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Speaker 1: Jules Second dat Dating Today's Second Dater, taking a page

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Speaker 1: out of the dating book from jose Bolanos. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: what if a girl ignores you online? Just keep at its, yeah,

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Speaker 1: until she gives in. What's up, Brian? How are you? Good? Man?

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Speaker 1: Brian emailed us about a girl named Lauren that you

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Speaker 1: apparently met online and you, um, you try to get

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Speaker 1: her attention for like two months? What? Oh? Yeah, I did.

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Speaker 1: It sounds bad when you say to that way, though.

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Speaker 1: Where did you find her online? On a dating site? Okay? Well,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, we were about single, so I thought I

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Speaker 1: wasn't mean creepy by emailing a girl on a dating site.

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Speaker 1: What took so long for you to get her attention?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I've tried the dating online dating in the

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Speaker 1: past and it really hit her miss. So I decided

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Speaker 1: to be patient with her and really get to know

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Speaker 1: her online first. And after about two months, I was like,

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Speaker 1: all right, I really need to pull the trigger. It's

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Speaker 1: like I've been courting this girl for a while. And

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Speaker 1: I finally asked her if she wanted to go out

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Speaker 1: on a date, and she said yes, and we started

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Speaker 1: chatting about music, and then we realized we had a

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Speaker 1: lot of other things in common. It's like big boobies

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Speaker 1: BV shows. Did you say boobies? What you say movies? Movies?

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Speaker 1: Sounded like you said you like big movies. You both

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Speaker 1: like big movies. We both like boobies. No, so she

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Speaker 1: finally gave in after two months. What did you guys

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Speaker 1: decide to do? So? I had to go to this

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Speaker 1: Mexico cantina by my house. But I started getting really

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Speaker 1: really sick right beforehand, Like you were nervous. Uh, not

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Speaker 1: only nerves, but like big sick, Like I thought it

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Speaker 1: the flue. I was wedding. I was on the verge

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Speaker 1: of throwing off. I was really nauseous of the stomach.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, you canceled on or didn't you? No? Are

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Speaker 1: you kidding? Are you still wing? Two months after out?

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Speaker 1: You gotta give her the flu on your first date?

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Speaker 1: Oh gosh, So did you know you were sick on

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Speaker 1: the date? Then? I think she had a feeling. I

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Speaker 1: didn't put a call it off, but like she kept

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Speaker 1: asking me if I was all right, and I just

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Speaker 1: got it. Oh yeah, the sauce is really hot. Oh

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Speaker 1: I wish they would be the fan of you went

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Speaker 1: to your date with a flu? Fever. Maybe. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: she would have been all right if you would have said, hey, um,

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Speaker 1: I've got like a huge fever. Can we maybe postpone

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Speaker 1: it a couple of days. I didn't want to cancel.

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Speaker 1: I've been waiting so long. I finally meet her in person.

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Speaker 1: So how was it? How was it when you finally

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Speaker 1: met her in person? I felt like I wasn't on

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Speaker 1: my best I wasn't putting my best foot forward, you know.

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Speaker 1: I felt kind of gross and like when I at

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Speaker 1: the end of the date, I walked her out to

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Speaker 1: her car, and like I gave her a hug. I

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Speaker 1: didn't want to kiss her, but like I was all sweaty.

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Speaker 1: It was like clammy. And she wasn't really sweet about it,

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Speaker 1: Like she never mentioned anything about it. She was really sweet.

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Speaker 1: When I asked her she wanted to do it again,

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Speaker 1: she was like, yeah, sureties he called her, but she's

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Speaker 1: not picking up her phone. She's not in through the phone. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe she's in the hospital. Yeah. How many medications were

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Speaker 1: you on? No, I drank margarita. I thought that would help. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: How many times have you tried to get a hold

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Speaker 1: of her, like four or five? Four or five okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, well we're gonna play a song, come back,

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Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: thanks dude. Yeah, man, hang on Brooke and Jubil in

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Speaker 1: the morning date. If you would like a second date update,

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Speaker 1: all you have to do is email as Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jubil at Moving nine two five dot com. We will

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Speaker 1: call the person who didn't call you back, like we're

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Speaker 1: about to do for Brian. Brian emailed us about Lauren.

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Speaker 1: He pursued her for two months on an online dating site.

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Speaker 1: She finally agreed to go out with him when he

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Speaker 1: got sick. I had like a huge fever, sweating chills

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Speaker 1: all that. Instead of postponing the date, he still went

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Speaker 1: out with her because he didn't want to lose his chance.

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Speaker 1: Do you think that that's why she's not going out?

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Speaker 1: Do you think maybe she thought that you were a

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Speaker 1: were like a sweaty weirdo. Brian? Yeah? Are you going

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Speaker 1: be much better given a sect chance. You know, when

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Speaker 1: I'm on my best I really am just the best.

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Speaker 1: I can't remember did we ask you when the first

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Speaker 1: tell her that you were sick? I did not? You didn't, Okay,

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Speaker 1: that you weren't feeling well. You know, remember he blamed

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Speaker 1: it on the salsa sala. That's why he was sweating.

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Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna give her a call now, see

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Speaker 1: if she picks up and get your second day up

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Speaker 1: dat right? Cool? All? This is Lauren. Hey, Lauren, how

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Speaker 1: are you? I'm good? Nice? Hi? Who? Who is? This

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Speaker 1: is Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm

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Speaker 1: moving ninety two point five. Are you familiar with our

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Speaker 1: radio show at all? I honestly don't listen a whole

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Speaker 1: lot of radio storry. Come on, Lauren, try to live

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Speaker 1: your life a little better. Um. It's nice to meet you, though, Lauren.

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Speaker 1: The second date update is basically this. You went on

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Speaker 1: a date with somebody, they liked you a lot, and

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Speaker 1: now you're not calling them back to go on a

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Speaker 1: second date. Oh okay, you recently went out with a

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Speaker 1: guy named Brian. Yeah, oh, Lauren, this is gonna be good.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear this one. You perked up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so obviously you remember your date with Brian. Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: was one of those dates today. It's just a good

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Speaker 1: story afterwards. Good story. What Oh my gosh, you've been

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Speaker 1: telling your girlfriends all about this, havn't you? Yeah? Do

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Speaker 1: you'd ever do any online dating? You know how you have?

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Speaker 1: Like some of them a winner, some of my losers,

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Speaker 1: and some of them are just stories that you know

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't do it again, but you're glad you did this.

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Speaker 1: The one? Yeah, which one is he? Then he's he's

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Speaker 1: a story. Okay, okay, what's the story? Then? Why don't you, um,

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Speaker 1: on the day he wasn't feeling very well. He didn't

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Speaker 1: but he's already acting kind of weird. So I kind

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Speaker 1: that's smart. That's gonna move on your part. But in

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Speaker 1: the bathroom a waitress came in and she said, are

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Speaker 1: say you know whatever. She said, I'm going to tell

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Speaker 1: you something. He used to date one of my good

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Speaker 1: friends and she now has a restraining order against him.

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Speaker 1: Here he is what he was acting weird order against

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Speaker 1: somebody else that he went out with. No, Lauren, the

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Speaker 1: person that's asking you what is actually Brian, he's on

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Speaker 1: the phone with us. Should have should have mentioned that. Sorry, Yeah, Lauren,

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Speaker 1: who told you that the waitress in the Mexican place?

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Speaker 1: Her name is Jackie my career. Oh no, I don't

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Speaker 1: know that her name. I didn't ask her name. Okay,

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Speaker 1: hold on, that's not true, Lauren. I used to day

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Speaker 1: this girl, Jackie new or Jackie and I used to

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Speaker 1: be friends. It did not end well, but there's no

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Speaker 1: restraining order. She said that her girlfriend, like you guys,

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Speaker 1: went out, had two good times, but then you got

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Speaker 1: really creepy sing her way. She said, you showed up

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Speaker 1: her alone. Like, to me, that's restraining order worthy. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: hold on, obviously just trying to side with her friend.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't understand that. But we've had a pretty ugly

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Speaker 1: relationship like it ended in the restraining order. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: never good with it like that. Brian. Oh, come on,

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Speaker 1: everybody's kind of had that relationship here. No, no, Brian,

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Speaker 1: do you have a restraining order against you? I do

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Speaker 1: not have a restraining order against me, And yeah, we

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Speaker 1: had that conversation at her restaurant, at the same restaurant,

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Speaker 1: but there was there's no resist would that restaurant? It's

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Speaker 1: a weird place to take somebody. If you know that

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Speaker 1: there's a possibility someone you dated your report, why would

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Speaker 1: I take Why would I take you there, Lauren? If

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Speaker 1: against me? Okay, anymore, I don't know who to believe

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Speaker 1: right now. Dude, I don't know. He doesn't make very

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Speaker 1: good decisions though, because why would you go out on

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Speaker 1: a date when you had the flu? Yeah, just saying, Brian,

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Speaker 1: but nothing else. I was sick for three days, Like

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Speaker 1: after we met, you got sick too, yes, three days.

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Speaker 1: I had to miss work at no Vaca time. Lauren,

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Speaker 1: can I ask is there anything that Brian did write? Um? Yeah, honestly,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't a great date anyway, Like wow, and his

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Speaker 1: personality sucks. Yeah, let me make it up to you, Laura,

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Speaker 1: let me make it up. I'm better now, and I've

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Speaker 1: done a little online dating. And like, the first thing

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Speaker 1: you look for when you're finding somebody online, is there

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Speaker 1: not a psycho? Like that's the first thing you're looking for.

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Speaker 1: First date. I got a pretty good sign that things. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: my catt. That's weird, Brian. You're not helping your case

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Speaker 1: right there. You're saying that I'm weird. Why don't you

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Speaker 1: come meet my cat first? Before you've caught me weird? Hey, Lauren,

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Speaker 1: we would love to send you on a second date

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Speaker 1: with Brian and his cat. I'll pay for it. It

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Speaker 1: will be I will have to pass good girl the

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Speaker 1: girl following those red flags. Sorry, Brian, did you learn

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Speaker 1: anything from this? I didn't do anything wrong. Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: was the cat. Yeah, broken jubil in the morning