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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with her radio. This is the Almost Famous Podcast is

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Speaker 1: episode three of this season of the Bachelor. There's a

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Speaker 1: lot to break down, but before we do, Ashley, You're

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Speaker 1: spend a little time with the family. It's very sweet

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Speaker 1: us so tell all of our listeners just how great

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Speaker 1: of a husband you you have. You had asked, maybe

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Speaker 1: potentially for today off we were going to record uh

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Speaker 1: yesterday Monday evening. I could not do that. I was

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Speaker 1: flying back from Cedar Rapids, Iowa, where I played in

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Speaker 1: a charity golf tournament alongside Sean Booth. I really still

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Speaker 1: can't believe the amount that you you fly and then

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Speaker 1: you return to this spot every week. Every week I'm here,

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Speaker 1: there you are and magically you're God. And now you're back.

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Speaker 1: I'm back and uh here here's a little shout out.

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Speaker 1: Before we started, I want to give a little backstory.

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Speaker 1: I did play in the Zack Johnson UH Foundation celebrity

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Speaker 1: golf tournament I talked about every year, but they helped

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Speaker 1: of this now for five years. The very first class

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Speaker 1: this year. They're all thriving. It's a really incredible thing.

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Speaker 1: But here is the small, small nugget. Nobody really cares

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Speaker 1: about golf. I know that they're like another golf story. Holy,

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Speaker 1: but if you follow golf at all, you know that

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Speaker 1: on Sunday, Tony final one the rs M tournament in Minneapolis. Um,

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Speaker 1: this golf tournament and Cedar Rapids. Now, obviously, if you win,

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Speaker 1: nobody there was gonna be upset or like mad at

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Speaker 1: him if he didn't come. He just won a big

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Speaker 1: golf tournament for millions of dollars um. But he got

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Speaker 1: on a plane that evening from Minneapolis flew to Cedar

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Speaker 1: Rapids to participate in this charity event. And so shout

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Speaker 1: out to Tony Finale for just being a good human

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Speaker 1: that's right. Okay. So as I'm there at the golf tourament,

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Speaker 1: I'm getting text Ashley or a couple of days before that,

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Speaker 1: I guess Ashley was asking for potentially recording on Monday

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Speaker 1: because she's at home with her family and she was

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Speaker 1: hoping on Tuesday for her and Jared to kind of

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Speaker 1: we all at the almost same as podcast said, yes,

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Speaker 1: go do that. That's important. You should take a couple's

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Speaker 1: day and enjoy the time with your husband. Well, actually

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Speaker 1: felt good about that. But right now, as you hand

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Speaker 1: let's see, he's a great dude. Yeah, yeah, he's he's

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Speaker 1: he's sweetie. He's sweetie. So your hair looks great. Okay,

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Speaker 1: continue ben he Ashley then texts us and say, you

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Speaker 1: know what, let's record on Tuesday because Jared did what

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Speaker 1: Ashley Pilson, Oh, he just wanted to hang out with

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Speaker 1: the family altogether. He's which doesn't mean that he doesn't

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Speaker 1: with his in laws. It's super super super sweet instead

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Speaker 1: and I feel like I have that relationship. I enjoy

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Speaker 1: I just really enjoy being around them and they're really

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Speaker 1: good to Jessica and I And I think she would

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Speaker 1: gets really awkward, I would imagine, and really hard. I

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Speaker 1: can't imagine. It must be awful, Yeah, really hard. It's

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Speaker 1: our times together. Uh So, kudos and Jared for being

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Speaker 1: the day after The Bachelor aired. Uh, Ashley, we need

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Speaker 1: So Ashley, we're gonna start at the very beginning of

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Speaker 1: this episode breaking down on, um, the major points that

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Speaker 1: I think that was what the plan was. That was

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Speaker 1: my question to you, was you feel like, if we

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Speaker 1: of those pinch me moments. But it would also I

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Speaker 1: thought it was an incredible one on one. Yes, you

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Speaker 1: it starts out very powerful, and it made me stop

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00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 1: and think. He said this. He said today was a

430
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 1: good day. He said new experiences are always fun when

431
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:21,359
Speaker 1: you get to my age. That's what he said. So

432
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,919
Speaker 1: new experiences, no matter what they are, when you do

433
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 1: something for the first time, when you are in your

434
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 1: seventies or sixties or however old he is, are always fun.

435
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 1: And I think that was such a good perspective. He

436
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 1: just enjoyed that day with his granddaughter. But then he goes,

437
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 1: where's my beer? Like I was like, this man knows

438
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 1: what he's doing for TV. He's that's just made for TV.

439
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 1: He knows exactly the lines to say, and I do

440
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 1: not think they're fed to him at all. Back to

441
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 1: Gab Gab and Eric her on this date. Gaby opens

442
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:08,120
Speaker 1: up to Eric about her her mother and how once

443
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 1: Gabby kind of moved out of the house. I think

444
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 1: it was her words. She said her mom kind of

445
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 1: wiped her hands clean or washed her hands clean of

446
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 1: that relationship. Eric and Gabby since the beginning, really since

447
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 1: we first saw them, it feels like they have a

448
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 1: great connection. I don't know how deep it is yet,

449
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,640
Speaker 1: but it does feel like a great connection. In fact,

450
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:33,120
Speaker 1: Gabby even and if I'm remembering what she says right,

451
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:37,199
Speaker 1: she said she's in she's the imperfect bachelor atte but

452
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 1: in some people's eyes, it will be perfect. She also

453
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 1: says she would be Oh, it's incredible. She said she

454
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: would give anything to be loved by someone like Eric,

455
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:50,919
Speaker 1: A very powerful statement um for her to say. I

456
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 1: think it points to where she feels about herself. But

457
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 1: I also feel like she is still in this place

458
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,719
Speaker 1: where she doesn't feel good enough, which is you know

459
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: that impostor syndrome as the bachelor or bachelor is very real.

460
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,199
Speaker 1: I'm hoping that we see Gabby on this because she

461
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:14,479
Speaker 1: is worthy of that, but I also don't want her

462
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: to feel like she is not in control of this

463
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,920
Speaker 1: and that these guys aren't there because they feel lucky

464
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,640
Speaker 1: to be loved by someone like her. When I say

465
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: I don't like this, I don't mean like I don't

466
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 1: like her. She's like, I don't like that. She says

467
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:31,959
Speaker 1: that because I don't like the way. That's how she

468
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 1: feels about herselfs she should be like I, Um, you know,

469
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 1: like I, he would be lucky to be with me.

470
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 1: I want her to feel that. I want her to

471
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 1: feel like she is super worthy of her perfect match,

472
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: not just some guy she's been on a date with.

473
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 1: This is so so sad. And I feel like you

474
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,919
Speaker 1: could speak to it because you were you feel like

475
00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 1: you were unlovable. And I mean that I was just

476
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 1: thinking about this as I watched the episode. You know

477
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: I did feel that way. Uh. And that's as we've

478
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 1: said here, and you know that's this is not always

479
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,880
Speaker 1: easy for me to say, but like I still struggle

480
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:14,160
Speaker 1: with that, Like Jessica knows that I struggle with that. Um.

481
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 1: At times. Now it's a lot better because I have

482
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: a wife that loves me really well. UM, so it's

483
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 1: not like this hunting Oh my gosh, nobody's gonna love

484
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 1: me feeling anymore. But at times I feel unworthy of

485
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 1: her love. And during the season when I was doing it.

486
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:31,640
Speaker 1: I did have that in the back of my mind.

487
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 1: You almost felt like I almost felt like I at

488
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 1: times had to put on a front so that these

489
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 1: one would stay interest in me, because if they got

490
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,160
Speaker 1: to know me, they would not like me. I don't

491
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: know if that was true or not, um because you know,

492
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 1: you don't get a second chance at it. But then,

493
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: obviously how my season played out and how life played out,

494
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 1: there was another moment in my life where I went, oh,

495
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 1: my gosh, like I am that guy. The more somebody

496
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:56,400
Speaker 1: gets to know me, the less they like me and

497
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 1: they don't want to be with me. I will say

498
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: this as I've worked through therapy personally, and as I

499
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: know many people feel this way. I am a lot

500
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 1: healthier for human when I don't let those thoughts become

501
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,120
Speaker 1: truce in my head. And that's what I don't want

502
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: Gabby to feel, because I know how you can feel

503
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: that during this It's so you're You're a normal human

504
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 1: who probably have struggled to get people interested in you,

505
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 1: and you've gone on great dates, you've gone on bad dates,

506
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,159
Speaker 1: and then you're all of a sudden the lead of

507
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:27,880
Speaker 1: the show where you have you know, at this point

508
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:32,680
Speaker 1: still twenty one people looking to find love with you,

509
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 1: and you're like this, it can't be real. This is

510
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 1: all fake, This is all not true to me. Uh.

511
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 1: But the truth is, like Gabby is worthy of that moment.

512
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: She deserves to be in this place, and I hope

513
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 1: at some point she can start to have the confidence that, no,

514
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:52,919
Speaker 1: these guys are gonna be lucky to be with me.

515
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 1: I know, me too, me too. She definitely acknowledges that

516
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: she has, you know, abandonment issues because of this, I

517
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 1: just cannot but like it's a it's a matter of

518
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 1: like acknowledging him versus believing that you're worthy at the

519
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 1: same time, do you know what I mean? Like it

520
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: seems like she still has a big, big step to take.

521
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: I I feel just like so bad hearing the story

522
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: of her mother, Like she doesn't know the love of

523
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 1: a mother. She's a strange from her mom, just like

524
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 1: kind of like let that sink in. It's just something

525
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: that like it's so like I can't conceptualize it, and

526
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 1: I can't imagine the pain that comes with it and

527
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 1: how it must play a role in her finding love

528
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: God for her grandpa, yea, her dad, Because she's really

529
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: really tight with her dad. Um, alright, so but yeah,

530
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 1: I just felt so so sad. It's one of those

531
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: moments that were like grabbed my attention when she said

532
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: like I would only I could, if I could only,

533
00:28:55,880 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: or like I hope to be um love to buy

534
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 1: a man like Eric, and I'm like a girl I

535
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 1: don't like, I don't know Eric very well, but I

536
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: feel like I'm getting to know you pretty well and like,

537
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 1: let's see if Eric deserves you or like because because

538
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 1: because just an observing yeah, you seem like way cooler

539
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: than Eric, Like I want to be with you more

540
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 1: than I want to be with Eric. Oh. I think

541
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 1: a lot of people are falling in love with the

542
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 1: two Bachelor as both of them uniquely. Uh. Actually, as

543
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: we as we move forward here, then um, we leave

544
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 1: this one on one date where Eric does get a

545
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 1: rose not shockingly to a group date, the biggest group

546
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: date and Bachelor Nation history. Oh, I just thought it

547
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: one more thing I'd love to talk about the way

548
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 1: that she just went onto his lap. Oh yeah, she

549
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: said the same thing my wife says to me is

550
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 1: if I get here, I just feel like I can

551
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 1: get closer to you. Jessica's always says, I just want

552
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 1: to get in your pocket. That's so she always tells me.

553
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: It's like, well, I don't think that's possible, but but

554
00:29:56,440 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: it's very cute. It was so so sweet it is.

555
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: That's a good moment. Yeah, and she felt comfortable enough

556
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: to do that. I think that's a like, that is

557
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 1: a comfort when you can sit on somebody's laugh and

558
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: you're just like, I just like being close to you. Uh.

559
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: It makes me feel very loved. Yeah, it makes me

560
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: feel very loved when my when my wife does that

561
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 1: and like, wow, you like me enough where you just

562
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 1: want to be so close to me. Um, it's so nice,

563
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 1: it is. It's a very intimate, good good point. Okay,

564
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 1: So then we go to this nineteen nineteen uh, contestants

565
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: too on to lead group day. It's the biggest in

566
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation history. This is where everything starts to fall apart.

567
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 1: I don't think we need to focus much on the

568
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 1: photo shoot because we've seen a photo shooting now for

569
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: every season. I will see tire the photographer. Forget his name.

570
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: Let's retire him. He's done a great job, he deserves

571
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 1: a break. Let's let's say we'll move on from him. Now, Uh,

572
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 1: this is no longer interesting to me. I used to be,

573
00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: And I know it's hard. Let's give the show the

574
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt. Um, it's hard to come up

575
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: with a new date every season. But it used to

576
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: be where, maybe five years ago, I would watch the

577
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 1: episodes excited for what the date producers could come up with,

578
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 1: like what new things we're gonna be done? And also

579
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 1: I started to take some of their ideas and implement

580
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: them into my dating life, like some of the cool

581
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:24,000
Speaker 1: things they would do. Now I mean so far, Uh,

582
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 1: we've just kind of see dates repeat like over and

583
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 1: over again, season by season, maybe in a different way,

584
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: but I they just the content of the date. It's

585
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: not fun for me anymore. It's now the after the date,

586
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: which really brings out kind of the intrigue. So we

587
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 1: do move on to Sofi Stadium. We're gabbing, Rachel are

588
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 1: hosting the men of this season. Uh, they sit down

589
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 1: and talk to him, and this is, like I said,

590
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 1: I feel like where this episode takes a turn. Um,

591
00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 1: we start to have conversations had with Gabby, especially Rachel's

592
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: having a great time. She's talking to everybody that they're

593
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: in the football they're hanging out. Well, Gabby seems to

594
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 1: have a wave of rejection coming her way this during

595
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: the state and it it messes with her. Let's start

596
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: Ashley talking about Hayden's conversation. I feel like that was

597
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: the one that really stood out to Gabby and kind

598
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 1: of rocked her. He said the words that she's rough

599
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 1: around the edges. Now what he meant by that, I

600
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: don't fully know, but he said that in the midst

601
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 1: of kind of breaking up with her or moving on

602
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: to Rachel Ashley when he said those words, did it

603
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 1: shock you? Did it throw you back? Did you go,

604
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, this is one of those moments, uh

605
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: that is so despicable? Or were you more in a

606
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 1: in a different place kind of viewing it? As he

607
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: just didn't know what to say in that moment. He

608
00:32:57,680 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 1: didn't know what to say in that moment. He had

609
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 1: no idea like one. He was nervous, I'm sure. And

610
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: he also what he meant was that, like, I don't

611
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: I don't think that this. I think there's a difference

612
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: student rough around the edges and edgy, Like she's the

613
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,959
Speaker 1: edgier one, you know, which means like she's kind of

614
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: like the cool one, right, she's she's a little bit spicier. Yeah,

615
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 1: Like there's sugar and sugar and sweet, right, or there's

616
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: sugar and sweet though there's like sugar and spicy. Rachel

617
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 1: is sugar, right, and then and then Gabby is spicy.

618
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 1: I would agree. I don't think it came out right.

619
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: When I watched, I was like, oh, that's not the

620
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 1: thing to say, Like you can't tell somebody she's rough

621
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 1: around the edges. I do, though, feel like the edgy side,

622
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: like edgy would almost be a compliment to me, because

623
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 1: everybody called me so Yeah, everybody's called me so boring

624
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: for so long that I think if somebody was like, man,

625
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 1: you're kind of edgy, I'd be like, yes, yes, I

626
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: am it. It's like you're not a vanilla sure like

627
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: Rocky Road, I'm edgy. I think I would take it

628
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:08,280
Speaker 1: as a compliment. I feel like most would if given

629
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: the right context. This came out wrong. It also came

630
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 1: out wrong at the wrong time because Gabby was already

631
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: questioning kind of her role here and if people be

632
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 1: interested her. Then we have Jacob show up and he

633
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: breaks the news to Gabby that he is into Rachel now,

634
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if either of them really had much

635
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 1: of a husband idea of Jacob. I mean, he had

636
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: worn a leaf at the beginning of this episode, and

637
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 1: he also showed up on a horse, uh you know,

638
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,760
Speaker 1: bare back, well not bare back that's different, but without

639
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 1: a shirt on at the beginning of this season. But

640
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: I do think it was one more example where Gabby

641
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: just started to feel like, my goodness, like, are any

642
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: of these dudes actually into me? Are any of these

643
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 1: guys actually interested in who I am? And I do

644
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: think she started to question it, which is very real. Yeah,

645
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: and I didn't step back to really look at who

646
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:05,919
Speaker 1: was on this day at versus who was left at home,

647
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: But it bet you that if she like really did

648
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,320
Speaker 1: step back and she was like, oh, but these guys

649
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 1: are waiting for me at home, and I know that

650
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 1: I have a future with them, like I want to

651
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 1: pursue them. Because at least she could look at these

652
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: three guys and she was probably like, I wasn't gonna

653
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 1: take any of them seriously, I didn't really care about

654
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 1: any of them. But the rejection hurts, regardless of it's

655
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 1: somebody that you care about or not. Sometimes the rejection

656
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: made her even more if it's somebody you don't care about,

657
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 1: because you're like, I'm not even impressing you. Yeah, that's true.

658
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 1: I had somebody go home during my season. I remember

659
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: somebody I was interested in but did not feel like

660
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: there was a great connection with. And it does rock

661
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,439
Speaker 1: your world because you're like, wait, people, people are gonna

662
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 1: go home because they're not interested in me. Like you,

663
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 1: as soon as you start to feel like the lead,

664
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: the show is a great way of always humbling you,

665
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 1: to make you question if you really belong there or not. Uh.

666
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,359
Speaker 1: And I think that you. I didn't think you were

667
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: worthy of How are you not interesting me? Come on?

668
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 1: Like you're the one person here that like I always thought. Yeah,

669
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: like you'd be lucky to find something like me. Um,

670
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go quiet, Dawson. I'm sure you can hear him. No,

671
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 1: you can't. You can't know you're good. Uh. Okay, So

672
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: Gabby's questioning things. It leads to Rachel giving out her rose,

673
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: but Gabby not giving out a rose. Uh. The two

674
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 1: bachelorettes speak, then Gabby shares with Rachel kind of what

675
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: happened that evening. Rachel is immediately in a place of defense,

676
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 1: saying Gabby, what do you want me to do. I'll

677
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 1: talk to these guys, I'll call him out, We'll do

678
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,799
Speaker 1: whatever this. I think it was a turning point where

679
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 1: they decide, Hey, something needs to change, like, no longer

680
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 1: can we date these guys at one time. We can't

681
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,839
Speaker 1: allow them the position where they can choose who they

682
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:59,919
Speaker 1: want to be with. Uh. And so they discuss, which

683
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 1: we hear from Jesse Palmer that the cocktail party was

684
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: gonna be canceled and that instead the two Roses or

685
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 1: the two leads are going to give out individual roses

686
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 1: to the guys that are now going to pursue them

687
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 1: alone for the rest of the season. I think this

688
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,719
Speaker 1: was a great move. I don't know how it's going

689
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 1: to play out, but I think it was necessary given

690
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: what had happened so far this season. It it was

691
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 1: a rough ending to this episode because I did feel

692
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: like once again, the guys kind of had for the

693
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 1: last I hope it's the last episode, but they had

694
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 1: control and they could decide. However, Ashley, none of the

695
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 1: guys that took control and said no to a rose, Sorry,

696
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm more interested in another person actually got a rose.

697
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: It was a secret between them were like, if one

698
00:37:50,960 --> 00:38:04,879
Speaker 1: of these guys crosses us, they're gone to go back

699
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 1: to the Jesse conversation. Yeah, when he comes out and

700
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 1: says that, you're like, Okay, this is a great move,

701
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 1: great move, and then you see it actually unfolding and

702
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, look, so we really gave them the

703
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: power and they the girls admit that they're like, oh god,

704
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,919
Speaker 1: this is exactly how it was supposed to not work out.

705
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 1: I just don't know if they hadn't any other option.

706
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: It's kind of one of those you either take the

707
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: the best worst option and do it and know that

708
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 1: the rest of the season will be better. Um, here's

709
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: one person out of all the guys that kind of

710
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 1: said no to the Rose that I feel like needed

711
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 1: another shot was Tremaine. I thought Tremaine had like very

712
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: much done this thing well and had tried his best

713
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: to pursue the women, and he was interested in Gabby

714
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:56,320
Speaker 1: said no to Rachel's Rose. He is the one person

715
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 1: here that I'm like, man, he could possibly like he

716
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 1: should get an other shot. Okay, I get that. I

717
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,839
Speaker 1: wasn't like invested or really even thought of him beforehand.

718
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: Two things I really hated about this scene. One, it

719
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:15,800
Speaker 1: was public, which is what um Rachel was saying to Gabby.

720
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 1: She was like, you were rejected, yes, and I feel yeah,

721
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 1: but this is on display in front of everybody. This

722
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:26,959
Speaker 1: is far your more humiliating. I agree with her there.

723
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: I'd much prefer to experience what Rachel Gabby had gone

724
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 1: through the night before then what Rachel was experiencing. Secondly,

725
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,239
Speaker 1: it was the first time the show felt like an

726
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,959
Speaker 1: actual game show, like a game show for love, when

727
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 1: Jesse would come in and take away a rose from

728
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: Rachel when um it was rejected. Oh yeah, so that's

729
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: a good point. That felt Yeah, I get that. That

730
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: did feel weird, manut it necessarily have the words to

731
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: say why. But you're right, it felt kind of like

732
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 1: a game show, right, like, sorry, you lost your chance,

733
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:11,840
Speaker 1: try again until you win. Yeah. Uh so, weird scenes

734
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 1: and not enough a fan of the whole thing. It

735
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: was definitely an a dig I'm just hoping that, like

736
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 1: like we said earlier in the show, this is the

737
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:26,720
Speaker 1: time where it gets awkward, we did end up giving

738
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 1: the girl some power and and then going forward there

739
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: will be none. Yeah, there'll be none. This is this

740
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,439
Speaker 1: gets better. The groups are smaller. I mean, if you're

741
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,359
Speaker 1: on either side, you're now in the top ten. You're

742
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 1: three weeks in, you're in the top ten. If you're

743
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 1: on Rachel's team, you're in the top like seven or six. Uh,

744
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,439
Speaker 1: if you're on Gabby's team, you're in the top nine.

745
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 1: That's pretty crazy to think about because there's gonna be

746
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:58,720
Speaker 1: less rejections each week, maybe one person from each side. Uh,

747
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:01,280
Speaker 1: it's gonna even out at some point, So maybe Gabby

748
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 1: has to get rid of two people at some point,

749
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:07,320
Speaker 1: Rachel rid of one or maybe none. So that's interesting

750
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 1: to me, uh, to see how they're going to do that.

751
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 1: You know, hometowns are still many weeks away. They haven't

752
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 1: traveled internationally yet, and so you know, hometowns are gonna

753
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: be what now with two each or is it gonna

754
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:20,359
Speaker 1: be four on both sides. If it's four, then there's

755
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 1: just two people that are in it cut from Rachel's

756
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 1: side before hometowns. Um, that's wild. I don't think it's

757
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 1: gonna be four, but it's less than that, because that's

758
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: a Yeah, that's wild. That'd be a crazy episode. But

759
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: it's already obvious. I think it's going to hometowns to

760
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 1: me with Rachel. Okay, so in a second, let's get

761
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 1: into that, because that's a great ending here. Uh I

762
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 1: just want to we promised we would talk about the

763
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 1: one person who tried to come back. That's Meatball. We

764
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: see in the kind of the bloopers at the end

765
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: of the episode where he goes, you know what, Rachel,

766
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 1: I've made a mistake. You know what I was thinking,

767
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: And I was about to go home here, but I

768
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:00,799
Speaker 1: actually I'm into you, Like do you think they don't

769
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 1: tell us what happens? But it's hilarious because you know

770
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: one his name's Meatball, and I can't imagine however you

771
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 1: would call a guy meat Ball. And then at the

772
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: end of this be like introducing him to your parents,

773
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: be like we call him Meatball. His name, I don't

774
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: even know his real name at this point. Uh So

775
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,399
Speaker 1: Meatball tries. I don't see it working out for him.

776
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:22,360
Speaker 1: I don't think he's going to get a second shot.

777
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 1: We need to see this reaction. And I want Rachel

778
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 1: to not be Rachel, sweet, sweet Rachel. I want her

779
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 1: to be like, dude, come on, yeah, like make it funny,

780
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:37,839
Speaker 1: because she said to him already I gave I gave

781
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: you a rose, so and you said no to me,

782
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 1: So now you want a second chance, like I don't know,

783
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 1: probably like ten hours later because this re assureman he

784
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:50,320
Speaker 1: had to take forever. But funny episode or funny ending. Okay,

785
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: So Ashley spent a few minutes here. Who do you think, Uh,

786
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: let's go on both sides. Who do you think are

787
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: like shoeings now for hometown or maybe we should say it?

788
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 1: Who do you feel like we should really keep an

789
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 1: eye out for? So Eric and um, it's obviously going

790
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 1: to be Eric and um Nate for Gabby. I know

791
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: that loaves us too big spots, but then I think

792
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: that there will be Tino zach Avan and there's one

793
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: other guy for am I who am I missing? It's

794
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 1: obvious for Rachel or is there really an open spot?

795
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 1: I think it's open. I would agree with you on

796
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,880
Speaker 1: everybody there that I'm like, yeah, you have to watch

797
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 1: out for this. Um both seem at least at this

798
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: point this season, it seems pretty clear who are who

799
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 1: both Rachel and Gabri are most interested in h and

800
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: also just maybe who have they have the best connections with?

801
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,399
Speaker 1: It feels like, you know this is only week three.

802
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 1: This happened quicker than usual, maybe because the groups are

803
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 1: now smaller, but it's very clear. Yeah, I love it.

804
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 1: Fair we get to see their storylines now play out

805
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 1: for seven more weeks. Uh? Did we get to see

806
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 1: the relationships build and flow? I don't know how I

807
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 1: feel about Logan. Logan to be another one that i'd

808
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: throw in there. I don't know what his connection is yet,

809
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 1: but he is one to keep an eye out for. Yeah.

810
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 1: Oh and then like it seems like Johnny could be

811
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 1: a favorite of of Gabby's too. We'll see. But I

812
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 1: love the fact that we have now narrowed it down

813
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: by week three, two people that we were actually serious about.

814
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 1: So we're going to really see relationships. And I think

815
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 1: this is what the audience has been asking for and

816
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,839
Speaker 1: I'm so excited. So to close out your thoughts, there's

817
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: one person here that you did not mention on either side. Mario.

818
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: Yeah Mario? What happened? Did he get eliminated? No? Mario

819
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 1: is still there? Do you okay? Yeah? Do you feel

820
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 1: like he is now? Maybe you know, he got the

821
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 1: first pressure of so we just haven't seen much of him,

822
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 1: which happens often. But do you still feel like he's

823
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 1: in the mix. No, I don't think he is. It's

824
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:07,840
Speaker 1: interesting because he did get the first going into that

825
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 1: road ceremony. I go, oh, this is my head. I

826
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:12,799
Speaker 1: wonder who Mario is going to get on, which team

827
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: he's going to get on? And then I didn't even

828
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 1: remember when he was quote drafted, quote drafted. You know

829
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: what I mean? Well, Ashley, that's the breakdown of this episode.

830
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 1: Now we have Bachelor headlines. We have a few of

831
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 1: them to celebrate and also talked through. Let's start with

832
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,760
Speaker 1: this one. I want to celebrate here Bachelor Nations. Emily

833
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:36,919
Speaker 1: Ferguson marries William Carlson officially Mr and Mrs Carlson. They

834
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 1: say this. According to people, Haley got married at the

835
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 1: exact same place as Emily did in Vegas. Uh. She

836
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 1: Emily married William Carlson. He is on the Las Vegas Nights.

837
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 1: Have been together for like four years. They said their

838
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: vows on a on the rose rooftop with the views

839
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:01,760
Speaker 1: of the strip, and um they had they were escorted

840
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: by the Knight's official drum line into the party. It's

841
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: pretty cool. That's super cool. Another interesting romance to consider,

842
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: love is blind. Natalie Lee raises eyebrows on trip with

843
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 1: Bachelor Nations. Blake Moy's is according to E so they

844
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:22,240
Speaker 1: just did a few pictures on on a recent trip

845
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 1: in the Caribbean. Natalie posted to inso story. Uh they

846
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 1: are posing on the beach together. Uh. There is a

847
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 1: sunset clip with the overlay that says the crossover. Nobody

848
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:40,359
Speaker 1: asked for what? So who knows that they're dating? There's

849
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 1: a video of what seems like a breakfast date. But

850
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: I guess stay tuned. We have no confirmation, but it

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Speaker 1: definitely seems like a thing. There you go. Well, speaking

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Speaker 1: of things, we promised that we talk about it, and

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Speaker 1: so we're going to here's the update Bachelor Bachelorettes. Nate

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Speaker 1: moves to Los Angeles after Michelle Young's blit and he

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Speaker 1: says he's not dating DeAndre Canoe. Okay, well, he moved

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00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 1: to l A two weeks ago. It's something that's been

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Speaker 1: the back of his mind for some time. Nate wants

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Speaker 1: to get into modeling. He's still doing tech sales, so

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00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:18,360
Speaker 1: modeling would be more of a hobby. He's enjoying the summer,

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Speaker 1: getting to spend time with family and friends and getting

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Speaker 1: situated in l A. And he'll be doing more traveling,

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Speaker 1: like to Cancoon in August. This is what a source says.

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Speaker 1: Super interesting because we all know that Michelle wanted to

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Speaker 1: say in Minnesota wondering if him wanting to move to

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Speaker 1: l A was a thing. Well, we just have a

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Speaker 1: few more to break down today. Uh, the air day

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Speaker 1: of Bachelor Nations Celebrity Family Feud episode revealed. Um, this

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Speaker 1: is a fun this is always a fun thing to do.

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Speaker 1: It feels like a lot of the people that are

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Speaker 1: a part of their kind of podcast network were invited

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00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 1: and then some recent people from Bachelor in Paradise. Actually,

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00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 1: what do we know? We know that Joe, Serena, Kenny,

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Speaker 1: Marie Thomas, Becket kouffriend Michelle, Oh my gosh, Nate's is

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Speaker 1: this tape earlier? Mike Johnson and Rodney will all be

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Speaker 1: in an episode that was taped back in March and

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Speaker 1: it's going to be airing on Sunday, August seven at

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Speaker 1: eight o'clock on ABC. Well, the Bachelor host Jesse Palmer

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Speaker 1: and wife Emily Fardo have second wedding in France. Is

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Speaker 1: according to e t If you guys don't know Jesse,

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Speaker 1: what has been married for over a year now. Um,

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Speaker 1: but they had a wedding um last week, like a

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Speaker 1: formal wedding because the other one was more of like

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Speaker 1: an officiating you know, like it's like a sign the

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Speaker 1: paperwork type thing. And they got married in chateau, a

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Speaker 1: beautiful chateau. I don't don't get a bunch of the

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Speaker 1: name Chateau de la Naudi. I know, why did I

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Speaker 1: even try that? That was pretty? But this is what

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Speaker 1: Jesse said. After canceling our wedding twice due to COVID

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Speaker 1: and then eloping in Connecticut, Emily and I finally tied

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Speaker 1: the knot again in front of our immediate families in Province, France.

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00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:16,399
Speaker 1: Everything was perfect and it's been the day that we've

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00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 1: been envisioned, envisioning for the past three years. Such a

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Speaker 1: magical day full of love tears. Maybe I cried a

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00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 1: lot um and gratitude. It took longer to get here

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Speaker 1: than expected, but we made it. You guys can check

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Speaker 1: out the instagrams online. They are amazing, so so cool

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Speaker 1: to like see the Bachelor host and get married in

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Speaker 1: the midst of the season. It just feels like ultra romantic. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it seems like a romantic wedding. Well, the Bachelor. It's

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Speaker 1: Jed Wyatt. Do you remember him? Is engaged to girlfriend

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Speaker 1: Ellen Decker. The greatest joy of my life, Yeah, he

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Speaker 1: says in an Instagram Ellen, you are the greatest joy

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Speaker 1: of my life. Getting to spend so much time with

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Speaker 1: you has taught me so m Above all, our ability

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00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:05,040
Speaker 1: to work through difficult situations has been very impressive. We

906
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: never turn and run on each other. We face life

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00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 1: head on and figure it out. We had people doubt

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Speaker 1: us and we would laugh. We had days where we

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00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 1: drove each other nuts and we would always come back

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Speaker 1: to resolve. We're rooted in a love deeper than anything

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Speaker 1: I could have prayed for. They've been dating for three

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Speaker 1: years and they got engaged on July in Franklin, Tennessee. Hey,

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Speaker 1: that's where I got engaged Franklin. Yeah, that's so crazy.

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Speaker 1: That's so crazy. Uh. This just brings up because anytime

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Speaker 1: you think Jed y, you obviously have to think Hannah Brown.

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Speaker 1: Is it like, is that the thing where Hannah Brown's

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Speaker 1: brother is dating Jed's X. Yeah? There aren't they engaged.

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Speaker 1: They're engaged. I wonder if, like where that relationship stands.

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Speaker 1: I wonder how that's doing. We'll have to inquire. We'll

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Speaker 1: have to look into that a little bit. Hey, that's

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Speaker 1: all the headlines we have for you today. It's been

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Speaker 1: a great episode. Thanks for joining us for another breakdown

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Speaker 1: of the Bachelorette. This has been episode three of the season.

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Speaker 1: So we'll be back next week breaking down more. In fact, Ashley,

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Speaker 1: uh will be going to Tahoe this next week. I'll

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Speaker 1: be there with my wife Jessica. Yes, we will be there. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: we'll be working very hard. We'll be together. Um. Doing

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Speaker 1: this podcast is gonna be a lot of fun. Can't

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Speaker 1: wait to get to Tahoe. Can't wait to get on

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Speaker 1: a trip with my wife and see you in person.

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Speaker 1: It's been too long, Ashley. So until then, I've been been.

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Speaker 1: I've been Ashley. See you guys. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for listening. Follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous

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Speaker 1: podcast on I our Radio, or subscribe wherever you listen

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Speaker 1: to podcasts.