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Speaker 1: So we even do you have? Are y'all this Ryan

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Speaker 1: Jamal Swam better known as Damon On Pose a k

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Speaker 1: to listening to Horrible Decisions. Um, Horrible Decisions is a show.

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Speaker 1: Clearly you listen to us and we focus on destigmatizing

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Speaker 1: kinks for the black community. But it gets raunchy. So

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Speaker 1: we've been talking about like restrategizing and what are people's

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Speaker 1: So should we talk about how? But I mean we can.

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Speaker 1: Trevor Jackson. So I go to the bastin. Yes that's

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Speaker 1: I don't think he's ready for your show yet. I've

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Speaker 1: motherfucking bougie asked. He's like, I don't know if you

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Speaker 1: easy way to say you can't get up because somebody

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00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: get well, yeah you do. But the thing like I

421
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 1: would say, um, I don't have to say anything. I

422
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 1: just imagination, you know. So it's one of the things Pisces,

423
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:28,920
Speaker 1: I do believe in that ship. I didn't know, of

424
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 1: course you do. Oh okay, I was gonna like you.

425
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 1: But now that you have. Pis got a crystal on

426
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 1: his home. Yeah you know this is ours right anyway,

427
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 1: the sex, the sex. So I went to I did

428
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:51,439
Speaker 1: myself first to Little Trip in two thousand and seventy,

429
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: I went to Miconos to the church, went to the

430
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 1: church where they you know, have like they really do

431
00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 1: like crazy shit outside of their like fucking sucking please

432
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:02,959
Speaker 1: give me that location, like literally it is right there

433
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: on the dock. And the crazy thing about it is

434
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 1: what's so funny to me is that during the day

435
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: is like it actually is a church, and then during

436
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:18,199
Speaker 1: the nighttime it's debauchery. That's exciting. No, that's what I mean,

437
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 1: Like that was that was fab So anyway, I went

438
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 1: there that I went to Italy, but I went to Cicily. Cicily,

439
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: I went to Catania and they have like these these

440
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 1: these um what they called cruising bars, cruising bars, and

441
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,640
Speaker 1: every and every time that I'm there, nobody is there

442
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 1: and I and I try to go like at the

443
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,680
Speaker 1: times because that was my first time going, first solo

444
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:41,160
Speaker 1: trip first everything going there and was like I want

445
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 1: to go, I mean Italy, I wanted to do it.

446
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: I just want to picked this place. But then I

447
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 1: was like, let me go at two pm when nobody there,

448
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: just so I could be like, Okay, I see somebody,

449
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 1: but not really. Have you been to cruising bars like

450
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 1: in the city. No, But there is one that was

451
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: in an article of GQ um No i've been. Yeah,

452
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 1: I think I think where it was talking about how

453
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 1: men usually feel more comfortable masturbating in a group of

454
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 1: men versus like by themselves. That yea, So my friend

455
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 1: gonna put his name out there because he'd be doing

456
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 1: this article. Yeah. They literally, he'll he'll me there like parties. Yeah,

457
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 1: so they get together and they literally get in a circle.

458
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: They don't touch each other out either, They literally just

459
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 1: look at each other and jack and Jackie like and

460
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 1: it's more communal that because because I think when I

461
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 1: was a child, that's how I mean, those were some

462
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 1: of the first the first experiences that I had with

463
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 1: like not not even being attracted to them, just like

464
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: wanting some type of because I really didn't have any

465
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,119
Speaker 1: male friends when I was a child. Like I wonder

466
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 1: straight guys do that and they would never admit it,

467
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: but like, but like I think the percentage of the

468
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 1: men that are in those those clubs, I think about

469
00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 1: seven to are straight. So they'll just it's kind of high. Yeah. Yeah.

470
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: So it's like they'll sit over on a corner and

471
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 1: then you know they'll they'll just watch it. Yeah. And

472
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 1: there's a guy that I was that was like the

473
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:13,440
Speaker 1: straight men are joining masturbation club. That's what why they're

474
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 1: The guy was like, I'm not gay, but which to

475
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 1: be fair, he wasn't attracted men, but he would do

476
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 1: like the whole equal ox. Oh yeah, the old old girl.

477
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 1: I've never done that, but I've heard the stories. You haven't.

478
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 1: Are you a member? I am a member, okay, but

479
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 1: you haven't, so I do. But I know the different locations.

480
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: I do know the locations. What are the dirk Off ones?

481
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: Chelsea for sure? Chelsea definitely Columbus Circle that I've heard.

482
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: We will never have a sponsor talk. They are not

483
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: like world, like this world, so we won't get access

484
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: to any Equinox. Got it. Maybe i'll sports clubs or

485
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 1: you know, houses. There's only ten questions, but I feel

486
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 1: like they'll go forever. Ten questions with Ryan first two weeks, okay, swallows,

487
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: we are not childhood not because babe, like I had

488
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 1: sex with someone. They spit in my mouth for the

489
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: first time, like maybe I think a few days of

490
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 1: not a few days a few months ago, and I

491
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: was just I didn't know how to take it because

492
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 1: he was he was very like he was just very aggressive,

493
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: and I said, way, okay, you aren't here for that.

494
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: I wasn't here for all of it. You have to like,

495
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 1: did you know he was about two? Was your mouth? Like? No,

496
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: I did not know he was, but I did right right,

497
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: And then I was like, okay, something about could in

498
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: your mouth? Yeah, and I and that's that was the

499
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 1: first time that happened. And I said, m h, not

500
00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: not like that, not like that. It's recently. Um, I

501
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: just had sex, and I'm gonna explain that sex paid

502
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 1: on another sex. But he's been into my face and bitch,

503
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: and I was like, okay at the mouth. But the

504
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: thing is, these lashes though you didn't pay, Like, I

505
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie. I know, my lashes like apart because

506
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: they was wet, and I was just like, so he's

507
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: still sucking me. But I'm just like, no, actually I

508
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 1: still see it. I still see I still see I

509
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: still safe. There was a different way that I took it.

510
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 1: There's a different way you take a nigga spitting in

511
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: your face and nigga sting in your mask. And so

512
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Two seconds I left my body

513
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: left the room. No, no, no, that's what I mean.

514
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. So I guess that was my onset, like, okay,

515
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: that was the first time that and then yeah, then

516
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: I was just like and then I jolted. I said,

517
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 1: I thought, my body literally goes out. And then I said, wait, wait,

518
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 1: wait right, keep it going, keep it going with I

519
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 1: want you all to know that they're listening. And I

520
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: watched on YouTube that I just did air quote because

521
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: spit is disrespectful. I think it's fight. You're supposed to fight,

522
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, much like I think

523
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: the sucking dick thing sometimes, like with coming in my face,

524
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: is that disrespectful? Like that Secure episode? Now I agree

525
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: with this helps, but when I watched that Insecure episode

526
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 1: when Isa was tripping, I was like, girl, come on,

527
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: so I ain't gonna lie if you come on my

528
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: face my shoulder, just don't go my hair, ye aim

529
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 1: to where it I don't like, don't have me have

530
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: to go to the Dominicans. And because I'm gonna smell

531
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: your nut and my goddamn weird. So it's literally just

532
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: don't get it in my hair. Whether it's braids, we've

533
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: wig wait, it doesn't matter. Don't come in my hair.

534
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 1: That's a volume shooter. If he could I mean, I

535
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,719
Speaker 1: just i'd be like aiming for the mouth. I did

536
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 1: this ship the other day and I think I started

537
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 1: laughing while he was coming, would you because my makeup

538
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: was I didn't want to suck it up, so I

539
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 1: was just like, oh, he was like, wow, let's just go. Okay,

540
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: you can come. Now know that the guy, the guy

541
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: that spent in my mouth was from Miami, but I didn't.

542
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 1: I've never been to Miami. I just I was in

543
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: atlat I'm sorry, Italy, I know, but not Miami Canada.

544
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 1: Every time that our bezzil comes around, like shout out

545
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 1: to y'all, though, you know, because our fuzzle has changed, right.

546
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 1: You know we're from Florida, so I've been earlier in

547
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: the years of live in Miami's I think it's I

548
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 1: was born in for Laudendale, Florida. No, I have not been.

549
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 1: I have died. Wait okay when you said that, I

550
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 1: was confused. No, I haven't been. So I want you

551
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 1: guys that are listening to know what the proximity from Miami.

552
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 1: I've never we've never been. You live in Brooklyn. It

553
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: is going to Manhattan awkward, but I've never been. You like,

554
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 1: but if you live in Okay, hear me, No, but

555
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: we moved. Oh that's a good one. That is good. Yes,

556
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 1: that's what it's good. Is good? Guy really really black

557
00:32:56,480 --> 00:33:03,479
Speaker 1: nigga like you know Caio no it oh two minutes away. Yeah, okay,

558
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: haven't been because we we my greatgrandmother got sick when

559
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 1: I was six. We moved to Birmingham at that time. Yeah,

560
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: so yeah, so it was like, I really I was

561
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: not doing my my gay things. That's sick. Actually that's

562
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: a good When were you gay? Seven? So yes? Right? Oh,

563
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: you know I always I hate this question really but no,

564
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 1: I mean if we're if we're putting it on paper,

565
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 1: then I like what I like When I like it,

566
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, same same, same, same what

567
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 1: I like it? You know, I might want to climb

568
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: a tree one day. I might like to after yeah,

569
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 1: a whole after you know, dig it out and no

570
00:33:54,320 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 1: pun intended. But top to bottom, but give them in

571
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 1: a mark we need to add. We were talking up

572
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 1: the production of the show. Okay, talk the bottom. Describe

573
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 1: your perfect man? What would he look like? Oh, if

574
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:18,359
Speaker 1: you have to use the celebrity, that's also fine because

575
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: minus Davonte Road and or but Okay, that's that's that's

576
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: that's koke. Hell no love him down but no, um okay, okay,

577
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:39,800
Speaker 1: let's start beard. No clean face, clean face, maybe a mustang.

578
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 1: No he has like he might be doing the blonde

579
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:48,800
Speaker 1: up black down on the beer or like a different

580
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: Yes we got it. No actually actually yes actually, but

581
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 1: yes because that's a beautiful last man, and I am

582
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: plodding on that. Can we not keep pulling these? I

583
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: am trying to be a fishing here. You're plotting on him,

584
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 1: I'm plotting on him. We got twists. What's the boot?

585
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 1: I want to see the booth Woods? I said that

586
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 1: in the episode with mouth and then when they said

587
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 1: who's my Instagram girl? Crushed? It's his bitch now But

588
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: like Lolo Wood, look up Lolo Woods, and I love both.

589
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 1: He looks because if I'm mad at you, I have

590
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,839
Speaker 1: to be able to look at you after. And then

591
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 1: that's her black girl, the curly hero. She's beautiful. She's

592
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 1: a singer. She's not said she is. She's not a singe.

593
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: She pisces. Look, I mean I mean close close to

594
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 1: us because he likes that. Isn't he a scorpio? I

595
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 1: think he is close to us. Isn't he? Isn't he?

596
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: She's fine, she's fine. I'll take both of us from

597
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 1: him a few times, and I think I just want it.

598
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: Maybe no, I mean it's there because I wore better.

599
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 1: She better be doing. Yeah, she's beautiful. Oh yeah, I

600
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 1: think so. He is esthetically to me and like playful energy.

601
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 1: I love that. I like that to me someone who

602
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,799
Speaker 1: is gorgeous. And I also like his energy. And it's

603
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: probably because he's foreign. He's from Germany. Is boris kujo

604
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: but from Germany. I didn't know. Yes, he's black and white. Yeah,

605
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 1: he's from Germany. He's German and everything fast took me

606
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: and speak another like Spanish, Spanish. Don't call me mommy

607
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: while we fun. I don't like that, but I want

608
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: to hear something that I don't j He said, top

609
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 1: to bottom, top to like top, you know him talk

610
00:36:56,600 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 1: about you did it? Well. Now here's another one. So

611
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 1: have you ever kissed a woman? And if so, were

612
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: like no, no, no. So I had a girlfriend when

613
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 1: I was twelve in middle school. We were so we

614
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,360
Speaker 1: were doing nasty stuff before I even got into high school.

615
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 1: Like we we had this book, we found out we

616
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 1: had a we had a friend group that was like

617
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 1: one was in high school, wom was in middle school,

618
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 1: and they the only time they saw each other was

619
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: on a bus. So they had like a notebook where

620
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: they like wrote nasty ship to each other and then

621
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: just like yeah at twelve and just sent it back

622
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: and forth and then sent it back and forth. So

623
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 1: we were like, hey, let's do that too. But we

624
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: go to the same school. She's like a year older

625
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:39,360
Speaker 1: than be. So the damn principal, I'm talking about you

626
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 1: my rib and had a YadA like I want to this,

627
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,359
Speaker 1: you know all that, and then the principal I think

628
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 1: got it from her. I guess she was writing in

629
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,839
Speaker 1: it and one of she just took it up make

630
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 1: copies for both of our parents. My mom is sitting

631
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: there with the whole I see the copy on her

632
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 1: like nights there, like, I see how we zerocks the

633
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 1: whole thing. I said, that's so embarrassing, embarrassing. You don't know,

634
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: you don't know what you're talking about to me. If

635
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:11,320
Speaker 1: you're at twelve, you had more of social media and stuff.

636
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 1: And we had my Space at least by middle school

637
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 1: because I think, yeah, yeah, so I had my Space.

638
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 1: Bbow everything when that was our black space. Was five

639
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 1: years almost five years older than you. And I know

640
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 1: the access we had in the middle school you had, Yeah,

641
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 1: you have to use the duty that's what system. And

642
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,840
Speaker 1: the internet, you know, that's what you know. That's my generation.

643
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: And I was reading Zane books at me too, you know,

644
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 1: my old girl child. I was in a bathroom at

645
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: my grandma house reading them damn things. That's how I

646
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 1: like found about anything, you know, the car, the car stories,

647
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 1: the whole, all of them. Zane. Let me know, I

648
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 1: was a whole earlier. Yeah, and I was like swore

649
00:38:54,160 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: my man was gonna be midnight. Yeah, cket, Yes. When

650
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 1: do you remember your first boyfriend? Gay memory? So I

651
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,720
Speaker 1: wasn't a bad child. I was just sneaky. So I remember,

652
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:16,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I had I had boys come over to

653
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 1: my house like in the front and I come into

654
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 1: my house, but like park in front of my house. Um,

655
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 1: I don't know when was the first? Yeah? Yeah, so

656
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:34,320
Speaker 1: your first game memory was in high school? Yeah? Actually no,

657
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 1: I I had I lost my virginity when I was

658
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: sixteen and my my performing arts high school in the

659
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 1: bathroom that was connecting. So I was dating a dancer

660
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 1: and the dance and the dance the men's dance sixteen

661
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 1: girls room. No no, no, no no, but you know,

662
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: but like so you know, both performance um disciplines we had.

663
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,919
Speaker 1: We were connected by a bathroom like the men's dance

664
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 1: his dressing room and the men's actors dressing room, and

665
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 1: then there was a um bathroom in between. And there

666
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: was a beautiful boy from Niagara Falls, like you know, gorgeous,

667
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 1: gorgeous like he was. I think he was West West

668
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 1: Indian had like the whole thing. Yes, I know, people

669
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 1: lived there. They came to our Canada show like Niagara

670
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: Falls is the whole city. Yeah, it's a whole thing. Yes, yeah,

671
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 1: it's not just the water, but the Grand Canyon is

672
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 1: just you can't live in the Grand Canyon. Right when

673
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: do you say Niagard Falls. I was like, you're in

674
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 1: the water. That's how my brain, that's how you know

675
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: we are. But I been especially Alabama like this this

676
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 1: looks cute boy, because my high school also was a

677
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 1: boarding school. You could live there too, if you live Yes,

678
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 1: he was sexually yeah, so it was like and you

679
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:10,240
Speaker 1: know he was child and so no more coffee, coffee

680
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: weed water. Remember he texted me and I was in

681
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: class and he was like in discipline and he was

682
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 1: just like, hey, I'm downstairs. We've been contemplating this for

683
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 1: a while. So then I lost my virginity literally in

684
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 1: the shower of the bathroom. Um it was great, but wait,

685
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:31,720
Speaker 1: hold on, gay memory not like sex, like gay memory

686
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 1: like feeling that you were oh um four five in

687
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 1: five months cross down? No no, but like because then

688
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 1: the girl were you? Because I grew up, I grew

689
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: up in I grew up in a a in a household.

690
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 1: My grandfather was like my father figure, and he was

691
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 1: always when I was a child, being like, oh it's

692
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:58,360
Speaker 1: okay to say a man is handsome or he's he's like,

693
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: no attraction, it's just like he's a good looking man.

694
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, cool, well he's gorgeous and

695
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 1: he did pretty and this, and I was like wait.

696
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: Then I started realizing that I was attracted to them,

697
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 1: but I was trying to suppress it. So then but

698
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 1: I was also attracted to this the girlfriend with the

699
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 1: book as well. You know. I was just like, okay, well,

700
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: let's see what's going on. But I think also my

701
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 1: first thought probably was when my mom had to. She had, um,

702
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 1: A friend's friends that were married to white men that

703
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 1: were gay, and I remember feeling like right at home

704
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 1: at their house, like they were always the rich friends,

705
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: you know, the ones with memory of someone that's like

706
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 1: what you're thinking, Yeah, and like you know antiquated, you know,

707
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: um antiquated, Uh, like furniture, they had cards with you know,

708
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 1: man with Dixon, just laying on the damn coffee table.

709
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: Nobody saw me, Like nobody saw me, like get the

710
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,879
Speaker 1: deck and like look at the did Can I ask

711
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: you a question that um so poses a show that

712
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 1: I just started watching, um and your story to me literally, Um, well,

713
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:09,840
Speaker 1: my friend Carlo told me to watch it over the summer.

714
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: She would have it playing because she was catching up

715
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:14,839
Speaker 1: on all the episodes. UM. But I watched it because

716
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: I wanted to be sure I knew who your character was.

717
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: And as you're explaining you going to a performing arts school,

718
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 1: you seeing things on there, it's literally it's damon, it's

719
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 1: your character. And so I wanted to ask you because

720
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 1: in almost the opening credits of being introduced to your yeah,

721
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:32,839
Speaker 1: you know, well I don't know what part of the liver,

722
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 1: but um in the in the introduction of your character,

723
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 1: it was you almost feeling like you had to hide

724
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,279
Speaker 1: who you were to to the parents um in the show.

725
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: And then they found the magazine and you're saying you

726
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 1: enjoyed seeing the magazines and yeah, but also in terms

727
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 1: of you wanting to be this dancer and being introduced

728
00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: into the ballroom scene, I remember you being led by

729
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,879
Speaker 1: the character at the time, letting you know like you're

730
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 1: accepted into this community. You can still be as fabulous

731
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:09,240
Speaker 1: and do what you'd like and be respecting about your community.

732
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 1: So again, listening to you share your story, how easy

733
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 1: when you read that script was it to act out

734
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: all of those scenes. So at my my producers session

735
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:21,840
Speaker 1: with Ryan Murphy, Stephen Canals, Jenny Mark, all the people effects,

736
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 1: that was my second audition, and after I did the scenes,

737
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 1: they were like, sit down, we're going to do a

738
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: character interview. So then they asked me questions about my life.

739
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:33,359
Speaker 1: This is because your name is Yeah. They were like, yeah,

740
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 1: so what happened, how did this happen, When did this happen?

741
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: What was your favorite day? Like all of that, And

742
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm reading the script like thinking that

743
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 1: I've said that in confidence Okay, I got y'all as

744
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 1: you were your character. So like, listening to you say this,

745
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, how is how is name in different? Well?

746
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 1: I never got kicked out of my home, so I

747
00:44:54,800 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 1: think everything everything else. Yeah, yeah, did your parents react

748
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 1: the same way as they did in the show or

749
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 1: what was the reaction of I didn't. I didn't come

750
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 1: out until I was in college. I saw for my year,

751
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: so I was like, you know, having sex doing that

752
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 1: at sixteen, seventeen eighteen up until I left and then

753
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: I was about to go to study in London. What

754
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 1: age is that's that's that's fifteen sixteen, Yeah, that's twenty one.

755
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: In five years you come out and then you're literally

756
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 1: on a stage. You know. That's the crazy thing, like

757
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 1: not the best, the best, I'm the best gay and

758
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 1: I'm not. But yeah no, but like, um, yeah, so

759
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 1: I was I was doing Uh. I wrote a one

760
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,800
Speaker 1: man show about um links and Hughes, who's also like

761
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:50,359
Speaker 1: a queer you know um and I read read his autobiography.

762
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: They don't teach us that at all at all, you know,

763
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:56,879
Speaker 1: he's just speaker of the people. So I was like, Okay,

764
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 1: I'm going to create a show for my fundraiser to

765
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,400
Speaker 1: get to London to study theater. But my boyfriend at

766
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 1: the time was my production manager and we were doing

767
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 1: a show back in Alabama as a fundraiser. So I

768
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 1: was like, bitch, they're my mama. No, no, the moment

769
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: that you walk into my house, that you my nigger,

770
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 1: because how I better be reacted with you. So let's

771
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 1: go ahead and nip this in the butt. And his

772
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:20,399
Speaker 1: mom was crazy crazy. We had to lie and say

773
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,360
Speaker 1: my best friend was my aunt to get him to

774
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 1: get down there to bouy the train ticket like all

775
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 1: of that, because you know. So then his I think

776
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 1: the theater manager. His mom called the theater manager, gave

777
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 1: my gave his mom my my mom's mom, my mom's number.

778
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: His mom and my mom are talking. She's crazy talking

779
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: about my mom calls me and she was like, yeah,

780
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:45,319
Speaker 1: I talked to his crazy as mama. She's talking about

781
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: y'all boyfriends or something. I said, yeah, we are. She

782
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 1: said wait she and like a store, said wait, hold on,

783
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,320
Speaker 1: that means you're I said no, that just means that

784
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: he's my boyfriend. That's what it is. So she was like,

785
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you back. We can talk about this

786
00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 1: with you. So, like winter break of sophomore year was

787
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:04,800
Speaker 1: very hard for me. Did your mom say she always

788
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: knew that? Yeah? No, because I think what it was.

789
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 1: It's so funny to me because my mom introduced me

790
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:14,319
Speaker 1: to my first gay couple. You know, my cousins are

791
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: like Lesbie, like she has been with nothing but women

792
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 1: all my life. And then yeah, and then I was

793
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: just like, girl, did she did she respond differently than

794
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: your dad did my dad because even in the show,

795
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 1: the dad took it way. So during those times where

796
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 1: we're talking, when I'm a teenager, my mom and my

797
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 1: dad already separated. She was remarried to my um, my

798
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 1: stepfather at the time the abuse that happened with my stepfather.

799
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,360
Speaker 1: So what happened at the show was very much like

800
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 1: it was a whole mom My mom had to be

801
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 1: the part. I mean, I mean she and Ryan share

802
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:58,800
Speaker 1: that he actually got Ryan Murphy got kicked out of

803
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:01,839
Speaker 1: his home. So that was that was a very heal

804
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:03,840
Speaker 1: That was a healing moment for both of us because

805
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: I hadn't really dealt with it since I got out

806
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:09,279
Speaker 1: of school. I mean, well I had to deal with it,

807
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: and then now my mom's in my Season one premiere

808
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 1: episode one is playing, and my mom, my grandma, my aunt,

809
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 1: my sister, My mom is sitting next to me and

810
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:19,719
Speaker 1: she's like, I'm squeezing her hand because she's like she

811
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 1: remembered that moment where we were at a fish fry

812
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: and this happened. Like, yeah, so it was. It was

813
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:28,880
Speaker 1: very jarring. But it's a crazy because you know, the

814
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 1: last show that we see a queer um really like

815
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: hero or person that's like fighting for the causes justice

816
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 1: Smellett's character on on Empire, you know, well you know,

817
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 1: I mean next line. I mean, it's my place, my own.

818
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 1: You like acted your ass off. So even watching it

819
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 1: and then hearing your story moment, no, I happy about. Yeah.

820
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 1: I was watching a movie and recently I think Ola

821
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: was like I hate when black movies do this to us,

822
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 1: Like what I know, I ain't as many bad actors,

823
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 1: Like why do black pop just have to do this

824
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:07,879
Speaker 1: to us? That's why I posed to me was such

825
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:11,319
Speaker 1: a big because you get so invested. It's so real

826
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: and good, Like it's not just because it's black. Yeah,

827
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 1: it's just good. It's good writing, it's good, it's good cinematography.

828
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:23,359
Speaker 1: One of these more questions, Oh that's like you are

829
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,399
Speaker 1: who have you ever been on a dating app? Which

830
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 1: ones I was? I was just so, I I well

831
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: about the t M I but I don't give a fuck.

832
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:40,320
Speaker 1: That's how I love that. Okay, um, I use I

833
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 1: just got on the league. I just was. I've heard

834
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: of the league act that it's just like they yeah,

835
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 1: they suck it out. They like they only give you

836
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:53,919
Speaker 1: but three or four people to choose from a day,

837
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,320
Speaker 1: so you have and you know, like you gotta like

838
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Speaker 1: you gotta think you gotta because they're black. Yeah, um so,

839
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 1: but but I'm on but while I'm when I go

840
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: away for everybody that when I'm in my European and

841
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:09,800
Speaker 1: South America and every other place, I don't Yeah, I

842
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 1: use it here. But um there was a new one

843
00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 1: that I found when I was in Tuloom called three Fun,

844
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 1: which is about threesomes three fun field. No no, it's

845
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 1: oh girl, no, no, no, three fun. There's another one

846
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 1: called cruising, and we talked about that. Yeah, yeah, which

847
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:32,399
Speaker 1: is like I thought that to Loom doesn't have any

848
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 1: cruise in places is play at their Carmen and cause

849
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,839
Speaker 1: him out that I like the I realized that there

850
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Speaker 1: was saturated places, right, I'm not on Rio, they haven't.

851
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 1: I'm well, riya. I've noticed most friends that like have

852
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: notoriety because you can't screenshots like that. So that's good,

853
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 1: but I don't know if it has a strong gay presence.

854
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 1: So what's your profile say about you on a dating app? Oh,

855
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm gonna bring one up before you bring

856
00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:58,880
Speaker 1: it up. I'm curious to know if when you do

857
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 1: match someone, if they automatically ask you if you're real?

858
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 1: That's no, they do all the time. Like, there was

859
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 1: a few moments where I got a little lonely while

860
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 1: I was here and on Grinder and was like, they

861
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: were like are you Ryan Jamal Swain And I've already

862
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:18,319
Speaker 1: sent the dick pick So then I got to block

863
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 1: them at all like or like or like or like

864
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Speaker 1: r y and then space yah. He said yeah, but like, um,

865
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 1: but even my name is they haven't removed you. I

866
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 1: got removed off Bumble because people said no. But like,

867
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: let's see, Okay, this is about me. Let's see what happens.

868
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 1: Excited to potentially meet someone that will be a vibe

869
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 1: and a vessel. I played it same, but you know

870
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 1: the guy is and with the horoscope ship Ari's moon.

871
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 1: People were just like, your venus is areas. That means

872
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 1: you're a board already. She was like, damn yeah, he

873
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 1: was like my venus is an are so like sometimes

874
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:13,279
Speaker 1: I just get very I'm all for I'm all for

875
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 1: the person, and then I'm like, but my I have

876
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 1: Sagittarius rising and Sagittarius all about adventure, like, oh I

877
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: want to go here, I'll scare be aloof do that

878
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: sore in both Yeah, it's always bad, but the Pisces

879
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:25,800
Speaker 1: like calms me there. I was like, okay, I love somebody.

880
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:27,400
Speaker 1: But then I get you know what I called myself

881
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 1: on the show them ho No, I am the imo

882
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 1: ho no for real energy going on? Oh he okay.

883
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 1: When I was watching sex explain, there's this thing called

884
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 1: your discussed response, basically saying like what's nasty or gross

885
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 1: to you changes upon your rousal. So I want to

886
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 1: know what porn do you watch? That's too embarrassing to

887
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:01,239
Speaker 1: share because you're discusseds onto so high, Like what do

888
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: you start with? And then the horn year you get

889
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:06,240
Speaker 1: You're like, I'm gonna watch this. I start with groups,

890
00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:08,359
Speaker 1: I start with the group ones, like the ones where

891
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:11,319
Speaker 1: it's like there's this brand that does like when they're

892
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 1: like it's all men and it's like five or seven

893
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 1: of them and they're all like like fucking one one guy.

894
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 1: But it's like there's a type of point. I watch,

895
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 1: um all of the games, but there's this one and

896
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 1: series Yes, Yes, that one Yes, like's literally called if

897
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:38,880
Speaker 1: you guys are watching porn Heaven, you go to the

898
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 1: gay portion of it, you type in funk house and

899
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: there's literally there's one that's like fifty eight minutes. But

900
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 1: then they also break it into a lot of different ones.

901
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:48,359
Speaker 1: But a lot of times they are fucking one guy.

902
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 1: So there's one that I really like. There's three of

903
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:57,799
Speaker 1: them Leon by the by the pool. It is so good.

904
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 1: Yeah that like so so that so I of those,

905
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 1: But what's like disgusting ship important? Like I like a

906
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 1: lot of come swapping. You know the thing about I

907
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,920
Speaker 1: don't know if this is scientific and we can prove it, um,

908
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 1: let's get scientific. But like the cream pie moments, like

909
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: when people are like you know, penetrating and then it's

910
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 1: like it's like, um, there's like white like residue. I

911
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 1: don't know, if the ask does that naturally, it doesn't.

912
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:33,879
Speaker 1: Haven't talked about it with Dustin or maybe someone else,

913
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:36,480
Speaker 1: or I think I've had this conversation because a lot

914
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 1: of people think that the butt the but cream's income

915
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 1: yeah or like like and I don't know if it's

916
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:46,920
Speaker 1: science or nothing like that, but um, it's actually the loobe.

917
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 1: What it is? That type of things kind of like

918
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 1: if you wash your hands and it's a regular consistency

919
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 1: and then it becomes soapy. It's actually the lube that

920
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:01,800
Speaker 1: you was an anal that once you go in and

921
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:08,359
Speaker 1: out the friction causes it. But that does and then

922
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:13,320
Speaker 1: and the most disgusting one is like every now and

923
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 1: then I do watch the ones where people are like

924
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:20,759
Speaker 1: farting on the dick like the air, the air, like

925
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 1: the air, just like it's different than a pussy part

926
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 1: because now this is really coming out of your ask.

927
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 1: The part for noise is like gratifying, like yeah, I

928
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,840
Speaker 1: know that, Yeah, that's what it is. Essentially, that's a

929
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 1: new name, not like yeah, let's do a queef and

930
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: asked queef and ask queef quef. Not a cool that's

931
00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 1: coming back from next I'll be honest. The one that's

932
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 1: kind of weird to me that I've been recently watching,

933
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 1: and it actually when I watched, I get scared for

934
00:55:56,560 --> 00:56:01,279
Speaker 1: the actor. But it's like which one, Well, no, not

935
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: to calm down with the fisting, but yes, but there's

936
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:07,520
Speaker 1: one now and there's a whole series. Once you get

937
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 1: into one of TIXI down the rabbit hole and you

938
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:12,759
Speaker 1: watch them I do, but it's like where they're in

939
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:16,359
Speaker 1: a dungeon and contraptions and they bend the guy over.

940
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 1: One even puts them in a thing like where they

941
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 1: used to take people to the guillotine. So they get

942
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:25,399
Speaker 1: into the so they get into the guillotine and why

943
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 1: there it is the guillotine, but the guillotine and so

944
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 1: they're in it and they can't move, and normally they

945
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 1: start with like biggest toys that you know they can't

946
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 1: really take. Yes, I've seen, Yes, I've seen a little

947
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 1: bit of like the previews, and I kind of feel

948
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 1: sorry hurting, but it's like still interesting, like oh, I

949
00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 1: want my neig to be taking whatever I do and no,

950
00:56:56,280 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 1: but no, that's crazy sometimes like they have more sex.

951
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:02,479
Speaker 1: That's what it is. It is, and it's weird because

952
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 1: you can't mind great fantasies um at all. That's like

953
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 1: a thing. Thank god they don't, but it's crazy. So

954
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:11,360
Speaker 1: I want to shout out to all of our Twitter

955
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:13,960
Speaker 1: followers and our Instagram followers. They send us a lot

956
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: of the news. I do want to bring up one

957
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 1: of the things that someone brought. It was the number

958
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 1: four most watched video on porn Hub recently, and it's

959
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 1: a girl who is strapped to um some contraption and

960
00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 1: she's being forced to fuck, but she's clearly uh an

961
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,880
Speaker 1: adult and they say teen girl. So they were like,

962
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 1: what is it with pornos making it seem like it's

963
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 1: a teen being fucked instead of an actual just young woman,

964
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 1: you know. And that's that's one of those things where

965
00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:45,160
Speaker 1: we are so infatuated with children and well people looking

966
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 1: premature and like just like but we do it with

967
00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 1: black people because there's an innocence with a teen you're

968
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 1: the first one to have. So yeah, it's really just interesting,

969
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 1: like the rabbit holes that I think a lot of

970
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 1: us to get into with watching these porns. It's just like, Okay,

971
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 1: we need to know what we're just watching for enjoyment,

972
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 1: and it's just a come sing like well we know

973
00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: you like how much of come. I don't want what

974
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:14,280
Speaker 1: it is it honestly, I mean they have a lot

975
00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 1: of pineapples or something that I don't even need it

976
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 1: in my mouth. I just want to look at it,

977
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 1: like see it. Just I love the mess. And as

978
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 1: nasty as I am, that's probably one of the most

979
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: disgusting things. I don't want it call me if I

980
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: see it, even if we're sucking and we're so nasty,

981
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm your little slut and I'm saying

982
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:31,960
Speaker 1: all these nasty things. As soon as they call me,

983
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, ill, you're so nasty. Yeah, I want to

984
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 1: swallow it. Don't you have natys? Obviously I knew he

985
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 1: was recording, and then like you know what, you know

986
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: it's recording, and you're like, damn not gotta. We don't

987
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 1: want to see you have sex. Put the spin on listen.

988
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:57,320
Speaker 1: Once I was getting I was like I was the

989
00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: first day, I like to turn it off and he's like,

990
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: you really want me to turn it off? And I

991
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 1: was like, I can't. Okay, there might be for some happen,

992
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 1: you can't. You can't really, I can't find mine that

993
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 1: I made earlier. Oh, that's the word. Yeah, Like I've

994
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 1: had about five or six phones. Yeah, don't do eye cloud. No,

995
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:21,919
Speaker 1: I didn't know. Yeah, so you always have to keep

996
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 1: it on the actual device. That's how Rihanna got hacked.

997
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: Eye cloud is whenever something's Internet based, it can get

998
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 1: hacked your hard phone. Like I don't know how of

999
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: your phone I'm saying, like, I can't necessarily get hacked

1000
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 1: unless it's in someone's hand and opened, but if it's

1001
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:40,439
Speaker 1: uploaded to a cloud swere absolutely can be compromised. Yeah,

1002
00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:42,840
Speaker 1: like during that time, I don't think I don't happen.

1003
00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 1: I used to master recovery software right when I was

1004
00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 1: working in tech and this one office I went to

1005
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 1: a finance firm can't say the name. They're huge and

1006
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 1: global and had an entire floor of papers, and I

1007
00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 1: was like, oh, this is perfect. I'm thinking, like because

1008
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 1: each cabinet is like ten grand. Yeah, and he's like,

1009
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:03,800
Speaker 1: these are clients that make over a certain amount of

1010
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:06,280
Speaker 1: money annually and we can't put it in the cloud,

1011
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:09,040
Speaker 1: Like this literally has to be here. And they've replicated

1012
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 1: the document to other places in case buildings burned down,

1013
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 1: but it will never go in the cloud. That's how

1014
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 1: it was. My manager got got that ship for me

1015
01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 1: because I told her. You know, I'm very I'm very

1016
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 1: clear about how crazy I get with her. So I'm

1017
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:25,480
Speaker 1: just like, okay, yeah I did this, So can you

1018
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 1: got it? Because though at your age, because if you

1019
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:35,200
Speaker 1: if you're started here, imagine in five years. You know

1020
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Yeah exactly, they look at that tweet

1021
01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 1: or that video or whatever. Is that something that you've done, Like,

1022
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:44,000
Speaker 1: so you're on the dating apps to meet people, you're

1023
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 1: out parting. Have you gone through your old tweets or

1024
01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:50,680
Speaker 1: old social media? The crazy thing about the tweets thing

1025
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 1: is that I was so not I was so anti

1026
01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 1: Twitter for a long time that the only thing that

1027
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 1: was updating on that was like the Pissy the horoscope.

1028
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 1: So I was like, oh god, you can't. So when

1029
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 1: we first started a Horrible Decisions Twitter, I was going

1030
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 1: to use mine because followers, and I was like, you

1031
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 1: know what, bro, Like, I'm not gonna get canceled, so

1032
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:12,480
Speaker 1: I can't go back to all these listen stuff. It was.

1033
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:15,840
Speaker 1: It's terrible. I think I had one you have, UM

1034
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: one of did you want to ask this question? Um?

1035
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 1: And I think this is important just for people who

1036
01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 1: are listening, and have you encouraged Sis gay men that

1037
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:28,440
Speaker 1: aren't supportive of our transistors As an advocate, what do

1038
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 1: you do to have that conversation? And can people coming

1039
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: maybe see you in panel discussions and other things? What

1040
01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 1: is your voice outside of pose? What is your voice? No,

1041
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 1: I've done a lot of panels with like ci A

1042
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:45,480
Speaker 1: Social Impact and like um Finnway Health and uh it

1043
01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:48,560
Speaker 1: gets better and Trevor Project, like just trying to make

1044
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 1: sure that the youth understand that you know, there is

1045
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 1: in our own community a hierarchy system like a totem pole.

1046
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 1: You know, my transistors brothers and non binearis at the

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01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 1: at the end, at the bottom, you know, when everybody

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01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:05,640
Speaker 1: needs someone not to propose, but everybody needs someone to

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01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 1: make them feel superior. That's essentially how how it goes.

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01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 1: And if it's not you know gay will sis head

1051
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:18,400
Speaker 1: I mean since his gay man trying to bash lesbians

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01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:21,400
Speaker 1: or bi folk or you know black to black to

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01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:24,160
Speaker 1: white or or you know, you know whatever, I really

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01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 1: do make it my my mission, especially as assists queer

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01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 1: male like to be like, no, you have to understand

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01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 1: that this we have to fight for all privilege. Privileged

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01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 1: personifies itself in many different ways, pretty privileged, ugly privilege,

1058
01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:44,480
Speaker 1: sis to trans privilege, rich to poor privilege, color color privilege. Like,

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01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 1: we are all benefiting from something, some type of privilege, um,

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01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:51,480
Speaker 1: no matter how we like to see it. And if

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01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: we can be able to call ourselves and everybody else out,

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01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:57,000
Speaker 1: will call ourselves not everyone, we call ourselves out first,

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01:02:57,360 --> 01:02:59,720
Speaker 1: will provide a little bit more compassion for a lot

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01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:01,960
Speaker 1: of for a lot of other people. So for me,

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01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:05,120
Speaker 1: that's what I'm really really about. And this last year

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01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:08,920
Speaker 1: has been um and just since the pose has really

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01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:10,680
Speaker 1: opened my eyes to the ship that I was ignorant

1068
01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 1: to with my own community, you know because from Birmingham, Alabama,

1069
01:03:15,320 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 1: I didn't know if I have met somebody that has

1070
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 1: been trance or none binary in my life. But um,

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01:03:21,600 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 1: it really opened my eyes to how much we have

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01:03:24,120 --> 01:03:27,960
Speaker 1: to advocate for my my sisters and brothers and you

1073
01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 1: know your reach at first, like when I mean, obviously

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01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 1: we don't know how big that it was. It was

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01:03:33,320 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 1: crazy to me because I don't think I didn't have

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01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 1: a damon on my TV screen, you know what I mean,

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01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:43,040
Speaker 1: like at all. And now if you take a look

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01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 1: at these cartoons now as an adult. No, they're going crazy. Girl.

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01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:47,720
Speaker 1: I just had an all just for one of them

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01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:50,680
Speaker 1: last night. Yeah. Yeah, I had to do a voice

1081
01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 1: over last night. We'll send it in today. What what what?

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01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:57,440
Speaker 1: Little bit like? Yeah, And they're supposed to be children cartoons,

1083
01:03:57,480 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 1: but just the sexual in your windows. I just went

1084
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:02,200
Speaker 1: to the movie theater. It's all Jumanji is supposed to be.

1085
01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 1: Goddamn kids. It's much sexual. And you when I was

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01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:09,440
Speaker 1: talking about like horse dicks, and I was just like,

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01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 1: it is not it has now been, is it? PG?

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01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 1: You could be fourteen to talk about horse dicks. That's

1089
01:04:19,360 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 1: kind of normal, isn't it? Gay shows particular where you

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01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 1: see where I'm from, there's me show it is watching

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01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 1: a because to me, like a show like Pose is like,

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01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm going through that. I have those

1093
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 1: dreams blah blah blah. I don't have a place to

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01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:42,440
Speaker 1: watch this. But like, do you feel like more your

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01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:45,120
Speaker 1: advocacy has to heighten? Do you feel pressure? Oh? No.

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01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:46,760
Speaker 1: That was a conversation that I had with one of

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01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 1: my classmates from high school. He was just like, yeah,

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01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 1: I always wanted to ask you this. He's in his

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01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:53,240
Speaker 1: PhD at Stanford right now, like like a whole, like

1100
01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 1: a whole as one of the youngest candidates. PJ love you.

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01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: Um and uh, he was just because I always wanted

1102
01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:03,360
Speaker 1: to ask you because your visible, like your queerness has

1103
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:05,440
Speaker 1: been so like I've never known you to be this

1104
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:09,400
Speaker 1: queer in your life. And he was like, you should

1105
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:19,480
Speaker 1: have elevated like like this bright in my head, like

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01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:22,120
Speaker 1: what But he was like, do you think that the

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01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 1: show like you had to do that? And you know,

1108
01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 1: I always joke around when I'm in a in an

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01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:31,080
Speaker 1: interview because I think Ryan Murphy out of all of us,

1110
01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:34,160
Speaker 1: because in every article he was like the largest lgbt

1111
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 1: Q I cast, the largest, you know, So it was

1112
01:05:37,160 --> 01:05:40,240
Speaker 1: just like crazy, I said, well, I said, well, well,

1113
01:05:40,280 --> 01:05:43,120
Speaker 1: I can't go I baby. I mean it's already out there,

1114
01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 1: so here it is. But does it do you feel

1115
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 1: like you just always maybe we're this? Uh absolutely no,

1116
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 1: and and and that, And that's what the gag of

1117
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:57,360
Speaker 1: it all was. I think, really, my my family's because

1118
01:05:57,560 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 1: before when I realized that I was going into production

1119
01:05:59,880 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 1: for the show, I called all of my family and

1120
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:06,040
Speaker 1: was like, listen, I am queer, I'm going on this

1121
01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:08,480
Speaker 1: Queer Ass Show. I just want to let y'all know

1122
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 1: that this is happening. So no, no, I called everyone

1123
01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 1: because I was in New York training before we got done,

1124
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:16,720
Speaker 1: and I said, oh, I'm calling it like my grandmam,

1125
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:20,320
Speaker 1: my mama, my aunties, everyone, because I was just like, listen,

1126
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:23,000
Speaker 1: there's gonna be shipped when I go into these arts,

1127
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:25,240
Speaker 1: like these interviews where they're gonna be asking me about

1128
01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 1: my life, and I'm gonna be very transparent with them,

1129
01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 1: not not disrespecting y'all, but just distruct people that disrespected me.

1130
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 1: And and yeah, because like I think what it is

1131
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:39,360
Speaker 1: is like yourr trauma is not your responsibility, your healing is.

1132
01:06:39,560 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 1: And I think that for me to be as visible

1133
01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:44,920
Speaker 1: as I am being damon on like a young a

1134
01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 1: queer teenager. And then also in season when we talk

1135
01:06:47,360 --> 01:06:50,680
Speaker 1: about queer love and black queer love and you know this,

1136
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:54,920
Speaker 1: this very naive, very innocent boy going into this world

1137
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:57,560
Speaker 1: that is about is all six inches off the ground

1138
01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 1: and everybody is facilitating hurt. So it's like when he

1139
01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:04,040
Speaker 1: goes in there and not knowing anything. There's a lot

1140
01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:06,760
Speaker 1: of people in the Midwest and from out Intown, Pennsylvania

1141
01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 1: and from Miami and from you know, Oregon in Wisconsin

1142
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:14,040
Speaker 1: that have those space like have those those those experiences

1143
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:17,840
Speaker 1: and don't really get to see themselves seeing like there's

1144
01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:20,680
Speaker 1: radicalization and like normalcy. And I feel like Damon is

1145
01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:24,000
Speaker 1: a normal as character that was just in an extraordinary

1146
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:27,960
Speaker 1: circumstance and then what how he how his dreams and

1147
01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 1: how his circumstances thrust him into becoming who he is

1148
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:35,040
Speaker 1: and also recycling hurt like all of that. So that's

1149
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 1: a lot of from from to be clearly honest, a

1150
01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:43,080
Speaker 1: lot of um marginalized people, black Latin. You know. That

1151
01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:45,040
Speaker 1: was what I really liked about it. Yeah, like that,

1152
01:07:45,200 --> 01:07:48,800
Speaker 1: that's a lot of people space laos a lot. And

1153
01:07:48,880 --> 01:07:52,040
Speaker 1: I've been trying more on my show too, like oh

1154
01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:59,040
Speaker 1: I love Latino them, you know, I don't really, But

1155
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 1: he was like my in Mexico City and no, because

1156
01:08:02,240 --> 01:08:04,120
Speaker 1: I was I was gonna, I was gonna follow you there.

1157
01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:07,880
Speaker 1: I just to burn his house, Like I'm that crazy

1158
01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 1: that czy is that what pisces do? Because I just

1159
01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:14,600
Speaker 1: saw I saw the video on Twitter with two girls

1160
01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:22,000
Speaker 1: like putting gasoline all over the boyfriend's car. Video. We're

1161
01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:25,439
Speaker 1: not taping what'll do. We'll do it be like you.

1162
01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:28,599
Speaker 1: It was the same thing that I was talking about

1163
01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:30,880
Speaker 1: the production manager. I think he was dating somebody and

1164
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:32,960
Speaker 1: it was like a love triangle situation that was going

1165
01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:36,080
Speaker 1: on with me, boy boy, and he wouldn't answer my

1166
01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:37,960
Speaker 1: phone called text. He was like, you know, he was

1167
01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:40,479
Speaker 1: being that penny piece because he was also Pisces pulled

1168
01:08:40,520 --> 01:08:42,839
Speaker 1: him up. Yeah, so I pulled up, girl to Mexico,

1169
01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:45,200
Speaker 1: you pulled up. No, no, no, no, no, no no.

1170
01:08:45,400 --> 01:08:47,679
Speaker 1: This is the American this is when you were local.

1171
01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:51,280
Speaker 1: This local, this local boyfriend Mexico is I will get

1172
01:08:51,320 --> 01:08:53,240
Speaker 1: on the plane. I haven't been you know, I've not

1173
01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 1: been to Mexico since we broke up, Like that's three

1174
01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 1: years ago. Yeah, that was my first time being back.

1175
01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:00,280
Speaker 1: And I started crying on the plane while I there.

1176
01:09:00,640 --> 01:09:03,080
Speaker 1: You were triggering, So I really brought it up. I was,

1177
01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:09,080
Speaker 1: I know all about it, but I climbed over that

1178
01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:13,080
Speaker 1: damn fence because I climbing fences. I got cut on

1179
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:15,760
Speaker 1: my hands from like the fence. Like you know, why

1180
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:18,240
Speaker 1: don't Because good Dick is a prison and only you

1181
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:21,599
Speaker 1: can let yourself out. This is what I'm saying. Because

1182
01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:34,280
Speaker 1: dating is the ghetto. I want to like, do you

1183
01:09:34,360 --> 01:09:36,160
Speaker 1: have any more questions because we don't. We don't have

1184
01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:38,000
Speaker 1: a homemail. I want to found one. But it's just

1185
01:09:38,040 --> 01:09:39,680
Speaker 1: as long as the way to plug your ship. And

1186
01:09:39,720 --> 01:09:42,280
Speaker 1: I also want you because obviously post is so huge.

1187
01:09:42,439 --> 01:09:44,760
Speaker 1: Plug anything that you feel like is in your lane

1188
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:47,840
Speaker 1: but isn't getting recognized, whether it be a book an artist. Yeah,

1189
01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:51,479
Speaker 1: but you first, um yeah, yeah, yeah. So uh Instagram

1190
01:09:51,560 --> 01:09:53,960
Speaker 1: is Ryan Jamal Swain. Jamal is spelled with two a's

1191
01:09:54,000 --> 01:10:00,240
Speaker 1: behind the m okay girl pops up, but you just

1192
01:10:00,280 --> 01:10:04,599
Speaker 1: put Ryan j know to pop up with the blue check,

1193
01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:17,559
Speaker 1: not oka um and then Twitter Ryan Jamal and um. Also,

1194
01:10:17,640 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 1: I'm getting uh there on TV one on MLK Day one.

1195
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:26,600
Speaker 1: I'm being honored at the Urban one Honors And we

1196
01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:29,280
Speaker 1: filmed in December five, so I'm getting next to Jamie

1197
01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:33,439
Speaker 1: Fox and Sylvia Rohne Chance the rapper, Miss Yell, and

1198
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:37,599
Speaker 1: then it's myself and then Billy Porter is the list. Yeah,

1199
01:10:38,320 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 1: it was crazy to me, gir. I was sitting in

1200
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:41,920
Speaker 1: that day when we were filming it. I was sitting

1201
01:10:41,960 --> 01:10:44,960
Speaker 1: there like I'm looking at their montages and I'm just

1202
01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:52,400
Speaker 1: like the for real though on the front row in

1203
01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:55,720
Speaker 1: the middle with the with the loudest outfit shout out

1204
01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:57,040
Speaker 1: to that. But Dan, because it was a customer. I

1205
01:10:57,040 --> 01:10:58,080
Speaker 1: can't wait for you all to see that. I can't

1206
01:10:58,080 --> 01:11:04,479
Speaker 1: wait for the wait. But was just no, that's what

1207
01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:07,320
Speaker 1: I mean. And in my speech, which was lit, I

1208
01:11:07,479 --> 01:11:12,680
Speaker 1: was just like I did a flip in um. But

1209
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:14,839
Speaker 1: you know it was a call to duty, like a promise,

1210
01:11:14,960 --> 01:11:17,840
Speaker 1: like you know, because Kathy Hughes was I don't want

1211
01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:19,840
Speaker 1: to go into the history of her, but like as

1212
01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:22,280
Speaker 1: women on radio, you know what I mean. In podcasts,

1213
01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:26,040
Speaker 1: she was very much influence Howard University was influential in

1214
01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:28,320
Speaker 1: her space. Nobody wanted to give her any loan to

1215
01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:33,080
Speaker 1: start her Radio one Tycoon and there was just one

1216
01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:34,599
Speaker 1: man that gave her a million dollar loan and then

1217
01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:37,160
Speaker 1: it just just sore. So now this Urban One Honors

1218
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:39,840
Speaker 1: is actually celebrating forty years for Radio one as well,

1219
01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:43,920
Speaker 1: and she's one of the co hosts with Chris Chris Tucker. Yeah,

1220
01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:45,640
Speaker 1: you was in a room. Now, I was in a

1221
01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:47,880
Speaker 1: room while it was like Ryan, that what the that

1222
01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:50,320
Speaker 1: that damn dapper Dan? She is like, that's the little

1223
01:11:50,360 --> 01:11:57,200
Speaker 1: shi that I've never seen it. Monday Monday definitely check

1224
01:11:57,240 --> 01:11:59,840
Speaker 1: that out. But people that I want to shout out, um,

1225
01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:02,040
Speaker 1: I mean, she's getting buzzed. This is my friend, love

1226
01:12:02,120 --> 01:12:07,880
Speaker 1: you snow snow allegro. Oh yeah, she's popping. I'm yeah, Mr,

1227
01:12:08,000 --> 01:12:10,960
Speaker 1: I Mr. Concert too, and we were Yeah, my cousin

1228
01:12:11,040 --> 01:12:14,400
Speaker 1: Trevor Jackson. He's you know, just won the Beats Certified

1229
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:16,640
Speaker 1: Artists Awards and ladies. He fine. I don't know if

1230
01:12:16,640 --> 01:12:19,680
Speaker 1: he's single. You know he's he's single. I think he's

1231
01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:22,160
Speaker 1: still here too doing press. Y'all might see him on

1232
01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:27,439
Speaker 1: the street. Really well, we're gonna go to house after

1233
01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 1: this if you want to buy him. That nigger that's

1234
01:12:34,880 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 1: my I ain't know him by name him. That was him.

1235
01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:39,680
Speaker 1: That was the one that was on the floor the way,

1236
01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:41,400
Speaker 1: who was on the floor helping me. You you know

1237
01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:45,559
Speaker 1: your your your man was I knew him my name,

1238
01:12:45,760 --> 01:12:47,400
Speaker 1: you know, let him know I knew him by name.

1239
01:12:47,600 --> 01:12:52,040
Speaker 1: That was Let me stop you guy. You should you

1240
01:12:52,040 --> 01:13:01,679
Speaker 1: should see them right now. I eat it? Oh my god, Okay,

1241
01:13:05,240 --> 01:13:07,439
Speaker 1: then Daily Daily, you know Daily is a good friend.

1242
01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:10,439
Speaker 1: Amound the light scan, I mean the white scan with

1243
01:13:10,600 --> 01:13:13,479
Speaker 1: the curly red hair, the one that sing alone together

1244
01:13:13,600 --> 01:13:16,560
Speaker 1: Marsha ambrocious, that guy, I gotta check it out. I

1245
01:13:18,439 --> 01:13:21,000
Speaker 1: oh us your friends who were just in essence, and

1246
01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:23,479
Speaker 1: I just want to say I really thought me and Mandy.

1247
01:13:23,600 --> 01:13:26,280
Speaker 1: So we went in October and that come that long ago.

1248
01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:28,000
Speaker 1: I was. I looked at David the picture, so it

1249
01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:30,920
Speaker 1: was November. It was October, said one on one of

1250
01:13:30,960 --> 01:13:34,280
Speaker 1: the pictures. Didn't because Christopher came for Halloween. He was

1251
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:37,559
Speaker 1: with us. So hold on, bitch, I thought like they

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Speaker 1: it was. They were like, these bitches to problematic. We

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01:13:40,120 --> 01:13:43,000
Speaker 1: ain't gonna put them up. We we we said, we

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01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:48,320
Speaker 1: did the article photos a few months ago and it

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01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:50,360
Speaker 1: just came out. So when the new year started, I

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01:13:50,439 --> 01:13:54,840
Speaker 1: said maybe she was like you know what, and I

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01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:57,439
Speaker 1: do a lot of as saying, and so I thought

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01:13:58,479 --> 01:14:02,360
Speaker 1: for the people, yeah, you know, yeah we were the

1259
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:12,280
Speaker 1: song we are I hate. If you guys support us,

1260
01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:14,880
Speaker 1: it does mean a lot, because um, we are on

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01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:17,840
Speaker 1: the digital version, trying to get it to the print,

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01:14:18,240 --> 01:14:26,640
Speaker 1: trying to women in here. We're getting good. Thank you.

1263
01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:31,000
Speaker 1: We sent each other to the office. We're like, oh wow,

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01:14:31,040 --> 01:14:34,280
Speaker 1: these don't match. What No, but I love they We're

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01:14:34,320 --> 01:14:38,200
Speaker 1: supposed to do you or I think we planned on

1266
01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 1: plaid hardness. I love it, but I love it. Actually,

1267
01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:44,720
Speaker 1: I need to go to I need to go to

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01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:47,160
Speaker 1: a sex shop because I'm thinking about getting toys my code,

1269
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 1: my co co star told me today or my pattern

1270
01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:57,960
Speaker 1: shout out to the pattern app to getting sex. They

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01:14:57,960 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 1: said invest in a new toy today and already says oh,

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01:15:01,040 --> 01:15:05,559
Speaker 1: speaking of and they're not talking about Well, I want

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01:15:05,600 --> 01:15:07,439
Speaker 1: to shout out we may have it in the studio.

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01:15:07,479 --> 01:15:09,439
Speaker 1: I need to look. Um. I want to actually give

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01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:12,080
Speaker 1: a huge shout out to one of our previous guests, Um,

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01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:15,479
Speaker 1: King Noir. He is selling Dick Maltz and it's huge,

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01:15:16,760 --> 01:15:18,439
Speaker 1: he said. Both of us. Let's say, yeah, Well, I

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01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:20,680
Speaker 1: don't know if it's here. I gotta look. It might

1279
01:15:20,760 --> 01:15:23,120
Speaker 1: not be here. Pull that out. I don't know if

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01:15:23,160 --> 01:15:24,880
Speaker 1: it's here. I ain't look to see if we got

1281
01:15:24,960 --> 01:15:27,040
Speaker 1: it yet, but it should have been here. But I

1282
01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:30,519
Speaker 1: want to give a shout out to him. Um. And

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01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:32,599
Speaker 1: then who else do I want to give a shout

1284
01:15:32,640 --> 01:15:34,800
Speaker 1: out to? Oh? Just because I've been jamming it all week?

1285
01:15:34,960 --> 01:15:37,439
Speaker 1: Um shout out to the number one UM hip hop

1286
01:15:37,479 --> 01:15:38,920
Speaker 1: album and his number one for the first time in

1287
01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:47,080
Speaker 1: like fifteen years. It's just like so ghetto and fun

1288
01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:52,240
Speaker 1: but also just the whole album. Yeah, he got the

1289
01:15:52,360 --> 01:15:54,960
Speaker 1: it's the number one hunt finished. I think he had

1290
01:15:55,000 --> 01:15:57,240
Speaker 1: both the first he had like the number one wrap

1291
01:15:57,520 --> 01:15:59,720
Speaker 1: and the number one single single at the same time

1292
01:15:59,720 --> 01:16:04,719
Speaker 1: time in fifteen years, in fifteen years. Seriously, yeah, Kanye

1293
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:07,160
Speaker 1: Drake jay Z, no one's done this in fifteen years.

1294
01:16:09,920 --> 01:16:13,720
Speaker 1: Roddy Rich returns to number one on Billboard. Yeah, he

1295
01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:16,680
Speaker 1: became the first of all number one. That song makes

1296
01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:18,800
Speaker 1: me want to throw my circle. But it doesn't work

1297
01:16:18,840 --> 01:16:22,960
Speaker 1: that way, like my work doesn't like circuit, Like, yeah,

1298
01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:26,559
Speaker 1: I've to work on my work on mine because um,

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01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:28,720
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like I'll have to call on

1300
01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 1: it one day. But I mean, yeah, you know, but

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01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:34,560
Speaker 1: your dancing skills are up, Yeah they're but um, I

1302
01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:39,439
Speaker 1: just can't even listen to uh right Whinney Houston. You know.

1303
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:42,880
Speaker 1: Every time, every time that I every time that I

1304
01:16:43,040 --> 01:16:46,800
Speaker 1: hear it, I started sweating because I remember the whole day. No.

1305
01:16:47,320 --> 01:16:49,720
Speaker 1: So shout out to Ryan Heavington, who I don't know

1306
01:16:49,760 --> 01:16:52,040
Speaker 1: if you'll watch all the Sea of videos like the Chandelier,

1307
01:16:52,240 --> 01:16:55,920
Speaker 1: Lesta Car like all of those. He did the choreography

1308
01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:58,560
Speaker 1: for all of those. So Ryan Murphy was like, we

1309
01:16:58,640 --> 01:17:01,760
Speaker 1: want something like that. It felt like but then but

1310
01:17:01,920 --> 01:17:05,160
Speaker 1: then he was just like, um, we don't want it

1311
01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:07,880
Speaker 1: to polish because he needs somewhere to go, you know,

1312
01:17:07,960 --> 01:17:09,679
Speaker 1: he needs to be like a street dancer. That turned

1313
01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:12,600
Speaker 1: into like, I love how you got nervous, like you

1314
01:17:12,800 --> 01:17:21,639
Speaker 1: about to kill it. Yeah, any right, your cousin's gonna

1315
01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:24,400
Speaker 1: come say hi. But I do want to thank you

1316
01:17:24,479 --> 01:17:27,360
Speaker 1: for coming on guys. I really hope you um enjoyed

1317
01:17:27,840 --> 01:17:36,160
Speaker 1: this show. I want to say I hope that you

1318
01:17:36,200 --> 01:17:38,599
Speaker 1: guys enjoyed this episode to all of our old listeners

1319
01:17:38,640 --> 01:17:41,679
Speaker 1: are new listeners, um, we hope that you guys continue

1320
01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:42,960
Speaker 1: to listen to us. I do also want to shout

1321
01:17:42,960 --> 01:17:44,680
Speaker 1: out to all of you who continue to watch this

1322
01:17:44,760 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 1: on YouTube. I do want to let y'all know real quick,

1323
01:17:47,360 --> 01:17:49,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna drop it dramo please. As you guys know,

1324
01:17:50,120 --> 01:17:55,640
Speaker 1: we will be this Wednesday in Chicago. Get your motherfucking

1325
01:17:55,720 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 1: tickets Chicago. We are going to be at the Chicago

1326
01:17:58,320 --> 01:18:01,840
Speaker 1: Improv Harolds you some all of you. Bring the chicken.

1327
01:18:01,920 --> 01:18:04,560
Speaker 1: Bring the chicken. Let me finius. The day before we

1328
01:18:04,960 --> 01:18:09,240
Speaker 1: then Friday, Sony Hall, New York. But for y'all who

1329
01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:11,439
Speaker 1: rock with us so hard. In New York. We have

1330
01:18:11,640 --> 01:18:14,799
Speaker 1: a second show, so get your tickets now for Saturday, January.

1331
01:18:16,160 --> 01:18:18,320
Speaker 1: We are going to be at Sony Hall if you

1332
01:18:18,520 --> 01:18:20,479
Speaker 1: gonna throw us an after party. By the way, in

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01:18:20,479 --> 01:18:23,400
Speaker 1: any of these cities, many's gonna nave, including New York. Okay,

1334
01:18:23,720 --> 01:18:26,519
Speaker 1: just because the shows in doesn't mean people from can't

1335
01:18:26,560 --> 01:18:28,599
Speaker 1: come hit us up if you have a spot, if

1336
01:18:28,640 --> 01:18:31,320
Speaker 1: you want to pay us, because we're popping, Okay, Okay.

1337
01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:35,479
Speaker 1: So we are hitting up the state that is the biggest,

1338
01:18:35,520 --> 01:18:38,040
Speaker 1: where everything is known to be big and oversized, including

1339
01:18:38,120 --> 01:18:41,599
Speaker 1: Dicks Texas. We are going to be in Dallas, which

1340
01:18:41,640 --> 01:18:45,080
Speaker 1: can can I just pause real quick, Dallas, I funk

1341
01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:51,920
Speaker 1: with y'all Dallas right now? Can I just tell y'all

1342
01:18:52,160 --> 01:18:55,280
Speaker 1: it's over double Houston, So Houston, I need y'all to

1343
01:18:55,280 --> 01:18:57,680
Speaker 1: show up on the twenty three, So Dallas shout out.

1344
01:18:57,720 --> 01:19:00,880
Speaker 1: We'll see you guys on the twenty. We'll Houston on

1345
01:19:00,960 --> 01:19:03,800
Speaker 1: thee and then, guys, tickets are dropping this week, so

1346
01:19:03,880 --> 01:19:05,400
Speaker 1: I want to go ahead and let you guys know

1347
01:19:05,800 --> 01:19:08,599
Speaker 1: the dates for the city's y'all be motherfucker asking for Charlotte.

1348
01:19:08,640 --> 01:19:13,360
Speaker 1: Y'all have Wednesday, March fourth. We will be in Charlotte,

1349
01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:17,320
Speaker 1: North Carolina at the Comedy Zone Saturday, March seven. We

1350
01:19:17,400 --> 01:19:20,879
Speaker 1: are going back home to motherfucking Folks seven Choppa City, Orlando,

1351
01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:24,880
Speaker 1: Florida at the Orlando Improv. That will be a matinee show. Guys,

1352
01:19:25,120 --> 01:19:27,559
Speaker 1: so pull up. That will be a midday show Friday,

1353
01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:34,600
Speaker 1: March twenty, Atlanta, Giogia. Okay, bring them peaches, bitch. We

1354
01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:38,200
Speaker 1: will be at Center Stage in Atlanta on Friday March Saturday,

1355
01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:41,000
Speaker 1: March and I do want to announce this, but it's

1356
01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:43,519
Speaker 1: possible to change. We are working right now, but Saturday

1357
01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:48,360
Speaker 1: Marnline's Baby at the House of Blues, So come turn

1358
01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:51,920
Speaker 1: up all that ship also the show. That's kind of

1359
01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:53,840
Speaker 1: hurting my feelings, but I funk with y'all so hard

1360
01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:55,559
Speaker 1: I might not be able to do dream Bill because

1361
01:19:55,600 --> 01:19:58,559
Speaker 1: of this. We are going to San Francisco. Oh shoot,

1362
01:19:58,560 --> 01:20:03,320
Speaker 1: I skipped Toronto first. He Satiday, Toronto, California. Now Toronto, California.

1363
01:20:03,320 --> 01:20:07,120
Speaker 1: We literally couldn't find a fucking venue that could hold everybody.

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01:20:07,120 --> 01:20:10,240
Speaker 1: Start going back to the same one. That's so please

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01:20:10,720 --> 01:20:12,640
Speaker 1: get your tickets. We cannot do a second show for

1366
01:20:12,720 --> 01:20:14,920
Speaker 1: that one. We were every single venue in every city

1367
01:20:14,960 --> 01:20:17,519
Speaker 1: We've been trying to grow and doing larger audiences with Toronto.

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01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:20,880
Speaker 1: We could not one um, and then here we go.

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01:20:21,439 --> 01:20:25,600
Speaker 1: We are coming to the Bay, Bay Bay, San Francisco, California.

1370
01:20:25,760 --> 01:20:28,280
Speaker 1: You know we're going to the Bay. This is no bullshit.

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01:20:28,680 --> 01:20:30,880
Speaker 1: Sharon has hosted our l A show that Nigga got

1372
01:20:30,960 --> 01:20:33,080
Speaker 1: up there and said where y'all from, and then when

1373
01:20:33,120 --> 01:20:34,760
Speaker 1: they all said the Bay, he said, damn, but just

1374
01:20:34,800 --> 01:20:40,000
Speaker 1: gotta go. Yeah. So Sunday, Sunday April five, we are

1375
01:20:40,000 --> 01:20:43,760
Speaker 1: gonna be at Brava in San Francisco. Thursday, April the

1376
01:20:43,960 --> 01:20:46,280
Speaker 1: night we will be in l A at the Region.

1377
01:20:47,080 --> 01:20:48,519
Speaker 1: And then I want to go ahead and let y'all

1378
01:20:48,560 --> 01:20:53,679
Speaker 1: know we will have our Moca Fest live show on Saturday. Mate.

1379
01:20:55,080 --> 01:20:58,639
Speaker 1: If you guys um have not yet get your tickets

1380
01:20:58,720 --> 01:21:01,840
Speaker 1: at Moca fest dot com, use promo code horrible to

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01:21:01,880 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 1: say fifty dollars off. I think there are only rooms

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01:21:04,240 --> 01:21:07,280
Speaker 1: left at Hedonism resort Um. But you can't also buy

1383
01:21:07,360 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 1: the day pass. So with your day pass or party

1384
01:21:10,280 --> 01:21:12,600
Speaker 1: pass for the weekend, you will have access to the

1385
01:21:12,680 --> 01:21:15,000
Speaker 1: live show. You're also still working on our Vegas show,

1386
01:21:15,080 --> 01:21:16,960
Speaker 1: so hold tight, Vegas. We'll let you know where we

1387
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:20,040
Speaker 1: can find other than that. Enjoy this stiff for Patreon.

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01:21:20,520 --> 01:21:25,000
Speaker 1: Become a member body if you were able to live

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01:21:25,439 --> 01:21:28,040
Speaker 1: to the age of ninety and retained either the mind

1390
01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:30,760
Speaker 1: of a third year old for the last sixty years

1391
01:21:30,840 --> 01:21:34,760
Speaker 1: of your life the mind or body. Which would you want?

1392
01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:36,800
Speaker 1: If you're niney years old, you want the mind or

1393
01:21:36,840 --> 01:21:39,840
Speaker 1: the body of a third year old? The body. Can

1394
01:21:39,880 --> 01:21:43,680
Speaker 1: you imagine how you'll sound? She findest like I don't care.

1395
01:21:43,800 --> 01:21:45,920
Speaker 1: Like even when I was like in my in my

1396
01:21:46,040 --> 01:21:48,920
Speaker 1: early twenties, I always had an old soul. Niggas thought

1397
01:21:48,920 --> 01:21:51,160
Speaker 1: I was older all the time. I would pick the

1398
01:21:51,200 --> 01:21:55,200
Speaker 1: same I'm my body, I'll be seven. Do you have

1399
01:21:55,360 --> 01:21:58,840
Speaker 1: a secret hunch about how you'll die? I don't think

1400
01:21:58,840 --> 01:22:01,000
Speaker 1: about that. I think I'm gonna die. I do not

1401
01:22:01,280 --> 01:22:05,680
Speaker 1: think about um. It's so weird because honestly, I have

1402
01:22:05,800 --> 01:22:10,240
Speaker 1: a little flashes. But it's weird because when I'm in

1403
01:22:10,280 --> 01:22:14,879
Speaker 1: a car, when I'm with somebody like, I won't to me. Honestly,

1404
01:22:15,439 --> 01:22:17,680
Speaker 1: It's why I don't I all hop out of my

1405
01:22:17,760 --> 01:22:20,720
Speaker 1: friend's car believe that your date death day is like

1406
01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:23,200
Speaker 1: already written. No, I don't. I don't think about that.

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01:22:23,240 --> 01:22:25,760
Speaker 1: And I honestly want to get off this conversation. Well,

1408
01:22:25,800 --> 01:22:28,120
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm gonna die doing something adventurous like

1409
01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:31,080
Speaker 1: I think the scariest way for me to die, in

1410
01:22:31,120 --> 01:22:33,240
Speaker 1: my opinion, would be like drowning. I'm terrified of that.

1411
01:22:33,400 --> 01:22:35,240
Speaker 1: It almost happened to me once. There was like someone

1412
01:22:35,320 --> 01:22:37,599
Speaker 1: I was playing that chicken game whatever, what's it called?

1413
01:22:38,000 --> 01:22:42,599
Speaker 1: When you're on someone's shoulders chicken. Oh, well, she didn't

1414
01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:44,839
Speaker 1: realize that I was so deep under and I couldn't

1415
01:22:44,840 --> 01:22:46,720
Speaker 1: get up, and then her legs were wrapping around my neck.

1416
01:22:47,479 --> 01:22:50,040
Speaker 1: And I remember that feeling of almost passing out and drowning.

1417
01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:51,640
Speaker 1: And I would never want that to happen. But I

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01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:53,679
Speaker 1: do think when I die, I don't think about it's

1419
01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:56,680
Speaker 1: going to be like bungee to the next question number eight.

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01:22:57,280 --> 01:22:59,040
Speaker 1: Three things you and your partner appear to have in

1421
01:22:59,120 --> 01:23:05,680
Speaker 1: commons So you can answer this and you this is

1422
01:23:06,080 --> 01:23:08,840
Speaker 1: I was about to say thirty six questions to love

1423
01:23:08,920 --> 01:23:14,439
Speaker 1: each other? Um, what do we have in common? I

1424
01:23:14,479 --> 01:23:17,439
Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie. People listen to us, and I think

1425
01:23:17,479 --> 01:23:19,559
Speaker 1: now that we're three years in, they realized we don't

1426
01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:24,000
Speaker 1: have much in common outside of tol We both love

1427
01:23:24,080 --> 01:23:28,760
Speaker 1: to suck dick and we we both get our hair

1428
01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:33,000
Speaker 1: done with we've We both love to travel, we both

1429
01:23:33,160 --> 01:23:35,320
Speaker 1: love we both love our friends a lot. We love

1430
01:23:36,280 --> 01:23:40,599
Speaker 1: our friends. We both like ethnic foods. I was gonna

1431
01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:44,080
Speaker 1: say we both like bougie things, but I like Brachi,

1432
01:23:44,240 --> 01:23:47,960
Speaker 1: but were to Louis Bitten pers across it, and you see,

1433
01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:50,160
Speaker 1: I got a Burberry jacket. But this is just now

1434
01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:55,519
Speaker 1: like things that I couldn't afford um and I also

1435
01:23:55,720 --> 01:23:58,280
Speaker 1: used to. So the niggas that I've when I talk

1436
01:23:58,280 --> 01:24:00,240
Speaker 1: about sugar daddies and stuff like that, all of the

1437
01:24:00,280 --> 01:24:03,519
Speaker 1: men that I've dealt with are those that won't buy me.

1438
01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:06,559
Speaker 1: They would never they would never buy me tangible things.

1439
01:24:06,760 --> 01:24:09,360
Speaker 1: They would buy me things for school, they would pay

1440
01:24:09,479 --> 01:24:12,760
Speaker 1: for my bills, they would do things for my livelihood.

1441
01:24:13,040 --> 01:24:18,160
Speaker 1: But they're they're not materialistic niggas. So now that you

1442
01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:21,519
Speaker 1: know they know, I really don't need that money that way,

1443
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:24,200
Speaker 1: if I do ask for something, it's like, oh, I

1444
01:24:24,320 --> 01:24:26,320
Speaker 1: want this, and they're okay, Like I'm waiting on these

1445
01:24:26,360 --> 01:24:29,800
Speaker 1: wine cell shoes right now. So it's but also, yes,

1446
01:24:30,200 --> 01:24:34,040
Speaker 1: the pump that's my Valentine's list, that's literally what I'm getting. Well,

1447
01:24:34,160 --> 01:24:36,400
Speaker 1: it's crazy because so they have a boot version and

1448
01:24:36,479 --> 01:24:39,120
Speaker 1: open toe versions and a pump vers so the boots

1449
01:24:39,160 --> 01:24:43,760
Speaker 1: are seventred the and the other two are. So I

1450
01:24:43,920 --> 01:24:47,320
Speaker 1: was like, the boot is seasonal. Open to was also

1451
01:24:47,360 --> 01:24:49,320
Speaker 1: seasonal because we live, I said the pump I could

1452
01:24:49,360 --> 01:24:53,599
Speaker 1: wear a year round. I would get by the way.

1453
01:24:53,880 --> 01:24:58,000
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, but see even my even even on Louis,

1454
01:24:58,040 --> 01:25:00,840
Speaker 1: it's on like um combat boots. They set uncomfortable for

1455
01:25:00,880 --> 01:25:03,400
Speaker 1: me for those And yeah, just like, listen, that's what

1456
01:25:03,520 --> 01:25:05,760
Speaker 1: I want. I know that you like ship like this,

1457
01:25:06,000 --> 01:25:09,360
Speaker 1: but that's kind of tacky. I was like, it's not tacky.

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01:25:09,479 --> 01:25:11,720
Speaker 1: He's like, listen, it's too over the top. He's like,

1459
01:25:12,280 --> 01:25:13,840
Speaker 1: it's not. Then you could dress it down, but you

1460
01:25:13,880 --> 01:25:15,519
Speaker 1: can wear that with cargo pants. I was like, I

1461
01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:17,120
Speaker 1: don't know why you feel like it's too much. He

1462
01:25:17,200 --> 01:25:18,720
Speaker 1: was like, I think it's too showy. He was like,

1463
01:25:18,760 --> 01:25:20,400
Speaker 1: I'll get you some while I's all ship, but it's

1464
01:25:20,439 --> 01:25:22,040
Speaker 1: not gonna be all over it. And I'm like, then

1465
01:25:22,160 --> 01:25:25,160
Speaker 1: this body standing mad it. I'm not gonna lie like

1466
01:25:26,040 --> 01:25:28,360
Speaker 1: I'm one of those that didn't grow up with money.

1467
01:25:29,439 --> 01:25:32,680
Speaker 1: I don't have family members that have money, and to me,

1468
01:25:32,800 --> 01:25:35,879
Speaker 1: I don't believe in spending so much money on something.

1469
01:25:36,400 --> 01:25:38,400
Speaker 1: So I was talking to my homeboy about it, and

1470
01:25:38,439 --> 01:25:40,040
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, if I'm gonna buy something,

1471
01:25:40,400 --> 01:25:42,280
Speaker 1: the monograph is gonna be only because they're gonna know

1472
01:25:42,600 --> 01:25:44,479
Speaker 1: if it costs to a hundred dollars, they're gonna because

1473
01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:46,639
Speaker 1: theyre gonn see it. I don't want just a leather

1474
01:25:46,920 --> 01:25:49,439
Speaker 1: black leathers. I felt like the y s l like

1475
01:25:49,640 --> 01:25:52,560
Speaker 1: he'll was tasteful and not that much. And he's like no,

1476
01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:54,760
Speaker 1: he was like, real, Nias know when you have a

1477
01:25:54,800 --> 01:25:56,120
Speaker 1: certain kind of time. I'm like, well, I don't know,

1478
01:25:56,360 --> 01:25:57,920
Speaker 1: I don't know a bit start walking down the street

1479
01:25:57,920 --> 01:25:59,960
Speaker 1: with well, actually why I saw doesn't have the very

1480
01:26:00,040 --> 01:26:02,799
Speaker 1: around front with a certain kind of thing. But anyway, okay,

1481
01:26:03,000 --> 01:26:04,320
Speaker 1: Nine is for what in your life do you feel

1482
01:26:04,400 --> 01:26:06,439
Speaker 1: us frightful? Ten? If you could change anything about the

1483
01:26:06,720 --> 01:26:09,880
Speaker 1: your raise, that would be eleven. Tell take four minutes

1484
01:26:09,880 --> 01:26:11,599
Speaker 1: and tell your partner your life story and as much

1485
01:26:11,640 --> 01:26:13,960
Speaker 1: detail as possible. I think that's a good one too. Um.

1486
01:26:14,040 --> 01:26:16,639
Speaker 1: If you could wake up tomorrow morning having gained one

1487
01:26:16,800 --> 01:26:21,880
Speaker 1: quality or ability, what would it be? Can I get

1488
01:26:21,960 --> 01:26:26,759
Speaker 1: into my side fake? Yeah? Oh so I would want

1489
01:26:26,840 --> 01:26:30,880
Speaker 1: to be able to teleport anywhere in the world. Wow,

1490
01:26:31,000 --> 01:26:35,600
Speaker 1: mine was totally different. I'm thinking of magical powers. Well, like,

1491
01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:37,960
Speaker 1: what what abilities are you talking about? I was gonna

1492
01:26:38,000 --> 01:26:40,280
Speaker 1: say I would want like one quality I would want

1493
01:26:40,439 --> 01:26:43,640
Speaker 1: like I wouldn't want to be like super strong, Like

1494
01:26:43,760 --> 01:26:46,639
Speaker 1: I'm trying really hard to like build strength, Like that's

1495
01:26:46,640 --> 01:26:48,240
Speaker 1: something that's so important to me, like being able to

1496
01:26:48,320 --> 01:26:50,720
Speaker 1: lift myself up doing certain ships like that, and I

1497
01:26:50,800 --> 01:26:53,040
Speaker 1: feel like a failure every time, and so like my

1498
01:26:53,160 --> 01:26:54,720
Speaker 1: I T band has been sucked up. I haven't been

1499
01:26:54,720 --> 01:26:56,880
Speaker 1: able to work out, so it's all upper body. I'm

1500
01:26:56,920 --> 01:27:00,760
Speaker 1: gaining weight that I can't do pull ups for ship.

1501
01:27:00,880 --> 01:27:03,320
Speaker 1: Like my upper body strength sucks. But my lower body

1502
01:27:03,800 --> 01:27:07,040
Speaker 1: these thighs strong most people are. I can squat and

1503
01:27:07,120 --> 01:27:10,320
Speaker 1: do body yeah, but that's how I have a lot

1504
01:27:10,360 --> 01:27:13,280
Speaker 1: of lower body strength. Um, except I still ain't right

1505
01:27:13,320 --> 01:27:14,960
Speaker 1: In thirteen, if a crystal ball could tell you the

1506
01:27:15,000 --> 01:27:17,439
Speaker 1: truth about yourself, your life, the future, what would you

1507
01:27:17,479 --> 01:27:17,760
Speaker 1: want to know