1 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: All right, so I'm excited about today. We're going to 2 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: get into a Bethany Frankel. Now she was on The Apprentice. 3 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: She's a Marca Stewart, followed by what I started to 4 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 1: really knowing her as the Real Housewives in New York City. 5 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 1: Then she has spinoffs, Bethany getting married, Bethany ever after. 6 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 1: I think we've all heard, or if you haven't, she 7 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 1: created a brand called Skinny Girl. Sold it were millions 8 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: and millions and millions of dollars Skinny Girl the drink. 9 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 1: But she had Skinny Girl jeans and sold the massive 10 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: amount of products. But I think the thing to talk 11 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: about that with that is she looked at it kind 12 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,520 Speaker 1: of how I looked at Pubo in the earlier days. 13 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: I looked at Poulboo is something that I could put 14 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: on all these music artists and their community was highlighting 15 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: these things on these pipes, right as we call it, 16 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: using it for a commercial. But she was smart enough 17 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: to do that where this wasn't new when she negotiated 18 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: her contracts, she carved it out without an attorney, carved 19 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: it out that I can do skinny Girl. Now, you 20 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: don't have a lot of power when you're doing that 21 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 1: when you're first starting, because the way the networks and 22 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: people feel is that if I do that for you, 23 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 1: I have to do that for everybody. But it was 24 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 1: something in the way that she negotiated. Excellent negotiator. She 25 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,759 Speaker 1: would later on go on the Shark Tank, and I'm 26 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 1: going to probably tell you a crazy story about that, 27 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: but here it is. We're going to bring her on. 28 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: Bethany Frankel would learn so much from her. Hopefully you've 29 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 1: been seeing her on TikTok, being really hardcore and real 30 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: in her own way, and now she's probably bigger and 31 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 1: better than ever before. I'm excited, so let's get into 32 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: it with my buddy, Bethany Frankel. All Right, beth, thank 33 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: you so much for being here. I've already laid out 34 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: laid it out on how much you know, I love 35 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: and I respect you, and I want to just hop 36 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 1: right into it. You know, at that moment, I want 37 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: to go over special moments in your life that you 38 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: know you and I are out there having conversations with people. 39 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: I'm sure they ask you the same things. What's your 40 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: best investment on Shark Tank? How did you do this 41 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: and that? And you become just repetitive. Right, I want 42 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: to go over where were you now? I know that 43 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: you were on several reality shows prior to Housewives, and 44 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: then you're very private about many many things of your life. 45 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 1: What shifted? And when was the moment that it shifted? 46 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: Because you know, to be on The Apprentice and Arthur 47 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 1: Steward and various other things and then really carve out 48 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: a very rare space in you know, Housewives. All of 49 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: a sudden you just really took a turn and said, 50 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to be in those type of worlds anymore. 51 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: I want to create even though I created a lot 52 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,920 Speaker 1: out of that world, I want to create my own. 53 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 1: And what shifted? And why did you just say I'm 54 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: done doing it like that? I'm doing it now on 55 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: my terms. 56 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 2: That's so interesting, It's a great question. And how do 57 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 2: you know I'm so private? I love that you just 58 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 2: said that as if like everyone knows that. I don't 59 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,359 Speaker 2: know that everyone knows that. How do you know that? 60 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: Well? Because I get enough information about a lot of people, 61 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: and when when you are when you share certain things 62 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: with me and we're talking, I know that it's not 63 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 1: public information, not that you have said to me that 64 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: don't say anything. But I just think that in the 65 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: privacy of our conversation, you know, you don't need to 66 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: say those things, and I don't need to say it 67 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: to you. It just it's just a private thing. Yeah. 68 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 2: I'm a very very private, like a fiercely private person, 69 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 2: which is extremely confusing because I've spent a lot of 70 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 2: my time on reality television, but usually that television is 71 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 2: agenda based. If you're on The Apprentice, it's about your 72 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 2: your relationship to the tasks and the other people, and 73 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 2: they don't really care about all these things. And on 74 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 2: the Housewives, it's really you're sharing what you want to 75 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 2: and sometimes it's some things that you wouldn't want to 76 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 2: and that are uncomfortable because they might involve other people. 77 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 2: Like I can control what I want to share and 78 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 2: what I don't want to share, and if someone thinks 79 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 2: because I'm seemingly forward, that still doesn't mean that I'm 80 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 2: not private. When it gets to other people, then it 81 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 2: gets uncomfortable. But still the show is about my relationship 82 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 2: to the other women. So I just think that's interesting 83 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 2: that you pointed that out because I am very private 84 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 2: and I left Housewives the first time after three seasons 85 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 2: when it was the beginning. I mean it was like, 86 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,359 Speaker 2: I remember this woman left er years ago and that 87 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 2: was such an important show and you were thinking, how 88 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 2: the hell is she leaving when it's like just getting 89 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 2: hot and the Housewives was just getting popular. I mean, 90 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 2: it's been twenty years almost, and I left after three seasons, 91 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 2: which I was a broke person walking on so that 92 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 2: seems nuts, but I don't know. I just had a 93 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 2: feeling I was going to be on a spinoff, and 94 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 2: I just had a feeling I trusted myself, and so 95 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 2: that time I just didn't want to be there, and 96 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 2: I felt like I was cheating myself by selling out 97 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 2: by being there because it felt toxic is the word 98 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 2: that was swirling, and it really was the only word 99 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 2: to describe it. And I went back after I had 100 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 2: done kind of a rinse, like I wasn't really only 101 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 2: known for that, but it was part of my DNA. 102 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 2: And I left four three years and three seasons, and 103 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 2: I wanted to pitch something else to Andy, and he 104 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 2: pitched me to come back, which was like the Eagles 105 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 2: Hell freezing overtour, and I thought about my relationships to 106 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 2: the audience and my connection to them that I did miss. 107 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 2: I also am not going to sugarcoat the fact that 108 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 2: he offered me an unprecedented number for any housewife to 109 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 2: ever have been paid. So I cause, I said, I'm 110 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 2: asking this number and I'm not asking to negotiate, and 111 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 2: it's one number and you say yes or no, and 112 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 2: that's it. 113 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 3: I'm on or off, like we're not doing this dance 114 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 3: and we didn't. 115 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 2: That's very unbravo on everywhere, but very unbravo to say 116 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 2: here's my number, that's it and they said yes, and 117 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 2: that was it. But then to leave the next time 118 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:54,239 Speaker 2: that was so much harder because I was being paid 119 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 2: so much and exponentially increasing in what I was being paid, 120 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 2: and the show was more popular and I was popular, 121 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 2: and I was in a relationship with Paul, who I'm with. 122 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 3: Now, and. 123 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 2: He's just calming and balanced and it's a different type 124 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 2: of relationship. And I wouldn't leave for him. He never 125 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 2: asked me to leave for him. It just felt a 126 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 2: little embarrassing in my life and a little with him. 127 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 2: And I remember calling someone very one of the most 128 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 2: powerful people in Hollywood and saying like, can I be here? 129 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 3: Should I be here? 130 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 2: It feels weird being here, and he said, there's going 131 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 2: to be a point and you're reaching that point. You 132 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 2: may have reached that point where people are going to wonder, 133 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 2: what the hell is she doing in this scenario? Like 134 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 2: it doesn't seem right where he said, it just feels 135 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 2: like why you know, you did it? You were there 136 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:47,919 Speaker 2: and you were great, and you came back and you 137 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 2: came back big, and the be is back. But we're 138 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 2: going to get to a point where it's going to 139 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:54,039 Speaker 2: seem like you really just why are you there and 140 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 2: why are you having these conversations? And not a better 141 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 2: then thing, but just a different then thing. So all 142 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 2: these things were swirling in my head and like you know, 143 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: when you want to break up with someone, you just 144 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 2: kind of want to break up with them, but you 145 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 2: don't do it yet, but you're looking for an excuse 146 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 2: and you're nippicking and like you want and out. I 147 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 2: just was looking for reasons and you get less patient 148 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 2: and you just have a you have a you have 149 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 2: a lower tolerance rate for things that you just wouldn't tolerate, 150 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 2: Like when you're doing a job and you're being paid 151 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 2: a lot of money, you'll tolerate different things, and you 152 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 2: just do different things. You're just you're you're on the 153 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 2: West Side Highway and you given somebody a price and 154 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 2: your your your turning tricks and you know the deal. 155 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 2: Then there becomes a point where like you're like, I 156 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 2: don't know that I want to be this hoe. I 157 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 2: just don't know that this is there's a number for 158 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 2: me to do this because this isn't really you know, 159 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 2: and it's fine. Prostitution is respected. It's a number, you 160 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 2: get the service, and there you go. I was I was, 161 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 2: I was a prostitute. 162 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 3: So I took the. 163 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 2: Money and I did my job. Then I didn't want 164 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 2: to do it and I wasn't going to do it well. 165 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 2: And I just was like, you know, if it bends, 166 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 2: it's okay. If it breaks, it's not. And it was 167 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 2: coming back to a season and there were certain things 168 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 2: in the negotiation. I got the money I wanted. There 169 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 2: was a deal point that I talked about on my 170 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 2: TikTok that was not even important to me. It was 171 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 2: something so inside baseball that nine Leaks had been on 172 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 2: the season before and she didn't shoot most of the season, 173 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 2: so they missed a lot of scenes with her, and 174 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 2: I had just had someone who died that in my life, 175 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 2: and I was coming back the next season. I showed 176 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 2: up to work despite him dying. I wouldn't have even had to. 177 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 2: And they put into my contract that if I don't 178 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 2: if there's episodes that I don't appear in, that it 179 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 2: wouldn't be paid for them. And it would never have 180 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 2: happened because the production company is like, we'd never air 181 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 2: an episode without you in it. That would be stupid. 182 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:44,559 Speaker 2: The ratings said plummeted when I left Sword when I 183 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 2: came back, they wouldn't do that. I already knew that 184 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 2: from the production company. I just wanted an excuse. 185 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 3: So when. 186 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 2: Bravo had a precedent, which they that's they're right to, 187 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 2: I just said, I'm calling an uncle and I just walked. 188 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 3: And that was the moment. 189 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 2: And it was a weird moment because my lawyers were like, 190 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 2: what do you mean. They'll totally foold on that. It'll 191 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 2: be the day of the game and the players are 192 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 2: walking out on the field and they'll fold. 193 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 3: I'm like, I know. 194 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 2: They're like, you don't need to do it, so I'm like, 195 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 2: I know, I know. I just want to do it. 196 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:15,839 Speaker 2: I want to fucking do it. I want to flip 197 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 2: the switch. So I just flipped the switch. 198 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 3: That was the moment. 199 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: I think that's powerful. What happens to people? And what 200 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: do you say to those people? 201 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:22,839 Speaker 2: Go? 202 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: I think I know I've been there where you go? 203 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 1: Am I looking at a gift to using them out? 204 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 1: I know that I am not that I'm better than 205 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 1: anybody else, but I'm here in my life. I'm getting 206 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:37,439 Speaker 1: either I'm really getting praise, I'm really getting paid really well. 207 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 1: If I leave, I may hurt other people that I 208 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 1: care about in there, But I'm just not happy. And 209 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: by nature I want to grow and grow may not 210 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:50,839 Speaker 1: become being a bigger and better star. Grow, may may 211 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 1: become I could be more private in my life, and 212 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:55,719 Speaker 1: I could do it on my terms. Like so many 213 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 1: of us, are those crossroads in life, and then we 214 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 1: end up, as you said, stay at that crossroad until 215 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 1: sooner or later the shine is all for us, and 216 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: somebody goes, what the hell are you still doing? We 217 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 1: stay at that crossroad until sooner or later the shine 218 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 1: is all for us and somebody goes, what the hell 219 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: are you still doing? 220 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 2: Here? 221 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: Man? You must be Oh funny, you didn't you know 222 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 1: like what happens, you know, like it's true. What do 223 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: we say to people right now who are at that 224 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:42,479 Speaker 1: crossroad with love, with family, business, with their community, with politics. 225 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 2: Okay, let's break this down a couple of things. Number one, 226 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:50,319 Speaker 2: Jerry Seinfeld said why he was He was offer you 227 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 2: would have gotten more than one hundred million dollars from 228 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 2: Brandon Tartakoff to do another season of Seinfeld. But he said, 229 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 2: there's a moment in an act where you're laughing, it's amazing, 230 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:02,959 Speaker 2: and if it goes on too long, you get turned 231 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 2: off and it ruins the whole experience. 232 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 3: And I love that. He said that. I just heard that. 233 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 2: I once had dinner with Lauren Michaels, who the producer 234 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 2: of Saturday Night Love. He said to me, not about me, 235 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 2: just about another. I listened to everything everybody says and 236 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 2: absorb it. It's just like a recipe. It's crowdsourcing. He said, 237 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 2: you have to make an exit to make an entrance. 238 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 2: It was about one of his his Lauren Michaels was 239 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 2: talking about one of his SNL people, saying, you have 240 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 2: to make you have to make an exit to make 241 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 2: an entrance. 242 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 3: So that's just in my bank. 243 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 2: But I wasn't even thinking like macro economics like that. 244 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:35,959 Speaker 3: I was just just in my own life. 245 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 2: But most people don't have the bank account to support 246 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 2: that decision. Most people don't have the freedom to, you know, 247 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 2: to support that decision. I will say, I'm not in 248 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 2: that situation where I can't make a decision that I 249 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 2: want to based on finances. But I will say, as 250 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 2: a person who at that point had owned multiple homes, 251 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 2: who had invested in multiple businesses, the nut had gotten bigger. 252 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 2: You get you know, when I used to have a 253 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 2: twenty nineteen hundred dollars rent that I couldn't pay, Like 254 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 2: I knew what I couldn't pay. It was one thing 255 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 2: like the nutgets bigger, and your business managers are like, 256 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 2: listen to me, go back in one more season. 257 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 3: What's the difference. It's millions of dollars. 258 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:17,679 Speaker 2: Just grab that because you know, your skinny girl Dale 259 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 2: went on for ten years. 260 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 3: That's not happening anymore. 261 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 2: That was my You know, it wasn't as easy as 262 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 2: you would think because I used to have numbers that 263 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 2: would come in every year that were just guaranteed. And 264 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 2: at that moment, you know, I'm looking over at Paul, 265 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 2: who's a wealthy man in my fiance. 266 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:32,959 Speaker 3: But it's like, am I gonna dump my whole not 267 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 3: on you? Now? 268 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 2: It's your responsibility because I'm kind of leaving because of you. 269 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:38,319 Speaker 2: You didn't ask me to. But like in my mind, 270 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 2: I wanted someone to like pick up the slack where's 271 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 2: the show? My podcast which now makes a lot of 272 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 2: money because I have like five of them, But I 273 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 2: was like, I'm going to do a podcast? How am 274 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:50,680 Speaker 2: I going to put those numbers together? So I was 275 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 2: thinking that I'm thinking it's gonna be fine, but something 276 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 2: we're gonna have to cut it down a little. But 277 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 2: when you jump, you fly, and I jumped and I 278 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 2: felt it in and I now can say that I 279 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:03,839 Speaker 2: don't that had to be what two three? 280 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 3: I don't remember how many years ago that was. 281 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 2: I have pieced together this perfect curated life that is 282 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 2: exactly how I wanted this direct to consumer model, and 283 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 2: I make more money than I made then because I 284 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 2: was truthful. I wanted to go figure it out. I 285 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 2: had no idea, I had no plan. I've never had 286 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:23,199 Speaker 2: a plan in my life. I don't know how I'm 287 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 2: piecing this puzzle together. But everybody get the fuck out 288 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 2: of my way, let me think, and I'm going to 289 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 2: do it. And I did it, and I'm here and 290 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 2: it's freedom and it's like my way because I felt 291 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 2: it in my body. So it wasn't starting over, but 292 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 2: I didn't have housewives, I didn't have the skinny Girl 293 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 2: deal every year. I was kind of starting over at 294 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 2: this new level with the guaranteed money every year. 295 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 3: And I did. 296 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 2: I did it, and it's my own terms, completely, every 297 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 2: single iote of it. I walked away from HSN too. 298 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 2: Same year HSN was was, you know, selling tens of 299 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:56,359 Speaker 2: millions of dollars of clothes on TV. I felt shackled. 300 00:13:56,679 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 2: I felt shackled to all these different owners and I 301 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 2: hated it. I hated working for ag Cent, I hated 302 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 2: work for Bravo. I just wanted to go out and 303 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 2: do my own thing. So that's the life that I 304 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 2: have now. 305 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: You know, a lot of people don't realize it, and 306 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 1: I'm glad you brought that up. You know, if you 307 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 1: are making one hundred thousand dollars a year and you 308 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 1: know that's your base, but you go to being unemployed 309 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 1: for three years, I'm not sure how much money you 310 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 1: say it but if you're making ten or bringing in 311 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 1: fifteen million, and that money's coming in, you got some 312 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 1: fuck off money. But the end of the day, because 313 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: you know that it's still coming in, going to keep 314 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 1: coming in. But when you do make this jump or 315 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 1: an investment where you go from bringing in ten or 316 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 1: fifteen to losing two a year, even if you stacked 317 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 1: up thirty or forty million, I mean you're going to 318 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 1: turn around and go, you know, in five years this 319 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: two million dollars a year, that's ten million lesson I 320 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: worked really hard to save. And whether it is from 321 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 1: a monetary standpoint or just the feeling of growing, you feel. 322 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 2: Scared because the number one thing that someone wealthy thinks 323 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 2: about who's been successful, if they're smartest, don't touch the principle. 324 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 2: Don't touch the principle. So you got the house, you 325 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 2: did this other house, you could do it. You booked 326 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 2: the vacation, you bought the car. You know you're not 327 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 2: a crazy person. I am not. I never spent even 328 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 2: close to more than I have, not even like within 329 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 2: the stratosphere. But you bought a luxury item. You bought this, 330 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 2: You did what you know you were You was going good. 331 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 2: The music is now gonna stop, so you're gonna have 332 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 2: to change your life, but you don't want to touch 333 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 2: the principle. So the pandemic happens, your business changes, the 334 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 2: whole shit goes out. Whatever it is you don't, so 335 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 2: now you don't. You just wanted to not touch the principle. 336 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 2: And this decision made mean at certain points to do 337 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 2: certain things, you're gonna have to touch the principle. 338 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 3: That's the decision. 339 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 1: How long was that scared with that uncertainty of that 340 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: moment of everything you have and of course you gave 341 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 1: it up or you moved on and you sold it. 342 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: Was it two months, five months, two years, we were 343 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: in the middle of a pandemic. How long were you 344 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 1: in that kind of gray area of like, I'm trying 345 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 1: to get into the jump rope. I know I will 346 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: get into the double Dutch rope, but I'm I'm stumbling 347 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 1: a little bit and I'm not getting in there just yet. 348 00:15:58,960 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 3: I was. 349 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 2: I was It's okay because I've always been okay because 350 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 2: I did my first big deal and I had my 351 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 2: first principle. But you know, I did have a different 352 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 2: home that I ended up selling in the city. It 353 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 2: was getting to be a little swollen, and my you know, 354 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 2: business manager wanted more equity money manager, more equity balanced 355 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,200 Speaker 2: with the debt for like having a house and doing 356 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 2: a mortgage because it was the smart thing. Another house 357 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 2: is paid for in cash, like just just measuring all 358 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 2: the buckets and how it's going, and like God forbid. 359 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 2: And he would say, I want you set. You get 360 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 2: hit by a bus, you can't talk, you can't write, 361 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 2: God forbid. You're just you know, we're very conservative in 362 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 2: that way. So in that regard, I knew that also 363 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 2: a lot of the spending that I was doing with 364 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 2: smoke and mirrors, because it's what's happening with housewives that 365 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 2: don't have any money, that they're all spending what they 366 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 2: don't have because they think they're going to make it 367 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 2: to catch up. 368 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 3: They're not good business people. 369 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 2: They don't understand taxes, they don't understand that you can't 370 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 2: just charge everything on a credit card and it's going 371 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 2: to be okay. 372 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 3: And they're morons. So I'm not a moron. 373 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 2: And I was like, Okay, the music's gonna now, I'm 374 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 2: definitely not gonna spend at this at the same clip, 375 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 2: I'm gonna sell some things too, like I didn't need 376 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 2: to have three homes in I realized in the pandemic, 377 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 2: I'm not in the city, so I'm gonna make some 378 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 2: moves and decisions, which felt like a good influx refinance 379 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 2: something else, like it felt like a nice relief. I 380 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:20,160 Speaker 2: it's not only just what you're making, it's what you're 381 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 2: adjusting based on the climate. Like it's gonna be cold outside, 382 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 2: You're gonna put a jacket on. So I'm gonna brace 383 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:27,159 Speaker 2: myself now that I'm not gonna be making it the 384 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 2: same clip. So I'm certainly not spending at the same clip. 385 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:31,160 Speaker 2: But let's try to get back to where we were 386 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 2: by selling something and like really, you know cushion, the 387 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:36,399 Speaker 2: you know, pat ourselves. There was no thing I was 388 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 2: nervous about, but I just want to be smart. Then 389 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 2: one thing at a time just started happening because I 390 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 2: was living truthfully and not out of fear keeping all 391 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 2: the houses and everything where you're living like freaking out 392 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:47,360 Speaker 2: about anything. 393 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:49,640 Speaker 3: You're calm, cool, collected. 394 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 2: And you're just putting one thing on the board at 395 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:53,239 Speaker 2: a time, and it just so It wasn't like there 396 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 2: was a moment where I was like afraid it was 397 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 2: just you did make in different moves. You're like, you know, 398 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 2: on the Bealt battlefield and just making different moves. And 399 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:03,119 Speaker 2: I was always I'm always making up adjusting. 400 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 1: So let me share that moment with you. Would would 401 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:08,920 Speaker 1: will bring in full circle. And I've already shared it 402 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 1: with you, I believe. So you know, I uh the Sharks, 403 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 1: and I I forgot what show we were at. You know, 404 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 1: we ran into you. You weren't the most pleasant person, 405 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 1: but I don't know why. 406 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 2: You know, you couldn't energetically worst divorce in history of 407 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 2: ten year divorce. 408 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:23,679 Speaker 1: That's why, right, something was going on, and you know, 409 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:26,080 Speaker 1: not that you was like, oh my god, David Goma. 410 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 2: You were just like And I might have been intense 411 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:29,400 Speaker 2: because I was doing the competition. 412 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 3: I was taking it seriously. You guys with a show 413 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 3: who knows? 414 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:34,320 Speaker 1: So they called me. They say, you know, we think 415 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 1: about bringing on Bethanye, and what do you think? And 416 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 1: I said, well, let me let me check. I don't 417 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,679 Speaker 1: know much about her, but let me check. My wife 418 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, she's got to go on 419 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 1: the show. She is so fast and so sharp, and 420 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:48,399 Speaker 1: she's going to give you some ship that you do 421 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 1: not expect, and so I called the producer. I said, listen, guys, 422 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 1: I haven't necessarily the greatest interaction with or not that 423 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 1: it was bad. I said, you know, I'd rather not 424 00:18:57,840 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 1: be on the first panel what here, because in case 425 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:03,399 Speaker 1: I lock horn her because she's coming into a dysfunctional family, 426 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: she's she's not a punk, and I don't want it 427 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:12,199 Speaker 1: to come off as a man trying to beat up 428 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 1: on somebody new or a woman or barrass other things. 429 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: Or I don't want to come up. You know, I'd 430 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 1: rather not do the show just you know, so they 431 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 1: put you on a separate panel. Next thing you know, 432 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: you're on the panel with me, and you know what happened. 433 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 1: I think of that I had met you and we talked, 434 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, I don't have 435 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: if it falls out that way being on a panel order, 436 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,880 Speaker 1: I don't mind. So I remember a buddy of mine, 437 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 1: Pete Vargas, said he was in the car with somebody 438 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 1: and they were like, Hey, we're driving to go see 439 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:41,119 Speaker 1: this guy. This guy's a real asshole at her and 440 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: he said you ever met him? And he said, no, 441 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: I never met him. And he said, well, if you 442 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 1: didn't meet him, and you think he's an asshole, You're 443 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: actually the asshole. And I said to myself when I 444 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:51,200 Speaker 1: got on the show with you that panel, I said, 445 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,159 Speaker 1: let me think about it. In the break of that panel, 446 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: I forgot what was happening Mexico was something you were 447 00:19:57,520 --> 00:20:01,879 Speaker 1: on the phone going if do not call me unless 448 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:04,119 Speaker 1: you have a private jet and you are ready to 449 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 1: send food. And I mean, you were working so hard 450 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: for the crisis of people, other people that you never met. 451 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 1: And it was that moment that I felt like that asshole. 452 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 1: It was that moment that I said to myself, this 453 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 1: woman is doing way more than me for people that 454 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: she doesn't know, with the resources she has, as busy 455 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 1: as she is, I'm an asshole. 456 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 2: You're not an asshole. You're getting an energetic vibe. And 457 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,360 Speaker 2: maybe I'm intense and you took that as something else, 458 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 2: or maybe I was just being a bitch that day. 459 00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 2: Maybe I'm intense and you took that as something else, 460 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 2: or maybe I was just being a bitch that day. 461 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 2: But the headline, so you're reading a headline that I 462 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 2: want to give a takeaway. You're giving takeaway about your 463 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 2: side of it. I'm giving takeaway for people listening that 464 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 2: you got to always try to be nice to everybody 465 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 2: or friendly, because I could have not gotten on Shark 466 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 2: Tank for that whatever vibe you got on, you know, 467 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 2: good morning America. So people have to I should always 468 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:26,399 Speaker 2: be alert about being extranized to everyone around me. 469 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:29,879 Speaker 1: Well, and I appreciate that, but in one hundred percent, 470 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:31,119 Speaker 1: and I think we both can learn from it. But 471 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:34,679 Speaker 1: I want to get to the moment of many of 472 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 1: us are too busy, or we donate at the end 473 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 1: of the day or through something else. When was that 474 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 1: moment when you were seeing tragedies go on and you 475 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:45,879 Speaker 1: just decided the government's never going to get out of 476 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,640 Speaker 1: their own way. We have great people like a chef 477 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 1: jose Andreas, who will be on the ground with food 478 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 1: before anybody else. When did you decide during all the 479 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 1: stuff you have, Hey, you got a plane, you guys, shit, 480 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 1: I know what you se money on. I need clothes 481 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,119 Speaker 1: and food to go out there. When was that moment 482 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 1: that you said, somebody like entrepreneurs, somebody else is gonna 483 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 1: figure the set, you know what, nobody's figuring it out. 484 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna figure the shit out. 485 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 2: When was that much the moment is another one that 486 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 2: like evolved where I did something for Houston and started 487 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,200 Speaker 2: to I'm always building the plane while flying it. It's 488 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:21,960 Speaker 2: just the way my goes Right now, I'm working on 489 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,439 Speaker 2: the series that is like a direct to consumer model, 490 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 2: just like the podcast, which is a direct to consumer model. 491 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:30,640 Speaker 2: And I realized yesterday for the first time. I knew it, 492 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 2: but I've described it, but I didn't really put the 493 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 2: light bulb. But the way I do relief is also 494 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 2: a direct to consumer model. No rubber chicken dinner, Beyonce's 495 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 2: performing You're Gonna pay in a circular reference, and part 496 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 2: of the like it's called money to the people, but 497 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 2: I didn't know that wasn't happening. I didn't know that 498 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 2: cash cards weren't being given to people after the ground 499 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 2: zero of it all months later to rebuild a community. 500 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:53,440 Speaker 2: I didn't know anything, just like I didn't know anything 501 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 2: in business. One thing I say about The Sharks, you 502 00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:57,959 Speaker 2: guys are so smart and you've taught people are vernacular, 503 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:02,159 Speaker 2: but like it's almost too smart a show for the 504 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 2: average person who doesn't really know shit. Like I would 505 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 2: never have been good on Shark Tach. I just like 506 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 2: got into the ring on business and just like swam 507 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 2: my way through. 508 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:11,680 Speaker 3: To figure it out. 509 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 2: That's how I did with relief, like one step at 510 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 2: a time, just being like, wait a second, No one's 511 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 2: just talking directly to people and saying, hi, guys, this 512 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 2: is what's going on in this place, Puerto Rico or 513 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 2: a Guatemalan volcano eruption, or we don't have masks and pepa, 514 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 2: whatever the thing is, I don't know what the hell 515 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:31,679 Speaker 2: is going on, because they don't know what the hell 516 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 2: is going on, so nobody should pretend they're an expert 517 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 2: in relief or doctor. 518 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 3: And I just was like, wait a minute. 519 00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 2: People that are big that are taking people's money are 520 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 2: so bulky, and they take months to do the same 521 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 2: thing that we could do in two days. 522 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 3: So I was just like, let's just go direct. 523 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 2: Let's figure this thing out, and we don't have to 524 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 2: go to a government building in Puerto Rico and stand 525 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 2: there with clipboards and air conditioning and coffee and talk. 526 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 2: We just get on the goddamn but truck and go 527 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 2: bring the stuff and we'll figure it out as we go. 528 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:03,120 Speaker 2: So it kind of wasn't one moment like Puerto Rico 529 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,679 Speaker 2: was so big it was. It was enveloping me, and 530 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 2: it was like fifteen million dollars and I was like 531 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:11,160 Speaker 2: one person. I guess if I'm thinking right now, there 532 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 2: was a moment when a very famous person, an a 533 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 2: list person at this time, it's been so many years, 534 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 2: I guess I could say Katie Holmes, like it was. 535 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,439 Speaker 2: Paris Jackson came onto my plane and said to me 536 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,400 Speaker 2: that they had gone to the Big Org, the Big Org, 537 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,639 Speaker 2: with their money, to say we want to go do 538 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 2: a relief mission, and that Big Org said, what we 539 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 2: don't know. I'm saying wait, wait to the I'm saying 540 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 2: to Paris and hold on. You had thirty thousand dollars 541 00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 2: and you wanted to do a relief mission and the 542 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 2: Big Org couldn't help you. 543 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:45,680 Speaker 3: Who am I? I'm nobody. 544 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 2: So I remember at that moment being like, this is 545 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:52,480 Speaker 2: fucked up. If the big multi billion dollar a year 546 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:54,920 Speaker 2: it can't can't help you get a plane into Puerto 547 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:58,120 Speaker 2: Rico and I can. Then we are onto something and 548 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:02,119 Speaker 2: we did the largest private relief effort in history US history. 549 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 2: Then in Ukraine was insane. So I realized we that 550 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 2: was a moment, Like I didn't know that that was 551 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,440 Speaker 2: the moment, but right now. That was a big one 552 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 2: because I was like, Wow, we're doing stuff that no 553 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 2: one else is doing, but everyone's pretending that they are 554 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 2: an expert on something. And that's the same thing in business. 555 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 2: You can't pretend you're an expert because most things haven't happened. 556 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,199 Speaker 2: It's case law No. 557 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,160 Speaker 1: One hundred percent. And that's and that's what I want 558 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 1: to learn and take away from now. I want to 559 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,520 Speaker 1: you know, we have limited time, and I want to 560 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 1: just get go to this one because there's very few 561 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:38,679 Speaker 1: people who are can be as as people without a filter. 562 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,719 Speaker 1: You and Barbara don't have filters. Mister Wonderful is one 563 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 1: of the only people who can curse you out with 564 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,600 Speaker 1: a twinkle in his I like Santa Claus. There's very 565 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 1: few people in the world that have this ability. And 566 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 1: I I am listen. First of all, I came from 567 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 1: the hood where you know, listen, everybody's trying to shoot, 568 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,439 Speaker 1: you know, shoot you, pimp you whatever cases. It's not 569 00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,199 Speaker 1: like I have to end skin. But as you know, 570 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: shark think. You know, there's always somebody a reporter who 571 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 1: thinks they have a smoking gun. Every year. The story 572 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 1: doesn't get picked up pretty much after they go the 573 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:13,679 Speaker 1: sharks actually renegotiated deal after hearing it, or you know 574 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,879 Speaker 1: you got one or two you know, sour pushing. You 575 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: know entrepreneurs who and who break their non disclosure We 576 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 1: don't do it. But how do you how do you 577 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 1: combats as raw as you are, with the way that 578 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: everybody's so goddamn sensitive, as much as people want to 579 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 1: do fight for you and love you because they say, 580 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,040 Speaker 1: she's just gonna give it to you the way it is. 581 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 1: How do you combine combat the bullshit or the maybe 582 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: it's not bullshit? People who are offended, people think you 583 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:45,960 Speaker 1: did this, think of the people that he did that. 584 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 1: How do you shudder that noise out? Or do you 585 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 1: not do you go? You know what? Like you said 586 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,120 Speaker 1: with me with the beginning, just now, I should take 587 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 1: some of this in consideration. Let me move the rest 588 00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 1: of this shit as crap. How do you deal with 589 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 1: the people that reply to a lot of you're unfiltered? 590 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 1: Uh Inside, I don't. 591 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:05,639 Speaker 3: Like when it's too hot in the kitchen. 592 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 2: I fly dangerously close to the sun and I'm okay 593 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 2: with it being warm, but I don't like when. 594 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 3: It's too hot. It's just it's not it upsets the 595 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 3: Apple card. I don't like it. I'm never afraid. 596 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 2: The problem is I have a strong opinion and I 597 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 2: want to say something. It's just got a land and 598 00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:26,159 Speaker 2: I I feel that I've garnered the respect for the 599 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 2: first time in all these years, I've garnered the respect 600 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 2: of the media. 601 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,919 Speaker 3: Like they don't mess with me the way they used to. 602 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 2: Like you're like you're I don't know, you're a prize fighter, 603 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,960 Speaker 2: or you're some athlete that like has to like fight 604 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 2: it out for years with them for them to be like, 605 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 2: all right, you know she's prayed her do It's like 606 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 2: I can't explain it. Like if you're in the first 607 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,120 Speaker 2: couple of years on a reality show, like you're gonna 608 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 2: get your ass handed to you. Then it's you know, 609 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 2: your second show was at a one hit wonder, You're 610 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 2: gonna get your ass handed to you. Like I've been 611 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 2: doing this for so long now that like I have 612 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 2: a decent relationship with the media because it's a game, 613 00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 2: it's a dance, it's the ocean. You don't get in 614 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,119 Speaker 2: the impact zone. If you do, you're gonna get beaten up. 615 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,199 Speaker 2: You wait for the good set, you ride it. And 616 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,120 Speaker 2: sometimes I get beaten up because I did. I took 617 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,120 Speaker 2: I took a shot I didn't need to take. 618 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,440 Speaker 3: You know, I don't and I'm not afraid. 619 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:15,119 Speaker 2: But like I don't need to talk about Megan Markle, 620 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 2: it's not necessary. 621 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 3: It doesn't do anything. 622 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 2: Once in a while, I want to say something because 623 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,199 Speaker 2: I do feel that there's something to say, but it 624 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 2: really doesn't affect my life. And if I do say something, 625 00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 2: there's gonna be people that love it and hate it, 626 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 2: and is that worth it. I don't need to talk 627 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,720 Speaker 2: about the Kardashians all the time. I'm gonna say it 628 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 2: once in a while. If it pertains to fashion, or 629 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 2: if it pertains to my daughter and the influence that 630 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 2: that filtering and not telling the truth about things, if 631 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 2: it affects her, that's something that might be a macro issue. 632 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 3: But if I'm just doing it to just do it, 633 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 3: it's not necessary. 634 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 2: So I'd side, like in a flash, in an instant, 635 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 2: whether it's worth it or not, and I just I 636 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 2: just let it ride, and I'd sometimes take a beating 637 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 2: for it. You know, by and large, I can take 638 00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 2: the beatings, but the beatings don't really like put me 639 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 2: in the ground like they probably would have ten years ago. 640 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 2: It's just not the same because I think I've got 641 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 2: enough goodwill ye that it outweighs taking a beating. It's 642 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,520 Speaker 2: just not that bad anymore. And I'm also not on 643 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,560 Speaker 2: the Housewives, so I'm on Shark Tank either. Even Shark 644 00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,520 Speaker 2: Tank is like Housewives light as it pertains to shitty 645 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 2: Press because it's every second it's a factory of shit. 646 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 2: But I'm not really on that shit front line anymore. 647 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 2: And you're not either, but you're on like the lowest 648 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 2: version of it, like the low grade version of it. 649 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 2: And I don't you know what I'm saying, Like I'm 650 00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 2: on TikTok. That's where I'm gonna take a beating. Okay, 651 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 2: I could handle that for a day. You know. 652 00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 1: I'm becoming more like you and mister Wonderful. I'm tired 653 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 1: of this shit with the people and I don't I 654 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,920 Speaker 1: don't want. I gotta have more intent instead of saying 655 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:48,560 Speaker 1: it nice and the people's shock. I'm gonna go back 656 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:49,959 Speaker 1: to the hood people shark like yo. 657 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:52,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 658 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:53,680 Speaker 2: And by the way, if you really commit and you're 659 00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 2: not afraid, it really works if you really don't give 660 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 2: a shit with I often don't and there's a place. 661 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:02,000 Speaker 2: The podcast is a different place to say things then TikTok, 662 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 2: then Instagram than television. You gotta know what party you're at. 663 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 2: You have to know what room you're in. Because you 664 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 2: say the same thing in four different rooms, it's gonna 665 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 2: land differently. 666 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,360 Speaker 1: That's powerful. So you know, listen, I thank you for 667 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 1: this journey. I think the way that I know that 668 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 1: I I entered these things is trying to learn. I 669 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:21,960 Speaker 1: love the fact that we we you know, that moment 670 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,160 Speaker 1: that anybody may be going through, whether they think they're 671 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 1: they're in the right place, they're at the right they're 672 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 1: at the place too long, Like you just said, you 673 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 1: got an exit to make an entrance, or they're laughing 674 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: all with you, and soon they're gonna be laughing at 675 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 1: you if you keep staying in that dam in that 676 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 1: damn place, and you gotta you gotta, you know, jump 677 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,720 Speaker 1: and then fly. I love that. I love the aspect 678 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 1: of you know, you turned around and you really did 679 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 1: your analysis of what do I have as an entrepreneur 680 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,080 Speaker 1: to be able to go and help change the world. 681 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,240 Speaker 1: As I'm looking at everybody else out there who is 682 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,800 Speaker 1: getting bottlenecked. They got too big and bulky fucket. I'm 683 00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 1: gonna do it myself with the things that I have. 684 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 1: And then, as as crazy as it sounds, because you know, 685 00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: I just think Barbara doesn't take her medicine and does 686 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 1: and think outside the box of when she is flying 687 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 1: too close to the sun at least you know, Hey, 688 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:05,680 Speaker 1: oh no, I'm gonna give it to you. But you 689 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 1: know what, there's certain things that I know it's not 690 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 1: that important. Like you said, I fly close to the sun. 691 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 1: I don't get an impact zone. But yet I'm comfortable 692 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 1: where I'm at and I'm not at the mercy of others. 693 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 1: So thank you so much. 694 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 3: And yeah, that one thing you said. 695 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 2: The second thing you said, you know, when you're at 696 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,920 Speaker 2: that club and it's like the lights start coming on, 697 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 2: people's scare is flying down their face, like they should 698 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 2: have left a half hour ago, Like you know what 699 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 2: I mean, Like it's the club, like to leave at 700 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 2: the peak. 701 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 3: The good song came on that all the time. 702 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 1: But he does not. 703 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 2: He's out there with the busted girl with the a 704 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 2: scare down her face at three forty five am, and 705 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 2: he should have left the two forty five and that's late. 706 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: I think I think she was there last time she 707 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 1: saw you. We thank you. I love you as always. 708 00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 1: I don't know how many people know how amazing you are. 709 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 1: I think they do. I think maybe I was late 710 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 1: to the race, but I love it and uh and 711 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: I look forward to seeing everything you consistently do and 712 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 1: firing us things. 713 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 2: This was a great interview. Good good interview, and thank 714 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,320 Speaker 2: you for the good question. Peace awcome have a great day. 715 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 1: All right, there you have it. As you can see, 716 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,800 Speaker 1: I go down this rabbit hole and I've learned so 717 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,360 Speaker 1: much from Bethlenhe. I'm sure you have. 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