WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Mr. Jenga's Got Her Tongue

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>When you're growing up, you hear people say phrases like

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<v Speaker 2>Rome wasn't built.

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<v Speaker 1>In a day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, A for effort, it's the thought that counts.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like I'm Jeff Well, I never realized.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just grown up's way of politely telling you you failed,

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<v Speaker 2>but you tried. And today I would like to give

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<v Speaker 2>an A for effort to our listener Ricky, because even

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<v Speaker 2>though he is not getting a call back, he did

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<v Speaker 2>put a crazy amount of effort into his post date

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<v Speaker 2>show of appreciation.

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<v Speaker 1>And Ricky, you know what, at least you tried.

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<v Speaker 2>You keep trying by contacting us, so you're not giving

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<v Speaker 2>up and I do respect that.

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<v Speaker 1>So Ricky, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks for having me. Guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, key, I mean what an intro? How are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 4>You're feeling really confident?

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<v Speaker 5>Now?

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<v Speaker 3>Tucked you up like, well, I was confident and everything

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<v Speaker 3>seemed great. I'm wavering.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll say that, okay, Okay, it's sending your email that

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<v Speaker 2>this girl that you went out with is Leanne. And

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<v Speaker 2>before we get to the extra effort that you put

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<v Speaker 2>in after the day, because only I know what that is.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, obviously you must have had a pretty good

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<v Speaker 2>time with her, because I'm guessing you don't do this

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<v Speaker 2>for everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I certainly don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, did you meet Leanne on a dating website?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes? We did, meeting on a dating app. That's just

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<v Speaker 3>the way to these days scene.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, what'd you like about her? What stood out?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? One of the things that I thought we really

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<v Speaker 3>connected on is that we're both cat people, so you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we have really great conversation. And it was just good

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<v Speaker 3>vibes the whole time, lots of laughs. It was very

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<v Speaker 3>what I thought was natural.

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<v Speaker 1>Where were you bonding? What date did you choose to do?

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<v Speaker 3>So? We did a cooking class? It was an Italian scene.

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<v Speaker 4>That's cute. Was that your idea?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah it was. And she was very hyped about it too,

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<v Speaker 3>So I thought we were in great shape just to

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<v Speaker 3>get started totally.

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<v Speaker 4>Learning something new together, Like you'd like that, write Alexis,

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<v Speaker 4>can we make mac and cheese?

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<v Speaker 5>I met?

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<v Speaker 4>You need that, don't you, Alexis, Yeah, that's actually what

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<v Speaker 4>I need.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool idea.

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<v Speaker 2>But isn't that like more of an established couple's thing

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<v Speaker 2>like you thought?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's funny you say, because it did seem

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<v Speaker 3>like a lot of the people that were in the

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<v Speaker 3>class were a little bit older, you know, and I

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<v Speaker 3>definitely saw some rings in there, so I would guess

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<v Speaker 3>they were married.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe.

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<v Speaker 4>Why would that be a big deal. I mean, you're

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<v Speaker 4>in a room with married people. We're not scary, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know how that would affect your date.

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<v Speaker 3>Other than I would say in the beginning, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>they kind of did like a meet and greet with everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>We had to say we were on the first date.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm pretty sure we would do only one thumb.

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<v Speaker 4>Because then and married old people are like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 4>you guys are so.

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<v Speaker 1>They want to help the guys like run run.

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<v Speaker 4>Came back.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just what guys say to other guys. But it

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<v Speaker 2>sounds like you had a good time with her.

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<v Speaker 3>We really did. We had lots of fun. It was

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<v Speaker 3>really it was just we were laughing like the whole time.

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<v Speaker 4>That's okay. So and now are we talking about what

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<v Speaker 4>he did after? Is that where we're at? Like, it

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<v Speaker 4>sounds like the date was fantastic.

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<v Speaker 1>What he made Is that important?

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<v Speaker 4>No? Like a bullet AI it does it? Does it matter?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's a fair question. What did you end

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<v Speaker 2>up making with leanne.

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<v Speaker 3>We ended up making a cheery suit.

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<v Speaker 4>Coffee can like the lady fingers.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, now I'm realizing it really wasn't that important to

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<v Speaker 2>the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably Okay, some foodies out there that are happy.

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<v Speaker 2>I asked, that's the one question you're allowed for the second.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, after you made your tiarramasseur together, how did

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<v Speaker 2>the night or the date end?

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<v Speaker 3>It was classic first date end. We gave a hug,

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<v Speaker 3>said goodbye and excited to see you soon.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, that sounds also positive.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm just kidding. Well, okay, good reviews on the

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<v Speaker 1>date part.

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<v Speaker 2>Now let's get to the extra effort that you put

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<v Speaker 2>in afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, like I said earlier, we had both kind of

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<v Speaker 3>connected on being cat people.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So the next day I sent her flowers and I

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<v Speaker 3>sent her a note. No, we're not sending live animals.

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<v Speaker 1>What does the cat have to do with it?

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<v Speaker 3>So I wrote the note, But I wrote the note

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<v Speaker 3>as if I was the cat, right, the note coming

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<v Speaker 3>from the cat, just.

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<v Speaker 4>Like your cat or so.

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<v Speaker 3>I got a copy right here, I'll read it for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Copy Okay, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Think he means like you printed a what is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Laminated? It starts off by saying meow, because that's.

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<v Speaker 1>How cat's thank you for a romantic start.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's your feline friend, mister Djanga, and that's her

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<v Speaker 3>cat's name, yes, mister Djanga. And so I said, I know,

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<v Speaker 3>I know, my paws are surprisingly good at typing, but

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<v Speaker 3>I had to send you a note because I miss

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<v Speaker 3>you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>This is.

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<v Speaker 4>And why would her cat miss her?

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<v Speaker 3>I basically said, so when you're at work, the house

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<v Speaker 3>is in the same without you, your laugh and those

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<v Speaker 3>delightful treats. You sneak me when you think no one's looking.

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<v Speaker 3>So can you come home soon so I can hear

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<v Speaker 3>about your date with Ricky's.

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<v Speaker 4>That was awesome? So what did she say when she

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<v Speaker 4>got it?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I didn't get much from her, So what was

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks for the note and the flowers? Really nothing else?

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<v Speaker 1>Like wow, you I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>She's not good with words, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>Like some people don't text a lot or have a

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<v Speaker 4>hard time.

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<v Speaker 3>Felt like a middle school butt out hug, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like we were in trouble and we're supposed to be dancing,

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<v Speaker 3>but you know it was it just so very reluctant.

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<v Speaker 2>Well okay, I mean kind of just like middle school.

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<v Speaker 2>You're coming to us to go to her to ask

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<v Speaker 2>her how she feels, and then we'll come.

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<v Speaker 1>Back and report to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do that. That's right, We're gonna do the telephone thing

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<v Speaker 2>in real life.

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<v Speaker 1>A piece of paper to hind a jet circle.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes or no.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get to that later.

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<v Speaker 2>First, we got to come back and do your second

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<v Speaker 2>date update when we call Leanne right after.

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<v Speaker 1>This second date update, Guys, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Hate that my mind went here, but I just thought

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<v Speaker 2>of the worst case scenario for when we make this call.

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<v Speaker 2>We dial the phone rings, it gets picked up, and

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<v Speaker 2>in the background you hear Leanne's muffled voice screaming for help.

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<v Speaker 4>Why what's wrong?

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<v Speaker 5>How could she know?

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<v Speaker 2>Then her cat, mister Jenga, comes on the line and says, hello,

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<v Speaker 2>Leanne can't come to the phone right now, Jeff, She's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of tied up.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the cat.

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<v Speaker 2>Leave a message, unless this is Ricky, in which case,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're looking for a date, I left something in

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<v Speaker 2>my lit.

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<v Speaker 4>Box just for you, Jeff, why would.

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<v Speaker 1>I said?

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<v Speaker 2>It's the worst case scenario, not the most likely scenario.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Mister Jenga is not gonna turn against lovely Leanne. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>They're like BFFs. It's anything mister Django would be telling

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<v Speaker 4>Leanne you're too good.

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<v Speaker 2>For this guy, unless Leanne likes the guy so much

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<v Speaker 2>that mister Jenga's left with no choice but to hold

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<v Speaker 2>her hostage.

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<v Speaker 4>Mister Jinga's jump these things.

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<v Speaker 2>Happy in the dating the world every single day, and

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<v Speaker 2>if you're just joining us and you don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 4>It would be likely.

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<v Speaker 2>Our listener, Ricky had a clever idea after their meet

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<v Speaker 2>up to send Leanne flowers and a note written from

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<v Speaker 2>her cat in a playful way, basically.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying, I miss you. Come home and tickle my belly

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<v Speaker 1>and then.

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<v Speaker 4>Tell me about how your cute date was.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So, anyway, she's not responding as well as Ricky

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<v Speaker 2>thought she would do.

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<v Speaker 5>That.

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<v Speaker 2>We're trying to help him figure out if something else happened,

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<v Speaker 2>if there's a reason for why, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, Can you think of anything, Ricky that went weird

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<v Speaker 4>on your date? Because it all sounded so good.

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<v Speaker 3>I cannot think of anything else. I really did think

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<v Speaker 3>it was a great date.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't blame you for that. I mean his recap

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<v Speaker 4>was lovely, sounded like a great night.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Well, let's just call Leanne and see if she

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<v Speaker 2>has an answer, or if mister Jenga picks up the

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<v Speaker 2>phone and is holding her hostage.

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<v Speaker 1>It could happen.

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<v Speaker 4>I hope could talk.

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<v Speaker 6>It would be crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I feel like mister Jinga would have the

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<v Speaker 4>accent you used. I thought that was spot on, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's figure it out. I'm dialing her number right now

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<v Speaker 1>here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello, Hey, is this Leanne?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>She doesn't sound like she sounds like she's in distress,

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<v Speaker 4>like she didn't want to answer that.

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<v Speaker 5>The cat Leanne.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, go on.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on a radio show right now. We're called Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>A Leah, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 6>H I'm sorry, what what is this about?

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<v Speaker 4>That cat's got her tongue? Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>We're doing this segment here called a second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 2>because we're trying to help one of our listeners get

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<v Speaker 2>in contact with you after you went out with him once.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a guy named Ricky.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, wow in a good way like wow yeah or wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Or like uh like we did talk to Ricky.

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<v Speaker 6>About it and he talked to you, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 6>oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that a cute. It sounds like you guys had

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<v Speaker 4>a great date night.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how we know what your number is, so that

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<v Speaker 2>we could reach out, because he said that you guys

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<v Speaker 2>went to a cooking class together. You guys made tira

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<v Speaker 2>Missou bonded over the fact that you both have cats,

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<v Speaker 2>and he said after the date, he sent you some

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<v Speaker 2>flowers with a note and pretended like he was your cat,

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<v Speaker 2>mister Jenga, he was.

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<v Speaker 4>Trying to be cute and flirty and funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, okay, So he felt like the date went really

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<v Speaker 2>well and he was actually expecting to see you again.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why he's confused that there hasn't been any plans made.

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<v Speaker 6>We did have a nice date. I've never had anybody

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<v Speaker 6>bring me to a cooking cliff. That's great.

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<v Speaker 4>You're saying, at the end of your tier, Missou making

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<v Speaker 4>you were totally planning on seeing him again. Can we

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<v Speaker 4>make that assumption.

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<v Speaker 3>He had pretty much?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, yeah, yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 6>It was a nice date.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, if that's the case, then why are because he

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<v Speaker 2>said that you've been kind of cold?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, is he reading it wrong? No?

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<v Speaker 6>Not necessarily, it was nice. It was just what happened

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<v Speaker 6>after that that really didn't sit well with me and

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<v Speaker 6>maybe very scared and upset.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean the flowers with the note?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, the note was really cute. It was like for

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<v Speaker 6>my cat.

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<v Speaker 4>But what was scary about that?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't actually think your cat like wrote it?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>You realize that it's a joke.

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<v Speaker 6>He matched the handwriting perfectly.

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<v Speaker 3>That I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>We talked about where I worked, but I never gave

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<v Speaker 6>him any of the actual location and so for my job.

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<v Speaker 6>So when I came out and found that, my heart

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<v Speaker 6>sank and I did.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you were freaked out that he figured out exactly

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<v Speaker 2>where your whatever office or workplace was.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know he got him delivered there. I was

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<v Speaker 4>getting get to work as a bold move. I just

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I had just assumed he'd been to your

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<v Speaker 4>house or picked you up and got him delivered to

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<v Speaker 4>your house. You're saying that he didn't know where you

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<v Speaker 4>lived or where you worked.

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<v Speaker 6>No, No, I did not tell him where he worked,

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<v Speaker 6>And it's just too quick to suit. I didn't tell

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<v Speaker 6>you that.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just it was a boundary that was crossed

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<v Speaker 4>for you, is what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 6>Exceedingly crossed.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, I don't think that he realizes that at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he didn't mean to creep you out in any way.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he was just trying to do something nice

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<v Speaker 2>to show the extra effort he was going to put in.

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<v Speaker 2>But Ricky is on the other line of this call, which.

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<v Speaker 4>Does does it sound?

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<v Speaker 1>I know that doesn't sound good, but that is how

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<v Speaker 1>these calls work.

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<v Speaker 6>What are you joking right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Which I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>I wish we were. Didn't know that this was a

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<v Speaker 4>sit situation, Ricky. I'm here, Ricky bro and b I here,

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<v Speaker 4>he means on the phone, not physically like outside your house.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not watching her.

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<v Speaker 6>Guys, what is going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, why don't we let Ricky step in here and

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<v Speaker 2>explain himself.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you, guys, I appreciate you going to bat for me,

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<v Speaker 3>and you pretty much hit the nail on the head.

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<v Speaker 3>I just thought kind of going a little above and

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<v Speaker 3>beyond to send you a cute little note because I

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<v Speaker 3>thought we hit it off on a few things. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>you did tell me where you worked and did. I

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<v Speaker 3>just went on the Google did and it's you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, and maybe, I mean maybe he did your work,

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<v Speaker 4>because delivering it to your house would have actually been Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that's actually yeah, address is honestly probably easier to find

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<v Speaker 4>your home.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so but in your mind, Leanne, is that

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<v Speaker 2>a boundary that's too far across to like google the

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<v Speaker 2>address of your office building or whatever.

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<v Speaker 6>I think it really was. I feel like he could

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<v Speaker 6>have just called me and let that happen naturally.

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<v Speaker 5>I do think.

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<v Speaker 2>I do think part of it was like he was

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<v Speaker 2>trying to surprise you with flowers exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not very romantic to send stuff after I tell

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<v Speaker 3>you I'm sending it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you also told him the name of your cat, right,

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<v Speaker 4>he didn't like sell.

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<v Speaker 3>I am?

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<v Speaker 4>I am?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay telling him the name of my cat?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, all right, mister, we know it.

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<v Speaker 2>And a lot of it is timing, probably just because

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<v Speaker 2>you've only been on one date. If he had waited

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<v Speaker 2>till the fourth or the fifth or whatever date, you

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<v Speaker 2>would have felt like this was totally normal and sweet.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it just didn't feel like a love story for me.

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<v Speaker 6>But I don't think he's a bad guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Just too much.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, maybe maybe you just need to hear since here apology. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, like sometimes that can fix it, right, Ricky.

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<v Speaker 2>Ricky, can you get mister Janga to write an apology

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<v Speaker 2>letter work.

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<v Speaker 3>He's already writing the note that sweet at work, neat handwriting.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but Ricky, I mean, you get what she's saying, right, Bowie.

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<v Speaker 3>And I honestly didn't mean to creep you out in

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<v Speaker 3>any way. It was just something that I thought would

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<v Speaker 3>put a smile on your face. So I'm sorry if

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<v Speaker 3>I threw you off to that.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, take you.

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<v Speaker 2>Normally at this point, we would offer to send you

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<v Speaker 2>guys out on another date and we would pay for that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I could still put that offer out there

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<v Speaker 2>for you, Leanna, if you want to consider another date

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<v Speaker 2>with him, and we would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna hang out with mister Janet a night.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>He only needs one male companion in her life, the.

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<v Speaker 5>One with or Y.

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<v Speaker 2>Is you want to ask mister Jega permission if it's

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<v Speaker 2>okay for you to go hang out with Ricky.

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<v Speaker 4>See what he says.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe there's there's a little bit of hope here.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I don't want to press her too much.

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<v Speaker 3>She's already obviously a little uncomfortable, so I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to make more uncomfortable. But I was hoping we could

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<v Speaker 3>at least get our cats together for a romantic dinner too.

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<v Speaker 4>But fancy fees.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so cute. I was kind of on his side

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<v Speaker 1>till I heard about the cat dinner. Now it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of creepy.

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<v Speaker 4>No, maybe a cat hatering broking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I really hope that she takes some time to just

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<v Speaker 2>like step away and reflect more about this, because we

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<v Speaker 2>have to remember that this is all really normal to us,

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<v Speaker 2>but it is weird for someone to get a random

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<v Speaker 2>call from a radio station saying, Hey, you don't know us,

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<v Speaker 2>but we already know a whole lot about you and

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<v Speaker 2>the date that you just went on.

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<v Speaker 1>And then five minutes later we're putting her on the spot, like,

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<v Speaker 1>so you want to go out and see him again?

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<v Speaker 1>We need to answer. You can tell she was like

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<v Speaker 1>back into a corner and she's like, I literally don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Let me just process a scared little kid cat she was.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds to me like maybe she just needed to

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<v Speaker 2>just step away, process what we were saying a little more,

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<v Speaker 2>and hopefully by the end of that she can see

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<v Speaker 2>it was all just meant to be a swee gesture

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<v Speaker 2>from a guy who really really had a good time

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<v Speaker 2>right now, she might be a little bit more time alright,

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<v Speaker 2>but she even said herself that she had a good

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<v Speaker 2>time and he felt like he was a great guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope she decides to go out.

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<v Speaker 5>With him again.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah sure, I mean, cat guys, how could they ever

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<v Speaker 4>be crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, turn it on the guy. Well, if you ever

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<v Speaker 1>want to help with your love life, email the show.

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