WEBVTT - Ep150: Gayillotine feat. Ryan Jamaal Swain 0:00:02.920 --> 0:00:08.479 Um, what do I hate? I know you'll hate when 0:00:08.520 --> 0:00:22.400 I start trying. She was like, Hey, guys, welcome to yeah, 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:26.240 another episode of Horrible Decisions. This is your girl, Mandy 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:28.520 b a k A pet the Stallion a k A 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:33.080 bitch And um, we I am sitting with two people today, 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:35.000 so I'm gonna let them go ahead and introduce them. 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:39.599 So we even do you have? Are y'all this Ryan 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:42.479 Jamal Swam better known as Damon On Pose a k 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:45.560 A petty lap a k A petty label a k A. 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:53.560 Just the Davis know my name? I do want to say, um, 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:56.160 and we did. I even just had a meeting recently. 0:00:56.440 --> 0:00:59.000 And I know for a lot of you guys who listen, um, 0:00:59.040 --> 0:01:00.880 and I'm sure a lot of your fans are new 0:01:00.920 --> 0:01:04.720 to listening to Horrible Decisions. Um, Horrible Decisions is a show. 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:08.920 Clearly you listen to us and we focus on destigmatizing 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:12.000 kinks for the black community. But it gets raunchy. So 0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:14.480 I don't know, if you know, don't listen up on 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:18.240 a Sunday after church. Um, But um, I don't know 0:01:18.240 --> 0:01:25.120 what I mean. Oh, So, as she said that to say, 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:27.639 we've been talking about like restrategizing and what are people's 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:29.560 favorite episodes? What do we do the people love? And 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:32.280 it's generally episodes with everyday people that are nasty, So 0:01:32.319 --> 0:01:36.560 we try not to bring people aren't. So when I 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:40.720 met you said something that I was like, I gotta 0:01:40.720 --> 0:01:43.800 have him on the show. I asked him about what 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:46.000 he was talking about theater. I started talking about slave 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:48.120 play and he looked at me and he goes, I 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:50.520 want you to sit there and understand and feel how 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:53.000 it feels, how you feel as a black woman to 0:01:53.120 --> 0:01:55.720 watch that happen, and how black women are. I said, 0:01:55.760 --> 0:01:59.040 you know, we need to call a horribles. Yeah, yeah, okay, 0:01:59.080 --> 0:02:01.800 So should we talk about how? But I mean we can. 0:02:02.000 --> 0:02:03.720 We should just talk about the last time. So basically, 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:07.720 wait La, because I was gonna say, if y'all heard 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:09.840 the episode a couple of weeks ago, she didn't already 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:14.799 brought up goddamn Mexico, come out. I think for the 0:02:14.800 --> 0:02:18.560 shout out. So, yeah, it's great. No, we have so 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:20.960 much fun. I get into the last lap, he's no, no, no, 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:23.720 I see someone else he's walking with. I was like, oh, 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:27.000 heque And then I saw Ryan and I'm like, I 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:29.040 went my dude, I said, I went okay. I'm like, 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:30.399 oh my god. I was like, you know, my show 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:32.240 I love. He's like, what's you. I'm like, pose, he's 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:35.320 like one of them gettingniggas boat. I was like, I 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:37.160 ain't gonna say no because, like I want people to 0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:40.120 enjoy their Yeah, I was with my cousin, Yes, Trevor, 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:44.080 Trevor Jackson. So I go to the bastin. Yes that's 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:51.240 the voice client. Yeah exactly. Yeah. We voy is like Trevor, 0:02:51.280 --> 0:02:53.080 I don't think he's ready for your show yet. I've 0:02:53.120 --> 0:02:56.320 already tried. But it was beautiful. Yeah, you know, yeah, 0:02:56.320 --> 0:03:00.799 that's my cousin. Like family of Beauty. Listen. Yes, I 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:03.280 come back from the bathroom and I see why do 0:03:03.360 --> 0:03:05.680 they go on the floor looking under a barn. I'm like, 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:08.520 what the fun was going on? He's like, oh, the 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:10.640 dude lost his car. And I'm like and I'm like, 0:03:15.280 --> 0:03:17.800 motherfucking bougie asked. He's like, I don't know if you 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:22.639 can find it, but it's Chase Private Clients. Yeah. Yeah, 0:03:22.680 --> 0:03:24.600 you know what I have been trying to figure out, 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:29.240 like the difference between like boogie and just outright just ridiculous. 0:03:29.400 --> 0:03:36.200 This ridiculou is just we were sprayed bottle, which influence, right, 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:40.200 that's why we did. Yes, we did, like you, I 0:03:40.560 --> 0:03:42.760 lost my damn devid car shout out to private clients though, 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:45.960 thank you all for we can't give a shout out 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:50.320 to chase me tie a client and then over talking 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:55.760 about niggle me too. I remember all of that, Oh 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:58.160 my god, mostly all the private clients. I need to 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:00.920 know what happened to the coke boat and why no 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:04.280 one has brought it up since you goddamn y'all don't 0:04:04.320 --> 0:04:06.840 know how the guy sees the boat of cod and 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:14.840 was it was that motherfucker's disappear. You want to talk 0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:16.840 about it, but you a private clients, I don't know 0:04:16.920 --> 0:04:27.719 nothing listening. Go ahead, you know that's how they chopped. Well, 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:34.880 anyway to Mexico, I met Jitano, I go across the street. 0:04:35.440 --> 0:04:37.800 I'm like, oh, look, there's black people there. No bullshit, 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:41.600 because we were the only other black people there running too. 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:44.919 We end up kicking it. So finally we go to 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:47.520 this Oh no, no one wanted to stop partying. So 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:50.560 he was like, where can right and I'm with I'm 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:52.040 with the crew. Now I'm like okay, so we'll be going. 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:54.720 So we try to go down somewhere and then it's closed. No, 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:58.680 let me explain. We've done a very rural looking road 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:01.720 and so f only this guy goes in a taxi 0:05:02.040 --> 0:05:04.159 if you want to take you to the Mexican party. 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:06.920 I'm like, well, maybe we shouldn't. He's like, no, let's go, yaw, 0:05:07.000 --> 0:05:09.520 we're that brave. Let's go. When they are chopping people 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:14.480 up and ship, mean, they have more meat to sell 0:05:14.680 --> 0:05:16.960 and more body part. Like we were one of the 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:18.839 people that if I needed to, I could beat the ass. 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:20.440 Like you know, you just like you do an observation, 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:22.559 you like look around and you're just like, Okay, they're small. 0:05:22.600 --> 0:05:24.320 They were small. This is what we're doing. This is 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:35.000 a Mexican My exes from Mexico City lives in Mexico City, Mexican. Oh. 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:41.039 I'm just saying, you know, like, so we get to 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:43.040 this dingy look at Mexican place and let me tell 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:48.600 you all koree bab they got you know, the buck 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:50.520 like beers and a bucket and ship. So I'm like, 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:54.159 now the lights already asked Ryan to come on, so 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:56.159 it should be semi professional. I'm like, maybe I should 0:05:56.279 --> 0:05:58.440 ask him if he wants to light sucking fine weed. 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:02.840 I don't know that's so for hey, do you want 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:06.320 in a foreign country? Yeah? Also, you know it's holiday, 0:06:07.880 --> 0:06:10.800 Brian's hanging with fucking LaQuan Smith. They're on there like 0:06:11.320 --> 0:06:14.160 she she, So I was like, maybe they don't want shitty, 0:06:14.320 --> 0:06:16.640 you know, something like listen do you want And he's like, 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:18.919 oh my god, yes, I'm like I'll bet you'll find it. 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:20.400 He's like, well from where I was like, give me 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:24.799 a minute, I'll put my days later, I was looking 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:27.400 for the Mexican plug and again we did. We found 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:30.360 him show did now ask you real quick? Can y'all 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:34.560 tell me what y'all think a Mexican plug looks like tall, tall, 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:38.440 taller preferably preferably has like a red shirt or a 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:42.160 jersey shirt, like something that is like so americanized that 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:46.000 it is like, wait, it's out of place. He did. 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:49.040 That's what That's what we were just like wait, because 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:51.760 you know, we were in Tuloom, like it's like parties 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:54.680 and then the roads and jungles. That's it. And so 0:06:54.680 --> 0:06:57.800 when I was just like wait, overly commercial, he got 0:06:57.800 --> 0:07:00.760 the bag, you know, you know, like that's what we Yeah, 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:04.719 we were making an obvious we drug deal in the 0:07:04.839 --> 0:07:07.159 corner that mind you, I already told my story about 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:09.039 the fake molly that I bought, So now I'm like this. 0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:14.040 So we get to the bathroom and we're in this corner, 0:07:14.200 --> 0:07:17.720 and he don't speak English, and neither we don't respense, 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:20.160 but I'm like, kwondo, I'm asking him, just like how 0:07:22.480 --> 0:07:24.400 you have bad day? Came for our Spanish A couple 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:36.160 of episodes ago, Oh goodness, manudo, huh good, I'm glad. 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:38.440 What's the nigga of Spanish people? What do they say? 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:43.080 Come jingo away? Right, that's Mexican. You can say away. 0:07:43.160 --> 0:07:58.880 You could say money like that's fun. Yeah, you like, oh, 0:07:58.960 --> 0:08:03.760 that's right. So we with the help of another Mexican. 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:07.360 So once we purchased our lord's weed, which he only 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:09.400 had hundreds and had to ask for change. That's what 0:08:09.320 --> 0:08:13.600 I mean. Can I have a tip? He had? He 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:17.360 had the audacity. Isn't this an entrepreneurial I don't know. 0:08:17.640 --> 0:08:20.760 But but the part of the taxes people, the part 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:22.640 of the story was that when we got in there, 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:25.120 we went straight to the bar. The bartender is like 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:26.960 taking pictures of us, like we celebrited. So I was 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:29.800 like wait, wait, wait where where like yes, that was that. 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:31.960 But then we went to the back end found our 0:08:32.160 --> 0:08:34.880 over commercial. But the man that was helping I don't 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:36.280 know if you remember this, the man that was helping 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:39.360 us speak Spanish was like, well I also to have Yes, 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:42.480 he also too has the thing the plug got you bro. 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:48.920 Now he's like, I'll help you from me. Now. It 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:52.840 was two of them and we both weth this one. 0:08:53.080 --> 0:09:00.480 So finally the club got so the ghetto. So we go, 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:04.760 oh no, and this is what I said, because your 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:06.800 Spanish was on no, no shade. It was so good. 0:09:07.160 --> 0:09:10.720 It was really good, just good. But she does I think, 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:18.559 I don't know, I don't know how to speaking to 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:26.079 be speaking English looking battle, I need to buy Spanish. 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:32.840 It just English would have okay. I was either drunk 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:35.760 or out of what was going on, but I was like, well, 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:38.560 we're staying at the art house and they're sure villa. 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:41.320 I'm like, ars is here and when this here? So 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:45.040 we're not going all back together spread with this terrible 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:48.040 weed and everyone's smoking it and then saying how bad 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:50.800 it is and smoking so much of this a regular. 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:52.840 They were like, I think I'm getting hot. It definitely grass. 0:09:53.160 --> 0:09:55.400 It was definitely it was placebo down for sure. I 0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:58.480 don't know if y'all seen. Well, a couple of weeks ago, 0:09:58.840 --> 0:10:01.520 I think she was in Detroit summer. Walker posted like 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:04.960 literally grass that she got. Someone sold her weed. She 0:10:05.080 --> 0:10:06.959 paid like over a hundred dollars or something like that, 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:09.280 and it was literally like a regular and grat I 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:11.360 swear to guy, can you find it? You know, if 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:19.600 if you can find looks her fault though, to be 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:28.360 honest like that, all this should look like Cilantrobin with seaweeds. 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:33.120 That's how you exactly exactly. The last final thing that 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:36.480 I remember, you may not is Ryan Wren, one of 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:39.760 the men's that were in the house. So do you 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:44.880 remember what do you mean you? So there was so 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:47.400 that I was ready that nobody was saying we have alcohol. 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:50.440 We had We had a little bit of alcohol, whiskey 0:10:50.840 --> 0:10:52.360 could get out of the house. We had a little 0:10:52.360 --> 0:10:54.520 bit of water left. You know, you can't drink the tap. Yeah, 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:57.119 So I was like, well we gotta drink slow. Everybody 0:10:57.240 --> 0:11:01.800 stick wisely. The SPAN student was like, you know, one 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.120 of my friends does not like we interviewed him, Brandon, 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:06.760 he does not like the N word. Honey. He's like, 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:08.559 I don't like it. I'm not comfortable with the in 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:11.240 Brandon is black, um, but he just doesn't like using it. 0:11:11.240 --> 0:11:15.120 A lot of black people that way, not him. Spanish 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:18.240 dude in the house that he didn't like that. He's like, 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:21.240 he's always taking me, but I'm black too. And Ryan 0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:26.400 was like, but he was Spanish it, you know, because 0:11:26.440 --> 0:11:28.800 because you know that, you know that the whole Dominican 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:33.480 Haitian like he's got black in him. But he was saying, 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:35.680 Brandon doesn't want me to say it because the African 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:39.959 American experience is different with the word, which is absolutely true. Um. 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:42.480 And so he was like, but I'm also black, so 0:11:42.600 --> 0:11:45.160 I can say it. And Ryan goes, and who told 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:49.360 you that? You know me? My university asked they you 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:51.920 know they taught me not. We don't play that, you know, 0:11:52.000 --> 0:11:54.240 because it was like one of those things where you know, 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:57.000 I think what black people are doing is just like 0:11:57.120 --> 0:11:59.880 reaffirming and like taking ownership, like taking it back to 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:02.360 the word back the same we do with home and slut. 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:05.199 Yeah yeah, so and bitch, like you know when you 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:07.839 say it's the difference between bitch and whatever, you know, whatever, 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:12.800 skank whatever whatever. So it's just like for me, I 0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:16.040 was I was triggered. Yeah, I'm actually what you're ever 0:12:16.080 --> 0:12:19.000 going to get consensus on how? I want to know why? 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:21.600 Because so my one of my best friends is Puerto 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:25.679 rican Um and she just had a panel and she 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:27.280 said nigga in front of a whole bunch of people 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:29.199 and they recorded, and I was like, did you just 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:31.520 say the inn word on stage? And me and her 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:33.520 get into that battle all the time when we're talking, 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:35.880 I'm like, don't say the n water with me? And 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:39.600 so did you did you further go into a read 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:42.240 as to why you don't want to think I did? Yeah, 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:47.199 I did, child did breaking on Grass? It was yeah, 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:48.839 it was yeah, it was. It was because then and 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:50.840 then Ryan's petty because I wasn't talking. He said, how 0:12:50.880 --> 0:12:54.040 are you feeling my life? Sensus? Oh yeah, because we 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:57.720 got because we got into colorism too. He brought that up. Yeah, 0:12:57.760 --> 0:12:59.960 because I think somewhere along the line he's like I'm 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:04.439 dark enough to say yeah, yeah, he says something like bullshit. 0:13:04.520 --> 0:13:05.920 I don't know. But but but the thing about it 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:07.520 is is what's so funny to me? And also with 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:09.719 the l G B t Q, I plus community when 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:12.760 they're black and when the others are beige. Is the 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:17.840 fact that everybody wants to benefit off of the struggles 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:20.000 and the things that the people of color have done. 0:13:20.720 --> 0:13:23.400 And I don't want to really really they want to 0:13:23.520 --> 0:13:25.280 use all the slang but not know what it means 0:13:25.360 --> 0:13:27.719 to be you know. And and I found that that's 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:33.600 what the conversation was with that gentleman, that young man. Um, yes, okay, 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:36.760 he was a lot hell do you I'm he was 0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:39.319 a lot younger. Yeah he was. He was a lot younger, 0:13:39.640 --> 0:13:43.359 but you know, and I will say I was asking questions, 0:13:43.600 --> 0:13:47.080 not not really feeling entitled, but sincerely like, I don't 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:49.000 get it. I have to be black to say this, 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:51.360 and I am black, and I acknowledge I'm black. How 0:13:51.440 --> 0:13:54.079 come now I'm just spinning? And I think and I 0:13:54.160 --> 0:13:56.480 think also there was some type of divide between the 0:13:56.520 --> 0:13:58.320 whole because he was a Dominican and then we were 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:01.520 trying to talk about like the Haitian evolution a moment, 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:05.520 but I talk about they would shoot you all the 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:10.920 leader can afrol Latinos say, nigga? I mean we ain't 0:14:10.960 --> 0:14:13.480 that podcast? Are we about to talk about now? Don't 0:14:13.520 --> 0:14:16.439 we don't see me. That's a serious question that I believe. 0:14:16.480 --> 0:14:19.360 I believe. I believe, I believe that you can. I 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:23.240 just feel like it cannot be like I know now, 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:26.280 it's like, so it's hard. Here's my thing. So we 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:30.480 have like that because you know that it's either context 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:34.120 and can choose when you want to be in intention 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:37.720 versus impact like you're saying, you're saying it just to 0:14:37.800 --> 0:14:40.280 be like, oh I'm I'm here too, I'm with y'all two, 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:43.200 or like actually know, it's like the same thing between 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:45.760 you go down the street as a person of color 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:48.120 or a person from African American or whatever, and you 0:14:48.200 --> 0:14:51.840 walk down the street and you you you know, what's up, 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:55.040 and the African from Africa gonna be like, what in 0:14:55.160 --> 0:14:57.320 the hill is going on? It's like it's very much 0:14:57.400 --> 0:15:01.680 like that. People. We have the same colloquialisms and the 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:03.920 man you know those those things. So it was just 0:15:04.120 --> 0:15:06.840 for me because his ass was coming from an entire place. 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:11.480 I had to read him first off, and then secondly, listen, 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:13.920 I hate I don't like the word that much either, 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:15.920 but I know that it's a it's when it's coming 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:18.440 to me, it's a form of endearment. It was just 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:22.840 like impact versus intention. I feel, you know, intention, Like, yeah, 0:15:23.120 --> 0:15:25.520 so vanilla ship is our segment where we talk about 0:15:26.080 --> 0:15:28.120 in the suit News, which will be the most vanilla 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:30.880 thing we talked about today? Now I see the headline. 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:35.960 What was that I heard? I was like, Oh, let go. 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:38.920 I watched Sex Explained last night. There sixteen minutes episodes 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:42.440 watched it. Yet Oh I know I didn't know Genell money. Yeah, 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:44.400 I didn't know that. I don't know either, But until 0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:50.240 she was like blasting it everywhere by yeah down, I 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:53.520 hope she don't read on that scale. Are your friends 0:15:53.760 --> 0:16:01.760 were good friends? He Janelle? If you're listening to your friends? Uh? So? 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:06.280 On Sex Explain, it started talking about attraction and how 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:10.120 attraction has to do with our environment, not the environment culturally, 0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:13.720 but from the womb. One crazy thing that they said 0:16:14.000 --> 0:16:15.720 and I had to keep googling it because I was like, 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:18.280 I need to see this research is that gay men 0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:21.680 generally have more older brothers when they have brothers than 0:16:21.760 --> 0:16:25.840 straight men do because the chromosomes are basically left in 0:16:25.960 --> 0:16:29.160 the mother's womb and your body is used to being 0:16:29.200 --> 0:16:36.880 around I don't know if it's the bottoms have more 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:40.360 older brothers. According to science, gay sist gendermen tend to 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:43.200 have more older brothers and straight sis sis men, but 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:48.320 the effect is particularly pronounced for bottoms. Um so basically 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:50.000 real quick, because we walked over the studio and she 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:53.000 goes to explaining this, and basically it's saying that because 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:54.960 of the chromosomes that are left in the womb, that's 0:16:55.000 --> 0:17:01.040 your environment and that is where you turn get baking 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:06.720 in there, baking a gay as a chromosome boy girl 0:17:07.040 --> 0:17:11.480 kind of bringing out you're baking their chromosomes. You Now, 0:17:11.600 --> 0:17:13.159 if you had a lot of why, that's when you 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:17.000 come out like little at of you just like you 0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:19.879 got a lot of big words. These fetuses wouldn't have 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:23.960 a lot of why. Chromosomes caused an immunological reaction in 0:17:24.160 --> 0:17:36.600 some mother. Mother, you a brother, you might a little bit. 0:17:37.040 --> 0:17:40.159 You know. It's not people to have older brothers, by 0:17:40.160 --> 0:17:44.119 the way, it's just the trend of gay men. The 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:47.080 people that have older brothers, like as far as like 0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:50.240 gay straits whoever, they're just saying gay men generally have 0:17:50.359 --> 0:17:54.479 them were on average, which because women I would think 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:57.000 it would be by the way, I would think it 0:17:57.000 --> 0:17:59.680 would be most men who grew up in a house 0:18:00.000 --> 0:18:05.000 hold of women tend right. I mean that's my experiment. 0:18:05.160 --> 0:18:08.159 But also, gay is not. I believe we're born the 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:12.399 way we are. I believe some fluidity has learned and 0:18:12.480 --> 0:18:14.120 you can grow. But I do believe if you're gay, 0:18:14.119 --> 0:18:16.119 you're pretty much were born that way, which gay is 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:18.359 science to me, it always has been. I think, my mom, 0:18:20.040 --> 0:18:25.719 you don't believe what that story. We're not gonna get 0:18:25.720 --> 0:18:27.520 itto no no, no, no, no no no. But I 0:18:27.640 --> 0:18:33.000 believe you know, I you women that don't make you know. 0:18:33.119 --> 0:18:35.000 But but the thing about it for me, and I've 0:18:35.040 --> 0:18:38.000 been I've been always about this train is like sexual fluidity, right. 0:18:38.080 --> 0:18:40.200 I just always have been about that, and I feel 0:18:40.200 --> 0:18:42.600 like they were moving towards that more so than anything. 0:18:42.720 --> 0:18:44.399 Like for me, I grew up with a bunch of women, 0:18:44.440 --> 0:18:46.240 like warrior women, so I respect them in a way 0:18:46.320 --> 0:18:50.120 that you know, I'm not like primitively like attracted to them. However, 0:18:50.680 --> 0:18:53.760 there are a few that I'm like, oh, well, to 0:18:55.040 --> 0:19:02.399 Tessa Thompson, definitely, um and uh oh, how am I getting? 0:19:10.320 --> 0:19:12.719 Well let's see, I mean, oh yeah, I do love her. 0:19:12.840 --> 0:19:14.560 I mean I love her and I just I love 0:19:16.200 --> 0:19:19.040 It's always fine, that's fine. No, but it's like, okay, 0:19:19.119 --> 0:19:20.680 Tess as a perfect example, I'm not gonna get out 0:19:20.680 --> 0:19:23.320 the second one, but like and regards like mascaline and 0:19:23.400 --> 0:19:26.240 feminine energy. You know, I love that in anybody period. 0:19:26.560 --> 0:19:29.600 So she and her husband's I don't want her. I 0:19:29.600 --> 0:19:31.040 don't want to do it for you her daddy. Can 0:19:31.080 --> 0:19:34.239 I get daddy? You know? Rihanna more like we got 0:19:34.280 --> 0:19:36.960 the same like birth chart, so we both were bought 0:19:36.960 --> 0:19:42.199 the same people stand like Beyonce Arianna to almost be sexualized, 0:19:42.440 --> 0:19:44.440 like I feel like when I look at these women, 0:19:44.440 --> 0:19:59.840 I'm like this, I will definitely I will okay for 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:15.040 eleven that is not leaving many bullshit what you know. 0:20:15.160 --> 0:20:17.720 The second we had an astrologist on right who read 0:20:17.960 --> 0:20:22.000 us with natal charge everything. So no, Mandy was feeling 0:20:22.080 --> 0:20:25.240 when she was like, you're confident, you're strong. She's like, right, right, 0:20:25.280 --> 0:20:27.359 and she was like sometimes you need to take control. 0:20:27.440 --> 0:20:32.119 She's like, see this is bullshit making ship up, but 0:20:33.440 --> 0:20:36.800 confident I have that. Yes, you say everything right, but 0:20:36.880 --> 0:20:39.879 it's bullshit. Well, because it also got into like some 0:20:40.440 --> 0:20:44.639 houses and universes, and I think that part I am. 0:20:45.320 --> 0:20:49.320 I'm so confused about houses and I don't. Yeah, I'm 0:20:49.320 --> 0:20:52.000 trying to still get that part everything I want to do. 0:20:52.040 --> 0:20:57.359 The Crouching Tiger, hid and dragon bullshit. Okay, damnit. You 0:20:58.000 --> 0:20:59.760 remember when you used to go to Chinese restaurant and 0:21:00.000 --> 0:21:01.479 you had to like pick your thing as a kid, 0:21:01.640 --> 0:21:04.520 was like a part of me. So I just ordered 0:21:04.560 --> 0:21:07.200 like this Chinese food. The other day, I went through 0:21:07.240 --> 0:21:09.320 the real quick because I want you to fortune cookie 0:21:09.680 --> 0:21:11.639 and I was like, let me read my fortune. I 0:21:11.760 --> 0:21:13.120 really like it. And I was like, see, I knew 0:21:13.160 --> 0:21:16.639 that she went with another one ship that I was 0:21:16.640 --> 0:21:18.240 going to get a letter from a loved one nigga 0:21:18.240 --> 0:21:22.520 a text. Don't I send letters that ain't in jail? 0:21:22.600 --> 0:21:27.840 No more? You don't do that. I don't because I 0:21:27.960 --> 0:21:30.639 missed all the stories. Ain't even in the picture no more. 0:21:30.640 --> 0:21:32.840 I don't even know watch brought him up, but I know, 0:21:33.000 --> 0:21:41.480 but but I feel that he didn't. That's my girl. 0:21:45.440 --> 0:21:49.720 Let's get the show. Got some nerve. My nigga that 0:21:49.800 --> 0:21:51.960 had the gun under the pillow. She was like, here's 0:21:54.119 --> 0:21:57.359 she's like eight years you know what I mean. I 0:21:57.520 --> 0:21:59.359 can't like a nigga with a gun under the pillow 0:21:59.400 --> 0:22:01.879 for safety. Oh my god, Oh my god, I'm not 0:22:02.000 --> 0:22:07.240 saying I'm in the ghetto, okay, we I mean the 0:22:07.240 --> 0:22:09.400 best tweet, the best tweet about that video was when 0:22:09.560 --> 0:22:11.440 the IB kids go off their hallway, you know, like 0:22:11.760 --> 0:22:13.639 did you have would you have schools where y'all had 0:22:13.720 --> 0:22:17.359 um and I be like hallways where the smart smart 0:22:17.359 --> 0:22:19.119 smart I went album School of Fine Arts and then 0:22:19.160 --> 0:22:23.920 I went to Howard Howard University like high school, the only, 0:22:24.920 --> 0:22:28.200 the only, But no, there's the like in some schools. 0:22:28.840 --> 0:22:31.640 How that baby boy or a girl or none binary 0:22:31.760 --> 0:22:35.680 on that video, um looks that's how the IVY kids 0:22:35.760 --> 0:22:37.959 usually look. So when he's like, I'm in the ghetto. 0:22:38.480 --> 0:22:42.359 But that and the tweet was when the IVY kids 0:22:42.800 --> 0:22:44.840 leave off their hallway and go to the public school 0:22:44.880 --> 0:22:47.800 area is the IB The International Baccalari is like a 0:22:47.920 --> 0:22:52.040 curriculum where you know the children, So they are kids, Yeah, 0:22:52.080 --> 0:22:54.760 they are the kids, Like that's how they look. He 0:22:54.920 --> 0:23:02.040 was he the very non binary look at me. You know, well, 0:23:02.080 --> 0:23:05.720 I'm excited to introduce this new segment um where you 0:23:05.760 --> 0:23:08.479 guys will hear we're shout out to one of our patrons. 0:23:08.520 --> 0:23:16.439 By the way, see that we don't don't do me basically, 0:23:18.160 --> 0:23:22.280 but she couldn't name it. Basically, yeah, it's gonna be Holfax. 0:23:23.080 --> 0:23:26.119 We're gonna call it the Fax. Um. Indeed, I hear 0:23:26.960 --> 0:23:30.200 I think x or that's how I mean. It's really affect. 0:23:31.119 --> 0:23:35.320 But listen, we're working on the name. As you guys know. Um, 0:23:35.520 --> 0:23:37.479 we we do focus on kinks and we will get 0:23:37.520 --> 0:23:41.439 back to kinks as we have crazy people, not crazy, 0:23:41.480 --> 0:23:43.840 I'm sorry, different people in the king community who come 0:23:43.880 --> 0:23:46.240 on and share. However, we are now going to introduce 0:23:46.520 --> 0:23:49.440 wild facts about sex that you did not learn in 0:23:49.560 --> 0:23:52.800 your history class. So this one. My kids knew that 0:23:53.080 --> 0:23:57.679 impotence trials were a thing in medieval France. There were 0:23:57.800 --> 0:24:00.320 very few ways that a woman could divorce her husband 0:24:00.359 --> 0:24:03.919 in the fifteen hundreds in France, but there was one dealbreaker. 0:24:04.320 --> 0:24:07.480