WEBVTT - “I QUIT VAPING TO PEG MY BF” 0:00:02.160 --> 0:00:04.360 Hello, Hello, is this the get Go? 0:00:05.280 --> 0:00:08.879 Yes, Hello, you texted me. You said you said you 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:13.080 Oh godd ah, you said something. You said. Uh, my 0:00:13.240 --> 0:00:16.680 name is twenty two, and I want to talk about 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:22.160 how I quit vaping to peg my boyfriends. How does 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:24.159 that work? Why did you need to quit vaping to 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:25.400 peg your boyfriends? 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:31.040 Okay, so I wanted to quit vaping, but it is 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:37.519 one of the hardest addictions to to like get tasked. 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:41.159 It's from like the top five according to doctors and stuff. 0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:45.120 But he knew that I really really wanted to quit vaping, 0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:47.640 and he knew that I really wanted to peg him. 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:50.880 And he was like, you know, if you quit vaping 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:55.360 and I'm a single, been a nicotine for three months, 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:59.920 you get pegging privileges. You have rights to my untouched asshole. 0:01:01.000 --> 0:01:05.440 No one's pecked him before and literally nothing's been up there, 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:06.840 So how could I say no? 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:11.880 Well, so this is uh, your boyfriend has incentivized you, 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:20.400 offering up his his little asshole for you to. 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:25.160 So I'm not gonna die. Yeah I am. Well, I'm 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:27.840 thrilled to share this story because to all the people 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:32.160 out there wanting to quit the substance, wanting to quit something. 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:37.119 Just find yourself a submissive ass boyfriend who will let 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:38.160 you peg him if you quit it. 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:40.840 But just think about how great it would be to 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:44.000 like take your hands and like open up his asshole 0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:46.840 and blow vape spoke into it. 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:50.480 Wait, that's such a good point, guy, that's crazy. 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:53.720 How has it? 0:01:53.840 --> 0:01:53.960 So? 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:57.960 Has this been working so far? Have you quit vaping? 0:01:59.120 --> 0:02:04.440 It is? Yes, it has because I had after so 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:07.880 this rule was three months. If I quit for three months, 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:14.000 then I have privileges. But then we just I actually 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:18.679 I quit in I had my last vapin in August 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:24.160 of last year, so I've definitely had August of twenty 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:28.919 twenty three, so I've had lots of time to do 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:31.080 the deed, and I've done a team bit of the deed. 0:02:31.200 --> 0:02:35.880 But it actually, after ninety days of now nicotine, it 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:40.040 gets like you don't It's still like you want it 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:43.400 and concept, but the withdrawals are put behind you. 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:49.440 And so has it been It hasn't been three months yet, 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:51.400 has it? It has? 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:58.280 Yeah? And yeah? Yeah, so how was I've reaped the 0:02:58.320 --> 0:02:59.920 benefits of my reward. 0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:01.360 It. 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:08.440 So what they don't tell you about anal is that 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:12.880 you really gotta like build up to that point, and 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:18.320 so I've not used the strap on him yet, but 0:03:18.680 --> 0:03:25.080 it is, it is so positively delightful. I cannot describe 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:25.239 to you. 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:31.200 So what do you what do you? Is it fingers fists? 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:32.040 What's going on? 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:33.240 Yeah? 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:35.880 Yeah, because I don't. It also was like I don't 0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:39.600 have a good time sometimes, you know. It's it's about 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:44.280 finding that like from intakeer dominating time, and I didn't 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:48.000 want to rush him into losing his anal virginity, you know, 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:52.280 like I wanted to find a nice calm time. And 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:54.800 there's only been a few times for that, even though 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:59.680 it's been been so long since I've had access to 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:02.320 its re access to his assle. One time I did 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:06.240 clean his apartment and he told me, anytime you want, anytime, 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:09.040 I will drop my drawers and you can just put 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:10.960 put something in there. And I was like, you know what, 0:04:11.920 --> 0:04:13.680 you know what? He gave me one free coupon. 0:04:17.040 --> 0:04:21.839 It sounds like this guy, uh, I mean, uh, it 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:24.440 sounds like he always wanted you to peg him, but 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:27.800 he needed some little extra thing to kind of get there. 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:35.320 This is probably true, but it's funnier whenever it's as 0:04:35.320 --> 0:04:35.880 a reward. 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:38.000 Because we had. 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:42.440 Been dating for like a all not a year, but 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:44.920 almost a year whenever he threw it out there, because 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:47.400 I'd always said I wanted to, but he was always scared. 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:50.680 And it was more that after I like quit my 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:54.920 like second hardest addiction. Weed was a tough one to quit. 0:04:54.960 --> 0:05:02.400 But I really worked through that one. But it's he 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:04.440 always wanted it, but it's so scary, you know. 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:05.599 Mm hmm. 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:09.320 And he's actually in the room with me right now 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:11.040 if you ever want to get his perspective. 0:05:11.200 --> 0:05:13.440 But oh yeah, sure, sure, sure, let's talk to him. 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:14.240 Let's talk to him. 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:15.920 Okay, here he is. 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:22.280 Ullo, Hey, what's up? 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:22.480 Man? 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:23.600 A right? 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:26.600 So are you do you do you vape? Do you 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:28.719 do anything? What's your vice? What are you gonna do? 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:32.040 No? I personally don't vape. 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:37.040 I smoke weed like twice a month. I don't really 0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:37.479 do much. 0:05:37.520 --> 0:05:38.600 I just play video games. 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:43.159 Mm hmm uh, So are you are you? You're not 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:45.719 addicted to anything? There's not like a Hey, I'll quit 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:52.120 playing video games and I can comb my fingers through 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:53.479 your hair type of ship. 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:59.880 No, I'm not really addicted to anything. I I don't know. 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:01.200 I don't do much. 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:05.760 How's how's being pegged? Ben? 0:06:05.920 --> 0:06:09.840 Gone well, working up to it so far, just fingers, 0:06:09.960 --> 0:06:12.440 nothing crazy, that's cool. 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:15.640 Are you excited about it? Is this? Is this a positive, 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:17.239 wonderful development in your life? 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:18.920 Yeah, definitely. 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:25.240 But honestly, the hardest part is just find the hardest 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:29.080 time to do it, because like both she and I 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:32.400 both live with people all the time, So like just 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:33.520 finding like a. 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:37.320 Time where no one's no one's home to like. 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:41.080 You know, either catch us or like overhear anything. 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:42.840 That's probably the hardest part of all of it. 0:06:44.320 --> 0:06:48.640 Yeah. Yeah, I mean, what how many roommates do you have? 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:55.039 So normally I have two other people I live with. 0:06:56.839 --> 0:07:00.560 When I'm in college, but right now I live with 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:04.600 my parents for the summer, so yeah, two or three 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:05.000 other people. 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:07.680 Usually you live with your parents, but so you live 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:11.040 with your parents during the summer. Yeah, See, it must 0:07:11.040 --> 0:07:13.200 be nice when you leave because then they can peg 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:14.600 each other because that's what they're waiting. 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:17.200 Possibly. 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:21.240 Possibly they're very they're very conservative, so I'm not sure 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:21.640 about that. 0:07:22.400 --> 0:07:26.640 Yeah, I mean, listen, here's the thing, the conservative stuff 0:07:26.720 --> 0:07:31.920 on the on the surface, but in the sheets we're 0:07:31.920 --> 0:07:39.160 getting a little liberal. Oh god, well, you can hand 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:44.800 the phone back to who your girlfriend all right here 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:49.240 you go. Hello, Well this was nice. This really made 0:07:49.280 --> 0:07:50.560 me believe in love again. 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:54.840 Yeah, I think I think we are a perfect perfect match. 0:07:56.240 --> 0:07:57.400 Is there anything else you want to say to the 0:07:57.400 --> 0:07:58.600 people of the computer before we go? 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:05.080 There's one thing actually, something that bothers me is people 0:08:05.160 --> 0:08:09.240 often abuse the term gaslight. They think it means manipulate, 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:11.960 but it's actually based. 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:14.760 Off of it actually means when you fart in someone's. 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:17.200 Face and you light it on fire. 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:18.120 And you light it on fire. 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:24.160 I don't know just the actual word comes from. When 0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:26.720 this guy turns down this oil lamp, it's like gas 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:30.600 lamp slowly and slowly, and it's like and his girlfriend. 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:34.680 He convinces his girlfriend she's going blind. And so it's 0:08:34.679 --> 0:08:39.080 actually about convincing the victims that they're actually insane, not 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:44.040 just oh he's a manipulator. He's like a manipulator who 0:08:44.080 --> 0:08:46.600 makes you think you're insane. I don't know, I just 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:48.240 always wanted to share that on the show. 0:08:48.400 --> 0:08:52.960 I didn't know that there was a parable about a 0:08:53.040 --> 0:08:57.480 lamp that's like ancient folklore. Shit. I thought it was just. 0:08:57.480 --> 0:09:00.920 Like a word if you google it, it's actually just 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:04.800 based off of some popular play. I'm not sure. It's 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:08.600 like a some kind of non musical but a play. 0:09:08.800 --> 0:09:11.480 I don't remember the name, but to the people out 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:15.480 here listening, definitely research it because so many people misuse 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:18.240 it and the nerd in me is like, oh, if 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:19.720 only they knew. It's only they knew. 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:22.400 Well, that's interesting because I feel like I've only started 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:25.800 hearing that word in the past, like a couple of years, 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:29.240 and I guess you're I guess a gas lamp. That's 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:32.040 I mean, they were using that in the seventeen hundreds 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:33.680 or whatever the fuck, So it took a while for 0:09:33.720 --> 0:09:34.320 it to catch on. 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:38.800 Definitely, yeah, but it was so lovely to share the story. 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:42.240 I hope all the partners out there can use this 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:43.520 as an interesting reward. 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:50.000 Of course, take care and enjoy your smoke free and 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:52.920 butthole filled life. 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:55.280 I'm shall thank you so much. 0:09:55.720 --> 0:10:01.680 Take in the background, he said, wait, let me say 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:07.000 bye too, But it's okay. He we we said goodbye 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:09.559 and spirit who from? 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:11.520 My name is Kapu? 0:10:13.080 --> 0:10:13.560 Hello? 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:15.800 Hello? Is this the gig? 0:10:16.400 --> 0:10:17.800 Yes? What'd you say? Your name was? 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:20.839 My name is Kabukabu? 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:21.800 Yes? 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:24.640 What's up? Kabu? Hello? 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:27.480 Gick uh? 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:30.719 How how how how can I get you today. What 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:31.559 do you want to talk about? 0:10:32.760 --> 0:10:38.000 Uh? I have a boyfriend in a different country, and 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:43.360 I'm not sure what I should do about the whole 0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:47.360 being in the same countrys dake, if this is a 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:48.280 good idea or not. 0:10:49.160 --> 0:10:49.680 Where are you? 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:53.360 I'm in America and he's in Japan. 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:57.559 He's in Japan? Okay? Is he is he Japanese? Or 0:10:57.600 --> 0:10:58.720 is he just living there? 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:00.520 Yeah? He's just he is. 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:04.600 We have met in person already, but we met over 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:11.800 the internet, and I'm getting maybe a little anxious about 0:11:11.840 --> 0:11:14.960 the whole moving to another country thing, or if I 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:16.400 should have him move here. 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:18.800 How old are you? 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:24.320 I'm thirty cold he is twenty nine. 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:26.400 Twenty nine. What do you do for work? 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:30.040 I make pizzas. 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:34.760 I got all right, so you can't really do that remotely. 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:41.880 Yeah, And I kind of dropped out of college, so 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:45.200 I don't really have a degree. And I know people 0:11:45.240 --> 0:11:49.240 from America and other countries that have moved over there 0:11:49.640 --> 0:11:54.200 and have a lot to say about work and good 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:58.040 and bad things, and I'm not sure if I should 0:11:58.080 --> 0:12:01.439 do that, Like I really go ahead? 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:04.080 Well, okay, how long have you been talking to this 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:04.400 guy for? 0:12:05.160 --> 0:12:07.600 Okay, so we've been dating for about a year, and 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:10.000 I met him in March when I went to Japan 0:12:10.120 --> 0:12:10.560 for a week. 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:15.199 Okay, so you met him once, you really met him 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:18.080 in person that one time we spent. 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:20.920 A week together, but we talk like every. 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:21.560 Day over the year. 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:25.200 Right right, Where in America do you live? 0:12:26.120 --> 0:12:27.080 I live in Maryland. 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:30.120 Live in Maryland. Oh nice, that's where I'm from. What's 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:31.200 your life like in Maryland? 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:36.559 I don't really like Like I'm from Baltimore. I don't 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:41.240 really like Baltimore. I don't really like living here. I've 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:45.400 lived here all my life. But when I went over there, 0:12:47.040 --> 0:12:50.520 everything like, like all the buses are on time, everything 0:12:50.640 --> 0:12:55.000 was cheaper. A lot of my online friends are Japanese, 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:57.640 so I got to meet them. Like, there's a whole 0:12:57.640 --> 0:12:59.480 bunch of people. I don't have friends, a lot of 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:00.199 friends over here. 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:05.560 Okay, let me ask you a question. Yeah, let's say 0:13:05.679 --> 0:13:11.240 you pack up all your stuff, you get an apartment 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:14.920 in Japan. You do all the papers, get the visa, 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:20.720 get a job, say goodbye to your friends, sell your furniture. 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:25.480 Do you think go all the way to Japan? You 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:33.120 move in. You get a text from your boyfriend that says, hey, 0:13:33.200 --> 0:13:36.120 I actually think that we shouldn't see each other anymore 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:41.800 after of course mourning the relationship. Would you still be 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:43.600 happy that you moved to Japan. 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:46.720 I would be happy that I moved to Japan because 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:50.360 I've been studying this language for four years, like over 0:13:50.440 --> 0:13:52.520 the internet, and I have a lot of friends over 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:54.480 there that I got to meet when I was visiting. 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:59.199 And I also kind of sometimes DJ, so I got 0:13:59.200 --> 0:14:01.880 the DJ over there. I think there will still be 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:05.400 many opportunities for me to do cool stuff if I'm 0:14:05.440 --> 0:14:07.880 over there. Even if it doesn't work. 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:12.679 Out, that's great, That's fantastic. Yeah, because I think if 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:15.520 it was, like if you were moving there like one 0:14:15.600 --> 0:14:21.960 hundred or ninety or even eighty percent just because of 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:25.040 this guy, it's kind of a recipe for disaster. But 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:31.160 if you have a well rounded kind of if you 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:35.800 have a well rounded bunch of reasons that would take 0:14:35.840 --> 0:14:38.440 you over there, I think that that's pretty good. 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:43.400 Okay. I mean it's not my first time meeting people 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:45.960 off the internet that I talked to at least more 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:49.160 than a year or something to hang out with, so 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:53.200 I'm well versed in kind of meeting people and then 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:57.320 and then not really hanging out again. Sometimes after it. 0:14:57.360 --> 0:14:59.440 But there are people I also still talk to that 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:01.360 I've known for eight years over the internet. 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:05.160 Why what was I gonna say, Oh, how hard is 0:15:05.200 --> 0:15:07.360 it to get the visa to stay there for an 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:08.320 extended period of time? 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:11.720 Well, it's not hard, because if you're an American, you 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:13.840 don't really even need to apply for a visa to 0:15:13.880 --> 0:15:17.320 get there, like for ninety days. I think it depends 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:18.720 on what you end up doing. 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:21.320 Over there, because you yeah, well, I mean, I mean, 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:25.760 how about this man? Like instead of I mean you 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:27.600 you went and you hung out there for a week 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:31.200 before before a fucking moving there and like getting to 0:15:31.800 --> 0:15:33.320 doing a whole thing. Why don't you just go there 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:36.000 for for ninety days and see how you like it. 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:39.000 But I would have to find a job that will 0:15:39.040 --> 0:15:44.120 sustain me, And that's probably the most difficult difficult thing 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:46.880 of this is that I don't really I don't really 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:49.600 have a college degree, so I can't really do any 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:54.840 English teaching jobs, you know, even if I can speak Japanese, like, 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:58.840 you need your degree to be able to begin to 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:02.320 talk to those people. So then I'm out of that. 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:06.040 Then that limits the rest of what I'm able to 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:06.400 do too. 0:16:07.680 --> 0:16:08.800 Do you have any college credit. 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:15.000 I do not, and I dropped out. 0:16:15.920 --> 0:16:19.720 How how how much have you researched this whole thing 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:22.560 of getting a job remotely or getting a job in 0:16:22.640 --> 0:16:26.880 Japan or I mean, look, look, the best thing you 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:29.560 could do would probably be to get some remote job 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:32.000 in America and then take it to Japan, because I 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:33.760 think the yen is very weak right now. 0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:35.200 The yen is still very weak. 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:36.880 The end is very weak. So I mean, if you 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:39.640 can get a job where you're making American dollars, you're 0:16:39.680 --> 0:16:40.320 hooked up. 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:44.400 Yes, But then like even kind of having a job 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:48.280 like that and reporting your taxes apparently is hard. 0:16:48.960 --> 0:16:53.640 Oh yeah, super hard. Taxes are very annoying. I mean, 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:55.680 if you looked into that, if you looked into uh, 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:58.800 you know, remote jobs that pay. 0:16:58.640 --> 0:17:03.920 Am easiest thing that that negates all of that because 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:06.760 the work visa requires you. So there's a work visa 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:11.560 that you can have for that type of work, and 0:17:11.600 --> 0:17:14.639 then there's like a like a redund like more redundant 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:17.359 work visa, but then you have to basically work in 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:22.520 a sledgshop or wherever they put you. And I haven't 0:17:22.560 --> 0:17:26.440 heard good stories about that, Like people working taxis are 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:31.680 working for like different agricultural places and they aren't. 0:17:32.560 --> 0:17:35.040 Do you do you have do you what? Do you 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:36.040 have savings at all? 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:38.080 I'm working on that. 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:49.680 Okay, Maybe, I mean, maybe there's something where you kind 0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:53.919 of instead of moving to Japan immediately, you take a 0:17:54.040 --> 0:17:58.959 year or two to kind of build up some savings 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:04.639 living in Maryland, and then when you've got some you know, 0:18:04.800 --> 0:18:08.360 ground to stand on, you look at what the opportunities 0:18:08.400 --> 0:18:12.040 are like in Japan, and in that year or two 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:17.280 you can probably do some kind of online community college thing. 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:22.040 I think maybe either get in community college in and 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:27.680 actually finishing this time would work. But like even then, 0:18:28.520 --> 0:18:31.879 I think the easiest option there would be was to 0:18:32.000 --> 0:18:34.159 like visit a few times and then if I like 0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:39.440 someone enough, maybe marry them, because like the marriage visa 0:18:39.640 --> 0:18:43.440 is the easiest one to get. 0:18:45.040 --> 0:18:47.760 Uh well, well on the ninety day. 0:18:47.640 --> 0:18:50.000 One, you can't get a job to make money. So 0:18:50.040 --> 0:18:51.080 where am I going to stay? 0:18:51.200 --> 0:18:51.399 You know? 0:18:52.440 --> 0:18:54.680 I mean I guess you could, Yeah, you could, you could, 0:18:54.800 --> 0:18:59.040 you could marry him? Why not? I don't know. I 0:18:59.040 --> 0:19:01.399 don't know. I'm just spitball and I'm just trying to 0:19:01.400 --> 0:19:02.680 figure out how you can do this. 0:19:03.840 --> 0:19:06.679 I mean, I met him, I like him. It worked, 0:19:07.160 --> 0:19:09.880 but I got to meet him a few more times 0:19:09.920 --> 0:19:12.159 and come over there. You know. 0:19:13.119 --> 0:19:17.000 See, be careful though, and what's what's he do? What's 0:19:17.040 --> 0:19:17.440 his deal? 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:29.680 So he works a factory job. He's a nice guy. 0:19:28.359 --> 0:19:30.639 So I assume he I assume because he works the 0:19:30.680 --> 0:19:32.840 factory job that he doesn't have a lot of time 0:19:32.880 --> 0:19:38.840 off to go visit you in Baltimore. Yes, okay, Uh. 0:19:39.800 --> 0:19:44.440 Japan's work like work kind of like what is it? 0:19:44.960 --> 0:19:45.200 Work? 0:19:45.200 --> 0:19:49.000 Culture is different from Americas in which even on your 0:19:49.080 --> 0:19:52.280 day off you're expected to which he was today, go 0:19:52.359 --> 0:19:55.640 and do overtime and then afterwards you're expected to drink 0:19:55.880 --> 0:20:00.399 your boss and far somewhere like that's just kind of 0:20:00.560 --> 0:20:02.360 and if you don't go, and then people look down 0:20:02.400 --> 0:20:05.040 on you, right. 0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:10.200 I mean I think I think the long term goal 0:20:10.280 --> 0:20:12.280 of moving to Japan, I mean, I think it's cool, 0:20:13.200 --> 0:20:15.239 especially if you're not doing it just to be with 0:20:15.280 --> 0:20:18.359 this guy, and you know, because your friends I have. 0:20:18.359 --> 0:20:21.000 I wouldn't think about moving in another country it was 0:20:21.119 --> 0:20:24.320 just for this guy, you know, Like I have more 0:20:24.359 --> 0:20:26.920 than fifty friends over there and people. 0:20:26.640 --> 0:20:29.560 That I know of from the music, And look, dude, 0:20:29.560 --> 0:20:31.680 I think it's I think it's a cool goal. I think. 0:20:32.240 --> 0:20:34.159 I think it's a cool goal. I think if like 0:20:34.359 --> 0:20:39.359 financially you can't hack it right now, you could probably 0:20:39.560 --> 0:20:41.840 make a plan to be able to hack it in 0:20:41.880 --> 0:20:44.719 a couple of years, you know, go to uh. I mean, 0:20:44.720 --> 0:20:47.879 I'm sure there's like two year programs or you know, 0:20:48.240 --> 0:20:52.359 even just spending two years working at the pizza place 0:20:52.440 --> 0:20:56.320 and saving up to to kind of get over there. 0:20:57.200 --> 0:20:58.440 I mean, I think it's a cool I think it's 0:20:58.440 --> 0:20:59.640 a cool it's a cool goal. 0:21:01.560 --> 0:21:02.280 Thank you, gik. 0:21:05.840 --> 0:21:11.359 Yeah, I mean don't what I mean? I yeah, all right, 0:21:11.680 --> 0:21:13.520 what how do you where'd you where? Online? Did you 0:21:13.560 --> 0:21:14.160 meet this guy? 0:21:15.000 --> 0:21:15.240 So? 0:21:15.440 --> 0:21:18.040 Like I played this game called have you heard of 0:21:18.119 --> 0:21:18.600 yo Chat? 0:21:19.880 --> 0:21:22.640 You met this guy on vr chat? Yeah? 0:21:22.800 --> 0:21:25.760 Like, uh so COVID happened. And I lost my job 0:21:26.000 --> 0:21:30.560 right four years ago, and like I was inside a 0:21:30.600 --> 0:21:33.720 lot and I was already kind of like playing games 0:21:33.720 --> 0:21:36.080 because I like, I like playing like momos and stuff. 0:21:36.480 --> 0:21:38.480 But I got really depressed. And then one of my 0:21:38.520 --> 0:21:42.160 friends was like, hey, let's try Yocha and see how 0:21:42.160 --> 0:21:46.000 it is. And and eventually that friend stopped playing. But 0:21:46.119 --> 0:21:49.680 like I met some Japanese girl like on the game 0:21:50.480 --> 0:21:53.240 four years ago, and she said something to me that 0:21:53.400 --> 0:22:01.359 like changed changed my life. I guess I couldn't speak 0:22:01.359 --> 0:22:04.199 any Japanese, but she used Google Translate to try to 0:22:04.240 --> 0:22:07.879 talk to me, like like through the games, like to 0:22:07.920 --> 0:22:10.159 try to talk at me because she was interested in 0:22:10.480 --> 0:22:14.560 American culture and she was interested in like knowing about 0:22:14.760 --> 0:22:17.120 like what my life is like and stuff. And then 0:22:17.160 --> 0:22:22.280 she said to me, as best as she could, I 0:22:22.359 --> 0:22:25.400 want to study English so that I can learn more 0:22:25.400 --> 0:22:29.439 about you and about who you are. And that was 0:22:29.480 --> 0:22:32.600 the first time someone said that to me ever, like 0:22:33.200 --> 0:22:36.880 that they want to know about me and they want 0:22:36.920 --> 0:22:37.760 to be my friend. 0:22:37.840 --> 0:22:42.200 You know, you felt very you know, like someone cared. 0:22:42.880 --> 0:22:45.359 Yeah, I felt I felt like I was seen, you know, 0:22:46.600 --> 0:22:50.920 because I struggled. I struggle with depression, like chronic depression, 0:22:51.080 --> 0:22:53.520 and there are moments where it gets really dark if 0:22:53.560 --> 0:22:56.680 I'm very stressed. So it kind of helped me out 0:22:57.280 --> 0:23:00.919 of like this kind of slump. That was because I 0:23:00.960 --> 0:23:05.480 was like, well, life can't be life can't be so 0:23:05.600 --> 0:23:09.520