WEBVTT - SISANIE- GhostLighting

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan's Roses is on deck, Disneyland tickets for you in

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<v Speaker 1>between that. So a new dating trend to be aware of,

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<v Speaker 1>a toxic dating trend, Sisney, What is it?

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<v Speaker 2>It's called ghost lighting, So as if being dumped isn't

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<v Speaker 2>bad enough, this is a combination of ghosting and gas lighting,

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<v Speaker 2>so a little refresher. Ghosting has when like someone just

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<v Speaker 2>disappears completely from a romantic relationship. We all know that.

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<v Speaker 2>And gas lighting is when someone kind of twists what

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<v Speaker 2>someone thinks or feels to make them feel like they're delusional.

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<v Speaker 2>So you combine both of those and you have ghost lighting.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's about disappearing and then denying it.

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<v Speaker 1>This is like one of the most manipulative forms of

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<v Speaker 1>breaking up.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, they become completely unavailable and ignore all communication with

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<v Speaker 2>that person that they broke up with, that that person

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<v Speaker 2>that they were romantically interested in, and when they're confronted

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<v Speaker 2>they ghost light, they make that partner feel as if

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<v Speaker 2>they were making it up or denying it that whole time,

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<v Speaker 2>Like what are you talking about? Like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's just like a back and forth of

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<v Speaker 2>just craziness.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever been gas lit? Have we ever been

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<v Speaker 1>gas lit? Have you ever been gas lit? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone has?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, ghost lighting? I guess you know. Here's the thing though,

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<v Speaker 1>if you end up breaking up with somebody and they

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<v Speaker 1>ghostlight you, man, did you make the right decision? I

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<v Speaker 1>guess right right, that's like for sure the right decision.

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<v Speaker 2>So the problem is when they do that, you don't trust.

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<v Speaker 1>They make you feel like you can't trust your own thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>So you can't know.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can't do that because if someone's showing you

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<v Speaker 1>the pattern of now that we know what it's called

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<v Speaker 1>ghost lighting, that person is not is not good you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Like the things that they're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make you think are intentional and manipulative.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, good riddance.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's get to Ryan's roses. Now, now we got

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<v Speaker 1>that out, let's try and I don't know if it's

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<v Speaker 1>good news, let's try and get some peace of mind.

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