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Speaker 1: across the year, it's like a long drawn out race

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Speaker 1: ultra marathon, ultra ultra marathon. He just keeps going and going,

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Speaker 1: and we know we're not gonna win all of them,

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Speaker 1: But you know what, if we get a victory today,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what the I don't know what happens.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what happened either, but I'm excited to

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Speaker 1: talk to our listener, Andrew, who says he met a

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Speaker 1: with my my linga well, as long as we're on

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Speaker 1: why don't you tell us about some of the things

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Speaker 1: that stood out on her dating profile? Because Brook, we

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Speaker 1: always hear so much about the dates, you know, I

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Speaker 1: could you pull up her dating profile and tell us

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Speaker 1: what's on there? We're gonna look at it literally right now. Yeah? Sure.

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Speaker 1: What's her name again? Her name is Sandra? Okay? Cool?

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Speaker 1: So what does what does Sandra say about herself online?

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Speaker 1: Let's see here, we're just going to Okay, this is

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Speaker 1: know her public she's in like it looks like some

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Speaker 1: We know that. Let's go what does she say about herself?

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Speaker 1: What's the first line? Uh? It's the first thing is

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Speaker 1: I'd like to date so I can leave the house

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Speaker 1: to her heart is through red wine. Right, Brooks on board? Now,

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Speaker 1: what can we say to get Alexis on her side?

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Speaker 1: That's true? Okay, I'm still I'm still waiting, okay, Jeff

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Speaker 1: big weakness. Okay, conversation, it's my kryptonite. Let's get into

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Speaker 1: them together, Like, I mean, what do you guys do

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Speaker 1: on your date? Well, so it also is on her

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Speaker 1: profile that she loved scenic places and waterfalls. You know,

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Speaker 1: so I actually know of this waterfall like in our

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Speaker 1: people know about it. So I invite her to go there,

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Speaker 1: and she was all about it. Waterfall, that's pretty fine, Alexis.

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Speaker 1: a hike? What's good? Questions? What are you doing underneath

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Speaker 1: Are you? Yea it was success? That was your goal? Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm dialing the number. Hello, Hey, Sandra yea. Hey. My

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