1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from coast to coast am on iHeartRadio. 2 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 2: Now he's Johnny. I don't say it quite like Ed 3 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 2: mc mahon, but pretty close. Johnny Carson spent thirty years 4 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 2: as the host of the Tonight Show and did a 5 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:45,599 Speaker 2: unbelievably marvelous job. But who knew it, Howard Smith did. 6 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 2: His neighbor, wrote a book called My Friend Johnny, The 7 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 2: Last twenty Years of a Beautiful Life with Johnny Carson 8 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 2: and Friends. Howard is a retired tech executive whose life 9 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 2: took a remarkable term when turned when he moved to Malibu, California, 10 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:02,319 Speaker 2: and became close friends with his neighbor Johnny Carson. Their 11 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 2: friendship deeply shaped his next chapter. Following a decade leading 12 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 2: the world's largest software company, Howard, welcome to the program. 13 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 3: Well, thank you very much. Enjoy it. 14 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 2: What a fascinating time. Now did you move next to 15 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 2: Johnny or did Johnny move next to you? 16 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 3: Now, Johnny moved next to me. And you know, he 17 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 3: sewed his beach house to John McEnroe, and then he 18 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 3: bought this place four doors for me in Malibu. And 19 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 3: that's how we became friends. At a dinner that Jerry 20 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 3: weintraup put On and his wife Jane says, okay, we'd 21 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 3: like to have you sit with Johnny Carson and Alex. 22 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 3: They weren't married at time, and because John's very shy, 23 00:01:55,960 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 3: and so they said, us with John at his table there, 24 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 3: and so we had a nice conversation. And one of 25 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 3: the things that you know, he just moved there. And 26 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 3: when he sold his house to John McEnroe, John gave 27 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 3: him a tennis lesson at Pepperdine, at a college down 28 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:19,679 Speaker 3: the road from us. And I says, well, John, I said, 29 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 3: I live four doors from you. I have a tennis court. 30 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 3: If you ever want to play tennis, you know, here's 31 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 3: my number. Give me a call. So the next morning, 32 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 3: nine o'clock the phone rings, says Howard, I made you 33 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 3: last night, and can I come over and played tennis 34 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 3: with you? So he walks over and that's kind of 35 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 3: the start of our acquaintance. 36 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 2: Oh cool is that? And by the way, were you 37 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: unaffected I hope from the recent fires out that way? 38 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 3: Well, thank you for asky. No, I lost about eighty 39 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 3: percent of my house. Oh yeah, and let me tell 40 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 3: you all the homes in Malibu and the Palisade. I mean, 41 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 3: most of them are all gone. But anyway, so I 42 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 3: am up in Idaho. Now I have a home up 43 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 3: in Quarterly in Idahove, so I'm not in Malibu because 44 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 3: they're redoing the house, but it hopefully will be done 45 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 3: in about a year. 46 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 2: What happened to Johnny's old place? 47 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 3: Johnny's old place sold for I can't remember the guy's 48 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 3: name now, but he owned the Philadelphia Eagles, the guy 49 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 3: that bought John's place. 50 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 2: So, and was that house affected by the fires? 51 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 3: No, No, that was not. That was in Point Doom 52 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 3: and it was not affected by the fires. 53 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 2: So what did you think of watching the tonight show 54 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 2: knowing you knew Johnny Carson? 55 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 3: Well, it's kind of interesting when I met John. I 56 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 3: can't say that I was an abbott a meyer of 57 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 3: John because I had a software company. We're at the 58 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 3: largest software coming in the world at that time. So 59 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 3: I used to put a bit about ten ten thirty 60 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 3: because I used to get up early. So I never 61 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 3: watched the show. So it wasn't a matter that you know, 62 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 3: when I met John that I was, you know, so 63 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 3: eager to meet him, and it was, you know, it 64 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 3: was one of his hero was my hero. So so 65 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 3: I think that was a good factor because John and 66 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 3: I became very very good friends. And I would say, 67 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 3: we played I'll give you example, we played tennis for 68 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 3: maybe two months, and then John and we'd played. It'd 69 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 3: come over my house like three days a week and 70 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 3: we played tennis, and then after tennis, we just talk 71 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 3: about life. And so, you know, I was not in 72 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 3: the entertainment business, so I think he felt comfortable, you know, 73 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 3: chatting with me and talking about different things because we 74 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 3: spent a lot of time just talking about our lives. 75 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 3: And Alex would say, Howard, you and John probably talk 76 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 3: more about different things than I have with John, and 77 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 3: so this is our After a couple of months playing, 78 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 3: he says, Howard, next week, I'm going to be sixty 79 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 3: years old and I'm having a birthday party at Spago's, 80 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 3: which is a very high end restaurant in Beverly Hills, 81 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 3: and I'd like to have you and your wife come 82 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 3: to my birthday party. And so I guess I was 83 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 3: under an impression that, wow, this is this is amazing, 84 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 3: because I you know, I only known him a couple 85 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 3: of months and we just played tennis and that's about it. 86 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 3: And so I was patting that Ricos and all the 87 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 3: you know, all the big stars that he knows would 88 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 3: be there at his birthday party. So we get to 89 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 3: the restaurant and I said, I'm here for Johnny Carson's birthday, 90 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 3: and they said, oh yeah, come right over here. So 91 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 3: we go over to this table and here's Henry Bushkin, 92 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 3: who was his attorney at that time, and he was 93 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 3: engaged to Joyce to Witch, she was an actress actress, 94 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 3: and John Alex and ourselves, and I guess that was it. 95 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 3: I pardon me, that was it. That was it? That 96 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 3: was it, And so I kind of pinched myself and 97 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 3: going like wow, I mean, you know, I've never felt that. Boy. 98 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 3: You know, we had this close relationship, but after that, 99 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 3: you know, being there and being a part of that 100 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 3: six people for his sixtieth birthday, I was so I guess, 101 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 3: uh and away and kind of saying, wow, this is unbelievable. 102 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:08,719 Speaker 3: And this is where I realized at that time that 103 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 3: I became probably one of John's best friends, and that 104 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 3: he and I for twenty twenty five years, we would 105 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 3: play tennis three days a week. We'd go out to dinner, 106 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 3: maybe two or three times a month. We'd go on 107 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 3: vacations together on his boat together. And so this is 108 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 3: where John was a shy guy. But John never thought 109 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 3: himself as a big star. And I have to say 110 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 3: that I got Jay Lennel to do the forward on 111 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 3: my book. And Jay, you know, I talked to Jay 112 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 3: no Jay, and I called him up and I said, 113 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 3: you know, I would like to have you, you know, 114 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 3: write a little thing about forward for my book. He's absolutely, Howard, 115 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 3: I'd love to do that. He writes this three page 116 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 3: forward the book. And I would have to say, people 117 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 3: that read that, most of them would call me and says, Howard, 118 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 3: I'm crying because Jay Leno wrote this unbelievable forward and 119 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 3: it was basically Jay didn't know John very well. Jay 120 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 3: said that he was at John's house for dinner one 121 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 3: night that's set and then you know when he took over. 122 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 3: You know, he and John were not that close and 123 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 3: didn't know that each other. But his comment was that 124 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:35,719 Speaker 3: he felt that John and him were very similar and 125 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 3: that they were not Hollywood people. They were not considered 126 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 3: in the Hollywood group. They and I knowing Jay now more, 127 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 3: I can understand that because John just loved what he 128 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 3: was doing, and Jay too, Jay loves I was at 129 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 3: one of his concerts here a couple of months ago 130 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 3: in Florida and Jay's doing like one hundred and seventy 131 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 3: cons a year. Wow. And you know, and I guess 132 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 3: I would say that why he's doing that because he 133 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 3: loves to do that. He loves the entertain people. And 134 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 3: that was John's love too. John, just like I say, 135 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 3: never thought himself as a star, just felt that he 136 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 3: was doing something he loved to do, and that was 137 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 3: the entertain people and make them happy. And that's where 138 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:28,319 Speaker 3: both of them are very very similar in that, you know, 139 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 3: they were just down to earth people. And I have 140 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 3: to say, the one thing that I wanted people to 141 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 3: know about John is that. And the reason I was 142 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 3: I wrote this book is that there was an article, 143 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 3: a book came out about John five years after he died, 144 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 3: and it was not very positive on John. It was 145 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 3: a lawyer that John had that he fired and he 146 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 3: wrote this book and it was you know, if you 147 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 3: read it, think that John was a womanizer, it was 148 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 3: an alcoholic, and all these negative things. And that's kind 149 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 3: of what prompt me to do this book because I said, 150 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:15,559 Speaker 3: you know what I've known of john he was none, 151 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:20,839 Speaker 3: nothing like that. And so this is why that prompt 152 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 3: me to go and say, one day I'm going to 153 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 3: write a book and tell people what who Johnny Carson 154 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 3: was like. I say, not many people that he related 155 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 3: to or it was close to as I was. And 156 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 3: so that's why, you know, I wrote this book about 157 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 3: you know that he was bigger. It's a big star, 158 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 3: just down the earth guy, enjoyed loving what he was doing, okay, 159 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:54,199 Speaker 3: but never thought that he was this big star. 160 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 1: Listen to more Coast to Coast AM every weeknight at 161 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 1: one a m. Eastern and go to coastcast a m 162 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: dot com for more