WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Restaurant Singer

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jubiles second dat date. They say it ain't over

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<v Speaker 1>until the fat lady sings. Yeah. Well, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything about the size of the woman in today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, but I do know two things she sang

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<v Speaker 1>and it's over. Oh and now Nick is not getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back. What's up? Nick? It's kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>harsh way to put it. The only thing I can

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<v Speaker 1>think of. You said that you met this girl and

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<v Speaker 1>she's a singer, and now she's not calling you back. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I messed up, you know. Okay, Okay, did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet her at one of her gigs or something,

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<v Speaker 1>or how did you meet her? So I was at

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<v Speaker 1>a restaurant with some friends and she was performing there, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just thought, okay, in addition to being super cute,

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<v Speaker 1>she had this amazing voice. Right, yeah, that's attractive. It

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<v Speaker 1>rule is, I mean, there's a plenty of attractive women whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>but the one to have a talent. You know, when

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<v Speaker 1>when a women's talented, there's something about it. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>it's a magnetism. And tell me about it. I've always

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<v Speaker 1>had a thing for sword swallowers. Oh man, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what. Yeah, I don't know why for me?

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? By the way, her name is Gia Gia.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that name. Yeah, I love the name. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you love everything about this girl? Yeah? You know I

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<v Speaker 1>liked her lot, and why I'm upset she's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>me back? Okay? So what'd you like? Wait until she

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<v Speaker 1>was done with her gig, like, wait by her car

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<v Speaker 1>like a groupie or something. How do you approach her? No? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>what is okay? So she actually goes from table to

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<v Speaker 1>table and saying, like, you know how, it's sort of

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<v Speaker 1>a little embarrassing you're sitting there and then they come

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<v Speaker 1>right to your table. Yeah, You're like, who do I

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<v Speaker 1>make eye contacts with? Because I feel uncomfortable just staring

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<v Speaker 1>at you the whole time? What do you want? So

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't like a show she was doing. She works

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<v Speaker 1>for the restaurant exactly. That's an Italian restaurant. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And so she comes to each table and then I

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<v Speaker 1>was just transfixed, you know. And she had a great voice,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought I got to talk to her, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I waited until we were all been with dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I approached her and she was really friendly, approachable, nice, person. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and so did you just ask her out right on

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<v Speaker 1>the spot. Yeah, I just asked her if many, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we could go out later in the week, and she

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<v Speaker 1>said yes, cool, So what do you guys do? We

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<v Speaker 1>went out to dinner, and before we went, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I had to go pick her up. Okay, that's even

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<v Speaker 1>a good sign that she wanted to give you her address,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. Yeah. I don't know how i'd picked her

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<v Speaker 1>up without her address, but usually think you would meet

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<v Speaker 1>at a restaurant on a first date. Oh okay, I's

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<v Speaker 1>like like she's she's comfortable with you enough, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>seem creepy, like you're gonna get her address and like

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<v Speaker 1>just show up at random times or try to peer

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<v Speaker 1>through her windows, you know what I mean. I go

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<v Speaker 1>over there. You know, she'd recently moved in, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was a nice place, and she asked if I could,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like nail hang up some stuff, and you know, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you said nail, And I was like, whoa, she moves fast.

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<v Speaker 1>She wait, she put you to work on some chores

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<v Speaker 1>she had around the house. Well, I mean there was

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<v Speaker 1>no stuff that you know, like some some nailing and

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<v Speaker 1>some heavy lifting, taking stuff out of boxes and moving

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<v Speaker 1>stuff around, and it was actually a lot more strangerist

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<v Speaker 1>than I expected. There was some heavy stuff and I

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<v Speaker 1>was actually sweating. Okay, so you're no longer a date

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, you're hired help. There's a glorified mover. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>did you make her pay for dinner since you did

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<v Speaker 1>of her home chores? Well, I mean, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think most would would probably offer, but if that happened,

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<v Speaker 1>I would decline. But that's the thing. We had a

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<v Speaker 1>nice dinner, but then things sort of took a bad turn.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean what took a bad turn? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean everything was going great, you know, I mean, she's

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<v Speaker 1>an amazing singer, and I was telling her how great

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<v Speaker 1>she was and just that the other and then I said,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have any aspirations to becoming a real singer? Someday?

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<v Speaker 1>You said, do you have any aspirations of becoming a

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<v Speaker 1>real singer? Yeah? And I didn't mean, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mean like she couldn't sing or anything. What I

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<v Speaker 1>meant was, you know, maybe getting a band and doing

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<v Speaker 1>it full time, you know, in a restaurant. Yeah, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a slam though, Like if I was singing at

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<v Speaker 1>a restaurant and you said, do you have any plans

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<v Speaker 1>of actually becoming a singer one day? I'd be prett

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<v Speaker 1>pissed at you. You know, I just phrase it wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean what I really meant was that you know

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<v Speaker 1>that you want to be ceded her or maybe in

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<v Speaker 1>a band on the road or you know, yeah adele

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<v Speaker 1>or something. Yeah, you could have just said how did

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<v Speaker 1>she respond to it? It was weird. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>everything was going so great and then it just it

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<v Speaker 1>just turned. It just became this dull cloud, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and it just was awful. You should have just said, like, so,

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<v Speaker 1>what are your aspirations for your singing career someday? Instead

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<v Speaker 1>of like taking a backhanded compliment. I know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if I had to do it over again, I will

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<v Speaker 1>totally phrase it differently. And artists so egotistical and they're insecure,

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<v Speaker 1>and her egotistical and insecure. I think you really just

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<v Speaker 1>need to work on the way you say things. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>So she seemed she seems You're right, she seemed upset

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<v Speaker 1>by your comment. Did you ever recover from that? No,

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<v Speaker 1>It's like that's the thing. The more I try to

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<v Speaker 1>get out of it, It's just not worse. Is that it?

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<v Speaker 1>For you guys's date? Yeah, I mean that was basically that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you know, we got the chuck and then

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<v Speaker 1>I drove her home and that was yeah, no kiss

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<v Speaker 1>or anything, no, I you know, I was gonna walk

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<v Speaker 1>over her door and all, but she said I'm okay

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<v Speaker 1>and gave me a hug in the car, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not even on the street. You gave me a car

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<v Speaker 1>and then she like to close the car door and

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm gonna tell you a car hug means that

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<v Speaker 1>she's trying to get out of there as quick as possible. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was pretty obvious. So you know, I would just

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<v Speaker 1>like to have a dug over on this. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I messed up. Okay, well we'll play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, call her, and then get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, okay, thanks a thank you? All right, man,

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<v Speaker 1>just hang on you brooking jubil in the morning. Second update.

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<v Speaker 1>When you don't call some guy because he's got a

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<v Speaker 1>lazy are that signore? When you don't call him back

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<v Speaker 1>because he's bad in the sock? That signal? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>wondering why I'm singing in Italian? Right? That's not an

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<v Speaker 1>Italians in English. But yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right in the middle of your second date update

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<v Speaker 1>and Nick is on the phone with us, and Nick

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<v Speaker 1>isn't getting a call back from an Italian singer. Are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you trying to steal his heart right now? Jubil

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<v Speaker 1>because he had sing for that Italian singer, but now

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<v Speaker 1>he may have a thing for you. Nick really liked her.

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<v Speaker 1>She was singing at a restaurant that she works at.

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<v Speaker 1>She's one of those people that goes around with the

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<v Speaker 1>tables at an Italian restaurant and kind of sings to people,

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<v Speaker 1>and he actually had the nerve to ask her out

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<v Speaker 1>after he ate dinner. They decided to go out, but

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<v Speaker 1>he thinks everything went wrong because he kind of slammed

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<v Speaker 1>her job. He was trying to give her a compliment

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<v Speaker 1>and say like, oh, you should think about doing bigger

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<v Speaker 1>things with your singing. He said, what, hey, Nick, how

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<v Speaker 1>did you say it to her? Again? I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>do you maybe one day want to become a real singer?

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<v Speaker 1>And that was it and he said after that she

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<v Speaker 1>kind of seemed a little cold, and he ended up

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<v Speaker 1>just dropping her off at her house. And she gave

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<v Speaker 1>him the side a hug in the car and that

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<v Speaker 1>was it. Now she's not calling him back, So we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna try to get her on the phone and see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can patch things up and maybe get him

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. And can I just suggest when we

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<v Speaker 1>do talk to her, let's just kind of move past

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<v Speaker 1>this Nick as quickly as possible, because from the sounds

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<v Speaker 1>of it, you're really good at giving backwards compliments, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like if we just dwell on it, you're

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<v Speaker 1>just going to dig yourself deeper. Man. Yeah, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right. I'll try to keep my mouth shut and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hopefully you guys can give me a second date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll give her all the compliments and then you can

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<v Speaker 1>just will it make it seem like it came from you. Okay, okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, go, I'm in a dollar phon number right now. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Gia please? This is Gia. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up, Gia? How are you? This is Jewil from

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Sorry, who Jebil from

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<v Speaker 1>brook and Jewil in the Morning, like the radio show?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you actually you're actually familiar with the show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard of the show. I don't listen to it. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't need to listen to it. Don't worry about it.

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<v Speaker 1>The fact that you even knew our names is enough.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that. Gia. Why are you calling me? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling you today because one of our listeners actually emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us about you. Okay, his name is Nick, and Nick

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<v Speaker 1>recently asked me. Yeah Nick, Oh my god, oh you

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<v Speaker 1>remember day? Nick is rigging a bella sounds like, oh god. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Nick wanted us to call you because he says, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys went out on a date the other day, and

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<v Speaker 1>now you're not calling him back. Yeah. He had things

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<v Speaker 1>to say about you though. He told us so, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you were so talented. He loved your name. You were

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful really, yeah, yeah he did. And that's why he

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<v Speaker 1>asked us to call you, because he wants to know

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<v Speaker 1>why you're not getting back to him. Are you sure

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about the same Nick. Yeah? I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that he met you when you were working

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<v Speaker 1>at the restaurant singing. He came up and asked you out.

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<v Speaker 1>He does feel like he sort of slammed your job

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<v Speaker 1>at some point, and he feels bad about that. Um. Yeah, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's true. Okay, Well, we talked to Nick about

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<v Speaker 1>your date and we asked him if there's anything that

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<v Speaker 1>could have gone wrong, and he said he was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to compliment you and say, like, man, you're a really

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<v Speaker 1>good singer. Do you ever want to get like what's

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<v Speaker 1>your what's your biggest aspiration? And the way he said it,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess was, hey, do you ever think you want

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<v Speaker 1>a real singing job because you sing at a restaurant? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was actually pretty offensive. I mean I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that he meant it to be offensive, but it's definitely

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<v Speaker 1>not the right thing to say. Ever. Is that why?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean? Is that why you don't want to see

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<v Speaker 1>him again? Pretty much? I mean, it just seems like

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't like me a whole lot, really didn't like you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, just just from one comment that you took

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong way. Well, sorry, I don't want to put

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<v Speaker 1>that on you. I don't want to put that on you.

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<v Speaker 1>He said it the wrong way, you took it how

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<v Speaker 1>he said it. I assume that he meant what he said,

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<v Speaker 1>but there was more than one comment he kept doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>What else did he say? I mean, it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like he says, you're really good at what you're singing,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, maybe you should try doing cooler music,

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe that's why you're not successful music no one

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<v Speaker 1>wants to hear. Oh wow, that sounds like straight up

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<v Speaker 1>rude to me. Cooler music and exactly, I'm guessing you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't ask for his critique either, that he was just

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<v Speaker 1>offering this to you. No, I didn't ask for his critique.

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<v Speaker 1>And I like singing classical music. Yeah, that's what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>good at. Apparently Nick doesn't think it's cool enough though. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and apparently he doesn't like everything about the way I look.

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<v Speaker 1>And he told me he's not usually into green eyed girls,

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<v Speaker 1>but somehow he can dig it with me or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Dude, like I get a path for having

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<v Speaker 1>green eyes. And that was him trying to say, you

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<v Speaker 1>have beautiful eyes. Maybe that's not what it sounded like.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. No, wonder did you ever bring up

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<v Speaker 1>to him the fact that he was just insulting you

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<v Speaker 1>over and over again? I mean, what was I supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to say? I tried to assume he was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>compliment me, but it still sounded really insulting. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't be around to dude like that all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>It was an exhausting night. I mean, and if he's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be nice, I have to sit there and

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<v Speaker 1>smile like I'm having fun while he's hurling insults at me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's me, Nick, I need to talk to you. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait. I got to talk to you now. Gee.

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<v Speaker 1>Nick's on the phone and wants to talk to you. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't tell you before. Are you kidding me right now? No? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not kidding you. And I'm sorry, but I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to talk to you. Why. I just look,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't I wasn't trying to insult to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just it just came out wrong. And and I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're just talented and gorgeous and you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're an amazing singer. And all I meant was, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>did you want to maybe you know, take this on

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<v Speaker 1>the road or go do this like a profession instead

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<v Speaker 1>of being you know, like a loud singer. We just

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<v Speaker 1>did it again right there, profession? Well what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think I not? What not doing this as a profession

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<v Speaker 1>right now? You think my job is just a hobby,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm not a professional. No, no, I mean I didn't. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that came out wrong, but you know, I mean, yeah, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean did Okay, I'm sorry. It's just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking, you know, you have a talent to become

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like a huge like Adele or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>some huge touring singer to play stadium. That's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm meant. I mean, I'm as a compliment and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if you just commit yourself to doing that,

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<v Speaker 1>I seriously think you can make it. Make it like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not curious unless I achieve you know, like a

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<v Speaker 1>national tour. That's your measure of success, right. No, No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, you know, I mean, I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, are you happy? Um o doing a terrible

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<v Speaker 1>job here? Man. I mean you're basically saying like, like,

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<v Speaker 1>for instance, you can't be a scientist unless you're Stephen Hockey.

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's all sorts of people that do professions. You

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<v Speaker 1>need to respect what she's doing. Man, I do respect

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<v Speaker 1>that I did. She's amazing. I'm trying to tell her

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<v Speaker 1>she's awesome and not. You know, I don't think she's

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<v Speaker 1>hearing that. I don't think so. No, I'm not hearing that,

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<v Speaker 1>because what you're actually telling me is that I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>doing it right. But I haven't succeeded yet, you know, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know all right? If you're happy, you know, singing

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<v Speaker 1>in the restaurant, and that's I mean, is that what

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<v Speaker 1>you want to That's how far you want to take

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<v Speaker 1>your singing career? Is that? Is that? Right? Like? You

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<v Speaker 1>are you accusing me of gearing up because I sing

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<v Speaker 1>in a restaurant? Right? No? No, I'm just saying, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>are you have you taken your talent, which is amazing

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<v Speaker 1>as far as you want to go about distances like

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't gone far enough? No Jo? Could you please?

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<v Speaker 1>Could you tell what I'm trying to say? You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm trying to say, right, I think I know

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<v Speaker 1>what you're trying to say. And you're trying to say

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<v Speaker 1>that you think that she's an amazing singer and if

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to, she could take over the world with

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<v Speaker 1>her voice. And you've got to understand nick on her side,

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<v Speaker 1>like she wants to be dating someone who's proud of

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<v Speaker 1>what she does. I am proud. I'd give anything to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to a thing like that. I mean, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>give anything to have that sort of talent. Yeah, she's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>That was nice. What do you think about that, Gia,

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<v Speaker 1>We've made so much improven. Yeah, that's that sounded really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>And it only took what what was the five minutes

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<v Speaker 1>and three coaches to get here? A little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>coaching and we got you there. Nick. Oh, well thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I guess you can finally hear what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna I'm gonna try to put you out

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<v Speaker 1>of your misery, Nick, Jio. Would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Nick one more time for a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. I don't think so. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is just too tiring to have to sit through

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<v Speaker 1>an entire evening of waiting through this without someone to

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<v Speaker 1>mediate and translate. I can't. I just don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do that again. What if I came along and helped translate? Nick?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you like that idea? And I don't think so? Yeah? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well sorry, thanks, um, thanks Gi. I appreciate it. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think I think one day you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a great singer. And you know it again,

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<v Speaker 1>She's an Ji in the morning text in at seven

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<v Speaker 1>eighty five to nine two. It says, OMG, can you

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<v Speaker 1>please help let me help coach Nick to not come

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<v Speaker 1>off like a total a hole. We're talking about today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. This dude, Nick wanted to call a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Gia. They met because she was actually singing

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<v Speaker 1>at a restaurant. She's worked an Italian restaurant and goes

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<v Speaker 1>around the tables and sings opera, and they went out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. Everything was cool, except Nick kept complimenting

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<v Speaker 1>her but slamming her at the same time. Yeah, they'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh cool, so you've been singing opera at

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<v Speaker 1>that restaurant for a long time. Now, are you ever

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<v Speaker 1>going to become like a real singer. He was like

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<v Speaker 1>the king of the back backhanded compliment. Yeah. The more

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<v Speaker 1>he talked, the more he dug himself into a hole. Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>can't like, don't add the butt anything and just leave

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<v Speaker 1>it as you're a really great singer. Boom. Yeah. He

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't stop. Even at the end of it. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're a really great singer and you'll make

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<v Speaker 1>an even better singer someday. And you're like, no, just

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<v Speaker 1>say she's a good singer. She's like I aub she

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<v Speaker 1>does opera and he's like, you ever gonna sing anything? Cool? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he just didn't get it. And he also didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>a second date because she didn't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again. Remember if you want to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, all you have to do is email

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<v Speaker 1>the show and we will call the person who didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call you back five