WEBVTT - Sh%t Just Got Real 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:05.400 Talk Talk Talk to We're just two unapologetically black women 0:00:05.640 --> 0:00:10.080 with an opinion who talks. 0:00:11.280 --> 0:00:11.719 What's up? 0:00:11.800 --> 0:00:12.080 Y'all? 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:14.080 Thank you for tuning in to a new episode of 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:17.680 We Talked Back and show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers. 0:00:17.840 --> 0:00:18.279 You like that? 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:23.799 Oh? I like it? Yay, my little my new boot 0:00:23.840 --> 0:00:24.680 came up with that and. 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:28.440 This man's got a new boot every Thursday of the 0:00:28.480 --> 0:00:29.160 second month. 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:34.360 I just wait anyway, y'all, it's your girl AJ. What's 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:34.960 up Tom? 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:37.440 Hey, y'all, it's staying band. I love y'all. Thank y'all 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:40.080 so much for tuning in. Hey girl, what's up with. 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:44.559 You that much? I was your weekend? You know what? 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:50.159 This weekend, it was my guy baby's second birthday, and 0:00:50.280 --> 0:00:53.680 we had a nice little party for her, and everybody 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:55.639 brought their kids and it was a cute little shin 0:00:55.720 --> 0:00:57.520 dig and then you know, at night and turned into 0:00:57.560 --> 0:01:00.880 adult party and baby by the time night the sun 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:02.880 started going down, I was drunk and I was on 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:05.279 the bouncy house and I was rolling down the slide 0:01:05.280 --> 0:01:09.280 on the bouncy house. By Sunday, my whole body hurt 0:01:09.319 --> 0:01:10.679 like I had been in a car accident. 0:01:11.800 --> 0:01:14.319 Girl, Listen, we can't be playing the same like how 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:14.840 we used to. 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:15.920 I'm seeing it. 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:19.000 I did that cartwheel last week and my rotator cut 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:22.040 fucked up, and now the bouncy house had my whole 0:01:22.040 --> 0:01:23.120 body store on Sunday. 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:25.040 I can't grow. 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:28.759 Up, bitch. That video you sent me trying to run 0:01:30.360 --> 0:01:35.119 that book is heavy, yll It's fucking heavy, like tam 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:37.000 me running slow fucking motion. 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:39.520 I tried to bet I've let a dog or the 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:42.160 police get behind me. Watch how fast I be beach. 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:47.639 My weekend was cool though. They had a juneteenth big 0:01:47.720 --> 0:01:51.600 ass festival. It's now it's like think that this was 0:01:51.680 --> 0:01:54.400 maybe the third annual, now the third year they've done 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:58.560 it at the waterfront here in North Charleston. It was 0:01:58.600 --> 0:02:01.000 from two to ten. I didn't get out tore to 0:02:01.080 --> 0:02:02.240 like six. I had to wait for the sun to 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:05.720 go down. It was the hardest fucking on Saturday. It 0:02:05.840 --> 0:02:08.200 was a million people out there. They had very, very 0:02:08.280 --> 0:02:10.760 nice fireworks at the end of the night. I was 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:12.960 waiting for like I wish they would have did like 0:02:13.320 --> 0:02:16.560 two to five for families, right, and then from five 0:02:16.600 --> 0:02:19.240 to ten for adults, because you can't drink or smoke 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:22.080 out there, Like that's not fun. Well, that's not what 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:25.359 JUNEO is about. So bring your own bottle, girl. It's 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:26.919 like a big ass family reunion. 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:28.680 All that stuff. 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:31.120 That's not it's all about kids. Don't need to be 0:02:31.200 --> 0:02:33.600 outside at ten o'clock June tenth. 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:36.880 It's like saying kids shouldn't be out for Fourth of July. 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:42.960 They shouldn't after a certain time. Shoot, look my homegirl. 0:02:43.080 --> 0:02:45.760 She her neighborhood is only like five black people that 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:48.040 live in the neighborhood, five black families. She's single, she 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:50.680 lives alone. But she said she came outside and she 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:54.760 saw all the white people had their trash to the 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:59.440 to the street on Monday, and it kind of rubbed 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:03.959 her the wrong way, like y'all not acknowledging it's Juneteenth, 0:03:04.040 --> 0:03:07.400 Like trash man ain't coming, y'all don't give a fuck. 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:09.960 Oh, I don't know, you know what. 0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:11.760 They probably are oblivious to that. 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:14.160 Yeah, they're not thinking about it. 0:03:14.280 --> 0:03:16.160 I was working on white people because I was around 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:18.360 a lot of white people yesterday spend class and all 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:20.399 these places, and I was just waiting on white people 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:23.520 to say happy June teeth. But there was like good morning, 0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:28.200 good afternoon, good evening. That's all I got it was 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:30.240 no happy June teas. Then I felt a way, so 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:34.519 I would say it happy June tea. 0:03:34.960 --> 0:03:40.960 Oh yeah, bitch, I don't care nothing about I mean, 0:03:41.000 --> 0:03:43.600 I feel like I would prefer reparations. You know, they 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:49.760 gave us a day. Yes, when where's the money? Cut 0:03:49.800 --> 0:03:53.360 the check? We need that check? Okay, nobody asked for this. 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:54.760 That's why we got to get some of these old 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:58.080 assed people out of politics, because why who asked for that? 0:03:58.440 --> 0:04:01.760 But anyway, I know, junteenth, I understand what it represents. 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:06.360 But mainly people in Texas have always celebrated you because 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:08.840 them niggas ain't know he was free down there. That's 0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:09.560 what had happened. 0:04:09.760 --> 0:04:12.520 That's really what happened. Ain't just sad? 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:16.360 I know, I feel like that was happening all over 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:18.479 though a lot of people didn't know what. It's almost 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:20.479 like getting out of prison, like now what. It's a 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:23.839 lot of people who don't know they free today. So period, 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:26.440 let's talk about it. Okay, Oh, let's not. 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:29.919 I'm going to say that for another episode, right, So 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:31.679 let's get into sins of the week. 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:33.920 This one is really sad and I almost didn't want 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:36.080 to talk about it, but we're gonna do it anyway. 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:41.120 Russell Simmons probably had the worst Father's Day of anybody 0:04:41.680 --> 0:04:43.480 this Father's Day. 0:04:44.520 --> 0:04:47.880 His daughters. First, the oldest daughter. 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:52.279 Took to social media to basically tell her mom Happy 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:56.479 Father's Day, and then Kamora got on and pretty much 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:59.200 blasted him, and then the young one she just went 0:04:59.279 --> 0:05:03.080 crazy with it and posted like him yelling at her. 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:07.800 It was a screen record with no sound and basically 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:11.800 saying that he has been a poor father figure for 0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:17.920 those kids or well adults because they're young adults now. Yeah, 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:21.160 And it was sad to watch because, like jay Z says, 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:23.599 nobody wins when the family fuse. 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:25.800 That's how I feel about it. 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:28.280 It's disheartening to see them going at it because I mean, 0:05:29.440 --> 0:05:32.640 name a family who hasn't had problems, right, name one. 0:05:33.600 --> 0:05:35.040 I'll show you somebody that's lying. 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:38.160 Everybody has had something else. 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:40.400 Everybody has had something that. 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:46.240 But what everybody hasn't had is it public. 0:05:45.920 --> 0:05:47.920 For the world to discuss and to be on we 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:49.679 talk back podcasts. 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:55.039 You know, so aired out all the family laundry, right. 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:58.880 I don't agree with that. I don't agree with how 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:01.800 they are taking it to that that I understand emotions though, 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:03.719 you know what I'm saying, and we don't know what's 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:05.520 been going on. I know one thing, I kind of 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:09.080 I like Russell Simmons, you know all that, But I 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:11.000 sighed eye him a lot. Is he back in the 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:12.440 United States yet, because you know he's been. 0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:16.160 No, he's in Bally still from what I understand, Yeah. 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:18.440 Because he has some allegations hanging on his back since 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:22.120 twenty seventeen. Y'all know he he's been with He was 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:24.599 with Kimora for a long time. She was a teenager 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:27.520 when they got together. He was forty one when he 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:29.960 got married, and she was like twenty two, twenty three 0:06:30.000 --> 0:06:34.000 years old. He raised her, so I can just imagine 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:37.839 like the emotional trauma that she may have been through 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:41.679 all of these years too. So we can't really, like 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:43.800 like we had the episode on, you know, who's able 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:47.480 to grieve and all that publicly, we can't really dictate 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:50.640 how people choose to express. 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:51.000 Yeah, trauma. 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:54.320 I don't have a dog in this fight, honestly. I 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:57.080 just feel like it's sad and hopefully they can figure 0:06:57.080 --> 0:07:01.359 out how to be a fan, you know, to be 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:02.240 a healthy family. 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:05.080 That's what I wish for. Us all though, so mm hmm. 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:11.280 So the one thing, So Kimora Lee's ex husband, what 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:14.720 is his name, Tim Lessner, So that guy, he's all, 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:16.960 all of them are all wrapped up in that ship 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:19.720 that was going on with Pras Michael, with the Fujis 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:23.400 and these Asian this agent fund that these people were 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:26.400 in bezzling money from. So apparently Russell simm is saying 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:30.080 that Kamora sold some of his stock shares to pay 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:33.640 for her x now ex husband legal defense in that 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:36.800 particular case. So it's fucking wild these people. This shit 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:39.960 is deep. All of it is real deep, and it's 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:44.320 just crazy to watch it play out unfold right before 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:48.080 your eyes. Just got to be paying attention. But girl, 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:51.280 this is stupid, real, stupid internet news. Now. So this man, 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:54.560 actually I saw this on on social media one of 0:07:54.560 --> 0:08:00.640 my favorite Instagram pages, mindset dot Therapy. So this man 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:06.560 commented on his own wanted poster on fucking Facebook. So 0:08:06.680 --> 0:08:09.960 this is where Richley, Washington Police Department that says one 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:12.800 at Wednesday, they have this thing called one it Wednesday. 0:08:13.200 --> 0:08:15.560 Anthony Akers thirty eight is wanted by the Department of 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:18.960 Corrections for failure to comply if you have any information 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:24.040 call this food comments and says, calm down, I'm gonna 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:28.760 turn myself in. Like they reply back, like, hey, Anthony, 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:31.200 we haven't seen you yet. Our business hours are eight 0:08:31.240 --> 0:08:33.640 to five Monday through Friday. Of course, if you need 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:35.719 a ride, you can call a non emergency five on 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:39.520 nine sixty eight zero three three three and we'll pick 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:39.920 you up. 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:44.679 Relaxed, y'all, ain't gotta post my picture. 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:50.160 I'm coming, he's the proplies back and says, thank you 0:08:50.440 --> 0:08:53.120 tying up a couple loosens, since I will probably be 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:55.480 in there for a month, should be in there in 0:08:55.520 --> 0:09:00.560 the next forty eight hours. And five days later they 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:03.760 come in and say he has turned himself in. Well 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:05.320 that's a stand up guy. 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:05.800 You know. 0:09:06.360 --> 0:09:08.240 I wouldn't call me and shit, y'all just gonna have 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:11.280 to find me. That's your job, period. I gonna have 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:12.640 to do your job. I'm about to help her. 0:09:15.440 --> 0:09:19.280 So I don't know if you saw this, but uh, 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:23.120 there's a podcast by Megan James called Hollywood Group Chat 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:29.240 Podcast and she had Johnny Blaze on and during the interview, 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:32.520 she says to Johnny Blaze like something along the lines 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:36.400 about her still being a crackhead and if she's no 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:38.800 longer a crackhead pretty much to prove it, and she 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:41.600 pulls out a drug test and then she calls to 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:44.880 the makeup artist and it's like, what's your name? 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:47.040 She gonna go in the bathroom with you to do 0:09:47.559 --> 0:09:48.400 this drug test. 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:54.080 And I stank when it went right when the video posted, 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:57.400 like people was dragging, raking Meghan James over the Coles Baby. 0:09:57.440 --> 0:09:59.800 They was coming for her about you know how she 0:09:59.880 --> 0:10:03.320 was coming at Johnny Blaze, and Johnny Blaze responded saying like, 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:06.199 basically people be trying her and doing her any kind 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:09.480 of way. But then Meghan James came back and said, like, 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:12.400 you aksed me to give you this drug test, and 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:15.640 you begged me to come on this show, and it's 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:18.160 crazy that you would allow people to drag me like 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:22.040 this when this whole thing was your idea. So I 0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:25.400 get both perspectives, but I maybe it was Megan James 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:28.760 delivery that was just kind of off putting. 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:30.880 It her whole attitude. It was stink. You know what 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:33.439 I'm saying, Yes, this is a guest, no matter how 0:10:33.480 --> 0:10:35.560 she ended up there, she's a guest. Like it's like 0:10:35.600 --> 0:10:38.240 almost like she brought her up there to embarrass her, right, 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:39.720 And it got to a point I saw the videos. 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:42.920 It got to a point where Johnny was like, pass 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:45.679 me my cell phone, like can you record what's going on? 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:47.800 You know what I'm saying, Like, can you stream what's 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:50.839 going on? Cause she was clearly uncomfortable. I don't think 0:10:50.840 --> 0:10:52.559 she deserved to be cheated. Like I've met her before 0:10:52.640 --> 0:10:55.160 when like in the actual strip club in Houston. Very 0:10:55.240 --> 0:10:58.040 nice girl back in the day. She was much smaller, cute, 0:10:58.320 --> 0:11:01.240 find its hell bitch was in there on her fucking head. 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:04.520 Nice girl. I don't think she deserves to be treated 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:06.240 like that. She's highly talented. 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:09.520 Right, She's very talented, and you know, it surprised me 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:12.280 because she is a fighter. I'm surprised she's just That's 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:14.160 why I felt like maybe she was in on it, 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:17.720 because why are you letting this girl call you a crackhead. 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:20.840 Trying to have a viral moment? They got it, Yeah, 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:23.320 they got what they're doing everything. I'm not doing anything 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:24.319 for TV man. 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:29.680 Right, not an expense of somebody's you know, feelings. I 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:32.720 guess hell yeah, Like I'm not trying to hurt nobody 0:11:32.760 --> 0:11:33.600 to get a viral moment. 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:34.400 It's not that deep. 0:11:35.800 --> 0:11:39.400 But it may also be Johnny Blaze trying to get 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:42.120 the viral moment as well. Like they're talking about her now, 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:45.080 they're talking about making James. That may have been the goal. 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:47.000 You know, it may not have been delivered in the 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:48.959 way that Johnny Blade anticipated for it. 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:50.760 Yeah, I think that was the goal. 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:54.640 It was the goal to like, you know, vindicate herself 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:58.040 of the drug rumors. 0:11:58.080 --> 0:12:02.000 But she was sniffing coke online. I saw it. She 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:04.440 was on Live sniff and coche. I saw that shit 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:05.200 with my own eyes. 0:12:05.559 --> 0:12:08.960 James said, cocaine is the hall of a drug. So woo, 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:15.439 it's not safe anymore. Those guys be careful if you 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:18.680 if you like the party, get you some nark hann 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:20.559 or something, keep it close by. 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:23.680 Yeah. One thing that did happen. So I'm at my 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:27.600 mom's right and I hear some voices. So apparently my 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:31.600 cousin and her daughter came over. Like my cousin, she's 0:12:31.640 --> 0:12:34.679 sixty something years old. Recently she did she did overdose. 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:40.199 She made it sixty years old, over sixty five. I 0:12:40.280 --> 0:12:43.000 might had sixty she might be yeah, sixty five. Just 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:47.080 last year, another cousin of mine actually died in. 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:48.960 Her home from cocaine. 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:52.200 I don't know if they were doing yes, So now 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:56.680 I'm sorry I hear her. I mean, like I listen, 0:12:57.160 --> 0:12:59.959 I don't judge people life choices. You know I can't. 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:01.760 I can't feel for your life more than you do. 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:04.560 So whatever your choices are, I'm happy for you. That's 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:06.600 really where I'm at. You know what I'm saying. I'm not. 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:10.080 I'm no longer into defending myself. It gets people, and 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:12.240 I'm not gonna put anybody in a position to defend 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:15.240 how to choose to live their lives anymore. But I 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:17.360 was cracking the fuck up because I heard her say 0:13:18.320 --> 0:13:20.720 all this time, I know I had a bad heart. 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:25.240 I'm like, girl, you've been smoking crack like I'm thirty nine, 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:27.520 Like you've been smoking crack my whole life. What do 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:29.319 you mean you thought your heart was gonna stay good 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:29.920 all the time. 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:31.800 Well do crack effect the heart? 0:13:32.040 --> 0:13:33.960 I would have assumed. So if it didn't affect it 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:37.280 the last thirty nine years, this fortieth year is gonna 0:13:37.280 --> 0:13:39.760 affect it, girl, Because fitting all out here, you gotta 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:41.720 figure something else out. I need you to get your 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:46.440 some gummies, ayahuasca, something something else to feed the thing, 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:48.000 because you're gonna get the fuck up out of here 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:48.480 if you don't. 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:50.360 Yeah, I agree. 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:52.480 You gotta make a choice right now with these people 0:13:52.480 --> 0:13:56.599 who choose, y'all obviously playing Russian Roulette for real, you 0:13:56.720 --> 0:14:03.160 just waiting for way, waiting on you a moment anyway, y'all. Okay, 0:14:03.320 --> 0:14:08.079 this week's episode, it started off talking about singleness, okay, 0:14:08.080 --> 0:14:11.400 because we're sick of men in particular telling black women 0:14:11.440 --> 0:14:14.400 they gonna live and die alone when even if you 0:14:14.480 --> 0:14:16.600 get married nine times out of ten, you're gonna die 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:19.200 a widow anyway. So men always getting taken care of. 0:14:19.280 --> 0:14:21.840 So y'all could just shut the hell up anyway. But 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:25.320 somehow the argument I mean, excuse me, not an argument. 0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:29.480 Oh you said it right, But somehow the fucking episode 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:31.280 took a major turn, and we're gonna go ahead and put 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:36.120 it out because listen, it's real. It's shit that goes on, goodness, friendships, 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:40.720 your love life. You're gonna fucking argue. So that's what happened. 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:46.680 Like to hear it, here go, what's up, y'all? 0:14:46.720 --> 0:14:48.320 Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:52.800 We Talk Back TV. What's up, Tom? Hey? Hey, y'all, 0:14:53.040 --> 0:14:55.720 thank you for coming back. I gotta stop saying emn, 0:14:56.160 --> 0:14:57.520 why do I do that? I don't know. It's a 0:14:57.560 --> 0:15:01.400 black girl thing, it is. So we did have a 0:15:01.440 --> 0:15:07.840 good time at the Krowne Claiborne comedy show. This Nigga 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:08.480 is so funny. 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:10.480 Everybody on the line up was funny. It was a 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:12.200 really good show. I enjoyed myself. 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:14.680 I don't remember the other comedians names. I'm so sorry. 0:15:14.720 --> 0:15:16.520 I did follow them on Instagram, No, but I don't 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:17.240 remember their names. 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:18.560 One's name was Jesse. 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:24.680 One's names was Hoody Wody. That's what it was, Wody. 0:15:24.840 --> 0:15:27.160 And then the other one, God, I didn't get all. 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:29.160 I know his t shirt said I'm a superhero to 0:15:29.240 --> 0:15:29.680 my kids. 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:30.880 Yeah, it was good. I love. 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:32.880 All of them were really good. And then of course 0:15:33.240 --> 0:15:34.920 Kerwin Claiborne was just amazing. 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:37.640 He's just funny for no damn reason. Man. You know, 0:15:37.800 --> 0:15:40.440 like it's like you almost get tired of people being 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:42.520 that funny. Like, go man, I don't feel like my 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:46.040 face hurt. I don't feel like laughing no more. 0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:46.560 Like this morning. 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:49.520 I felt like I did crunches last night because my 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:51.520 abs from contracting from laughing. 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:55.800 Yes, so you know, I want to do an episode 0:15:55.800 --> 0:16:04.920 today to talk about singleness mmmm and why it seems 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:12.520 like women are shunned for being single for some reason, 0:16:12.720 --> 0:16:16.760 all while men is like, you know, I'm outside. It's 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:18.200 cool for men to be outside. 0:16:18.240 --> 0:16:20.120 But do you feel shown by people? 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:23.800 Like people are absolutely like the older you getting now 0:16:23.840 --> 0:16:27.160 listen and social media be ripping. That's a whole new one. 0:16:27.440 --> 0:16:31.040 Yeah, I try not to anytime I actually read those comments. 0:16:31.400 --> 0:16:33.240 How do you feel? How does it make you feel? 0:16:33.280 --> 0:16:35.240 Sometimes I'll be offended and I'll be like, oh, I'm 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:36.160 about to go cuss. 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:37.920 This because we talk back, bitch, because who you talking 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:38.080 to me? 0:16:38.200 --> 0:16:38.360 Right? 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:40.240 And I will go to your page and like rip 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:43.240 you the shreds, right. But then sometimes someone be funny, 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:45.480 like I'll laugh because I know I don't. I mean, 0:16:45.800 --> 0:16:48.440 I'm not no skinny girl, but I ain't no refrigerator. 0:16:48.480 --> 0:16:51.160 Like that's a bit of a stretch, sir. You know. 0:16:52.480 --> 0:16:54.800 So I'm looking on social media, I'm like, wait, I 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:57.520 didn't comment on this person thing, Like I'm thinking I'm 0:16:57.520 --> 0:17:00.560 on my page, but y'all it's tam ass for the 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:07.000 podcast page on a nigga's personal page talk about you're ugly, 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:12.560 your handline fucked up? You gotta do that to people. 0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:15.240 I almost want to start like screenshining people and then 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:16.959 posting them on the page and roasting the fuck out 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:18.920 their ass, right, I swear I want to do that 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:19.720 because do it. 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:24.560 Because you coming over here to just be mean. 0:17:24.840 --> 0:17:27.200 You know, like if you don't like what we're saying, Okay, 0:17:27.280 --> 0:17:29.000 it's one thing, but you're just coming over here to 0:17:29.160 --> 0:17:33.040 like assassinate our bodies and all these things for what reason? 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:36.400 And that's another thing. Women can't do that men can. 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:40.800 Women can't be ugly, but men can be. That's another 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:42.840 thing I don't understand, Like why do you like what 0:17:42.960 --> 0:17:44.720 do you see when you look in the mirror? Sir? 0:17:45.320 --> 0:17:45.959 Like you all? 0:17:46.000 --> 0:17:48.920 That's confidence, the audacity of that nigga to come over 0:17:48.960 --> 0:17:51.439 there and talk shit about us. I think society teaches 0:17:51.520 --> 0:17:54.720 women to like over judge themselves. 0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:55.600 Here's the thing. 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:59.600 They placed value in what we look like, our greatest 0:17:59.720 --> 0:18:03.080 value in our periance, and in men, their greatest value 0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:04.280 is in their possessions. 0:18:04.480 --> 0:18:05.800 You know, what can they afford? 0:18:06.080 --> 0:18:08.119 Right, So they feel like they can be ugly as 0:18:08.200 --> 0:18:11.159 long as they're rich, and we can be but as 0:18:11.200 --> 0:18:14.600 long as we're beautiful girl. These guys on the internet 0:18:14.720 --> 0:18:17.080 are not rich. These are not rich niggas. That's in 0:18:17.119 --> 0:18:20.080 the comments. Rich men do not have time to come 0:18:20.240 --> 0:18:22.960 on our page to comment. And look, I'm gonna be clear, 0:18:23.240 --> 0:18:25.120 it's cool if y'all come talk shit on the page. 0:18:25.160 --> 0:18:27.879 I've already said this, but you gotta follow. We have 0:18:28.040 --> 0:18:30.200 to get that social digital currency. You're not just about 0:18:30.200 --> 0:18:32.800 to come over here and talk shit and not follow 0:18:32.880 --> 0:18:35.960 our pario. At the same time, it's just weird old behavior, 0:18:36.520 --> 0:18:39.960 even like when I comment on someone else's page, Like 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:42.480 if I make a comment and you got motherfucker's comment, 0:18:42.600 --> 0:18:46.919 crazy shit. I never comment on anybody's comment unless I'm 0:18:46.960 --> 0:18:49.440 in agreeance. If I don't agree with it, I just 0:18:49.560 --> 0:18:52.440 keep scrolling right Like why are you here? 0:18:53.160 --> 0:18:57.240 I'm confused because they got else to do. Confused. 0:18:57.359 --> 0:18:58.920 Say what you want to say, but just know that 0:18:59.280 --> 0:19:02.720 if I'm born word, I will come on your pain 0:19:02.840 --> 0:19:07.399 if I got you Apart for fun, a nigga was 0:19:07.480 --> 0:19:09.800 like two tons of fun on a picture where we 0:19:09.880 --> 0:19:13.240 look fucking immaculate, Like what are you talking about? First 0:19:13.280 --> 0:19:16.440 of all, we could slip and slide across all y'all 0:19:16.560 --> 0:19:19.399 forehead if we feel like it okay, and you're gonna 0:19:19.480 --> 0:19:24.360 let us period slip and slide across the Forehead's slip 0:19:24.480 --> 0:19:28.119 and slide across the Nigga forehead and they gonna let us. 0:19:28.200 --> 0:19:30.119 So you over there talking shit, I'm confused. 0:19:30.320 --> 0:19:31.760 So are you happy single? 0:19:33.560 --> 0:19:36.760 Yes, because I'm out of Like I'm not gonna say 0:19:36.800 --> 0:19:39.200 fresh out of relationship because it's almost gonna be what 0:19:39.440 --> 0:19:41.760 a year and a half in a minute, so it's 0:19:41.840 --> 0:19:45.960 not fresh. But I had been in relationships for like 0:19:46.080 --> 0:19:49.800 a decade. Yeah, so yeah, Like you know, the only 0:19:50.000 --> 0:19:52.720 drawback is now that I don't want to call it 0:19:52.840 --> 0:19:55.040 waste of time because I feel like only women like 0:19:55.080 --> 0:19:57.760 equate like relationship time, Like it's a waste when they 0:19:57.760 --> 0:19:59.240 don't get what they want at the end of the day, 0:19:59.680 --> 0:20:01.920 but you learn something from it. So now I know 0:20:02.080 --> 0:20:04.520