1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer, 2 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. 3 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 2: This is from Diana in Wilmington. 4 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:09,399 Speaker 1: Diana writes, my husband has a thirteen year old son 5 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:12,040 Speaker 1: from his first marriage. He dropped his son off on 6 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: Sunday and came home with the plate of food that 7 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 1: his ex wife cooked. I was so mad. He said 8 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: I should cook more often? Should still be eating at 9 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 1: his exes house? 10 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 3: Question? Food? I can't believe he said that. 11 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,199 Speaker 1: I can't you should cook more often? 12 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 4: Because you might as well have said you should cook 13 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 4: more often because she cook all the time. You might 14 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 4: as well have said that because that's what she heard. 15 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 4: Should should he be eating in his exes house? 16 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 3: Oh? You got to speed that up? Did you hear yoursel? 17 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:58,319 Speaker 3: Oh you heard it too. 18 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 1: God, wantn't have to draw attention to it. 19 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 2: I can't stand him. 20 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 3: Yeah no, but man, I mean you and him eating? Bro. 21 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 3: I can't get into that one. 22 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 4: I should he still be eating at his excess house? 23 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:20,119 Speaker 3: Uh? He brought his. 24 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 4: Son over there was eating, He got a plate. I 25 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 4: don't you need to start cooking? You need to start 26 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 4: cooking over other people's house eating? He should ate that 27 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 4: in the car now, God, I'm gonna let that one go. 28 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 4: I can't help you home. 29 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,040 Speaker 2: He's on his own. You're the celo. 30 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 3: Well, no, the lady wrote the letter. 31 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 4: She do need to start cooking, moto whatever. 32 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, he should have put in his car, he should rocket. Yeah, yeah, 33 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 5: I ate that on the way. I wouldn't have brought 34 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 5: that to that. 35 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, obviously she can cook though, all right? 36 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: Moving on to Lester and fort Wayne at Lester writes, 37 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: my wife is eighteen year Lester, My wife is eighteen 38 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: years younger than I am. And at first things were great. 39 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: But five years later she still thinks of ways to 40 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: waste my money. She wants to go skiing for the holidays. 41 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: How do I convince her to start creating holiday traditions 42 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: at home? 43 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 3: See the five years later? Though you old, you're getting 44 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 3: older and older. She want to create holiday traditions. She 45 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 3: want to go skiing. 46 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 4: She married you because of your ability to allow her 47 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 4: to do things like that where some of the younger guys. 48 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:46,239 Speaker 3: Couldn't afford it. 49 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 4: Hit Now you want to start cutting back, but you 50 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 4: use that to get her. 51 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 3: In the beginning. 52 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:57,399 Speaker 4: Let's be real, it was y'all promoting that I can 53 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 4: take care of you. 54 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 3: I'll give you what you need me security. 55 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's how you you lure it in. Now she 56 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 4: want to go skiing for Christmas? You want her to 57 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 4: bake cookies at the house. Well, she's almost twenty years 58 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 4: younger than you. Let's say you fifty, she thirty. Let's 59 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 4: say you sixty, she forty. That gap strong dog. 60 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 2: So you're saying he married for love. She married for money. 61 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 3: He married for LUs. 62 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 2: Oh, he married for luss and cook. 63 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 4: Oh. 64 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:33,640 Speaker 3: She's a young fine thing, and she married for money. 65 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 3: He can't believe he got her. She married for security 66 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 3: and money. 67 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 4: She's not gonna be on no holiday traditions because she 68 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 4: don't think you're gonna be here that much. 69 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 2: Maybe twenty years from now she will. 70 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 3: And might have something to do it. Next question, She 71 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 3: all right. 72 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: Moving on to Rashida and Bradington, Rashida writes, I've gained 73 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 1: ten pounds and I'm self conscious. I asked my boyfriend 74 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: how I looked before I left the house, and he 75 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: said I had a nice dress that covered up my belly. 76 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: He blurted it out, like he's bothered about me gaining weight? 77 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 2: Was that a sign? 78 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 3: Direct direct hit? Missile? 79 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: Okay said like he was thinking it, but didn't had 80 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: sense enough not to say it like that. What did 81 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 1: he really mean by that? 82 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 3: The good thing? You covered up all that stomach? 83 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 2: So she just ten pounds of stomach fat? 84 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 3: Wow, so you just gonna sit. 85 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 4: So you just gonna you just over there, you're just 86 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 4: gonna keep on well, so. 87 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 3: You don't quit trying. 88 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 4: I'm so glad it is though, But a lot of 89 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 4: these men that's complaining by weight got weight. 90 00:04:54,200 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's very. 91 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 3: I'll be going like, oh man, you're over here with 92 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 3: all this stomach. 93 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 2: But they're not. Men aren't judged by their looks. Women are. 94 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:06,839 Speaker 2: You know, their. 95 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 3: Beauty, right, that's always that's that's about the same. That's what. 96 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 4: Well, if you get judged quicker, women are judged. I 97 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 4: don't care money, no money, You get judged on how. 98 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:23,559 Speaker 3: You look, right, exactly what men based on income level 99 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 3: can be overlooked. 100 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 2: True good men? 101 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So so when they told me what you're 102 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 1: doing over here, that would by looks. 103 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 3: Directly about your look jr. How old was you then 104 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 3: about twenty two twenty three? Yeah, you ain't had no money, no, no, 105 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 3: no money. 106 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 2: But that's it. 107 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 4: But it didn't win yeah, but see that ain't gonna 108 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 4: last long because you know. 109 00:05:58,240 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 3: Ain't nobody dating nobody for they. 110 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 4: Have for sure if you're broke. Yeah, he come over there. 111 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 4: Yeah he ain't had no money, didn't he? 112 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 2: But he was cute. 113 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 3: Yeah that q go out the window down when you 114 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 3: got to go down to the hospital. 115 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 2: Though, Oh god, they come. 116 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 1: Lot. 117 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 3: It's wrong with him. 118 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 2: Time, Maybe what's wrong? Okay? You all right? 119 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: So so you're saying that she needs to lose her 120 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 1: ten pounds, basically is that she wants to ten pounds. 121 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 4: Look, it's always in your best interest. It's always in 122 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 4: your best interest to be your best self. I'm going 123 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 4: through that right now with me. I bought a tuxedo 124 00:06:58,560 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 4: last year. 125 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 3: Had it cut, uh huh. 126 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:05,799 Speaker 4: You know, I was down sixteen percent body fat. See 127 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 4: now I'm up to nineteen now now that tucks that 128 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 4: I had cut it don't need cutting now I need 129 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 4: it open. 130 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 2: See for three more body fats? 131 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, three percent body fat, you know, especially if it's 132 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 4: in the stomach. So being boom, I gotta get there. 133 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 4: I cannot now I'm in the process of getting that 134 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 4: back off because that took cost way too much. 135 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 2: One of Tommy spanks. 136 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 1: Okay, I want to Tommy swanks. 137 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 3: Tommy got spanks. Somebody told hood of tale jokes. Nobody 138 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 3: tell hood tale jokes. 139 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 2: Used to wear spanks? All right, come on the top 140 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 2: of the hour. It wasn't a it wasn't a secret. 141 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 2: I will have entertainment news for you right after this. 142 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 2: You know that you're listening Harvey Morning Show.