WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Don't Go Chasing Wedding Vows

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<v Speaker 1>Second date. Doing so many of these second date updates

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<v Speaker 1>across the year, it's like a long drawn out race

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<v Speaker 1>ultra marathon, ultra ultra marathon. He just keeps going and going,

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<v Speaker 1>and we know we're not gonna win all of them,

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<v Speaker 1>or half of them, maybe not even one hundredth of them.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what, if we get a victory today,

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<v Speaker 1>then all consider this entire year a success. Yeah, are

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<v Speaker 1>you with me on that? I'm It makes me think

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<v Speaker 1>that it's gonna be real hard to get a victory.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the I don't know what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what happened either, but I'm excited to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to our listener, Andrew, who says he met a

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<v Speaker 1>lady on the interwebs recently. Okay, Andrew, we're still calling

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<v Speaker 1>at the interwebs. Sure, let's go with that, all right, cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to make sure I'm up to date

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<v Speaker 1>with my my linga well, as long as we're on

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<v Speaker 1>the same page with Andrew. Before we get into your date, Andrew,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you tell us about some of the things

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<v Speaker 1>that stood out on her dating profile? Because Brook, we

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<v Speaker 1>always hear so much about the dates, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to spend some time getting to know the person. Andrew,

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<v Speaker 1>could you pull up her dating profile and tell us

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<v Speaker 1>what's on there? We're gonna look at it literally right now. Yeah? Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name again? Her name is Sandra? Okay? Cool?

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<v Speaker 1>So what does what does Sandra say about herself online?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see here, we're just going to Okay, this is

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<v Speaker 1>good radio. By the way, it feels kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>a violation of PRID for some reason. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>know her public she's in like it looks like some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of like a pumpkin patch type thing. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>a fall picture, you know. All right, so she's basic.

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<v Speaker 1>We know that. Let's go what does she say about herself?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the first line? Uh? It's the first thing is

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to date so I can leave the house

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<v Speaker 1>and put actual clothes off, all right, which means she's

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<v Speaker 1>naked right now. That's immediately sold on her. What else

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<v Speaker 1>is on there? Next? It says that the quickest way

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<v Speaker 1>to her heart is through red wine. Right, Brooks on board? Now,

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<v Speaker 1>what can we say to get Alexis on her side?

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<v Speaker 1>That's true? Okay, I'm still I'm still waiting, okay, Jeff

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<v Speaker 1>to like any birds on the next and next it

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<v Speaker 1>says she lifts her main turn off is people who

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<v Speaker 1>can't hold a conversation. Well, that's a left swipe for me,

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<v Speaker 1>big weakness. Okay, conversation, it's my kryptonite. Let's get into

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<v Speaker 1>them together, Like, I mean, what do you guys do

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<v Speaker 1>on your date? Well, so it also is on her

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<v Speaker 1>profile that she loved scenic places and waterfalls. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>so I actually know of this waterfall like in our

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<v Speaker 1>area that's not too crowded, like not a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people know about it. So I invite her to go there,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was all about it. Waterfall, that's pretty fine, Alexis.

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<v Speaker 1>Waterfall good. Good. First that's where he takes one to

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<v Speaker 1>kill him, like a waterfall on a first date? Was

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<v Speaker 1>a hike? What's good? Questions? What are you doing underneath

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<v Speaker 1>this waterfall? It was It wasn't like a serious hike

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<v Speaker 1>in in through the wood like it was. It's pretty

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<v Speaker 1>public place. You didn't answer my question, are you planning

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<v Speaker 1>on killing her there? Okay? Oh my god. These are

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<v Speaker 1>the questions that Alexis says. We did ask were you

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<v Speaker 1>still able to hold a conversation while you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>walking out to the waterfall. Yeah, it was really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, it was really beautiful day. We took

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<v Speaker 1>some pictures um together, no, not together, just like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the waterfall and the trees and just like

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<v Speaker 1>the general area it was. It was really nice. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a good about waterfalls though. You can go and when

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<v Speaker 1>it's cold and the winter it's pretty or in the

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<v Speaker 1>summer you can jump in, you know. But it's just

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<v Speaker 1>waterfalls are great. I actually said to her as a joke,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know, you could swim in this water.

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<v Speaker 1>It's totally fine. And she actually dipped her toe in

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<v Speaker 1>and and she said she was like, no way in

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<v Speaker 1>how it's freezing. Guy. Okay, so that's what. Well. I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't tell if she was like challenging me or something,

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<v Speaker 1>but dudes are so weird. She was not. Probably she

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<v Speaker 1>was simply commenting on the temperature of the water. It

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<v Speaker 1>probably had nothing to do with you. Yeah, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I ended up that thankfully going in the water.

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<v Speaker 1>But what we did do, um, there's a restaurant nearby

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<v Speaker 1>and we got some drinks and now we're talking up.

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<v Speaker 1>But this is because she mentioned that she likes red wine.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the key to her heart. Oh yeah, right, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm quick on my feet. I listen. I

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<v Speaker 1>paid attention. Okay, yeah, you were considering her likes throughout

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<v Speaker 1>the day. That's great. What do I feel like? I

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<v Speaker 1>went back to the waterfalls, right, tell us about what

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<v Speaker 1>waterfalls are like in all the different seasons. Again, that

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<v Speaker 1>was me. Yeah, I'm sorry, sorry, it's so much interesting

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<v Speaker 1>conversation happening. Okay, So I was. I was drinks at

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<v Speaker 1>the at the restaurant. It was good. It was you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it had a really like normal good time, talked about

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<v Speaker 1>jobs and hobbies and whatnot, and just, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>really normal conversation. Um. I did though, So like in

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<v Speaker 1>my profile, I didn't mention that I was divorced. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's for the best. Yeah. Did you tell her

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<v Speaker 1>when you guys were drinking. Yeah, and you know, after

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<v Speaker 1>we had one or two, I was like, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna drop it on her. I told her.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't have any kids, and it

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<v Speaker 1>makes it so simple though, if you're divorced without kids, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you just overcommitted. Yeah. Did she seem upset

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<v Speaker 1>by it? She didn't seem upset by asked you just like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for telling me. And overall seemed like a great

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<v Speaker 1>date and seemed like the feelings are mutual. But she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't respond to any of my texta calls. How long

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<v Speaker 1>has it been It's been over a week. Maybe she's

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<v Speaker 1>still waiting to put her actual clothes on. Oh, because

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<v Speaker 1>she to go out of the house, because that was

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<v Speaker 1>what her bio said. Yeah, oh, she like needs an invite.

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<v Speaker 1>She won't leave her house. We have all these questions

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<v Speaker 1>that we need to ask her, and we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>do that right after we play a song. Come back

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<v Speaker 1>and try and get your second date update. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you date. You know changing my goal from part one?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you? Yea it was success? That was your goal? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, if we get it yesterday, then I'll consider

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<v Speaker 1>the entire year of success. But I think we've already

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<v Speaker 1>won house because we learned. Waterfalls are good no matter

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<v Speaker 1>what time of the year. You see him. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed nature walks with Jose Interre. Waterfalls are great summer waterfalls. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you should work at one of those

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<v Speaker 1>like nature interpretation centers. Yes, I wish Yeah, welling spring waterfalls. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>those are good fall falls. And you don't even like hiking,

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<v Speaker 1>but I like a nice waterfalls. And even though TLC

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<v Speaker 1>said don't go chasing waterfalls, Andrew said, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>screw TLC. We're gonna We're gonna go check out this

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<v Speaker 1>falling water near my house. Okay, that was more of

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<v Speaker 1>a symbolic song actually about I think it was a

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<v Speaker 1>literal warning don't go to the waterfalls. Afterwards, the two

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<v Speaker 1>of them got drinks together and they opened up more

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<v Speaker 1>about their hobbies and about Andrew's divorce, and he felt like,

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<v Speaker 1>overall was a really good conversation. The problem is it's

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<v Speaker 1>been at least a week now and and nothing thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>What they should have done as a sunset also good

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<v Speaker 1>in all seasons, Andrew, I mean you were kind of

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<v Speaker 1>worried about the divorce, saying, is that why you think

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling you back? Yeah, I guess so. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like a deal breaker for some people, so I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that must be it. Yeah, see that. Yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just call her and get to the bottom of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now. I'm not even gonna bring up waterfalls to her.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna ask her what the problem is the

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<v Speaker 1>divorce you shouldn't bring up. But okay, I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to bring up any of it, all right, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna let her do the talking. I'm here, we go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dialing the number. Hello, Hey, Sandra yea. Hey. My

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<v Speaker 1>name is jeff from a radio show called Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning, and the whole show is here.

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<v Speaker 1>Um wait what yeah, a wild huh. It's for real,

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<v Speaker 1>for real, for real, for real, and we sorry to

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<v Speaker 1>bother you, but we're hoping to ask you a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of questions about a guy that you went out with

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<v Speaker 1>recently who listens to our show named Andrew. Oh my

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<v Speaker 1>god laughing, and that's a good thing. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you seem like a nice guy. We do something called

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<v Speaker 1>a second Date Update, which is the segment that you're

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<v Speaker 1>on right now, and we're trying to get some answers

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<v Speaker 1>for Andrew because he's a little bit confused after you

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<v Speaker 1>guys went out. Why he's having trouble reaching you and

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<v Speaker 1>setting up a second date. Um, sorry, I'm at I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you've been on a date before where somebody doesn't call

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<v Speaker 1>you back and you're like, what happened? That's really mean

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<v Speaker 1>of you to say it broke. I'm sure that everybody

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<v Speaker 1>calls you back. Everyone's been not called back before. Okay, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very common, all right, I know. I'm more so

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<v Speaker 1>just surprised that he called you. Guys, I've never he

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<v Speaker 1>did it because he really had a good time with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what's so confusing to him. He doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>what went wrong, or maybe nothing went wrong and you're

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<v Speaker 1>just super busy. We don't we're making assumptions, of course. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, he's a nice guy. I had a nice time.

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<v Speaker 1>But great, we'd love to send you out on another

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<v Speaker 1>date that I'm good? No, thank you? Why just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not interested? Are you like not attracted to him or something?

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<v Speaker 1>Why you always jumped to the like? The meanest thing

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<v Speaker 1>is that the problem how to open this whole thing

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<v Speaker 1>with going over her dating profile looking at her picture? Who? Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you went over? You went it's too you're revealing too

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<v Speaker 1>much to these people. Wait, I'm sorry you guys went

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<v Speaker 1>over my date? Are you sure you just looked at it?

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<v Speaker 1>She told you about my teeth? Well, look what you've

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<v Speaker 1>done it public. No, I would really actually love to

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<v Speaker 1>know what he told you please. You just read some

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<v Speaker 1>of the stuff that was on there, and like like

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<v Speaker 1>the thing about the quickest way your hearts through red

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<v Speaker 1>wine and the thing about you don't like people that

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<v Speaker 1>can't hold a conversation. We thought it was all really funny. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if I had any like dallage in my mind about

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<v Speaker 1>dating this guy, like solidified it, honestly, Like I didn't think,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I didn't think. Listen, did you like him

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<v Speaker 1>at all? He was a lot, like it was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a lot, but like he was very sweet, um,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was really attentive, you know, he kept like

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<v Speaker 1>he definitely mentioned everything that he just told you about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the red wine, and he took me to

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<v Speaker 1>like this really pretty waterfall. Say that all sounds really good.

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<v Speaker 1>So we want to know, like, what was the deal

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<v Speaker 1>breaker for you? Why? Why are you avoiding him? His

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<v Speaker 1>divorces plural divorces? Oh no, he has five divorces? How

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<v Speaker 1>many five divorces? Five divorce? How old is he? He

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<v Speaker 1>didn't sound very old. Is he older than he sounds? Um? No,

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<v Speaker 1>he's only a few years older than me. But I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even care if somebody divorced once, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>understand why I get it, But he didn't disclose that

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<v Speaker 1>in his profile, and five times to me is incredibly significant.

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<v Speaker 1>To be fair, if I had been divorced five times,

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<v Speaker 1>I probably wouldn't highlight that invidating profile. Even it's not,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's also like that's a kind of a beat

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<v Speaker 1>and switch, like he's not being honest and upfront, like

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<v Speaker 1>that's a huge, huge deal. We didn't know about all

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<v Speaker 1>the divorces either. We we all thought it was just one.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think maybe we should ask him about it

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<v Speaker 1>because he's on the other line listening right now. He

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. That's wild, Andrew, are you there? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And I didn't know that was a deal breaker. Why

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<v Speaker 1>did you make it sound singular when you told us

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<v Speaker 1>you had a divorce? I told you I was divorced.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't ask how many times? Brooke, he'd better about

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<v Speaker 1>asking questions, But like the five times, that's a red

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<v Speaker 1>flag to you, then questions, that's a serious question. What's

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<v Speaker 1>the guy supposed to do? I mean, you've heard you've

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<v Speaker 1>heard the saying fifth times the charm. I've never heard that.

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<v Speaker 1>How it goes? Oh? Is it six? Six times? The charms? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You could be that special time Andrew why getting married? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>like all right, let me let me explain. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>explain myself here. Okay, like three of the marriages happened

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<v Speaker 1>in Vegas. So were they annulled or were they actually divorced? Count? No?

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<v Speaker 1>They yeah, exactly, they don't count. They were in Vegas.

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<v Speaker 1>So like, what are your friends? Yeah, I mean you

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<v Speaker 1>have to kill time in Vegas? Somehow you guys will

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<v Speaker 1>get married. How they go get a marriage certificate before

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<v Speaker 1>you get Elvis to mirror you. It is a multi

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<v Speaker 1>step process to make it. House sounds just like one.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like Sandra will just not go to Vegas together,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because that's what you can't resist. People are gambling.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't resist it. Married, get married. I mean it's

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<v Speaker 1>his ritual every time he goes there. Sandra, Does that

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<v Speaker 1>make you feel better? No, it just shows poor judgment,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he doesn't obviously take it seriously. Like for me,

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<v Speaker 1>marriage is a humongous commitment. No, there's no wow, that's

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<v Speaker 1>you can't. You guys are not like this is insane, Like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you have issues. You have to like we hold hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>How about we send you guys to Vegas and you

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<v Speaker 1>could talk this out. You got the joke, the joke,

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that. Yeah, thanks for loving But Andrew, what

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<v Speaker 1>happened with the other two divorces? Yes, that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know. The other like one of them, I

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<v Speaker 1>married the same girl twice, so that brings down the number.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't bring down the number. It does. That's only

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<v Speaker 1>four women. Name's not same z's you don't you hook

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<v Speaker 1>up with the same person, It doesn't count as another person. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you neversing these people? Like? The forces are

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<v Speaker 1>expensive money? Are you spending on your legal fees? Believes

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<v Speaker 1>in love and makes a lot of money. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>like him on all of you. I feel like tensions

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<v Speaker 1>are getting a little bit high. And if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>remember at the start of this we're trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>a win today. I mean, it does say something, Sandra

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<v Speaker 1>that he somehow still gets people to say yes to him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we just need one more yes from you, Sandra, Yes

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<v Speaker 1>to another date immediately? No that date. I do not

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<v Speaker 1>need you to pay for a date, Andrew O Andrew, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think the marriages maybe something you should tell people upfront.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe never tell anybody opposite you keep the marriages a

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<v Speaker 1>secret until you're married. Yes, perhaps I should take that advice. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can go. You can go think about that at

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful waterfall. You can't be sad looking at a waterfall, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what the season is. Broke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. You know what I was thinking about during

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<v Speaker 1>that whole call, that we feel bad calling her? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just kept thinking those Vegas chapels should have loyalty

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<v Speaker 1>punch cards. Oh, yeah, one free. Yeah, you get married

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<v Speaker 1>six times here, the seventh one is on the house. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they'd make any money at that point in Vegas. Well, Sadly,

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<v Speaker 1>Sando is never going to get to experience that type

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<v Speaker 1>of deal because she thinks a guy with five divorces

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<v Speaker 1>as a quote red flag. He thinks two of them

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't count, right because one was the same person or

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<v Speaker 1>something that. I didn't know how the divorce map worked

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<v Speaker 1>on that, But I mean I was kind of I

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling bad for him, Yeah, are you? Yeah? I wasn't. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you think people who get divorce should die alone and

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<v Speaker 1>never try again. No, No, it just seems like he's

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<v Speaker 1>not even taking marriage seriously at all. Jeffrey like he's

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<v Speaker 1>been married five times. He just does it on a

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<v Speaker 1>whim in Vegas. He loves too much. We can all

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<v Speaker 1>agree on that, So no second date for them. But

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't mean we don't have a chance for you.

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