Speaker 1: Rooking jewels. Second d D. Stephanie is on the phone
Speaker 1: with us and she wants to do a second date
Speaker 1: update today to call a guy who she met in
Speaker 1: what I could only describe as hell on Earth. I'm
Speaker 1: talking about a candle shop. There is a hell. It
Speaker 1: smells like a candle shop. I can tell you that.
Speaker 1: You talk about an instant headache. I can't stand in
Speaker 1: those places without wanting to vomit from all of the
Speaker 1: sense from the candles. But anyway, that's where she met
Speaker 1: the guy that she wants to call today. Hey, Stephanie,
Speaker 1: how are you Hi? I'm good, How are you guys? Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm just having PTSD thinking about having stood in a
Speaker 1: candle shop before. Oh, come on, and pretty amazing that
Speaker 1: you picked up on a guy in a candle shop.
Speaker 1: What men are in no space? I actually thought the
Speaker 1: same thing. I was a little I kind of noticed him.
Speaker 1: I was a little curious what he was doing there too,
Speaker 1: And you know, I gotta say, he looks pretty clue us.
Speaker 1: He was kind of looking at the candles and smilling
Speaker 1: them and making faces that I'm sure you're making right now.
Speaker 1: So was he a candle enthusiast or is he. I mean, no,
Speaker 1: I don't think so. He, like I said, he seemed
Speaker 1: very out of place and kind of shy. So I
Speaker 1: decided to kind of go over and just see if
Speaker 1: we needed some help. A nice move. Yeah, yeah. We
Speaker 1: started talking and he said he was trying to buy
Speaker 1: a candle for his mom. Okay, okay, I thought I
Speaker 1: was so sweet. Right. Do you think this guy is
Speaker 1: just trolling candle shops and making up a story about
Speaker 1: his mom. It's pretty smart. Well, I mean I guess
Speaker 1: it kind of worked, but no, but no, really though,
Speaker 1: I helped him pick out a candle and he went
Speaker 1: and bought it, and we both left the store and
Speaker 1: that was it. He didn't ask me out or anything.
Speaker 1: But when he left, I was actually thinking that I
Speaker 1: thought he was pretty cute and maybe it was a
Speaker 1: missed opportunity. And then actually half an hour later we
Speaker 1: ran into each other at another store in the mall
Speaker 1: and the betting section of somewhere, just like this guy's
Speaker 1: buying candles and comforters just domesticated dude. Surprisingly not No.
Speaker 1: At this point I kind of realized, you know, why
Speaker 1: not just go for it. I was a little nervous,
Speaker 1: and I don't do this a lot. But I basically
Speaker 1: asked him if he wanted to hang out again. That's awesome.
Speaker 1: So you asked him out? Yeah, I asked him. I know,
Speaker 1: you know it's a little forward, but why not. Sometimes
Speaker 1: you gotta you know, you got to make moves for yourself,
Speaker 1: right right. Absolutely, Yeah, And it worked. It was because
Speaker 1: he seemed excited about that and we exchanged numbers. Let's
Speaker 1: just picture of this guy calling his friends after like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you guys, I was shopping for candles.
Speaker 1: I mean, this really cute girl totally asked me out.
Speaker 1: My god, what did you guys do for your day? Well?
Speaker 1: I texted him first and asked him if he wanted
Speaker 1: to beat up, and he said yes. I ended up
Speaker 1: choosing a restaurant to go to. Okay, so you guys
Speaker 1: did a full on dinner. We did dinner, and we
Speaker 1: ended up meeting. It was a Friday night. I picked
Speaker 1: a restaurant that was had a nice feel to it,
Speaker 1: but wasn't over the top or not, you know, crazy
Speaker 1: expensive or anything. It was moderate. We had a great time,
Speaker 1: you know, the conversations were great and it went a
Speaker 1: little longer than I kind of expected. So the next thing.
Speaker 1: I knew we had been at the restaurant for a
Speaker 1: little over two hours. But a lot of times that's
Speaker 1: a good thing, right, You're like, oh my god, we've
Speaker 1: been talking forever. Yeah, I mean that's what I thought.
Speaker 1: You know, it must mean that it's because we were
Speaker 1: just talking and we lost track of time because we
Speaker 1: were having a good time, and it wasn't just you talking, right, No,
Speaker 1: it was definitely definitely on his time to talk to Okay,
Speaker 1: I allowed him to speak at certain points, but I
Speaker 1: thought that, you know, maybe the night would progress, maybe
Speaker 1: he'd come over, or maybe it would just be, you know,
Speaker 1: to figure out when we would want to get together again.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but by the end of the night,
Speaker 1: he seemed a little maybe like something else was on
Speaker 1: his mind, or he was a little upset or a
Speaker 1: little agitated. What was he doing to make you feel
Speaker 1: that way? You know, when you can tell you're looking
Speaker 1: at someone and you can tell that they're looking back
Speaker 1: at you, but in the back of their mind they're
Speaker 1: not with you. Right by the end of the night,
Speaker 1: I just kind of got that feeling, and he was
Speaker 1: he wasn't talking as much. I was much more of
Speaker 1: the conversation and maybe he was thinking about some potpourri
Speaker 1: he had to pick up or something. No, I honestly,
Speaker 1: I don't know. He's kind of left it at that
Speaker 1: and by that time we were pretty much done with dinner.
Speaker 1: We said goodbye, we hugged, and that was it, and
Speaker 1: he'd made no mention of seeing you again. No, honestly,
Speaker 1: I mean I expected to maybe get a text from him,
Speaker 1: if not that night, then at least maybe the next day.
Speaker 1: But now it's been a while and I haven't heard
Speaker 1: from him even once. No candle recommendations from him, No candle, nothing,
Speaker 1: no interesting. All right, well we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call him and get your second date update. All right, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: brooking jubil in the morning. Second, if you're just tuning
Speaker 1: in for today's second date update, Stephanie is on the
Speaker 1: phone with us, and today she wants to call a
Speaker 1: guy that she met in what I like to refer
Speaker 1: to as the Land of the Zombie boyfriends. Talking a
Speaker 1: candle shop, candle shops, craft stores, target on a Sunday afternoon,
Speaker 1: you see nothing but just dead eyed boyfriends following their
Speaker 1: girlfriends around, waiting for death's sweet release. It's one of
Speaker 1: the worst places you could ever possibly be such an
Speaker 1: accurate But this guy actually doesn't have a girlfriend. He
Speaker 1: was just shopping for a candle for his mom and
Speaker 1: they struck up a conversation and she ended up asking
Speaker 1: him out. They went out to dinner, had some decent conversations,
Speaker 1: she says. At the end of the date, he seemed
Speaker 1: a little distant, gave her a hug, and then walked
Speaker 1: out of her life. Forever, she hasn't heard a word
Speaker 1: from him. Are you ready to give him a call? Stephanie? Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's do it. And you really want to go out
Speaker 1: with this guy again? I do you know that? I
Speaker 1: really felt like we had an instant connection and I
Speaker 1: really couldn't tell you why he hasn't responded. It's very
Speaker 1: strange to me. Okay, you want to date this guy
Speaker 1: so that you can make him your boyfriend and then
Speaker 1: you can drag him to the candle start and then
Speaker 1: you can buy candles for me. Yeah? Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: here we go. I'm gonna dallas phone of her right now. Hi.
Speaker 1: Can I speak to you please? Yeah? This is see Hey,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the morning. What have you heard of Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jewil in the Morning and it's a radio morning show. No,
Speaker 1: well that's who we are. Okay. Do you want to
Speaker 1: know why I'm calling you? Yeah. We do a segment
Speaker 1: on our show called the second Date Update. So you
Speaker 1: recently went out on a date with a girl named
Speaker 1: Stephanie and Stephanie said she had a great time and
Speaker 1: then emailed us because you haven't been responding to her
Speaker 1: phone calls or text messages. So I said, hey, let's
Speaker 1: get on the phone and find out why he doesn't
Speaker 1: like you. Oh no, do you have a few minutes
Speaker 1: to talk to us about your date with Stephanie? I guess,
Speaker 1: but rather not have You are an honest person, Archie,
Speaker 1: you can just give us a little bit information. She
Speaker 1: was just really confused. Can you just sell her that
Speaker 1: I made a mistake and I'm really sorry? What kind
Speaker 1: of mistake did you make? Buy the wrong candle at
Speaker 1: the candle store? She told us about how you guys man? Uh, okay,
Speaker 1: I will talk to you, but you have to promise
Speaker 1: to not use my name. WHOA Okay, I promise you
Speaker 1: we will be about your name. Okay, Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: So what's the issue. Um, did you even like her? Yeah?
Speaker 1: She's cool. Okay, I like to pause before you said cool.
Speaker 1: It's like she's um, I think, okay, yeah, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, no, she was she was cool. Uh,
Speaker 1: this is my this is my bad, this is my fault.
Speaker 1: It's not hers. Okay. So she didn't do anything wrong.
Speaker 1: No no, no, I did something wrong and she's great. Whoa,
Speaker 1: So what did you do wrong? Then? I? Uh, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, but it's gonna sound really bad. Okay,
Speaker 1: not bad. It's gonna sound bad, but it's not bad.
Speaker 1: We usually it's bad. Like I didn't ask her out,
Speaker 1: Like I ran into her later and she asked me out, okay,
Speaker 1: And I don't know. It's never happened to me. Was
Speaker 1: someone just like I've never had someone asked me out.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. But I have a I have
Speaker 1: a girlfriend. Oh, come on, you have a girlfriend. But
Speaker 1: you went on a date with her? What? Yeah? She
Speaker 1: she caved me in a candle shop and she started
Speaker 1: talking to me, and that was weird. And it's weird
Speaker 1: for a girl to talk to you. Yeah, that never happened. Seeart,
Speaker 1: I just panicked and I Colera was there to get
Speaker 1: a candle for my mom because you liked the female
Speaker 1: attention you were getting from her. That sounds right, I was,
Speaker 1: I was there shopping for my girlfriend. Oh so the
Speaker 1: candle wasn't for your mom at all? No, okay, but
Speaker 1: why did you agree to go on a date with her?
Speaker 1: If you had to go? Didn't? She didn't ask me
Speaker 1: out there? We ran into each other again, and then
Speaker 1: she asked me out, and I've just again was so
Speaker 1: floored by it that I said, yes, okay, but you
Speaker 1: couldn't have said I'm sorry, thank you very much, but
Speaker 1: I have a girlfriend. I suppose I could have said that,
Speaker 1: but you didn't. I did not, and even after, like
Speaker 1: there was plenty of opportunity for you to text later
Speaker 1: and said I'm sorry. I was so flattered. I'm not single,
Speaker 1: do you know? I thought I might tell her, and
Speaker 1: then things just got busy and I just didn't. I
Speaker 1: don't know how many times had just happened to me.
Speaker 1: It's always a good excuse too, What do you tell
Speaker 1: your girlfriend? Like? Why were you out with another girl? Oh? Man?
Speaker 1: She asked me out? And then things got busy and
Speaker 1: I couldn't turn it down. It was a really bad idea.
Speaker 1: I don't know why I did it, but we went
Speaker 1: out and I could barely eat more than like two
Speaker 1: bites because I felt so guilty the whole time. And
Speaker 1: it was just She did say that when you guys
Speaker 1: were out, you seemed a little distant. I'm assuming it's
Speaker 1: probably because you were thinking about what you were doing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was thinking about my girl friend. I didn't I
Speaker 1: didn't cheat on her. We didn't do anything. It just
Speaker 1: we just went out to dinner and nothing happened. I
Speaker 1: think going on a Friday night date with somebody else's
Speaker 1: kind of considered cheating. It wasn't a Friday night, it
Speaker 1: was just I don't think it matters what day of
Speaker 1: the week it was on. You still went out. It
Speaker 1: could have been a Tuesday night. You still went out
Speaker 1: to dinner with somebody else. And why did you never
Speaker 1: come clean afterwards? When she was texting you and wanted
Speaker 1: to see you again? It yo, I was going to
Speaker 1: text her back, Well why didn't you? Because I just figured,
Speaker 1: you know, I had a girlfriend, so just ghost out,
Speaker 1: all right. Well, unfortunately, you can't completely cut her out
Speaker 1: of your life just yet, because she's actually on the
Speaker 1: other line listening to this conversation right now? What no? Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, Stephanie, are you serious? Right? What were
Speaker 1: you thinking? I'm sorry. I don't even know what to say.
Speaker 1: It's it's my fault. It is not your fault. I'm
Speaker 1: so sorry. I don't care. You went out to dinner
Speaker 1: with me, that's a date. You didn't even think about
Speaker 1: how it would make me feel. Nope? No, oh my god.
Speaker 1: Yeah no. I just said yes to the date and
Speaker 1: then went out and realized, Oops, I made a mistake. Ohoy,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that again. I am so sorry. If
Speaker 1: you were great, wow, you were cool? You were somebody
Speaker 1: really should date you? How dare you if I was single? Man?
Speaker 1: You're great? Is there any chance of you being single?
Speaker 1: How long have you been in your relationship that you're
Speaker 1: in three years? And is this the first? Wow? I
Speaker 1: feel sorry for her. Is this the first time you've
Speaker 1: been out with another woman since you've been in your
Speaker 1: three year relationship? This was the first time a woman's
Speaker 1: ever asked me out? So I said yes? For some reason? Idea?
Speaker 1: Why I said yes? Yeah? I mean I kind of
Speaker 1: feel you a little bit, but you still should have
Speaker 1: told her you have a girlfriend, Do you like want
Speaker 1: out of your relationship and you're just trying to look
Speaker 1: for a way to end it? No, And honestly, going
Speaker 1: out with her made me like realize how much I
Speaker 1: love my girl for like even more? Oh, come on,
Speaker 1: you hear that, Stephanie. You helped save a relationship, I think,
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Yeah, is there any signs that he
Speaker 1: had a girlfriend? Like? No, No, you should have known
Speaker 1: when he was in a candle shop right off the bat.
Speaker 1: You should have never talked to him. Yeah. I guess
Speaker 1: I can't trust men anymore. Ever, No, no, no no, just
Speaker 1: dudes in candle shops. Can never trust them. Yea. I
Speaker 1: would love to ask you if you're going a second
Speaker 1: date with Stephanie, we will pay for it. No, no,
Speaker 1: a second Are you really? Really? No? I'm asking not you, Stephanie.
Speaker 1: Sever you were great. If I was single, Holy man,
Speaker 1: I would so glad on a date with you. But
Speaker 1: still not though, Wow, no, no second date? Are you
Speaker 1: gonna tell your girlfriend about this? Uh? Yeah? Yeah right,
Speaker 1: come on, We're a better liar than that broken jupil
Speaker 1: in the morning.