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Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Bugle lappin,

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Speaker 1: Is the strong subject. His wife called while we were

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Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show, All right, Come on, Steve, let's

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Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter. Uh object, his wife called while

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Speaker 1: Then this this this woman and meant this great guy work,

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Speaker 1: Now hold on. My question was what kind of cars this?

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Speaker 1: You know to just say, bro, yeah, you know Dan

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Speaker 1: Too damn late, too damn late. The lady said, I'm

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, baby, you know, for your for

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Speaker 1: Sureley told you right? You don't call this man as

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Speaker 1: Now coming up next, the President says he's got a

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Speaker 1: protective glow now and he threw shade at VP Joe Biden.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: this Dave Harvey Morning Show