WEBVTT - I'm A Muva! 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.159 Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:16.200 and the Black Effect, And. 0:00:16.320 --> 0:00:17.599 Just like that, we're back on the air. 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:19.959 Welcome back to you had another carefully reckless episode with 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:21.000 your girl, Josh, hilarious. 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:23.200 What do I be doing? I'll be fixing mess. 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:25.800 So I just announced that, well, actually I didn't announce 0:00:25.800 --> 0:00:30.680 my baby daddy slash boyfriend, slash best friend, slash lover, 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:34.960 slash second half of a half, all that good stuff. 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:38.600 He called up and he spilled the beans, y'all. Now 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:41.960 a lot of y'all saw my face in that Breakfast 0:00:42.000 --> 0:00:45.879 Club episode where it looks like I didn't want him 0:00:45.920 --> 0:00:48.240 to say anything. But listen, let me tell you something. 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:52.000 This man is my motherfucking ridah. Okay, this is my guy, 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:56.080 This is my everything. And Chris is the first time dad. 0:00:56.360 --> 0:00:58.880 He's nervous as hell, but he's excited at the same time, 0:00:58.920 --> 0:01:01.000 he's ecstatic, already in love with. 0:01:00.920 --> 0:01:02.640 The baby, the baby not here yet. He's in love 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:02.880 with me. 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:05.679 This man loves me up and down, from my head 0:01:05.959 --> 0:01:09.039 to my toes, from every finger on my body to 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:11.160 the spine going down my back. 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:12.399 Like this man loves me. 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:16.800 Okay, what he does for me mentally, emotionally, and all 0:01:16.800 --> 0:01:19.480 of that shit is something that I wish for everybody. 0:01:19.520 --> 0:01:23.160 I wish everybody, for every man, woman, non binary, all 0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:26.559 gender appropriations, nigga, Like I. 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:30.039 Wish that I wish that for every fucking body. You 0:01:30.040 --> 0:01:30.640 know what I'm saying. 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:34.440 Like, I'm really really happy walking to my divine right now, 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:38.400 you know what I mean. So you know, as bad 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:41.280 as I wanted to announce another way, I was still 0:01:41.280 --> 0:01:43.120 okay with it that man is my best friend and 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:46.880 I'm here to protect what I have and he's doing 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:49.400 the same thing behind the scenes. I'm in the limelight, 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:52.600 I'm in the public eye, so I'm gonna protect it. 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:54.880 I'm gonna protect it. And with that being said, I'm 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:57.240 a clear up a few things. No, this is not 0:01:57.280 --> 0:02:00.040 the first Chris. Okay, I had an ex named Chris, 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:03.400 and y'all asks y'all, And I'm sorry I'm chewing gum 0:02:03.480 --> 0:02:05.639 right now. It's because I'm nauseous as hell every fucking 0:02:05.680 --> 0:02:09.280 morning spite taking my prenatal vitamins. 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:10.919 I'm still nauseous, y'all. 0:02:11.120 --> 0:02:13.760 And sorry for last week's episode, I was chewing gum 0:02:13.760 --> 0:02:16.160 as well, and the swallowing and the chewing might get 0:02:16.200 --> 0:02:19.360 the best of me sometimes, but listen, anything to not 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:22.240 stop and throw up. I'm so tired of throwing up, child. 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:25.840 But no, this is a whole new Chris. Okay, this 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:29.480 is a whole new Chris. His name is Chris Tyliver. 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:32.360 Please y'all don't do this. This is not Chris Newton, 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:34.920 this is not the last guy, and it's not Chris Brown. 0:02:35.000 --> 0:02:37.960 Me and Chris Brown been broke up too. Okay, so yes, 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:41.119 this is my third and final Chris. All right, y'all 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:44.560 be in the comments like she love a Chris. Y'all, 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:45.760 y'all get on other herbs. 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:50.040 Also. Now, I don't comment on blogs anymore. 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:53.200 I don't even go through those comments because I know anymore. 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:54.400 You know I have. 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:57.920 But the end of last year was the last time 0:02:58.080 --> 0:02:59.320 I said I'm gonna do that shit. 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:00.239 You get what I'm saying. 0:03:01.080 --> 0:03:02.840 The end of the year last year, in twenty twenty three, 0:03:02.880 --> 0:03:05.519 I say, yo, look, I'm done going through blood comments. 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:07.440 You know what I'm saying, especially when it's supposed about me. 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:09.920 I don't want to do that because we already know 0:03:09.919 --> 0:03:11.800 what we're getting ourselves into, right, and then you feel 0:03:11.840 --> 0:03:15.200 compelled to respond. But I'm gonna go through my comments 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:17.600 every fucking day, you know why, because that's my house, 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:20.880 that's my shit, all right, and I have the power 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:24.160 and liberty to block any motherfucker us trying to disrupt 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:26.800 my space, trying to disturb my peace and all of 0:03:26.840 --> 0:03:29.040 that shit. Okay, So this on, I'm gonna tell y'all, 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:32.600 I'm an clear up a couple more things to tell me. 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:36.840 She's excited to be another single mother. That's just not it. 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:38.880 Let me tell you something. I wasn't even a single 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:42.320 mother with Ashton. You know why, because Jerome has always 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:44.720 been in his son's life. Okay, whether he could provide 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:48.440 financially or not, he was always there. That's not my 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:50.960 definition of a single mother. I was a single woman 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:54.520 with a child, but I've always been side by side 0:03:54.560 --> 0:03:56.160 with Rome raising our son. 0:03:57.400 --> 0:04:00.400 So I wasn't a single mother, all right. Now, power to. 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:02.960 Them out there, because there are women out there that's 0:04:03.000 --> 0:04:04.000 doing it by theyself. 0:04:04.520 --> 0:04:05.600 That was never me. 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:09.040 Now, I was doing it by myself financially, but his 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:13.440 dad has always been present in his life, even times 0:04:13.480 --> 0:04:16.600 where he couldn't afford doing shit for his son in 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:20.440 his younger years and Ashton's younger years, in our younger 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:23.919 years as parents. That man has always been there for 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:26.839 his child and is there for every one of his children. 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:31.600 So don't diagnose me, okay, don't categorize me with a 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:34.120 single mother, because I am not that. Like I said, 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:36.479 I'm not discrediting them, but don't put me with that. 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:37.400 If that's not what I am. 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:42.360 Thank you, and stop trying to measure people's happiness by 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:46.760 which you think it should be. I understand the traditional way, 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:49.080 the back in the day way was to get married 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:52.320 and then have a baby. But time has evolved, and 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:55.960 y'all need to evolve with it. You don't know people's situations, 0:04:56.120 --> 0:04:58.279 and you don't know people journeys, and you don't know 0:04:58.320 --> 0:04:59.479 the difference between the two. 0:04:59.560 --> 0:05:00.480 I'm onna journey. 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:03.040 As I spoke early in the episode of Breakfast Club 0:05:03.080 --> 0:05:05.279 this Morning, I am on a journey, sweetheart. 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:08.520 It's a big difference, all right. The difference is the. 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:11.919 Man wants this child, and I wanted it as well. 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:14.640 I wasn't trapped and I didn't trap him. And for 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:17.440 those who know me, and I'm talking to my fans, 0:05:17.480 --> 0:05:20.240 my day ones, y'all knew y'all always have known. Jessica 0:05:20.320 --> 0:05:22.719 Robin Moore has always wanted more children, But I wasn't 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:26.080 gonna settle and have kids by any and every man 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:30.200 that I dated, because I knew better than that. I 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:33.880 always knew better than that. All right, If you ain't 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:36.400 laying next to me in bed at night, you have 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:39.320 no idea how to fuck I wake up? You understand. 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:42.479 You have no idea the taste of my happiness. You 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:45.400 have no idea, But I wish it for everybody. I 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:48.080 wish it now. I can't tell you to mind your business. 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:50.080 I can't and I won't tell you to mind your 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:53.680 business because I mind other people's business only if I 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:56.360 know if the business is true or not, only if 0:05:56.360 --> 0:05:58.560 I know every aspect of the business, because it's my 0:05:58.720 --> 0:06:01.720 job to report people's biss You motherfucking right, So I'm 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:04.000 not gonna tell nobody to mine they business. And I'm 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:05.760 not gonna tell you to keep my name out your mouth. 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:07.400 But I'm gonna tell you watch your mouth when you're 0:06:07.400 --> 0:06:09.400 talking about me, especially if you don't know what the 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:12.400 fuck you talking about. I said it there, I'll say 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:14.160 it here, and I'll say it to anybody I need 0:06:14.200 --> 0:06:16.839 to say it to. They fucking face too, You understand, 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:20.960 You will not disrupt my peace, You will not disturb 0:06:21.400 --> 0:06:22.200 my journey. 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:24.640 You will not do it. You can't do it. 0:06:25.720 --> 0:06:28.720 So yeah, take all of that negativity up in the 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:31.839 motherfucking blog comments where the rest of y'all ass belong, 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:35.919 where you can get fifty and one hundred likes on 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:38.400 some shit like that, where you can read other people's 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:41.000 comments before you comment, and wait for somebody to tell 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:43.120 you how to feel. You go do that shit on 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:45.320 the blogs. Don't come over there to my shit. You 0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:49.080 will get blocked every time. Believe that. Even when Charlamagne 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:52.839 sparked the question about the engagement, sir, even with that 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:55.279 being my big brother, you don't know what Chris got planned. 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:57.680 You don't know, you have no idea. 0:06:57.760 --> 0:06:59.719 And then for him to immediately have to share a 0:06:59.720 --> 0:07:02.160 story that he and his wife got married after they 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:04.560 had their first child. All right, then, so that you 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:07.080 can understand too and relate. You can relate to that. 0:07:07.839 --> 0:07:08.000 Now. 0:07:08.040 --> 0:07:12.760 I appreciate everybody's concern. However, every opinion does not concern me. 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:19.760 So let's normalize not projecting your baggage and how unhappy 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:21.000 you are on other people. 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:22.640 I'm happy, I'm creating life. 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:26.080 How dare you motherfuckers sit in my comments and tell 0:07:26.200 --> 0:07:30.480 me not to be happy about creating life that I 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:33.400 want it and I want more of it. This ain't 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.800 my last child, but I'm telling you it will be 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:38.400 my first and last marriage. It surely will when that 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:40.800 man get down on one knee when we start playing 0:07:40.800 --> 0:07:42.360 in this wedding. Y'all don't know what he got in 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:44.720 store for me. Y'all don't know what he got, just 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:46.320 like y'all don't know what God got in store for me. 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:48.440 I don't know what God got in store for me, 0:07:48.480 --> 0:07:51.200 but I know everything is falling in place. 0:07:51.240 --> 0:07:51.960 You understand. 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:54.000 Now. We got a commercial, and if you click off 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:56.680 of this podcast, I swear I'm ana beat your ass listen. 0:07:58.240 --> 0:07:59.920 Also another thing I wanted to clear up. 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:04.320 Man, y'all motherfucker's here and my comments talking to me 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:07.360 about damn, you just got the job and you about 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:09.760 to leave again. Do y'all not know this is the 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:12.280 right motherfucking time for me to be pregnant where I 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:15.080 can wake up every morning, go sit my ass down 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:17.080 in the throne chair because I am royalty. 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:18.360 That's what I am do. 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:22.160 Four hours of a show, sometimes five because we have interviews. 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:25.000 Take my ass home and work on my other businesses. 0:08:25.080 --> 0:08:27.640 You understand, I got the choice whether I want to 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:28.559 travel right now. 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:30.000 I got the choice. 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:32.760 A lot of comedians, a lot of entertainers, they don't 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:35.040 have a choice. They have to tour, and more power 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:37.439 to that. I was just one of them. But now 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:40.720 I don't. I secured a bag, a station, every bag. 0:08:41.320 --> 0:08:42.800 I don't have to be on a plane three or 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:45.000 four times a week, stressing my body out. 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:46.679 I can be home. 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:50.439 Working, still working from home, because I got other businesses 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:54.160 to develop. I got other businesses to secure, I got 0:08:54.160 --> 0:08:57.840 other businesses to run right now. I'm rebranding my products 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:01.880 right now. It's things that y'all don't know. It's things 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:04.720 that y'all don't need to fucking know. But that's normalized, 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:08.079 not saying shit until y'all know, you understand what I'm saying. 0:09:08.360 --> 0:09:11.000 You can learn something from Jess with the mess baby, Yeah, 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:15.520 because my news is real, y'all. Opinions are based off 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:19.320 of what you're going through and biased emotions, and also 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:22.439 what y'all see a lot of other comments saying stop 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:24.520 fucking playing with me. Don't be a bunch of fucking sheep, 0:09:25.080 --> 0:09:27.959 not with me right now? Is the best time. And 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:30.920 let me tell you something else. That man is my 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:34.200 best friend for a reason. You know why, because he's 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:37.160 in love with Jessica robbin Moore. He's get in love 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:40.200 with Jessica robbin Moore. I'm talking about somebody to just 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:43.000 ask you. It feel good as shit for somebody to 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:45.400 just ask you. How was your day? How is your 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:47.720 mental state? What do you feel like you could have 0:09:47.720 --> 0:09:50.920 done better today? To block out the hate? You don't 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:53.160 have to respond to everything, baby, I know what we got, 0:09:53.400 --> 0:09:54.360 You know what you got. 0:09:54.679 --> 0:09:55.480 You know what I'm saying. 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:58.320 Somebody to rub your motherfucking feet even when they don't hurt. 0:09:59.000 --> 0:10:01.320 Tell you you pretty even you don't fucking feel pretty, 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:06.199 make you feel good. Somebody to pour into you, not 0:10:06.280 --> 0:10:08.920 just your girlfriends, but your man pouring into you. 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:11.680 Don't play with me, man, don't play with me. And 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:13.160 don't play with that one. Haha. 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:15.480 Don't play with that one, all right. I ain't gonna 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:19.320 let y'all do it, not in my comments, not my fans. 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:20.000 I ain't gonna let. 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:20.480 Y'all do it. 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:24.560 You can unfollow, and you can become unfanned right now. 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:27.360 If that's what you think you're gonna do. Let's normalize 0:10:27.400 --> 0:10:32.000 watching y'all my fucking mouth. Let's normalize that, normalize getting 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:33.080 your situation together. 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:34.760 Listen, let me also tell you something. 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:38.840 I come from two married parents over thirty years, and 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:41.560 I'm coming to tell you right now, just because you're 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:45.360 married does not mean you're fucking happy. Okay, that does 0:10:45.400 --> 0:10:49.080 not mean you are happy. People jump into marriages for 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:51.280 all the fucking wrong reasons. Let me tell you I 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:55.160 ain't jumping. I ain't jumping. I'm thirty two. I want 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:58.640 my kids, all my kids before I'm thirty five. I'm 0:10:58.679 --> 0:11:02.040 just getting started with my career. Trust and believe, Trust 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:04.040 and believe. I'm just getting started. So I want to 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:07.000 have my babies now. And my wedding will come when 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:10.880 it will fucking come, all right, whether that be this year, 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:12.440 whether that be next year. 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:13.439 Let me tell you something. 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:16.760 Don't play yourself playing with me, because that's how you 0:11:16.800 --> 0:11:19.840 play yourself, speaking out a turn and not knowing what 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:22.640 the fuck going on. This is my journey and not 0:11:22.760 --> 0:11:27.040 my situation, sweetheart. So now, since we only got time 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:30.040 for like one story, and I y'all know, I had 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:32.200 to get on here and I had to say some things. 0:11:32.240 --> 0:11:32.800 And now listen. 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:35.480 See this is my sacred place, my podcast. Okay, I 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:38.560 got a couple of sacred places. Number one in my 0:11:38.679 --> 0:11:41.600 sanctuary in my house. That's my first sacred place when 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:42.880 it's just me and God. 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:43.200 You know. 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:46.960 My second sacred place is my man, Me and my man, 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:50.839 my sacred place that is me and my man. I'm 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:54.400 allowed to be vulnerable. Have you ever been allowed to 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:58.480 be vulnerable with a man? Like with a man that 0:11:58.480 --> 0:12:01.160 can be vulnerable with you? You know what I'm saying, 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:04.400 and you still feel that masculinity and you still feel it. 0:12:04.840 --> 0:12:08.160 You understand when a man don't gotta say he ain't 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:10.920 gotta tell you here, man, he don't. He ain't got 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:13.200 to go around boasting and bragging about what he got. 0:12:13.200 --> 0:12:14.040 He show you. 0:12:14.040 --> 0:12:16.760 You feel it, You see it, y'all living it together. 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:21.000 What don't ever play with that? I wish that for everybody. 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:24.640 I even wish a great woman for the men out there, 0:12:25.520 --> 0:12:27.960 whoever you. I wish you good love. I wish love 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:30.199 were doing everything in love. Don't don't play with that. 0:12:30.840 --> 0:12:33.480 Don't play with that something that you never knew before. 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:36.800 How can you speak on something that you've never known before? 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:41.440 You understand? It's crazy to me how people can do that. 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:44.080 But I'm gonna tell you this ain't gonna stop the hate. 0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:47.040 But y'all know fucking well, I had to address a 0:12:47.040 --> 0:12:49.439 lot of that negativity. You understand what I'm saying, because 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:51.880 a lot of it is self hate. When you learn 0:12:52.000 --> 0:12:55.600 to love your motherfucking self, you ain't worried about a 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:59.360 woman announcing that she is giving life without a ring. 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:01.079 You ain't right about that. 0:13:01.559 --> 0:13:05.760 You're actually knowing that that's probably around the corner. And 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:08.520 if it ain't, pray for it. And if you don't 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:12.280 know whether or not it is, pray for it. Encourage it. 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:17.199 Encourage it. Don't down something because one thing didn't come 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:20.559 with the other thing, or y'all don't see you understand 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:22.959 what I'm saying. I made sure one thing. I am 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:26.320 glad that my partner did. Chris, I'm glad that you 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:28.840 made sure I got out of my first try mester. Baby, 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:32.440 I'm so glad that you did that. But do you 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:36.160 know how many women are struggling to have children? Do 0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:38.560 you know how many women can't have children? Do you 0:13:38.600 --> 0:13:41.280 know how many women want children? And y'all sitting there 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:46.600 ridiculing and judging somebody for being happy about creating life. 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:48.440 Are you fucking crazy. 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:51.920 With the ways every day y'all see in the world 0:13:51.960 --> 0:13:56.360 they're trying to create, They're trying to stop us from 0:13:56.400 --> 0:14:00.800 producing and creating life. Are you fucking crazy? Do you 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:04.000 know how many child deaths there are? Do you know 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:07.360 how many children are dying? We read story more stories 0:14:07.360 --> 0:14:08.600 about it today than ever. 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:11.400 Stop playing with that. Don't play with that. 0:14:11.800 --> 0:14:14.680 I'm gonna keep popping out these fucking kids, you understand, 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:18.320 And every one of them gonna be born healthy, with 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:21.360 a clear mind, and they all gonna make me and 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:24.880 they daddy happy. You understand, I hope If you didn't before, 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:27.720 you understand now. I don't even think I got time 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:28.960 to fucking read a story. 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:31.280 Y'all. Hisses make me sick. 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:33.800 And for those who are happy for me, I just 0:14:33.840 --> 0:14:36.280 want to say thank you, thank you, because it was 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:37.920 more happy than not. 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:41.800 You understand, But you better believe. 0:14:41.840 --> 0:14:44.800 I had my little sister scouring them fucking comments. 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:48.320 Delete all that shit. Delete it, but not only delete it, block. 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:50.120 It because some people go back to see how many 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:53.160 likes they got on a comment, how many responses they 0:14:53.160 --> 0:14:56.840 got on a comment. Don't play with me, she on it. 0:14:56.880 --> 0:14:59.800 She get paid good money to do that shit. Uh uh, 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:02.960 I said, I can't control with the blogs got going. 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:04.240 On in the comments. You know what I'm saying. I 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:05.080 used to be one of them. 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:07.600 I used to be a blog comments to run into 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:10.280 the fucking comments seeing if I you know what I'm saying, 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:12.880 battling in a comment, saying how many likes I can 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:15.360 get on a comment from my real last comment. You 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:18.880 know what I'm saying, being myself because I just always 0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:22.880 had something to say. You know what I'm saying. No, no, no, no, 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:26.960 no no no. I've secured a job, I've secured a bag. 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:30.320 You understand me so greatly that I don't got to 0:15:30.640 --> 0:15:33.640 ever crawl in the fucking comments no more. All thanks 0:15:33.640 --> 0:15:38.480 to my creator. All thanks to God, the man upstairs. 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:42.440 I thank him every day for opportunity. I thank him 0:15:42.440 --> 0:15:44.440 every day for the people that love me. I thank 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:47.040 them for the people that hate me or who think 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:50.440 they hate me. But don't play with that. Don't play 0:15:50.480 --> 0:15:52.800 with that. That's all I want to say. That's the 0:15:52.840 --> 0:15:55.760 message I want to convey, it's all of I want 0:15:55.800 --> 0:16:00.680 you all to normalize that, normalize watching your motherfucking mouth period. 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:04.400 Unless you know what you're talking about. I learned my lesson, 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:06.880 and I'm telling you a couple more can learn from me. 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:10.160 Watch your mouth. If you love me, you'll listen to 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:14.120 this commercial and then we'll be right back. All right now, 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:15.880 what don't look like we're gonna have time for a 0:16:15.920 --> 0:16:19.360 bunch of stories. But I'm gonna do one. 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:20.120 I supposed to. 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:23.840 Been got to my story, y'all shut okay, So I'm 0:16:23.840 --> 0:16:25.960 just gonna read a short story right here. This says 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:29.080 the reason why people's paragraphs are getting cut off is 0:16:29.120 --> 0:16:33.080 because there's a character limit for dms. Oh, they need 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:35.560 to be sure they're paying attention to where it stops 0:16:35.560 --> 0:16:38.320 so they can start another. I love it here, and 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:40.440 thank you for all the messages you've fixed. 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:43.320 Oh you welcome. Welcome sugar. 0:16:44.560 --> 0:16:47.480 Y'all love the way money call people's sugar. I had 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:50.280 to start from the beginning to get all the gems. 0:16:50.440 --> 0:16:53.800 Thank you for all you do. Oh, no problem, baby girl. 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:57.280 I appreciate you. I appreciate you. I appreciate you. 0:16:57.640 --> 0:16:58.000 Okay. 0:16:59.120 --> 0:17:01.360 And this is another view from an episode that I 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:04.600 did before. Says, Hey, Jess, I hope you're doing well. 0:17:04.600 --> 0:17:07.480 I came across your where's my Dad podcast, and it 0:17:07.600 --> 0:17:09.720 touched my heart. I am sorry to hear about the 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:13.960 difficult situation that she's going through. I wanted to share 0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:16.640 something with you that might be of help. A friend 0:17:16.680 --> 0:17:19.720 of mine went through a similar situation with her mother. 0:17:20.200 --> 0:17:23.439 Although she was not adopted. Her twin sister took an 0:17:23.480 --> 0:17:26.600 ancestry DNA test and they were able to find family 0:17:26.640 --> 0:17:29.840 members from their father's side who helped them locate their 0:17:29.960 --> 0:17:33.080 dad after twenty eight years of not knowing him. I 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:35.120 hope it brings some comfort and hope to her. 0:17:35.440 --> 0:17:35.879 Thank you. 0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:39.240 Also, baby, if you're listening from the Where's My Dad? Podcast? 0:17:39.320 --> 0:17:40.840 I told her that I will be checking on her. 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:42.760 I haven't had time, but I will make sure I 0:17:42.840 --> 0:17:47.800 check on her today. I absolutely want you to listen 0:17:47.800 --> 0:17:48.120 to that. 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:50.480 I told you. I did not tell you. My people 0:17:50.600 --> 0:17:52.000 listen and they love to help. 0:17:52.119 --> 0:17:54.680 You know. These listeners are not just here to gather 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:57.280 gossip ard to be nosy in your business. There are 0:17:57.320 --> 0:18:01.119 people that really, really really eating to your stories and 0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:03.600 it also can help you. You know, who went further 0:18:03.680 --> 0:18:05.800 in their journey, you know what I mean? Who didn't 0:18:05.840 --> 0:18:06.240 give up? 0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:06.720 You know? 0:18:06.800 --> 0:18:09.640 And that baby girl, she sounded defeated and a lot. 0:18:09.680 --> 0:18:11.760 You know, she was saying she was suicidal and things 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:14.080 like that. Those people need love and they need help, 0:18:14.119 --> 0:18:18.119 and any other people supporting them who's gone through something similar, 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:20.280 if not the same exact thing. So I do want 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:23.800 to uplift you that. And Happy love Day, just happy 0:18:23.960 --> 0:18:26.320 love day. Sorry that this episode came so late, y'all, 0:18:26.320 --> 0:18:29.800 I've been busy as hell. I've been busy as hell. 0:18:29.960 --> 0:18:32.480 I took my gum out to read, y'all, But this 0:18:32.600 --> 0:18:35.960 shit I go back in. Lord, listen, if y'all have 0:18:36.200 --> 0:18:39.040 any suggestions on shit that I can eat, please let 0:18:39.080 --> 0:18:42.160 me know, let me know what cannot eat. I'm living 0:18:42.200 --> 0:18:45.160 in Jersey now, but the food in Brooklyn is so good, 0:18:45.200 --> 0:18:46.560 But I ain't got sign to be going back and 0:18:46.600 --> 0:18:48.040 forth like that. I think I'm gonna just hire a 0:18:48.119 --> 0:18:50.320 nutritionist and a chef. That's what I need. 0:18:50.400 --> 0:18:50.800 Man. 0:18:51.000 --> 0:18:54.560 I'm getting headaches every goddamn day, and I'm gonna elaborate 0:18:54.920 --> 0:18:57.200 more on this as time goes on. But y'all, being 0:18:57.240 --> 0:19:00.560