
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 5: Her hair was up okay, and the back of her

533
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:39,439
Speaker 5: bare neck was in front of me, and I just

534
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,479
Speaker 5: couldn't help that. I bent down and I gave her

535
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:42,439
Speaker 5: a kiss on the neck.

536
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,119
Speaker 3: And then on the back of her neck back like

537
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:48,880
Speaker 3: she didn't even see you coming.

538
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 5: Did not see me coming.

539
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 2: That just made me like clench my neck.

540
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 5: As crazy as it sounds, or creepy as it tempts,

541
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:56,440
Speaker 5: she turned around and smiled.

542
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:58,920
Speaker 3: Are you sure it wasn't a cringe?

543
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:03,640
Speaker 5: I am sure her because some things happened later on.

544
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,199
Speaker 5: I don't want to go into detail.

545
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 4: It was nothing that she kissed the back of your legs.

546
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 5: No, not at all.

547
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 3: He starts top, she starts down.

548
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 5: We got to know each other a little bit better.

549
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 5: We were slightly more intimate than that.

550
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 3: Well, maybe you did find a good match, because I

551
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 3: my gut reaction to somebody doing that would probably be

552
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 3: like turn around and elbow and the face or something.

553
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 4: You know, you know what's bad.

554
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 2: When Brook says she isn't into it because she hasn't

555
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 2: gotten any action for years, Honestly.

556
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 3: Lick my neck. Well, I'm kidding, I'm kidding.

557
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe that's the reason why she's not reaching back

558
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 5: to me.

559
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 3: Okay, it's hard to think though, because she she did. Yeah,

560
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 3: I'm assuming you're saying made out with you later.

561
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:56,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, that was it exactly. I kissed her as tenderly

562
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 5: as I could, and she certainly wasn't against it.

563
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 2: Okay. The more you describe your kissing, the less I likes. Yeah,

564
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 2: we're gonna go into as little description as possible when

565
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,719
Speaker 2: we call her, and then we'll come back get your

566
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:14,879
Speaker 2: second date update. Hopefully if she answers no, I don't know, Okay,

567
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 2: I think she's had enough tender stuff happened in the

568
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,199
Speaker 2: last few hours. We'll come back get your second date

569
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 2: update right after this hold.

570
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 4: On second date update.

571
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 2: You know, for our social media, I feel like we

572
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:31,560
Speaker 2: don't do quite enough to describe what's happening in these

573
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 2: second date phone calls.

574
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I mean because it's we obviously can't have

575
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Speaker 3: the listener on video.

576
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 2: Right, I think we need to give people more of

577
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 2: a visual of what happened on Eric's date the other night.

578
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 2: So we're gonna start rolling some video right here in

579
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,119
Speaker 2: the studio and have brook get up out of her

580
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 2: seat and walk around to Alexis tenderly kiss her on

581
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 2: the back of the neck the same way that Eric did.

582
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 7: Tod Wine Impasta.

583
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 2: I have a feeling Alexis, you're gonna like this way

584
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 2: more than.

585
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 4: You think you will think so.

586
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:12,199
Speaker 2: Actually, we've had this request on the text wort we do.

587
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 2: But you might go back after this happens and start

588
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 2: kissing all of your female roommates on the back of

589
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 2: the neck. This might be a new like bonding activity.

590
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 3: My breath is hot because I just had I had

591
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 3: friedos with my but I've never seen this excited. You

592
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 3: can feel me coming from like four inches away.

593
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:34,199
Speaker 2: All right, here comes Brooks. You're doing a little saunter

594
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 2: dance over behind Alexis. Alexis exposed your neck to her.

595
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:45,120
Speaker 2: Please just digging through your hair. It's not gonna work

596
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 2: too much.

597
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 4: God, should we get the scissors out.

598
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 3: I'm just to let you know I'm turned off.

599
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 4: Sorry you turn off, exulting dude.

600
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 3: Your neck is kind of hairy.

601
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 2: We tried the girls and studio. Do you think, though,

602
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 2: that's the reason that Eric is not getting a call back,

603
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:05,640
Speaker 2: because that was his go to.

604
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 3: Move anything like what I just felt. I can't imagine

605
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 3: being Eric and making that decision to make that.

606
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 5: Eric.

607
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 2: They're thinking that might be the reason that she's not

608
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 2: calling you back.

609
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 5: I certainly hope not. At the time, it seemed like

610
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 5: the thing to do.

611
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 3: Had you pulled that move before? Or is this the

612
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 3: first time.

613
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:23,640
Speaker 9: That a question?

614
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 5: No, first and only time. I couldn't help myself.

615
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 6: I was tracked to her.

616
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:32,439
Speaker 2: That's honestly better because she had been down leaving her

617
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:35,199
Speaker 2: neck a little bit exposed in like a shark on

618
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 2: Shark Week. Eric swam out from behind one of the

619
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 2: tables and just pointed one on her open neck.

620
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 5: There were no teeth involved, that no tea.

621
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 3: I mean they did make out later, so she wasn't

622
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 3: completely turned out.

623
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,639
Speaker 2: Must have been sort of into it. Those Italian wines

624
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 2: at that restaurant must have hit pretty hard.

625
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 3: But I need some of that right now.

626
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:55,160
Speaker 4: Now we got to call it Dana.

627
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 2: Here we go. I'm going to dial her number right now.

628
00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 2: We'll see if she picks up. Hello, Hey, we're looking

629
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 2: for Dana.

630
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 5: Yes, this.

631
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 2: Is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

632
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 2: That's why I said, we hi.

633
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:17,160
Speaker 3: There's more people here.

634
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 10: Okay, Hi, can I help you?

635
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're doing a segment called a second Date Update,

636
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 2: and we're trying to help a guy that you went

637
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:29,239
Speaker 2: out with get in touch with you again so that

638
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:30,639
Speaker 2: you guys can meet up one more time.

639
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 9: I'm not sure I'm interested in participating in this, to

640
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 9: be honest with you, when.

641
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 2: You find out who it is, you know, because as

642
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 2: far as we've heard, it was a great night, at

643
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 2: least according to Eric.

644
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Italian restaurant.

645
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I got it.

646
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 2: What did you think about the date?

647
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 6: I don't know.

648
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 10: I mean it was going okay, but I don't know.

649
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 9: After we hung out, I was kind of just reflecting

650
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 9: on the whole date thing, and he he just seems

651
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 9: overly comfortable and experienced, like more than I expected, and

652
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 9: more than other guys that I've.

653
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 3: Met on this app have been experienced.

654
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 9: Like he seems really used to dating, like he just

655
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 9: did this all the time.

656
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 3: Like he's an adult male awkward.

657
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 2: I feel like he would want somebody who feels comfortable

658
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 2: around him.

659
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 10: I guess I'm not describing it right.

660
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 9: I'm talking more of like a Jigalotle type of vibe,

661
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 9: like an escort.

662
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 3: Okay, like, what do you mean Sameeric that we were

663
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 3: talking about, who uses the word tender a lot.

664
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 10: Yeah.

665
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 9: So I went home and I was telling my roommate

666
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 9: about it, and she told me that there's this Facebook

667
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 9: page called are We Dating the Same Guy?

668
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 4: Do you know what that is? I thought, what that is?

669
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 3: I thought you were going to say, and my roommate

670
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: told me she hired him for me.

671
00:29:58,160 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 2: What are we dating the same guy?

672
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 12: So?

673
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 10: Are we dating the same guy?

674
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 9: As the thing on Facebook where like it's basically a

675
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 9: mainly women and you post the picture of the guy

676
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 9: you're dating, and you see anybody in there is also

677
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 9: dating the same guy to.

678
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 10: See if he's like, you know, dating multiple people at

679
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 10: the same time.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, my roommate convinced me to post a picture on it.

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Speaker 10: I was like, whatever, doesn't seem like a bad idea.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. That page seems pretty toxic. I've seen

683
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 3: showed it to me and it's like it's sketch.

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Speaker 2: Are I bet Eric came back with glowing reviews.

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Speaker 3: I don't take any woman on that page just one

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Speaker 3: nice thing dude. Ever, it's never.

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Speaker 2: Like here's the one that got away.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes it says, I don't know him. I haven't

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Speaker 3: heard anything.

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Speaker 2: Maybe nobody said anything, But did you get any responses,

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Speaker 2: any feedback.

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Speaker 9: Well, the interesting response is that there were people that

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Speaker 9: says that they've been out with him on dates before

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Speaker 9: and whatever. But the most talking part was that like

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Speaker 9: three other women have commented saying that he kissed him

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Speaker 9: on the back of the neck and I didn't even

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Speaker 9: mention it.

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Speaker 10: I post what.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, Like the one girl comments in the picture saying

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Speaker 9: that she had been out with him and he does

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Speaker 9: this weird, super weird like back to the neck kiss,

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Speaker 9: and then two.

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00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 10: Other girls comment under that, like, oh my gosh, me too.

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Speaker 2: He told us that he had never used that move

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Speaker 2: on any other woman before you that you inspired him

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Speaker 2: to do it.

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Speaker 9: It was honestly so weird and so creepy. And it's like,

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00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 9: this is like his bwlling card.

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Speaker 3: I love that. Jeffrey so upset like you got lied

710
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:29,959
Speaker 3: to I. You know, It's like, jeff is upset.

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Speaker 2: First I find out he's not really a Russian submarine captain,

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Speaker 2: and now I find out he's actually kissing multiple women

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Speaker 2: on the back of the neck. What are you tell

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Speaker 2: me next? That he's secretly on the other line listening,

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00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 2: wanting to talk to you because he is.

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Speaker 3: Oh he's there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, that's how the segment works.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, Dana, Eric, Hello, Gana, Hello, I'm here.

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Speaker 14: Eric.

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Speaker 3: This is so this is almost as awkward as the

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Speaker 3: net kiss.

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Speaker 2: You told us that you didn't you didn't kiss anybody else.

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Speaker 10: Is this just something you do to everyone? No, not

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Speaker 10: at all.

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Speaker 5: It was it was only you that what we had

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Speaker 5: during the dinner. I couldn't control myself and you were Eric.

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Speaker 9: Probably Eric, I literally just said on the radio that

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00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 9: three other women said the same exact thing.

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Speaker 3: So without her prompting them.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. Well, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what to say to that. All I

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00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 5: know is, yeah, I was so overtaken.

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Speaker 3: Just own up to it. Eric, it's a dumb move

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Speaker 3: that you use that you thought was romantic.

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Speaker 5: Well, I don't think it was a dumb move. I

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Speaker 5: mean it certainly progressed a.

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Speaker 4: Date, that's true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you didn't. You did stick around after

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Speaker 2: the net kiss, Dana.

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Speaker 11: I thought it was I.

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Speaker 10: Only stuck around because I thought it was only me.

742
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Speaker 10: I didn't know he was a serial neck kisser going

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Speaker 10: around the city.

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Speaker 9: Wait, you would have been okay if it was only you,

745
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 9: it seemed like a spontaneous romantic moment.

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Speaker 6: That's all Eric.

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Speaker 2: We're running out of time here, so I'm going to

748
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 2: give you twenty seconds to talk to Dana. You can

749
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Speaker 2: tell her whatever you want to say and try and

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Speaker 2: convince her that you are really into her and you

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Speaker 2: want to go out with her one more time.

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Speaker 5: Go ahead, Dana, I had such a lovely time with you,

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00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 5: and I know you enjoyed being with me too. Oh

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Speaker 5: please never mind whatever else it is that you're hearing.

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Speaker 5: Please give us another chance. I know we spent some

756
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 5: more time together that you're going to enjoy it. I

757
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Speaker 5: really think there's something there.

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Speaker 3: It's like he read he read a bad like sales

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Speaker 3: book always belo.

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Speaker 2: I felt like it was Anthony Hopkins reading a line

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Speaker 2: from Silence of the Lambs. It's up to you, Dana.

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Speaker 2: Would you like to go out with Eric one more time?

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Speaker 2: We would pay for that date.

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Speaker 9: I mean, look, it was a little bit weird that

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Speaker 9: other girls said it, but up until that point I

766
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 9: was totally fine with it. But once you got on

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Speaker 9: in denying, the other girl said that, now you're just

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Speaker 9: a creepy analyar like now.

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Speaker 3: It's a triangle thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Eric, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 2: We tried for you, and I.

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Speaker 5: Really was hoping for a different outcome.

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Speaker 10: But Dane, are you sure? Yeah, I'm sure.

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00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 9: Please stop dating women in this town.

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Speaker 4: We all know about it.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to find a new move. I think, dude,

778
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 2: you're gonna have to go for a different part of

779
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 2: the body. Maybe behind the ears.

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Speaker 4: That's his go to.

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Speaker 2: He's a sneak attack guy to go to everyone kisses

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Speaker 2: on the.

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Speaker 14: List, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Well, gentlemen, take surprise back of the neck kiss out

785
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Speaker 2: of your rolodex of first date moves. Eric ruined it

786
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 2: for us. Er, I picture of my mind at least

787
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,799
Speaker 2: like seven hundred men taking out a little black book,

788
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 2: giant red marker crossing it off. I was actually thinking this, like,

789
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 2: as a bro if one of my homies and I'm like, dude,

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00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 2: how was your date last night? And if he said, well,

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00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 2: I got a net kiss, I would be worried congratulating.

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Speaker 3: I mean, maybe when you're kissing and you move down,

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Speaker 3: if it's like just that, not the back of the neck,

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00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 3: And that's where the next where we're starting the.

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Speaker 2: Problem with the kiss was not that it isn't sexy.

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00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 2: It's that it's too played out. Eric has done it

797
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 2: to too many women in issue now it's not unique anymore.

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00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 2: It's like gently brushing the hair out of a girl's face.

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00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: Everybody's done it. It's not sweet. Don't don't touch my hair.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to see you for a reason, actually.

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00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 2: Say from Alexis.

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Speaker 3: I feel like Alexis would flinch.

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Speaker 14: She would.

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Speaker 2: But even though that move is now officially not allowed anymore,

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00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 2: No more net kisses. There's plenty of other things you

806
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 2: can go with, plenty of other ways you can screw

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00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 2: things up, and we're gonna We're gonna be there for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll help you through all the mistakes. You will help

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00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 2: you get back on track. Email the show. We'll call

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00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 2: that person who isn't calling you back. You can check

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Speaker 2: out all of our second Date podcasts learn all the

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Speaker 2: mistakes people have made in their past. Wherever you get

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