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Speaker 1: This is the Almost Famous podcast with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Hi everybody, Hello, mister Buck Guinea.

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Speaker 1: Hello Trista sutter.

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Speaker 2: Yay, you didn't say I.

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Speaker 1: Wanted to so bad.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to so bad, but I'm trying to respect

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Speaker 3: my friend's wishes, so I'm not going to say it.

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Speaker 2: You.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you're welcome, but welcome to the Almost Famous. Ogeez,

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Speaker 3: we are here. We are ready to go.

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Speaker 2: We are ready to go and ready to pack. To

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Speaker 2: Holly Durst, Holly Julian, we should say, she honestly, just

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Speaker 2: like Tenley, who we just had on, is one of

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Speaker 2: my all time favorites. I just adore her and she's

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Speaker 2: always so bubbly and fun, and I just wish I

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Speaker 2: lived in the same city as her. She's one of

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Speaker 2: those people that you were like, You're like, I wish

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Speaker 2: we lived in the same city because we would hang

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Speaker 2: out all the time, or at least I would want

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Speaker 2: to hang out all the time. You know, you'd want

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Speaker 2: to hang out with me, But I love her.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure she would.

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Speaker 3: You guys are that you guys are very similar personalities

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Speaker 3: as I I think because I always think you're so

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Speaker 3: bubbling and fun, so it's always great to get some

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Speaker 3: and you're right. We just had ten Lee on the show,

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Speaker 3: and my god.

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Speaker 1: She's like.

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Speaker 3: Thirty nine weeks pregnant or whatever she is, and it's

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Speaker 3: like she is just so sweet and hind and just engaging.

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Speaker 3: It's like she could be, you know, just thinking about

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Speaker 3: everything she's got going on right now, but she's not.

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Speaker 1: She's totally cool about everything. So we have had some

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Speaker 1: great guests this week, so I'm very excited to meet Holly.

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Speaker 2: Agreed, So bring Holly in.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Welcome to the almost famous Ogez Hour.

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Speaker 4: What do I owe this honor?

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Speaker 5: I mean, seriously and seriously. You are in Cambo, aren't you.

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Speaker 5: I saw your stories today.

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Speaker 4: I'm home. It took me a.

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Speaker 5: Full day to get home because Trava got messed up

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Speaker 5: and I was.

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Speaker 2: I did see that. Okay, I didn't put I'm telling that.

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Speaker 2: It's like, yes, it took you a day, right, you

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Speaker 2: had to go through three or four different cities to

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Speaker 5: Three I was supposed to go have a layover in

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Speaker 5: Dallas quickly and then get on my flight to South Carolina.

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Speaker 5: But my flight from Cabo got delayed like four hours,

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Speaker 5: and so I wasn't seeing the connecting flight and there

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Speaker 5: were no other flights, and so the only way, the

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Speaker 5: and they said six thirty pm, so a twenty eight.

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Speaker 4: Hour travel day. And I was like, there's no way.

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Speaker 4: My mom's a flight attendant. I grew up on an airplane.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm calling the airlines and I was like, okay,

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Speaker 5: I found this and they were like, oh, okay, we

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Speaker 4: They couldn't even figure it out, and I was like, okay.

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Speaker 5: So I had to go Cavo to Phoenix, Phoenix to Philadelphia,

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Speaker 1: Oh m lord.

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Speaker 4: So but I ran into.

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Speaker 2: A guy from the Bachelorette in Phoenix.

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Speaker 4: I was like, buddy, I knew.

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Speaker 5: I was like, oh my god, there's been so many

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Speaker 5: long we are everywhere.

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Speaker 1: We are, Yeah, we are everywhere. It's a very tight

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Speaker 4: Yes, we are everywhere.

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Speaker 5: It's so good to see you. It's been so long.

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Speaker 5: You look amazing as every you guys.

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Speaker 4: I am so good too.

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Speaker 3: So nice of you to include me in that. We

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Speaker 3: all know you're really saying, trestall looks beautiful as well.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, listen.

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Speaker 5: I feel like forever ago, I did some sort of

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Speaker 4: And I said, you what, thank you?

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Speaker 2: I loved you well, thank you.

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Speaker 1: That is very sweet of you. So you and my

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Speaker 1: mom I rank as their favorite. Everybody else with a barrel.

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Speaker 4: Bachelor?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Yeah, well, thank you, guys. A very

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Speaker 2: I accept your compliment. Tell us about life these days.

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Speaker 2: We know that you are a mama powd mama to

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Speaker 2: I'd love to hear how you guys chose you and Blake.

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Speaker 2: Of course you met on. Did you guys meet on

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Speaker 5: Yeah, mattyeah on and then he proposed on the finally,

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Speaker 5: So I guess technically a success story, but we kind

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Speaker 5: I know someone had done and they ranked, like People

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Speaker 5: still together, and Trista, you were obviously number one, and

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Speaker 4: I was like, what for the third longer.

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Speaker 1: Awesome, that is awesome.

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Speaker 2: And you've been married for how long?

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Speaker 5: This summer will be twelve years? So thirteen years bachelor pad.

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Speaker 5: Because we got married a year after we met.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was like, oh, hello, perfect stranger. Sure you're

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Speaker 5: all marry you. We all know that deal. But hey

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Speaker 3: and now you're well past the seven year age.

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Speaker 5: the twelve year is the hard year too? So were

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Speaker 5: we say if they say, if you can make it

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Speaker 5: by year twelve, you're you're pretty good old Yeah, you're goal.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well not yet. I still got a month.

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Speaker 2: I'll check in with you in months.

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Speaker 1: We still got time. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So yeah, Blake and I met on the show

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Speaker 5: So I always encourage people who are going through infertility.

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Speaker 4: It is worth it. So our surrogate was like cried.

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Speaker 4: And so we did it again. She got pregnant again,

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Speaker 4: So we ended up adopting Poppy seven years into infertility.

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Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, I didn't realize it was that long.

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Speaker 5: We tried, like we went, I mean, we did everything

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm gonna cry.

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Speaker 2: I got you.

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Speaker 1: I love that. And I was thinking of Princess Poppy

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Speaker 4: No excellent movie.

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Speaker 3: Well, I was gonna say, literally my favorite character on

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Speaker 1: Know, awesome, yes, of course, of course.

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Speaker 2: Such an incredible story of just persistence and faith and gosh, heartbreak.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I know so many people have struggled with infertility,

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Speaker 1: Never met you, hardly met. I'm going to marry you.

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Speaker 3: But I think it's it says so much about you guys,

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Speaker 3: and you know, I just wow, I just love I

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't love all the pain, the pain

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Speaker 2: Part, but it's worth it.

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Speaker 5: It was so worth it to go through what I

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Speaker 4: Now I can't imagine my life about them. So I'm

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Speaker 4: grateful for the infertility.

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Speaker 5: It's a strange perspective to look at looking back at

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Speaker 5: I'm like, if there's a will, there's a way. If

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Speaker 5: you want children, you can have them. You just have to,

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Speaker 5: you know, find out which way you get them. Well.

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Speaker 1: The adoption process is hard too, Yeah, I mean is it?

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Speaker 3: The adoption process also pretty challenging I mean, it takes

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Speaker 3: time and it's rough.

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Speaker 5: And it's heartbreaking, and Poppies a birth mom wrote me

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Speaker 5: through Instagram, surprisingly, and she contacted me through Instagram and

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Speaker 5: I you know, talked to her and then after she

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Speaker 5: was born, it was it was so bittersweet because you

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Speaker 5: like wanted this for so long, But then I felt

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Speaker 5: so guilty about like I felt like I took a

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Speaker 5: But I'm so close with her birth mom now that

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Speaker 5: I'm like, yes, I couldn't have asked for a better

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Speaker 1: God, I love her.

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Speaker 4: Yes, she's wonderful. I can hear her upstairs.

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Speaker 5: We talk and not as clothes, but I honestly, Knox

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Speaker 5: Which is wonderful because they say like ninety percent of

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Speaker 4: You really go through an agency to be matched up.

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Speaker 5: And then both of them wrote me through social media,

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Speaker 4: But the lawyers did.

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Speaker 2: My god, that little mermaid on your on your Jammy's

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Speaker 2: This is the right way I acting. We put the

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Speaker 4: That's all nice, but now you do it the right way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the right wing? Yeah, your favorite? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Is that what you're watching?

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Speaker 2: Heirs? H Hey have you seen the pictures of your mom?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh I kissed you.

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Speaker 5: I have lipstick all over you.

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Speaker 2: I love you guys.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 4: All right, I keep talking.

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Speaker 2: Okay, will you go finish your movie. I love Poppy Bye.

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Speaker 1: Poppy's so cute. Oh my god, is so cute.

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad she got I.

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Speaker 5: And then the next day she looked at me randomly

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Speaker 5: prayed that in your last lifetime.

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Speaker 1: Was like, oh my gosh, he.

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Speaker 4: Talks to angels all the time, just hanging around my house.

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Speaker 2: Just I mean, she had.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, yeah, tell me about it.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what's interesting about that, Holly.

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Speaker 3: So, my dad passed away in twenty twenty one, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, I love it. Sure.

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Speaker 5: I think when we're when you're younger, you don't shut

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Speaker 2: And so like you're younger, you see it all the time.

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Speaker 5: Like she'll ran family tell Blake be like, do you

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Speaker 4: So I mean the story he tells me.

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Speaker 3: I was like, all right, that's such a great response.

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Speaker 1: I'm borrowing that one from you if you don't mind.

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Speaker 4: No, take it, taking it.

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Speaker 2: We're family, all.

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Speaker 1: That's right, that's right.

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Speaker 4: We're family, crazy family.

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Speaker 2: Thinking of the Bachelor Nation family. Do you watch anymore?

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Speaker 4: I didn't want. I kept saying, I'm going to watch

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Speaker 4: Joey season.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to watch Joey season. And I'm like, cause

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Speaker 2: I thought, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Like, Joey's so cute.

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Speaker 2: I think he's adorable.

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Speaker 5: And I was like, I need to watch Joey season.

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Speaker 5: But life with two really little kids is a little,

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Speaker 3: I'm glad you didn't watch it because he probably would

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Speaker 3: have taken over as your favorite bachelor.

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Speaker 1: So I'm actually happy. I've heard nothing but great things

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Speaker 1: about him.

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Speaker 5: I'm not watching for anything from here on out.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 4: Number one.

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Speaker 1: I feel so good right now.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 2: And then Andy Dorfmann moved in the same have you

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Speaker 2: you guys seen each other?

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Speaker 4: No, So I'm.

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Speaker 5: Friends with her husband and it's so funny every yeah,

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Speaker 4: So he Okay, here's the best part.

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Speaker 5: I ran into a randomly at a bar downtown and

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Speaker 5: with saying hi, and he's like, hey, how did Blake

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Speaker 2: Because she I think she lived in LA.

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Speaker 4: And then I lived in LA.

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Speaker 5: At the time when Blake, Yeah, she actually made her

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Speaker 5: then Blake he was like, how did you get how

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Speaker 2: Then she moved here.

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Speaker 5: But so the thing is, everybody comes up and asks me, like,

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I still have at met her.

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Speaker 5: And then I guess so many people have gone up

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Speaker 1: So that's funny, you know.

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Speaker 5: Actually it's very rare that I leave my house. If

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Speaker 5: I'm leaving my house and get in on airplane. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: So otherwise, if i'm home, I'm home. I'm just like,

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Speaker 3: How far is Greenville from? Like I can google it.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure I know how far is Greenville from?

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Speaker 1: Like Orangeburg?

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Speaker 3: Where's Orangeburg in South Carolina? That's where my mom was born.

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Speaker 3: And I feel like it's got to be close to you.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why, I don't know where.

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Speaker 4: I've never heard of it.

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Speaker 4: Like three and a half hours.

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Speaker 4: So I'm in Charlotte.

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Speaker 5: And Atlanta, okay there, so I can get to either

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's a pretty good location, Trisa.

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Speaker 2: You've been here, I have. I feel like I feel

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Speaker 4: I met you downtown in Greenville.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and the shops right yes, yes, And then we

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Speaker 4: It's so cute here.

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Speaker 2: The whole street is like lit with Christmas lights all

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Speaker 5: And then we had lunch somewhere I think Columbia, South Carolina.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because that's like an hour and a half for

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Speaker 5: it's been so long.

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Speaker 2: It's been so long, and I wish back then people

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Speaker 2: because that's why we have any. Yeah, I don't think

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Speaker 4: From that day, we didn't take any.

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Speaker 2: And then I think we ran in for each other

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Speaker 2: in New York. Yes, exactly, it's right.

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Speaker 4: See you a few times, I know.

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Speaker 2: I mean over the years, I didn't know that I've

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Speaker 2: ever met Blake though maybe actually was it was? I

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Speaker 2: a judge on your season of Bachelor path Yes you

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Speaker 2: pick you picked me to win.

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Speaker 4: Also, yes you sent me.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, Trista.

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Speaker 5: I swear my brain I need to go to Blake.

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Speaker 4: Wasn't there we had.

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Speaker 2: I had already kicked Blake off because Michael and I

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Speaker 2: to me.

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00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:07,680
Speaker 1: Have you talked to it?

448
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:09,200
Speaker 2: Okay?

449
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,800
Speaker 5: So I got asked to do Michael and I had

450
00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:15,840
Speaker 5: not spoken in like ten years after that, okay, And

451
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:19,800
Speaker 5: it's like was eating me alive. After the finale every

452
00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:21,800
Speaker 5: single day, I was like, I feel so bad. All

453
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:25,640
Speaker 5: this went down, like I I don't know, I broke

454
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,120
Speaker 5: his heart and then moved away and it was engaged

455
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 5: and I'm like and then I wasn't able to be like, hey,

456
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 5: how you doing because I'm like, I have.

457
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 4: To respect Blake. This is awkward. I don't want anyway.

458
00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:39,080
Speaker 5: So we got asked to do a podcast together, and

459
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:41,720
Speaker 5: like reconcile on the body.

460
00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 2: I feel like if I remember this, I do remember

461
00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:47,360
Speaker 2: seeing it. This was like a couple of years ago,

462
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 2: a year or two ago. It was last year, okay, yeah,

463
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,479
Speaker 2: and so like we it was great. It was like

464
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm supposed to hard. He was like,

465
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,400
Speaker 2: it's okay, Holly, life happened the way it was supposed

466
00:21:58,440 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 2: to happen.

467
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,399
Speaker 5: I'm like, I know, it's been needy, me alive, Like

468
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:05,399
Speaker 5: I've had this burden for so long, and it was

469
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 5: just really nice to like talk to him and catch

470
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 5: up and stuff.

471
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:11,360
Speaker 4: So all of a sudden, awesome. Yeah.

472
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,640
Speaker 2: I bet. I bet that's hard, because I do remember

473
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 2: with the finale where I didn't Harrison say like, oh,

474
00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,479
Speaker 2: so does Michael know about you and Blake or something

475
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 2: like that.

476
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 5: Well, Blake had called the producers and said, I don't

477
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 5: want to rub this engagement in Michael's space.

478
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:30,920
Speaker 2: I don't want to air.

479
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 4: The engagement video while he's sitting there watching it.

480
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 5: And I what I should have done was call Michael

481
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 5: and be like, hey, I'm engaged. But it was like

482
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 5: Blake and I had just gotten engaged. It was so

483
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,480
Speaker 5: awkward to be like, let me call my ex right

484
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 5: now I'm engaged.

485
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 2: Hey, let's call my ex boyfriend or my ex fiancee.

486
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,119
Speaker 5: And so I was like, oh, I go. I was like,

487
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 5: I'll just talk to him when I get there. Before

488
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:54,679
Speaker 5: we go on stage. As soon as we pull in,

489
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 5: they take our phones away, and I was like, oh no.

490
00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,440
Speaker 5: So the first time I see him is on stage

491
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 5: and I was like, oh my gosh.

492
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 4: And they had.

493
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 5: Aired the engagement video and then brought Michael and I

494
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:08,359
Speaker 5: out on stage and Chris Harrison was like, congratulations Holly,

495
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 5: and I was like, and Michael's like and then he goes, Michael,

496
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 5: do you know and he was like, yeah, I heard

497
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 5: Holly's moving to South Carolina and he was like no,

498
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 5: And then everybody looks at me and I was like, oh.

499
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:26,879
Speaker 4: It was so powerful.

500
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, but Blake was like made the producers sign things

501
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,919
Speaker 5: that said we will not air this in front of Michael,

502
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 5: we won't rub it in a space, all these things.

503
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 5: But then they like found a loophole by airing it

504
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:40,160
Speaker 5: and then bringing Michael out.

505
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 2: Of course, of course drama, right.

506
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 1: They are the master manipulators, those people.

507
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:51,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, the hate mail that I got like.

508
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:54,199
Speaker 2: That, oh well, at least you didn't have social or

509
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 2: did you have social media? Back then?

510
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,679
Speaker 5: There was there was Facebook, but there wasn't Instagram.

511
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, got it.

512
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, we Tristiaan and I have often said we got

513
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,399
Speaker 3: pretty lucky during that time that when we did the

514
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,880
Speaker 3: show because there was no social media. It was bad

515
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 3: enough that the chat rooms would shred us the beds,

516
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 3: but it wasn't as easy awful.

517
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,439
Speaker 5: I didn't know about them until I was off the

518
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 5: show and people were like, don't go on and read them.

519
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 2: I was like, and I'd like, read this stuff about me?

520
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 4: I'm like, what don't they even talking?

521
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,679
Speaker 2: There's making things up about my life.

522
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 5: I'm like, I know somebody had written like oh someone

523
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 5: clearly like never worked a day in or life and

524
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 5: probably uses all daddy's money. And I was like, no,

525
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 5: just I came out of the womb, I know. I

526
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 5: was like, why are people just making things up about me?

527
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:45,439
Speaker 5: I was yeah, the back of pat I was like,

528
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 5: everyone can take a middle figure because I'm.

529
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 2: Not putting up with anybody's lives anymore. Answering. So, speaking

530
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 2: of work, I is it truly you own a tanning

531
00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 2: salon or tanning any business?

532
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 4: Amazing?

533
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 1: That's awesome.

534
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I always don't go.

535
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 4: I don't leave only that one.

536
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I spray all like the pageant girls and

537
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 5: you know all that.

538
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 4: Proms whatever we have.

539
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 2: We have a lady in our neighborhood that she built

540
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 2: in in her basement a gorgeous like tanning, like a

541
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: spray tanning salon. So you just gose like this barn

542
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 2: door and she sprays away and it is legit. I'm

543
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 2: like that is Yeah, that's amazing. I highly recommend a

544
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 2: sprat hand to everybody. Will change your life.

545
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 1: Will want it?

546
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 2: Bob, Well, have you ever had one?

547
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:48,400
Speaker 1: So I will tell you.

548
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:51,680
Speaker 3: My wife has a spray tand machine that she does

549
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 3: for herself and anyone that comes over. And every now

550
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 3: and then she'll walk over to me and she'll go,

551
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 3: come on in, you're a little pasty ith. It just

552
00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 3: spreamed me down and I feel amazing, Like I feel

553
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:06,880
Speaker 3: like ten years younger, twenty pounds later.

554
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, it makes you look like you've lost at least

555
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 4: ten pounds, which is wonderful.

556
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 1: Love.

557
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:14,360
Speaker 4: I don't go on vacation for that one.

558
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: That you you were missus South Carolina?

559
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 4: Correct?

560
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 3: And then would you had you done pageants before you've

561
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,919
Speaker 3: done pageants before then as well, right or no, that

562
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 3: was your first one?

563
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 5: I had never Yeah, somebody I judged the Miss South

564
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 5: Carolina pageant and I'm like watching.

565
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 2: This and I was like, why didn't nobody tell me

566
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 2: about pageants growing up? This is so much fun?

567
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:36,639
Speaker 5: And somebody was like, you should do the Missus. You

568
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 5: do the Missus pageant, and I was like, yeah, sign

569
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 5: me up. And then the next time I got a

570
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 5: phone call somebody had really signed.

571
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 4: Me up, and I was like, that's so cool.

572
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 2: I was joking, but then so I.

573
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 4: Was like, okay, I'll do the pageant.

574
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:49,120
Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm doing.

575
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 5: And then I won and I was like, oh, all right,

576
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 5: so now what And I had to go to Missus

577
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 5: America in Vegas and it was like it was fifty

578
00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,680
Speaker 5: one girls, and I was still I was like, I

579
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 5: don't know what I'm doing. And then all of a

580
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 5: sudden they call like the top six.

581
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 4: People and I'm in it. I was like, what, I

582
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 4: do not know what I'm doing?

583
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 2: Still not true, clearly, you know.

584
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 4: I was like, all right, So it was a good time.

585
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 2: It was fun.

586
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 4: Memory, Oh my god, that's doing if she.

587
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 5: Wants to, like she started she has a dance recital

588
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 5: coming up next month, and she's.

589
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:28,400
Speaker 2: Like, I can't wait to be on the stage.

590
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 4: Like, yes, girl, me too.

591
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 2: It's totally how Blakesley was Blakeslee. We went. It was

592
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 2: actually at Anyway, long story short, the people from So

593
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 2: You Think You Can Dance were there and they were

594
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 2: doing like a master class and I wanted to go

595
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 2: to it. And she was probably I don't know, six

596
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 2: seven something like that, and she had been dancing since

597
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 2: she was two. But we're standing in the back and

598
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 2: she's like, Mom, when are they going to get off

599
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 2: the stage because I want I want the stage.

600
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 6: And I was like, oh, it's so much fun dance, mom,

601
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:09,399
Speaker 6: I have all the tips just ca Yeah, well I

602
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,959
Speaker 6: spraystant there's the dance studio that she danced at.

603
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 5: I spraytand all the dancers for the competition. So I'm like,

604
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 5: I know what I'm getting to do. Yes, I know

605
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 5: it's coming for me.

606
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 2: If you're going to be in business for years and

607
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 2: years and years, because everyone's just going to continue to

608
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 2: come to you through the dan.

609
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 4: I've been doing it for I think seventeen years now.

610
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 4: So oh yeah. So it was funny because on my

611
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 4: seats of The Bachelor.

612
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 5: I got the first one on one date in the house,

613
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 5: and then there was a group date, so there was

614
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 5: one other girl on the show that the girl ended

615
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 5: up winning. Her and I were the only two in

616
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 5: the house because everybody was on a group date and

617
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 5: we had the two to one on ones that week.

618
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 5: And she was like, they're just laying around talking and

619
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 5: they're filming us, and she's like, I feel so pale.

620
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 5: The sun's not here's rainy. And I was like, well,

621
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 5: I packed my spraypan machine. She goes, what I like,

622
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 5: So then the next scene cuts to just me sprays

623
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 5: hand in her.

624
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 2: I was like, I love that it made the show.

625
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: That is awesome.

626
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 2: I cannot remember who was your bachelor. His name was

627
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 2: Matt Grant. Grant, yeah English him on the show.

628
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 3: Yeah really, I actually, you know, it's funny, Holly, I

629
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 3: I had you just peg to win that show with Matt.

630
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 3: It was so funny because I was still watching the

631
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 3: show pretty regularly back then, and then I actually was

632
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 3: I ran into.

633
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 7: Him, So wait, so you loved me and I love Yes,

634
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 7: it's true, it's totally true, but I was I was like,

635
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 7: I was like, there's no way, Holly doesn't win this thing.

636
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 3: But I actually kind of thought it would come down

637
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 3: to you. And it was Shane Shana, right was her name, Shanaane?

638
00:29:57,960 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, ye, Mima.

639
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 5: I thought I was gonna win too, Like I legit

640
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 5: thought I was gonna win. And like, I came home

641
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 5: off the show and I called my like job and

642
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 5: I was like, hey, I'm home, and they're like, oh,

643
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 5: we honestly thought you were just going to win the whole.

644
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 2: Thing and like get married to move away.

645
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 4: And I was like, okay. Everybody had a lot of

646
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 4: faith in me, and it didn't work.

647
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 1: Well, it didn't work.

648
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 3: I was gonna say it didn't work either way because

649
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 3: you know, Matt's back and uh across the pond without

650
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 3: anyone from the show. So I think, you know, you all,

651
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 3: you all worked out the way you're supposed to do.

652
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 5: When I was in London, he reached out. I was like, hey, buddy,

653
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 5: I'm good.

654
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: All Set, palth thanks all Set. You should google me.

655
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 5: You know. When I was on the show, I had

656
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 5: like short blonde hair and I was like, first of all,

657
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 5: that was a mistake, but.

658
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 2: You don't wish you had that hairstyle anymore.

659
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 4: When I was just in Como.

660
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 5: Everyone pulled up my bachelor picture and they were they

661
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 5: sent it in the group chow with all the there's

662
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 5: like twenty of us girls and they sent it and

663
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 5: there I was like, okay, I look like a news anchor.

664
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 4: This is just bad. It was all bad.

665
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 2: I look way better now in my forties than I

666
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 2: do in my twenties.

667
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: Looking up, I'm gonna try and find this picture.

668
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 2: He's looking it up probably anymore.

669
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 4: That was yes, totally that.

670
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 8: Oh you were so cute then too well, at least

671
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 8: you don't have Everyone thought I had a perm like

672
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 8: an Oglivie Home perm on the show, because when my

673
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 8: hair gets a little longer, it just curls up like crazy.

674
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 3: And it was it was hot and humid there in Malibu,

675
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 3: and let's just say that, you know, my product wasn't

676
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 3: holding the wage.

677
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 4: I get to the curls.

678
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 2: Okay, I had to be it the curls. It was

679
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 2: the curls.

680
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 1: That's why trist To cut me around so long. Yeah,

681
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: it wasn't you know.

682
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 3: She was like, I just can't get enough of those girls.

683
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 3: So Trista, I need to tell this story. I don't

684
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 3: know why, but Holly, I think will really appreciate it.

685
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 3: Trista and I were in Tahoe. I've told this show

686
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 3: this story like one hundred times in the show, and

687
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 3: Trista has caught me so off guard with this. So,

688
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 3: you know, I love Trista and Ryan so much. And

689
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 3: Ryan is just the salt of the earth, like the

690
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 3: greatest man that's ever lived.

691
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: And then Max is just to their son's just really

692
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 1: quiet and he's playing on his phone and stuff.

693
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 3: And Trista, I don't know if she did it to

694
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 3: get me, to get my goat or to get Max's,

695
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 3: but she's like, Max, this is Bob.

696
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 1: He's my ex boyfriend. And then she like walks away,

697
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 1: and I'm like, what he Max?

698
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 5: You know?

699
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 1: Ps, Max didn't even hear it. I don't think he cared.

700
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 1: Max is like, oh, hey, what's up.

701
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 3: I'm playing I'm playing Call of Duty here.

702
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: He could care less.

703
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 3: Trista's just laughing, and I'm like, ah, this woman she

704
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 3: gets me every time, you know what.

705
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 2: I just feel like I call think it. I find

706
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 2: humor in life and just the silly life is all about,

707
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 2: you know. So I think my life's a joke.

708
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:18,720
Speaker 1: Has to be. It has to be so.

709
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 5: Why not just call it out, call a Spade's babe.

710
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 5: He's like, so Bob was on your season? Yeah, then

711
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 5: you went, Okay, I don't remember much, but.

712
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 1: So Trista.

713
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 3: Trista is the fairy godmother of the show, and I'm

714
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 3: the great great great grandfather of the show.

715
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

716
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 5: So people all the time were like, when were you

717
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 5: on the show to me?

718
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 4: And I'm like, okay.

719
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 2: Back in nineteen eighty two, there was a little program.

720
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: It was in black and white, you might remember it.

721
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 2: I joke around all the time.

722
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 4: I like Instagram wasn't around.

723
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh you are you are a true oh g yeah,

724
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 5: that's what I just said to the guy on that

725
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 5: was on Hannah Brown season and he's on Best Friend

726
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 5: Paradise that I was looking at him in the airport

727
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 5: and I.

728
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 2: Was like, I know this guy.

729
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 4: I know him.

730
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:04,959
Speaker 1: I remember.

731
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 2: I think his name is Connor.

732
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 5: I was like Connor and then yes, Connor from Hannah

733
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 5: Brown season. Yes, I am like, I'm attracted to guy's

734
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 5: noses weird.

735
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 4: But I was like, I remember this.

736
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 7: Nostril I remember, and I.

737
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 5: Was like, I was like, I know, I know him,

738
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 5: and like I kept looking at him and then he

739
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 5: caught me a couple of times.

740
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 4: And I was like, oh shit. I was like okay.

741
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 2: So then I was like, I don't know if it's

742
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 2: for sure him. I'm not going to walk up to

743
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 2: a guy and be like, hey, right, what's your name?

744
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 4: So I was like okay.

745
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 5: So I googled Connor from the Bacheloreat and then his

746
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 5: Instagram popped up and I was like, okay, I found

747
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,800
Speaker 5: his Instagram. But he hasn't posted in a really long time.

748
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: Is this guy.

749
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 2: Can't see it? Come back?

750
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 4: You you not on my screen?

751
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: Oh I'm not okay, I'll talk.

752
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 3: So I am.

753
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 1: Is that scoop back barely scoop?

754
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:11,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're out of focus. That's yes, that's him.

755
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 1: That's him. He does have a fine nostril.

756
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 2: He has a fine nostril.

757
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's another picture of his nostril.

758
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 2: Sod okay, but that's him. I read. I recognized the

759
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 2: shadow of the shape of anyway. I know, honestly, there's

760
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 2: so many of us that I feel like, you just

761
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 2: you can You're going.

762
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 4: To run into somebody, go out of your house.

763
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:38,879
Speaker 1: Yeah.

764
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 5: I could have walked up to him and I was like, Hi,

765
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 5: what's your name? And he was like, uh, Connor and

766
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 5: I was like, Hi, Connor, I'm Holly. I was also

767
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 5: on the show, and he was like oh, And then

768
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 5: we just talked for like twenty minutes. And then I

769
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 5: was like telling him about how Blake and I were

770
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 5: on Bachelor Pad and I was like, Bachelor Pad was

771
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 5: what was before Bachelor Paradise.

772
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 2: People went on to win money.

773
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:05,959
Speaker 1: Like and then.

774
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 5: Happened to propose in the end, and they were probably like,

775
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 5: we should probably do another show where people don't We

776
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 5: don't give anybody money.

777
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 4: We just get rings at the end.

778
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,760
Speaker 2: So I think I think in Paradise started.

779
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 3: When you when you walked away with a sack of cash.

780
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 3: They're like, we're going to figure out how to make

781
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:25,760
Speaker 3: this cheaper.

782
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 5: I want to way with the ring and the money.

783
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 5: I really am when we're our chicken dinner and we're

784
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 5: the only couple to ever we're the only married couple

785
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 5: from Bachelor Pad, So that's awesome.

786
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 2: It's amazing. It's hard to be that it's been that long.

787
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 2: I feel like they're going to bring it back. I

788
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 2: actually wonder like some kind of I want to challenge

789
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 2: and it's like Big Brother people and MTV people and

790
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 2: you know all of all kinds of show people, and

791
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:08,240
Speaker 2: I feel like they definitely, like I love the challenge

792
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 2: part of it, the like physical stuff, and they don't

793
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 2: have anything like that in the Bachelor world, so they

794
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 2: definitely should. I think it would be really fun. I

795
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 2: loved Bachelor Pad.

796
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 1: I thought I did too, so.

797
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 4: Good and so fun to watch, and I love the lungeon.

798
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, they're all good.

799
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 3: They were, and they were lighthearted too, Like for the

800
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 3: most part, it was like lighthearted and fun, and like

801
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:32,959
Speaker 3: I thought, I loved that show.

802
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 1: In fact, I think I told Trista this story.

803
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 3: But when I got a call from producers and they

804
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 3: were like, you know, we want you to to do

805
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 3: Bachelor Pad and I was like to host it, and

806
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 3: they're like, no, to go on it.

807
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh no, no, no. I'm like I

808
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 1: would get killed on that show. And they're like, what

809
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: do you mean.

810
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, so it's like Survivor meets the Bachelor, and

811
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,239
Speaker 3: they're like yeah, I go, yeah, I would be the

812
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 3: one thinking everyone's my best friend when they're all plotting

813
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 3: against me to vote me off and extinguish my flame.

814
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:03,359
Speaker 3: I'm like, I can't do it. I go because I'll

815
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 3: get I'll get two ass chapter over.

816
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 2: You're telling me you turned it down, and now we

817
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 2: could have been married.

818
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 1: It could have been us. Oh my god, look at that.

819
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 1: Oh oh good thing.

820
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,879
Speaker 3: My life's not in the room anymore, because that would

821
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 3: have been devastating. She she would uh, she would kill

822
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 3: me right now, is going to be like, she'd be like, no,

823
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 3: she would say, Holly, take him nobody, she says all

824
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 3: the time. She's always like, oh, he's the life of

825
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 3: the party until you get home. It's really fun till

826
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 3: you marry it. That's her favorite.

827
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 2: That's me.

828
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 5: I'm a very extroverted person when I'm out and then

829
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:39,399
Speaker 5: I come inside and it's like.

830
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have no talk Sundays, And it's not easy

831
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 1: to do that with five year old and two year old,

832
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 1: but I try. I used to have.

833
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 4: Oh so we're on the same boat.

834
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 2: I have a one year old and a four year old.

835
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 2: We are very similar.

836
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 4: Rough right now.

837
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're going through it, definitely. Yeah, trist is on

838
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 3: the other side, just as uh, Tris is dealing with

839
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 3: you now though. So she's got her own set of challenges.

840
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:02,959
Speaker 4: Yeah.

841
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, like bigger, older kids bigger problems.

842
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 2: They're just like you know, I mean, you're in it.

843
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 2: I'm not taking anything away from either of you, but

844
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 2: it is a different like kind of chaos.

845
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're just being fully relied on.

846
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, which is kind of sweet.

847
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 4: Be so happy you don't have to wipe the butt anymore.

848
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, totally sometimes.

849
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, took the words right out of my mouth.

850
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say that.

851
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 3: I was gonna go, well, you know, we are getting

852
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 3: to that age.

853
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 2: Sooner even later.

854
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 3: You know, let's not throw out the diapers, because you know,

855
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 3: you never know, you never know.

856
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:47,839
Speaker 1: I'm getting up there.

857
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Holly, I love you. I'm so glad

858
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,919
Speaker 2: we got to connect again, and we got to real

859
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 2: lies the misconnection with Bob and Holly over the.

860
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 1: Twenty years ago.

861
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:09,319
Speaker 4: Who knew in our next lifetime?

862
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, or like I was just going to say that,

863
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 5: you were talking about Poppy and you being sisters.

864
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,920
Speaker 2: I feel like you and Bob we were married at

865
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 2: some point. Maybe we'd be married in our last life.

866
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 3: You know, I've been married so many times, maybe even

867
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 3: in this life. I kind of lost track.

868
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:28,240
Speaker 4: How many times have you ever married?

869
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:32,320
Speaker 1: Well, you know, we uh we at least.

870
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 4: My wife always says, I'm interviewing you now.

871
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 1: No, it's okay.

872
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,920
Speaker 3: Well, so I got married and divorced in my twenties

873
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 3: in a year, and so my wife that one could

874
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 3: have been technically an anulman.

875
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 1: I suppose that my wife ish. Yeah, but my wife.

876
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,879
Speaker 3: Always says, well third times the term you were waiting

877
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 3: for me to graduate high school.

878
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 1: And I said, okay, that's good.

879
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 4: Oh so she's a spring chicken.

880
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 1: No, well, yes, I.

881
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 3: Mean she's she's just turned forty, so yeah, she's uh,

882
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 3: she's same time birthday.

883
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:03,359
Speaker 2: I'm only a year older.

884
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 3: Than Yeah, you're I was just I just when I

885
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 3: looked at that picture of you, I saw your birthday

886
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 3: is January thirteenth.

887
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:09,840
Speaker 1: My wife is January nineteenth.

888
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 4: Oh so you is she a Capricorn or aquarius?

889
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 1: She's a Capricorn, all of it.

890
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:16,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, me too.

891
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that it takes. And this is where I say,

892
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 1: how you.

893
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 2: Guys continue to talk. Have a great night.

894
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 1: You've been really wonderful. Thank you.

895
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:27,240
Speaker 4: No birthday.

896
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 3: I think the Capricorns are a tough uh tough women,

897
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 3: like in a good way, like you know. So she

898
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:36,800
Speaker 3: always says, she's always like I could I couldn't be

899
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 3: with anybody else you know how to manage me.

900
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well that's I go. Managing is not

901
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 1: the right word. I go.

902
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 3: I think it's more like when I think when everyone

903
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,240
Speaker 3: else would think you're mad at me, I giggle.

904
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 1: And that's just that's how I handle stuff.

905
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:50,800
Speaker 3: Like She'll be like, she'll say something I'm not a

906
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 3: go oh okay, and then like an hour later, she'll

907
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 3: be like, thank you for not you know, taking me

908
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,839
Speaker 3: seriously an hour ago, because I really actually was mad

909
00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 3: at you.

910
00:41:58,920 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

911
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 5: I always tell Blake because he'll I'll be like, i'll

912
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 5: like complain about something, and he will give me solutions

913
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 5: and I'm like, no, no, no, no, I'm.

914
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 4: Trying to teach you. I don't want solutions. I just

915
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:12,880
Speaker 4: want you to listen to me when I need to

916
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 4: complain about something. So now I'll be like mm hmmm.

917
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:18,839
Speaker 5: Because he is very type A and has to have

918
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 5: like if I'm complaining about something, he'll be like, here,

919
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:22,799
Speaker 5: here's this way you gotta do.

920
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 4: But I don't. I don't want that. I just I

921
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 4: need to just get off of my test and let

922
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:27,359
Speaker 4: him listen.

923
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm a fixer too, so it was a tough

924
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:34,359
Speaker 3: adjustment for me to to just listen, but I try

925
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 3: my best. Now, Like when when Canyon's gone off, I'll

926
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 3: just go okay, and then like an hour later, she'll go,

927
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 3: I mean, are.

928
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 1: You even listening? And I'm like, well, yeah, but you

929
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 1: don't want me to tell you what I would do.

930
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is great advice that I recently heard about teenagers,

931
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:57,959
Speaker 2: and it goes for relationships too. But as your kids

932
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 2: get older, I'm sure you could use this even you know,

933
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:04,360
Speaker 2: coming up soon is just do you need a hug

934
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 2: or do you need help?

935
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 9: For you say it all the time, right, that's really

936
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 9: good anytime else crying and like having a meltdown, I

937
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 9: get down on my knees and I open my arms

938
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 9: and I say do you need a hug?

939
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:19,839
Speaker 4: And she will, I.

940
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 5: Would say ninety five percent of the time, just come

941
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 5: into my arms.

942
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 4: And then like I'll be like, let's let's take some

943
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 4: breath together, and so we'll like breathe together.

944
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 5: And I mean, it's all they want is like a

945
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 5: connection somehow.

946
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 2: You know. I'm like, she doesn't need to talk, she

947
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 2: just wants a hug.

948
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so sweet. I need to do that.

949
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 5: You are.

950
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 2: I wanted to be one for so long? So well

951
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,279
Speaker 2: me too, Really, why do I really just spend the

952
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 2: struggle for as long? Just a couple of years for me.

953
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 2: But I felt the same way. But once you have

954
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 2: the babies in hand, like I feel.

955
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 5: Like I appreciate all, like the really little things way more.

956
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 4: I remember folding her laundry one time and I'm.

957
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 5: Just bawling my eyes out because i was like, I

958
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:08,439
Speaker 5: couldn't wait to fold baby clothes. And I'm like, I'm

959
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 5: doing my laundry. Other people would be like, oh, I'm

960
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 5: doing my laundry, but I'm like, yeah, I get to

961
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 5: fold baby clothes, Like this is incredible. So I always

962
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:19,320
Speaker 5: says sweet, all the little things.

963
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I kind of.

964
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 3: Think I'm like that too, because I'm an older dad.

965
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 3: You know, I didn't we didn't have our first child.

966
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 3: I was forty seven, almost forty eight, and so, you know,

967
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 3: from a dad perspective, I was kind of getting up there.

968
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 3: And I feel that way sometimes too, Like I'll see

969
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 3: some stuff and my and my buddies will be like.

970
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: Well, hey, we're all gonna go you know, golf, We're

971
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: gonna go do this. You wanna come with us?

972
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,319
Speaker 3: I'm like, no, I'm good, And it's not that I

973
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 3: don't want to do those things.

974
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 1: It's just that I'm trying to remember, you know.

975
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 3: I see it a little bit differently now where I'm like,

976
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 3: I can always go golfing, you know, but he needs

977
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:52,879
Speaker 3: me right now and.

978
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 2: We like that.

979
00:44:54,520 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 4: To my husband, it does not have that.

980
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 1: Oh well, he's much younger than me.

981
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 2: He's gone this whole week. He's at the Masters this

982
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 2: whole week.

983
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 3: Okay, can't be grudge that. That's amazing. I would have

984
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 3: been with him if I had.

985
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:14,839
Speaker 5: So I went to Cabo for four days and then

986
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 5: I came home and he went to the Masters.

987
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 4: This whole week.

988
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 2: So I'm like, amazing in the night chips in the night.

989
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 5: Literally, I didn't see him because I got delayed and

990
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 5: didn't get home in time. So I had to have

991
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:29,279
Speaker 5: a baby come be with the kids until I can

992
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 5: get home because he had already had to get the roach.

993
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 4: I was like, I guess i'll see you on Friday.

994
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 4: I haven't seen it last Friday.

995
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: We haven't even talked about your children's books. Oh and

996
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:42,840
Speaker 1: we need to.

997
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:48,800
Speaker 4: Okay, I have a children's book called Did I It

998
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 4: to You?

999
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 2: Kristen, Yes, I have one. I wish I could find

1000
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:58,399
Speaker 2: it now, but we're saying I will send one to you.

1001
00:45:58,440 --> 00:45:58,720
Speaker 3: Bob.

1002
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,359
Speaker 1: I was going to say thank you. Trista gets all

1003
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 1: the goodies. No one sends me. Everyone Trista, did you

1004
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 1: enjoy the Golden wedding? She's like, I do, but how

1005
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 1: did you have a good time? I'm like, I didn't give.

1006
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 4: Me your address?

1007
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 2: Everyone, well everyone.

1008
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 1: My mom already knows that she's the only one listening,

1009
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 1: so she'll know she'll be over.

1010
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 5: I was like somebody, I'm like friends with some of

1011
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 5: the producers and stuff on Facebook and everyone's posting all

1012
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 5: these behind the scenes pictures from the Golden bachlun and

1013
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 5: I was like, hey, guys, I think you uh forgot

1014
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 5: over here.

1015
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 1: Another success story not in that invited.

1016
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 5: Yeah, we got invited to Jade Tanner's wedding, which I

1017
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 5: think was maybe one of the last ones, but there

1018
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:52,760
Speaker 5: was a huge snowstorm that day all the flights got canceled,

1019
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 5: so we didn't end up making it to that.

1020
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 2: So I was like, they think that we hate them, Well,

1021
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 2: Blake still don't hate but.

1022
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:04,800
Speaker 1: I'm good they think that we hate him, and they're right. Ham.

1023
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 5: You know, Blake held onto the anger for a long

1024
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 5: time after what they did to Michael, So yeah, yeah.

1025
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 3: That's nice of him though, to have that kind of

1026
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 3: you know, I think that's actually a redeeming quality, you know.

1027
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:19,920
Speaker 1: I mean, he's protective of his friend, I get it.

1028
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 2: Yeah that's tough.

1029
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: Even though he you know, married his friend's ex. Yeah.

1030
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 2: No, they were never friends. So they were friends, but Blake.

1031
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,359
Speaker 5: Got made out to be the villain on Bachelor Pad,

1032
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 5: which we don't know editing, and Blake is just very blunt,

1033
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 5: and so they took that bluntness and ran with it.

1034
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 5: I was like, oh, this is not going to go

1035
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 5: well for you, and then it made me look like,

1036
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 5: oh I left America's sweetheart guy and then went with

1037
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 5: this awful man.

1038
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 4: Right. Totally was like this.

1039
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 5: Is awful, But everyone who meets him was like, oh

1040
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:02,919
Speaker 5: my god, Blake is so nice.

1041
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 4: So I'm like, yeah he is. It was the show, Yeah, yes, exactly.

1042
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 5: All right.

1043
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 1: Chocolate socks. Why do you tell everyone what it's about

1044
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 1: and where they can get it?

1045
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:24,400
Speaker 2: They can just message me and get it.

1046
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 5: It's a children's a book about my two favorite things,

1047
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 5: chocolate and socks. And I think it was I was

1048
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 5: dating a guy way back in the day when I

1049
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 5: lived in LA and he for six month anniversary got

1050
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 5: me a box of chocolates and a pack of socks,

1051
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 5: and he was like and he gave it to me,

1052
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 5: and I was so excited because I love both of

1053
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 5: those and I was like, and.

1054
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 4: I thought, that's the cutest thing for a book, and

1055
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 4: so I just grabbed my.

1056
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 2: Laptop and I started writing.

1057
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,840
Speaker 5: And then the rest is history.

1058
00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 4: I've written a ton of books. I just never published

1059
00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:59,879
Speaker 4: the rest of them. I just was the book.

1060
00:48:59,880 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 2: I was like, you should something.

1061
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 5: You just told me about digital books like that you

1062
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:09,919
Speaker 5: could download for kids to read, and I was like, oh,

1063
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:10,759
Speaker 5: I should.

1064
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:13,800
Speaker 4: Just make them all digital books from here on. I

1065
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,319
Speaker 4: want to have them now that I'm like, I have

1066
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 4: rooms of books here.

1067
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 1: So that's that's a really good idea to do a

1068
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:22,720
Speaker 1: digital book.

1069
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 2: But you don't have rooms of books of books that

1070
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 2: you wrote and your kids can like, say, my mom

1071
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:30,360
Speaker 2: wrote this book.

1072
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 4: You know it is sweet to read.

1073
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 5: Chocolate Talks to Poppy And at the end she's like,

1074
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 5: this is your picture, mom, And I was like, I

1075
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 5: know it's bad.

1076
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:38,920
Speaker 4: I didn't have a lot of makeup on it. My

1077
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 4: eyebrows were tragic in the picture. But yeah, go after.

1078
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 2: The puhop was taken, Okay, Okay, Well, then that's even

1079
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 2: more motivation to write another one.

1080
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, that part of me is like wants to just

1081
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 5: draw some eyebrows on.

1082
00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 4: The picture.

1083
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 1: Every book.

1084
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 5: Great friend that I had at the time that got me,

1085
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:09,399
Speaker 5: that made me write chocolate Socks. He randomly reached out

1086
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 5: to me a few months ago. I'm not going to

1087
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 5: say his name because he's well known as well. And

1088
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 5: he reached out and said, I just want to thank

1089
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 5: you for being such a joyful person.

1090
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 4: And he was like, not a lot of people wake

1091
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 4: up happy.

1092
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 5: And he was like, you woke up happy every single day,

1093
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:32,240
Speaker 5: and you like you were just so full of joy

1094
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 5: and happiness, and like you made we had such a

1095
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 5: wonderful relationship and I just want to say thank you

1096
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:37,759
Speaker 5: for that.

1097
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 4: And I was just like wow, hey, wow, that was

1098
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 4: It was.

1099
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 5: Just random and it was so nice and I was

1100
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,359
Speaker 5: kind here and I was like, oh, because but if

1101
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:48,919
Speaker 5: we wouldn't have broken up, the wave broke up.

1102
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:52,400
Speaker 4: My whole life stemmed from our breakup. So it was

1103
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 4: like such a thing because.

1104
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 5: We got we broke up and three weeks later, I

1105
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:00,040
Speaker 5: got asked to go.

1106
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 2: On The Bachelor. Oh my gosh.

1107
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 5: So I always like look back at my life and

1108
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:07,399
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, I thought I was going to marry

1109
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 5: this guy.

1110
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 4: I was like, very much in love with him, and

1111
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 4: then we it was a.

1112
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 5: A very tragic, hard breakup, like immediate breakup, and I

1113
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 5: was like, Okay, it wasn't like, oh, you know, let's

1114
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 5: take a break, because I would have went back to him,

1115
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 5: just like not good thing happened and we broke up

1116
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 5: like quick. And so I was walking down the street

1117
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 5: three weeks later and someone came up to me and said,

1118
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 5: have you seen The Bachelor before?

1119
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 4: And I was like, yeah, I know, you know, and

1120
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:37,359
Speaker 4: they said, do you want to be on it?

1121
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,400
Speaker 2: And I was like sure.

1122
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 5: At this point, I was like I have nothing left

1123
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 5: to lose. I was still very heartbroken, and I thought,

1124
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:49,919
Speaker 5: you know what, this will help me get my mind

1125
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:50,359
Speaker 5: off of this.

1126
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and.

1127
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:55,359
Speaker 4: I go on the show.

1128
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:57,759
Speaker 5: I didn't think it was like I got asked to

1129
00:51:57,800 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 5: be on The Bachelor on a Tuesday, and by the

1130
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,439
Speaker 5: fall following Tuesday, I was through night one moved into

1131
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:02,840
Speaker 5: the house.

1132
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:06,360
Speaker 4: So it was it happened really fast.

1133
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 5: And so I was like moved in and then I

1134
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 5: didn't believe I was on the show still because like

1135
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 5: that was the time of like Joe Millionaire was on

1136
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 5: and I was like, ah, they tricked all those girls

1137
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 5: for that. So I'm in the house and I'm like,

1138
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,400
Speaker 5: this isn't real. And then Chris Harrison walked in with

1139
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 5: like the first Impression Rods.

1140
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I'm on the bed. Oh my god,

1141
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 4: this is real.

1142
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:37,800
Speaker 5: But the weird thing is I so Chris had another

1143
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:41,640
Speaker 5: job and worked with my ex boyfriend that I just

1144
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 5: and I saw Chris and I was like, I hope

1145
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:45,480
Speaker 5: he does not know.

1146
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 4: Remember this.

1147
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 5: So I was like wow, anyway, all I'm so grateful

1148
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:55,839
Speaker 5: because because I went on the show, I ended up

1149
00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 5: like beating Michael and you know, engaged, and then when

1150
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 5: the engagement broke up, they asked us both to go

1151
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,200
Speaker 5: on Bachelor Pad and then because of that, I'm at

1152
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 5: blake and.

1153
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,720
Speaker 2: Then you know, now it was just like my.

1154
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 5: Life happened and the exact way it happened so that

1155
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 5: I could be here right now.

1156
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:14,799
Speaker 1: That's it. That's exactly it.

1157
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:15,400
Speaker 2: I know.

1158
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:17,879
Speaker 5: I look back and I'm like, people should really stop

1159
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 5: stressing about their life because it's going to go.

1160
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 4: It's going to go in a good direction. It's going

1161
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 4: to go the way it's intended to go.

1162
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, amen, that is a great attitude.

1163
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 5: I love it too, ago, but it was such a

1164
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 5: pleasure always.

1165
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, so nice to finally meet you.

1166
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:47,760
Speaker 1: Yes, you doo, and I can't wait.

1167
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 5: To Yeah, I'm going to tape a new picture over

1168
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 5: top of the old picture.

1169
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 2: Yes you are, That will be perfect. No, what you

1170
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:58,880
Speaker 2: need to do is take a picture of you and

1171
00:53:58,960 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 2: Bob next to each other.

1172
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 4: Oh, I'll photoshop something.

1173
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:07,160
Speaker 1: I'll do a hotelt. You just tell me which way

1174
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 1: to do it.

1175
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:08,920
Speaker 4: Okay.

1176
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 1: It was so great finally meeting you and getting to

1177
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:11,920
Speaker 1: talk to you.

1178
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 3: Have such a great attitude. Thank you so much for

1179
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 3: being on Almost Famous the Ogs.

1180
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:17,919
Speaker 2: Of course, thank you for having me.

1181
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:19,200
Speaker 1: We loved it.

1182
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 5: I love you all right, Bye bye bye