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Speaker 1: between that. So a new dating trend to be aware of,
Speaker 1: a toxic dating trend, Sisney, What is it?
Speaker 2: It's called ghost lighting, So as if being dumped isn't
Speaker 2: bad enough, this is a combination of ghosting and gas lighting,
Speaker 2: so a little refresher. Ghosting has when like someone just
Speaker 2: disappears completely from a romantic relationship. We all know that.
Speaker 2: And gas lighting is when someone kind of twists what
Speaker 2: someone thinks or feels to make them feel like they're delusional.
Speaker 2: So you combine both of those and you have ghost lighting.
Speaker 2: So it's about disappearing and then denying it.
Speaker 1: This is like one of the most manipulative forms of
Speaker 1: breaking up.
Speaker 2: Exactly, they become completely unavailable and ignore all communication with
Speaker 2: that person that they broke up with, that that person
Speaker 2: that they were romantically interested in, and when they're confronted
Speaker 2: they ghost light, they make that partner feel as if
Speaker 2: they were making it up or denying it that whole time,
Speaker 2: Like what are you talking about? Like, I don't know,
Speaker 2: you know, it's just like a back and forth of
Speaker 2: just craziness.
Speaker 1: Have you ever been gas lit? Have we ever been
Speaker 1: gas lit? Have you ever been gas lit? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Everyone has?
Speaker 1: Yeah, ghost lighting? I guess you know. Here's the thing though,
Speaker 1: if you end up breaking up with somebody and they
Speaker 1: ghostlight you, man, did you make the right decision? I
Speaker 1: guess right right, that's like for sure the right decision.
Speaker 2: So the problem is when they do that, you don't trust.
Speaker 1: They make you feel like you can't trust your own thoughts.
Speaker 2: So you can't know.
Speaker 1: But you can't do that because if someone's showing you
Speaker 1: the pattern of now that we know what it's called
Speaker 1: ghost lighting, that person is not is not good you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like the things that they're trying
Speaker 1: to make you think are intentional and manipulative.
Speaker 2: Right, good riddance.
Speaker 1: So let's get to Ryan's roses. Now, now we got
Speaker 1: that out, let's try and I don't know if it's
Speaker 1: good news, let's try and get some peace of mind.
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