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Speaker 2: It's on the radio, and the dogs.

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Speaker 3: Ready in lunchbox.

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Speaker 4: Mor get too, Steve Bread and it's trying to put

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Speaker 1: He's running this week's next bit.

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Speaker 2: The Bobby's on the box.

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Speaker 5: So you know what this.

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Speaker 3: The Bobby Ball School.

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Speaker 4: This whole story comes. It's about kids and iPads and screens.

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Speaker 4: So I'm gonna tell you it's from a research journal

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Speaker 4: called Frontiers and Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. So all those

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Speaker 4: words some big So a lot of parents will give

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Speaker 4: their kids an iPad or their phone in order to

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Speaker 4: be like, hey, just chill out for a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Does that happened with you guys? Yes, no, you don't

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Speaker 2: do that all.

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Speaker 6: They don't have iPads and they don't get to the phone.

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Speaker 2: This guy's full pilgrim. Yeah. Crazy.

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Speaker 4: So if kids are acting up, many parents handover smartphones

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Speaker 4: or tablets. Now they're saying, and they're calling it digital

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Speaker 4: pass fire danger. Parents who frequently use digital devices to

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Speaker 4: calm their kids saw negative effects on their kids. Children

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Speaker 4: whose parents often relied on digital pacifiers showed more difficulty

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Speaker 4: managing anger and had lower levels.

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Speaker 2: Of emotional control the kids.

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Speaker 4: It's best to give them a physical toy, a comfort

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Speaker 4: blanket or a hug. Okay, Eddie, I know, use tablets.

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Speaker 4: I feel like it'd be one big tablet in my house.

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Speaker 4: I turned the walls out their tablet. Yeah, when we

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Speaker 4: have kids, eventually we're gonna have a wall that's a tablet.

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Speaker 2: They just go up to it and entertain themself.

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Speaker 7: It's the easiest thing in the world because when they're

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Speaker 7: acting up, they're usually just bored. We're in the car like, ah,

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Speaker 7: they're messing with each other. Just get on your tablets

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Speaker 7: and it's piece, instant piece.

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Speaker 4: How do you feel about this saying one difficulty managing anger?

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Speaker 2: You see it?

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Speaker 7: Yes, I don't really understand what that means, but I guess.

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Speaker 7: But if I give them a toy, bones, or a

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Speaker 7: the tablet?

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Speaker 2: Hey, do you give me the tablet? What are you doing?

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Speaker 3: Lunchbox? No tablets, No, I never bought them. They've never

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Speaker 3: had at them. Like even when we road trip to Texas,

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Speaker 6: Color book?

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Speaker 2: The time?

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Speaker 3: The eighties tablets a coloring book? We give them books.

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Speaker 3: We tell them to take a nap.

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Speaker 2: Well, you tell them, Oh that's interesting.

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Speaker 4: Hey, so that sounds actually very very very healthy.

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Speaker 2: Why have you never given them a tablet?

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Speaker 4: Is it because you have these great parenting dreams or

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Speaker 4: because you just don't want to buy a tablet.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to buy a tablet because I think

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Speaker 3: people would have been like, wow, that is very it's

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Speaker 3: a very mature parenting style.

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Speaker 2: Difficult.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and then I have three kids, so you got

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Speaker 6: to buy three tablets? Sorry?

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Speaker 2: Correct?

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Speaker 3: Gone, Sorry, Yeah, I get no three tablets. That's ridiculous

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Speaker 3: until they can buy themselves, are what. Yeah, I rode

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Speaker 3: so I didn't have a TV. They don't need one.

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Speaker 7: You don't really buy new tablets, you know, So you

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Speaker 4: So that works out. So what if I gave your

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Because I don't want them to become reliable.

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Speaker 3: Now that we are at a stage where they're old

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Speaker 2: I felt that I think this guy's up to no good.

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Speaker 4: They wandered his phone password like his girl did, and

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Speaker 2: There could be a picture of your ID.

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Speaker 4: And he's like I'm not giving I'm not giving in

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Speaker 2: Was he even wasteep water? I guess they weren't that

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that dude is probably up to no good if

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Speaker 4: I were guessing.

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Speaker 2: I had a rough night last night. I slept like

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Speaker 4: My sleep number bed tells me how much did I sleep,

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Speaker 4: I slept like three and a half hours. My eBay

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Speaker 4: got a negative review. Lunchbox. You know how I'm pouring

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Speaker 3: I have no idea what did they say or do

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Speaker 4: They did the stars where I'm now In ninety nine

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Speaker 4: point seven, I had a perfect eBay. Everything I've been

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Speaker 2: I think somebody was trying to.

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Speaker 4: Scan me and so they bought like a card, they

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Speaker 4: paid for it, and they requested a refund immediately, And

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Speaker 4: I'm like, if I'm not falling for this. Why would

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Speaker 4: was can you retract my bid?

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Speaker 2: No problem? Did it all the time.

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Speaker 4: They bid and bought, then they paid for it, and

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Speaker 4: immediately they were like, oh I need a refund on that.

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Speaker 6: Oh it's a scam.

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Speaker 2: That's a scam. And that's the person who gave me

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Speaker 2: a low review. Oh yeah, less star.

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Speaker 6: I would contact eBay.

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Speaker 2: You can do that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, be like, I want to dispute.

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Speaker 4: Can you give a bad review or a bad review

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Speaker 6: I think so, I think you can send the thing.

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Speaker 3: I want to dispute this bad review saying, hey, they bid,

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Speaker 3: they paid, and then they wanted a refund.

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Speaker 6: I felt like it was a scam.

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Speaker 3: I still send them their item and they gave me

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Speaker 6: So I didn't want to get scammed.

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Speaker 4: At a one hundred percent perfect record. That's why I

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Speaker 4: had to dream about playing the lottery and he hit

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Speaker 2: Oh that's what I'm talking about. Do you dream of

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Speaker 2: Never, never, as much as you obsessed about it and

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Speaker 3: I dream about Vegas and the Roulette wheel.

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Speaker 2: What's the dream is that one that happens the same

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Speaker 3: No, it's just I'm at the Roulette Wheel and I'm

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Speaker 2: And but that's recurring dream, the same dream.

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Speaker 3: Ish, yeah, or like I'm in Vegas, I keep I

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Speaker 3: you know whatever, And it's so weird. I dream about

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Speaker 3: Vegas probably at least once a week.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's a lot. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: This guy in Massachusetts said a dream about buying a

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Speaker 4: specific scratch off lottery ticket led him to winning one

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Speaker 4: million dollars. Kendall Junior told Massachusetts state lottery officials he

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Speaker 4: because that's how much money they have.

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Speaker 2: Do you can win?

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Speaker 4: Oh, so he woke up. He must have seen it

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Speaker 4: in the store, had to have. You don't just that

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't have any dreams like that.

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Speaker 4: I have a dream that I didn't finish, like my

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Speaker 4: and then I'm not going to graduate. Like that's my

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Speaker 4: recurring dream. That and I jump float a lot, do I.

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Speaker 2: Like jump float not fly.

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Speaker 6: That is weird.

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Speaker 2: I can't stay up.

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Speaker 6: But the not graduating one, Oh, that happens all the time.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I didn't know that's your real life.

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Speaker 3: No, no, I know that happened to you in real life.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 3: But I mean I even do it like high school.

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Speaker 3: Like it's like you're you're, oh, you forgot to take

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Speaker 3: your you know, economics final and you're not graduating high

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Speaker 2: Why do you think you had that?

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Speaker 6: I don't know, because I asked my wife, I'm like,

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Speaker 6: do you ever dream like that?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: Never, I never dream about not graduating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I do that with college. I don't do it

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Speaker 2: high school. Let's talk to Michael in Texas. Who's on

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Speaker 2: the phone. Hey Michael, Michael, Michael, we appreciate you. What's

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Speaker 2: going on, buddy, what's going on here studio? What's that buddy?

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Speaker 8: Hey?

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Speaker 9: I was gonna see you about possibly y'all, I do

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Speaker 9: it a bit on the one chip challenge. I mean,

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Speaker 9: I know y'all are talking about it hospitalized something or whatever,

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Speaker 9: but me and my brother in law actually did the

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Speaker 9: one chip challenge and we both have about the tolerance

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Speaker 9: of Eddie about it seven or eight, and I think

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Speaker 9: that would be a great challenge for Eddie. The worst

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Speaker 9: part for us was the taste of the chip.

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Speaker 3: We've done it, Yeah, we've done it, and we've done

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Speaker 3: the one shot.

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Speaker 4: Amy did the one shot challenge. I thought she was

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Speaker 4: gonna die. I was scared when Amy took the shot

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Speaker 4: and started screaming. I don't remember what she was screaming,

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Speaker 4: but it sounded like she was done, Like the devil

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Speaker 4: was coming out of her body.

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Speaker 2: She was saying, help me, that's what. It was the

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Speaker 4: So Vincent Martin, thirty years old open fire on the

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Speaker 4: At one am, oh at one am times, so that

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Speaker 2: He still can't shoot unless you feel the thread right.

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Speaker 3: He opened the door and they were trying to run

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Speaker 4: It's like, ah, I bet you somebody's gonna come up

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Speaker 4: Oh, they weren't like right out the door right still, though,

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Speaker 4: He was taken to Cumberly County Jail, where he was

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Speaker 4: charge of two felonies elevated aggravated assault and aggravated a

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Speaker 2: Nobody died right.

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Speaker 4: I think still in the hospital, not critical, right. We

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Speaker 4: But it was always daylight. Oh that wasn't good at

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Speaker 6: We did it all the time.

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Speaker 3: And there was one guy, Ray, He lived on the

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Speaker 3: They would have been shot. My dad goes, well, this

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Speaker 4: Would be annoying if people are doing it all the time,

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Speaker 4: though I still don't Still, if you open the door

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Speaker 4: You don't shoot it. This guy's wrong, but I would

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Speaker 6: Yeah. Well Ray, then he didn't.

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Speaker 3: That's where the bus stop was, and he didn't like

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Speaker 6: So one kid that didn't ride the bus.

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Speaker 3: Very often showed up at the bus stop like, hey, man,

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Speaker 3: beat you won't throw those pinklamingos on his.

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Speaker 6: Roof like a little plastic one.

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Speaker 4: You tricked a kid who never did it to do it,

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Speaker 3: So then the kid was like, I'll do it through

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Speaker 3: You're on totally hitting video. And that guy got out

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Speaker 6: Him a new one.

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Speaker 2: Oh boy classic right huh Oh, he was a jerk.

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Speaker 4: Kobe Bryant's Lakers locker goes up for auction for an

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Speaker 4: estimated one point five million dollars after almost being thrown out.

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Speaker 4: The locker, used by Kobe during the majority of his

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Speaker 2: They expect it to be a million and a half

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Speaker 4: Kobe Bryant passed away in twenty twenty, and apparently they

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Speaker 4: like doing construction, going to toss it out, and they

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Speaker 2: That's so cool.

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Speaker 3: That would go good war room.

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Speaker 2: I don't want I don't want a locker. What do

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Speaker 2: you mean big with a name on it. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's cool.

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Speaker 4: Listen, it's one of the million bucks. I'd love to

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Speaker 6: Are you serious? Like everybody?

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Speaker 3: Like every night before you go to bed, you hang

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Speaker 2: An exciting me.

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Speaker 4: There are things that excited me that doesn't excite me

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Speaker 4: that well, oh my god, that's probably the coolest.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds cool.

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Speaker 3: But a word from a president excites you.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty good. That's George Washington.

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Speaker 4: I got a link in two two billion dollar Powerball

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Speaker 4: winner shows off their Instagram model girlfriend.

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Speaker 6: Hot you s here?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, this is from TMZ.

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Speaker 4: They say money can't buy happiness, but it looks like

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Speaker 2: He was seeing cruising around.

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Speaker 4: A Giorgio Armani event in Malibu with his new Squeeze

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you, this is hilarious to.

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Speaker 1: Look at them.

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Speaker 2: What does he look like like? Is he a good

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Speaker 6: I right there, dude.

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Speaker 2: But the money, I think he'll end up.

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Speaker 4: Being a good looking dude because now he's gonna have

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Speaker 4: It's like, dude, I got a job. So maybe he

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Speaker 4: don't match. Something's up there. Good for him. Two billion

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Speaker 4: is almost too much because again, you want two billion,

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Speaker 2: That's too much to like squander away, right, Isn't that

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Speaker 2: too much? I mean I mean that's too much. Probably

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Speaker 6: No, you couldn't.

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Speaker 2: That's if the rest sits in the bank and you

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Speaker 2: just draw interest on it. Yeah, but sitting at your

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Speaker 4: And then also if you buy a property, as long

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Speaker 4: I've just learned about that crap, and you hold onto it.

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Speaker 2: For a few years, you're fine. Everything's gonna make money. God,

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Speaker 2: it's amazing.

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Speaker 4: Can you could you possibly piss away a billion dollars

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Speaker 3: I don't see how you could unless you.

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Speaker 2: After winning that like parties, bones parties, Eddie.

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Speaker 3: How many parties would you have to throw?

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Speaker 4: You don't have that many friends A billion dollars anyway,

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Speaker 2: Man, you can't drink anymore more.

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Speaker 4: Southwest Airline says sodic hands are exploding on flights across

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Speaker 2: That I had no idea of. That's crazy.

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Speaker 4: The airlines says soda cans are exploding on flights across

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Speaker 2: We're where the issue.

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Speaker 4: Southwest does not serve perishable meals on flights, meaning they

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Speaker 4: I can't hold that in is coming out. They come

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Speaker 4: or for long time great singer, a great songwriter. She's

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Speaker 4: one of the pistol Aannies with Miranda Lambert. You know,

451
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Speaker 4: we talked on the Bobbycast and she opened up about

452
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Speaker 4: her battle with cancer.

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling good, be healthy.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, twenty twenty four. My last chemo was December twenty

455
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Speaker 10: twenty one. Ever since I've I get checked every three months.

456
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Speaker 10: I think now it's going to switch to six months. Yeah,

457
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Speaker 10: it's like I don't think about it. You know how

458
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Speaker 10: when things happen, you put them in like the too

459
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Speaker 10: hard pile of your soul. Well, that one's over there

460
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Speaker 10: every time, like the day of my labs and stuff.

461
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Speaker 10: It's like I put the mask on going to the hospital,

462
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Speaker 10: and it's like your body thinks it's gonna happen again.

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Speaker 4: She's awesome. Go listen to the Bobbycast with Ashley Monroe.

464
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Speaker 4: Hope you a little bit of time, go search for

465
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Speaker 4: the Bobbycast. It'd be super cool if you did. Talking

466
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Speaker 4: about the guy who won two billion dollars in the lottery,

467
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Speaker 4: and I was just wondering, could you just spend all that?

468
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Speaker 4: That's different than fifteen million, like an athlete. I'll make

469
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Speaker 4: a bunch of money. And you're like, how did they

470
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Speaker 4: go broke? Mc hammer famous for that a whole Yeah,

471
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Speaker 4: garage going broke. If you had one billion dollars, you

472
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Speaker 4: could spend five thousand bucks a day for more than

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Speaker 4: five hundred years.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we don't live that long, so let me break

475
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Speaker 2: it down even more. Five thousand dollars a day that's nice.

476
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Speaker 4: You could spend a one hundred thousand dollars every day

477
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Speaker 4: for the next twenty five years and make nothing back.

478
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Speaker 4: That means no investments, and you still it would take

479
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Speaker 4: twenty five years at one hundred grand a day to

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Speaker 4: spend one billion with money making nothing.

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Speaker 2: That means it's all just sitting in a pile in

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Speaker 2: your house.

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Speaker 4: When you every day you go out and just spend

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Speaker 4: one hundred thousand, it'd be really hard to spend that.

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Speaker 4: And that dude, that dude who did it, and he's

486
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Speaker 4: got a girl from way harder than he is, like,

487
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Speaker 4: cheers to him.

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Speaker 3: Got two big old mansionsldfully like helping people too, right, Cherry, Yeah,

489
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Speaker 3: whatever the case.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully Jesus. But it'd be hard to it'd be hard

491
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Speaker 2: to spend all that.

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Speaker 3: Man he seems to still be a normal dude.

493
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Speaker 4: Now I'm watching him with all his cars. I don't

494
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Speaker 4: think he's normal. They did have another story of these.

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Speaker 4: You know, can money buy happiness? Right?

496
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Speaker 2: Yep?

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Speaker 6: Can.

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Speaker 4: Experts say you can use money to fight loneliness, but

499
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Speaker 4: only if you spend it on experiences and not things.

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Speaker 4: Spending money on experiences as opposed to things decreases loneliness.

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Speaker 4: When people focus on doing rather than having, they get

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Speaker 4: more satisfaction. They also feel more connected to other people.

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Speaker 4: Feelings of connection make people want to engage in social activities,

504
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Speaker 4: which reduces their loneliness. This is the Journal of Behavioral

505
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Speaker 4: Decision Making. So here, if you have money, you can

506
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Speaker 4: buy experiences. My first version of this was the opposite.

507
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Speaker 4: When I started to make a little money, I did

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Speaker 4: experiences by myself because I didn't have anybody. So I

509
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Speaker 4: was like, I guess I'll go to Ireland by myself.

510
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Speaker 2: You went to places too that were like in TV shows.

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Speaker 4: That's the only reason I went. Yeah, because my whole

512
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Speaker 4: life I watched TV, almost never left. The say to

513
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Speaker 4: Arkansas and I was like, okay, cool. So I went

514
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Speaker 4: to Hawaii by that was a big one, and as

515
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Speaker 4: the Brady Bunch and by myself, and I was like,

516
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Speaker 4: we take a picture of me and they were like sure,

517
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Speaker 4: by yourself?

518
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Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, yeah, And what are you doing a

519
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Speaker 2: picture by yourself? You hold your arms out like an idiot.

520
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Speaker 2: You're like, I'm here. But so that was the other one.

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Speaker 4: There was another money story, because there were two money

522
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Speaker 4: stories that came out about money, money buying, happiness.

523
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I love money now, I love buying happiness.

524
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Speaker 2: And you think, absolutely, look.

525
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Speaker 3: At how happy that dude is that want a billion

526
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Speaker 3: dollar or two billion dollars.

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Speaker 2: We don't know how happy he is.

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Speaker 4: Also, I start to think, if you have that much money,

529
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Speaker 4: you wonder why do people want to be your friend

530
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Speaker 4: at all?

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Speaker 2: Right, and that probably it's.

532
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Speaker 6: Like a bad point. You don't care.

533
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Speaker 2: I don't think that's true. I think you're still a human.

534
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Speaker 4: It's like some of these CEOs like jump out of

535
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Speaker 4: windows and stuff, like they make noise because a lot

536
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Speaker 4: of times in these situations, what happens is they get

537
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Speaker 4: to the top and realize they're at the top and

538
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Speaker 4: it still sucks. Like as a human, they haven't changed,

539
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Speaker 4: they haven't found whatever they were searching for. Whatever their

540
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Speaker 4: fulfillment was that they thought they would get from that,

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Speaker 4: they didn't get it.

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Speaker 2: So like, why why do I even have to hang around?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 3: See, that's what's crazy. I'm like, hey, you made a

545
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Speaker 3: lot of money being up there.

546
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Speaker 6: At the CEO.

547
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Speaker 3: Just quit and relaxed for a little while, But I

548
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Speaker 3: think enjoy the money.

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Speaker 4: What is happening is nothing is going to fulfill that

550
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Speaker 4: specific person they've they now understand that they've sacrificed everything

551
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Speaker 4: for this because they think this and this money is

552
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Speaker 4: going to help them have fulfillment.

553
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Speaker 2: And once they get there they realize, Nope, sure didn't.

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Speaker 7: But that's also to their identity, right, Like when they

555
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Speaker 7: work so hard to be something that's who they've become,

556
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Speaker 7: so have to be.

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Speaker 2: They can't.

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Speaker 9: Well.

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Speaker 7: I think I think when people spend so much time

560
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Speaker 7: being like a CEO of a company, being praised, being

561
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Speaker 7: asked like, hey, what do I do here?

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Speaker 2: What I do here?

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Speaker 4: And then you just quit, I think that kind of

564
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Speaker 4: takes a toll on you. But I think CEOs aren't

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Speaker 4: praised mostly. I think you guys have a kind of

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Speaker 4: a version.

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Speaker 6: But it's a pretty good title.

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Speaker 2: It's a cool.

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Speaker 3: Title, the name.

570
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Speaker 2: But CEOs are a woman. But I meant.

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Speaker 4: That, like, you know, like on top, I only know

572
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Speaker 4: like one CEO. I'm gona be honest with you. It's

573
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Speaker 4: not like I know a bunch of cry our ceo.

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Speaker 2: That's it. I don't know a single one. Yeah, it's

575
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Speaker 2: not really like there's not a lot to know.

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Speaker 3: I guess like everybody I meet, no one's ever told

577
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Speaker 3: me I I'm a CEO.

578
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Speaker 2: Like, what do you do? CEO.

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Speaker 4: There's a study from Wharton's school to medicine, and I

580
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Speaker 4: guess Wharton's school period. I guess not medicine, but the

581
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Speaker 4: same thing. The research found a consistent positive correlation between

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Speaker 4: an increase in income and increase in happiness. The data

583
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Speaker 4: also found that the wealthiest individuals were considerably happier Despite this,

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Speaker 4: research backs up another study that found that the relationship

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Speaker 4: between a person's happiness and their income didn't plateau around

586
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Speaker 4: a certain point, which they had thought at one point. Instead,

587
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Speaker 4: higher incomes are associated with both feeling better moment to moment.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking about this yesterday, and I've just asked

589
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Speaker 2: this question before.

590
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Speaker 4: Would you rather be Prince Harry or Oprah? In which

591
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Speaker 4: difference Prince Harry was born with that knows no other

592
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Speaker 4: way his whole life, every second of his life. I

593
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Speaker 4: feel like the greatest growth for me is because it

594
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Speaker 4: doesn't matter if it's love, which I finally have, which

595
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Speaker 4: took forever because I never thought I would get married,

596
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Speaker 4: like and do I find it so special now because

597
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Speaker 4: I never.

598
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Speaker 2: Saw it, never had it.

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Speaker 4: Same thing with being successful in my career, pretty poor

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Speaker 4: and like do I appreciate it that much more than

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Speaker 4: somebody who always had money, who has success, And we

602
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Speaker 4: can't be both, so we don't know. It's like a

603
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Speaker 4: guy going, yeah, I'll be pregnant. You really, You'll never

604
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Speaker 4: You'll never be pregnant. You'll never know what it feels like.

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Speaker 4: So would you rather be Oprah who had a rough

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Speaker 4: childhood and got really rich through going hard or Prince Harry,

607
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Speaker 4: who's always rich knows?

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Speaker 2: It's no difference.

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Speaker 6: It's easy. It's the easiest decision I've ever made.

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Speaker 2: The answer is, oh, Harry, okay.

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Speaker 3: Because when you're Prince Harry, you don't have to stress, like,

612
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Speaker 3: you don't have to waste years of your life worried

613
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Speaker 3: like what am I gonna eat? What am I gonna do?

614
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Speaker 3: You are just there and you're like, man, this is awesome.

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Speaker 4: I know in life that our brains and bodies find

616
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Speaker 4: stressors regardless.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wherever you are.

618
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Speaker 4: With money, wherever you that, we find something distressed about

619
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Speaker 4: that's happening in our ecosystem. That's why I would think

620
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Speaker 4: happens I don't. You don't you just think I don't.

621
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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't really find stuff stress about. Oh, even now,

623
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Speaker 3: even now, not even very rarely am I stressed? What

624
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Speaker 3: about if you had more money, I would be less stressed.

625
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Speaker 3: What stresses you now than having more money would fix?

626
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Speaker 6: Like what are we going to have for dinner?

627
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Speaker 4: If it is stressful about spending money on it or

628
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Speaker 4: they have to make a decision, make a decision.

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Speaker 2: So if you had more money, what would you do?

630
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Speaker 3: Have a chef, But then you'd have to tell the

631
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Speaker 3: chef based the chef would do it.

632
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Speaker 6: That's his job. They make it.

633
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Speaker 3: Let's go surprise me to work for you make whatever

634
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Speaker 3: they make it. Let's go just to get got it?

635
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Speaker 2: And that ain't good?

636
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Speaker 3: That's fine, move on to a new chef. I mean,

637
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Speaker 3: that's what I'm saying. Wouldn't have more money, I wouldn't

638
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Speaker 3: have to worry about it.

639
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Speaker 6: I wouldn't have to worry about going to the grocery store.

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Speaker 6: You know who do that?

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Speaker 3: The chef got it. Let's go like, oh you got

642
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Speaker 3: to drive somewhere, No gotta show fur man. I think

643
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Speaker 3: I don't care.

644
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Speaker 4: There are a lot of people who would probably look

645
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Speaker 4: at you and go, man, I wish I had his lifestyle. Anyway,

646
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Speaker 4: you look at Prince Harry and go I wish I

647
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Speaker 4: had his lifestyle. It's kind of a never ending cycle.

648
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 4: So people could look at you and go, man, if

649
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Speaker 4: I had lunch watches Lostyle, I would never stress about anything.

650
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Speaker 2: It feels like the greatest life ever.

651
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Speaker 4: I get up, I go and I sit for five

652
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Speaker 4: hours and talk and face book, chat my friend from

653
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Speaker 4: high school, crossword puzzy. Yeah, they would go, that's the

654
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Speaker 4: easiest life ever. I would never be stressed into that.

655
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Speaker 4: You would say, oh man, it's harder than you think.

656
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Speaker 4: And they think this job's easy.

657
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Speaker 2: But that's what Prince Harry probably say to you.

658
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Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, Prince Harry doesn't.

659
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Speaker 2: Do any Yeah, I probably right, right right that he.

660
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Speaker 6: Literally doesn't do it. Some people, some people, yeah, I understand.

661
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Speaker 3: Some people like Oprah still have to work and do

662
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Speaker 3: stuff and make the decisions. Prince Harry didn't have to

663
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Speaker 3: do anything.

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Speaker 2: Is Oprah still working? I don't know. She worth three

665
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Speaker 2: billion dollars? That wouldn't be.

666
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Speaker 3: Worth yeah, right, Why would you have.

667
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Speaker 2: The amazing But what if you always had it?

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Speaker 4: You know, no difference if you don't know hard, you

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Speaker 4: don't know easy.

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Speaker 7: No, I'm with you, I'm with I mean, I don't

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Speaker 7: I don't think the answer is that easy. But like

672
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Speaker 7: I guess I'd rather be Oprah because of that. I

673
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:06,920
Speaker 7: know in the long term I would learn a lot

674
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 7: and I would learn how to conquer certain things because

675
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Speaker 7: I've been through a lot. If our Prince Harry did,

676
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 7: it would just be smooth sal on the whole time.

677
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Speaker 2: Is this smooth? If it's always been smooth? Isn't that

678
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:14,920
Speaker 2: your version of rough?

679
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 4: Yeah?

680
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean Prince Harry could go on vacation for

681
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Speaker 3: one of the.

682
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Speaker 6: Days and it wouldn't.

683
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Speaker 2: That's not vacation. That's not how awesome right. I feel

684
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 2: like it'd be pretty unfulfilling.

685
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 3: I'd be fulfilled to see every place in the world,

686
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 3: like travel here, travel there.

687
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 6: Check that out.

688
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Speaker 4: You guys can hit a several grass of calls on

689
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Speaker 4: a second eight seven, seven seventy seven.

690
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Speaker 2: Bobby, Okay, this this is a.

691
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Speaker 4: You know, it's bold or its romantic. It depends on

692
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 4: if the girl thinks the guy's cute. That's what the

693
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 4: story is. I'm be honest with you. So this dude

694
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 4: who walks at the airport saw a girl go through

695
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 4: a saar bag. They put your name and number on

696
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 4: the bag. You do so if your bag gets lost,

697
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 4: they can call you. Her name was cursed, and she

698
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 4: got a text from a guy named Nate who saw

699
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Speaker 4: the name on the time he first texted her Kristen.

700
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 4: Her name is Kirsten. I see how that could easily

701
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 4: be messed up. Sure, so, Phil, she was like, it's

702
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,120
Speaker 4: a bad star. He said, I saw you and thought

703
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 4: you were so beautiful. I wanted to find a way

704
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 4: to talk to you. I promised. This isn't as weird

705
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,679
Speaker 4: as it seems. Give a guy a chance.

706
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 6: I don't know.

707
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 2: Hey, Morgan, you talk to me about this.

708
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 4: Let's say this happens to you. You're single, you get

709
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:26,400
Speaker 4: this message, what are your thoughts.

710
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 11: I've always been a person who will try anything once,

711
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 11: and if this is the way you're gonna go about approaching,

712
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 11: I mean I'd be like, Okay, send.

713
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 3: Me your Instagram, buddy. I mean, you gotta give me.

714
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,880
Speaker 11: Something to like, so I'm not creeped out necessarily by

715
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 11: the scenario to like know who you are then, But

716
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,639
Speaker 11: there is a creep factor to this, for sure. I

717
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 11: would definitely be a little like, maybe not.

718
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 2: But fine line between bold and creepy.

719
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,639
Speaker 3: I was gonna say that because women want guys to

720
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 3: be bold.

721
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 2: The line is how good looking and safe the guy is.

722
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,199
Speaker 4: If I were to send this message, if this have

723
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 4: been me, the weirdo, we'll call him weirdo for the

724
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 4: second the story. If this would have been me, I

725
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 4: would have said, Hey, I saw at the airport. I

726
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 4: know this is weird, but I took your number off

727
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 4: the tag. Here's my Instagram. You can never message me,

728
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 4: but I just want to show you who I am

729
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:15,640
Speaker 4: and what I am so you're not freaked out. That's

730
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 4: what I would do, and give him a chance to

731
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:18,639
Speaker 4: her to go look at the whole thing because it

732
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 4: is weird. But being bold is risky generally in life,

733
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 4: being bold is risky, and with being bold in anything

734
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 4: personal or professional because of the risk involved, you can

735
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 4: look like a do fist many times. But no one

736
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 4: likes to be watched here like, well, no, noway's watching

737
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 4: You could have just.

738
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 2: Seen saw her?

739
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 4: Sure you just and then you go up and you

740
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 4: get look at the tag and write it down. It's

741
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 4: not like he's in a tree. It's not like he's

742
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 4: in a tree watching her in the bedroom. I'm not

743
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 4: saying I would do it or it's right. I'm just

744
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 4: saying if it were me, I wouldn't just send the text.

745
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 4: I would send more with it, because you're already working

746
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 4: from a negative as soon as you send it your negative.

747
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 2: But if you never send it, you're not thing.

748
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 11: Well, well, I'm like as women too, we can't sit

749
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 11: here and be like we want to meet somebody out

750
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 11: in the wild, and then when people try and meet

751
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 11: us out in the wild be like no, no, thank you.

752
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 3: So that's why I said you.

753
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 2: Had to be great point.

754
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 4: But yes, one, you are definitely probably feeling they're creepy

755
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 4: until they prove otherwise.

756
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, So you're going to give them a chance to

757
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 2: prove otherwise.

758
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 11: Exactly Like like I said, you try everything once and

759
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 11: if it goes bad, it goes back cool.

760
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 3: Never going to do that again.

761
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 4: So if she didn't like him, what she doesn't feel

762
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 4: like she did like him, it's because he's either ugly.

763
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 2: That's it. That's it, Yeah, because that's all you would

764
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 2: really know about him initially.

765
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 11: Yeah, or if you didn't send a photo or something

766
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 11: to just be like, hey, here here's who I am to.

767
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 4: Like, Well, then he balanced the cree there's a reason

768
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 4: he's not sending the photo. There you go or the Instagram.

769
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 4: I want to go over and talk to I got

770
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 4: a couple. I want to talk to you. I want

771
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Speaker 4: to go to Hope first in Jackson, Mississippi. Who's a psychologist?

772
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 2: Hope?

773
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 4: Thank you for calling the show. Would you explain to

774
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:56,959
Speaker 4: me what your profession is before you give me your opinion?

775
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 5: Yes, I am a clinical license marriage and family therapist,

776
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 5: not quite a psychologist.

777
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:07,239
Speaker 4: Okay, well, thank you for that. Now why did you

778
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 4: call the show? And we appreciate you calling?

779
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 5: Well, I called because you know everyone's talking about well,

780
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 5: if I don't have money, I don't have stress. And yes,

781
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 5: obviously you know hierarchive needs, we have to have food,

782
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 5: safety shelter. But then you get past that, and you know,

783
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Speaker 5: the people that I see coming to therapy obviously have

784
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 5: money to pay for therapy, but their stressors are real,

785
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 5: you know, whether it's relationship issues, a child on drugs.

786
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Speaker 5: I mean, I could go on and on. So after

787
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Speaker 5: you get past the basic needs, there are multiple, multiple

788
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Speaker 5: stressors that people deal with.

789
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

790
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Speaker 4: Earlier in the show, LaunchBox was saying if you had

791
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Speaker 4: more money, he would have no stress at all. Like,

792
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Speaker 4: if you just have ano money, he'd have no stress.

793
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Speaker 4: And what Hope is saying here is that that is

794
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Speaker 4: from her example and her experience, that is not the

795
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 4: case because people come in that have the expendable income

796
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 4: to go to therapy, yet they still have many stressors.

797
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 5: Right, Hope, exactly, exactly different stresses again, not your basic needs.

798
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 5: But the stresses just go on and on with relationships,

799
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 5: with work, with you know, feelings of inadequacy, with being

800
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 5: hurt with relationships. I mean, it's just endless the stressors.

801
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 3: Now, I don't see Garth Brooks like worrying about oh stress.

802
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 3: He doesn't look stressed out to me.

803
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 4: You only see him a very select like a very

804
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 4: very select part of his life when he's performing and.

805
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 6: Being Garth Keith Urban. He doesn't look stressed.

806
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 3: Again, comes in here, he.

807
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 4: Comes in here. Yes, I'm not gonna be able to

808
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 4: talk any sense to him. That's okay, that's again, Hope.

809
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 4: I really appreciate that call. Thank you for taking a

810
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 4: few minutes and calling us up.

811
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Speaker 2: Have a great day.

812
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 4: I want to go to Cindy and Knoxville, who is

813
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 4: on real quick. Hello, Sindy, good.

814
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 12: Morning, good morning.

815
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: What would you like to say?

816
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 2: Thank you for calling?

817
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 5: What would you like to say, Well, first of all,

818
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 5: I've been listening to you guys for years.

819
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 2: I love your show.

820
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 8: But I would like to know is Lunchbox really as obnoxious?

821
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 8: Does he portrays himself on your show? Or do you

822
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 8: all pay him to be that way?

823
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 6: And what do you mean obnoxious?

824
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 3: I don't think I'm not obnoxious at all, But please

825
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 3: explain yourself.

826
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 8: Okay, you are a a You portray yourself as an obnoxious,

827
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 8: egotistical jerk. I cannot believe that that's your real personality,

828
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 8: because otherwise they wouldn't put up with you for five minutes.

829
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 3: But can you give me an example? I don't think.

830
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 2: We all know the example.

831
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 4: So this is what I would like to say. I

832
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 4: don't have any Cindy, and this is the god's honest truth.

833
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 4: Lunchbox is a good guy, or he wouldn't be here

834
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 4: and we wouldn't have been able to do this show

835
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 4: together for how long?

836
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 6: Twenty one years?

837
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 3: In our ob way?

838
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 4: No way a long time? Would that just wouldn't be

839
00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 4: able to happen. Is he obnoxious? Absolutely? Am I obnoxious

840
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 4: in a different way? Absolutely? My egotistical? Aren't we all?

841
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 2: Well?

842
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,479
Speaker 4: They come out in different ways like mine comes out

843
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 4: in a way at times that is a bit more

844
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 4: palatable to some people than yours because of how abrasive

845
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 4: you can be at times.

846
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 2: Is Lunchbox a good guy? Absolutely? Is he a good dad? Yep?

847
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 6: Am my egotistical?

848
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 2: Heck?

849
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 6: Yeah?

850
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 2: Is he?

851
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 4: Is?

852
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 2: He in love with himself? Sometimes a little much?

853
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 3: We feel like everybody's listen in life.

854
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 6: If you're not in love with yourself.

855
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 4: Then there's something wrong with his communication is just different,

856
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 4: so it hits some people the wrong way. But he

857
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 4: but he's also this loud off mic too, except he

858
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 4: curses a lot more.

859
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 2: That's true.

860
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 4: So at times we have to be careful with the

861
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 4: doors being open because he'sut yelling the F word down

862
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 4: the hallway, screaming at people. So the answer is yes.

863
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 4: But I don't think being obnoxious means you're a bad person.

864
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 4: I think Lunchbox is a really good person or or

865
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 4: he wouldn't be a part of this unit.

866
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 2: But yeah, he could be tough to I don't deal well.

867
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 6: She love herself. I don't understand well.

868
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 2: I think you guys are having like eight different conversations

869
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: right now.

870
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 3: She said an egotistical, She's not. She doesn't have an ego.

871
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 2: Uh, Cindy, would you like to answer that, you don't

872
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 2: have to go ahead?

873
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 8: Personalities, it's just personality.

874
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is, Sindy. Thank you, Hope you have a

875
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 2: great day.

876
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 4: I can assure everybody if you're broken down the side

877
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 4: of the road and Lunchbock could stop and help you,

878
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,959
Speaker 4: he would, now what he also called the news. Yes,

879
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,840
Speaker 4: but it doesn't matter. All that stuff's fine. What do

880
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 4: you stop and help you? Yes, but he wants a

881
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 4: tip too on top of that, and he won't tip

882
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 4: a waiter waitress if he feels that they do a

883
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 4: bad job. Well not even a bad job, like you

884
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,360
Speaker 4: didn't want to tip because they put the salad in

885
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:40,919
Speaker 4: front of your wife and put the steak in front

886
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 4: of you when it was actually different.

887
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was burger and salad and I ordered the salad.

888
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 3: My wife ordered the burger, and the waiter put it

889
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 3: in front of me, put the burger in the salad

890
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 3: in front of my wife, and I felt like that

891
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 3: was rude, and I'm all about equality, so I was like,

892
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,279
Speaker 3: you know what, I got to stand up for the.

893
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,439
Speaker 2: Women that wasn't why you just want to save money?

894
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 6: Woman, A woman can't eat a Burger. That's just rude.

895
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 4: That's not what they were saying. Cindy, thank you for

896
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 4: the call. Everybody, thank you for listening. I do assure you.

897
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 4: Lunchbox is a good guy at times funny, at times difficult.

898
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 4: But aren't we all as he would say, aren't we

899
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 4: all right?

900
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 2: Thank you.

901
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 4: I'm a big Ashley Monroe fan as a solo artist,

902
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,959
Speaker 4: as a songwriter. She's one of the pistol Annies with

903
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,799
Speaker 4: Miranda Lambert, and I want to talk with her about

904
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 4: because she had cancer and what it was like fighting

905
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 4: cancer and how that changed her outlook on life and

906
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 4: how she got back into making music. And I waited

907
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 4: for a while to talk to her because I was

908
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 4: waiting for her to be healthy again.

909
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 2: And it was really cool to sit down.

910
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 4: And so here's a clip of Ashley Monroe on the

911
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:42,320
Speaker 4: Bobby Cast.

912
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,240
Speaker 2: Which you can check out right now. How are you feeling?

913
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:46,359
Speaker 1: I'm feeling good, healthy, yep.

914
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 10: So what's twenty twenty four?

915
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: My last chemo was.

916
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 10: December one, and ever since i've I get checked every

917
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 10: three months. I think now it's going to switch to

918
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 10: six months.

919
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 4: And when they say, hey, you're good, had you already

920
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 4: built back up? I mean, did you feel like you

921
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 4: were healthier leading up to it?

922
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 8: Oh?

923
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 12: Yeah, I was.

924
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 4: It a slow inclined back to I don't normally without

925
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 4: the word, but back to what you used to feel

926
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 4: like it was and better.

927
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 10: You know, at the end, my my red blood levels

928
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 10: were in the normal range. Everything was even better so

929
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 10: than when I started.

930
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 2: So really healthier.

931
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 8: Yeah.

932
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 10: Man, and platelets, like my overall platelets at one point

933
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 10: they got down to thirty. That was at the beginning,

934
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 10: And now they're like, I.

935
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 2: Don't know what that means though, Like I don't know

936
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 2: the comparison.

937
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 10: I think normals like one forty to three hundred.

938
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:35,760
Speaker 2: You were and you were thirty.

939
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 1: I was thirty.

940
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 10: Yeah, And now I'm like every time I get that's

941
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 10: like one forty two.

942
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 4: Do you have anything that you used to monitor yourself? No,

943
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 4: because if it were like an or ring, I'd be obsessed.

944
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 4: I did quite an or ring, obviously not the same thing,

945
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:49,400
Speaker 4: but I wore that stupid I looked at it. I

946
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 4: looked at it every thirty seconds.

947
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: I have to throw away in mine to my or

948
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 1: rings or any sort off.

949
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 10: It's too much power, yep.

950
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 4: And I would wake up in the middle of the

951
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,399
Speaker 4: night to check my sleep, which is the exact topic.

952
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 2: Bobby exactly was it right?

953
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 1: Was it?

954
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

955
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 4: It'd be like, you're not asleep and you need sleep,

956
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 4: and I'd be like, yeah, it's.

957
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 2: A good point. I'm awake to check in my or ring.

958
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:08,839
Speaker 1: It knows too much.

959
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so that I can't if I have any

960
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 2: opportunity to like over monor same, I have to not

961
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 2: do it at all.

962
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 4: Like I haven't looked at and things have been the

963
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 4: past three or four years definitely different with like the

964
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 4: radio show, not so much the podcast because I would

965
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 4: look at numbers of everything all the time. Yeah, I

966
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 4: get it, and have two modes. I need to look

967
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 4: at every number all the time or none thing.

968
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 10: Yep, I one hundred percent understand that. And it's a

969
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 10: control thing, you know. It's I think that people who

970
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 10: don't we don't drink. I mean there has to be

971
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 10: a flare up and control is a biggie. I mean

972
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 10: it's like, yeah, and actually this sickness forced me. I'm

973
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 10: still kind of a control freak, but I'm less of

974
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 10: one because when you experience something with that out of

975
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 10: your control. And there was a moment where I just

976
00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 10: said take it fine, I can't control it. And then

977
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 10: there was such a good feeling about that really, so

978
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 10: it's good to kind of remind ourselves like, but I

979
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 10: think the better option to that is not to look

980
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 10: at the things, or not to eliminate things that are gonna.

981
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, my wife will be like, is your ring charge?

982
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: You wearing it?

983
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 2: And I'm like, no.

984
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:14,879
Speaker 3: I don't charge what ring?

985
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, I don't. I just don't do it.

986
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 4: And I don't look at numbers every once in a

987
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 4: while like that MC out and be like, hey, give

988
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 4: me the give me a month from the past fourteen months.

989
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 4: But if I do, yeah, like I drown in them.

990
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 1: I know, I get it. I don't know.

991
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,320
Speaker 10: I stay aloof on purpose.

992
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:30,840
Speaker 1: I don't.

993
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 10: I haven't looked at the chart well maybe ever, even

994
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 10: when I barely grazed them back in the day, I thought,

995
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 10: what's me looking at it?

996
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 1: Going to do anything that's pretty healthy?

997
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 10: Make me nervous, wreck and make me not want to

998
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 10: do music. Well, that's defeats the purpose.

999
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 4: Did you ever have when you were going through your illness?

1000
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 4: Did you stop focusing on music or did you focus

1001
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 4: on in a different way, like did you use music

1002
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 4: at all?

1003
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: No?

1004
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,440
Speaker 10: I went like, that's the only time that in pregnancy

1005
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 10: that my music button was just like really pause. Yeah,

1006
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 10: I don't know why did it?

1007
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 2: When did they come out?

1008
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,280
Speaker 4: And I'm leading up to asking about this specific project,

1009
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 4: but when did the music bug kind of get back

1010
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 4: in your system? I feel like it's always lived there,

1011
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 4: like it took a vacation. When did it come back

1012
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 4: and move back in and.

1013
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:14,280
Speaker 1: Move back in when I got healthy?

1014
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 10: Yeah, And it was like, you know, you process these

1015
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 10: things without even knowing it. You know that you're taking

1016
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 10: it in and what you know, I'll just feel like

1017
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:26,720
Speaker 10: this feeling like go get the guitar, ghosted at the piano.

1018
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:31,400
Speaker 10: I always say it's like an emotional sneeze. It's just like, Okay,

1019
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 10: something needs to happen. And then a lot of times,

1020
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 10: if I'll just push record and just start, I don't

1021
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 10: know whatever it is. If I'll go back and listen,

1022
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 10: there's words in there that I can sound out.

1023
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 1: It's really interesting.

1024
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 4: You a melody writer or like a lyric writer, if

1025
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 4: you and both, I mean both, But which one do

1026
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 4: you feel like you gravitate toward more instinctually?

1027
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 10: I guess melodies. I love to like attempt to make

1028
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 10: a melody that like breaks your heart or like feel

1029
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 10: you know what I mean? And then words. I have

1030
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:05,360
Speaker 10: all these notebooks. I mean, I feel like I do both.

1031
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 10: I just lovetimes. I'll get a melody first, I guess,

1032
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 10: and then I'll go look in my word ideas.

1033
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's what I was. I was lornly.

1034
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 4: The next question, like, you ever create like a really

1035
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 4: cool melody and then you go back and you find

1036
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 4: something you wrote eight months ago or pieces of different things,

1037
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:22,760
Speaker 4: like how does that work creatively?

1038
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1039
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 10: I I love to go back. I'll just go in

1040
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 10: my voice memos and go back to like twenty twelve,

1041
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 10: you know, and there'll be a nugget on there. I

1042
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:36,280
Speaker 10: did that the other day on a flight.

1043
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:38,880
Speaker 4: They have melody and a voice memo, but words in

1044
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 4: a book or do you leave words in a voice

1045
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 4: memo too?

1046
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 1: Uh?

1047
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 10: No, words in the voice memo.

1048
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I won't trust it. But I found a bunch

1049
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 1: of old.

1050
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,800
Speaker 10: Annie's things actually that I put organized in a folder

1051
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 10: for us, of like ideas we had had on the

1052
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 10: bus years ago that were good, you know, just I

1053
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 10: would have never remembered the melodies. I would have never

1054
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 10: so I try to I'm trying to be good about

1055
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 10: like organizing them so they don't just fall off the

1056
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:07,720
Speaker 10: edge of the world.

1057
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 4: It's always cool because there would be things that I

1058
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 4: would have written and or even jokes that I it

1059
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 4: wasn't at the right time, and then you go back

1060
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:15,320
Speaker 4: and you're like, oh man.

1061
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 2: This was so good.

1062
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,240
Speaker 4: I can still use this. That's always a good feeling.

1063
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 4: And it also reminds me I wasn't to because I

1064
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 4: hate old stuff. I always hate the old stuff that

1065
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 4: I've done, and I feel like that's healthy ish because

1066
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 4: I maybe it feels like I'm growing.

1067
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,760
Speaker 10: Yeah, it's like we don't identify because it's like we can.

1068
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: Respect what we did back then.

1069
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 10: Like I'll go back and listen to gosh even five

1070
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 10: years ago, and my twain is just so twenty, which

1071
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 10: everyone's always like that's a good thing. It's like now,

1072
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 10: I'm like, well, just try to ease up on your

1073
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:46,760
Speaker 10: eyes and your whatever.

1074
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:47,720
Speaker 1: But I respect.

1075
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 10: But it just sounds like a little.

1076
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:49,840
Speaker 1: Old country girl.

1077
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 2: That's funny.

1078
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 1: I still am. I'm just an older country girl.

1079
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 4: I mean, I went to speech pathology for years because

1080
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 4: being from Arkansas, my accent was super thick. Yeah, right,

1081
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 4: and it was it was the eyes eyes or the

1082
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:07,799
Speaker 4: iron g's and those those were the biggest two. When

1083
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 4: they did they have you say all this stuff and

1084
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:12,880
Speaker 4: it'd be like, I just want to go fishing, and

1085
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,359
Speaker 4: they'd be like, okay, well let's work on a few

1086
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:14,839
Speaker 4: of these things.

1087
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,360
Speaker 2: And it was the eyes that was the biggest one.

1088
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:18,760
Speaker 2: And I think if you're from where we're.

1089
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,320
Speaker 1: From, yeah, it's kind of undoable.

1090
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 2: The eyes are tough.

1091
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: I'll take the IF and then the I in g's.

1092
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 4: But it's funny that you feel like you were or

1093
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 4: people tell you were twangy year. Yeah, have you made

1094
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 4: any like purposefully not been as twainy like with the

1095
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:35,760
Speaker 4: new stuff?

1096
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 10: Or no, I just try to if one sneaks out,

1097
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:41,799
Speaker 10: that's just so over the top, I'll be like, oh,

1098
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 10: I just gotta I don't try to take all of

1099
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 10: them out, just the.

1100
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: Lobby bone show.

1101
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 3: Sorry. Up today, this story comes to us from North Carolina.

1102
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 3: A man walked into two different convenience stores, held up

1103
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 3: a gun, said give me all the money, and he

1104
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 3: got away and police put it out on the new

1105
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 3: It was like, how are we ever going to catch

1106
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 3: this guy? Then they're scrolling through Instagram and the guy

1107
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 3: posted pictures of him holding the same gun in the

1108
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 3: same clothes.

1109
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 2: Oh wow, must be a thing, or he has one

1110
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 2: set of clothes. That's crazy.

1111
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 6: I'm lunchbox at your bonehead story of the day.

1112
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 2: Let's go through some voicemails. Here we go.

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Speaker 12: First one, I figured a fun fact Friday and the

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Speaker 12: Morning Corny would be great. Did you know that a

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00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 12: horse is the fastest animal when pregnant. It's got two

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00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 12: horse powers. I have a great day.

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Speaker 2: That a joke. That's the job, not the fact.

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00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 3: It's the Morning Corny. Here's being funny.

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Speaker 2: No, I hear you? Fuck all right. Here's the next one.

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Speaker 13: Hey, Bobby and Morning Studio. I just wanted to say

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Speaker 13: thank you so much for coming to Portland. I was

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Speaker 13: at your brunch with Bobby and my husband and I

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Speaker 13: had a great time. It was so nice of you

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Speaker 13: to stay and meet every single person. You're seriously a

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Speaker 13: stand up guy, and it wasn't honored to meet you.

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Speaker 13: My husband is a veteran and I'm a teacher, and

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Speaker 13: we both really appreciate what you do for everyone. Oh

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Speaker 13: and Eddie, I hope you enjoyed that bottle of boring.

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Speaker 13: Come back to Oregon. Anytime.

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Speaker 2: Were you drinking the wine on Instagram? Yeah, we drank

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Speaker 2: it the other day. It was very nice. Was it

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Speaker 2: like an Oregon specific one? Apparently?

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Speaker 7: She and I think she's the one that gave it

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Speaker 7: to me this whoever left the voicemail? She told me

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Speaker 7: that the real pino in Pino and Noar is from Oregon,

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Speaker 7: so she gave me the real stuff. I don't know

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Speaker 7: the difference honestly, but like she said, it was the

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Speaker 7: real stuff and it was good.

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Speaker 4: It's really expensive, and I know we've talked about this.

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Speaker 4: You you don't have the palette to know, and.

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Speaker 7: I thought I did, but the more I drink it,

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Speaker 7: I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was portal was great. Thanks to everybody who came out.

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Speaker 4: We're possibly going to do something this weekend like that

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Speaker 4: in Florida, a little quick pop up show. More details soon.

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Speaker 4: All right, here is Kelly in North Carolina.

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Speaker 13: Mortice DiDio. What happened in the lunch box being that

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Speaker 13: I love you lunchbox?

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Speaker 12: Is that coming at she?

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Speaker 13: But what happened to all this act and jazz?

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Speaker 4: Like you even't said anything about forever your acting career watnchbox?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's been you know, roadblock at the roadblock.

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Speaker 3: I haven't really got any gigs. It's been rough.

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Speaker 2: There's no roadblocks. You haven't tried.

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Speaker 3: I mean Bobby teased me with a movie roll and

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Speaker 3: then he pulled his rug out fronderneath.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you said someone.

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Speaker 2: In this room and you care about acting anymore?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I would love to.

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Speaker 2: Still are you taking lessons anymore?

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Speaker 6: I kind of put that on pause.

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Speaker 2: Are you doing auditions?

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Speaker 3: I haven't really had any you know come my way

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Speaker 3: that I thought are big enough for me.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like much roadblock?

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Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, a lot of roadblocks?

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Speaker 2: All right? Here is this a really random voicemail?

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Speaker 10: We got on the line, what's up, Bobby buch Shine.

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Speaker 9: Well sixty.

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Speaker 5: Podcast?

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Speaker 2: Then it was over what on Earth? Shout out to

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Speaker 2: that guy.

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Speaker 4: You guys can leave us voicemail anything we talk about

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Speaker 4: anything you'd like to comment on. Leave us a voicemail

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Speaker 4: eight seven seven seventy seven. Bobby, you guys have a

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Speaker 4: great day. We'll see tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: Bye, Buddy, Bobby Bones.

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Speaker 4: Bobby Bones Show Bobby Bones theme song written produce sang

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Speaker 4: by Readyardberry. You can find his instagram at Readyarberry dot com.

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Speaker 4: Scooba Steve executive producer, Ray Mundo, Head of Production. I'm

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Speaker 4: Bobby Bones. My Instagram is mister Bobby Bones. Thanks for

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Speaker 4: listening to the podcast.