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Speaker 1: Talk Talk Talk to We're just two unapologetically black women

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 3: Y'all?

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Speaker 2: Thank you for tuning in to a new episode of

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Speaker 2: We Talked Back and show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers.

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Speaker 3: You like that?

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Speaker 2: Oh? I like it? Yay, my little my new boot

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Speaker 2: came up with that and.

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Speaker 1: This man's got a new boot every Thursday of the

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Speaker 1: second month.

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Speaker 2: I just wait anyway, y'all, it's your girl AJ. What's

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Speaker 2: up Tom?

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Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, it's staying band. I love y'all. Thank y'all

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Speaker 3: so much for tuning in. Hey girl, what's up with.

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Speaker 2: You that much? I was your weekend? You know what?

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Speaker 1: This weekend, it was my guy baby's second birthday, and

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Speaker 1: we had a nice little party for her, and everybody

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Speaker 1: brought their kids and it was a cute little shin

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Speaker 1: dig and then you know, at night and turned into

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Speaker 1: adult party and baby by the time night the sun

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Speaker 1: started going down, I was drunk and I was on

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Speaker 1: the bouncy house and I was rolling down the slide

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Speaker 1: on the bouncy house. By Sunday, my whole body hurt

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Speaker 1: like I had been in a car accident.

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Speaker 2: Girl, Listen, we can't be playing the same like how

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Speaker 2: we used to.

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Speaker 3: I'm seeing it.

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Speaker 1: I did that cartwheel last week and my rotator cut

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Speaker 1: fucked up, and now the bouncy house had my whole

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Speaker 1: body store on Sunday.

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Speaker 3: I can't grow.

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Speaker 2: Up, bitch. That video you sent me trying to run

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Speaker 2: that book is heavy, yll It's fucking heavy, like tam

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Speaker 2: me running slow fucking motion.

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Speaker 3: I tried to bet I've let a dog or the

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Speaker 3: police get behind me. Watch how fast I be beach.

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Speaker 2: My weekend was cool though. They had a juneteenth big

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Speaker 2: ass festival. It's now it's like think that this was

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Speaker 2: maybe the third annual, now the third year they've done

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Speaker 2: it at the waterfront here in North Charleston. It was

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Speaker 2: from two to ten. I didn't get out tore to

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Speaker 2: like six. I had to wait for the sun to

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Speaker 2: go down. It was the hardest fucking on Saturday. It

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Speaker 2: was a million people out there. They had very, very

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Speaker 2: nice fireworks at the end of the night. I was

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Speaker 2: waiting for like I wish they would have did like

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Speaker 2: two to five for families, right, and then from five

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Speaker 2: to ten for adults, because you can't drink or smoke

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Speaker 2: out there, Like that's not fun. Well, that's not what

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Speaker 2: JUNEO is about. So bring your own bottle, girl. It's

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Speaker 2: like a big ass family reunion.

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Speaker 3: All that stuff.

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Speaker 2: That's not it's all about kids. Don't need to be

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Speaker 2: outside at ten o'clock June tenth.

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Speaker 3: It's like saying kids shouldn't be out for Fourth of July.

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Speaker 2: They shouldn't after a certain time. Shoot, look my homegirl.

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Speaker 2: She her neighborhood is only like five black people that

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Speaker 2: live in the neighborhood, five black families. She's single, she

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Speaker 2: lives alone. But she said she came outside and she

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Speaker 2: saw all the white people had their trash to the

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Speaker 2: to the street on Monday, and it kind of rubbed

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Speaker 2: her the wrong way, like y'all not acknowledging it's Juneteenth,

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Speaker 2: Like trash man ain't coming, y'all don't give a fuck.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know, you know what.

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Speaker 1: They probably are oblivious to that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're not thinking about it.

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Speaker 1: I was working on white people because I was around

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Speaker 1: a lot of white people yesterday spend class and all

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Speaker 1: these places, and I was just waiting on white people

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Speaker 1: to say happy June teeth. But there was like good morning,

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Speaker 1: good afternoon, good evening. That's all I got it was

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Speaker 1: no happy June teas. Then I felt a way, so

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Speaker 1: I would say it happy June tea.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, bitch, I don't care nothing about I mean,

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Speaker 2: I feel like I would prefer reparations. You know, they

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Speaker 2: gave us a day. Yes, when where's the money? Cut

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Speaker 2: the check? We need that check? Okay, nobody asked for this.

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Speaker 2: That's why we got to get some of these old

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Speaker 2: But anyway, I know, junteenth, I understand what it represents.

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Speaker 2: But mainly people in Texas have always celebrated you because

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Speaker 2: them niggas ain't know he was free down there. That's

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Speaker 2: what had happened.

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Speaker 3: That's really what happened. Ain't just sad?

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Speaker 2: I know, I feel like that was happening all over

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Speaker 2: though a lot of people didn't know what. It's almost

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Speaker 2: like getting out of prison, like now what. It's a

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Speaker 2: lot of people who don't know they free today. So period,

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Speaker 2: let's talk about it. Okay, Oh, let's not.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to say that for another episode, right, So

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Speaker 3: let's get into sins of the week.

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Speaker 1: This one is really sad and I almost didn't want

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Speaker 1: to talk about it, but we're gonna do it anyway.

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Speaker 1: Russell Simmons probably had the worst Father's Day of anybody

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Speaker 1: this Father's Day.

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Speaker 3: His daughters. First, the oldest daughter.

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Speaker 1: Took to social media to basically tell her mom Happy

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Speaker 1: Father's Day, and then Kamora got on and pretty much

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Speaker 1: blasted him, and then the young one she just went

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Speaker 1: It was a screen record with no sound and basically

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Speaker 1: saying that he has been a poor father figure for

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Speaker 1: those kids or well adults because they're young adults now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And it was sad to watch because, like jay Z says,

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Speaker 1: nobody wins when the family fuse.

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Speaker 3: That's how I feel about it.

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Speaker 1: It's disheartening to see them going at it because I mean,

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Speaker 1: name a family who hasn't had problems, right, name one.

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Speaker 3: I'll show you somebody that's lying.

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Speaker 2: Everybody has had something else.

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Speaker 3: Everybody has had something that.

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Speaker 1: But what everybody hasn't had is it public.

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Speaker 3: For the world to discuss and to be on we

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Speaker 2: You know, so aired out all the family laundry, right.

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Speaker 2: I don't agree with that. I don't agree with how

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Speaker 2: they are taking it to that that I understand emotions though,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, and we don't know what's

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Speaker 2: been going on. I know one thing, I kind of

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Speaker 2: I like Russell Simmons, you know all that, But I

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Speaker 2: sighed eye him a lot. Is he back in the

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Speaker 2: United States yet, because you know he's been.

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Speaker 3: No, he's in Bally still from what I understand, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Because he has some allegations hanging on his back since

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Speaker 2: twenty seventeen. Y'all know he he's been with He was

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Speaker 2: with Kimora for a long time. She was a teenager

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Speaker 2: like the emotional trauma that she may have been through

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Speaker 2: all of these years too. So we can't really, like

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Speaker 2: to grieve and all that publicly, we can't really dictate

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Speaker 2: how people choose to express.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, trauma.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a dog in this fight, honestly. I

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Speaker 1: just feel like it's sad and hopefully they can figure

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Speaker 1: out how to be a fan, you know, to be

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Speaker 1: a healthy family.

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Speaker 3: That's what I wish for. Us all though, so mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: So the one thing, So Kimora Lee's ex husband, what

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Speaker 2: is his name, Tim Lessner, So that guy, he's all,

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Speaker 2: all of them are all wrapped up in that ship

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Speaker 2: that was going on with Pras Michael, with the Fujis

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Speaker 2: and these Asian this agent fund that these people were

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Speaker 2: in bezzling money from. So apparently Russell simm is saying

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Speaker 2: that Kamora sold some of his stock shares to pay

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Speaker 2: particular case. So it's fucking wild these people. This shit

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Speaker 2: is deep. All of it is real deep, and it's

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Speaker 2: just crazy to watch it play out unfold right before

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Speaker 2: your eyes. Just got to be paying attention. But girl,

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Speaker 2: this is stupid, real, stupid internet news. Now. So this man,

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Speaker 2: actually I saw this on on social media one of

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Speaker 2: my favorite Instagram pages, mindset dot Therapy. So this man

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Speaker 2: commented on his own wanted poster on fucking Facebook. So

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Speaker 2: this is where Richley, Washington Police Department that says one

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Speaker 2: at Wednesday, they have this thing called one it Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: Anthony Akers thirty eight is wanted by the Department of

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Speaker 2: Corrections for failure to comply if you have any information

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Speaker 2: call this food comments and says, calm down, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: turn myself in. Like they reply back, like, hey, Anthony,

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Speaker 2: we haven't seen you yet. Our business hours are eight

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Speaker 2: to five Monday through Friday. Of course, if you need

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Speaker 2: nine sixty eight zero three three three and we'll pick

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Speaker 2: you up.

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Speaker 1: Relaxed, y'all, ain't gotta post my picture.

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Speaker 2: I'm coming, he's the proplies back and says, thank you

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Speaker 2: tying up a couple loosens, since I will probably be

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Speaker 2: in there for a month, should be in there in

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Speaker 2: the next forty eight hours. And five days later they

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Speaker 2: come in and say he has turned himself in. Well

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Speaker 2: that's a stand up guy.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't call me and shit, y'all just gonna have

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Speaker 2: to find me. That's your job, period. I gonna have

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Speaker 1: So I don't know if you saw this, but uh,

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Speaker 1: there's a podcast by Megan James called Hollywood Group Chat

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Speaker 1: Podcast and she had Johnny Blaze on and during the interview,

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Speaker 1: she says to Johnny Blaze like something along the lines

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Speaker 1: the makeup artist and it's like, what's your name?

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Speaker 3: She gonna go in the bathroom with you to do

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Speaker 1: And I stank when it went right when the video posted,

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Speaker 1: like people was dragging, raking Meghan James over the Coles Baby.

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Speaker 1: They was coming for her about you know how she

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Speaker 1: was coming at Johnny Blaze, and Johnny Blaze responded saying like,

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Speaker 1: of way. But then Meghan James came back and said, like,

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Speaker 1: you begged me to come on this show, and it's

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Speaker 1: crazy that you would allow people to drag me like

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Speaker 1: this when this whole thing was your idea. So I

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Speaker 1: get both perspectives, but I maybe it was Megan James

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Speaker 1: delivery that was just kind of off putting.

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Speaker 2: It her whole attitude. It was stink. You know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, Yes, this is a guest, no matter how

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Speaker 2: she ended up there, she's a guest. Like it's like

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Speaker 2: almost like she brought her up there to embarrass her, right,

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Speaker 2: And it got to a point I saw the videos.

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Speaker 2: It got to a point where Johnny was like, pass

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Speaker 2: me my cell phone, like can you record what's going on?

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like, can you stream what's

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Speaker 2: going on? Cause she was clearly uncomfortable. I don't think

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Speaker 2: she deserved to be cheated. Like I've met her before

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Speaker 2: when like in the actual strip club in Houston. Very

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Speaker 2: nice girl back in the day. She was much smaller, cute,

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Speaker 2: find its hell bitch was in there on her fucking head.

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Speaker 2: Nice girl. I don't think she deserves to be treated

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Speaker 2: like that. She's highly talented.

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Speaker 1: Right, She's very talented, and you know, it surprised me

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Speaker 2: I'm like, girl, you've been smoking crack like I'm thirty nine,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 2: You gotta make a choice right now with these people

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Speaker 2: just waiting for way, waiting on you a moment anyway, y'all. Okay,

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Speaker 2: this week's episode, it started off talking about singleness, okay,

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Speaker 2: because we're sick of men in particular telling black women

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Speaker 2: it out because listen, it's real. It's shit that goes on, goodness, friendships,

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Speaker 2: your love life. You're gonna fucking argue. So that's what happened.

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Speaker 3: Like to hear it, here go, what's up, y'all?

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Speaker 2: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of

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Speaker 2: We Talk Back TV. What's up, Tom? Hey? Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 2: thank you for coming back. I gotta stop saying emn,

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Speaker 2: why do I do that? I don't know. It's a

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Speaker 2: good time at the Krowne Claiborne comedy show. This Nigga

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Speaker 2: is so funny.

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Speaker 1: Everybody on the line up was funny. It was a

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Speaker 2: I don't remember the other comedians names. I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: I did follow them on Instagram, No, but I don't

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Speaker 3: One's name was Jesse.

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Speaker 2: One's names was Hoody Wody. That's what it was, Wody.

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Speaker 1: And then the other one, God, I didn't get all.

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Speaker 2: I know his t shirt said I'm a superhero to

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Speaker 2: my kids.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was good. I love.

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Speaker 1: All of them were really good. And then of course

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Speaker 2: He's just funny for no damn reason. Man. You know,

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Speaker 3: Like this morning.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so you know, I want to do an episode

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Speaker 2: today to talk about singleness mmmm and why it seems

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Speaker 2: all while men is like, you know, I'm outside. It's

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Speaker 3: But do you feel shown by people?

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Speaker 2: Like people are absolutely like the older you getting now

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Speaker 2: listen and social media be ripping. That's a whole new one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I try not to anytime I actually read those comments.

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Speaker 2: How do you feel? How does it make you feel?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I'll be offended and I'll be like, oh, I'm

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Speaker 2: This because we talk back, bitch, because who you talking

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: And I will go to your page and like rip

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Speaker 1: you the shreds, right. But then sometimes someone be funny,

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Speaker 1: like I'll laugh because I know I don't. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm not no skinny girl, but I ain't no refrigerator.

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Speaker 2: Like that's a bit of a stretch, sir. You know.

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Speaker 2: So I'm looking on social media, I'm like, wait, I

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Speaker 2: didn't comment on this person thing, Like I'm thinking I'm

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Speaker 2: podcast page on a nigga's personal page talk about you're ugly,

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Speaker 2: your handline fucked up? You gotta do that to people.

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Speaker 2: I almost want to start like screenshining people and then

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Speaker 2: posting them on the page and roasting the fuck out

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Speaker 2: their ass, right, I swear I want to do that

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Speaker 2: because do it.

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Speaker 3: Because you coming over here to just be mean.

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Speaker 1: You know, like if you don't like what we're saying, Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's one thing, but you're just coming over here to

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Speaker 2: And that's another thing. Women can't do that men can.

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Speaker 2: Women can't be ugly, but men can be. That's another

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Speaker 2: thing I don't understand, Like why do you like what

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Speaker 2: do you see when you look in the mirror? Sir?

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Speaker 3: Like you all?

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Speaker 2: That's confidence, the audacity of that nigga to come over

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Speaker 2: there and talk shit about us. I think society teaches

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Speaker 3: Here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: They placed value in what we look like, our greatest

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Speaker 1: value in our periance, and in men, their greatest value

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Speaker 1: is in their possessions.

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Speaker 3: You know, what can they afford?

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Speaker 2: Right, So they feel like they can be ugly as

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Speaker 2: long as they're rich, and we can be but as

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Speaker 2: long as we're beautiful girl. These guys on the internet

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Speaker 2: the comments. Rich men do not have time to come

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Speaker 2: I've already said this, but you gotta follow. We have

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Speaker 2: to get that social digital currency. You're not just about

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Speaker 2: to come over here and talk shit and not follow

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Speaker 2: our pario. At the same time, it's just weird old behavior,

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Speaker 2: even like when I comment on someone else's page, Like

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Speaker 3: I'm confused because they got else to do. Confused.

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Speaker 2: Say what you want to say, but just know that

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Speaker 2: if I'm born word, I will come on your pain

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Speaker 2: if I got you Apart for fun, a nigga was

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Speaker 2: look fucking immaculate, Like what are you talking about? First

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Speaker 2: of all, we could slip and slide across all y'all

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Speaker 2: and slide across the Nigga forehead and they gonna let us.

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Speaker 2: So you over there talking shit, I'm confused.

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Speaker 3: So are you happy single?

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Speaker 2: Yes, because I'm out of Like I'm not gonna say

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Speaker 2: not fresh. But I had been in relationships for like

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Speaker 2: Like I'm sitting in a relationship for five years, unfulfilled, unhappy.

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Speaker 2: So I think now I'm more equipped to get into

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Speaker 2: even when my life looking stupid, Like I'm a happy person.

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Speaker 2: But if you're dealing with a man who's knocking tent

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Speaker 2: with who he is, he's gonna make sure yo ass

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Speaker 2: unhappy too.

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Speaker 3: I remember my ex boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: I used to come home from work and I used

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Speaker 1: to be like, hey baby, and he'd be like, what

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Speaker 1: the fuck you so happy about you?

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Speaker 2: I seeing you eight hours ago? Like, damn, I've never

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Speaker 2: seen someone so miserable to be happy. That's a demon,

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Speaker 2: Like imagine being happy.

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Speaker 3: But am I happy single? Right now?

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Speaker 1: I'm happy with me me single. I'm not happy to

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Speaker 1: my twenty fifth birthday celebration and for a fifth time, yeah,

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Speaker 1: for the tenth time going, and I realized that I

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Speaker 3: I didn't have anyone to like.

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Speaker 2: Go on that women always have someone, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I have someone, but I didn't have anyone that I

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Speaker 1: loved to go with or yeah, So it was just

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Speaker 1: I'm making my dinner for one and I'm just sitting

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Speaker 1: watching from on Prime or.

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Speaker 3: Some shit like that.

438
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:54,119
Speaker 2: I watch that.

439
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 1: Yeah good, Yeah, I like it, And I realized, damn,

440
00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:00,959
Speaker 1: I'm in here doing this every night by myself.

441
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:02,720
Speaker 3: It's not I don't like that.

442
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 1: And like, the options are out there, right, the options

443
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 1: are out there, and I entertain here and I entertained there.

444
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:14,679
Speaker 3: But maybe my picker is broken. That's what my grandma

445
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 3: used to.

446
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 2: Say, your picker broken.

447
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:21,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, interesting, I pick wrong sometimes.

448
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,280
Speaker 2: I think I think we all pick wrong because sometimes

449
00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 2: we just attracted to the opposite. I well, I don't

450
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 2: even say that. I feel like usually when you date somebody,

451
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:31,560
Speaker 2: you see a little bit of you and them. That's

452
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,160
Speaker 2: why you end up fucking with them in the first place.

453
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 2: But maybe it's a part of you that you need

454
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 2: to improve on. Why you keep picking this particular type

455
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:40,439
Speaker 2: of person.

456
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:41,640
Speaker 3: I'm a dog.

457
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:48,680
Speaker 2: I'm a dog, A dog, I could be I can

458
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:51,239
Speaker 2: be a dog man. That's why I have a lot

459
00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 2: of empathy and when people that's why like cheating, Like

460
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 2: it's not the it's not the end. No, And so

461
00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 2: my next relationship, I really want somebody who let me

462
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 2: like flirt all I want to do. I'm not trying

463
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 2: to smash nobody else. I just want to still get

464
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 2: niggas to buy me drinks at the club, like when

465
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,160
Speaker 2: I hang out one time with my homegirl.

466
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 3: Like, I don't think men would like that though.

467
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 1: You know, any man who has like ego, which most do,

468
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 1: get ready your ego death right. But I don't think

469
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 1: that's the thing, especially with black men. I can't speak

470
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 1: to it.

471
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 2: Ain't coming out of his pocket, Like he should be

472
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,159
Speaker 2: happy that he don't have to giving me money to

473
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 2: go to the club.

474
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 3: Well, probably most men would be like.

475
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,879
Speaker 1: They don't mind paying for their girl drinks to not

476
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:37,199
Speaker 1: be in.

477
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 2: The nigga face, right, It's like, can I get it?

478
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 2: Can I do it?

479
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 3: You want to make sure you still got it? Yes?

480
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 2: Do you remember when people was dragging, I should curry? Yes,

481
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 2: when people were dragging, I should curry. Because she said

482
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 2: she like women want to feel wanted like people. Men

483
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 2: like to refer to shit in the Bible right. So

484
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,479
Speaker 2: the Bible says man man should not be alone. Right,

485
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 2: so he created a woman from the rib all you

486
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 2: know the creati story, right, because and then he also

487
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 2: said for a man to love woman as Christ love

488
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 2: the Church. They don't say nothing about a woman loving

489
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 2: a man. Women have to feel loved. Women have to

490
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 2: feel wanted. So if you're not making your woman feel wanting,

491
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 2: you've got so familiar with her and she's now seeking

492
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 2: validation from other men, that's your fault. That's your fault.

493
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:34,639
Speaker 3: I don't know.

494
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,119
Speaker 1: I feel like we could, you know, quote the Bible.

495
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: We could probably find somewhere where it is a woman

496
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 1: should love her.

497
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 3: Husband in there somewhere.

498
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 2: No, it's not in there. Nowhere the Bible does it

499
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 2: say that the woman should. It says man should love

500
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 2: the woman as Christ love the Church. They don't really say.

501
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 1: And that's the only person in the Bible they speak

502
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 1: of love.

503
00:24:59,320 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 2: You know.

504
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,200
Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm sure we had need.

505
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 2: A pass on and tell us in a comment, right,

506
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 2: let us the Christian is gonna come out right, well,

507
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 2: listen and listen. I bet you they won't prove me wrong.

508
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 2: Women are to be loved.

509
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:13,640
Speaker 3: I think men are to be loved too. I think

510
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 3: we're all I'm.

511
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 2: Not saying we're not like men, but why do we

512
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 2: have to grow to love them? Though?

513
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 3: See what you mean?

514
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 2: Oftentimes when women get married because they're tired of being single,

515
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 2: they find somebody because we will never be single if

516
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,159
Speaker 2: we don't want to be Let's let let's take for instance,

517
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 2: the girl that's on marriage have to lock up or whatever,

518
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,959
Speaker 2: what's the name of the moonque girl? And we'll get

519
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,440
Speaker 2: into what the fuck she got going on her eggs

520
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:47,480
Speaker 2: boo Derek. But even though like people will talk shit

521
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 2: about her aesthetically, right, that woman can still get a man.

522
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 2: All women can get a man. Can we say that

523
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 2: all men can get a woman?

524
00:25:55,800 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 1: Did they got forty dollars? Feel like everybody can get somebody, right, everybody?

525
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 1: Even I've seen remembering people with them nasty teeth. They

526
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 1: was in there kissing on Instagram and like with viral

527
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:10,399
Speaker 1: and it was and it was looked like they was

528
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: in love. Everybody can get somebody, man and woman. I

529
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 1: think you just gotta why in your higher level that's all.

530
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 2: Right, right? So, but why is it that women catch

531
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:25,639
Speaker 2: hell from other women? You catch off from your granny

532
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:26,439
Speaker 2: for being single.

533
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 3: Tell everybody I was, y'all.

534
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 2: I remember one time.

535
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,160
Speaker 1: All right, this is back when like the kango hats

536
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 1: where you are go ahead like I'm not. It wasn't kango.

537
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 1: It wasn't a kango hat. It was like the Kano

538
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 1: style of hat. And I had it on with like

539
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 1: this little vest. I looked really cute. This was a

540
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: cute little outfit I had on.

541
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 3: And I came. I thought, I really did look cute.

542
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 3: It was such a cute look.

543
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: People were telling me I look cute that day because

544
00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 1: it had like the railroad kind of pattern in it.

545
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 3: It was really cute.

546
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 1: So I got home and I got out the car

547
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: and my sister, my grandma, and my sister best friend Niecy.

548
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 1: They was standing under a tree right just catching some shade,

549
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: and my grandma.

550
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 2: Was like, hey baby.

551
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 1: I said hey, Grandma, and I kept walking and I

552
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: said hey, y'all, and they was like hey, And then

553
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: I kept walking. All them bust out laughing about so

554
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: I looked back and they was like hey, right, so

555
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 1: you know, you could tell what somebody talking about. So

556
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 1: then finally my sister came in the house. I said

557
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:32,680
Speaker 1: what Grandma said about me? Because I know it was

558
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 1: my grandma, she said. As soon as you turn your back,

559
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: she said, and.

560
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 2: Started like tisting her head side to side like.

561
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 1: And I was like, Grandpa, why are you telling people

562
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: I'm gay?

563
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,199
Speaker 3: She was like, well, you got on that.

564
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 2: Gay hat just because of my hat.

565
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 3: You ain't got no man.

566
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:51,479
Speaker 2: Uh uh?

567
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 3: See, Like, why so.

568
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 2: A woman is shit unless we attached to a man.

569
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 3: Gay hat and no man because was gay.

570
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 2: I thought about this topic because I thought about this

571
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 2: topic because in our comments on social media, and I

572
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:09,440
Speaker 2: also see this on other women's social media's, especially people

573
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 2: who are in the podcast world, Like that's the go

574
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 2: to for a lot of these guys. Y'all ain't got

575
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: a man. Listen, this is fucking entertainment. I got niggas, okay,

576
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 2: and I can choose one when I want to. Every

577
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 2: woman I feel like, can Yeah, I agree?

578
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 3: I agree.

579
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 2: So imagine you thinking you know my life because of

580
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 2: this internet shit. And even the guy friends who I

581
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 2: have platonic relationships with, I'm an amazing person. They love

582
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,719
Speaker 2: me like I have a lot of people, a lot

583
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 2: of guys that love me. Y'all, niggas don't know us, right,

584
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 2: that's a bottom line.

585
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: Do you feel like you have like a lot of

586
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:46,239
Speaker 1: platonic relationships with men.

587
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, and some some people I may have been intimate

588
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 2: with at some point, you know what I'm saying, and

589
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 2: some not. Yeah.

590
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: I find it hard for me to sustain healthy relation

591
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 1: platonic relationships with men because they always try to fuck

592
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: at some point.

593
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 2: Well, they say that women can't have male friends because

594
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 2: niggas try to fuck at some point.

595
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 3: Right.

596
00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 2: I have this wo man just don't have integrity, man,

597
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 2: because I feel like if I call any of my

598
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 2: platonic like it could be Yeah, if I call them

599
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 2: and be like, hey, I want to give you this

600
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 2: pussy today, They're gonna take it right right.

601
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 1: I have one friend here, like I just I love

602
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 1: him so much as my friend, but I can't be

603
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: his friend because anytime we hang out, he'd be like,

604
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: let's get married tomorrow, you know, basically like on that line.

605
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 2: But don't we say that, Oh, your mate should be

606
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 2: your friend, don't we say that? Yeah?

607
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 1: But I don't see him in that light. I see

608
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 1: him like a brother, not someone that I could be

609
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: intimate with.

610
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 2: You know, It's weird because soon as a man makes

611
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 2: up in his mind that he likes you in that way,

612
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 2: is like you automatically supposed to like him like that,

613
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 2: as if we don't have preference.

614
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 3: And he'd be like, why we don't hang out no more?

615
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 2: And I and I don't want to be like because

616
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 2: you can't keep it play, just keep it cool, we phrased.

617
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 2: I want to be your feet want that he like

618
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 2: throw out a little sexual and doing and do windows

619
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 2: and stuff like that. Yeah, he'd be like, let me

620
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 2: hold your feet, let me rub your feet, and I'll

621
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 2: be like, nigga, chill, let's smoke this blood and that's

622
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 2: this basketball game.

623
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 3: But nigga, like what's up?

624
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: Like I don't want you to rub my feet, you know,

625
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 1: like even though I would love my feet rub, I

626
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: don't want to take advantage of what this is.

627
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 2: And it's not that you know mm hmm.

628
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 3: That would be fucked up to be.

629
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: Letting a nigga I don't care about in that way,

630
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: just be rubbing on my feet and shit like that.

631
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 2: No following some dick. No, I don't want that. Get

632
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 2: what else to do it? Fuck rout them following some dick.

633
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: You just gotta be careful, Like I had to learn

634
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 1: the hard way about how you you know, handle people

635
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: when it comes to people's emotions and things like that

636
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: with me, and like, I don't want to play with nobody,

637
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: And I don't want to give any false ideas about

638
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: what this could be, right because you suck around and

639
00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: have somebody stalking your hair.

640
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 2: I'm not a fun girl. I can't pretend like I

641
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 2: like you just for like things and attention. I can't

642
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 2: pretend I.

643
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: Used to be here a long time ago, Like in

644
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: my twenties, I definitely went on a trip with a guy,

645
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: been on trips with guys that like I kind of like.

646
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 3: I like him, I don't like him.

647
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 2: I'm not putting myself in a clothes setting with anybody

648
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 2: I don't like.

649
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:24,479
Speaker 1: No, Like it was never no, but like I've never

650
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 1: been out with somebody like I didn't like at all.

651
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: But it wasn't like, Oh, he's so amazing, I just

652
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: want to be with hang out with him. It was

653
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 1: it was like, he's cool and there's a lot of

654
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 1: great things that come with him.

655
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 2: You've never had that, Yes, but I wouldn't play with

656
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 2: them in that way because I'll get annoyed real quick.

657
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, Now, like I don't want to play on me

658
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 3: neither now now that I got my own money.

659
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 2: Oh got it, bitch, just before the money.

660
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a broke, broke, young broke broke bitch energy.

661
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 3: Ye who got my who got a lot of money

662
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 3: in it?

663
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 2: I actually have more money in my twenties, bitch, lose

664
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 2: the way to God?

665
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 1: Yes, like I remember, I remember being so broke one

666
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,239
Speaker 1: time in college. Me and my homegirl went and got

667
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 1: a foe for four and I think.

668
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 2: That bitch, bruh, that's how poor I was. I'm talking

669
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 2: about broke bitch. Ship bitch, I'm calling my mama.

670
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 3: Thank God for growth.

671
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 2: Okay, So what is single shaming? It's such a thing.

672
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 1: There's a thing like you ain't got no man, your

673
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 1: pussy must be trash. Like that's that's single shaming.

674
00:32:55,760 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, it's like live it's something. It needs to

675
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 2: be fixed because I say I'm single, but but there's

676
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 2: nothing wrong.

677
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 3: Is there any truth to it?

678
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 2: Though? What needs to be fixed?

679
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 3: I feel like while you're in an attitude, while you're.

680
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 2: In your singleness, let's be clear, huh, bitch, while you're

681
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 2: in your singleness, everybody can take time for themselves and

682
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 2: identify all their strengths weaknesses, maybe things that that because

683
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 2: it's not not always the man, right, So there's things

684
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 2: that maybe about you and your regular relationships and or friendships,

685
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 2: right that people can improve on it. In your singleness,

686
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 2: you can kind of highlight those things and work on

687
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 2: them for your next relationship.

688
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 1: I know one thing that I've had to learn to

689
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: adjust to be in a healthy relationship is my mouth.

690
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 2: I know this is we talk back, but sometimes I

691
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 2: can shut the fuck I know when to shut the

692
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 2: fuck up oftentimes, like you know, you could pick your battles.

693
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 3: There was a time I didn't know he'd be like, say.

694
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 2: The ship out of you.

695
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I shut my mouth.

696
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,320
Speaker 2: I'll just be quiet. I won't even address like something's

697
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 2: just not worth the choke. But I feel like this

698
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 2: it just depends on the man you're dealing with, you

699
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, if he's capable of being normal

700
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 2: when you choose not to say some ship. I feel

701
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 2: like sometimes some people like they have to say something

702
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 2: to you to evoke this thing out of you. Like

703
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 2: I feel like that something shows up in them, right,

704
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 2: So when you're trying to be different to avoid a situation,

705
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 2: to avoid an argument, something still shows up. In them.

706
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,320
Speaker 2: They evoke this thing out of you to make you

707
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 2: want to jump kick them.

708
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,839
Speaker 1: But it's like poke the beer, Poke the beer, poke

709
00:34:58,920 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: the beer.

710
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 2: That's exactly what I'm talking about.

711
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:03,359
Speaker 3: But here's the thing.

712
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 2: Sometimes, no, with your ask, no man, you be poking

713
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 2: the bear. You sometimes you be mad, just already mad.

714
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 2: And that's not true. That's not true. Girl, yesterday, girl, yesterday,

715
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,280
Speaker 2: that's not true. You was girl, I just half sleep

716
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 2: and I woke up to me. I was wake You

717
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 2: didn't wake up to no argument. Yes, you text me

718
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 2: an argument. No, you read that in argument tone. So

719
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 2: we about to do this on the episode. Let's go

720
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 2: ahead and do it right quick, y'all. This ain't even

721
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,280
Speaker 2: about singing this no more. Let's let's do this right episode.

722
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 2: Imagine this. Let me tell a whole story right quick, y'all.

723
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 2: We are recording in Charlotte. Now, y'all know I live

724
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:50,760
Speaker 2: in Charleston, South Carolina, right, which is three hours from Charlotte.

725
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,320
Speaker 2: It might take me exactly through matter of fact, it

726
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,280
Speaker 2: takes three hours of fifteen minutes to get the Tammy's doorstep.

727
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 2: Tammy leves five minutes from where we you record at, right,

728
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 2: So I don't need to stay at Tammy's house. House,

729
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 2: but it's convenient for the both of us, right, so

730
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:10,280
Speaker 2: we can get together, do our show orchestrate our content.

731
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah blah blah blah. I woke up at

732
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 2: four am right to get from Charleston to Charlotte. Even

733
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:21,320
Speaker 2: while talking about this right now, I'm getting fucking anxiety. Okay,

734
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you. Go ahead, right, Okay, So I

735
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 2: wake up about four o'clock in the morning, I drive

736
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 2: to Charlotte. Yes, I told Tammy the day before that

737
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 2: i'd be at nine o'clock. But in my mind, I'm

738
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,479
Speaker 2: not a hairdresser appointment. Eight and nine is the same

739
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,800
Speaker 2: time as far as I'm concerned, if I'm just arriving

740
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 2: at a friend's house. Right. So, if I decided to

741
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 2: come an hour early, right arbitrarily, if I didn't communicate

742
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 2: it with you or not, I'm calling Colin, Colin, Colin, Colin.

743
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 2: You didn't answer, that's fine. I did arbitrarily make the

744
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 2: executive decision that I needed to get here sooner earlier

745
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 2: to make sure I was on time for our guest. Right, So,

746
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 2: rather or not I communicated that to you or not.

747
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 2: That's what I needed to do for us in our business, right,

748
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:12,760
Speaker 2: So I did that. I got here, Tammy wasn't answering.

749
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,959
Speaker 2: I called my niece. I called a couple other people.

750
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 2: They weren't answering. I immediately went on Expedia to book

751
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:21,320
Speaker 2: a hotel room because I got money, right, I always

752
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 2: got fuck you money. So even if I couldn't get

753
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 2: my people on the phone so I can get to

754
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 2: where I'm going so I can be here on time,

755
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 2: I have other options. That was it, right. So while

756
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 2: I was in Whole Foods peeing because I'm sitting in

757
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 2: your garage for thirty minutes, I went to Whole Foods

758
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 2: used the bathroom. One of my guy friends call me back,

759
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,240
Speaker 2: come on over here. I'll neaed to key blah blah.

760
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 2: I go there and get dress da da da. I'm cool.

761
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 2: Tammy calls me while I'm already five minutes from his

762
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 2: house at this point. Right, So we talked. We even

763
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 2: moved past her not waking up. Right, We're now talking

764
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 2: about the show and what we're gonna do for the episode,

765
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 2: because now it's just the flowers before our guest. I

766
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 2: get out the shower at my friend's house, and I

767
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 2: see a text message from Tammy that came after we

768
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 2: had our phone conversation, and Tammy knows I don't like

769
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:16,320
Speaker 2: passive aggressive stuff. That is are if we've already spoke

770
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 2: about it, Why are you texting me after we hang up?

771
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 2: We already hung up?

772
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 3: Can I respond?

773
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 2: No, I want to tell the full story. So I

774
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:25,720
Speaker 2: get out the shower and this is the text message

775
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 2: I have from Tammy. Now, mind you. All I said

776
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 2: to Tammy was, hey, I was outside. I didn't feel

777
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,359
Speaker 2: no type of way because now I've already organized my life,

778
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 2: I don't I'm past you not answering the phone at

779
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 2: this point, right. So I get out the shower and

780
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,879
Speaker 2: my text message from Tammy was going to Kenneth house

781
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:46,879
Speaker 2: was a bigger waste of time, being that I'm five

782
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:50,720
Speaker 2: minutes from the studio. I'm just saying, you're just saying

783
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 2: nothing when you're literally calling me while I'm five minutes

784
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 2: away from where I'm heading to. The same time it

785
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 2: took for me to drive to his house is the

786
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 2: same how long it took for you to even call me. So, Senime,

787
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 2: this text message was really irrelevant because one, you don't

788
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 2: know where Kenneth lives. You don't know how far he is. Two.

789
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 2: I still arrived earlier than you, having to have drive

790
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 2: twenty minutes out the way, which I was fine with

791
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 2: because I made the executive decision for me, for us

792
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 2: for our show, to make sure I was situated so

793
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 2: that I can be here on time. Now, at this

794
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 2: point has nothing to do with you, So send me

795
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 2: this message when you know how I am how I

796
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 2: am right.

797
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 3: I would love to respond. Go ahead, Yeah, you will in.

798
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 2: A minute alone. Sendime this message. You wanted to evoke

799
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 2: something in me, Go ahead.

800
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 1: So you guys, I'm literally half sleep. I went to

801
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 1: bed a little later. I knew she was coming at nine,

802
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 1: so I said, I'm gonna set my alarm for eight thirty.

803
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 1: Set my alarm for a thirty. I had a bunch

804
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,839
Speaker 1: of miscalls from her. She said, I'm going to Kenneth's house.

805
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 1: We talked on the phone.

806
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 3: The conversation was amicable. We didn't argue, right.

807
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:01,800
Speaker 1: You wasn't upset right, So when I sent that message,

808
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 1: I was just saying, maybe you should just come here

809
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 1: since it's so close.

810
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 3: Listen, No, I didn't interrupt you allow me.

811
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:09,320
Speaker 2: Do you understand?

812
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 3: Don't interrupt?

813
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 2: Me, don't just make sure you following hold no, no,

814
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 2: no follows, Okay, don't interrupt.

815
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: So I sent the message like I don't know, like

816
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 1: she says, I don't know how far far Kenneth's house is.

817
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:23,760
Speaker 1: I know how close my house is to the studio.

818
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 1: So I sent that message like, don't waste any more

819
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,880
Speaker 1: time going over there. Just come back to here because

820
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 1: I'm so close. I'm just saying it wasn't nasty, it

821
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 1: didn't have any I wasn't trying to evoke anything. I

822
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 1: was just trying to make both of our lives easier.

823
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: I thought it would be beneficial for us to be

824
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,320
Speaker 1: in the same space because we had a guest coming.

825
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 1: That was it for her to feel like I was

826
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 1: attacking her or saying anything mean or gas lighting with

827
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: something just inside her. That's how I felt like. I

828
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:55,319
Speaker 1: didn't We had we were cool on the phone. Why

829
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,760
Speaker 1: would I come at you negative all of a sudden

830
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 1: for what does it do for me to come met

831
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 1: you right now? I live five minutes from the studio.

832
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get there before the show. Is fine, I

833
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,720
Speaker 1: don't have to get you can get dressed here. Everything

834
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,320
Speaker 1: is cool. What is the point in gaslighting you. I

835
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: just sent you that message saying, hey, you don't have

836
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 1: to go there. My house is open to you and

837
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: it's close. I'm just saying, but you took it such

838
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: a different way than I was sending it, And I

839
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 1: don't know why you always perceived me as trying to

840
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:23,239
Speaker 1: come for you.

841
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 3: It wasn't that for what.

842
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:28,959
Speaker 2: Okay, do y'all understand or do you understand Jordan, because

843
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 2: this is we're recording this, but our videographer is here right.

844
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 2: Imagine you're already where you're headed to and get this message.

845
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 2: What's the point of even sending that message if I'm

846
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 2: already situated.

847
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 3: I don't know.

848
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 2: You did, because when I got I got off the

849
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 2: phone with you, you said because I missed my exit

850
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:50,399
Speaker 2: and I was five minutes from his house.

851
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 3: I didn't know that.

852
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. You don't know nothing, So why'd

853
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 2: you send me that message?

854
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 3: I was just saying, I'm five minutes from the.

855
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,319
Speaker 2: Studio, just come here. You're telling me I'm wasting time

856
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,959
Speaker 2: doing something when I wasted my time waking up early.

857
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:04,800
Speaker 2: I wasted my time sitting in your garage for thirty minutes.

858
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 3: But that wasn't my fault, though that.

859
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 2: Was more of a waste of time than me just

860
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 2: going on to the next das to get it was

861
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:13,799
Speaker 2: no one's fault. So what's the purpose of why you're

862
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:17,800
Speaker 2: so angry? But what's the if? IM just saf message

863
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 2: was I'm so close, I'm here from where Tammy, wherever

864
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 2: you are right now? How does that make sense when

865
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 2: I already still got to get dressed, and I'm already

866
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 2: getting on.

867
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 1: Five minutes from the studio. I was just trying to help.

868
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:28,280
Speaker 2: What has happened?

869
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 3: Do you understand that?

870
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 2: Imagine? What do you think?

871
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:32,280
Speaker 3: Honestly?

872
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

873
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 2: tell us.

874
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 3: I'm with the interpretation of the text.

875
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:41,280
Speaker 2: Ussis can because communication goes out one way and interpreted thousands.

876
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 2: I do get, but we can't say that her perception, perception,

877
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 2: how you perceive things. It's all right, yeah, well didn't

878
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 2: know what she didn't.

879
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 1: Know, right, absolutely, So then when she calls me, she

880
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: called me yelling and screamed.

881
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,840
Speaker 2: And then call you initially yelling and screaming. When I

882
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 2: called okay, let me tell y'all, let me let me

883
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 2: read y'all. I'm gonna read this full stuff right quickly,

884
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 2: we can go ahead and use the rest of the

885
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 2: episode for this shit, all right, I Tammy text me

886
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 2: going to Kenneth House was a bigger waste of time,

887
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 2: being that I'm five minutes from the studio. I'm just

888
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 2: saying to me in my mind, you're just saying that

889
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 2: to say nothing because I'm already situated, I'm getting dressed,

890
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be on time. Don't worry about me at

891
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 2: this point. I've I've I'm good, right, and you already

892
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 2: said our conversation on the phone was amicable. Nobody was

893
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 2: why did you have to send this message? So my

894
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 2: response to Tammy was, Tammy, leave it alone. Arriving earlier

895
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 2: was a waste of time. You do realize I was

896
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 2: already headed there because I couldn't reach you. I could

897
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:49,720
Speaker 2: have gotten an extra forty five minutes to sleep myself.

898
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:52,399
Speaker 2: That's the truth, right. And the next thing I said

899
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 2: was I have made preparations for you. I said, I

900
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 2: would have made preparations for you if it were the

901
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,320
Speaker 2: other way around. Let's be clear and let me clarify

902
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 2: what that is. Right. If I that's not nasty. See,

903
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 2: that's your perception of my let's let's be clear.

904
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 3: Is how did I not make preparations.

905
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 2: Here's the thing. If I live Tammy lives in a

906
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 2: high rise in Charlotte, right, so they have concierge all

907
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 2: that stuff. There's different. There's things you have to do

908
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 2: to get into the building. If the shoe weren't the

909
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 2: other foot and she was coming to my house, no

910
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,960
Speaker 2: matter what time Tammy got there, she'd have access. That's

911
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:27,760
Speaker 2: just the truth. It doesn't matter if I told you eight, nine, ten, twelve, thirteen,

912
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 2: if y'all know military time, it wouldn't matter. You'd have

913
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 2: access to get into the place. You wouldn't. I would

914
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 2: not have to get up because I would have made preparations.

915
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 2: That's just how I am right. I would have not

916
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 2: had to make sure my phone is by my heir

917
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:46,399
Speaker 2: because Tammy calls me at eight thirty am. I called

918
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,800
Speaker 2: your phone ten times, concierge called you twice.

919
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 3: You were coming at nine.

920
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 1: I'm not made preparations to be up before you came.

921
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 2: But you wake up at eight? Is your phone on

922
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:57,880
Speaker 2: silent until do not disturb?

923
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 1: And I set my alarm for eight because I knew

924
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 1: you were coming at nine, so I would be up before.

925
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 2: You got okay, And that's fine. I wasn't tripping. I

926
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 2: went on with my life. But you, you, I mean

927
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 2: teage did send me over the edge when I'm waiting

928
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 2: up because I had been up from four o'clock in

929
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 2: the morning.

930
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 3: You have like I did.

931
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 2: I didn't do nothing to me though it's for us,

932
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 2: though I'm not. I'm coming here because it's convenient for us.

933
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 3: Do you understand that?

934
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 2: I understand that, So I'm having to do to you.

935
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 2: You didn't, I didn't.

936
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 3: You didn't do.

937
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 2: What you did was send me that text message, which

938
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 2: you could have saved it, right, But because you're not

939
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 2: having to do nothing extra for this show, I got up,

940
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 2: I got here for us to retre like that's my fault,

941
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 2: like I did the wrong. That is not true. That's

942
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 2: absolutely not true. What you did wrong was told me

943
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 2: what I could have done differently, when all I did

944
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 2: was wake up an hour earlier and got here. And

945
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 2: all I did was got here earlier. That's all I did.

946
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 3: I did sleep until.

947
00:45:58,760 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 2: I'm not tripping.

948
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: But you were upset about it because why did that

949
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:04,359
Speaker 1: missage set you off so much?

950
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 2: Because why are you telling me what I could have done? Differently, right,

951
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 2: because you could have also done something differently too. Being

952
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 2: sure your friend was our business parts friend and or

953
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 2: business partner. Tried to do that, had access to do

954
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,320
Speaker 2: whatever they need to do because it is convenient for

955
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 2: us to do things together at the same time.

956
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 1: I tried to and I tried to do that for

957
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:25,839
Speaker 1: you by getting up thirty minutes early.

958
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 2: Okay, call me so that there is no miscommunication. We

959
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,279
Speaker 2: both have each other's that saying. Okay, that's fair, and

960
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask that you not hang up in my

961
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 2: face anymore.

962
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 3: Don't do it anymore.

963
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:42,439
Speaker 2: It's rude, it's disrespectful. Girl. You have hung up when

964
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 2: several times when me and yeah, y'all in business. Listen,

965
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 2: it's just different. You could be friends with people, but

966
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:52,720
Speaker 2: when you get into business with people, it's different.

967
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: Can you agree not to hang up in my face?

968
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:56,280
Speaker 1: And I won't hang up in yours?

969
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 3: I will not.

970
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 2: No, I'm not gonna agree to that. Why because I'm

971
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 2: not gonna see on the phone. I'm not gonna sit

972
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 2: on the phone and continue to go on.

973
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 3: And this is my baby, that's not true.

974
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 2: Yes, you're a nigga here, right, niga.

975
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 3: Why wouldn't you agree to not doing this?

976
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:13,320
Speaker 2: No, because what I do I believe that in arguments

977
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 2: people have to step back. So we're not in a

978
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 2: building together. We're on the phone, right if we If

979
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 2: I see that I'm not gonna get a solid solution

980
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 2: out of this conversation. I'm gonna hang up and step back.

981
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna sit on the phone and keep going

982
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:29,239
Speaker 2: to a circle when we have limited time and.

983
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,879
Speaker 3: Get I don't feel like this conversation. I said, girl,

984
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 3: I'm going, and I'm going to hang up.

985
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 2: Once I say I'm going, I'm hanging up. You just

986
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 2: hung up, I said, girl, I gotta start to do

987
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:40,360
Speaker 2: have a good day. Hung up.

988
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 3: That's rude.

989
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 2: If you don't see a I will do it again,

990
00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 2: and then y'all hear me. I'll do it again.

991
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 3: I'll do your problem. I'll do it.

992
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:50,440
Speaker 2: Boyfriend, because I'm not the only person who gets hung

993
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 2: up on Okay, but is that what's gonna happen, Well,

994
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 2: we'll see you're gonna fight me because I hung up.

995
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 3: Let's do it, bitch.

996
00:47:57,160 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 2: Let's if if we have back for each other, and

997
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 2: is that I don't feel like respect? I do, though

998
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 2: I don't think it's a respective, because you've hung up

999
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:06,360
Speaker 2: on me.

1000
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 3: I do and I agree to you.

1001
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 1: I don't remember doing that, but if I've done it,

1002
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 1: I'll say I won't do it anymore because I don't

1003
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: like it done to me.

1004
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:16,839
Speaker 2: Well, I don't mind if I if I don't mind

1005
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 2: somebody having to get a moment, I don't mind that. Okay, Well,

1006
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 2: you're you and I'm me. You have an issue with

1007
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 2: text you want me to call you. I said, I'll

1008
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 2: agree to do that, and I'm asking you to please

1009
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 2: not hang up in my face because I don't like it.

1010
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 2: So go, okay, okay, let me be an adult, right quick, y'all.

1011
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:37,240
Speaker 2: Going forward, I will sit on it. Once I'm done talking,

1012
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 2: I will sit in the phone in silence until Tammy

1013
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 2: is ready to hang.

1014
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 3: Up on me.

1015
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:45,279
Speaker 2: That's what we'll do going forward. I won't be hanging

1016
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 2: up on you. So then so then we're gonna be

1017
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 2: getting dressed glued to the phone for the rest of

1018
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 2: the time.

1019
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 3: And see this is you see what the behavior is.

1020
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 2: I say, that's not a behavior, that is just the

1021
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 2: reality of what will then happen. Said if we don't

1022
00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:59,799
Speaker 2: get off the phone, I said, I won't hang up

1023
00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:01,920
Speaker 2: on right so we'll just be on the phone. Then

1024
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 2: you see what I'm saying. If I'm not gonna hang

1025
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 2: up and you're not gonna hang out to hang up,

1026
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:11,839
Speaker 2: we can agree that the conversation is either not going

1027
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:15,359
Speaker 2: anywhere or it's over hanging up in each other's face.

1028
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 2: So how do we do?

1029
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 1: You can say, hey, I feel like this conversation is

1030
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:22,399
Speaker 1: not going anywhere right now, let's reconvene another time.

1031
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,439
Speaker 3: Bye, and we can hang up and I say bye,

1032
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 3: you say bye.

1033
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 2: We hang up, but just hanging up, let me make

1034
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:32,799
Speaker 2: sure we get both two bys right, two bys mm hmm,

1035
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 2: and hang up. Yes, all right, and that's gonna make

1036
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:40,840
Speaker 2: the situation better. Yes, how so, because the actual issue

1037
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 2: hasn't been maybe, then that's fine because we're coming back

1038
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 2: to it at a later time.

1039
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 1: But nobody feels disrespected in the end of the conversation.

1040
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,720
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't feel disrespected when somebody hangs up. Tammy

1041
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 2: feels disrespected if I hang up on her. I feel

1042
00:49:56,200 --> 00:50:00,400
Speaker 2: disrespected when somebody is insulting my intelligence. That's when I

1043
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 2: feel disrespected. So I get off the phone. You know

1044
00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. If we're sitting we're going back and

1045
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:08,879
Speaker 2: forth about the same thing. You're not getting me, I'm

1046
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 2: not getting you. We have our brains obviously, work different.

1047
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 2: We have different perceptions in the way we perceive what's

1048
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 2: happening in many situations, right, And I feel like it's

1049
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 2: just not to me. It gives me a lot of

1050
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 2: mental anguish to sit and keep going in a constant

1051
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 2: circle with somebody where I feel like, this is what

1052
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:31,319
Speaker 2: singleness is. You know, at this point in my life,

1053
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 2: I don't feel like I'm finding anybody who is on

1054
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 2: the same mental thing with me, you know what I'm saying,

1055
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 2: Because you gotta kind of think like the person you're

1056
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 2: not going to fire exactly, not exactly, not exactly like you.

1057
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,400
Speaker 2: Because even in my friend selection, right, I know that

1058
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 2: in my friends selection, most of the time it's something

1059
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 2: about them that I see me. That's what I was

1060
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 2: talking about, right, So you see yourself and the people

1061
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 2: that you deal with, right. So, But in order to

1062
00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 2: keep down keep down confusion, you and whoever you deal with,

1063
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 2: y'all have to have similarities.

1064
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:04,839
Speaker 3: Right.

1065
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 2: But if you're in a situation with somebody where y'all

1066
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,800
Speaker 2: y'all think completely different because you may not see you

1067
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,359
Speaker 2: don't perceive that text message you sent me the same

1068
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 2: way I do. Right, twenty other people could perceive it

1069
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 2: in the way I do. Twenty other people can perceive

1070
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 2: it in the way you do. We clearly have miscommunication issues, right.

1071
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 2: It's a problem at this point for me because if

1072
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:28,360
Speaker 2: I'm just going on and living my life, all I

1073
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 2: did was wake up an hour early. I didn't deserve

1074
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 2: the text message.

1075
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 1: Do you ever consider that it might have been valuable

1076
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 1: to tell me that before you went to sleep, you

1077
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 1: didn't have to call me back, even though we agreed

1078
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: to talk that night. It would have been valuable to say, Hey,

1079
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to bed now and I'm gonna come earlier,

1080
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 1: so that way I would have set my alarm for you.

1081
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 1: I could have done that instead of eight thirty. But

1082
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 1: did I not come prepared though?

1083
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:53,319
Speaker 2: Because we talked on the phone when I got here,

1084
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:56,000
Speaker 2: I told you what I thought about in the meantime. Right,

1085
00:51:56,520 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 2: It's just this is why I'm I'm just really, y'all.

1086
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 2: I'm tired of dealing with humans. It's just sold so

1087
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 2: many intricate little things. Everybody has a different way of thinking, eating, smoking, drinking,

1088
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:11,840
Speaker 2: whatever the fuck you do, like everybody has a different

1089
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 2: way of doing things, and it's fucking tiring.

1090
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 3: I feel like agree.

1091
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 2: If I if I were you, right, and you're already

1092
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:23,480
Speaker 2: hearing Charlotte right, and I'm in Charleston, right, if I

1093
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 2: were you, I would just understand that's just because that's

1094
00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 2: just who I am. I would have I would just

1095
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:33,400
Speaker 2: understand that Tammy need to go to sleep because she

1096
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 2: need to get here in the morning. That's what I

1097
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 2: would understand. I did.

1098
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:37,439
Speaker 3: I wait, I don't.

1099
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:39,319
Speaker 2: I feel like I don't get the type of grace

1100
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 2: that I extend to other people. I don't. Ever, I

1101
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:42,320
Speaker 2: didn't know.

1102
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,479
Speaker 1: I didn't Nothing was wrong with you going to sleep.

1103
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:47,360
Speaker 1: But you could have communicated with me, That's all it

1104
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 1: would It would hurt nothing to send me a text saying, hey,

1105
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 1: I'm going to bed, I'm gonna come early.

1106
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 2: Right, it wouldn't have hurt right. But if you didn't

1107
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 2: do that, say, for instance, you were the one having

1108
00:52:58,239 --> 00:52:59,839
Speaker 2: to travel. If you didn't do that and you went

1109
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 2: had and went to sleep, I'd understand. I wouldn't even

1110
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,440
Speaker 2: it wouldn't even be a conversation of anything to bring

1111
00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:07,400
Speaker 2: up to tell me what I could have done, What

1112
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 2: to tell you what you could have done differently, I

1113
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 2: would have just understood what I was just.

1114
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,400
Speaker 1: Saying, is come over here because it would be convenient.

1115
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:16,840
Speaker 2: We haven't we don't know that you sending me. That

1116
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 2: was just extra icing on top of this nasty cake.

1117
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 1: I didn't know it was a nasty cake.

1118
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 2: Tell me, if you had to wake up at four

1119
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:27,160
Speaker 2: o'clock in the morning and drive somewhere and then now

1120
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 2: you have no place to be, you, I know you,

1121
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:32,360
Speaker 2: you'd feel some type of way. I wouldn't, and I

1122
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:34,839
Speaker 2: and and I just solved my problem right.

1123
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:36,759
Speaker 1: First of all, I wouldn't feel like I had no

1124
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 1: place to be because I would know your house was

1125
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 1: my place to be.

1126
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 3: Then I also know at.

1127
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 2: That moment, okay, but I had no place to be

1128
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 2: sitting in my car.

1129
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 1: Okay, But I also know that I told you a

1130
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 1: certain time, and now it is before that time, and

1131
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:52,320
Speaker 1: she's probably sleep, so I'll just as so, I'll just

1132
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 1: go grab some breakfast.

1133
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:55,800
Speaker 2: That's our way. I went to Whole Food, That's what

1134
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Okay, I've moved on.

1135
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:02,319
Speaker 3: Okay, But but I didn't know it was a nasty cake.

1136
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 2: Okay. The nasty cake comes after the text message, but

1137
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 2: I still didn't know it was a nasty cake. Why

1138
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 2: are you texting me anything extra? If we're past it

1139
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 2: at this point, past what we're past me needing to

1140
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 2: get into your house. We're past that, but I didn't

1141
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 2: know that you are. The last thing you said was

1142
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:23,719
Speaker 2: you were missing your exit. I was just I was

1143
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,800
Speaker 2: just trying to be even if I'm hot on a highway,

1144
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 2: driving right and I'm missing my exit, How annoyed are

1145
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 2: you when you miss your exit, all right, and you

1146
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 2: get this message misplaced anger that house that misplaced? I'm

1147
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 2: missing my exit, answering the phone for you, right, and

1148
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:40,440
Speaker 2: then I get a message about how I could have

1149
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 2: done something different because I'm missing my exit now, fucking

1150
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 2: with y'all. Look, do you understand what I'm saying?

1151
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 3: Do you hear this?

1152
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 2: Do you hear this?

1153
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:51,799
Speaker 3: I can't?

1154
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:54,439
Speaker 2: Will you tell you nothing? All like a black Bob

1155
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 2: black man. Okay, these niggas be acting like they don't

1156
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 2: understand the shit women be going through, like y'all be knowing.

1157
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 2: But y'all choose a stick. I ain't going to get

1158
00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 2: into it. That's woman's stuff. Shut up.

1159
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 1: I eveel like I can't win Jordan, I can't. That's

1160
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:16,800
Speaker 1: all stuff I sleeped the wrong about a time, Like why.

1161
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:22,000
Speaker 2: From until twelve I got braids, I ain't got shitting

1162
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 2: because your your business partner is coming from out of town,

1163
00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 2: so I'll be up thirty minutes before she's supposed to

1164
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 2: be here.

1165
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 3: That should be ample.

1166
00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 2: And that's and that's absolutely fine that you weren't. That

1167
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:32,840
Speaker 2: I made that I got here extra time, right, and

1168
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 2: I know I got here earlier, right one hour earlier, right, well,

1169
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 2: tech hery thirty minutes based off your alarm thirty minutes earlier.

1170
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 1: To me here before that, because I got up thirty

1171
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:42,760
Speaker 1: minutes earlier.

1172
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, based on your alarm, you called

1173
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 2: me at a thirty on the dot, and you called

1174
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 2: me I was already five minutes from where I needed

1175
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 2: to be at at this point. I didn't know that exactly.

1176
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 2: So why are you sending me this follow up?

1177
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 1: As I wanted to make sure that you were good,

1178
00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 1: if you'd call me and say that's actually you good?

1179
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:01,440
Speaker 3: Simple?

1180
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:03,480
Speaker 2: Is that? No? Simple? Is that I just want to

1181
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:06,319
Speaker 2: make sure or really, all I needed to hear from

1182
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:08,400
Speaker 2: Tammy was girl, my bad. I was sleeping. I know,

1183
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 2: you was coming this time period. That's it, but it's

1184
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 2: not anything extra is not my bad. Listen, even if

1185
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 2: you feel like it's not your bad, Tammy, I feel

1186
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:19,400
Speaker 2: like if mine of my friends were to kind of

1187
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 2: even if we're not friends, I feel like if one

1188
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:24,320
Speaker 2: of my people come to my house or if I

1189
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:25,840
Speaker 2: didn't show up in a way that I needed to

1190
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:27,759
Speaker 2: or they felt like I needed to, it is my

1191
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 2: bad every time I need to. Oh God, I gotta

1192
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 2: be real careful with the words I guess. No, I

1193
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 2: don't want to say show up like I'm not saying

1194
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 2: show up like I need you to. I never need you,

1195
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. I don't need a lot

1196
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 2: of people.

1197
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:45,720
Speaker 3: I handle my life.

1198
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying. So it's don't ever think

1199
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 2: it's like, uh, oh, you didn't show up for me

1200
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 2: in any way. That's not what I mean. What I'm

1201
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 2: saying is if we had something planned, plans change at

1202
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 2: a little piece of little time, to change piece of

1203
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:03,640
Speaker 2: time one hour piece of time. Okay, we're going to circles, y'all,

1204
00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:05,759
Speaker 2: But y'all get the gist of it. Let us know

1205
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:08,240
Speaker 2: this is the type of ship that happened at friendships,

1206
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 2: business whatever.

1207
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:10,439
Speaker 3: Tell me what I did wrong?

1208
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,839
Speaker 1: Okay, please, I would appreciate it because I don't want

1209
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 1: to do it again.

1210
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 2: Keep the extra commentary, that's what you do. Don't do

1211
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:22,960
Speaker 2: that again. That's it. Just keep the extra thing. Move on, girl,

1212
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 2: what you wearing so we can coordinate? And then that's

1213
00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 2: what we kind of flowy today, like yeah, usually you

1214
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:31,120
Speaker 2: have on a low two piece number and I might

1215
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 2: have on a tracksuit like that's just yes. So now

1216
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 2: here we are, y'all. I can't.

1217
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:43,400
Speaker 3: I can this woman? Y'all? Lord have mercy.

1218
00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 2: I need some I need This is why I need

1219
00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 2: some dick in my life. Right here? You got a rose,

1220
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 2: tap into the rose. Anyway, we're gonna follow up on

1221
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 2: this single shaker, bitch, I got a whole lot of notes.

1222
00:57:56,360 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 1: That was the apisode. Bitch, that was the apisode. Say

1223
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 1: thank you God, bless you, good night.

1224
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 2: I'm opposed to text messages. That's the next part of

1225
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 2: this cident, y'all. Can y'all can read them too and

1226
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:11,200
Speaker 2: interpret it? Let us know what your perception is. How

1227
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 2: do you perceive these messages? How do you perceive the

1228
00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 2: situation after here in this episode? Y'all? And if you

1229
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 2: enjoyed it, please tune in every Thursday on the iHeart

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Speaker 3: Please please follow me.

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00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:34,800
Speaker 2: It's hell love, okay, love, y'all, y'all. A motherfucker who

1235
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 2: can fight says I can fight.

1236
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Speaker 3: No, don't play now. I've been in the gym, bitch, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Thank y'all for tuning in By