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Speaker 1: of the grind because you know, I really want to

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Speaker 1: get to this because this right here biggest news I've

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Speaker 1: Uno is officially going to be a part of a

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Speaker 1: casino experience in Las Vegas, which is insane to me.

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Speaker 1: So the Poms casino resort in Las Vegas is going

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Speaker 1: And after this happened, there's supposed to be more Uno

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Speaker 1: And that's according to Mattel, who owns the Uno brand.

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Speaker 1: Now it's unclear at this point if people who go

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Speaker 1: But people are excited. Okay, the people are excited. I

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Speaker 1: was asking friends in the room earlier, like, do y'all

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Speaker 1: tell you now, I'm a Uno player and Uno was

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Speaker 2: I know that it happens, but I've just never.

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Speaker 1: Seen it, so I don't even know like what the

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Speaker 1: I just know that Uno is so y'all like, oh no,

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Speaker 1: Spades is competitive as I don't know what in a

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Speaker 1: like if it's as as adversely is that a word?

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Speaker 1: I don't know if space is competitive across the board,

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Speaker 1: And you know how we do, like we yelling, we

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Speaker 2: You know, your and your uncle might not like each

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Speaker 1: Whoever brought the potato salad, I hope it's good because

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Speaker 1: space is a thing, but oh no, it is a

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Speaker 1: Like even with spades, I've seen people gamble on spade,

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Speaker 2: Because the point of going to the casino is to

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Speaker 1: But according to newsweek dot Com, Uno is I mean,

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Speaker 1: That is going to be so fun. I don't know

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Speaker 1: Not the only thing that I'm trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: do a lot of things included like UNO spades as well,

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Speaker 1: can't like double stacks. Like, there's a lot of different

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Speaker 1: to see all of that. I'm not a big casino

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Speaker 2: But I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm just not a fan of losing money in the

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Speaker 1: games are just not fun when it's all those people,

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Speaker 2: I think UNO's going to be a bit different.

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Speaker 1: I really think Uno it's going to be a big difference,

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Speaker 2: Are y'all traveling to go play Uno?

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Speaker 1: Because that's another thing too, if you're a real Uno

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Speaker 1: Ooh, not in Jersey, in Vegas, but then I would

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Speaker 1: This is a very hard, right, but maybe not because

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Speaker 2: We speaking about playing games.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people are trying to figure out right

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Speaker 1: now if our girl, Meg the Stallion is playing games

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Speaker 2: Now let me explain to you guys what I mean.

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Speaker 2: So news broke. I wouldn't even say news broke.

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Speaker 1: Megde Stallion broke the news that she was dating Klay Thompson.

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Speaker 2: Now let me get on into my opening line.

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Speaker 1: When I came in here, right, I said that people

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Speaker 1: And when I say relationships, I don't know if they're

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Speaker 2: I feel like our girl is dating. That's a part

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Speaker 1: You go out, you experience things with people you know

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Speaker 1: lot of these critiques that I'm seeing Meg the Stallion

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Speaker 2: I get all that. I totally do, and I do think.

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Speaker 1: You know, as I'm learning and navigating and you know,

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