1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: All right, So Steve, this is from Devon On Steve 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: Harvey FM, Devin says, what do you do when you 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: find out you're just friends in the middle of a 4 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: date that you're on? So over the weekend, I was 5 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: out on a fourth date with a girl that I'm 6 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: really into. While we were out, she ran into a 7 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 1: few of her friends. At first, it was odd that 8 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,959 Speaker 1: she didn't go out of her way to introduce me. 9 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 1: Then it appeared that she was making it a point 10 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: to tell them that we are quote, just friends. Considering 11 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 1: that at the end of the first three dates there 12 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: was some increasingly serious making out going on. I'm curious 13 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: how I got publicly friend zoned, but a totally different 14 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: story in private. 15 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,160 Speaker 2: What's the best way to handle this, bruh? 16 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 3: Just keep on the full court press, hey don. 17 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 4: At the end of the three dates, there's some serious 18 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 4: romance going on. 19 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 3: You ain't had sex date for y'all? Making out? You good, healing, 20 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 3: sh y'all still friends? What's wrong? 21 00:00:57,800 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 4: No? 22 00:00:58,120 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 3: You got friend zone? 23 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 4: Keeps y'all went up, Keep doing what you do. 24 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 3: Dog? She just making it clear, y'all, just fresh. She 25 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 3: testing the water. 26 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 4: You know how you you know a dog? You gotta 27 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 4: pass the test, pimp. That's all it is. Now you're lucky, 28 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 4: you know, yah, I mean it ain't finnag no fast. 29 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 4: Now this the speed she want to take it that 30 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 4: you you push it if you want to. Now at 31 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 4: least you're still on dates. 32 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, no dog. 33 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 4: Now she trying to figure out if she can stand 34 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 4: this or not. Look in the mirror, you probably ain't 35 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 4: that attracted. 36 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 3: Is that why she friends? 37 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 38 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 2: Pretty much? 39 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 3: It She done told all her friend no, no, hey, 40 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 3: we just friend. 41 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 4: But she knows, she knows, she know he a little 42 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 4: hard on the eyes, so you know she can told 43 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 4: her friends, now you got to overprove yourself now because 44 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 4: you're not attracted at keep going? 45 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 2: Is she embarrassed by him? Is that what you're saying? 46 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 3: Because he's not a little bit a little bit. 47 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 4: You know, you know, just because on site, you know, 48 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 4: she looking over there at her friends talking about girl 49 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 4: who that are we just friends? 50 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 3: We're just going out with? Okay, girl who? Because I 51 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 3: was been in the same. 52 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: That's what the girls are saying. 53 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, because she got to figure out if she can 54 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 4: change outfits and you know, get you to get the 55 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 4: right line, and. 56 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 3: You know, you know you know, get you to the 57 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 3: right ball. 58 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 4: But she's trying to see you know, she could deal 59 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 4: with that tooth like side that's missing. 60 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 3: You know when you're gonna get you know, that same 61 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 3: tooth gone. 62 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 4: You gotta see if she can talk you into that 63 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 4: folk she make a commitment. That's how women do. You 64 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 4: gotta see if you know, you gotta be open for change. 65 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,679 Speaker 2: Oh okay, now I like that. I do like that. 66 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know because women, like I say, all men 67 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 4: will change, but there's an all men can change, but 68 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,359 Speaker 4: the only one woman would change for. So she gonna 69 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 4: see if she could work with you on a couple 70 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 4: of things. You know, will you use this loution if. 71 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 2: My ass? 72 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 3: She yeah, you know, it's just little stuff like that. 73 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 3: Will you get that cat? Put on that tooth smile? 74 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 4: Turn sideways and she looking up at sea food in 75 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:19,959 Speaker 4: your mouth when you sideways? 76 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 3: That ain't ain't nobody finna do that on the dates. 77 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 4: But she'd have kissed you a couple of times. That's 78 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 4: why they ain't went fast kissing, because she'd have kissed 79 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 4: you a couple of times. And her tongue that slid 80 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 4: in that little hole and made her made her a 81 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 4: little bit uncomfortable though, Yeah, he said in her Yeah, yeah, 82 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 4: that's a problem. Yeah, yeah, it's all right that she's 83 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 4: still going out with you. She's just trying to figure 84 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 4: out if she's gonna be able to get you to 85 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 4: make these change. Looking at me at doog, you know what, 86 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 4: this ain't the first time. Let's stop all this surprise. 87 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 2: Say this with so much confidence. 88 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 3: I know, I know. I've been on the tree. 89 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 1: You know where he is? 90 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 3: Know it? 91 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 4: In my life the only thing helped me out with money. 92 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 4: See you, you got to understand what that is now. 93 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 4: And you got to kill him with kindness. Dog, I've 94 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,479 Speaker 4: been doing that my whole life. That's how I know 95 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:19,840 Speaker 4: this one. Looking at me a dog, It's all good. 96 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 4: Don't worry about it. You ain't got to be that kure. 97 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 4: Nobody never said oh he cute. I ain't never walked 98 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 4: in the room room going oh my god, he's cute. 99 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:30,600 Speaker 4: I ain't never heard that ever. You ain't never heard that. 100 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 3: And I know I never heard that, But he don't 101 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 3: know it. 102 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 2: Who is he talking to? 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