WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Love Stinks like a Candle

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jewels. Second d D. Stephanie is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us and she wants to do a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update today to call a guy who she met in

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<v Speaker 1>what I could only describe as hell on Earth. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about a candle shop. There is a hell. It

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<v Speaker 1>smells like a candle shop. I can tell you that.

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<v Speaker 1>You talk about an instant headache. I can't stand in

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<v Speaker 1>those places without wanting to vomit from all of the

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<v Speaker 1>sense from the candles. But anyway, that's where she met

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<v Speaker 1>the guy that she wants to call today. Hey, Stephanie,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you Hi? I'm good, How are you guys? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just having PTSD thinking about having stood in a

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<v Speaker 1>candle shop before. Oh, come on, and pretty amazing that

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<v Speaker 1>you picked up on a guy in a candle shop.

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<v Speaker 1>What men are in no space? I actually thought the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing. I was a little I kind of noticed him.

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<v Speaker 1>I was a little curious what he was doing there too,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I gotta say, he looks pretty clue us.

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<v Speaker 1>He was kind of looking at the candles and smilling

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<v Speaker 1>them and making faces that I'm sure you're making right now.

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<v Speaker 1>So was he a candle enthusiast or is he. I mean, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. He, like I said, he seemed

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<v Speaker 1>very out of place and kind of shy. So I

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<v Speaker 1>decided to kind of go over and just see if

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<v Speaker 1>we needed some help. A nice move. Yeah, yeah. We

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<v Speaker 1>started talking and he said he was trying to buy

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<v Speaker 1>a candle for his mom. Okay, okay, I thought I

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<v Speaker 1>was so sweet. Right. Do you think this guy is

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<v Speaker 1>just trolling candle shops and making up a story about

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<v Speaker 1>his mom. It's pretty smart. Well, I mean I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of worked, but no, but no, really though,

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<v Speaker 1>I helped him pick out a candle and he went

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<v Speaker 1>and bought it, and we both left the store and

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<v Speaker 1>that was it. He didn't ask me out or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>But when he left, I was actually thinking that I

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<v Speaker 1>thought he was pretty cute and maybe it was a

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<v Speaker 1>missed opportunity. And then actually half an hour later we

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<v Speaker 1>ran into each other at another store in the mall

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<v Speaker 1>and the betting section of somewhere, just like this guy's

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<v Speaker 1>buying candles and comforters just domesticated dude. Surprisingly not No.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point I kind of realized, you know, why

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<v Speaker 1>not just go for it. I was a little nervous,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't do this a lot. But I basically

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<v Speaker 1>asked him if he wanted to hang out again. That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>So you asked him out? Yeah, I asked him. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know it's a little forward, but why not. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta you know, you got to make moves for yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>right right. Absolutely, Yeah, And it worked. It was because

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<v Speaker 1>he seemed excited about that and we exchanged numbers. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just picture of this guy calling his friends after like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, you guys, I was shopping for candles.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this really cute girl totally asked me out.

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<v Speaker 1>My god, what did you guys do for your day? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I texted him first and asked him if he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to beat up, and he said yes. I ended up

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<v Speaker 1>choosing a restaurant to go to. Okay, so you guys

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<v Speaker 1>did a full on dinner. We did dinner, and we

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<v Speaker 1>ended up meeting. It was a Friday night. I picked

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<v Speaker 1>a restaurant that was had a nice feel to it,

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<v Speaker 1>but wasn't over the top or not, you know, crazy

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<v Speaker 1>expensive or anything. It was moderate. We had a great time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the conversations were great and it went a

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<v Speaker 1>little longer than I kind of expected. So the next thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew we had been at the restaurant for a

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<v Speaker 1>little over two hours. But a lot of times that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good thing, right, You're like, oh my god, we've

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<v Speaker 1>been talking forever. Yeah, I mean that's what I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it must mean that it's because we were

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<v Speaker 1>just talking and we lost track of time because we

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<v Speaker 1>were having a good time, and it wasn't just you talking, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it was definitely definitely on his time to talk to Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I allowed him to speak at certain points, but I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that, you know, maybe the night would progress, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he'd come over, or maybe it would just be, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out when we would want to get together again.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but by the end of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>he seemed a little maybe like something else was on

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<v Speaker 1>his mind, or he was a little upset or a

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<v Speaker 1>little agitated. What was he doing to make you feel

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<v Speaker 1>that way? You know, when you can tell you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>at someone and you can tell that they're looking back

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<v Speaker 1>at you, but in the back of their mind they're

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<v Speaker 1>not with you. Right by the end of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of got that feeling, and he was

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't talking as much. I was much more of

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation and maybe he was thinking about some potpourri

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<v Speaker 1>he had to pick up or something. No, I honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. He's kind of left it at that

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<v Speaker 1>and by that time we were pretty much done with dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>We said goodbye, we hugged, and that was it, and

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<v Speaker 1>he'd made no mention of seeing you again. No, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I expected to maybe get a text from him,

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<v Speaker 1>if not that night, then at least maybe the next day.

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<v Speaker 1>But now it's been a while and I haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>from him even once. No candle recommendations from him, No candle, nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>no interesting. All right, well we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call him and get your second date update. All right, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>brooking jubil in the morning. Second, if you're just tuning

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<v Speaker 1>in for today's second date update, Stephanie is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with us, and today she wants to call a

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<v Speaker 1>guy that she met in what I like to refer

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<v Speaker 1>to as the Land of the Zombie boyfriends. Talking a

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<v Speaker 1>candle shop, candle shops, craft stores, target on a Sunday afternoon,

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<v Speaker 1>you see nothing but just dead eyed boyfriends following their

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriends around, waiting for death's sweet release. It's one of

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<v Speaker 1>the worst places you could ever possibly be such an

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<v Speaker 1>accurate But this guy actually doesn't have a girlfriend. He

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<v Speaker 1>was just shopping for a candle for his mom and

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<v Speaker 1>they struck up a conversation and she ended up asking

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<v Speaker 1>him out. They went out to dinner, had some decent conversations,

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<v Speaker 1>she says. At the end of the date, he seemed

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<v Speaker 1>a little distant, gave her a hug, and then walked

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<v Speaker 1>out of her life. Forever, she hasn't heard a word

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<v Speaker 1>from him. Are you ready to give him a call? Stephanie? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do it. And you really want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with this guy again? I do you know that? I

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<v Speaker 1>really felt like we had an instant connection and I

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<v Speaker 1>really couldn't tell you why he hasn't responded. It's very

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<v Speaker 1>strange to me. Okay, you want to date this guy

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<v Speaker 1>so that you can make him your boyfriend and then

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<v Speaker 1>you can drag him to the candle start and then

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<v Speaker 1>you can buy candles for me. Yeah? Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. I'm gonna dallas phone of her right now. Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I speak to you please? Yeah? This is see Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. What have you heard of Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil in the Morning and it's a radio morning show. No,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's who we are. Okay. Do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>know why I'm calling you? Yeah. We do a segment

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<v Speaker 1>on our show called the second Date Update. So you

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<v Speaker 1>recently went out on a date with a girl named

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<v Speaker 1>Stephanie and Stephanie said she had a great time and

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<v Speaker 1>then emailed us because you haven't been responding to her

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<v Speaker 1>phone calls or text messages. So I said, hey, let's

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<v Speaker 1>get on the phone and find out why he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>like you. Oh no, do you have a few minutes

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to us about your date with Stephanie? I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>but rather not have You are an honest person, Archie,

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<v Speaker 1>you can just give us a little bit information. She

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<v Speaker 1>was just really confused. Can you just sell her that

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<v Speaker 1>I made a mistake and I'm really sorry? What kind

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<v Speaker 1>of mistake did you make? Buy the wrong candle at

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<v Speaker 1>the candle store? She told us about how you guys man? Uh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I will talk to you, but you have to promise

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<v Speaker 1>to not use my name. WHOA Okay, I promise you

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<v Speaker 1>we will be about your name. Okay, Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So what's the issue. Um, did you even like her? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>She's cool. Okay, I like to pause before you said cool.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like she's um, I think, okay, yeah, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no, no no, no, no, she was she was cool. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my this is my bad, this is my fault.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not hers. Okay. So she didn't do anything wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>No no, no, I did something wrong and she's great. Whoa,

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you do wrong? Then? I? Uh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you, but it's gonna sound really bad. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>not bad. It's gonna sound bad, but it's not bad.

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<v Speaker 1>We usually it's bad. Like I didn't ask her out,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I ran into her later and she asked me out, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know. It's never happened to me. Was

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<v Speaker 1>someone just like I've never had someone asked me out.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know. But I have a I have

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<v Speaker 1>a girlfriend. Oh, come on, you have a girlfriend. But

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<v Speaker 1>you went on a date with her? What? Yeah? She

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<v Speaker 1>she caved me in a candle shop and she started

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<v Speaker 1>talking to me, and that was weird. And it's weird

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<v Speaker 1>for a girl to talk to you. Yeah, that never happened. Seeart,

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<v Speaker 1>I just panicked and I Colera was there to get

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<v Speaker 1>a candle for my mom because you liked the female

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<v Speaker 1>attention you were getting from her. That sounds right, I was,

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<v Speaker 1>I was there shopping for my girlfriend. Oh so the

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<v Speaker 1>candle wasn't for your mom at all? No, okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>why did you agree to go on a date with her?

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<v Speaker 1>If you had to go? Didn't? She didn't ask me

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<v Speaker 1>out there? We ran into each other again, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she asked me out, and I've just again was so

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<v Speaker 1>floored by it that I said, yes, okay, but you

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't have said I'm sorry, thank you very much, but

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<v Speaker 1>I have a girlfriend. I suppose I could have said that,

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<v Speaker 1>but you didn't. I did not, and even after, like

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<v Speaker 1>there was plenty of opportunity for you to text later

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<v Speaker 1>and said I'm sorry. I was so flattered. I'm not single,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know? I thought I might tell her, and

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<v Speaker 1>then things just got busy and I just didn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how many times had just happened to me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always a good excuse too, What do you tell

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<v Speaker 1>your girlfriend? Like? Why were you out with another girl? Oh? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>She asked me out? And then things got busy and

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't turn it down. It was a really bad idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why I did it, but we went

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<v Speaker 1>out and I could barely eat more than like two

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<v Speaker 1>bites because I felt so guilty the whole time. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was just She did say that when you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were out, you seemed a little distant. I'm assuming it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably because you were thinking about what you were doing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking about my girl friend. I didn't I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't cheat on her. We didn't do anything. It just

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<v Speaker 1>we just went out to dinner and nothing happened. I

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<v Speaker 1>think going on a Friday night date with somebody else's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of considered cheating. It wasn't a Friday night, it

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<v Speaker 1>was just I don't think it matters what day of

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<v Speaker 1>the week it was on. You still went out. It

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<v Speaker 1>could have been a Tuesday night. You still went out

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner with somebody else. And why did you never

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<v Speaker 1>come clean afterwards? When she was texting you and wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to see you again? It yo, I was going to

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<v Speaker 1>text her back, Well why didn't you? Because I just figured,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I had a girlfriend, so just ghost out,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Well, unfortunately, you can't completely cut her out

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<v Speaker 1>of your life just yet, because she's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening to this conversation right now? What no? Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no, no no, no, Stephanie, are you serious? Right? What were

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<v Speaker 1>you thinking? I'm sorry. I don't even know what to say.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's my fault. It is not your fault. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry. I don't care. You went out to dinner

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<v Speaker 1>with me, that's a date. You didn't even think about

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<v Speaker 1>how it would make me feel. Nope? No, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah no. I just said yes to the date and

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<v Speaker 1>then went out and realized, Oops, I made a mistake. Ohoy,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't do that again. I am so sorry. If

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<v Speaker 1>you were great, wow, you were cool? You were somebody

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<v Speaker 1>really should date you? How dare you if I was single? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>You're great? Is there any chance of you being single?

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<v Speaker 1>How long have you been in your relationship that you're

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<v Speaker 1>in three years? And is this the first? Wow? I

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<v Speaker 1>feel sorry for her. Is this the first time you've

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<v Speaker 1>been out with another woman since you've been in your

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<v Speaker 1>three year relationship? This was the first time a woman's

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<v Speaker 1>ever asked me out? So I said yes? For some reason? Idea?

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<v Speaker 1>Why I said yes? Yeah? I mean I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>feel you a little bit, but you still should have

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<v Speaker 1>told her you have a girlfriend, Do you like want

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<v Speaker 1>out of your relationship and you're just trying to look

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<v Speaker 1>for a way to end it? No, And honestly, going

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<v Speaker 1>out with her made me like realize how much I

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<v Speaker 1>love my girl for like even more? Oh, come on,

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<v Speaker 1>you hear that, Stephanie. You helped save a relationship, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? Yeah, is there any signs that he

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<v Speaker 1>had a girlfriend? Like? No, No, you should have known

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<v Speaker 1>when he was in a candle shop right off the bat.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have never talked to him. Yeah. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I can't trust men anymore. Ever, No, no, no no, just

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<v Speaker 1>dudes in candle shops. Can never trust them. Yea. I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to ask you if you're going a second

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<v Speaker 1>date with Stephanie, we will pay for it. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>a second Are you really? Really? No? I'm asking not you, Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 1>Sever you were great. If I was single, Holy man,

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<v Speaker 1>I would so glad on a date with you. But

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<v Speaker 1>still not though, Wow, no, no second date? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tell your girlfriend about this? Uh? Yeah? Yeah right,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, We're a better liar than that broken jupil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning.