1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: My brother divorced my cheating ex sister in law, so 2 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:03,400 Speaker 1: she egged my truck. 3 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 2: Part six. Are we ready for the too? He already 4 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 2: get caught out? 5 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: Okay, Op was the ugly duckling in the family. Cast 6 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: him out. Brother was a favorite. Ended up leaving right 7 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: after high school. Years down the road, he was homeless. 8 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: Parents wouldn't help him, laughed at him, built himself back up, 9 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: picked himself up by his bootstraps, ended up buying a 10 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: home from being homeless, basically unhoused. Then parents tried to 11 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 1: break in and basically stealed and squat. 12 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: In the house. Didn't let it happen. 13 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: They tried to ambush Christmas. Didn't let it happen, and 14 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 1: then one more time they had a dinner meeting. Didn't 15 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 1: let it happen. He made sure that he kept all 16 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: of his assets and money. Then plot twist, the evil 17 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: sister in law's brother's wife ended up cheating and having 18 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: a kid with him that wasn't his, so they get divorced. 19 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: The affair partner ends up leaving the sister in law. 20 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: She spirals and goes crazy, but then the family comes 21 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: back and apologizes. They build bunds it seems to be 22 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: all going well, like basically everything on the up and up. 23 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: Now the sisters egged the car and possibly something dramatically worse. 24 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 2: That is where we're at. 25 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 1: Getting an update now, getting an update now, and maybe 26 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: we'll come to full forgiveness. 27 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 2: But we'll see. So update. 28 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 1: I asked around with some people on the street about 29 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: cameras possibly seeing the person who egged my car. The 30 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: responses ranged from we don't have cameras too, it was 31 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,279 Speaker 1: Halloween and people pull stupid pranks. 32 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:21,479 Speaker 2: Let it go, not op. 33 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: The few people who were helpful told me that I 34 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: waited way too long. 35 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 2: To ask and the footage auto deleted. 36 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: Basically, the egger got away, But if it was sister 37 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: in law, I'm guessing she would have to walk around 38 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: half a mile in those sweats just to not get 39 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: her car spotted on camera or something. It wouldn't surprise 40 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 1: me if she questioned if it was worth the effort. 41 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: Oh well, I guess I'll wait to see if the 42 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 1: egger comes back next year and there is an update 43 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: so we know there's more. I did hand out printed 44 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: pictures of the egger though, and even stapled up a 45 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 1: few posts. 46 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 2: So now people in my neighborhood are aware. 47 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 1: At least attendants renting out two rooms in my house 48 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: have stayed out of it, and I don't really blame them. 49 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: It's not their problem. We have another update coming up 50 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: while Riley's doing that. Sophia, it's me. 51 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 3: What's your question? 52 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 2: You know, usually I have a real question, you know 53 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. 54 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 3: Do you have a fake question? 55 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: Maybe I have a fake red herring question of do 56 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: we think that the sister in law will actually. 57 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 2: Go further off the deep end here? 58 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 3: I don't know. 59 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm kind of changing my tune. 60 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 3: You don't think she will? 61 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 2: I believe that more so now I think she will. 62 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 3: I think after an egging, I think it's only downhill. 63 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 2: That is true. 64 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 1: Like, is it kind of the thing where she's like, Okay, 65 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: I can't do any of the real crazy stuff anymore, 66 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: like try to take the house, So I'll just stick 67 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: to my egging and maybe some throw up some private 68 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:37,239 Speaker 1: Facebook posts. 69 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:38,519 Speaker 3: But the house. 70 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, is she kind of like cornered in you. 71 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 3: Know, maybe maybe there's not anything crazy crazy how it 72 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 3: gonna happen, But just like. 73 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: Little she keeps going, but she is crazy though, crazy, 74 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:51,119 Speaker 1: Like what if she just doesn't care, which she never 75 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: she never cared in the past. I thought going into 76 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: this spart six, this final episode of the series, that 77 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 1: she would kind of get more intense, But I don't know. 78 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 1: After reading ramping Down, you think it feels like a 79 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: ramp down to it feels. 80 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 3: Like we went from attacking people to egging their house. 81 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 2: Kind of let down, right, yeah, you know, like at 82 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 2: least deliver. 83 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 1: You're supposed to be the prime, the surprise, prime villain, 84 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 1: main villain in the series. 85 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,399 Speaker 4: But maybe she's learned from going to jail. 86 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 3: Or she's again luring them into a false sense of security. 87 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 2: This is true. And then the rest that we haven't 88 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,079 Speaker 2: even talked about the rest of the family. 89 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 3: OPI goes outside to like go, you know, check out 90 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 3: the eight car. She runs into his house, moves in. 91 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: A that that is a great plot to Oh my 92 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: god update Dan returned to my camper, But I've also 93 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: got a copycat that is stirring up drama and remind 94 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: her the camper that Dan you used to ridicule OPI 95 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: about op has leant back to him. So to start 96 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: this off, I came back after all this time to 97 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: find five hundred messages in my inbox and one hundred 98 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: and thirty unanswered personal messages. Please don't personal message me anymore. 99 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: There's just too many to answer. So if you PM 100 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: to me and I clicked ignore, I'm sorry. Just know 101 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 1: that's why it's not personal. Even though it's a personal message. 102 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: I just felt too overwhelmed to apply to so many. 103 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: But that's not what brought me back to Reddit. What 104 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: brought you back, ladies and gentlemen. I decided to stay 105 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: away least a year because my posts we're not exactly 106 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: boosting family were out. 107 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 3: You know what, why appease the real a whole of 108 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 3: this story? 109 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 2: Oh talk to me. 110 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 3: He wasn't doing it on TikTok. He could have been 111 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 3: monetizing this the whole time, making his family a bunch 112 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 3: of money, doing whole, like long parts of each story. 113 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 3: He doesn't even like. He could take it from Reddit 114 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 3: and then literally he doesn't even have to talk. He 115 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 3: could just have Minecraft playing in the background. 116 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, like AI voice, maybe get maybe get 117 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 1: his own animator of his own animated here. 118 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 3: And like the whole thing is just called just do 119 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,720 Speaker 3: it for Dan. That's old. That is like the only 120 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 3: thing this TikTok does it just talks about his life. 121 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 1: So Opie says. I didn't log in for quite some time. 122 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 1: But the other day my brother Dan spotted a video 123 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: which was unbelievably similar to mine in far too many ways. 124 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: Only it was about an ope with a twin sister 125 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: instead of sister in law, but it had so much 126 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: of the same stuff in there. Entitled Narcissistic Parents, guy 127 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: treated like crap all his life and then rendered homeless 128 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: golden child sibling, keeping the favoritism a closely guarded secret 129 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: for family while the Opie was growing up. Sister still 130 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: in her twenties, has three kids and was pregnant with 131 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: the fourth sister's eldest son, a tax Opie, and above all, 132 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: all of them trying to steal Opie's house by breaking 133 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: in while he wasn't home. So many parts were nearly identical. 134 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 1: Even two lines like suck it up and my house 135 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: is not up for grabs were in the video. Are 136 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: we now getting into like a content creator beef? 137 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 3: I think, wow, this is what I wanted. 138 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:48,359 Speaker 4: Curve ball because you can monetize it on Reddit. But 139 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 4: if you would say, if you do what this person 140 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:54,359 Speaker 4: is doing and you're getting views which didn't diversifying like 141 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 4: their content. 142 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: Come on, man, well, my parents and brother are frankly pissed, 143 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 1: and I wasn't happy the video either. We've all been 144 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: trying hard to get past a previous family drama and 145 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: what existern law put us all through. You can imagine 146 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: it took a lot for me to let go of 147 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: my grudges. Absolutely, but in a year, my parents and 148 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: Dan have im proved more than I'd seen in my 149 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 1: entire life before that. And I love my nibblings to pieces. 150 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 1: Is that that's like an actual word for like the 151 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:21,720 Speaker 1: nephews and nieces? 152 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 3: Right? 153 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so whoever wrote that copycat story, congratulations, you've 154 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 1: just sent my therapy. You've you've just sent my therapy 155 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: right back to family. You've just sent my family right 156 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 1: back to therapy buttud dude, right, and yes, my family 157 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:39,839 Speaker 1: is aware that I'm making this post now without rant over. 158 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 2: Here's what I hope to be my final update. But Riley, 159 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 2: it's not right. 160 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 4: Uh this? And then he has like some relevant comments. 161 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 3: Okay, stuff, final update. 162 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: Now for what was stated in the title, I had 163 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: a few naysayers before, but Dan kept his word My 164 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:57,040 Speaker 1: camper was returned to me a few months ago and 165 00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: in good condition, so less than a year's and a 166 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: good condition. Dan took good care of it, thoroughly cleaned 167 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: it before giving back. He and our father also resealed 168 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 1: the roof on it once while it was in their care. Inside, 169 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: it's no worse for aware than it was when I 170 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 1: was living in it. Only I got it back to 171 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: smelling like pine cleaner. W W sair I No, I 172 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 1: think I. 173 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 3: Think he, like the brother, gave it back smelling like 174 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 3: pine cleaners. 175 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: Oh yes, sorry, Only I got it back smelling like 176 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: pine cleansers. Nice, so it's even better. Yes, this is 177 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: what you should do in these scenarios. So there was 178 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 1: some minor drama while Dan was living in my camper 179 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 1: from a neighbor right behind them. Not quite sure it 180 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: qualifies as Karen, but she was close enough. She started 181 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 1: yelling at them from over the fence about the camper 182 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: and threatened to call the police and listen, they have 183 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 1: a long history with police showing up at houses there. 184 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 3: The police are intimately like aware of this family. They're like, 185 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 3: it's the Johnson, it's the Johnson with the camper. 186 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 1: Okay, run away. God, dang it, Johnson, we got another one. 187 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: So my brother and father went off on her and 188 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: then explained Dan was living in the camper so his son. 189 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 2: Could have a bedroom. Well, the neighbor still wasn't happy 190 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 2: the neighbor. 191 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 3: Who cares about the neighbor? 192 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 2: I also like, why would the neighbor like what is 193 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 2: it to them? What is this? 194 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: You know? 195 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 3: I would not want to have anything to do with 196 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 3: these neighbors. Like God, no, I like, if I were 197 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 3: neighbors to Opie, I mean or Opie's family, I'm like, 198 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna stay out. 199 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 2: I'm gonna leave it alone. Yeah. My father talked to 200 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 2: her husband later though, and he was bull mad at her. 201 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 1: Then he apologized on her behalf and Dan said and 202 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: said Dan was doing a good thing by giving up 203 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 1: his room to his son. The neighbor's husband also congratulated 204 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:42,079 Speaker 1: Dan on kicking out exister in law and said he 205 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 1: was always afraid to mention it before, but she was 206 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: a horrid woman. We can all agree on that now. 207 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 1: So yeah, the neighbors aren't a problem anymore. 208 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 3: Well, that was fixed pretty quickly, fixed pretty quickly, Okay, 209 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 3: Dan and our father managed to get some money together 210 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 3: on the side and bought a slightly bigger camper. 211 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 1: And set it up in our parents' backyard. I let 212 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 1: this how the solution is just more camper. 213 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 2: Or campers or campers. 214 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 1: We needed my truck just to move it. But we 215 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 1: got in there. And it's basically the best Dan can 216 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 1: do right now. Till his credit debts is ex piled 217 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:15,080 Speaker 1: up or I forget about those. 218 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 2: He still has to pay off seventy percent of his ex's. 219 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 3: Dat Oh, I don't know how do we pay it off? 220 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 2: Guys, guys, what are you doing? Start a podcast? 221 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:27,479 Speaker 3: Listen, literally, just start a podcast about your life. 222 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 2: And guest on ours. We'll give you the boost. Well, 223 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 2: please please come on the show. 224 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: He may be living in that camper for the next 225 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:38,719 Speaker 1: ten years, and even then he's got the future of 226 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: his kids a plan for Yeah, but it's preferable to 227 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: how it was when he was married. His ex wife 228 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 1: certainly can't and won't contribute to college funds for the kids, 229 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 1: except maybe for her affair baby now the real baby. Yeah, 230 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 1: you know, all the practice families in the rearview at 231 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: this point. 232 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:55,079 Speaker 3: Oh. 233 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 2: Also, Sophia Kallen says the police are on speed dial. Now. 234 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 2: So Dan's camper is admittedly bigger than mine. 235 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 3: Whoa, we don't have to be jealous about that, or 236 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 3: do we? 237 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 2: It's newer, bigger, and it does have its own bathroom. 238 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 3: Ooh, that's rough. You better have to borrow it, Like, hey, damn, 239 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 3: remember when I let you borrow my campra Van. No, 240 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:16,439 Speaker 3: just leave it alone. It's gonna spiral. 241 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: I'm finally going on a real camping chap and I 242 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 1: want the best equipment. 243 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 3: Possible, the best the business can buy. 244 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 1: That one has its own bathroom, mind is not. Although 245 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 1: Dan never really uses said bathroom. It's basically become a 246 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 1: closet since the toilet and shower are so tiny. 247 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 3: Because he can use like the inside. 248 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 1: That's true, he can use inside the house. If he 249 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: needs to take a leak or something, he just goes 250 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: in the house. Dan and I had a running laugh 251 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 1: about me being jealous that he's got a better hobo house, 252 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 1: and we bantered like sarcastic gentlemen about it. 253 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 3: Their relationship's healing. 254 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:49,719 Speaker 2: I mean, I think we might reach like. 255 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 3: The brother which they like. This is the first time 256 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 3: they've ever had this because even as kids they hated 257 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 3: each other. 258 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, even as kids. 259 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: He kitted out his camper with some better amenities, like 260 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 1: a flat screen TV complete with streaming video games and 261 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 1: DVD big upgrade. He said, it feels like his own 262 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 1: place now, even though he's just in the backyard, and 263 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: he's much happier now that he's divorced. Yeah, honestly, probably 264 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 1: being the day to day being married to ex sister 265 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 1: in law exhausted. 266 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 3: She's constantly roping him into her scheme. She's like, we're 267 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 3: pulling a heist on the bank today. He's like, all right, 268 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 3: he just did the last one. She's like, I'm stealing 269 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 3: the Mona Lisa. 270 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 1: And also she's whenever she's like not pulling a heist 271 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: to steal the Declaration of Independence, he's cheating on him. 272 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 2: She's cheating on him. 273 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 1: Whenever she's not cheating on him, she's probably exhaustively going 274 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: about like. 275 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 2: Oh, everyone's doing this to me. 276 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 4: Everyone's on social media, in our social media. 277 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. God. 278 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 1: So Dan tells me that one day he'll get a 279 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 1: truck to copygat just so he can move the camper 280 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 1: on his own someday, but for now, he's sticking with 281 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 1: his minivan for the sake of the kids. So his 282 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 1: camper is sitting pretty where it is, and mine is 283 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:02,199 Speaker 1: back in my backyard where it belongs. 284 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 2: Though it's not gone unused. 285 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 1: I temporarily rented it to a cousin who moved into 286 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: the area for work, which was the renting out situation 287 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 1: we suggested from the beginning. Is so now, op, I 288 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: feel like this is his peak financial He's renting out basically. 289 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 4: Three rooms, paying off a mortgage. 290 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: He's probably making more money than his mortgages is now. Probably, 291 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 1: I would venture to guess. He said it was a 292 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: huge hug before, but I I guess. And they were 293 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 1: only in the camper for about a month before finding 294 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: the own apartment. 295 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 3: So now he's helping other people who are kind of 296 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 3: like in his situation exact. 297 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,440 Speaker 2: Like it's full circle. What a guy. 298 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:38,079 Speaker 1: Other than that, it serves as a guest house when needed. 299 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: Relatives come by to use it when in town, so 300 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: it's not to stay in the hotel. 301 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 3: Just Cassanda said, there's a jetco what a John Echo. 302 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:46,959 Speaker 4: Wait wait, I don't hear you. 303 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 2: Guys. 304 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: My nephew has come over to stay in a few 305 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: times for fun as well. His sisters don't really have 306 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: an interest that's prime boy activities. Staying in a little camper, Dude, 307 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 1: I would eat that. 308 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 4: Also, the c story between him and his nephew is 309 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 4: beautiful because his nephew used to hate him, like why 310 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 4: won't you give me a room? 311 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 2: And he was the one the kingdom. 312 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 4: I was grown into a man, and his mom like 313 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 4: hit him and then like now he's good. 314 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 2: It's kind of cool. That sentence just was poorly put together. 315 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 2: His mom hit him and now he's good. 316 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 3: Everything's great, guys, Sometimes it works. 317 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 2: Guys. 318 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:24,599 Speaker 1: Hey, listen, this is them saying and not me, So 319 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 1: I don't believe. Go crazy, you clippers and there away. 320 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: The camper is the closest he's ever been to camping. 321 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: All same here, sadly because. 322 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 3: Ideas if he's still not on camping. 323 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 2: Is probably busy living his life or whatever. 324 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 1: But same here, sadly because I didn't buy that camper 325 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:44,320 Speaker 1: to camp, but to live. As for my parents, they've 326 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 1: gotten therapy. My mother has gotten medicated for her mental problems, yes, 327 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 1: and fully acknowledges her terrible past mistakes as a parent 328 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 1: with all the favoritism, as does my father. My father 329 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 1: is still awkward around me, but he's been fairly active 330 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: in his church and is working hard to rebuild the 331 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:04,679 Speaker 1: family reputation as best as he and Dan is cut 332 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: back on drinking a lot, so he isn't so stressed 333 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 1: out anymore. He's even taken up exercising. He's in pretty 334 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:13,319 Speaker 1: good shape now. He told me his ex wife saw 335 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 1: the picture he posted on online after shredding twenty pounds 336 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 1: and called him to compliment. 337 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 3: Like crazy X, crazy X. But that's weird. 338 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 2: He didn't take the bait because he's a master. 339 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's like, you're not hot enough for me to 340 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 3: take the bait. 341 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 4: Maybe you should lose twenty pounds. 342 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:35,840 Speaker 1: Oh that's for the holidays. My parents, brother, and nibblings, 343 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 1: nieces and nephews all came to my Christmas Eve party. 344 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 1: We need to come up with a better name than 345 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 1: the nibling. The word that's you have. 346 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 3: To say it. 347 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 4: What's wrong with the John? 348 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 2: It's just weird? 349 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 4: What's wrong? 350 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 2: It's just weird? This is weird Nibblings. 351 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 1: Anyways, moving on, We had all the nibblings come over 352 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 1: to the Christmas Eve party last year, along with most 353 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: of the other relatives who came the year prior Christmas Gate. 354 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 1: I think no problems at all, say for the fact 355 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: that none of them could stay in the night in 356 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: my spare rooms anymore since I rented them out. Of course, 357 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 1: both of my attenants were away seeing their own families too. 358 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 2: Things went swimmingly. 359 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: Not only was Exister in law not invited, she wouldn't 360 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 1: have been able to crash the party anyways because of 361 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 1: my restraining order against her. 362 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 2: I mean, you never know with her, truly, she might. 363 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 4: Fling maybe better I like nibblings. 364 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 2: I don't know, I like nibblings. 365 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 1: She also barely made any attempt to spend time with 366 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: her other kids either. 367 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 2: She only bothered to see them twice a month at best. 368 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 1: She didn't even send them guests for Christmas or birthdays 369 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 1: since being outed as a cheater because she broke I mean, 370 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 1: they were literally they were her meal ticket to just 371 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: stay unemployed and yeah, swipe her husband's credit cards. And 372 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: the kids were initially pretty upset about that, but now 373 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 1: they just don't care. Exister in law, I guess, decided 374 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: she was going to try to live like she was 375 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 1: single again despite having a baby at home, and it 376 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 1: didn't go well because life gave her one hell of 377 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: a cheese slap slap. 378 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 2: It's have you ever seen when people. 379 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 3: Of people babies, babies, and the babies are like crying 380 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 3: and then they get cheese slap and they go. 381 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 1: I thought it was I've seen like videos of like dogs. 382 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 3: Any of the videos. 383 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 1: No, no, no, there's there's a very specific like style of 384 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: video where it's like two. 385 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 2: Jimbros and one of them will throw a. 386 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 1: Piece of cheese as hard as they can against the 387 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: other person's face and it slaps so loud. 388 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 4: Do you show me a coke? 389 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 1: Okay, I've seen tortillas too, but I swear I've seen 390 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 1: it with cheese. 391 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 2: I swear cheese. Whatever. 392 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 4: Weird, dude, My brother and I did it with wet 393 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 4: lasagna noodles. 394 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 1: Well, if there's one thing we we know, Riley always 395 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 1: gets it wet. So that's that's certified fact, certified fact. 396 00:16:55,560 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 1: Tell your nibblings. So but guys, okay, this is we're 397 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 1: at the cheese slat moment. 398 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 2: This is this is another. 399 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,159 Speaker 1: On New Year's Eve, ex Cistern Law went out to 400 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 1: party like it was nineteen ninety nine and she got 401 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,159 Speaker 1: pulled over by a cop on her way home. She 402 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: was arrested for duy and her car was impounded. 403 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 404 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 2: She called Dan while being. 405 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 1: Arrested, begging him to come get her car to keep 406 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 1: it from going to impound. He told her that he's 407 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 1: not helping her and she could deal with it herself. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. 408 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: Dan has drank and drove, so it was kind of 409 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 1: a little hypocritical. 410 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 3: He's he's learned, he's learned. 411 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:33,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. 412 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:35,439 Speaker 1: He's like, I'm not gonna it's like, I would never 413 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 1: do that again. Yeah, and I'm not going to enable 414 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:40,399 Speaker 1: you by bailing you out of this scenario. Deal with 415 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: your consequences. But this woman put him through so much. 416 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:45,840 Speaker 1: I don't blame him for rebuffing her. Some flying monkeys, 417 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 1: which is like crazy people in your family, you know, 418 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 1: like like the ex sister Lawn that kind of thing. Oh, 419 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 1: existern laws called Dan to berate him from being a 420 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 1: terrible person. Pretty sure this was the same woman who 421 00:17:57,880 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 1: was calling me. 422 00:17:58,720 --> 00:17:59,360 Speaker 2: A while back. 423 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:03,479 Speaker 3: We knew it trips. 424 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 1: Dan was having none of her crap and went off 425 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:08,439 Speaker 1: on her with a long tirade about his ex wife's cheating, 426 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:11,199 Speaker 1: what happened in the divorce, and that he has no 427 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 1: sympathy for his ex since she left him with mounds 428 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 1: of credit card debt and she does nothing for the 429 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 1: kids anymore. Not boom the flying monkeys. They didn't call 430 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 1: back the goodness. We still don't know who she was, 431 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 1: but Dan said she sounded like a religious nut. I 432 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:31,639 Speaker 1: love how like these like super religious nuts are actually 433 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:33,639 Speaker 1: like siding with evil people. 434 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just why it. 435 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 1: Exister in law winter court and pled guilty for the dui. 436 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 1: Here we go, Here we go, say stated buckle In. 437 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 3: This is what I said was gonna happen. 438 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 1: Dan found this out because she called him claiming that 439 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:51,119 Speaker 1: because of the duy she wouldn't be seeing her kids 440 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: anytime soon. She told him that she was sentenced to 441 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,680 Speaker 1: take a six month DUI class, in which time her 442 00:18:56,720 --> 00:19:00,200 Speaker 1: license is suspended until completion. Why is she not in jail? 443 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 3: I how does she keep getting away with these things? 444 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:03,159 Speaker 2: Dude? 445 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:05,880 Speaker 1: Which is the part that she was most upset about? 446 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 1: Getting off easy in my eyes? Yeah, I've heard of 447 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:10,880 Speaker 1: these classes before. They make you take regular and at 448 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 1: random times urine tests, and when you finally get your 449 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:16,159 Speaker 1: license back, you have to have a camera and a 450 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 1: breathalyzer installed in your car. 451 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 2: For a year. 452 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 3: Dum. 453 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 1: Texting and driving also increased rates for the DUI on record, 454 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:25,960 Speaker 1: of course, and ex sister in law has not been 455 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 1: having a fun time, but nobody for her. I don't 456 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 1: drink a drive Sadly, That's all the info I have 457 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: on exister in law. She's been keeping minimal contact with 458 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 1: Dan for some time now, and eventually she'll probably stop 459 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 1: contacting him altogether unless absolutely necessary. I don't know anything 460 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: else about sister in law's parents or her affair baby. 461 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:46,639 Speaker 1: Even Dan doesn't know. But I still do have a 462 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 1: bit of info on someone else. Remember, existern Law's a 463 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:53,400 Speaker 1: fair partner, the Browns, the bronze. 464 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 3: Tongued lout lout. What doesn't lout mean by the way, 465 00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 3: I think it's just like you know, it's he just 466 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 3: kind of a sucky guy. He just sucks' aut. 467 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:05,120 Speaker 2: So remember him. 468 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 1: Well, he made his social media public again and he 469 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:12,479 Speaker 1: doesn't seem to acknowledge the existence of existern Law or 470 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: his child at all. Dan tried to message him and 471 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 1: promptly got into media block. So this guy is just 472 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 1: being an a, just being a butt and acting like 473 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 1: his crap, don'tes think whatever his knocking up existern in 474 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 1: law got her out of the family anyways, So in 475 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 1: a way, we're all thankful to that affair partner. That's 476 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 1: everything I have and hopefully it won't need to come 477 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: back again unless my truck gets egged next Halloween. 478 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 2: But we have some relevant. 479 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 3: Comments to finish this story off. 480 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:42,439 Speaker 1: With a response, reraipee, and if that one at that, 481 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:43,639 Speaker 1: so shall we dive right in? 482 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 2: Let's do it, Op. He does have a pretty lengthy 483 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:46,959 Speaker 2: response to the comments. 484 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 4: But wow, wow, mother law seems to be gone for good. 485 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 4: Maybe law sister. 486 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 1: In law seems to be fading off, fading into the 487 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:00,159 Speaker 1: distance as much as she can. 488 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,400 Speaker 4: I still want to know who's call and who's doing 489 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 4: her dirty work. 490 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:04,680 Speaker 3: Her flying monkeys. 491 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,119 Speaker 2: It was one of her friends. 492 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 3: I think she's about to get a house dropped on her. 493 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 1: And her little feet are going to shrivel up like 494 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:16,359 Speaker 1: a like a. I think this is the penultimate question. 495 00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:17,880 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm using it wrong, but I don't care. 496 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 2: Can we now forgive the parents and the brother? 497 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:25,200 Speaker 3: I think they've done a lot of work. I wouldn't 498 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 3: like I wouldn't hold it against Op if you didn't 499 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 3: want to forgive them. But I think he's allowing himself 500 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 3: to give them a second chance, because he's never really 501 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 3: had that relationship with his parents, rightfully, so he wants 502 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,480 Speaker 3: that everyone. I feel like most people want a relationship 503 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,199 Speaker 3: with his family and with their family, and now he's 504 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 3: getting that opportunity, and he's like, you know what, I'm 505 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 3: going to give them that chance and hopefully I'm not 506 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 3: going to be proven wrong. So yeah, I do not 507 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:48,199 Speaker 3: not go pee for wanting that. 508 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 1: And obviously there's a bit of complexity in it, but 509 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,439 Speaker 1: it's relationship doesn't have complexity, and it's kind of like 510 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:55,920 Speaker 1: I could see him being like, I just don't wanna 511 00:21:56,359 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: it's so much work to you know, have like kind 512 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 1: of keep them in an arm's length. 513 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 3: In a way. You know. 514 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:06,040 Speaker 1: He he loves the nibblings, the nieces and nephews. It's 515 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 1: almost like it's like a burden for him almost to 516 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 1: carry it. It's it's like, maybe you still don't trust them. 517 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 3: But I think the thing is that it's like totally 518 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 3: up to him, Like if he decided, if you know, 519 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 3: if this story went I never talked to my parents again, 520 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:21,840 Speaker 3: I would totally understand. But because he wants to, I'm like, yeah, 521 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 3: I also get that you want to you want to 522 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,399 Speaker 3: forgive the people in your life when they try. 523 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,359 Speaker 1: I think I think Op kind of wants it. It's like, 524 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 1: you know what, go for it. 525 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 3: I think that's kind of why he's been reaching out 526 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 3: to them this whole time, even when they've wronged him 527 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,200 Speaker 3: so many times. He's like, Okay, well I talked to them, 528 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 3: you know, I said what I wanted to say, And 529 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 3: now he's actually getting this kind of reciprocation from them. 530 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: And you know what, it really is so fair to 531 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: have something where someone's so so, so so so terrible 532 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 1: for you and they finally like the satisfaction of them 533 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 1: like apologizing and truly agnoling their acknowledging their actions and 534 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 1: then proving it with their future actions. 535 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 3: Yes, moving backward when you actually. 536 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: You know, so all three of us, are we happy 537 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 1: with the rekindled relationship? Happy, Sophia, I'm happy. 538 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 4: Riley, Yeah, I'm happy. Parents put in a lot of work. 539 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 4: I've seen a lot of people change after they go 540 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,160 Speaker 4: to church, like they're like terrible people, but then over 541 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 4: time they become better people. This will be hard to 542 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 4: forgive them because if you look back at the lives, 543 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 4: you have to wake up every day and choose to 544 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,399 Speaker 4: forgive them, not to forget. I would be keeping an 545 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:29,639 Speaker 4: eye out, Oh yeah, for like narcissistic traits, because Holly, 546 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,679 Speaker 4: earlier we were talking about it, they might when the 547 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,639 Speaker 4: grandchildren come around, they might rekindle this or something. 548 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,160 Speaker 3: You definitely have to keep them accountable and keep keep 549 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 3: an eye on them, for sure. Yeah, but I think 550 00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 3: that doesn't mean that you can't let them in at all. 551 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,680 Speaker 4: And hopefully Dan curious about like what Dan will turn 552 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 4: into because it seems like he's working out more, he's 553 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 4: taking care of the kids, he's taking more like being. 554 00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:51,520 Speaker 2: More of a dad. 555 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 3: He's gonna start mewing. 556 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,120 Speaker 4: Gonna start mewing, divorced dad. He doesn't go down that road. 557 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 1: Ashley le May says, Dad, Dan has been redeemed. Here's 558 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:03,919 Speaker 1: one theory for Dan. Damned his parents were poisoning him 559 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 1: and telling him he's the golden child. Transitions to his 560 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 1: wife at twenty two years old, barely you know, still. 561 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:09,400 Speaker 2: In the house. 562 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 1: His whole life, he's had people heavily influencing him that like, oh, 563 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 1: you know, you're like the golden person or whatever. Right, Finally, 564 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,120 Speaker 1: for the first time in his life, his parents aren't 565 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:24,919 Speaker 1: pushing him that way anymore. The xife is out of 566 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 1: the picture. It's like he's finally like on his own 567 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: and he's finding the truth. I think so in a way, 568 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 1: and maybe he possibly. 569 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 3: Possibly Campervan has really helped him. 570 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, right, that was his like, that was his humbling. 571 00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 1: You know, he's like, Okay, I get to see life 572 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:45,400 Speaker 1: through OPI's eyes literally like living in there. And maybe 573 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 1: he always had the potential, but everyone just kind of 574 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 1: poisoned him. 575 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 576 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,120 Speaker 2: I don't fully believe that, but it's possible, but possible. 577 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 2: We're all we're all happy and satisfied. Yeah we might be. 578 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 1: It might be ruined with his next comment, but we're 579 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 1: going to get into it. We're going to die looking 580 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,639 Speaker 1: to survive comments. I have one suggestion for you in 581 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 1: your relationship with your parents. Never forgive and never forget it. 582 00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 3: Damn. 583 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,240 Speaker 1: These kinds of parents, like addicts, are like addicts for 584 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:13,400 Speaker 1: validation and forgiveness. If you give them a slight indication 585 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,640 Speaker 1: that you are past all of your trauma, they will 586 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:17,200 Speaker 1: stop improving and go back to. 587 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 2: Their old self. 588 00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:19,879 Speaker 1: So this actually really speaks to the conversation we were 589 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 1: just having. I learned it the hard way from my 590 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 1: own mother. To be blunt, based on all of your posts, 591 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 1: I think your parents are still not one hundred percent 592 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 1: honest in their apologies. Your mother is intentionally overcorrecting and 593 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,440 Speaker 1: your father is under correcting a common strategy to good cop, 594 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 1: bad cop. And people don't do a one eighty unless 595 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 1: they had something traumatic happen to them. 596 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 3: To be fair, I mean a lot of that was 597 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 3: pretty traumatic. 598 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I guess meaning like a near death experience 599 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 1: or something like that, which does make sense. Intentionally doing 600 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 1: a one eighty is nearly impossible to achieve since that's 601 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 1: akin to brainwashing oneself. 602 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 2: Can people change? 603 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,360 Speaker 3: Riley? Oh yeah, Oh, people can change. I think it's 604 00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:00,280 Speaker 3: also just holding them accountable if they do backslide. Yeah. 605 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 4: And like my experience, people have changed through the church too. 606 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 4: Like I've had multiple family members that were like very 607 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 4: different people than they are today getting. 608 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 1: Closer to the big guy. Yeah, and never let your 609 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 1: parents forget what they did. There are some instances where 610 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,400 Speaker 1: bringing up the past is useful. It keeps people in line. 611 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,479 Speaker 1: It also keeps them at a distance, so you are 612 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,640 Speaker 1: no longer valuable to them. All of this may seem 613 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 1: very negative at first, but it creates boundaries that are 614 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 1: essential in any relationship, boundaries that your parents have cruelly 615 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:27,439 Speaker 1: crossed before. 616 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,680 Speaker 2: A very own camper Nomad one and only. 617 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: Ope responds, Oh, I have long since made it clear 618 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 1: that I won't forget. Not sure if I've forgiven, but 619 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 1: holding the grudge didn't do me any good either, and 620 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 1: I made it clear that I likely would not be 621 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,359 Speaker 1: associating with them if it weren't for my siblings and 622 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: dat and danced. He felt the most sincere of all 623 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 1: of them, if you can believe it, but learning to 624 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 1: put his kids first made him. 625 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 2: A better man. 626 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 1: I could also see that that almost seems like that 627 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:57,679 Speaker 1: turning point thing right, and without his wife clouding it, he's. 628 00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,440 Speaker 3: Like, I need to really be a father, and there's 629 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 3: no one here for them but me. 630 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:02,440 Speaker 2: There's no one left. 631 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 1: And even if deep down my parents were to want 632 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: the old dynamic back, they could never get it because 633 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 1: I won't stand for it anymore and they know it. 634 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 2: I know they'll. 635 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 1: Likely have to work for the rest of their lives 636 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 1: to make up for what they did for me, But 637 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,640 Speaker 1: at least things are far better than ever with them now, 638 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,879 Speaker 1: and I'm not over constantly once a week roughly, and 639 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 1: with the excess law out of the picture, the family 640 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,919 Speaker 1: is so much happier as a whole. Not only was 641 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 1: she a narcissistic drama queen, she was a leech that 642 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:31,560 Speaker 1: contributed nothing, and she knows it to right now. She 643 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 1: likely wishes Dan had just forgave the infidelity and gone 644 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,719 Speaker 1: back to Simpin, but he isn't that kind of a 645 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 1: man anymore. And then we have a edit to this comment, 646 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 1: I believe, which was like just a few months ago. 647 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 1: Oh oh, so this is talking about I think the 648 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,680 Speaker 1: Golden Child Ugly Dougling treatment. It's kind of a sore 649 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,199 Speaker 1: topic now for the family, But in going to therapy, 650 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,680 Speaker 1: it was mainly just the fact that Dan was younger, 651 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 1: so my mother always saw him as the baby, and 652 00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,880 Speaker 1: baby needed more. Her mental problems that are now dieg 653 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 1: g nosed and medicated did not help. 654 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,240 Speaker 2: At the time when she was not medicated. 655 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 1: I won't speak on her medical stuff because she's asked 656 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 1: me not to, and I respect that, But her acting 657 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: crazy back then made my father do so as well, 658 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 1: and before they all knew it, they'd fallen so deep 659 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 1: into their lives centered around Dan and narcissism, so it 660 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,200 Speaker 1: became easy to make me the metaphorical punching bag to 661 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 1: keep the family peace. I don't know, I just like, 662 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:26,440 Speaker 1: I cannot imagine a world where like any of us 663 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:30,120 Speaker 1: being in like Dan's dad situation, for example. Yeah, would 664 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 1: let that happen. I'd be like, partner, you're being crazy, 665 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: this poor kid. Why are we giving this kid golden treatment? 666 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:38,760 Speaker 1: Why are we treating this kid like? 667 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,040 Speaker 3: Don't really, I don't. I don't understand how you could 668 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 3: watch that and not do anything. 669 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't doesn't make sense to me. But my 670 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 1: father is the kind of person who hates apologizing. 671 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 2: That is terrible. Yeah, God, so. 672 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: If he did something wrong, he'd stand by it and 673 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 1: acts like anyone who argued with him about it was wrong. 674 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 1: That's why we moved hours away from the rest of 675 00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:00,760 Speaker 1: the family, so he didn't have to apologize for being 676 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: an idiot and terrible. 677 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 3: He just moved away. He ran away from his problems. 678 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:06,480 Speaker 2: My father has changed significantly in the past year. 679 00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 1: He and I are still awkward around each other, and 680 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,600 Speaker 1: he's referred to himself as a terrible human being. Not 681 00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 1: only has he worked hard to improve the family as 682 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 1: a whole. He's also been volunteering for garbage cleanup throughout 683 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 1: the church. Did you ask him to take himself out? 684 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:19,719 Speaker 2: Got him? 685 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:23,360 Speaker 1: He made a couple of new friends there as well. 686 00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 1: I'm not sure we'll ever have a decent father son bond, 687 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 1: but it's good enough for me that he acknowledges where 688 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 1: he went wrong. My mother is habitually apologetic now, but 689 00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 1: is overall kind and not showing the behavior she used to. Also, 690 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 1: the main focus these days is on my niblings, nieces 691 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 1: and nephews, and she's not shown favoritism to any of them, 692 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 1: which that is good. Do not keep the family first going. 693 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 2: Nor has Dana my father. 694 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 1: I admit I do relate to my nephew a little more, 695 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 1: and he spent the night in my camp a few times, 696 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:54,000 Speaker 1: which I could see kind of like oldest. 697 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:55,920 Speaker 3: I think it's just like sometimes you just have the 698 00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 3: oldest child. 699 00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 1: Or the oldest and I think the other are daughters. 700 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 1: So yeah, he kind of got like a you know, uncle, uncle, nephew. 701 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,480 Speaker 1: But that's totally fair. It's as long as you don't 702 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 1: like let it show and steep in, you know, to 703 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 1: the other the kids. 704 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 2: We're all human. 705 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,000 Speaker 1: But my two nieces don't care for that sleeping in 706 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 1: the camper and don't like my house much since I 707 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,480 Speaker 1: have tenants. But at my parents' house I do my 708 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 1: best to play with all my nieces and nephews. 709 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 2: I even did the tea. 710 00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 1: Party thing with my nieces cute though we used actual 711 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,680 Speaker 1: tea whoa, and boy do they like it packed with 712 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 1: cane sugar. 713 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 2: I'm more of a sweet and low guy. 714 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 3: And that's the end. 715 00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 2: That's the end. 716 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 3: No, man, I probably have. 717 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 2: To go though, get out of here. 718 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 3: Well, well I can, I can like chat about it. 719 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 2: I'm kidding. 720 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 1: Wow, I think I think I've pretty much said all 721 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 1: of Yeah, I think I've changed. 722 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,080 Speaker 3: No, I think this is the same. You know. I 723 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,640 Speaker 3: think that keep an eye on your parents' behavior. Yeah, 724 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 3: play with your nibblings. 725 00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 1: Yep, see see see it just sounds. 726 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:05,000 Speaker 4: Crazy every time Sophia uses it in a sentence. 727 00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 2: It doesn't work. 728 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 1: Play with my nibblings is crazy. 729 00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 2: No, I refuse, I refuse. 730 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 4: I did find your word. 731 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:13,360 Speaker 2: I refuse. 732 00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 4: You said something earlier that didn't sound right, Sophia. 733 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 3: Yeah what, I'm just a girl. 734 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, no, no, Sofia, You're not just 735 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:28,000 Speaker 4: a girl. You're just a princess. Oh thanks, you're just 736 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 4: a queen. You're so right a queen. 737 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 1: Clasps for Queen Sophia, let's freaking go. But yeah, I 738 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 1: that's shining winning smile. But yeah, I feel good. 739 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:44,720 Speaker 3: I feel good in my heart. 740 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 2: I feel good. 741 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,040 Speaker 3: Sometimes we read these stories, I don't feel good in 742 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 3: my heart, say I feel good in my heart. 743 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:50,440 Speaker 2: Today we feel good in her heart. 744 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 3: And what a day to feel good in my heart? 745 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 4: You know what a circle? A full freaking circle of 746 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 4: like boom to this, like valued up? 747 00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 2: What a journey. 748 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:03,360 Speaker 1: Also shout out to Riley for hocketting it away for 749 00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 1: for a year. Absolutely, but while Sophia might be abandoning us, 750 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 1: we are not abandoning you. 751 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 4: No, we're gonna do one more, guys, because. 752 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 2: We're gonna do one more Stori. But everyone say goodbye 753 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 2: to your room. Queen. I'll tell you, what are you 754 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 2: guys thoughts on this episode. 755 00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,320 Speaker 1: I'd be super curious to if you if you want 756 00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 1: to write up like a little summary of how you feel, 757 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 1: if it feels positive or nah, how you're feeling about it,