1
00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:08,440
Speaker 1: Rooking Jubels second date up date. All right, signed for

2
00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:10,360
Speaker 1: another second date update. It doesn't even have to be

3
00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:12,120
Speaker 1: one day. It could be like a bunch of dates.

4
00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:14,280
Speaker 1: Just if somebody blows you off, send us an email

5
00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:17,000
Speaker 1: because we want to call him and ask why. We'll

6
00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:19,800
Speaker 1: stop him for you. Yeah. Absolutely, We've got Allison on

7
00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:21,480
Speaker 1: the phone. To day. Alison emailed us about a guy

8
00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:24,759
Speaker 1: named John. Hi Allison, Hey guys, how are you good?

9
00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:28,600
Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit about your date with John. So,

10
00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:31,120
Speaker 1: you know, I showed up to meet up with John

11
00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:32,960
Speaker 1: and he's like what do you want to do? Or

12
00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:34,080
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I don't know, what do you

13
00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:35,639
Speaker 1: want to do? He's like, well, what do you want

14
00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,360
Speaker 1: to do? One of those First of all, you didn't

15
00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:39,800
Speaker 1: leave him right there, because I know that to turn

16
00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:41,640
Speaker 1: off to most women when a guy will make a decision.

17
00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:43,600
Speaker 1: So you guys went back and forth on what to

18
00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,239
Speaker 1: do and then what did you end up doing? I

19
00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:48,120
Speaker 1: just kind of like threw out some week ago, have

20
00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:50,519
Speaker 1: dinner at Helducho, and he was like, okay, yeah, this

21
00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:53,760
Speaker 1: sounds great, and so we went and a conversation was

22
00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,920
Speaker 1: easy and kind of like well, what do you want

23
00:00:56,920 --> 00:01:00,560
Speaker 1: to do now? And then you know, you know, romancing

24
00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:04,080
Speaker 1: to know for a fairy ride. I felt likely had

25
00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,479
Speaker 1: good chemistry. And then at the end of the date

26
00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:10,360
Speaker 1: he gave me a little kiss and you know, nothing crazy,

27
00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:13,680
Speaker 1: but it was good. And that was like a little

28
00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:16,959
Speaker 1: over a week ago. And just like, I have not

29
00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:19,679
Speaker 1: heard anything back from him. So what did you like

30
00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:23,640
Speaker 1: so much about him? He seemed like a nice guy.

31
00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:27,400
Speaker 1: He was a good listener. Did it bug you at

32
00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:30,600
Speaker 1: all that he's not great at making decisions or date plans?

33
00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:35,200
Speaker 1: You know, I think a woman loves a man with

34
00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:39,160
Speaker 1: a plan. But that being said, it seemed like he

35
00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:42,640
Speaker 1: was just really easy going. Okay, Now have you tried

36
00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:44,920
Speaker 1: to get a hold of him since you guys went out. Yeah,

37
00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:46,560
Speaker 1: after a couple of days I called it just be

38
00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:49,720
Speaker 1: like hey, yeah, I was thinking of you today. And

39
00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:52,920
Speaker 1: then like days went by, and maybe he's so laid

40
00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:56,600
Speaker 1: back that he follows like the one month rule. All right.

41
00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:58,480
Speaker 1: You know, at this point, I just want to know,

42
00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:00,760
Speaker 1: like what to deal. Yeah, I mean, you don't even

43
00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:01,880
Speaker 1: care if he wants to go out again, You just

44
00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,440
Speaker 1: want to know why. We'll call him right after this, see,

45
00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,320
Speaker 1: we get him on the phone and ask him why okay, okay,

46
00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:13,919
Speaker 1: all right, hang on phone looking Jubil in the morning.

47
00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:19,040
Speaker 1: I'm just hoping that this dude will answer his phone

48
00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,600
Speaker 1: because he doesn't really make any decisions. I can just

49
00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:23,200
Speaker 1: see him stand there, like should I answer it? Should

50
00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:27,280
Speaker 1: I not answer it? Should I answer it? Yeah, we've

51
00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,400
Speaker 1: got Alison on the phone. Alison went out with the

52
00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:31,919
Speaker 1: dude named John, who didn't really have any plans. When

53
00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,200
Speaker 1: they were gonna go out, she showed up. She said,

54
00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:35,520
Speaker 1: what do you want to do? He said, I don't know.

55
00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:36,959
Speaker 1: What do you want to do? They went back and forth.

56
00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,800
Speaker 1: They decided to go to El Gaucho. Then she suggested

57
00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:41,520
Speaker 1: they go on a ferry ride because again, he didn't

58
00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,440
Speaker 1: have any plans really, and Alison wants to see him again,

59
00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,400
Speaker 1: but he hasn't called her back. Alison, you can't think

60
00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:50,520
Speaker 1: of any reason why he'd blow you off. Maybe he's

61
00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:53,000
Speaker 1: dating someone else or something. I don't know. All right,

62
00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him right now. Um, you can jump

63
00:02:55,880 --> 00:03:09,880
Speaker 1: in whenever you feel like, Hello, Hey, can I speak

64
00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:13,320
Speaker 1: to John please? Yeah? This is John John. How are

65
00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,000
Speaker 1: you man? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in

66
00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:16,840
Speaker 1: the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five you got

67
00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:24,760
Speaker 1: a second. Um, what it's Brooke, Jewbil Jose and Lydia.

68
00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:28,519
Speaker 1: Are you familiar with our show at all? I'm not really. No.

69
00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:30,800
Speaker 1: We do the morning show on Moving ninety two point

70
00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:32,800
Speaker 1: five here, and we wanted to call and talk to

71
00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:37,760
Speaker 1: you about a mutual friend of ours. Okay, her name

72
00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:41,119
Speaker 1: is Allison, and you guys recently went out on a date.

73
00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:47,920
Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm talking about? Yeah, I'm sorry. Yeah,

74
00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,560
Speaker 1: it's okay, John, It's confusing. Yeah, it's the thing we

75
00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,200
Speaker 1: do on our show called second Date Update. When someone

76
00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:55,920
Speaker 1: goes out on a date with someone and they don't

77
00:03:56,000 --> 00:04:00,360
Speaker 1: hear back, we call and ask what happened? A weird

78
00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,760
Speaker 1: talking about that. I know you do, but honestly, man, like,

79
00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,560
Speaker 1: she emailed us to ask you why, So any answer

80
00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,200
Speaker 1: you give us is going to be good with her.

81
00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:11,400
Speaker 1: She just wants to know what the deal is. Well,

82
00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:15,040
Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't have any idea of going into it,

83
00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,719
Speaker 1: you know, like I kind of let her right. She

84
00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,720
Speaker 1: said that she didn't say it in these words, but

85
00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,800
Speaker 1: we said it for her, that you were very indecisive

86
00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,400
Speaker 1: about what to do on your date. Well, I don't

87
00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,400
Speaker 1: think it was that I was indecisive. I just wanted

88
00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,600
Speaker 1: her to have fun, you know, I wanted her to

89
00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,400
Speaker 1: pick what she wanted to do. I kind of lifted

90
00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:36,159
Speaker 1: up her. So why did you have you kissed her

91
00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:37,520
Speaker 1: at the end of the night. Why didn't you call

92
00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:42,360
Speaker 1: her back? It was just it was okay, she picked

93
00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:47,640
Speaker 1: the restaurant, right right. You guys know El Gaucho. Yeah, expensive,

94
00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:52,239
Speaker 1: very expensive. Yeah. The bill was over three hundred dollars. Yeah, okay,

95
00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:54,680
Speaker 1: it is very price. I would like to go on

96
00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:58,280
Speaker 1: a date with you. And then she said that you

97
00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:02,120
Speaker 1: guys went on a ferry ride, yeah, which was even

98
00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,560
Speaker 1: more money, and you know, there was money for parking,

99
00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:06,480
Speaker 1: and it was are you saying that you think that

100
00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:10,680
Speaker 1: she's too high priced for you? I don't know if

101
00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:12,360
Speaker 1: I would say them those words, like if that was

102
00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:17,920
Speaker 1: our first date, I can't afford this girl pick. Yeah,

103
00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:20,400
Speaker 1: normally I would. I would agree with you and say like, wow,

104
00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:22,560
Speaker 1: that's a really big first date that you know. If

105
00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:26,000
Speaker 1: that's what she absolutely said she had to have. But

106
00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:30,280
Speaker 1: you couldn't decide, so she just threw out a suggestion.

107
00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:35,120
Speaker 1: Isn't that right, Alison? Yeah, John, Allison's on the phone.

108
00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:37,520
Speaker 1: If you haven't been able to figure that out. I'm

109
00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:41,160
Speaker 1: hearing that He's like, God, why couldn't you have picked

110
00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:45,480
Speaker 1: bill down pizza right there too? John, when you were

111
00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:48,479
Speaker 1: uncomfortable the first time going to this place, did you

112
00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:52,440
Speaker 1: speak up? Did you say anything? Well? No, I mean

113
00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:54,480
Speaker 1: they left it up to her, so that seems to

114
00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:58,400
Speaker 1: be what she wanted. Alison, do you have very expensive taste?

115
00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,279
Speaker 1: Would you say that that's you? Or or has he

116
00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:04,960
Speaker 1: got you peg gron. I love to go out to

117
00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,640
Speaker 1: a nice meal. I mean I have a career and

118
00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,800
Speaker 1: I have a job, so I mean, you know, once

119
00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:12,560
Speaker 1: in a while, I think it's a nice treat. But

120
00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,920
Speaker 1: that's not what I'm all about. And Alison, when you

121
00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:17,960
Speaker 1: say you have a career, clearly you can afford it.

122
00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:21,520
Speaker 1: Did you offer to like split the tab? Yeah, I

123
00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,600
Speaker 1: mean I made a reach for the bill. I see

124
00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,760
Speaker 1: that's good. I like that reach, just just to let

125
00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:27,400
Speaker 1: you know that, Hey, I'll pick it up if you want.

126
00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:28,520
Speaker 1: But don't you dare let me do it, because you're

127
00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:32,640
Speaker 1: drink if you did. But Alison, I'm gonna go ahead

128
00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:34,760
Speaker 1: and help you and make this really easy for John.

129
00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:38,000
Speaker 1: The next time, I'm gonna give you two words, sack up.

130
00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:43,960
Speaker 1: I say that we're giving you a free dinner. Sack

131
00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,160
Speaker 1: up and make the decision on where you want to

132
00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:48,120
Speaker 1: go before you go out with a girl, and then

133
00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,200
Speaker 1: that way you know how much you'll be spending. I'm

134
00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:51,360
Speaker 1: just saying, all you have to do, man, is the

135
00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:52,919
Speaker 1: next time to make the decision and don't jump to

136
00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:56,640
Speaker 1: conclusions about you know, her being super high priced. That

137
00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:58,320
Speaker 1: being said, we will send you out on a second

138
00:06:58,360 --> 00:06:59,960
Speaker 1: date and we'll pay for it if you guys will

139
00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:02,000
Speaker 1: want to go out again, John, do you want to

140
00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:05,360
Speaker 1: go out with her again? Yeah? I would love to

141
00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:10,560
Speaker 1: because because the second two words were free dinner. Yeah exactly. Alison,

142
00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:17,360
Speaker 1: do you want to go out with John again? Um? Yeah, okay? Cool?

143
00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:20,559
Speaker 1: And you do have a job, right John? Yeah? Okay,

144
00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:23,960
Speaker 1: he doesn't have much of a backbone, but he has

145
00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:27,840
Speaker 1: a job. Would you guys say, oh, but you guys

146
00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,320
Speaker 1: all agree with me? Right? Yeah? Come on, like you

147
00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:31,960
Speaker 1: guys are acting like I'm ripping on the guy for

148
00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:34,160
Speaker 1: not a good reason. I don't mean to be mean

149
00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:35,800
Speaker 1: to you, John, I'm just saying, just next time, making

150
00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:39,520
Speaker 1: decision is all. No, Yeah, I get it, You're right.

151
00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:45,080
Speaker 1: See he's not even fighting back broken Jewil in the morning,