1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellancamps at Tamra Edge. Hi, guys, 2 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,760 Speaker 1: welcome to Two Teas in a Pod with myself, Teddy 3 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:21,600 Speaker 1: Mellancamp camera judge. We have on this week Leah McSweeney 4 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 1: from Real Housewives of New York. She's having a new 5 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: book coming out called Chaos Theory, Finding Meaning in the 6 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 1: Madness One bad decision at a time. That sounds like 7 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: a mustry, that sounds like my life. So we're excited 8 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: to have her on, ask all the questions. She also 9 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: has an incredible clothing company called Married to the Mob. 10 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: All types of things, but uh yeah, let's get her 11 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 1: on and start grilling. Oh my god, you guys are together. 12 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: We are. We are together in in Orange County, at 13 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: Teddy's house in Dana Point right on the ocean. M 14 00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: the same exact color blonde. I don't know if it's 15 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: a lighting. It's a lighting. We have the biggest, brightest 16 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 1: light on our faces right now. I'm still bruised from 17 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: my facelift, my necklift, so it's like I'm talking like this, Hi, 18 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: you look great. I'm like, I want it so bad. 19 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: Where are you? I'm in the city, I'm in New York, 20 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: at your house, in my house, how's life? How's everything is? Too? 21 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: Drinking my green juice. I'm just I'm taking a mental 22 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: health day. I'm just like taking it easy today. This 23 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: is our mental health day, A green juice in a champagne. 24 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 1: I know you don't drink, but this is we on 25 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:38,960 Speaker 1: on Thursdays. We drink. We have to. We do like 26 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: multiple podcasts on Thursday. So we don't have to you know, yeah, 27 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 1: we don't have to break that wound from being fired 28 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: Housewives repeatedly. We can simply do it on Thursdays. A 29 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: fact of being fired and feeling embarrassed about talking about 30 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 1: a show you're no longer on you No, I mean, 31 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: it's honestly interesting that you guys, I mean I didn't 32 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: even know you knew each other. So the fact that 33 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: you guys did this, are doing this podcast and are 34 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 1: becoming so successful at it so cool. We only met 35 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: like five times and then they we had like a 36 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 1: good connection, good connections like work out. But you know, 37 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: our husband's are both named ed, Like there was just 38 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: so much similarity. She's got a house like fifteen minutes 39 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: from me in Orange County. We met at church in 40 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: Orange County of all places. Yeah, don't really really suiting. 41 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: And then you know, we get together to talk show 42 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: and housewife. This is actually like a divine work that 43 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: you're doing. That Jesus kind of have it rolling, right, Jesus. 44 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:40,519 Speaker 1: Jesus took the wheel talking podcast brought us together. Yeah. 45 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: Because but the first person they pitched was actually to 46 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: be my co host was Tinsley your friend and I 47 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:49,959 Speaker 1: don't know her very well. I was like, she was, 48 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 1: She's really nice. I'm like, I need someone really outspoken, 49 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: like I need someone that has a touch of crazy 50 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: or okay, the truth is coming out now. I was like, 51 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I just need it. I can't image in 52 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: wanting to do I don't think she would want to 53 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 1: do it. But that was there, like they like, we 54 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 1: think that Teddy and Tensley it has a nice ring 55 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 1: to it. And I was like, I think Teddy and Tamara. 56 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 1: Teddy and Tamara doesn't have a nice ring to it. 57 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: They packed me on Tenley. I came back and said, you, oh, 58 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: I can ye. She doesn't have like low voice sating 59 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: of yelling. We have to ask Lea about something, okay. 60 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: Leah Teddy claims and she claims it's about every guest. 61 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 1: We have, not every guest, every guest from the East Coast. 62 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: You said something about her on social media that wasn't 63 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: very flattering, and she was so ready to talk to 64 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 1: you about it. But now I can't find it. What 65 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: it was. I can't remember what it was. And then 66 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: I even asked the person that helps me run my 67 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: social media, I'm like, what did Leah say? I wanted 68 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 1: to come in hot and I cannot because I don't 69 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: have Twitter. No, it was on your ends to story. 70 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: It was something about like if I wanted to watch Housewives, 71 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: it wouldn't be ted, but something along those lines, and 72 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: I was like, damn it, I can't find it. I 73 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: don't think we did that too. She did, I would, 74 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: I would, I never like, I would never like. I 75 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: don't start ship with other housewives from other franchises, only 76 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 1: my own. So then we came to a conclusion that 77 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 1: maybe it wasn't you, because somebody sent me a message 78 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: that said I run Leah's fan account, and I think 79 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: it was me. Oh well, now the truth comes out. 80 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: Oh my god, what a fan account. I don't know 81 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: you have a fan Twitter account? And somebody runs it. 82 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 1: They sent me a d M. They're like, we don't know. 83 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 1: You thought it was Leah talking about you. Was actually yeah, 84 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: it was like Leah McSweeney but like spell drawer, who 85 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 1: whatever it is. But well, here we go. We got 86 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: to the bottom. We got to the bottom of it. 87 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: But it's hilarious either way. So tell us about your book. 88 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 1: What you said, I'm so sick of talking about a bit, 89 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: and then we're going to get to way trash your Yeah, 90 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: the book is a memoir, but it's very self reflective. Um, 91 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: it's a little prescriptive, but not really because I don't 92 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:11,599 Speaker 1: feel like I'm anyone who should be telling anyone like 93 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 1: how to live their lives. Um. But you know, it 94 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:18,239 Speaker 1: talks a lot about mental health, addiction, motherhood. I get into, 95 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: like some of my opinions on feminism and cancel culture, 96 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 1: and like I do that too. So it's just it's 97 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 1: a good book. It's a good read. People like it. 98 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: It's an easy read. If you're going on vacation soon 99 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 1: or whatever, by it for the summer. Is it already? 100 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: Are you doing a book tour? You're gonna come to 101 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: Orange County? I did it. I was in l a 102 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:42,599 Speaker 1: thanks for reaching out. I mean in the way I 103 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: invited us to her show. Louanne reached out, Louie, but 104 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 1: you're not. But now you're not even going I'm going 105 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 1: to the cabaret. How was it? I was saying this yesterday? 106 00:05:57,160 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 1: So good if I had like one percent of Luanne's 107 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: self confidence when this woman like like we know that, 108 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: Like it's not like she's got a voice from heaven, right, 109 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 1: I mean, this is not a voice of an angel 110 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: exactly rhymes Oh my god, Brandy's gonna kill you, Brandy Lesliann. 111 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: Someone told me I looked like Leanne rhymes, but you 112 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 1: do not, I mean the I mean the new version 113 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 1: of Leanne rhymes. Ish, Okay, got it? I mean I 114 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 1: have kind of also, But like so um Luanne, when 115 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: she gets on and she's performing in front of everyone, 116 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: she comes alive. I mean she she basks in that 117 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: attention and like just putting on a show, and she 118 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: does that, you know what, She makes so many people happy. 119 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: Like when I was at her show, I was like 120 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: watching everyone. They love it. They're like the contess I 121 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 1: mean they're like crazy, like it's really it's a really 122 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: great experience. Now if I tried that they are be 123 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 1: booed off stage, sit down your more on. I show 124 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 1: my hands in an ends to to story and I'm attacked, 125 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 1: like I can't even imagine. Oh my god, isn't what 126 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: do you mean? I talked with my hands like always, 127 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: and people are like, man hands disgusting. You should be 128 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: ashamed of those hands. And I'm like, you know what, 129 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 1: I kind of am, but like you all now, I 130 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: am the things the things you think about. Remember when 131 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 1: people harassing Tile about her hands, they were like going 132 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 1: off on her. Remember there was a picture of her 133 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: hands or something. Well, I I do not have pretty hands. 134 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 1: I like literally just had filler put on the top 135 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: of my hands. And I'm starting to get insecure about it. 136 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 1: I've had old hands since I was in high school. 137 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: Like I remember my girlfriend in high school going why 138 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: do your hands look so old? So it's like, I 139 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 1: don't know why that it does. But it's a being 140 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 1: that women like to pick on other women about because 141 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: of us probably don't have a hand modeling hands. We 142 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 1: would like to see your hands, and my hands are 143 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: pretty nice all you have long, nice finger. You know 144 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: who has beautiful hands? Vicky Gana the most beautiful hands. 145 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: I'm always so jealous of them. Whatever, but you know what, 146 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: I have other great things you do. It's like a 147 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: golden pussy. We're two for two on getting people to 148 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: say pussy on the podcast. First, I have to tell 149 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 1: everyone this story about Tamra, that what this woman did 150 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: to me. She try to make out with you, no 151 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 1: I wish. So she starts sending me her CBD, which 152 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: I was very grateful for because I'm all about it. 153 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: So I'm taking the cb D. I'm like so happy, 154 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 1: like I want to, you know. I'm like, oh my god, 155 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: I'm so special. Even tam Or judges not sending me. 156 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 1: I'll send you more. Then I get more in and 157 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:06,080 Speaker 1: it says it's melotonin um cb D gummies and I'm like, 158 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:09,079 Speaker 1: oh yeah, I love gummies and they're you know, tasty, 159 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: and I can whatever. So i have one and I'm like, 160 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 1: oh god, they taste so good. I'm having a few more. 161 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: Take a few more. Get on the phone with this 162 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 1: guy that I met on Hinge. Just was like, this 163 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: is a couple of years ago, and all of a 164 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 1: sudden I feel high. As I know where you're going 165 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 1: with this. I'm like and I and I pick up 166 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: the package and I'm like, oh my god, there's th HD. 167 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: But was it not the best high you ever had? 168 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: It's really fun. Actually it was a fun high. I 169 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: don't know why, but it was, like, really, it was great. 170 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 1: I probably should have told my office staff, like like, 171 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 1: you need to read. You need to let people known 172 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 1: to read the room if somebody is not doing it, 173 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 1: or maybe that sent him some t It was fine 174 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: because at the time I was smoking weed. I'm not anymore. 175 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 1: But it was good. It was fine. It's just like 176 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: I wasn't ready for it. I wanted to sleep, but 177 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: instead I was like stoned, laughing. And my girlfriend did 178 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: the same thing. She took She's like, oh, these are good. 179 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: Sheok like three of them. Then she had to go 180 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 1: pick up her kids and she's like I'm so stoned, 181 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 1: I can't even And I'm like, well, you're not supposed 182 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 1: to take this seat where these are the type of 183 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 1: things we can travel before Tampa And this is the headline, 184 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 1: Tamara takes kids. Don't know. I didn't. I said I 185 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 1: had friends. Now you gotta let her kids. Now you 186 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:24,079 Speaker 1: want to try if a CBD with a code twats you? 187 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: Oh that is true code twats um. Okay, so we 188 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 1: have to talk a little bit of real house lives 189 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 1: of New York. What is going on? Well, no, first, 190 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: even they want us to over start with what was 191 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 1: the beginning? How did you get cast or, if Ema 192 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 1: likes to say in improper English, casted, how do I 193 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 1: get casted? I got past it because so Bethnie Frankel 194 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:53,679 Speaker 1: followed me on Instagram because on my old podcast that 195 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 1: I used to have, I had this like little section 196 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: called funk Boy of the Week and I made her 197 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:00,839 Speaker 1: ex husband or husband and I guess at the time, 198 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: but they were separated and there are they divorced yet? 199 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 1: I think they're finally divorced. Um. So I called him 200 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 1: the boy of the week at one point, and she 201 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: started following me on Instagram, and then I followed her back. 202 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: Did she send you a nasty message about that? No? 203 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 1: I think she was. She probably liked it. They were 204 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,719 Speaker 1: already breaking up. She's so intense that I don't know 205 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: what's going to piss her off or what's going to 206 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: make her happy, But she was pretty happy that. Like 207 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 1: I was, like, he's the bad guy, you know or whatever. 208 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, what does I thought that somebody want 209 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: to No, I don't know. Why do you have to 210 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 1: be so much older than I am ten years older 211 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:44,559 Speaker 1: than you? A way is not good. That's like a 212 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 1: whack dude that you don't want to date. Like he's 213 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: not not a good boy. Is worse than like as 214 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 1: we than bench boy. Okay, Well the things I learned 215 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 1: on this boy is somebody who makes you believe they're 216 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: good and they're going to be a good person to you, 217 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 1: and then they few over not like they not like okay, okay, 218 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 1: so she was happy about it. Some things we gotta 219 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 1: and we really gotta spell it out. I'm in a 220 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 1: different decade in you. You don't look at them, and 221 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 1: that's what's so except for a year. A year later, 222 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 1: my facialists who I've been seeing since I'm like twenty 223 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: years old, um to hit me up and she was like, 224 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 1: long story short, Bethany's one of my clients. She wants 225 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: to know if she can give you, uh, give your 226 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 1: names to the casting people. And I was like, yeah, sure, 227 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: like being like why are they gonna cast me? Like 228 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 1: I'm not like I'm not rich, like I'm not their age. 229 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:45,440 Speaker 1: I don't go to the everyst side I'm nothing like them. 230 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:48,559 Speaker 1: I don't see how this could ever work. Ever. Were 231 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: you a fan of the show at that point, so 232 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 1: you know, I was a fan of Jersey and Beverly Hills. Yeah, 233 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 1: New York. I had watched, but I hadn't watched it 234 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:00,079 Speaker 1: in a while. Like I had watched it when like 235 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 1: Luanne and Tom were like, yeah, because that was like 236 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:08,559 Speaker 1: really good TV. Um, but I hadn't watched it in 237 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 1: a while. Um. But Jersey and Beverly Hills, yeah, those 238 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: are good. And we're also obsessed with Miami. So my best, 239 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:19,599 Speaker 1: the best scene ever with you is running naked with 240 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 1: the torches. Torches, I mean, because I love a house. 241 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: But I didn't get naked on camera because that's my 242 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 1: go to, like if I get drunk, be careful later 243 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: I take my clothes off. My husband's like, my husband's like, babe, please, 244 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 1: when you drink, can you please stop? And licks you 245 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: and then yes, oh my god, could be around you drunk. 246 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:45,079 Speaker 1: You sound so much fun. She's pretty much her all 247 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 1: the time, unless she's like angry Tam then it's a 248 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:50,839 Speaker 1: little bit different. By the way, I also watched a 249 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: lot of like o C, like early o C and 250 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 1: even like not early oh C Like I was watching 251 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 1: that also so liked respect. So who's your all time 252 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 1: And obviously you can't say Tamar because she's sitting here. 253 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:03,319 Speaker 1: I know you wouldn't say me because no one in 254 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:06,320 Speaker 1: the right mind would. But it was your all time favorite. 255 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 1: I was your all time favorite housewife Teresa Judais currently, 256 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:16,199 Speaker 1: Oh it's not it's not about currently she having a 257 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: great did she have a great season this season? Like 258 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 1: did she do all things that? I'm like, I love 259 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 1: you for this because you're right and whatever. No, she's good. 260 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 1: What she's given us is crazy, Like I can't, like, 261 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 1: there's no other scenes that make me cry out of 262 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: all the franchises, like when I like see the montage 263 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 1: of like her dad and her mom and like everything 264 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 1: you're infested moving out of the house, like I'm watching 265 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: I cry her coming home from prison, Like what housewife 266 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: has come home from prison? I hope, I hope no 267 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: one else we know? Well, no, I don't want to. 268 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 1: I mean there's a lot of mug shots. There's a 269 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: decent amount of mugshot. Ever want to go to prison? 270 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: Do you have a mug shot or no mugshot? Yeah, 271 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 1: it's not cute. I feel like I saw did you 272 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: ever been arrested? No? I mean sure I was gonna 273 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 1: get arrested when I threw that wine in Gina's face 274 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 1: that one season. For sure. I literally went home like, 275 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: didn't take my makeup OFX, put my hair up on 276 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 1: the pillow, and I'm like, if I'm gonna get arrested, 277 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 1: I want to have a good mic shot. Yeah, very important, 278 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 1: because I was convinced, well, if you're somebody, you know, 279 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 1: some people have multiple and then they have you know, 280 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 1: some are good. So I'm not so good. I think 281 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: we have to strive for you didn't get to like, 282 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: I feel like you didn't get to have fun on 283 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 1: the show. Am I wrong? That? Essentially what happened was 284 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: I came on the show. Um, I didn't know anybody 285 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: at all, not a not a drop. I was at 286 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: least ten years younger than everybody. And then they paired 287 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 1: me as like Lisa vander Pump as my bestie, and 288 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: so it was a very awkward, awkward actually you know, 289 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 1: like we're going to tea. I've never had tea in 290 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: my life. Like there was just you know, in the 291 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 1: champagne and the shot, like the tea and then they're 292 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: like caviare and I'm like, listen. I was born in 293 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 1: Indiana and grew up in South Carolina. I don't eat caviare. 294 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 1: I don't drink tea, dad, And I really and I 295 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 1: did not watch Beverly Hills. I simply did the show 296 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 1: because I accidentally signed up for a show that I 297 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 1: really didn't want to do it. And I called c 298 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 1: A and begged them to get me out of that contract, 299 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 1: and they said, we could probably do that for you, 300 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 1: but would you do housewives? And then they asked me, 301 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 1: would you rather do Oh See or Beverly Hills? And 302 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 1: I said, what do you recommend because I have a 303 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 1: housewoth places And they said, well, Beverly Hills that normally 304 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: is better for people's businesses and stuff and they don't 305 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 1: normally get into physical altercations that you were afraid of me. Yeah, 306 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 1: And so that's that's cut to. That's where it was. 307 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 1: And then you know, the only time they really showed 308 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: me having fun, which was like you know, when you 309 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 1: were drunk, when it was when I was drunk. And 310 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 1: then let's back that up. The only time you would 311 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 1: let your guard down because you're very controlled, but also 312 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:06,120 Speaker 1: we have to talk about something that's yes for sure, 313 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 1: But I mean I am able to do it here 314 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: because I trust you. If I don't trust the people 315 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 1: that I'm with, it's very hard for me to have 316 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:16,879 Speaker 1: fun because I feel like everyone's out to get me. 317 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 1: I get it, and I think that when you're in 318 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:24,639 Speaker 1: a setting with a bunch of people and you have 319 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 1: to have a show made, and you know that you 320 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: have four hours and somebody needs to get this point 321 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 1: across in those four hours, I would always do it 322 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 1: because you know what the audience even though like some 323 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 1: of the audience was like I know you and Eric, 324 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: did you and Erica have like right? And like everyone 325 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 1: used to love Ariga, now everyone hates Erica and like 326 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 1: what they I mean they do like she's getting it. 327 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: I mean it's crazy, like I actually I feel terrible 328 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:53,680 Speaker 1: for her, Like I can't. It's almost like because you 329 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 1: know what, it's not even about did she do this 330 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: or did she not do this. I don't get pleasure 331 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:01,920 Speaker 1: out of watching someone's life like go through something bad, 332 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 1: like whether she like did this or not did this 333 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: or knew about it? I don't know. Well the public eye, 334 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 1: she's guilty already and they don't even really know. That's 335 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 1: what's it's like like back in the like Roman times, 336 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 1: when they used to put like a person in the 337 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 1: like stadium with like a lion, and people will be 338 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: like eat her out, Like that's like what it's like 339 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 1: on the show. Sometimes. Well, I think that's why we 340 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:27,920 Speaker 1: all like Jersey so much, is because all of them 341 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: are ship shows, and ship is going on in all 342 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: so many different people's lives that it doesn't just have 343 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,880 Speaker 1: to focus on one. I feel like sometimes in New York, 344 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: sometimes in Beverly Hills, it's one person, one storyline the 345 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:48,040 Speaker 1: entire season, and it's just you're beating a dead horse. Well, 346 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 1: I think I think at least season twelve, I mean 347 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: season thirteam like I it was a ship show. But 348 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:59,359 Speaker 1: season twelve, I feel like there were many storylines going on, 349 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 1: you know, which is your first season, that was my 350 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:06,159 Speaker 1: first season. I love that, like Tinsley versus Dorenda, me 351 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:10,679 Speaker 1: versus Ramona, like like Luanne something I don't know, Luann 352 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 1: and Cabaret whatever, like Tonya, like I don't even know 353 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 1: doing her a little stick, you know, But there was 354 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,160 Speaker 1: multiple things going on, not just like there's a lawsuit. 355 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 1: And that's what every single dinner is going to be about. Everything, everything, 356 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 1: all it is. It's it's exhausting. So speaking of who 357 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 1: do you like? Where is the show going on? Like? 358 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:35,120 Speaker 1: Who who's going on Legacy? Do you have any idea 359 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 1: any I honestly really don't have any updates? Um you know, 360 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: I mean they I don't know. I'm not sure. I well, 361 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 1: if they keep you, they're going to keep you on 362 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 1: the new one. They're not gonna be on the Legacy. 363 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 1: You weren't on long enough to go to Legacy. I 364 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 1: would think that they would keep you. And are you 365 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:58,679 Speaker 1: close with Ebony? Um? I haven't talked to any ebany 366 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 1: in a while. Do you talk to any of the 367 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: cast members? I talked to Luanne, I talked to Tinsley, 368 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 1: I talked to Dorinda um Ramona I talked to like 369 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:16,360 Speaker 1: once in a while, like but not I don't even 370 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 1: touch with her, you know what I mean? But like 371 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 1: we're fine, um Sonia, I have lost touch with I 372 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 1: actually am like annoyed with I mean not like I 373 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 1: would harbor resentment or whatever, like I'm over it. But 374 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 1: she like said all this like nasty stuff about like 375 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 1: me and Tinsley that the Diamonds and Rose book, like 376 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 1: she just she said she was going. She basically used 377 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 1: it as a way to just like shoot on Tinsley 378 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:41,919 Speaker 1: and that pistch Um, what do you think that beef 379 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 1: was actually really about? It can't be about not getting 380 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 1: a proper thank you for staying at her apartment? Like what, 381 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: It's jealousy. It's absolute jealousy because like Sonia was married 382 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,959 Speaker 1: to a Morgan and she wanted that lifestyle so badly. 383 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 1: That and Tinsley is from that, you know, like she's 384 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:15,399 Speaker 1: that's her life. Now I have a question for you. Um, 385 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 1: you know, obviously Teddy and I not on the show anymore. 386 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 1: It took us a while to process it, especially me 387 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:24,320 Speaker 1: because I was on it for twelve years. Um, did 388 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 1: you go through that when you found out that the 389 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 1: show you know, was up in the air and you 390 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:29,680 Speaker 1: don't know what's going on? Did you have that like 391 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 1: you know, almost like depression? I mean I like to 392 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: deal with depressional all this time. So honestly, was it 393 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 1: a trigger or was it just like no, Big Dilla 394 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:43,159 Speaker 1: had fun, I had fun. I was like kind of 395 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 1: I think like I needed a break. Yeah, So like 396 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 1: because I think so much happened in those two years 397 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 1: with me, like the pandemic, being on a TV show, 398 00:21:55,760 --> 00:22:00,399 Speaker 1: being like thrust into like this you know, dog or not, 399 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 1: like this pop culture phenomenon, my grandmother dying, dealing with 400 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 1: the pandemic, dealing with depression issues that I was having. 401 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 1: So I needed like I needed a break. But so, 402 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 1: but don't you feel like the show is kind of 403 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:17,680 Speaker 1: like a drug. Um, I think it can be for 404 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 1: some people. I think it's your whole life, like if 405 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:24,120 Speaker 1: you have friends and relationships outside of the show. Yeah, 406 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 1: I think everybody has friends relations outside of this show. 407 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: I don't I think that there are some housewives that 408 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 1: their entire being friends outside of the show. I'm not 409 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 1: saying no, I'm saying I don't think. I think there 410 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 1: are some housewives that their entire life is wrapped around 411 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,120 Speaker 1: their show. Their friends are their glam team, their friends 412 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,440 Speaker 1: are their assistants, their friends like there's nothing they're all 413 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 1: yes people. I think that like that happened to me, 414 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 1: Like that was happening to me because you are around 415 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:53,960 Speaker 1: your glamp and by the way, I love them, and 416 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 1: you know, but I was making like, you know, there 417 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 1: are new people there are yes people there are like 418 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 1: people that are kind of like around sound. And I 419 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 1: think that like this last like year that we haven't 420 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 1: been filming has been good for me because it's like, 421 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:08,959 Speaker 1: you know, I have my streetwear brand, Like I had 422 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 1: this whole life like before I like got on the 423 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 1: show that like almost disappeared in a way because I 424 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 1: didn't have time for anything exactly. Andy said, and you know, 425 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: not to bring up something crappy, but I have to um. 426 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: Andy said, your turnaround from being the most loved to 427 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 1: one of the most hated and one season was incredible, 428 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 1: something he had never seen. What do you think it was? 429 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,680 Speaker 1: I have no idea. I don't know what I did. 430 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:41,680 Speaker 1: And also like, don't it's not necessarily a bad thing though, 431 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,119 Speaker 1: I mean, like, and he always says, like they can 432 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 1: love to hate you, but when they hate to hate you, 433 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 1: that's when you're done. Like if they're talking about you 434 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 1: and they have an opinion about you, like this housepice 435 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: out there that people have zero opinion about, and I'm like, 436 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 1: why are they on the show? Nobody gets a ship 437 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,880 Speaker 1: if they have a strong opinion about you, that's not horrible. 438 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 1: I have like a theory that like people. We're so 439 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 1: upset about the show last season because it wasn't like 440 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 1: fun and light and like whatever escapism that they wanted, 441 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:13,679 Speaker 1: and they pinned it on me. Why I have no idea, 442 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 1: um because I wanted to have fun but I couldn't 443 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 1: because we were talking about very serious things that were 444 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 1: not that were not my ideas to talk about. But 445 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 1: if we're talking about them, I'm going to act accordingly. 446 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: And if we're talking about racism, I'm not going to 447 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 1: get up and get naked and frotiqui torches. I'm just 448 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 1: not doing It's not that it's not the time. It's 449 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 1: a horrible time to fill them across the board for 450 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 1: every show out there, every show, And I think, me, 451 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 1: it was a horrible time to live, like is fucked up, 452 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 1: Like it's like my birthday is coming up, like I 453 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,440 Speaker 1: don't even want I don't feel like celebrating, Like I 454 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 1: just don't like we're not there like yet, like you know. 455 00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 1: So it's just I think, I think, like maybe I 456 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 1: seemed drastically different from one season to the next. For me, 457 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 1: I was still me. But I'm just I'm behaving a 458 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,919 Speaker 1: certain way in a certain environment that's much different than 459 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 1: the environment the season before, and I wouldn't have done 460 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 1: anything different. The only thing I wish is that I 461 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 1: wish that they had showed more because when I was 462 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 1: grieving my grandmother, which I didn't even really get to 463 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 1: do because I was working. Um, I went from like 464 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,920 Speaker 1: being angry and then sad, angry sad, angry sad, and 465 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 1: they only showed me being angry. They didn't show my sadness, 466 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 1: so then it just looked like I was an angry bitch. 467 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 1: I've had many seasons like that, not great Grandmother, but 468 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 1: just they like, if you're going through a bad time 469 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 1: in your life, and as I say, like you could 470 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,119 Speaker 1: have one good season, one bad season, one, you can 471 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 1: have one good episode. We that's we always say you're 472 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,119 Speaker 1: only as good as last week's episode because you have 473 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 1: no idea what's gonna turn exactly some wrong thing. And 474 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 1: then they're not going to show and people say, is 475 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:51,879 Speaker 1: the show fake? Is it scripted? And I say no, 476 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 1: but they can edit you by only showing a certain 477 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 1: part of you, and if we only see a certain 478 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,360 Speaker 1: part of you, it may not be your most likable part. Yeah. 479 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:05,920 Speaker 1: Also it's like I really don't like I mean, I 480 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: had like Rihanna comes to my defense. I know I 481 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 1: was gonna ask you that, Like don't I'm like, oh great, 482 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,639 Speaker 1: like all these like like lame like psychos like on 483 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,520 Speaker 1: my Instagram or like you're the worst. I'm like Rihanna 484 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 1: likes me, so I know it really doesn't matter. How 485 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 1: did you find out about the New York News that 486 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,679 Speaker 1: they were going to go in a different direction? Um? 487 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 1: I got a phone call. Were you surprised? Um? I 488 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 1: am not surprised. You know what something was coming. I 489 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,879 Speaker 1: just felt like something had to happen. Probably, you know, 490 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 1: do you have anything else in the works as far 491 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:50,119 Speaker 1: as TV stuff? Um, that's a maybe she's pausing. She 492 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 1: doesn't know what she's allowed to say. I'm not allowed 493 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 1: to say. Okay, Um, and then just kind of I know, 494 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,399 Speaker 1: running out of time, but just give us updates like 495 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,719 Speaker 1: on how your daughter is, how's your life like all 496 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. Um, Kiki is amazing. She's turning 497 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:11,440 Speaker 1: fifteen next month. She's I know, she got sewing recently, 498 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 1: which I'm really happy on. She made these super cool 499 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,959 Speaker 1: like camo like mask things like that you put over 500 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,639 Speaker 1: your head, like I can never pronounce it. The balat Cova. 501 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,200 Speaker 1: I always say back lava, but that's like that's a 502 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 1: goat cheese. No black la ba is like the no 503 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 1: bank blah blah. It's like goat cheese inside of like 504 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:37,640 Speaker 1: a little that's not. Oh no, we were like dumb 505 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 1: and dumber right now, it's like a what is a 506 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:47,040 Speaker 1: It's a It's like a dessert. It's a great dessert. 507 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 1: But I also have it at Koi and make it 508 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: pretend it's an appetizer and has cheese on it, and 509 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:56,920 Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, okay, well, anyway, keep making amazing masks, 510 00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:02,640 Speaker 1: not goat cheese tarts tarts or anything. And she's doing awesome. 511 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:07,320 Speaker 1: Rob is great. He's like working on his art and um, 512 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 1: everything is good. I'm excited for the summer, like it's 513 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:16,000 Speaker 1: been a long ass winter and yeah, more stuff coming. 514 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:18,680 Speaker 1: I'm going to be in New York next month, so 515 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 1: we STI have to hook up, go to dinner or something. 516 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: They're having the Ultimate Girls Trip premier party in New 517 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 1: York in New York. Yes, yes, I can wait to 518 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: watch that. It's gonna be I'm afraid. I'm so excited. 519 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,639 Speaker 1: Right It was one of those things where you're off 520 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 1: TV for almost two years and you get back on 521 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:39,240 Speaker 1: and then you're surrounding with a bunch of girls that 522 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 1: you don't really I knew Dorenda, but most of them 523 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 1: I didn't really know. And um, you know, you get 524 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 1: back on it. You're like, this is good, we got this. 525 00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,560 Speaker 1: And I'm like, there's cameras everywhere, Like even like Vicky 526 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 1: and I drunk at three in the morning eating cold 527 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,880 Speaker 1: pizza and not realizing what we're talking about, and there's 528 00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 1: cameras on the walls. I'm like, ah, like, ship, what 529 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 1: did we say? So I know we can ask you 530 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,520 Speaker 1: just brought it up. Do you think that last season 531 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 1: was problematic because there was no Dorinda? Oh? I think 532 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 1: that was an issue. But I don't think even Dorinda 533 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 1: could have saved last season. Even Bethany, like, no one, 534 00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. I mean maybe if we had like 535 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 1: eight women and we were I don't know. I think 536 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 1: people just didn't like the like it was just a 537 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: horrible time, horrible time, horrible time. We have to play 538 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 1: one last game we play with every single guest. Um, 539 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,720 Speaker 1: first question, if it's got to be men or women, 540 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:36,320 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to pick from. So, but you're gonna 541 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:37,680 Speaker 1: have to tell us do you want men or women? 542 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 1: Like it's gonna be kiss Mary, It's gonna be Mary 543 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:49,240 Speaker 1: Kelver done. A combination, A combination from anybody from New York. 544 00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 1: It can be of the boyfriends or the housewives, or 545 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 1: if anybody was married that you know. I'm so confused 546 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: right now. Okay, so the question is, would you shou 547 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 1: I could marry kill? Oh got it? But you guys 548 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: picked the people. No, no, you have to pick them 549 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 1: from your from your cast. But it could be their 550 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:14,960 Speaker 1: boyfriends or them. Oh okay, cool. Um I would Mary kill? 551 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 1: I would like probably Luanne. I love it, Dalen, it's over, 552 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 1: that's all right. I just feel like she's probably very 553 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 1: sensual in bed and whatever. Um I would marry that's 554 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: a hard one. That's really hard. I mean I wouldn't 555 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 1: marry Tom. No, No, it's these are this is a 556 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 1: lot of she's from. Maybe I would um marry. There's 557 00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 1: not about the husband's that show. I don't know. I 558 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 1: can can I play a different game? Well, just get 559 00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,200 Speaker 1: that one? Is there somebody married? Are you killing? Are 560 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 1: you killing? Or disappearing? Sometimes we have to say disappeared, 561 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,800 Speaker 1: So like, oh my god, I know I don't know, 562 00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 1: like probably, I don't know. I feel like she wants 563 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 1: to say, Sonya set about it. Well, that was nice 564 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:23,160 Speaker 1: of you, Yes, but Mary Tinsley, you always just ruined 565 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: a friendship there. But then you remember, do you have 566 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 1: any regrets and anything that has ever happened on the show. Um, 567 00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 1: I really don't like to have regrets. I don't see 568 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 1: in it. It's like this is like that's what it 569 00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 1: is like any lessons, right yeah? Ead Yeah, regrets are 570 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: pointless and U this is a fan question. Final one, 571 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 1: what is your biggest fashion mistake you made on the show? Honestly, 572 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 1: even my even my fashion mistakes were like great moments 573 00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 1: because you wanted to read. Both had one that I 574 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 1: really had a little bit of a rough time with. Yeah. 575 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,840 Speaker 1: I really don't like the I do I have an issue. 576 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,800 Speaker 1: I have textual issues. I have hand issues. Both of 577 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:13,120 Speaker 1: you guys in the gloves really Salt Lake City girls 578 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 1: were wearing gloves at the reunion. I don't do well 579 00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,680 Speaker 1: with it. But I did it first. You did, and 580 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,680 Speaker 1: like two years ago I did. I did it, and 581 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,360 Speaker 1: they're just now coming out with it. Yeah, I did first. 582 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 1: It might not have been as expensive as Derek's hand 583 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 1: a glife. It might not have beend ball or whatever 584 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 1: she was wearing, but but you worked it and you 585 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,800 Speaker 1: were first, and that's all that matters. Thank you. It 586 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 1: was that was a crazy look. That was definitely crazy look. Well, 587 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 1: we thank you so much for joining us. You're such 588 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 1: a pleasure. We had so much fun with you. You guys, 589 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:52,120 Speaker 1: make sure that you purchase chaos theory, finding meaning and madness. 590 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 1: One decision, one bad decision at a time, a K. 591 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 1: Tamra's life. That's my mom and uh, go ahead and 592 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 1: follow Liam McSweeney and thank you guys for tuning in. 593 00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 1: Yes and I'll hook. I'll give you a call when 594 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,440 Speaker 1: I get to New York. Yes, please do Yes? Okay, 595 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,240 Speaker 1: h only, yes so much