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Speaker 1: Made you look Jeffrey Tupps clumb give me, said, I

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Speaker 1: made you look like Megan Trainer. I made you look. No, sad,

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Speaker 1: I made you look say said, I made you made

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Speaker 1: you look Not give me? I can all right? Have

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Speaker 1: you heard about this dude? He went viral because he

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Speaker 1: asked questions that we should ask about childbirth. No. I

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Speaker 1: got a lot of questions. I'm afraid to ask some questions.

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Speaker 1: I would say, well, I think those guys are this

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Speaker 1: is this is an innocent question. It was question where

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Speaker 1: should I stand? That's up to you. It's not up

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Speaker 1: to me. You know, when you're in it at that point,

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Speaker 1: I don't really think it matters. I was told by

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Speaker 1: someone I know, you get to stand above or below,

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Speaker 1: and the mom makes that choice. Michael was above the

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Speaker 1: majority of the time. Uh yeah, he was of my

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Speaker 1: god kids, said she said stern to the father. You

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Speaker 1: stay above, stay above the equator the majority of the time.

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Speaker 1: But yes, but there's sometimes you're kind of moving around

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Speaker 1: and then every now and then you might get a glimpse.

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Speaker 1: See these are the questions, and it's okay if that happens,

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Speaker 1: all right, So what is this guy? What do he

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Speaker 1: asked about this guy named Dave. He's from Ontario, Canada.

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Speaker 1: But actually, I think this is a great example as

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Speaker 1: to why I truly love social media and this is

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Speaker 1: a very good example where social media is doing good

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Speaker 1: in the world. There's no negativity here because he asked

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Speaker 1: a big question for anyone that has given birth, and

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Speaker 1: it was something that he tweeted out and he said,

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Speaker 1: what is one thing that your partner did, said, or

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Speaker 1: brought to the hospital that really helps you through your

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Speaker 1: childbirth experience? Very innocent question that blew up everywhere, not

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Speaker 1: only on Twitter, but then it got reposted on to Instagram, TikTok,

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Speaker 1: you name it, basic, all platforms and everyone because it's

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Speaker 1: such a broad subject, I feel, and everyone has their

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Speaker 1: own opinions when it comes to childbirth. Has chimed in

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Speaker 1: with all their responses and they keep pouring in. So

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Speaker 1: I'll just give you a few of the best ones.

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Speaker 1: One of them was, don't speak during a contraction unless

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Speaker 1: it's words of encouragement. And how do you know when

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Speaker 1: the contraction is you, Well, the woman is contracting and

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Speaker 1: it's like a painful feeling. So I don't know that

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Speaker 1: pain from other pains because She'll usually be breathing and

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Speaker 1: they'll be like a fool, can't say con Maybe just

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Speaker 1: don't ask questions, just don't talk, just like you know,

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Speaker 1: or U, let's just be like you're doing great, you're

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Speaker 1: doing great. Um. One person said, make sure you know

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Speaker 1: what her favorite meal is and have it planned out

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Speaker 1: for after delivery, sushi, whatever. It is usually something that

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Speaker 1: she couldn't in the hospital after delivery in the hospital. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so whenever she basically couldn't have while she was pregnant

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Speaker 1: for nine months. Can you have sushi immediately? Yes, you

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Speaker 1: have one, maybe just a little sip if you want it,

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Speaker 1: but not really because your breastfeeding still. But she's fine,

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Speaker 1: she's fine. Uh. One person said, you know, he was

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Speaker 1: filling out the paperwork and when it asked for the

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Speaker 1: father's full name, he said, hey, babe, what's your dad's

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Speaker 1: full name? Oh, my god, you're the father, babe. So

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Speaker 1: he didn't realize that. He shocked everybody. Everybody was that's

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Speaker 1: another big one too, So I think that's a huge

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Speaker 1: Michael filled out all the paperwork in the hospital. I

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Speaker 1: didn't fill out anything, so and that is a huge

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Speaker 1: responsibility because you have to spell all the names right,

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Speaker 1: and so these are things. When asked what has helped

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Speaker 1: your partner get through childbirthays yes by a father, people

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Speaker 1: responding with what's another one? Yeah, another one is chapstick,

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Speaker 1: phone charger, snacks for after, and don't tell her if

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Speaker 1: she goes on the table and my goes means like

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Speaker 1: goes number two, don't bring it up. Why are you

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Speaker 1: on a table? Well, the bed, the bed, the bed?

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Speaker 1: What happened the table? Come out of there? Because your

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Speaker 1: lips get really dry because you're breathing, and you're like

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Speaker 1: that would there. If you're doing an epidural, then that

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Speaker 1: means that you've induced labor. Therefore it could be hours

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Speaker 1: like for me when I did an epidural, when I

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Speaker 1: did induced labor, then I was on my epidural and

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Speaker 1: I was in labor for twenty nine hours. So you're

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of weight time. I watched The White Lotus,

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Speaker 1: I watched of season one YEA when I had Savella,

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Speaker 1: and so you know, you're watching like you're hanging out

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Speaker 1: hours where I actually pushed. But here's my advice for

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Speaker 1: any dad's out there or partners that just want to

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Speaker 1: because that's something that I always kind of joke around

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Speaker 1: was broken. And so every time that I thought that

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Speaker 1: I was actually pushing the button for my epidural medication

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Speaker 1: to kick in, it was actually not. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: I feel like, I'm I'm still really feeling my contractions.

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Speaker 1: And he was like, are you pushing the button every time?

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Speaker 1: Run I'm like, yeah, I guess, and then to check

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Speaker 1: the button and he finally figured it out. And so

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Speaker 1: you give a button test a second, you get into

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Speaker 1: that room, figure it out. Good information. Glad this guy.

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Speaker 1: Do we know the guy? He's the guy Dave Dave

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Speaker 1: Whiteside out of Ontario, Canada. Dave Good Questions caught her

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