1 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:10,399 Speaker 1: Hello, my little sexy Angels, it's your best friend Laala 2 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: Kent with Jessica. Hello. Everyone. Okay, before we talk about 3 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:20,440 Speaker 1: the reunion, we have to talk about the most important 4 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: thing on my mind right now. 5 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 2: Wait, tell me what. 6 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: You know, Julie Fox, he's dating Kanye West. Julia Fox. 7 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 2: Julia, Julie Oh, Julia Fox. 8 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: Yes, yes they do. Okay, I just can't help but 9 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: look at everything that's posted online and want to crawl 10 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 1: under a table. 11 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 2: Tell us, why tell us what you think about this relationship? 12 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 1: All right, this is what I'm gonna say. If Kanye 13 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: West rolled up on me and said I want to 14 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: date you, I'd be like, fuck, No, you dated Kim Kardashian. Yeah, 15 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:05,119 Speaker 1: I'm never gonna date you. Yeah. Kim Kardashian was your wife, 16 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: right and the mother of your babies. Yeah, you just 17 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: can't compete. So when I see this Julia Julia right, 18 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: Julia Fox, and she's like got her stomach out and 19 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 1: her like pant shoes that Kim k wears, and I 20 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: just wanted to I want to tell her like stop, stop, 21 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 1: no more. 22 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 2: Do you think they're in a real relationship? 23 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: I haven't, Like, really, I'm not one of those people 24 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: that like deep dives, right, you know, like I see 25 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: them like touching each other and like holding hands. But 26 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 1: I did see one video of Kanye West, and by 27 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: the way, I do not condone this. I don't like 28 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: when men walk in front of women at all. It 29 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: drives me crazy. But this just kind of solidified how 30 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 1: I felt about the relation their relationship. If it is 31 00:01:55,960 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: one like Kim and Kanye was like Kanye okay, and 32 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: then it was like, that's Kim fucking Kardashian, Like she 33 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: just steals every single show. She's fucking Kim Kardashian. But 34 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: it's Kanye West at the airport and he's like doing 35 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: something talking to this guy and he's like hauling ass 36 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: and Julie Fox or Julia Fox was like trying so 37 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:19,959 Speaker 1: hard to want to like not run. 38 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 3: To keep it sexy, but like speed walk, and I 39 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 3: was like, no, this is so bad. 40 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: When I have to look that up because it was 41 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: like I think the video was Kanye was trying to 42 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 1: stop a paparazzi's car from being towed or something, oh. 43 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 3: Which doesn't sound like him at all. I feel like 44 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 3: he would get the paparazzi car toad. 45 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: Well no, right now, I mean, right now, all he 46 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:45,679 Speaker 1: wants to do is get photographed with Julia Fox and 47 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 1: threaten Pete Davidson. All he wants to do. I love 48 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: Kanye West. By the way. 49 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 3: Oh my, well, there we go. It's gonna be the 50 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 3: first time I ever disagree with La La on her podcasts. 51 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 3: Everyone I despise Connie West. I used to be obsessed 52 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 3: with him back in the day, but at this point, 53 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,959 Speaker 3: I'm like, ugh, like no more, give me a oh 54 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 3: my god, everything about him, I'm like, ugh, give me break. 55 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: I think I'm not like that because you know me, 56 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 1: I'm kind of only in the Real housewives world, right 57 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: unless you're a housewife, Like, yeah, I really don't know 58 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:28,359 Speaker 1: much about you. I'm gonna be totally honest. Like even 59 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: Larsa Pippen, I was like, Larsa Pippen and then she's 60 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: on Real house Eves in Miami, I was like, motherfucker, 61 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: Laarsa Pippin, you know right right? So I just I 62 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: want Julia Fox to just not. 63 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 3: It's really funny. I think it's a I don't think 64 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 3: it's real. I think it's a mutually beneficial relationship. I 65 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 3: think she needed. 66 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: More, how was he benefiting from it? 67 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 3: Well, I think she needed more eyes on her. She wanted, 68 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 3: I mean, anyone will do for the press. So she 69 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 3: was in the movie. I'm sure she was in a 70 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 3: lot of things, but she was in the movie Most 71 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 3: Notable Uncut Gems. 72 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: I never see it, No, I never saw it was 73 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: good and she was good, But she was the role. 74 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 2: The best way I can put it, she was the 75 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 2: role you would think she would be. 76 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: She's this hot annoy. 77 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, her like accent, like she's all of it. 78 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:18,359 Speaker 1: She has an accent where she's from. 79 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 3: Well now, I'm thinking, right in my mind she is 80 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,359 Speaker 3: a like a New York like Brooklyn accent in the movie. 81 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 2: But that might be totally wrong. And I'm not even 82 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 2: gonna google it. 83 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: It's kind of hot. Maybe I should maybe I should 84 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: watch her in that to be less annoyed. Yeah, because 85 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: right now she's just some girl that like popped up 86 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: that I desperately want to put self tanner all over 87 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: her body. See, I like, if you're going to expose 88 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: that much of your stomach, we need to put some 89 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: sanchope on there, tan yourself up. 90 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 3: No, I think that she Yeah, she gets the the 91 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:57,359 Speaker 3: exposure she gets I think I'm like a conspiracy theorist 92 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 3: on this. 93 00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 2: I think she's getting paid for it. 94 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 3: I think that Kanye West is getting look at him, 95 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:06,159 Speaker 3: he's getting the press. Right when he lost Kim, he 96 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 3: kind of He's still got a lot of press, but 97 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 3: like Kim gets photographed everywhere everywhere, and then he lost Kim, 98 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 3: and I think now he's getting like the amount at 99 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 3: Paris Fashion Week, the amount of press coverage that they 100 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 3: got was insane. 101 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 1: That's true. He's definitely everywhere, like even when he was 102 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: when you're with Kim Kardashian, which I love because it's 103 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: here I am dragging Julie or Julia Fox to it, 104 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 1: and then I'm like fame all empowerment. I love that 105 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,159 Speaker 1: Kim Kai gets all the spotlight all the time. I 106 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: definitely the last two podcasts, I'm literally making no sense. 107 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 1: That's okay though, the guy that's okay. No, Definitely, they're 108 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:47,280 Speaker 1: getting a ton of coverage from what I've seen. 109 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, but he's doing his weird moon boots wearing those 110 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 3: bad boys everywhere. 111 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: It's like, uh, it's almost like he's watching Napoleon Dynamite 112 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: and being like my new and icon. 113 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 2: Right, Yes, And I just think I can't stand him. 114 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 1: Fair enough, Yeah, fair enough. 115 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 3: So and you know what if I Julia Fox when 116 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 3: I saw her in the movie Uncut Gems, I'm like, Oh, 117 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 3: this woman's awesome, badass. And then now that she's with Kanye, 118 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 3: I've lost. 119 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:17,799 Speaker 1: A lot of respect. 120 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 2: Not that she gives a shit, but. 121 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: You know, she's like Jessica Walters doesn't have respect. Oh, 122 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:24,919 Speaker 1: doesn't have any respect for me anymore. I've got to 123 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 1: break up with Kanye. 124 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 4: Way. 125 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: I cannot sleep at night. 126 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 2: Sorry. 127 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,239 Speaker 1: Okay, So that was the most important thing I wanted 128 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 1: to talk about. Okay, the next thing is the reunion. 129 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:39,840 Speaker 1: It aired back to back, which that was crazy. I 130 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 1: didn't realize they were going to do like Monday or 131 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:42,840 Speaker 1: Tuesday Wednesday. 132 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,720 Speaker 2: I know I didn't either, But how'd you feel about it? 133 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: You know? It was really funny for me to watch 134 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: because people say would say things, and then I would 135 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: like go to say something, and then I'd fall back 136 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: and be like, om, littie, I should know you were 137 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: over it before it started. I was over it. But 138 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: I've seen like a couple of memes that are like 139 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: Tom Santaval and Ariana taking out their ear pieces to 140 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: ignore Lalla. It was funny. Hold on ear pieces? What 141 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: do you mean? Because I was virtual, so they had 142 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: earbuds listening to me. 143 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 2: Oh that's how it works. 144 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I got it. Which like whenever whenever they 145 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: don't like something that someone's saying, like, it was perfect 146 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: that I wasn't there because they could remove their ear pieces. 147 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: That was like the one little piece of power that 148 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: they had, which was cute to watch. I actually loved it. 149 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I like how powerful you want? 150 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: Oh like throw your ear piece? Yeah, you're mad, You're mad. 151 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 1: And then and then there was another meme that this 152 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: one made me laugh. It says, like my quote saying 153 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: someone should have told me about being you know, creeped on. Yeah, 154 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: and then it has four images of me like clapping 155 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 1: at Raquel calling her a bambiad bitch me, saying you 156 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 1: try to get popped, And then and then it says 157 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: on what planet is Laala can approach? It killed me? Granted, 158 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: like all of those pictures that they use were from 159 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: like my drinking days, you know, and I definitely I've 160 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 1: also matured a lot, Like I'm thirty one years old 161 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: and I don't get it popping as much as I 162 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 1: used to. Like I said, I'm retired. 163 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 3: That so you think you think overall? What are your 164 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 3: overall thoughts about Part one and two? 165 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 1: My overall thoughts on the reunion Brock was, I was 166 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: embarrassed for him. I was very embarrassed for him the 167 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: way that he was handling things on the reunion. With 168 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 1: that being said, With that being said, he sent me 169 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 1: a very sweet message and said, you know I had 170 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: hurt him this season and he apologizes it was it 171 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: was very sweet, and you know, I just I texted 172 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 1: him back and just said, like if anyone gets it, 173 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: like I get it, I react off of being hurt 174 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: and like we're all good over here, Like I let 175 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: things go. I can shake things off pretty quickly. I 176 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 1: don't hold on too much. 177 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 5: You know. 178 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 1: I'll sit here and someone does something to me and 179 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: I'll yap, yap, yap in the second they say like 180 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:19,199 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm like, what even happened? Let's paint each 181 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: other's tone nails, like I like forgive and forget. Yeah. 182 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: But other than that, like I thought, I thought James 183 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: was hilarious, really funny. James is the most brilliant reality 184 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: TV personality ever because you watch him and you literally 185 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,559 Speaker 1: like it's like a camera isn't even on him right, 186 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 1: the way he moves, the way he is talking, and 187 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: it's like he really doesn't see the camera at. 188 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 2: All, which is like everything you want, everything you want 189 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 2: to start. 190 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like you watch him and you see the veins 191 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:54,199 Speaker 1: you see you know for me, like, yes, I maneuver 192 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 1: with filming and whatever, but like I'm aware of my angles. Yeah, 193 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 1: not all the time. This season, I was like laying 194 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: on the couch while Santaval got his makeup done. I 195 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 1: was like, Lala, up, you got a lot of chance happening. 196 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: You're not looking your best. That's what happens when I 197 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 1: get too comfortable and I'm like it's reality TV whatever. Yeah, 198 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 1: and then I watch it back and I'm like, geez no, 199 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: why did you decide to stuff yourself into that Dunham 200 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 1: Lug loved the Dunhim Lug. I remember you being like, 201 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: oh the dnim look. And then I saw it and 202 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, what is this girl talking about? I was like, 203 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 1: she's working it now, that's my own insecurity. But whatever. 204 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:41,199 Speaker 1: I mean, the the reunion I thought was great. 205 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 3: Wait, I have a question about James and Raquel because 206 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 3: you brought up James. Did you guys know that that 207 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 3: everything had kind of gone south before? And you were 208 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:52,719 Speaker 3: just acting like. 209 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 1: Not even a little bit, really, not even a little bit. 210 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: I was texting Sheena and I was like, I'm freaking out, 211 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 1: like I'm not allowed to come to the reunion because 212 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 1: I had a COVID exposure. I didn't never get COVID, 213 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 1: by the way, And she was like James and Raquel, 214 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 1: like James is on ten and Raquel seems very down. 215 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 1: And I was like, that's weird. But no one told 216 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: us anything, and they certainly didn't tell us until they 217 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: were on camera, and. 218 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 3: You guys all found out because okay, because I'm like 219 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 3: looking at your reactions and I was like, if they 220 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 3: all knew before, they're like brilliant actors. 221 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think so. The people who were actually 222 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 1: in studio knew before, and they weren't allowed to tell 223 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 1: us because they had started they had started filming. I 224 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 1: mean literally, I found out that I had been exposed 225 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: to COVID Friday morning. The car was in my driveway 226 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: ready to pick me up, I remember, and they just 227 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: sat there for hours waiting for me to come down. 228 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:57,199 Speaker 1: That was probably eight am, yeah, eight am. 229 00:11:57,360 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you were up just I'm just saying that 230 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 3: because I was like, Lalla had the longest day that 231 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 3: day because Lalla was up by like five. 232 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: Well, I was doing my own GLAMs yeah, and like, yeah, 233 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: I didn't like it. I wanted to have time to 234 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 1: switch it up. Yeah, you know. And then at three 235 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: o'clock is when we started, they were like, you absolutely 236 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: can't come, so we're having a crew come and drop 237 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: things off and then you had to set everything up. 238 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 1: They dropped it off in front of the door. 239 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:30,079 Speaker 3: You guys, I'm the least technologically savvy person ever, and 240 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 3: I set up the whole thing. Granted it was it 241 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 3: was like a laptop and like a microphone, but I 242 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 3: did it. 243 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: You did it. I couldn't have done it. There were 244 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: chords everywhere. And we started at three. So by the 245 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 1: time they told us, like on the virtual end, that 246 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 1: they had broken up, Like, yes, I was shocked. I 247 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:52,560 Speaker 1: was also exhausted. I had been dealing with so much. Yeah, 248 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 1: I was ready to like share my truth and I 249 00:12:56,559 --> 00:13:01,560 Speaker 1: was like this is so sad, yeah, but also kind 250 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: of amazing. I mean, one are the fucking chances of 251 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:08,319 Speaker 1: James and I being the most buckwhild together like we 252 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:11,679 Speaker 1: were so fun, yeah, settling down and then we're like, 253 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 1: we don't feel like doing this anymore. Bad bitch. You know, 254 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: what are the odds? Why here we are? And he 255 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 1: posted something of him like holding hands with a girl 256 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 1: on his Instagram. It popped up on my breaking news break. 257 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 3: No La la, I screenshotted it stuff. Yeah, well I 258 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:31,960 Speaker 3: screen shot at it because I'm like, I'm gonna show 259 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 3: this slala tomorrow and then I forgot. 260 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't worry, my mom has breaking news and that 261 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: was on there. I texted him. I was like, yo, yo, kid, 262 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 1: who is this? Who is this? And he told me, yeah, 263 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell you guys. That's my boy, 264 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 1: just like it. And when I tell him who I'm 265 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 1: doing fun stuff, yeah, he's not gonna tell anybody either. 266 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:59,319 Speaker 1: I love it, you know, probably because there's gonna be 267 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 1: too many names to remember that I'm doing fun stuff with. 268 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 1: I love that. Rock them up, Jess. 269 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 3: If Bander Pump Rolls is picked up for another season, 270 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 3: now the season's over, yeah, what do you foresee next season? 271 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 3: Being like you and come on, I'm tuning in to 272 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 3: see what Lala and James are doing James. 273 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: And Lalla's dating show. Obviously, I'm going to parade these 274 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: fine men onto this show like little show ponies. I'm 275 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 1: just kidding. I'm totally not like that. I say that 276 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 1: I am, and I'm like, no, I really like him. 277 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm protecting him. 278 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 2: Oh that'll be good, that'll be good. I guess we'll 279 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 2: have to wait and see. 280 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 1: No, James and I are gonna get buck wild. Yeah, 281 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 1: with our sparkling water, our fine little people that we're 282 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 1: going to bring in and out even if they're not 283 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 1: on camera. It's like this summer is going to be 284 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 1: the goat, right. I just know it. 285 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 2: I know it too, I can feel it. 286 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. So the reunion I thought was great from what 287 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 1: I can remember, well good, you know. 288 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 289 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: With that being said, do we have voicemails? We have voicemails. 290 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 1: I want this episode to be the voicemail episode. 291 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 2: That's fun because we have a good amount. 292 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: All right, So when we come back, I'm going to 293 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 1: grace you guys with these amazing voicemails, and I want 294 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 1: you to remember to call me at one eight sixty 295 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: six La La Pod to share all of your thoughts, 296 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 1: your hopes, your dreams. Let's talk about it. We'll be 297 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: right back. 298 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 3: Weird Bed. 299 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 1: Can you just landed from outer space? We give them 300 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: a LA podcast The voicemail episode Jess, can we roll 301 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: the first one? Please? Rolling the voicemails? 302 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 6: Hi, La La, I'm calling all the way from Canada. 303 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 6: My name's Alana and I'm a huge kind of yours 304 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 6: love the podcast. We have a lot in common. We're 305 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 6: the same age, we are both newly single mama, and 306 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:05,880 Speaker 6: my question for you is what is the best advice 307 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 6: you can give me and all the other women currently 308 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 6: going through this for how the best ways you are 309 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 6: helping yourself to move on, to move forward, to be productive. 310 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 6: As you know, this is such a hard process and 311 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 6: I am trying to navigate myself the best way possible. 312 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 6: But some extra tips and tricks of anything that's worked 313 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 6: for you would be greatly appreciated. 314 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:41,359 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Oh my love, I mean, cheers 315 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: to the single moms. Cheers right yeah. 316 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:48,119 Speaker 2: Superheroes, literal superheroes. 317 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 1: We're out in these streets representing and I am proud 318 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 1: of us. I think the most important thing is practicing 319 00:16:57,280 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 1: self care. You know. I I like my days to 320 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 1: be productive. I don't like to sleep in obviously, I 321 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 1: can't sleep in because I have a baby, and having 322 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 1: a to do list, you know, I didn't really have 323 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: much time to kind of sit and wallow in what 324 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 1: was going on. Like I had to keep moving, you know, 325 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:20,719 Speaker 1: I have bills to pay. I was moving, like my 326 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 1: life was flipped upside down in a matter of seconds, 327 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 1: you know. So for me, I think that was extremely 328 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:31,919 Speaker 1: helpful to know, like I have to work. If you 329 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:36,919 Speaker 1: aren't a working mom, then getting outside planning walks like 330 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:39,399 Speaker 1: the other day, I was feeling like I just wanted 331 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:41,879 Speaker 1: to stay in bed that day. You know, we're allowed 332 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:44,159 Speaker 1: to have those moments, and I didn't allow myself to. 333 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 1: I said, I'm going on a freaking hike. Yeah, and 334 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 1: it snapped me right out of it. So I think 335 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:54,399 Speaker 1: going outside, having a to do list, making time for 336 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 1: your girlfriends, and just getting out of like the shit 337 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: that we're in. My biggest thing is the mind is 338 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 1: a very powerful thing, and if you allow your mind 339 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:09,439 Speaker 1: to take you to a dark place, you have to 340 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:11,199 Speaker 1: know if your mind is powerful enough to do that, 341 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:14,120 Speaker 1: your mind is also powerful enough to bring you out 342 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 1: of it. No one ever focuses on that side of it. 343 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: You know, it's like the mind is a powerful thing. 344 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 1: It can put you in a hole. Well, if it's 345 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:22,479 Speaker 1: powerful enough to put me in a hole, then it's 346 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 1: sure it's a powerful enough to pull me on out right. 347 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 1: So yes, So when I get into those zones, I'm 348 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 1: trying very hard to shift my mindset, like, no, you 349 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 1: will not break today. We're going to keep it moving 350 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 1: because for me, it's not so much about the loss 351 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 1: of that person, like I feel free, I feel liberated, 352 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 1: I'm happy. It's the shift in things. Yeah, you know, 353 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:52,439 Speaker 1: people get comfortable and even if you're not happy. It's 354 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: kind of like a job. You're unhappy at a job, 355 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: but you're nervous to leave because it's all you know. 356 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 1: And then once you're out, you're like, oh my god, 357 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 1: I'm so free with yeah you know what I mean. Yeah, free, but. 358 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 3: Change, it's changed, and it might be holy shit, like 359 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 3: especially if you were in that job for a long time, yes, 360 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 3: and you had like you know all you were comfortable, right, 361 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 3: unhappy and you. 362 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 2: Leave and then it's like, oh my. 363 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: God, yes, yeah, that's exactly what it's like, Oh my god, 364 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:23,640 Speaker 1: because you're used to doing the same thing all the time, 365 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 1: and when you venture out into something new, new challenges 366 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:32,159 Speaker 1: present themselves, and sometimes new challenges are scarier than you 367 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:34,959 Speaker 1: just being unhappy every day, but you were used to that, 368 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:38,160 Speaker 1: so it was like something that became normal. Yeah. Yeah, 369 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 1: So remember give your mind some credit. We're much stronger 370 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 1: than we think. Like, talk yourself out of that hole. 371 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:47,679 Speaker 1: Your mind can talk you out of it, just like 372 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 1: it can talk you into it. Your mind is so powerful, 373 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 1: mind over matter. My grandmama always said, well, thank God 374 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: for Grandmama, because you feel sick, pretend like you don't 375 00:19:58,119 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 1: feel sick. And I was like, oh shit, I don't 376 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 1: I feel sick anymore. 377 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 3: It's actually crazy. You know, you can think yourself into 378 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 3: being sick. Can you do it a lot? 379 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 1: I did it all the time in school. I was like, 380 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,360 Speaker 1: I need myself to get a headache right now, let's 381 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: just skip this toast. What's the next day? All right? 382 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 2: Next one? 383 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:20,639 Speaker 7: Hi, Lala, My name is Becca from Fana Barbara, California, 384 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 7: and your podcast is entertaining his buck and I want 385 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 7: to thank you for giving me something new to listen 386 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 7: to every week, and not only that, but something that's 387 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 7: insightful and something that I can relate to. I'm sure 388 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 7: everyone appreciates that as well. My question just has been 389 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 7: living rent free in my mind for so long. You 390 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 7: mentioned in an interview that you broke through a hurricane 391 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 7: proof window, and I'm just really really curious about how 392 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 7: the hell that happens. Explain how a small, beautiful woman 393 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 7: like you can do that. I really like to know. 394 00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 7: Thank you, and yeah, maybe I'll I'll hear the answer eventually. 395 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:06,479 Speaker 1: Well, thank you, Becca. I love this question, and I 396 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: actually talk about this in my book. I'm still very 397 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 1: confused how I did that. You have to remember, like 398 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 1: I talk about, I talk about my my drunken days often. 399 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 1: I feel like they're important to talk about because so 400 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:26,159 Speaker 1: many people around me when I diagnosed myself as an 401 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:28,359 Speaker 1: alcoholic and came out as that that were like, you 402 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,640 Speaker 1: don't have a drinking problem, what are you talking about? 403 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 1: And it was like, well, let me share some stories 404 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 1: with you, because these stories led up to my rock bottom, 405 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:40,400 Speaker 1: which ultimately led me to being sober for over three 406 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 1: years now. All right, So I have to pay respect 407 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 1: to my messy days because without them, I wouldn't be 408 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 1: here right now. The hurricane proof glass window. I just remember, 409 00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:02,720 Speaker 1: I have very strong legs. Yes, obviously, And I don't 410 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 1: know if it was where the heel hit the glass window, 411 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:10,679 Speaker 1: but it hit like where, like the frame of the 412 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 1: door and then the glass. Does that make sense? So 413 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 1: it wasn't It wasn't a window. It was like a door, 414 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:19,680 Speaker 1: like a glass door, and where they meet that's where 415 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: the crack started. And it did not shatter. It was 416 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 1: a perfect circle. Stop. 417 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 2: Wait, the glass just blew out. 418 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,159 Speaker 1: It didn't blow out at all. It was just a crack, 419 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 1: but it didn't shatter. It just had a perfect like break, 420 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:39,120 Speaker 1: a perfect circular brake. But the window was still there. 421 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 1: It needed to be replaced. Oh but like they have 422 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 1: those windows for hurricanes. 423 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,479 Speaker 3: When I read it in your book, No, Lie, I 424 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:53,359 Speaker 3: pictured you. I pictured this window getting smashed out and 425 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 3: then you just gracefully like stepping through the part that 426 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:56,399 Speaker 3: you smashed. 427 00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 1: Oh, that would be so much more entertaining. No, unfortunate. 428 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 1: It was just like I kicked it and I didn't 429 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,399 Speaker 1: go through it. There was no shattering, there was no 430 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 1: big bang from the glass. It was just like a 431 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:13,719 Speaker 1: perfect hairline circular crack. Okay, so you must have hit 432 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 1: it just right, just right with my black Christian Leubitan 433 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 1: and I was fully naked. 434 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:21,400 Speaker 2: That's what they're made for. 435 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 1: That's what they're made for. I mean, can I tell 436 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,359 Speaker 1: you now though in my sober state of mind in 437 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:32,880 Speaker 1: thirty one and with a baby, like I would never 438 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,399 Speaker 1: do that. I had no shit. 439 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 2: There's so much that I like, background that I've done. 440 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:43,359 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I can't even process it. No, Like 441 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 1: back in the Day season four, I like push Kristen Dody, 442 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 1: huh and that's I was like, I cannot even fathom 443 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 1: walking up to someone I'm shoving them, Like what the fuck? 444 00:23:58,600 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 7: See? 445 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 1: But that's what happened. You're sober. Now you're a different person. 446 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 1: I'm a different person and thankfully, like I'm happy about 447 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:11,880 Speaker 1: my evolution. Yeah, I'm all about it. And I mean 448 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:13,320 Speaker 1: it made for great television. 449 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 7: You know. 450 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 2: Wait, was the hurricane proof glass smash on Vanderpunk. 451 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: No, that was not smashed on vander p That was 452 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 1: on our off season. Okay in Florida. 453 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 3: Did you have a moment though where you you saw 454 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 3: that you did that? 455 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 2: Because I would and be like, oh, I'm kind of 456 00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 2: bad ass, Like. 457 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 1: No, but I looked at my these like scrawny legs, 458 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:42,400 Speaker 1: and I was like what the fuck you know, how 459 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 1: did you do that? Did you do that? Yes? 460 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 3: Oh that's funny. 461 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:53,359 Speaker 1: Why? Okay? I have straw legged like my mother. You guys. 462 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:57,159 Speaker 3: The past like four days, Lalla has had this energy 463 00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:58,679 Speaker 3: that I don't know. 464 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:01,120 Speaker 1: It's like it's like just a little euphoric. 465 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:04,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like happy and quirky, and she's like a 466 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 3: stand up comedian all of a sudden, and I'm like, 467 00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 3: who are you? 468 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 1: I want to bottle it up. It's probably called delirium. 469 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,080 Speaker 1: Is that the word delirium where you're like so tired 470 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 1: and you get no sleep at night? Yes, dealirium. Yeah, okay, okay, okay, 471 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,640 Speaker 1: next voice me, Kaula. 472 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:26,199 Speaker 8: It's Caroline from North Carolina. Here. I just wanted to 473 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,400 Speaker 8: see if you would ever start doing maybe an advice 474 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 8: segment on your podcast where people could write in with 475 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 8: their problems. I feel like you would give some really 476 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 8: woke advice, and I know I could sure use it sometimes. Anyway. 477 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 8: I hope you're doing well with everything. You and Ocean 478 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,440 Speaker 8: are the cutest. I love you though so much. 479 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 1: All right, nice Caroline from North Carolina. I love that 480 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 1: she's that you said woke advice. I know not necessarily good, 481 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 1: but woke. That's what cool kids say. Now I know, 482 00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: do they still say that woke? 483 00:25:59,320 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 4: Yeah? 484 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so. 485 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 1: I don't know who knows. For so long everyone was like, yolo, 486 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:08,679 Speaker 1: I'm so woke, and I was like, what what, Like 487 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 1: a ninety year old, that's actually a great idea. I mean, 488 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 1: my advice just comes from what I've personally been through, 489 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,880 Speaker 1: and just like the mindset that I try to stay 490 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 1: in because I'm I'm not always great at practicing what 491 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 1: I preach. Great at preaching, not so great at the practicing. 492 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:29,760 Speaker 4: You know. 493 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 1: It's kind of like do your homework and then like 494 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,120 Speaker 1: you never did your homework when you were a kid, 495 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:36,399 Speaker 1: you know, like when you're a mom and you're like 496 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,400 Speaker 1: telling you, like, read the book that your teacher told 497 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,160 Speaker 1: you to read, and you know, good and goddamn well, 498 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,879 Speaker 1: like you didn't read? You didn't you? Cliff know? At best? 499 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: At best? At best, walk me into Barnes and Noble 500 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:51,920 Speaker 1: and find me that like little thing that translates Shakespeare 501 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 1: into layman's terms. And then when you go to test, 502 00:26:55,200 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 1: it's all Shakespeare and you're like, I might aop right, 503 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,479 Speaker 1: let's yeah, So that's what I the equivalent to what 504 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 1: I do. I guess No, that's a great idea. We 505 00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,640 Speaker 1: should have like a section of the podcast like every 506 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 1: so often where it's like, ride in with your problems 507 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:17,400 Speaker 1: and let me try to teach you the ways. I mean, 508 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 1: I kind of. 509 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,479 Speaker 2: Feel like that's a little bit what the voicemail thing is. 510 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,439 Speaker 1: But voicemails are the voicemails are bombed because yes, that 511 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 1: is thank you, Justine. It's actually literally what I'm doing? 512 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 2: What are we doing here? 513 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:34,239 Speaker 3: What's going on? 514 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:39,640 Speaker 1: I mean, it's hard for me because, like during the reunion, 515 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 1: even Andy was asking me, like what red Flags did 516 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:47,200 Speaker 1: Brock show to you? And I was like, I think 517 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,160 Speaker 1: we can all agree that I'm not an expert at 518 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:54,280 Speaker 1: red Flags, So I am going to plead the fifth 519 00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 1: on this one. Can we move on like tortureus? Yeah? 520 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but now you are you're an expert. 521 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: I know, too much of an expert. Because now when 522 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,920 Speaker 1: people ride in with their relationship problems or call into 523 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:10,120 Speaker 1: the podcast right as they say anything, I'm like, leave 524 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 1: him right, run you might be a little too quick. 525 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 2: You'll find a happy medium. 526 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: I'll find a happy medium. I'm going to find like 527 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,399 Speaker 1: the best dude ever where like there's little things he 528 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,639 Speaker 1: does where it's like, Okay, that's annoying. Not necessarily a 529 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 1: red flag. Right now, I'm like, everything is a red flag? Right, 530 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,679 Speaker 1: run away? Right, you don't, Lala? 531 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 2: My husband burned the chicken. 532 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 1: Leave him? Leave him? What was he doing? Was he 533 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 1: on his phone? Was he on his phone when it burned? 534 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 1: What is he doing on his phone? Red flag? Get out? 535 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: That's exactly what it is. So we'll give me some 536 00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 1: time to simmern down smart. All right, We're gonna take 537 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 1: a short break, and then I want to come back 538 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 1: with more voicemails, because this is the voicemail episode. So 539 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,239 Speaker 1: remember to call me at one eight six six la 540 00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:07,280 Speaker 1: la pad. We'll be right back. We're back in Perrie, 541 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 1: especially passed and giving me all the fizz, all the feels. 542 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 1: Sorry fizz made sense that that's so funny? All right, Jessica, 543 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 1: what's the next voice? Melville? 544 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,600 Speaker 4: Okay, Hi, Lala, this is a tissuy. I'm calling from Atlanta. 545 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 4: I love you. Love how strong you are and how 546 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,720 Speaker 4: you take every punch, whether to the chint or to 547 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 4: the gut, as a learning opportunity and a reason to 548 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 4: get stronger. And so I've noticed this every time and 549 00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 4: listen to the podcast. You're always giving so much to us, 550 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 4: to your listeners and to your followers and fans. And 551 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:53,400 Speaker 4: my question for you is, with your upcoming tour, a 552 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 4: lot of us are coming to see you and meet 553 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 4: you like I am, and I would love to know 554 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:02,000 Speaker 4: what can we do to support you and give back 555 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 4: to you and help you feel just that extra rush 556 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 4: of love and support because you've gone through so much 557 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 4: and know a lot of us would just love to 558 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 4: help give back to you as well. Love you your amazing, 559 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:18,640 Speaker 4: Give Ocean my love and see you soon. 560 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:25,120 Speaker 1: Bye. That was like the sweetest voicemail I've ever heard ever. No, 561 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 1: I mean, yes, I have been the through it the 562 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 1: past few months, but I feel like on this tour, 563 00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:41,240 Speaker 1: just people showing up is going to be enough for me. 564 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,520 Speaker 1: You know, I've I've always been the type of person 565 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 1: where it's like I'm just looking for like quality time. 566 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 1: I'm looking for you to share your experiences for us 567 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 1: to bond over and talk about, and that for me 568 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: is like the ultimate support system. 569 00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:57,880 Speaker 4: You know. 570 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, you could also me a burken back. I'm just kidding. 571 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 1: I'm totally kidding. I just want this night to have 572 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 1: like an impact on people, right, you know, And that 573 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 1: doesn't necessarily mean like I want you to leave feeling 574 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 1: like you just went to church or went to a 575 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,800 Speaker 1: what's that guy's name? What you get stuck on the 576 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:26,240 Speaker 1: elevator with shallow? How have you seen the movie Wants 577 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 1: a Gal? 578 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:26,960 Speaker 9: Yes? 579 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 1: What's the toy? Tony Robbins Robbins, Yes, yes, Okay, Like 580 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 1: that's not what I mean by it being impactful, like 581 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 1: you coming in and I just performed at Tony Robbins 582 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 1: ceremony ceremony, you know, but like I want you to 583 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 1: come in. I want you to have a drink. I 584 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 1: want you to bring a book if you want it signed. 585 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:51,600 Speaker 1: I want to like get you a good buzz. I 586 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 1: want you to laugh your ass off. I want you 587 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,120 Speaker 1: to sit here and like you want me to call 588 00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 1: somebody like did someone do you dirty? And they need 589 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 1: to get a phone call from Lalla, Like have them 590 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 1: on speed dial, motherfucker, because we're calling them up. 591 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 2: How fun is that? Laala just teased the segment that 592 00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:08,960 Speaker 2: she came. 593 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:10,880 Speaker 1: Up with you guys, Was I supposed to do that? Jess? 594 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:14,080 Speaker 2: No, But let's keep it in because that is spicy. 595 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 1: That's yeah, you can. 596 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:17,600 Speaker 7: You can. 597 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 2: You don't have to go into details, but you guys. 598 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 1: No, that's what I want to do. I wanted to 599 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 1: be like, oh my gosh, that was the best night ever. 600 00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 1: I feel so good and like, I also feel like 601 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,680 Speaker 1: tomorrow at work, my boss could roll up on me 602 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 1: and be like you need. 603 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 3: To do this and be like, fuck you, Lala's gonna 604 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:36,480 Speaker 3: get everyone losing their jobs. 605 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 1: Everyone. I don't want that. No, I don't want that 606 00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 1: at all, but you know what I mean, like, I 607 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 1: want you to leave feeling you for it how I've 608 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:49,840 Speaker 1: been feeling and confident I know. So that's what they 609 00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,120 Speaker 1: could give to me. They could show up, they can 610 00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 1: catch a good buzz and like I need them to. 611 00:32:57,040 --> 00:33:00,800 Speaker 1: I need them to be on fire, on fire. This 612 00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 1: is not a tour for the week, right. I need 613 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 1: you to show up. I need you to make that 614 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: eye contact, I need you to laugh, I need you 615 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 1: to put your two cents in. You better come ready 616 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: to participate, because this isn't where you're sitting back to 617 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 1: enjoy a show, like, yes, that's what we're gonna do, 618 00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:21,360 Speaker 1: but like we're hanging out yep. 619 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 3: I know it's gonna be awesome, it's you're gonna I mean, 620 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 3: she's like down to like She's like, I'm gonna be 621 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 3: talking to them and like like, Lala, this isn't this 622 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 3: is like your show. 623 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 1: She's like, no, no, no, it's our show. It's our show, 624 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 1: me and my people. Yes, I need people to come 625 00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 1: unfiltered because we're gonna talk about it. Yeah, it's going 626 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 1: to be the best time ever, I know. Should we 627 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 1: tell people where we're going first, let's do it all right. 628 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 1: We are starting to give them Lalla brand new tour 629 00:33:56,760 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 1: in Irvine, California. Then we will be in Fort lauder Day, Clearwater, Orlando, Hotlanta, Nashville, Tennessee. 630 00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 1: Ye huh, Houston, Austin, and Dallas. Yes when I hit 631 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 1: these places up. If you think I'm not going to 632 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:17,759 Speaker 1: be patrolling for some points, oh I am all right. 633 00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 1: Next place smail. 634 00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,880 Speaker 9: Okay, Hey Lala, my name is Joe. I listen to 635 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 9: your podcast every Wednesday and I love it. I was 636 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:31,480 Speaker 9: wondering if during a time that's really difficult, like the 637 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 9: one you're going through now, how many of your quote 638 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:40,600 Speaker 9: friends have you had to stop being friends with? How 639 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:43,480 Speaker 9: many of them have showed their true colors? And how 640 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:47,200 Speaker 9: do you deal with the loss of a relationship and 641 00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 9: potentially the loss of some of your friends. 642 00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 8: I hope you guys are having a great time and. 643 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 4: I love the podcast. 644 00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:55,280 Speaker 8: Keep up the good work, say. 645 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 1: I love this question. I don't know if I've a 646 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 1: dressed this on the podcast before on this podcast, I 647 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,440 Speaker 1: know I have addressed it, but we did a podcast 648 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:10,120 Speaker 1: after we filmed the reunion and I said, no one 649 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 1: reached out to me, only Raquel did, and I like 650 00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,759 Speaker 1: fixated on this like one point in time, which was 651 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:19,759 Speaker 1: after the reunion, and I did address this on Watch 652 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 1: Wrappins Live. But I want to say this, My group 653 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:25,239 Speaker 1: of friends that are on the show, so they're my 654 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:32,760 Speaker 1: cast members and my friends have been very supportive, beyond, 655 00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:37,160 Speaker 1: like extremely And I feel badly that during that moment 656 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:40,319 Speaker 1: doing that podcast after the reunion that I fixated on 657 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 1: like just like my emotions were running so high. I 658 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,719 Speaker 1: probably should have taken a step back. But now we 659 00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:50,200 Speaker 1: all know we saw you. You were very emotion very emotions. 660 00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:56,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, beyond that group has been absolutely incredible. I 661 00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 1: mean Tom has yet to acknowledge what I'm going through. 662 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,440 Speaker 1: Tom Sandival, but I wouldn't expect anything less. I just 663 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 1: I take him for who he is. I ask him 664 00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 1: about his bar, we talk about him a lot. It's 665 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 1: fine whatever. And then Ariana, you know, I sometimes don't 666 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,839 Speaker 1: think she knows how to approach me, and maybe that's 667 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 1: my faults. But the rest of the group, they've been 668 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 1: like all hands on deck, what do you need, I'll 669 00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:27,560 Speaker 1: drop everything for you. That's important to say this point 670 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:31,320 Speaker 1: in time. Also, like I look forward to people showing 671 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:35,800 Speaker 1: their true colors. I look forward to burning the bridge 672 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,560 Speaker 1: with people who do not deserve to be in my presence. 673 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 1: Have I had to do that? Not really, I've actually 674 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:45,120 Speaker 1: gained I have. I have more friends around me now 675 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 1: than I had before all of this happened. Yeh, Like 676 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 1: people have just like really stepped up for me. And 677 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: you know, showing true colors can come in both forms. 678 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 1: It can be like I've seen your true colors and 679 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:03,240 Speaker 1: you're a shitty person, or like, holy shit, you really 680 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,319 Speaker 1: are at ten and I need you around. And I've 681 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:10,640 Speaker 1: had a lot of that. So I think when you 682 00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 1: go through a difficult time like this for me, I 683 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 1: don't have time. Yeah, if you are displaying like you're 684 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,440 Speaker 1: torn in between the two, I'll make it easy for 685 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:27,279 Speaker 1: you goodbye. Yeah, because this is actually real easy, you know, 686 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:33,120 Speaker 1: like there's two sides. You can come over here or 687 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:36,719 Speaker 1: you choose otherwise. And if that's the case, then your 688 00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:39,880 Speaker 1: true colors have shown. And I don't want you anywhere 689 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:44,959 Speaker 1: near me. Don't call me, don't talk about me, leave 690 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 1: my name at your mouth, go away. 691 00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:48,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 692 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:53,400 Speaker 1: I thoroughly enjoy burning bridges right now. Yeah, very productive. 693 00:37:53,640 --> 00:38:01,560 Speaker 1: I also thoroughly enjoy building them. So we're on both sides, yes, exactly. Yeah, 694 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 1: And maybe that's why I feel that way, is because 695 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:07,719 Speaker 1: like my support system is strong, Like I don't have 696 00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,839 Speaker 1: new people around me, right like I have the soldiers 697 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,360 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, who've been with me for a long time, 698 00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:22,280 Speaker 1: tried and true. Yes, correct. Yeah, So then answer the question. 699 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:23,120 Speaker 1: I think you did. 700 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:24,799 Speaker 2: No, I think you definitely did. 701 00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:28,640 Speaker 3: I'm curious because so you're blessed, you've had a lot 702 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:32,200 Speaker 3: of people, like you just said, your soldiers, tried and true. 703 00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,560 Speaker 3: You haven't really had to say bye bye to anyone. 704 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,040 Speaker 3: But I am curious, have you ever been in a 705 00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,879 Speaker 3: situation just for people who have gone through this, because 706 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:43,440 Speaker 3: I've I've been in that situation. I have a boyfriend, 707 00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 3: I you know, I dated a guy for four years 708 00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:47,600 Speaker 3: and we all had like. 709 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:49,160 Speaker 2: This isn't the guy I'm with now? 710 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:52,279 Speaker 1: This is different guy? Yeah, but same friends. We all 711 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:52,719 Speaker 1: ended up. 712 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:54,680 Speaker 3: I made friends with his friends, he made friends with 713 00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,480 Speaker 3: my friends, and when we broke up, it was a 714 00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:00,480 Speaker 3: difficult breakup. It wasn't one of these was like, oh, 715 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:01,400 Speaker 3: we've just mutually. 716 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,000 Speaker 1: It was bad. It was dramatic. 717 00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,080 Speaker 3: And then I was in this weird position where I'm like, well, 718 00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 3: can I reach out to his friends? 719 00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:07,920 Speaker 4: No? 720 00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,239 Speaker 3: If they see me that, like some of them would 721 00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 3: see me at the bar and turn around, like what 722 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:13,239 Speaker 3: do you feel about that? 723 00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 2: Like friends, I mean, are you in the same boat? 724 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 3: It's like yeah, bye, if you don't want to talk 725 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,960 Speaker 3: to me, and or is it something you should reach 726 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,920 Speaker 3: out to those people? Hey, I know it's weird we 727 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:26,960 Speaker 3: broke up, but I really still want to be your friend. 728 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 1: If they were people that we met with each other then, 729 00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:39,719 Speaker 1: which which was rare, Like I don't I don't think 730 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:42,400 Speaker 1: that we had any friends that we like met together 731 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,879 Speaker 1: and we were coupled up together, right, it was either 732 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:51,760 Speaker 1: like my group of friends or his. I I couldn't 733 00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:54,560 Speaker 1: even name one of his friends to be honest, like 734 00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:59,319 Speaker 1: there's not really any so that was easy. It was ain't. 735 00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 1: Nobody reached out too, is what it is. And then 736 00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:07,080 Speaker 1: with my friends, you know, if they if they felt 737 00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:10,799 Speaker 1: like they wanted to communicate with him, then then I 738 00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:14,320 Speaker 1: don't need to talk to you anymore. Yeah, you know, Yeah, 739 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:21,080 Speaker 1: I'm very transparent, right, Like, whether it's this situation or 740 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:26,040 Speaker 1: past situations. I let you know what I need from 741 00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,520 Speaker 1: you as a friend. If you can't provide that, there 742 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,600 Speaker 1: there are gonna be times where it's like I've accepted 743 00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:32,480 Speaker 1: you for exactly who you are, now you have to 744 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,040 Speaker 1: do the same for me. If we can both do that, 745 00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:36,799 Speaker 1: then we move on as a friend group. But when 746 00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:40,200 Speaker 1: it gets deep like this, like I'll be honest, let's 747 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:45,000 Speaker 1: say Jackson britt broke up, but I'm picking Brittany. I 748 00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:48,759 Speaker 1: think they all are right, they're not gonna break up, 749 00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:51,880 Speaker 1: but let's just say they did. Yeah, Britney. 750 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,480 Speaker 3: Is there a world though, where you stay friends with 751 00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 3: both of them if they're both okay with it? 752 00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:58,600 Speaker 2: Are you staying or is it? 753 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,799 Speaker 3: Does it feel weird to you person and you're like, 754 00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:04,160 Speaker 3: you know what, No, I just don't want to I'd 755 00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:05,240 Speaker 3: rather pick a side. 756 00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 2: Or is there a world where you're like, we're all friends. 757 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,439 Speaker 1: Is there a world where people break up and it's 758 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,560 Speaker 1: like we still love each other letting out? Because if 759 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,480 Speaker 1: that's the case, then then you guys gonna be broken up, 760 00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:18,319 Speaker 1: but we're still all hanging out together, right right? Yeah, 761 00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,839 Speaker 1: this is like an episode of front Yeah, where like 762 00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 1: Ross and Rachel break up, they still all hang out together. Yeah, 763 00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,360 Speaker 1: but in the real world, that's not how it works. Right, 764 00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna assume that it's not a great breakup and 765 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna see Britny Okay, Yeah, and I choose Brittany. 766 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:38,239 Speaker 1: So why here's that? Yeah, you know that makes sense? Yeah, 767 00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:43,640 Speaker 1: these are my girlfriends. We have babies. Yeah, again, Jacks 768 00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,160 Speaker 1: and Brittany are not breaking up. That was just an 769 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:51,359 Speaker 1: example of picking even Jacksons, We've all told him, like 770 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 1: we're always gonna pick Brittany. 771 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:56,520 Speaker 2: Well, she's great. 772 00:41:56,800 --> 00:42:00,319 Speaker 3: If you do have a story, a very interesting like 773 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,600 Speaker 3: story like that, who do they. 774 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:03,800 Speaker 1: Call la la? 775 00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:04,360 Speaker 5: Oh? 776 00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:06,759 Speaker 1: They call one aces six la lapad. Yes, I want 777 00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,160 Speaker 1: to know, like, have you ever gone through a breakup 778 00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:12,760 Speaker 1: and then you've been whether it's you've had other people 779 00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:16,319 Speaker 1: have to pick sides or you've had to pick sides. Yeah, 780 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:18,360 Speaker 1: because what if the two people, like in my situation, 781 00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,520 Speaker 1: it's pretty fucking easy, who saide, You're gonna pick right, 782 00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:24,960 Speaker 1: like no brain nerve, right, But what if the two 783 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 1: people are like really dope, which in most cases I'm 784 00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:30,960 Speaker 1: sure that it's like, oh, but I like both of 785 00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:32,160 Speaker 1: them are really great people. 786 00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,359 Speaker 3: Well, it happens a lot. It happened to a friend 787 00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,400 Speaker 3: of mine and she it was awkward for a little bit. 788 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,400 Speaker 3: I was friends with both of them, and she would say, 789 00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,560 Speaker 3: this is weird. But they would text and say are 790 00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:44,800 Speaker 3: you going to this party? They would text me, is 791 00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:46,839 Speaker 3: blah blah blah going, And then if they were, they 792 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,680 Speaker 3: would just avoid it. Whoever, yes she's here or yes 793 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:51,600 Speaker 3: she's coming, Okay, well I'm not going. 794 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:52,479 Speaker 1: And it was just. 795 00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:54,520 Speaker 3: Until they felt cool. It was like a year and 796 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:57,720 Speaker 3: a half and they could be around each other. But yeah, 797 00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,359 Speaker 3: it was just kind of like avoiding each other. 798 00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:03,520 Speaker 1: Sometimes. I think that's the healthier way to go. It's 799 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:05,160 Speaker 1: all depends. 800 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:09,360 Speaker 2: It's all relative. There's no healthier not healthier. There's just 801 00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:13,480 Speaker 2: your experience, you know, perspective, perspective, and you know what, 802 00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:17,719 Speaker 2: I think we should end this on a positive note. 803 00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:20,000 Speaker 1: La la tell me how to do that. 804 00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:23,080 Speaker 2: I want to know two things. 805 00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,880 Speaker 3: I want to know first, how you're currently feeling in 806 00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:31,680 Speaker 3: this moment, and second, what you're thankful for in this 807 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:32,360 Speaker 3: very moment. 808 00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:38,239 Speaker 1: I'm like so happy right now, which is weird because 809 00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:42,880 Speaker 1: I've had the longest day ever. Yeah, but I'm like 810 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:47,880 Speaker 1: very happy. Mostly probably, actually I know for sure is 811 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:50,480 Speaker 1: because my little brother comes into town tonight. Want to 812 00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,799 Speaker 1: go swoop him from the airport. Gonna hit up an 813 00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:56,640 Speaker 1: AA meeting on zoom ya my most favorite meeting on 814 00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:02,880 Speaker 1: zoom because it's Thursday. Yeay, just today Wednesday, my most 815 00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:06,440 Speaker 1: favorite zoom meeting that I go to all week. And 816 00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:09,040 Speaker 1: then I'm just gonna like enjoy my kid. What I'm 817 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:14,800 Speaker 1: thankful for. I am thankful for you, my mama, oh, 818 00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:18,640 Speaker 1: my family, my friend group. But I'm also very thankful 819 00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:27,560 Speaker 1: for my strength, my mind, all of that, because there 820 00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,320 Speaker 1: are moments that I wake up and I start questioning, 821 00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:33,719 Speaker 1: like how am I not drowning? Like you know, how 822 00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:36,880 Speaker 1: am I feeling like I'm not drowning? Like I feel 823 00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:38,880 Speaker 1: so great? 824 00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:39,840 Speaker 7: Yeah? 825 00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,560 Speaker 1: So I even though I question it, I have to 826 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:46,160 Speaker 1: remind myself don't question this bat like just relish in 827 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,960 Speaker 1: these moments because wherever the strength is coming from, and 828 00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:51,480 Speaker 1: I have to remember the strength is coming from within me, 829 00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:54,759 Speaker 1: Like why do I question that shit as if it's 830 00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:58,840 Speaker 1: coming from anywhere else. Yeah, strength is coming from me 831 00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:01,359 Speaker 1: and what I'm trying to do during my day, whether 832 00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:05,000 Speaker 1: I'm pulling from the universe, my higher power, my kid 833 00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,800 Speaker 1: right in front of me, like I'm good, dude, I'm healthy, 834 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,480 Speaker 1: I'm happy, I'm strong, like I'm going to take on 835 00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:14,120 Speaker 1: the motherfucking world. You are and so are you guys. 836 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,719 Speaker 2: There see that was the positive note. 837 00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:21,760 Speaker 1: We were lit, period, point blank. I love you guys 838 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:27,439 Speaker 1: so freaking march like I do. This podcast is so fun. 839 00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,600 Speaker 1: I love doing the voicemails. I want to remind you 840 00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:33,279 Speaker 1: again if you have not gotten your tickets to give 841 00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,919 Speaker 1: them La La brand New Tour. You can get them 842 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,880 Speaker 1: at give them live dot com. I want to remind 843 00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:42,080 Speaker 1: you to call me on the phone one eight sixty 844 00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:44,400 Speaker 1: six La La Pod. I love you guys so much. 845 00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:47,279 Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed this episode. I promise I'll come 846 00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,839 Speaker 1: back from out of space soon. We will catch you 847 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:50,560 Speaker 1: next week. 848 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:56,160 Speaker 5: Hi, mama, This is Brittany from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. No question really, 849 00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:59,919 Speaker 5: I just really wanted to call to say how much 850 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:04,360 Speaker 5: you inspire young women like me, and I really appreciate 851 00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:08,239 Speaker 5: everything you put out there and just your realness on 852 00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:13,239 Speaker 5: the show and everything that you have no trouble discussing 853 00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:18,640 Speaker 5: with your viewers. I appreciate your strength and your vulnerability, 854 00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,720 Speaker 5: and I'm just such a huge fan. I just wanted 855 00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:24,440 Speaker 5: to give you a quick shout out and some love 856 00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:29,800 Speaker 5: and I'm just happy to know you as a fan 857 00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:32,920 Speaker 5: and just wanted to say that hope all as well, 858 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,440 Speaker 5: and thank you for all you too. 859 00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:38,640 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, my loves. To everyone who has 860 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:42,200 Speaker 1: already called in to leave us messages, please keep them 861 00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 1: coming because we love hearing from you. Call us anytime 862 00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,279 Speaker 1: at eight sixty six La La Pod. That is eight 863 00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:53,560 Speaker 1: sixty six La La pot I mother ectingly love you.