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Speaker 1: It's time for Ryan's Rose is here one on two

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Speaker 1: point seven kiss I FM. Good morning, thanks for listening

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Speaker 1: to us, dear Ryan and sistening. We're getting married next summer.

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Speaker 1: Uh oh, and just launched our wedding website. Someone left

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Speaker 1: the comment that makes me wonder if there is someone else.

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Speaker 2: Let's find out what that comment was going.

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Speaker 1: To sloansh in Long Beach, Sloan, thank you for writing

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Speaker 1: to us. We understand that it's supposed to be a

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Speaker 1: very exciting time and that something's on your mind. So

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Speaker 1: what comment was left that made you want if there's

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Speaker 1: someone else?

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Speaker 3: So somebody posted like all the comments were so sweet,

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Speaker 3: and then this one comment said like this is paffed up?

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Speaker 3: Does Jessica O?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean? Who's Jessica?

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Speaker 3: Exactly? I have no idea. And the post was anonymous,

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Speaker 3: So I have no idea who wrote it?

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Speaker 4: Huh?

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Speaker 2: And it could I mean it could it be legit?

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Speaker 1: Could it be somebody that's just trying to stir the pot,

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Speaker 1: but naturally it's you're losing sleep over it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So that's so.

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Speaker 3: I told my fiance about it, and he was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: it's probably just a troll, Like.

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Speaker 5: Did your website have a password for people to have

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Speaker 5: to enter to even get into the website or.

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Speaker 2: Is it public?

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Speaker 4: It was public?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, look, yeah, I get it, and we're almost there.

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Speaker 2: I get it. Maybe there's a perfect explanation. What would

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Speaker 2: be the explanation. I don't get that. I'm just saying

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Speaker 2: I get what she's here. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're on the doorstep of your wedding and

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Speaker 1: then someone says something about Jessica, and you know, ft

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Speaker 1: up and all that stuff. So okay, so hold on

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Speaker 1: one second. Did you know anybody named Jessica in his life?

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Speaker 1: In his previous life?

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Speaker 4: So he said that he has an X that he

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Speaker 4: calls jess but the named no, the ex is named

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Speaker 4: Jesse and goes by Jess and is definitively not Jessing.

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Speaker 3: But I was like, that's a little close for me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's a little close for me too. All right,

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Speaker 1: hold on one second. So this is from Sloan. She's

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Speaker 1: in Long Beach and she's asked us to reach out

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Speaker 1: to find out is this Jessica scenario something real? It's

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Speaker 1: in her head, of course, would be in her head.

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Speaker 1: Does Jessica know about the fact that you're marrying him.

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Speaker 1: Why would Jessica care? What's what's her interest in all this?

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Speaker 1: So Sloan, we're gonna call him right now. We'll see

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Speaker 1: if we can find out. I need you to say, Ryan,

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Speaker 1: you my permission to call, and then his name on

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Speaker 1: Kiss FM.

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Speaker 3: Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna do that right now.

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Speaker 1: Be very quiet till we find out who he sends

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Speaker 1: the roses to and what's on his mind.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Good luck.

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Speaker 5: Hello, Hi, can I speak to Joel? Please?

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Speaker 6: This is him?

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Speaker 1: This Hi.

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Speaker 5: My name is Angela. I'm calling from Flowers by the Beach.

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Speaker 5: We deliver locally here in Long Beach and parts of

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Speaker 5: South Bay and Orange County, and we're offering a promotion

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Speaker 5: for you today and local residents specifically. It's a free

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Speaker 5: dozen red roses.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, you're going to give me three roses. What's

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Speaker 6: the occasion?

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Speaker 5: So you could send these roses to anybody that you'd like.

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Speaker 5: They're absolutely free. I don't need cash or credit card

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Speaker 5: info or anything like that. We're just trying to gain

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Speaker 5: new customers. So how it works is you can just

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Speaker 5: give us the name of the person you'd want to

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Speaker 5: send them to. We can attach a note, they can

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Speaker 5: receive it by lunchtime today, and then hopefully, if you

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Speaker 5: are pleased with our flower arrangements, you would come back

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Speaker 5: as a customer one day.

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Speaker 6: Okay, all right, what do you need?

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Speaker 5: Sorry, we can just start with the name of the

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Speaker 5: person you want to send the roses to.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, that's fine, let me send them to flown

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Speaker 6: S l O A. N. Davis.

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Speaker 5: And what would you like to put on the card?

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Speaker 6: Oh? Okay, mom, Well we get engaged recently, so maybe

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Speaker 6: something like I can't stop thinking about you and the

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Speaker 6: life we have ahead of us.

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Speaker 3: Yo.

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Speaker 6: You're an amazing mom and a partner, and next summer

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Speaker 6: can't come soon enough. I love you.

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Speaker 5: Hang on, you're going too fast.

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Speaker 1: And Joel hi your voice of being broadcast on the radio.

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Speaker 1: I need you to know that my name is Ryan

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Speaker 1: and I have Sisneine Tany on the line and we're

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Speaker 1: here to congratulate you on your upcoming wedding.

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Speaker 2: That's great. Are you excited?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, sorry, I'm on the radio. What was going on?

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Speaker 2: Surprise? We have Sloan on the line as well.

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Speaker 1: You just heard that beautiful note Sloane, what's your reaction

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Speaker 1: to the note he just sent you?

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Speaker 4: Hey, baby, Hi, you're sending them to me?

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Speaker 6: You really, of course?

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Speaker 3: I just I thought that there was somebody else.

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Speaker 6: Why would you think that?

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Speaker 4: I mean, you know.

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Speaker 3: That comment that was left on the website. I just

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Speaker 6: Oh right, well I thought we talked about that though.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what what just so we're up to speed, Joe,

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Speaker 1: what did you talk about? What was that comment about

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Speaker 1: Jessica and why she would care about you getting married

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Speaker 1: to Sloan all about?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, it's like it's weird. So we posted,

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Speaker 6: you know, we did our wedding website and we sent

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Speaker 6: it out to everybody.

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Speaker 1: Who Yeah, I understand why why?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't. I honestly not sure why.

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Speaker 2: But who's Jessica?

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Speaker 6: Okay, so jess is my ex?

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Speaker 2: But who's jess a.

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Speaker 1: Car full name, you know, So it is Jesse Jessica Okay,

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Speaker 1: So why would Jessica? Why would someone comment about Jessica's

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Speaker 1: feelings that you're getting married just in general because she's

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Speaker 1: not over you?

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Speaker 2: Or is there more to the story? That's why we're here?

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Speaker 6: I think, No, you're right, right, right. So I think,

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Speaker 6: and this is my theory, is that like old friend

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Speaker 6: send that stuff out a lot of different people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Joe, we've been together for years. Like why would

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Speaker 3: they why would they think you're still with your ex girlfriend?

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Speaker 6: Well, my ex and I don't know, but you know,

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Speaker 6: you know, guys, we don't catch up sometimes. It's like

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Speaker 3: So what do you mean?

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Speaker 3: Wait, wait, what do you mean you're your ex? Is

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Speaker 6: She's my ex wife?

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Speaker 3: You were married?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, when we talked about it, I've told you

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Speaker 3: You know you did not? Yeah, yes, no, you you

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Speaker 3: told me you never wanted to talk about your exes

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Speaker 6: Not yet technically, but that will be finalized by the

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Speaker 6: time that we are married.

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Speaker 1: Wait what, god, Joel, how do you think you've talked

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Speaker 1: about this and clearly Sloan is hearing about this for

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean we've talked about it. I just feel like,

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Speaker 1: So just so we're all clear here, you've told your

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Speaker 2: You told her that.

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Speaker 6: I thought I did, but I mean apparently I didn't.

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Speaker 6: But I clearly you're talking about well, Sloane, you.

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Speaker 1: Did not know that his ex was an ex wife,

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Speaker 3: No, I think I would have remembered that if he

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Speaker 5: And would you have said yes to getting married if

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Speaker 3: I mean I would have had a lot of questions,

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Speaker 1: Like I'm like, when when are you going to be

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Speaker 1: officially divorced, Joel? And how are you going to get

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Speaker 6: Well, I've no, no, no, I've filed my paperwork, I've signed.

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Speaker 6: I just you know, I think Jess is dragging her

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Speaker 1: But it didn't dawn on you to be clear with

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Speaker 2: I think it's a big problem.

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Speaker 6: He huge. Well, I just didn't think about the I

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Speaker 6: I thought we'd be over it, and I just didn't

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Speaker 2: Will you ever been married?

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Speaker 1: But in my mind, if I were married, and I

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Speaker 1: the fact that I've been down this path, I've done,

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Speaker 1: this didn't work. I love you, I don't love her.

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Speaker 1: We're in a separation or in a divorce. Like you,

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Speaker 1: you don't just skip over that or think you have

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Speaker 1: that conversation. So this is a big red flag. It

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I understand that. Yeah, well, but nothing has

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Speaker 6: changed though, I mean for me.

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Speaker 1: A lot has changed.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Let's ask Sloan, has anything change in your mind?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? And I know what.

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Speaker 3: You're married, Joel.

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Speaker 6: And soon to you.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Joel, this is not the way you want to

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Speaker 1: start a marriage. This is not the way you want

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Speaker 1: it to go. I mean, there there, You just didn't

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Speaker 1: give the full picture. And so I think Sloan needs

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Speaker 1: to digest all this, think about all this. And then

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Speaker 1: you guys didn't have a long format meeting.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I guess so I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: So obviously we're all hearing about this at once and

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Speaker 1: It's a lot to take in, but take your time

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Speaker 1: and think about what you just heard and what it

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Speaker 1: all means, and ask Joel the questions and I don't

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Speaker 1: changes things for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you very much. Good luck to you guys. Wow,

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Speaker 2: can't get married if he's married.

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Speaker 5: No, and she never even knew.

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Speaker 2: She just thought she was an ex wife.

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Speaker 1: The only upside here is she found out the guy

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Speaker 1: doesn't paint a full picture before they got married, Like

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Speaker 1: he's not a full picture painter.

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Speaker 2: Blessing in disguise.

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Speaker 5: She finds that out now and this is just the

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Speaker 5: beginning of lies get out.

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Speaker 1: I mean, the card was nice, but that was almost

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Speaker 1: more awkward than as if he were to send the

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Speaker 1: roses to some right to find all that out. What

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Speaker 1: they're about to get married? And how does he think

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Speaker 1: he had a comment. It's just yes, there's a major,

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Speaker 1: major problem.