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Speaker 1: Like a good neighbor, State Farm, is there your your

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Speaker 1: in the mix? In the mix? Oh my god, some

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Speaker 1: respect on my name. But now you tell me this

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Speaker 1: these the same motherfucker's that will be Robbie your ass

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Speaker 1: if they didn't have no outlet, These same people that

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Speaker 1: if they didn't have that music outlet. When I came

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Speaker 1: He looks at the rap game from a from a

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Speaker 1: So they about up there. I think it's about like competition.

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Speaker 1: You know, we um we like to address a lot

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Speaker 1: So today, what we're gonna do, We're gonna start off

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Speaker 1: right because I don't know if y'all seen this, but

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Speaker 1: We got a lot to get to. We're gonna talk

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Speaker 1: So you can't even say what were you thinking? Because

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Speaker 1: so absolutely Kenving fucked up again? Oh my guy, again,

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't suck up my first marriage. Stop it,

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Speaker 1: What is what is perfect? Because it's perfect a situation

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Speaker 1: is what it is. I enjoy you, So guess what

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00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:07,920
Speaker 1: We're gonna keep on kicking. But when I'm doing me,

422
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: it did not say a motherfucking yeah, because you'd be

423
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 1: doing you. Yeah, keep and see now and I enjoy it.

424
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 1: And you know something, And what's powerful is in that

425
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 1: aspect that shows how stronger a woman is than a man.

426
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:29,959
Speaker 1: I think it's broth. Yes, will tell you out here

427
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 1: entertaining anybody else. Look, I'm good, miss me. Yes, but

428
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 1: a woman can be like a woman can see you

429
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: out with another woman? He how you doing? Do you

430
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,440
Speaker 1: understanding me dude's gonna be like, I can't even be

431
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: here that mental I gotta go. And as soon as

432
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: they leave, they blowing the phone up. Do you understand

433
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 1: the power of the emotions for you to be able

434
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 1: to say, oh, okay, that's fine, I'm rocking with that.

435
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: We're still going back. They can't handle them type of situation.

436
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 1: But then one of them, the little shit out there.

437
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like, say a little something

438
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: that too much because it's poy understood, real nigga, say

439
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,199
Speaker 1: you're standing on it. But see, I do know how

440
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 1: hard that is for a nigga. Man. I think the

441
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: niggas this and it is. But I think he got

442
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 1: his own girlfriend and everything, and he got him on

443
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 1: the side of she's gonna see her. That's gone. I

444
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 1: don't like it. Now, this is what I'm saying. So now,

445
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,639
Speaker 1: this is what I'm saying. So this is this is

446
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 1: what's this is what's interesting about it. That's why how

447
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 1: you know a man is operating from an ownership perspective

448
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 1: when he's when he's in a relationship or messing with

449
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 1: a woman. And I think when women try to operate

450
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 1: from the ownership perspective, me and say, hold up, you

451
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: can't do that. You understand. I don't think that's level,

452
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 1: and that's cool with me because that's how I operate.

453
00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:05,400
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think that double standard is clear because man,

454
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 1: y'all can see a nigga with this gay and be like,

455
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:11,399
Speaker 1: don't even look. And I know how you feel about

456
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: me because it is what it gotta be, you know.

457
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: But it's crazy how a nigga see you with a

458
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 1: nigga and slick be like, man, this motherfucker is you

459
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 1: kidding me? Yeah, you see what I'm saying, and it's

460
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 1: like damn and so. But for me, I don't even then.

461
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: You know, I don't engage, and just because and eat

462
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 1: it too all the time. And they selfish every time

463
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:38,719
Speaker 1: I think we are. I think we are selfish. I've

464
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 1: been and said that what I wouldn't say selfish. Excuse me,

465
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: excuse me, men, don't let this turn into a man

466
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 1: bashing session. I won't allow such um. We have not

467
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,439
Speaker 1: we are not selfish. I said. We are greeded, greeded

468
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 1: being me meaning that we are ambitious and we don't

469
00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: know and we don't know when the Yeah, hey, so now,

470
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 1: but but now Kevin harn had a real good interview. Man,

471
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: Like you said, he brought a face on head on.

472
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 1: He didn't try to duck it. He said what it

473
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: was when it first happened. He kept a gangster, you know.

474
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,239
Speaker 1: But I can just imagine how rough it is, how

475
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 1: operating with his child. You understand me marrying him after

476
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,120
Speaker 1: you just got out of marriage, because what if see,

477
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 1: sometimes people get it fucked up. I want to talk

478
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 1: about this. Sometimes people get it fucked up. Right. People

479
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 1: think it's the woman that's trying to force this kind

480
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:43,680
Speaker 1: of mad rich and relationship on the motherfucker. It be

481
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 1: the man. Sometimes sometimes it's the nigga bagging you in

482
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 1: the corner. So what if he bagged her in the

483
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: corner and be like, man, I'm fuck with you, stop

484
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,880
Speaker 1: running from me. You know a lot of niggas like me. Yeah,

485
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 1: a lot of niggas like me. We know y'all scared,

486
00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 1: Like now, baby girl, ain't doing you like it? I

487
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: know you heard some shit that ain't how I get

488
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: I come in. Come up. Stop running, specially the ones

489
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: that's rebelling against you, y'all. Yeah, if you feel like

490
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 1: a woman's rebellion rebelling or like you know, what we

491
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,640
Speaker 1: can just keep y'all like, hold on what why you yea?

492
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 1: Why you ain't an all like I want you? He

493
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 1: ain't even all in exactly, No, it's trickery. But but

494
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: at the same time I do why do y'all do that?

495
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 1: What the trickery? When I say it's trickery, I just

496
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 1: mean like, I just I'm infatuated because it's I was like, okay,

497
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,360
Speaker 1: if you're feeling him, that's like if I'm if you're

498
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 1: feeling this dude, you're feeling him, and you're like, damn,

499
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: what's up? Like can we take something? I ain't really

500
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 1: on it, But as soon as you file, they can

501
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, he ain't on it, I'm

502
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: really gonna start kicking it. He in love? Yeah, what's up? Love?

503
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: When I loved you? Even feeling you like it? You

504
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: the homies right, not in patrol the friend the homies

505
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 1: too late. Ain't just be turning these feelings on it

506
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 1: because sometimes they be raw. So I'm saying take it

507
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: while he's here. You're trying to make it like, nah,

508
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 1: this ain't really you know what? We ain't on there?

509
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 1: You know we're doing okay? And the words are powerful exactly.

510
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: You let me know we're not on that baby. My

511
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: whole mind frame is changing about it. And I'm gonna

512
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: wait on you for seeing. Then a nigga. Then you

513
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: also gotta know too, A nigga know who he's dealing with.

514
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: Two So a nigga and not already peeped with you

515
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: want the finch with it? Or you didn't gone? You

516
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 1: on the other side, You on his side and his

517
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: grass and on his lawn. You see what I'm saying. See,

518
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 1: sometimes you got the women who you can tell she

519
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 1: just kind of she ain't coming yet for whatever reason.

520
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: Maybe she don't trust it. Maybe she's just like he

521
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: a dog, whatever she think, whatever she wanted to be,

522
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: it ain't that. Whatever it is, you know, but some

523
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: you could tell when she didn't hop the fence and

524
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: she on your lawn and it's like, oh you over here, Hey,

525
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: I ain't rocking like that. You know that she don't.

526
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,959
Speaker 1: You know, you know on some level that even if

527
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 1: she'd be like, all right, this is what it is,

528
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 1: you still know you on my lawn. I know that. Yeah,

529
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 1: you on my lawn. It's fine, you over there, but

530
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 1: you on my lawn. You understand. See you ain't in

531
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: the house. You ain't in the house no more. You

532
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: on my lawn though, you out there, on you out there.

533
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. So what happens, what I'm

534
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: saying is what happens. Is a nigga know that. So

535
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 1: sometimes niggas know when you're trying to operate from there,

536
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 1: Oh my whole man is changing. It's like, okay, yeah,

537
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: I know. But a nigga trust what he'd do. He

538
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 1: know how he's sweeping. So I know I come through

539
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 1: sweeping exactly. I know, Yeah, I know I come through sweeping.

540
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: I'm just knowing. Listen, you can't say what you want.

541
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: I know I'm sweeping. You understand me. So, and that's

542
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 1: what you gotta understand because and then a nigga know,

543
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: a nigga way you up. Soon they start with you.

544
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 1: They weigh you up and say, oh, she ain't seen

545
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 1: it before. Whether that's good or bad, I don't know,

546
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: but I know she ain't seen it. So now it's

547
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: my opportunity I can do either something good. Like I

548
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 1: tell you, power is always it's a powerful thing for me.

549
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: And then women, you know what if you got a

550
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: man that's like it about you, you know, it's all

551
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 1: in your hands. What can happen, It's all in your hands.

552
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: If you're all together, it's all in But majority of

553
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: the time, if a woman is okay, first of all,

554
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: for a man is like that over a woman, other

555
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 1: than if he's just a crazy motherfucker or you know right,

556
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 1: majority of the timent for a man is liked it

557
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: about a woman. It's because the woman has given him

558
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: room to feel like that is she probably feels the

559
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 1: same way, you know. So if he feeling like that,

560
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: it's probably like okay. So you don't think nobody's operating

561
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: from the space of being lucky or feeling lucky. See,

562
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 1: this is what I This is what happens what I

563
00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: in my opinion, Um, you have some people operating from fuck,

564
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: I got luck. You know, whether that's this ain't all

565
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: about something to some people, Teaching them is the most

566
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: important thing. Absolutely, I feel lucky if I run into

567
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 1: a man, they can motivate my man and sharpen me up.

568
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 1: I feel like I got lucky because that's what I'm saying.

569
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 1: And see that's what I'm so. Now, what what about

570
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: the women? What about the men that's operating from the

571
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 1: I got lucky place. You're not even known the whole

572
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: whole love but he liked dog. But your vibe, your energy,

573
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 1: like how do y'all react to see because we react

574
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 1: to it and colleague group is and ignore calls and

575
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: it's just it's a regular okay. So I would say

576
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 1: that it's kind of like I almost want a man

577
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: feeling like that. It's not like here a group or anything,

578
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: but a woman just like you know, you gotta show me,

579
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: like show me that you for real? Yeah, because men

580
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: will play that role. So what changes your man later?

581
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 1: Then what changes your man from because you can only

582
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 1: thank you for so long, but he's just talking. I

583
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 1: ain't even entertaining it to all right, taking me somewhere shelby,

584
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 1: what's up? Because you know it's a lot of in

585
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: y'all inboxes and whoever in y'all lot some pretty women

586
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: like so I'm knowing it some ship coming through that

587
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 1: time to time. You know, hey, beautiful, you know this,

588
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 1: and that he's been doing this for four years. You

589
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 1: ain't replied. It's like a situations act like they're happened

590
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,479
Speaker 1: out of time. Like I said, I mean, if a man,

591
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 1: it's for real, they're not gonna let up, and a

592
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: woman notices that, Like, honestly, I've been in a situation

593
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: like that where a man told me like you are

594
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 1: the one, like I fuck with you this Then the

595
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: third I'm like, whatever, whatever, you know, years past, years past,

596
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 1: this motherfucker's still serious. Still feel I'm saying the same.

597
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: So I mean, eventually you opened up, y'alls, be like, Okay,

598
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: he for real, because a man is not gonna keep

599
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: doing this over time, That's what I'm saying. Be like,

600
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: so I'm done. Now here's my new question. What is

601
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: what is too long to be doing that? Because how

602
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: serious do you want him to chase nothing? I say, yeah, yeah,

603
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 1: see because for me or not even for me, but

604
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 1: just I understand that perspective, because relentless is a powerful

605
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,800
Speaker 1: thing too. On the other side, too, see, I like

606
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: to present both so the listener can go wherever they want.

607
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 1: But on the other side, how long does he chase nothing?

608
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 1: Because not even a certain time? And I'm not saying

609
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 1: he called you every day like look you know I

610
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 1: want you? Yeah, look you know I want you like

611
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:44,800
Speaker 1: you know you bump into him and like damn, I

612
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: mean I still get this bab when I see you,

613
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 1: I still get this that when we talk, I still

614
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 1: get this that when we kick it, not saying that

615
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 1: we kick it every day, every week, every month. I

616
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,439
Speaker 1: might see you today and they see you six months

617
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: later and you just be like, damn you still this

618
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: and that. Okay, So now are we going to ignore

619
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 1: social media dating? It's a real thing. In two thousands

620
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 1: and said like people are meeting through d MS. Yeah,

621
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: you know, through through inboxing, through comment on shit, and

622
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: whatever the case may be. So what is I think

623
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 1: it's interesting for niggas. The celebrities are like local people

624
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:25,320
Speaker 1: just even local on a local level, celebrities anything. But

625
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 1: just I just think that culture is growing, you know,

626
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 1: I think that culture of internet dating is just getting

627
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 1: out of control anyway. Yeah, because you know what, I

628
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: know that it's the same thing, Like it's not the

629
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Speaker 1: same thing. But I'm saying you can meet a crazy

630
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Speaker 1: person in real life, and you can meet a crazy

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Speaker 1: motherfucker of the internet. But then it's scary because and

632
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 1: then whoever they want to it's a numbers game. A

633
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 1: person can be somebody they don't want to be, right

634
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: and easier because I mean, if you meet somebody in

635
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: person vibes, you get viad. I'm not gonna say that

636
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 1: you always get the but if you're on the internet,

637
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 1: a mother, That's what I'm saying, because you never know

638
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: what type of weird to do this. I do that

639
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 1: that could just be sitting there a fucking creeper with

640
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 1: ten bitches in a basic right, That's what I'm saying.

641
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 1: So with that, you don't know how to use people.

642
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: Just sit behind. I want to meet somebody out, yeah,

643
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 1: and but you don't what. It's a numbers game and

644
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,359
Speaker 1: so it can work in your favor and it can

645
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: work in your against because it's like a tipic. Yeah,

646
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: because it's a numbers game. It opens the flood gates.

647
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:32,359
Speaker 1: So instead of me bumping into one or two men

648
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: in a day, a lot of them. See when I

649
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: go out to the store or this today, I'm bumping

650
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 1: into one candidate of a day around this dry motherfucker.

651
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 1: You see what you do? Have some people who do

652
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,399
Speaker 1: online day because they don't be having time to really

653
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,280
Speaker 1: be out date, but they really want to find somebody

654
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 1: and meet them. But you just have to be very careful.

655
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: That's all I can say. You have to be very

656
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: careful only meet in never being secluded areas with each

657
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 1: other fast. You know what I'm saying, Really get to

658
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:05,399
Speaker 1: know that person first, because people are insane and people

659
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: are operating from these posting shit like so people are

660
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 1: feeling lucky that this is my girlfriend or boyfriend because

661
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 1: this is his Instagram or this is his or her

662
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: Facebook and she's popping. So people are operating from let

663
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: me get with them and meet that lucky standpoint of

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Speaker 1: what I was saying. So I'm lucky for bumping into

665
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 1: this type of level of person based on social media.

666
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 1: That shit ain't even nothing and on a person perspective,

667
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 1: because I don't even care about right right, nah yeah yeah,

668
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 1: yeah yeah yeah. You never had or YO following, but

669
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,839
Speaker 1: see people who is chasing status. That's what I'm saying.

670
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: It's fucked up, That's what I'm saying. And so when

671
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,240
Speaker 1: you open the flood gates, you got all these niggas

672
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 1: that look like the X, Y and Z because people

673
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: feel like they know you from your posts, will never

674
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:01,359
Speaker 1: know me. I've been out in public and people would

675
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: be like, I know you, I've been following you on

676
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: Instagram for baby high, but you don't know. But I

677
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,399
Speaker 1: don't want a little smitchet of a clue of maybe

678
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 1: what you think I could be right exactly, because anytime

679
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 1: a person is going on social media, y'all, if it's

680
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 1: they funny, they said, they whatever, it's what they want

681
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:22,720
Speaker 1: to show you. So you don't know me. I'm showing

682
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 1: you the shit I want you to see. And sometimes

683
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 1: and stuff that people post has absolutely nothing to do

684
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:32,800
Speaker 1: with him, Like, yeah, if I'm posting someday, I probably

685
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: read and I was probably feeling what it was saying.

686
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 1: They don't mean I'm going then, Yeah, that's another thing

687
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 1: people do. Just because these boys be posting how much

688
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: they love and want to be with a girlfriend, don't

689
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: let that fool you. Don't think he did has mushy

690
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 1: soft type because he hold all exactly. Just because they

691
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 1: posting out this fake as jury and designer, don't mean

692
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 1: he got money. He's trying to get your Texas girl

693
00:38:55,040 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 1: many best behavior right now, tell y'all. I was out

694
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 1: eating though. I was out eating some little food one

695
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: of my friends, and I was sitting across from this

696
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 1: couple and it was just like I knew he was

697
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 1: with this girl because it was texting you I'm talking

698
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: about I'm up here laughing all time. I eat by

699
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:21,280
Speaker 1: Little Don and I'm like, baby, it's tax season, babies,

700
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 1: and them posts be real, So y'all need to pay

701
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: attention to them. Ladies. Y'all listening right now. I bet

702
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 1: y'all do to the house right now, cooking y'all the fakes,

703
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:40,839
Speaker 1: Hamburger helper, getting the kids ready for bed rapping gill.

704
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 1: They know it's gonna pay y'all. Whise niggas operate as

705
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 1: fucked up. I don't know, y'all, but I'm doing Texas

706
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 1: this year and I need I'm keeping it real. Today's

707
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: tax service, I'm doing it. Hit me up. And also, man,

708
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 1: Kate Michelle too, we to get into this Kate Machhie

709
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: thing she was talking about. Kim kay, let's let us

710
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 1: talk to y'all. Let's see what she said. I said,

711
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Speaker 1: I was looking at the Kardashians and I love them.

712
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,920
Speaker 1: I loved how they built this empire. You know, you

713
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 1: can never knock a woman for building an empire. But

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Speaker 1: I also realize, I said, I wish I'd be a

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00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 1: Kardashian so I could be a real black woman. Oh wow,

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Speaker 1: you know, because you count them as being real black

717
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 1: or do you think that our society counts them as

718
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: now when they do something? When when when other people

719
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 1: do something, it's classic. When black women do it, it's ratchet.

720
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 1: You know. When black artists are out of control, it's

721
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: considered it's considered bad. When white artists are out of control,

722
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,880
Speaker 1: it's rock and roll, you know what I'm saying. So

723
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 1: when I see you know, braids to the back. They

724
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 1: told us we couldn't worn it, They say we won't

725
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,359
Speaker 1: get a job. That's ghetto. But now it's in bold.

726
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 1: Oh when I see Chinese snippers on, We've been going

727
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: to the beauty to get these snip Now a designer

728
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,839
Speaker 1: than Gallum, and now it's a big thing. We are

729
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 1: naturally African American women are naturally fly. We have a flyness.

730
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 1: We are curvy, our lips are for our skin complexion

731
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Speaker 1: is beautiful. People go tame for this, you know what

732
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying. People go do they dance for this? So

733
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,879
Speaker 1: I just see them and I'm like, wow, you are

734
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 1: really a black woman appearance wise, you know. But we

735
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 1: tell our Black women they're not good enough or that's

736
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 1: not how you're supposed to act. We always have to

737
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: take back who we are in order to move forward.

738
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 1: There's a major stuff right like this. I really respect

739
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: Kay Michelle for doing what she's doing right now. I

740
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 1: really do, because I don't know. I know people know it,

741
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 1: but I'm saying I'm glad she's speaking out about it

742
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: because that's really serious, because y'all will tear a black

743
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:01,800
Speaker 1: woman's self estate all the way down to build it

744
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 1: up just now, to build it up on another person. Yeah,

745
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, we don't even get the

746
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:11,280
Speaker 1: credit like big lips. We've been headed and we always

747
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,959
Speaker 1: been looked at as like monkey animal type of things,

748
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: and now people getting them and they really looking like

749
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 1: the monkey animals because when you see they don't even

750
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:21,359
Speaker 1: be good jobs. What I'm saying, I'm saying, you're trying

751
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:26,439
Speaker 1: to down something that you really glorify exactly. Yeah, even

752
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:30,280
Speaker 1: with the like like you say, with the shapes and everything,

753
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 1: you want to talk about, how her she faking? Is

754
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 1: it this in the third But why does it matter?

755
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 1: Like anybody else who cares? Ain't nobody asking nobody else?

756
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: Who's that real? Easy z Yell whatever name is. Maybe

757
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: come on now they asking her real? I ain't never

758
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: saying the post, I ain't seen nobody come and say

759
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 1: none about colleague general lips and she didn't have none.

760
00:42:54,160 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 1: And y'all, girl, real muppet. I'm saying, no, look, real muppet.

761
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 1: And you know what people was amazing. But what I'm

762
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 1: saying is is that talk about that talk about how

763
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 1: she got that ass put back there too, because we've

764
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 1: seen her grow up. Y'all know it didn't just happen overnight. Yes,

765
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 1: y'all and so and so let's talk all of them

766
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah, and you know, so we we are.

767
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 1: One of the episodes were talking about how people operate

768
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 1: from the standpoint of I want to be like I

769
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 1: see or like the men want us to be a

770
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:42,799
Speaker 1: I forgot what was the perspective there? Um, she felt

771
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 1: like she was having trouble with me, and so she

772
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,840
Speaker 1: felt like maybe if her body was way bigger, you know,

773
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 1: that a change something because that's what me and liking

774
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,800
Speaker 1: you know, that's what the Prasanna is right now, like

775
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 1: that's how everything is being seen, Like Okay, if your

776
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 1: ass real big, then you get the man, you get

777
00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 1: the check, you get the good lifestyle, you get married,

778
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 1: get the kids, the look, the outlook but then when

779
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:04,319
Speaker 1: you really think about it, she said, she's going through

780
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:06,759
Speaker 1: the same ship and they ain't super fat. That's what

781
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying. She's like, none of that even really matter, because,

782
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 1: like I said, it's about you, man, it's about the

783
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: person the inside, because it's not always about the inside.

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00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: First year, Now, the outside can help you get get

785
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 1: to a nigga a little quick node fast, I say,

786
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: only attracts the superficial, and I love it. I'm gonna

787
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 1: say something about the outside. We already know. No, you

788
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 1: big facts, you know. I like to put you know,

789
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 1: big old facts because now you know again it's just

790
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,319
Speaker 1: a it's a certain look to it. You know, it's

791
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 1: it's a certain type of it's a powerful thing. Man,

792
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:56,480
Speaker 1: It's it's so powerful. Did y'all see so answer this? Then?

793
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:59,399
Speaker 1: Did y'all see the what was the little white boy

794
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: name keep and King Jones or some shit like that.

795
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 1: So let me see if I think I gotta clip,

796
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: let's talk about this a little bit. Let's run a

797
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: clip right quick, because to me, man, you know, black people,

798
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 1: is it black people? Is it people in general? They

799
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 1: I think a white face gets some money quicker than

800
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 1: a black face. A white face. Now make America great again.

801
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: I don't give this billy Bob from goddamn PULASKI can

802
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 1: come in and goddamn say some I mean, look, they

803
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:41,799
Speaker 1: presented this dude. Just look at that. For what it's worth.

804
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:45,280
Speaker 1: They presented this dude saying like why do people bully?

805
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 1: And this and that? Just people? You think I'm gonna

806
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 1: go get my kid and put him on the camera

807
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:56,320
Speaker 1: doing it. I just that's that ship came from. Like

808
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: that shit was like, I don't know, listen, Mamma was like,

809
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: basically make it. She was like, now what did what

810
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 1: did they do to you? Now? What did they put

811
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 1: it in your back? Now? What did they say to you?

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00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,879
Speaker 1: They put my ham in my back? I guess where

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00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:19,800
Speaker 1: they were from, Tennessee? Yeah, I said, man, let's just

814
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 1: play clue. What if? Guys Frasier here for Complex News.

815
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: School bullying is still a major issue that can threaten

816
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 1: the students emotional and physical safety, But rather than keep

817
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: the issue to himself, Keaton Jones, who was a victim

818
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:38,720
Speaker 1: of bullying last week, decided to share an emotional message

819
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: about the effects of bullying and asking why do bullies

820
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 1: do it? The preference this they want to they present

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00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 1: it that way because if they just slander him, then

822
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,800
Speaker 1: you know, because complex what that show is, you know,

823
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 1: every day struggling on that that's Vibecom, which is the

824
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 1: people who used to own the cable shit. So that's

825
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 1: like if you know, that's the parent company of that ship.

826
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 1: So they know he's full of shit. But but they

827
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 1: can't just be like the little dude that post the

828
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 1: thing is full of shit. We're gonna run the clip,

829
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 1: you know, we get to say that. Yeah, yeah, so

830
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: but but in a way, the little nigga got on

831
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 1: there and said a whole bunch of like shit and

832
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:28,360
Speaker 1: for me, like, I just I don't know how they

833
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 1: operate putting their children online, saying that I just think

834
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 1: it was from a place. Then the UFC dude got

835
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: them then said I tried to take them to a game,

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00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 1: you know, I tried to fly him out to the

837
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:43,840
Speaker 1: next event for free. She told me that's okay, share

838
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 1: my go fund me. He said. That's when I clocked

839
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 1: out and made this video. She full of shit, And

840
00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, why would you take that opportunity

841
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: away from your child? Though? Because it was because it

842
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: probably didn't ever, it didn't happen, and then they said,

843
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:00,360
Speaker 1: if it did happen, he was calling them nigga exactly.

844
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 1: So it's just it's just that shit was he deserved

845
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:07,839
Speaker 1: the bully. And then but yeah, you didn't see them.

846
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: They were holding the Confederate flags. Yeah, on the porch

847
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 1: like I. So it's like, come on and you can't

848
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 1: get on here complaining about being bullied and you know

849
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 1: that bash people, Jews, minorities and stuff. It don't work.

850
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: It doesn't surprise. They just leave some ham in your

851
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 1: damn sure instead of black but on hem putting some

852
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 1: ham down, saying lunch putting you. And see that's when

853
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 1: and just like what Nikki said, you know when Nikki

854
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:42,839
Speaker 1: said it's a great time to be a white rapper

855
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 1: right now because she posted the top ten and it's

856
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:48,920
Speaker 1: like three fold rappers in the top ten streaming, it's like,

857
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: yo again, that's the same message Kate Michelle got. Ye.

858
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 1: See see they ain't understanding and this is what people

859
00:48:55,560 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 1: ain't talking about. She posted what she wants. Yeah yeah,

860
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:03,320
Speaker 1: and see this is what people are talking about it

861
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: in terms of y'all try to divide it. Y'all don't

862
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 1: talk about when we push in the same line. Because

863
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: Kay Michelle and Nikki right now, I got the same message, right,

864
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,800
Speaker 1: she just using the wrappers and she using kim k.

865
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 1: But the message is the same. You see what I'm saying, man,

866
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:21,759
Speaker 1: y'all is appreciate no ship with these folks, right, you

867
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying and the message, but no, you

868
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 1: hit nobody saying Ky Michelle and Nicki Minade on the

869
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: same package. Michelle says she's gonna get into country music. Yeah,

870
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,720
Speaker 1: she couldn't take over the game. Yeah, and she calling

871
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:36,359
Speaker 1: her Kimberly, not answering to Ky Michelle because her name

872
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:39,320
Speaker 1: is Kimberly twenty eighteen. She would not be acknowledging anyone

873
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 1: calling her right. She said that too. Got that one

874
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 1: time for the mtact man she had foul. I just

875
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: wonder why I've been so many more fucking breakups and

876
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 1: shit this year. Man, It's been a lot of It's

877
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 1: been a lot of shit, like Cameron and ju Ju Nam.

878
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 1: It's just been so many people that have been together

879
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 1: for so many years, and then once you get into

880
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 1: that limelight and this social media will tear your relationship

881
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:08,840
Speaker 1: to shirts. Which is why I don't put my personal

882
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 1: business about my men on social so so so do

883
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 1: you are you comfortable with him not putting you on

884
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 1: social media? If it's fine with it, I don't even

885
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:22,879
Speaker 1: want my man to post me on his social media,

886
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:26,800
Speaker 1: just to keep it real, because I don't even want media.

887
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 1: My man can have a social media because I don't

888
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: if you're promoting exactly, because we just had that discussion,

889
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 1: we said twenty eighteen, men were just gonna throw this

890
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 1: out here quick, twenty eighteen. If you're grown as man

891
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 1: and you got every social media and not making a

892
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 1: dollar off of it, let this shit go. Yeah, just

893
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 1: say that either. Now, if your man got an Instagram

894
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 1: page and he posting motivational posts for people every day,

895
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 1: you need that type. But what men? What what instagram

896
00:50:56,719 --> 00:51:00,760
Speaker 1: of a man do you see him on? Who you's different?

897
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 1: She might be a public speaker or something like that,

898
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:05,320
Speaker 1: but I'm saying that they might be a man. I

899
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:08,240
Speaker 1: don't hear aspiring or whatever a man. Don't hear posting

900
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 1: this designer or him at the club, or you posting

901
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 1: you and your homeboys or yos lunch from yesterday. This

902
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 1: then the third let that go. And even if you

903
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 1: post it inspirational what you would considers inspiration exactly? What

904
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:31,399
Speaker 1: like are you doing that? Are you saying he's doing

905
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: that because he knows I'm touching people? Or I mean,

906
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 1: has he turned to his platform into like a this

907
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: is where this is where we get off the motivational

908
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 1: type of vade. People follow me with that type of

909
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: vag know what I'm saying, like, he yeah, and those

910
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:50,920
Speaker 1: are the people that he connected. People that follow him,

911
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 1: they want to see that motivational ship come on their

912
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 1: timeline every day. So he could be helping a lot

913
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: of people, That's what I'm saying. So it depends on

914
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:03,239
Speaker 1: what you're doing on that How accessible do you want

915
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: your man to be? I feel like when they do

916
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 1: come to social media world godless, if you're promoting business

917
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:11,719
Speaker 1: or whatever, it's a time and a place. I feel

918
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:17,400
Speaker 1: like if we, you know, just really having some woman

919
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 1: and man time, baby down, because I'm the type of

920
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 1: person if I'm with somebody that I want to be around,

921
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be on my phone like that. I

922
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 1: see people can't even people say that. But let me

923
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 1: say something about the phones and social media. They are

924
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:37,560
Speaker 1: so addictive. People are with people they love and fucking

925
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 1: with the phone. People are in meetings for millions of

926
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:45,479
Speaker 1: dollars and I'm looking around, like what are y'all doing

927
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,319
Speaker 1: with the phone? Like people are like this, ru y'all

928
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 1: ain't even getting what's going on. People walking through the mile,

929
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:55,880
Speaker 1: walking through life here down. Yeah, I don't. It's like

930
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: a fix. It's like you have to. It's like because

931
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:00,319
Speaker 1: when you post something now you want to keep checking

932
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 1: and then you know what, it makes it so easy

933
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:06,359
Speaker 1: for you to be accepted in this society. Like when

934
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 1: when the motherfucker get out of those likes they like, yes,

935
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:12,839
Speaker 1: the people love me, yeah, but it's fake love. It's

936
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:16,839
Speaker 1: and so it's what happens there. Social media is so new.

937
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 1: We don't know how to deal with that energy. That's

938
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:22,360
Speaker 1: some new energy. See, we know how to deal with

939
00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 1: frown smiles, you know, all this shit that been in

940
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 1: the in the atmosphere. But this shit whole, nigga, this

941
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:33,880
Speaker 1: is different. We just got two thousand motherfuckers like this

942
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: motherfucker like, this is some different type. How many people

943
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 1: you think had two thousand people they felt like ads

944
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 1: on them at one time, hit light on something or

945
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:48,080
Speaker 1: something like that. You know, So that energy is something

946
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:52,279
Speaker 1: that people are not knowing how to cope with. Yeah, yeah,

947
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 1: they don't know how to handle it. It's coming and

948
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 1: it's like especially women, that's why they turn around with

949
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 1: that assoom. So if you have to, because right now

950
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:05,040
Speaker 1: I was out, I went out to a happy hour

951
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 1: and I'm saying, like I was like thirty two degrees outside,

952
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 1: I got on, like hands, what a coat? I'm talking about?

953
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:19,200
Speaker 1: Everybody asks naked almost And I'm just like, baby, if

954
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: you need attension that bad that you will freeze like

955
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 1: a frozen chicken wing out here in this work, you

956
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: need to be shot. So why do they still? It's

957
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 1: gonna be a whole lot of funerals, right, So even

958
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:35,800
Speaker 1: I feel like the only way you can be beautiful

959
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 1: is if you're showing somebody that your ass is naked,

960
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: then you're not. So what about the pretty bitch just

961
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: doing it? See that's what's cone gotta be somewhere. But

962
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:48,800
Speaker 1: it's just like what we've been saying, it's society, like

963
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 1: you could feel you could be gorgeous as fuck, but

964
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 1: then it's like I'm beautiful, but what is it? I

965
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:57,839
Speaker 1: gotta have this ass too, because this is what's because

966
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,320
Speaker 1: so what if she got out that white, so to

967
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:05,479
Speaker 1: explain to me why she's because this is what's saying.

968
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: First of all, like we said, society, society is looking

969
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: at out this entertainment shah out of entertainments. When they're

970
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 1: doing their job. This is how they're dressing. But what

971
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 1: we got to remember, this is their job. This is

972
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:20,240
Speaker 1: not their everyday life. Like you're not gonna catch Nicki

973
00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:22,400
Speaker 1: Minaje in something she would be on on the cover

974
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 1: of a magazine in the fucking airport, right, And that's yeah.

975
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 1: People are confusing real life with this image of entertainment

976
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,719
Speaker 1: and this is not there. And some people probably feel

977
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 1: like they they they are their body, you know what

978
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's that's how everything. So I'm pretty because

979
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:44,799
Speaker 1: I know women like this she pretty body banging because

980
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:49,080
Speaker 1: it's been done right, but hers hads. I know. I'm

981
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:51,280
Speaker 1: just speaking of some people that I know in general

982
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 1: and I and I'm not saying for them, but I'm

983
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 1: just thinking about the mindset period. What about the woman

984
00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 1: that hads all the looks to ask the the car,

985
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 1: the crib, I don't let and still if she now

986
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 1: the attension is what she's she's after, right, ain't an attention, like,

987
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 1: because that's all this left I guess, so you tell me.

988
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying that gotta be you got to be looking

989
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 1: for the attention. I don't know what type of ten

990
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry that only drives the wrong attention. But

991
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: women appreciate attention, yes or no, most definitely we do.

992
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 1: I appreciate attention because I get it all the time

993
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 1: and I'm not even trying to break. But I'm saying like,

994
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:32,239
Speaker 1: and I'm never having and that's what you have to

995
00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:36,280
Speaker 1: naked on my social media. I'm never half naked on nothing,

996
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:39,359
Speaker 1: and I still get plenty attention because I'm still beautiful. Yeah,

997
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:41,440
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So you really don't have

998
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 1: to do that, Like I'm just saying, but it's women

999
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 1: who are in competition with each other, Like okay, like

1000
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 1: you said, we're comfortable being getting attention for all the

1001
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 1: right reasons. Oh you're gorgeous, you know, you have a

1002
00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:54,359
Speaker 1: great personality, you have a beautiful smile. Year this year

1003
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:57,120
Speaker 1: that some women that's not enough for them, that doesn't

1004
00:56:57,160 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 1: feed their ego enough. They're like, okay, well okay, they

1005
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 1: said she got a nice mouth this day in the third,

1006
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:04,560
Speaker 1: But what about me, I got a fat ass. Let

1007
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:08,520
Speaker 1: me show this this don't get all the teams. Fuck us, man,

1008
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, fuck us many cheesing from here to West Africa.

1009
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you know, I just saying, you know, hey,

1010
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: but at the same time, like some niggas into your

1011
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 1: substance too, you know, but them niggas is hard harder

1012
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 1: to find. But but at the same time, you also

1013
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 1: gotta there is a level of fake woke people too.

1014
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:33,600
Speaker 1: You know. It's a whole bunch of fake woke ship

1015
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 1: going on on Twitter, right, you know what I'm saying.

1016
00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 1: They tweeted about the whole bunch of shit this when

1017
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 1: the other they put the title to be woke and

1018
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 1: put out these labels on it. That's when it became

1019
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:46,920
Speaker 1: fake because being woke or whatever that's supposed to even mean,

1020
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:50,640
Speaker 1: just got something to do with You're into it. Keep

1021
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:53,840
Speaker 1: educating yourself and keep prospering. They don't got nothing to

1022
00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 1: do with you being woke. You aware of what's going on.

1023
00:57:56,800 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 1: It's really all it is. Right everybody should be. But

1024
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 1: they can't because guess what what we were just saying,

1025
00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 1: Like they said, man, when they go to a dinner table.

1026
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 1: It's thirty of them and everybody they nobody's talking to

1027
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 1: each other. Everybody's down on their phone. They literally at

1028
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 1: dinner you did. Yeah, gang gang, gang gang. But but

1029
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 1: you know what, like these I'm telling you, this phone

1030
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 1: is more powerful than we know because it's sending these

1031
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 1: microwaves or these radiations whatever from the phone that got you.

1032
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:36,800
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like addicted to having this phone,

1033
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 1: Like it's deeper than we really know. We only on

1034
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 1: the surface trying to scratch and understand why people can't

1035
00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:45,160
Speaker 1: put them motherfuckers down. Because if a person lose their phone,

1036
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:49,919
Speaker 1: I swear to God, they day the first day. It's

1037
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:52,080
Speaker 1: almost like you ain't gotta fix the crick like you,

1038
00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:55,000
Speaker 1: I gotta do something. I don't know if I'm gonna

1039
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 1: just buy no bron Know what I'm saying, You get

1040
00:58:57,000 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 1: you fidgetty like wise, Yeah, that shit deep. And you

1041
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 1: know something, I just was looking at my computer and

1042
00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 1: I see what we was talking about. Were talking about

1043
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:15,080
Speaker 1: the relationships. And when we were talking about Kevin Hard,

1044
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:17,720
Speaker 1: you said something. I'm trying to remember what you said,

1045
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 1: but it ain't come Oh about the whole thing. When

1046
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 1: I was saying he presented the other side of it,

1047
00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 1: when he presented the side of the arrogant cheetah. Right right.

1048
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 1: I don't think I spent enough time on that because

1049
00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:35,520
Speaker 1: I think my listener probably like, why y'all didn't stay

1050
00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 1: on that a little bit? So, now, if you if, if,

1051
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 1: if you're in a situation with a guy, do you

1052
00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 1: what happens when he when he reacts to you with

1053
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 1: something you're disappointed about, and he may not be connected

1054
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 1: to it that way, he may not even look at

1055
00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:59,919
Speaker 1: it the same way. But granted somebody he posted care about,

1056
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 1: he's disappointed in that. So what's the what's the reaction

1057
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 1: to somebody looking at the situation the same man you

1058
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 1: caught me fucking up? It is what it is? Man,

1059
01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 1: what you're gonna do? That means if they don't give

1060
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 1: a fuck about you or the situation? What if? So

1061
01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:22,360
Speaker 1: what if you so? Because men are good? Right? So

1062
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 1: he's in your man, he ain't telling you this, and

1063
01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 1: your man, you believe he cared about you? You do

1064
01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:32,280
Speaker 1: he ain't. This ain't something he he cared about you?

1065
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 1: So what if he did care about? Okay, so let's

1066
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 1: say let's say that then all right, he telling you

1067
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 1: he cared about you, so he presented himself as to

1068
01:00:41,440 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 1: care about you. Now although he doing that and he

1069
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 1: but he reacts nonchalant to that situation. You accept that

1070
01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:58,760
Speaker 1: and you go on, do you expect for this to stop? Nah,

1071
01:00:58,920 --> 01:01:02,560
Speaker 1: it ain't gonna stop because the seal is broken. Yeah,

1072
01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 1: we gotta address this. It's not gonna stop because it's

1073
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 1: like after that one time a motherfucker did something and

1074
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:13,840
Speaker 1: THEYDN got away. They feelish like they said, let nigga sliding,

1075
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 1: gonna start figure skating around. Some niggas do change because

1076
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 1: I remember, I know me this nigga I am right now,

1077
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 1: I wasn't him five years ago. So I do understand

1078
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 1: niggas changed, they do. So now how do you know

1079
01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 1: when that change is nil? How do you know when

1080
01:01:29,760 --> 01:01:35,080
Speaker 1: to say because that arrogant? So now his actions is

1081
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:39,360
Speaker 1: I've been good for everything else, but this right here happened,

1082
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:41,480
Speaker 1: And I said, you know what it is? What it is? Man?

1083
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 1: You got here bullshit? You know? Because I just feel

1084
01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 1: like niggas is operating like that because sometimes I can

1085
01:01:56,480 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 1: get arrogant like that, Like you know, I'm like, man,

1086
01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:02,440
Speaker 1: you know it is what it is? Fuck it, and

1087
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: it's like, damn, don't somebody cared about you On the

1088
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: other side, like why are you ein't telling me that?

1089
01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 1: Why is this? What is this youth not acceptable? Right?

1090
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: So you know what I'm saying, niggas ain't so, but

1091
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:21,600
Speaker 1: you love them, And that's what love is. A powerful,

1092
01:02:21,760 --> 01:02:29,120
Speaker 1: dangerous learn to let go about. That's what I'm saying,

1093
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 1: because okay, we love each other. What that mean though,

1094
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying like it really don't mean. I'm saying you

1095
01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:42,720
Speaker 1: might do care about me. Now you love yourself first,

1096
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, because I'm it's like I'm losing

1097
01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:50,800
Speaker 1: me accepting you everything exactly what that ain't what love

1098
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 1: post to be exactly what I'm telling you, So it

1099
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 1: ain't really love. It's some bullshit, yeah, if it's if

1100
01:02:56,800 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: it represents I'm losing myself scepting you. Yeah, because it's

1101
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 1: like every time like, okay, now you didn't done something

1102
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:06,960
Speaker 1: names arryan fuck it. Okay, Now I supposed to keep

1103
01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 1: on being like Okay, you know I'm based on love, Yeah,

1104
01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 1: based on love, and this motherfucker more than you really

1105
01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:16,720
Speaker 1: love your own common sense. Yeah, that means the shit

1106
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:18,800
Speaker 1: not gonna change. That's what I'm saying. We see, I

1107
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:21,240
Speaker 1: don't know, because it could, but I ain't got ten

1108
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:23,520
Speaker 1: years for you to change it. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

1109
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 1: So it might motherfucker change it. But by the time

1110
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: you didn't change it, I'm gonna be married, happy with

1111
01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 1: somebody else. But so help me understand this thought in

1112
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 1: our culture? Why why come our relationships gotta end missing?

1113
01:03:37,920 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 1: Why come you don't I have a lot of old

1114
01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:43,959
Speaker 1: past relationships, and I'm friends with all of them really

1115
01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:46,480
Speaker 1: because I don't have bad blood in the camp, because

1116
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:48,280
Speaker 1: I don't feel the need for the bad blood. I

1117
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 1: feel like we should be able to see each other speak,

1118
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:53,920
Speaker 1: be happy for each other genuinely if something happen in

1119
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:56,919
Speaker 1: your life and and so and so. Now that's afterwards.

1120
01:03:57,080 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 1: I'm talking about when you together, you in love, and

1121
01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:04,000
Speaker 1: he or she decides to come to you like a

1122
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 1: grown person and say I no longer want to be

1123
01:04:07,320 --> 01:04:10,520
Speaker 1: with you, and you're like, no, let's work it out.

1124
01:04:10,560 --> 01:04:12,680
Speaker 1: Why why why we can't work it out? Why hold on?

1125
01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 1: Why you ain't told me? See that goes back to

1126
01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 1: that whole All you have to do is tell me

1127
01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 1: I don't even want to tell you no more. I'm

1128
01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:21,640
Speaker 1: ready just to move. Well, no, I don't and I

1129
01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 1: don't want to do that. Why will we do? And

1130
01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 1: that might not be a pretty situation at first day

1131
01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: you received that type of message because it was became unexpectedly.

1132
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is you will learn to get

1133
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 1: over this ship. That's how everybody it seemed like our

1134
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: relationships got to end with somebody cheating or somebody hurting

1135
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:41,640
Speaker 1: you or beating you up or or buntherfucker you know,

1136
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 1: doing some dirty ship. Yeah, it's no, it's never sit

1137
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:47,760
Speaker 1: down and be like you know what, man, Yeah, and

1138
01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:49,640
Speaker 1: be like you know what, it just ain't working. You

1139
01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 1: cool lest here? I hope you think I'm coolest here.

1140
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 1: But let's just go our separate way being emotion of

1141
01:04:56,240 --> 01:05:01,360
Speaker 1: the man is the one present that there. At first,

1142
01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 1: they might be a little uh because they don't really

1143
01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 1: get it. But I'm saying, you know what I'm saying,

1144
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 1: I ain't like that really, you know what I'm saying,

1145
01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 1: Like I feel like I might. It might hurt my

1146
01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:14,240
Speaker 1: feelings and I might cry about it, you know, like

1147
01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 1: I got a whooping something like a man like I'm

1148
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:19,520
Speaker 1: talking about real hurt but I'm saying, like I get

1149
01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 1: over it. That's life. Like I don't feel like everybody

1150
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:25,400
Speaker 1: you run into a you date, or you mean it's

1151
01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 1: meant to be. What if you're feeling What if you

1152
01:05:28,880 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 1: feel it? What if you see because you this is

1153
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 1: what people don't get feel it, but it ain't reciprocated.

1154
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: So that means it's a one way street and it's

1155
01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:41,160
Speaker 1: a problem. So the thing about love is confuses you.

1156
01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:44,480
Speaker 1: And what it does is it makes you say, it's

1157
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 1: my fault, the reason why you can't get it. It's

1158
01:05:48,160 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 1: something I'm not doing. If I can just do this,

1159
01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 1: you will get it. Just hold up, You're gonna get it.

1160
01:05:55,040 --> 01:05:57,560
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. And so that's the that's

1161
01:05:57,640 --> 01:06:00,640
Speaker 1: the thing that I'm saying. Some people operate and thinking.

1162
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:03,960
Speaker 1: The thing about love is when you are in love

1163
01:06:04,040 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 1: with somebody, you're gonna find a reason to believe that

1164
01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:11,640
Speaker 1: it may be on you, it's not them, you know

1165
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:13,800
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So you're gonna be saying those things.

1166
01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:16,800
Speaker 1: Now when you're operating from that place, how do you

1167
01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:20,000
Speaker 1: how do you tell yourself it's getting better or it's

1168
01:06:20,040 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 1: getting it's getting worse. Because for me, I look at

1169
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:25,360
Speaker 1: the situation and say, when we're dealing with a black

1170
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:28,800
Speaker 1: relationship like me, I can't just go to somebody to say, man, baby'

1171
01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 1: gonna look, it's not working. It's always something behind that.

1172
01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:36,840
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I don't know if I'm

1173
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 1: presenting myself like I don't know you know what I'm saying.

1174
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:43,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying, if this is two people

1175
01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:45,160
Speaker 1: that care about each other, y'all love each other, You're

1176
01:06:45,200 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 1: not coming at me and baby it's just not working. Right.

1177
01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:50,560
Speaker 1: I will hope that if you want to bring that

1178
01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:52,800
Speaker 1: conversation to me and you want us to continue to

1179
01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:55,840
Speaker 1: have a relationship after that, you will handle it accordingly.

1180
01:06:56,200 --> 01:06:59,320
Speaker 1: So now you will have a real conversation with me

1181
01:06:59,400 --> 01:07:01,320
Speaker 1: about something. We will come to a common ground to

1182
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:03,600
Speaker 1: where you feel like I complete love. So Cameron and

1183
01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:06,480
Speaker 1: Juju is together, ten of them, two a thirteen year

1184
01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 1: You know it ain't fun. But yeah, but but but

1185
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:15,240
Speaker 1: his but his thing, His way of looking at the

1186
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:21,080
Speaker 1: situation is it ain't fun, no more man like. So

1187
01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 1: that's perspective. But see that's perspective. What woman you think

1188
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:29,240
Speaker 1: that you with a man and what he's looking for

1189
01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 1: is fun? You, you baby, sucking his dick, cooking his food,

1190
01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:36,360
Speaker 1: cleaning his clothes, keeping his house in order, handling business.

1191
01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:40,400
Speaker 1: He looking for fun. That's what that's what I mean about.

1192
01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:45,600
Speaker 1: Sometimes women ain't. Sometimes women need to understand who they

1193
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:49,600
Speaker 1: fucking with so you can know what he needs. You

1194
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:53,800
Speaker 1: offering all these things that maybe it's right for John,

1195
01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:58,600
Speaker 1: but you got Alex right. You see what I'm saying.

1196
01:07:59,200 --> 01:08:02,280
Speaker 1: He looking for fun, and you provide all this shit,

1197
01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:04,960
Speaker 1: and your man you can justify I'm a great woman.

1198
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 1: But in his bed he like, man, I'm only some

1199
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:11,240
Speaker 1: fucking fun. I just want my relationship, me and my

1200
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:14,600
Speaker 1: shouler to laugh and joke and kick it and be

1201
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:17,200
Speaker 1: able to do that fuck out let who won't land

1202
01:08:17,240 --> 01:08:20,160
Speaker 1: and who's saying this and that fuck outlet. I just

1203
01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 1: want to be able to and so. But you ain't

1204
01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:26,760
Speaker 1: providing that, but you cooking, cleaning. So it's about perspective,

1205
01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 1: it's about it's about what you're doing for a nigga

1206
01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:32,080
Speaker 1: and what he willing to let you do. You know

1207
01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, what you and what he willing to

1208
01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:37,320
Speaker 1: accept as love. And that's what's so tricky about love.

1209
01:08:37,400 --> 01:08:39,080
Speaker 1: It makes people don't even want to deal with that

1210
01:08:39,240 --> 01:08:43,080
Speaker 1: because it's so much so beautiful at the same thing.

1211
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:46,400
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I mean, you just gotta ship

1212
01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 1: communication to communicate. But sometimes life through them punches, you

1213
01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:55,439
Speaker 1: gotta either take that motherfucker let it go, heal from it.

1214
01:08:55,520 --> 01:08:58,599
Speaker 1: And you know what I'm saying, like, just why invest

1215
01:08:58,720 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 1: so much? Don't see this? This is what why I'm carus.

1216
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 1: I mean, people invest because they felt like this was it.

1217
01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:08,360
Speaker 1: But you don't invest all your money. What I'm saying

1218
01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:12,640
Speaker 1: is you you operate with your heart loose. You do

1219
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:16,760
Speaker 1: sometimes what you said the time frames. What I'm saying like, yeah,

1220
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:19,479
Speaker 1: yeah them, that's that's deeper. But now let's just speak

1221
01:09:19,520 --> 01:09:24,880
Speaker 1: about just new little yeah, because boy, at the at

1222
01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:30,240
Speaker 1: the beginning, boy at the beginning, is this something special?

1223
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:37,280
Speaker 1: At the beginning, it's new. It's yea. In the beginning,

1224
01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:39,720
Speaker 1: you could just be around somebody the energy just be

1225
01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 1: so fine and you just feel like, what is it?

1226
01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 1: Do they just go away? You know what I'm saying.

1227
01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:48,439
Speaker 1: And then sometimes it can be it's new. I mean

1228
01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 1: the energy is there because you could have got out

1229
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:53,920
Speaker 1: of a up situation, you could have been lonely, you

1230
01:09:53,960 --> 01:09:57,880
Speaker 1: could have been I'm just saying this different perspective, or

1231
01:09:57,960 --> 01:09:59,519
Speaker 1: it could just be like Okay, at the time, this

1232
01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:01,519
Speaker 1: is what you looking for. It's like, Okay, if I'm

1233
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:05,000
Speaker 1: looking for a pen and I get a pencil, I'm

1234
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:06,280
Speaker 1: gonna be like, all right, I can use this. But

1235
01:10:06,360 --> 01:10:08,519
Speaker 1: if I'm looking for this perp, this pink pen that

1236
01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:10,880
Speaker 1: I've been looking for, You're gonna be like, Okay, I

1237
01:10:11,000 --> 01:10:12,720
Speaker 1: got this pen, Like this is what I was looking

1238
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:15,280
Speaker 1: and this is everything. You know what I'm saying that

1239
01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:17,600
Speaker 1: this is the freshness when you meet somebody, You know

1240
01:10:17,600 --> 01:10:20,000
Speaker 1: what I'm saying to just be like if y'all vibing

1241
01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:22,479
Speaker 1: and you're like, okay, okay, I ain't really vibe with

1242
01:10:22,640 --> 01:10:25,519
Speaker 1: nobody for real, probably in a minute, you know what

1243
01:10:25,560 --> 01:10:27,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So that's really what it probably is. So

1244
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:31,720
Speaker 1: are you looking Are you in life looking the vibe? Nah?

1245
01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:36,599
Speaker 1: But are people? Are people looking to Because me, when

1246
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:39,599
Speaker 1: not operating in life, I need to slow down because

1247
01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:41,960
Speaker 1: I'm not looking for vibes and now I don't know

1248
01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:47,040
Speaker 1: if it's bad or good. I'm looking for information. See

1249
01:10:47,320 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 1: that one in my life, I'm looking for money and information.

1250
01:10:50,680 --> 01:10:53,920
Speaker 1: That's the only shit sticking I don't you know, So

1251
01:10:54,200 --> 01:10:57,519
Speaker 1: the good vibes, that's cool, But I'm only gonna connect

1252
01:10:57,600 --> 01:11:00,240
Speaker 1: with something that makes sense for me, right, and I

1253
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:03,880
Speaker 1: hope everybody that might be what the vibe is. I'm saying,

1254
01:11:04,000 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 1: like information, it could be the right. It's a mental thing,

1255
01:11:09,080 --> 01:11:11,439
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So when I'm vibing, that's

1256
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 1: just the vibrations that's really going on amongst us and

1257
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:17,439
Speaker 1: I shit is connecting right now, like whatever it is,

1258
01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:20,799
Speaker 1: my energy and your energy is doing good. We're receiving

1259
01:11:20,880 --> 01:11:23,639
Speaker 1: each other really well right now. And like you gotta

1260
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:28,360
Speaker 1: go off the vibe because the vibe how you think?

1261
01:11:28,400 --> 01:11:30,200
Speaker 1: How you you know what I'm saying? So right, But

1262
01:11:30,439 --> 01:11:32,720
Speaker 1: like you said, like with their love, should you know

1263
01:11:32,760 --> 01:11:36,639
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, that can take a vibe. Don't necessarily

1264
01:11:36,720 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 1: mean y'all need to be a little either, you know what.

1265
01:11:38,479 --> 01:11:41,160
Speaker 1: But then you also gotta it's so many different ways

1266
01:11:41,200 --> 01:11:43,960
Speaker 1: to look at because you also can say you you're

1267
01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:46,960
Speaker 1: looking at a rock and you can miss a dime. Yeah,

1268
01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:49,439
Speaker 1: it's what I'm saying. So it's so much different ways.

1269
01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 1: So you can be saying, my vibration with this rock

1270
01:11:53,080 --> 01:11:55,880
Speaker 1: is so good that you missed you missed, you missed

1271
01:11:55,920 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 1: the plane. You see what I'm saying. So that's what

1272
01:11:59,160 --> 01:12:02,760
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So it's so I guess for me, you know,

1273
01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:05,400
Speaker 1: I'm in a comfortable place though I'm I'm, I'm, I'm,

1274
01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:09,600
Speaker 1: I'm I guess. I guess. Now I'm looking for information

1275
01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:12,080
Speaker 1: and I want to learn, and I'm in discovery mode.

1276
01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:16,160
Speaker 1: So I'm not really, but vibes is important based on

1277
01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:18,920
Speaker 1: what I get my information. So I vibe is when

1278
01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:22,439
Speaker 1: we first meeting. Now we can vibe it, we vibe.

1279
01:12:22,640 --> 01:12:25,519
Speaker 1: But every week are we out here looking for vibes?

1280
01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like we ain't. It ain't just that a person.

1281
01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:30,160
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, I'm looking to see if our energy

1282
01:12:30,160 --> 01:12:33,400
Speaker 1: we're gonna vibe with each other. It naturally happened. It

1283
01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:36,759
Speaker 1: ain't something that I'm even explained, This naturally happens. Explain

1284
01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:40,160
Speaker 1: what that means. What does naturally happen? Okay, you come

1285
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:42,760
Speaker 1: in contact with someone and it's like, okay, that's kind

1286
01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:46,639
Speaker 1: of like with me and Emeralds friendship. It naturally happened.

1287
01:12:46,680 --> 01:12:49,799
Speaker 1: Like our vibe never focused, so naturally it naturally happened.

1288
01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:52,200
Speaker 1: We met at school, we we took the same classes

1289
01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:55,000
Speaker 1: in college. It was like, you know, it wasn't nothing personal,

1290
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:57,439
Speaker 1: Like we were speaking the morning, had good morning, you

1291
01:12:57,479 --> 01:12:59,479
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Then we started to you know,

1292
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:02,000
Speaker 1: talk to each other and we got it. So natural

1293
01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:04,719
Speaker 1: means no help, right, So when they say your food

1294
01:13:04,840 --> 01:13:09,720
Speaker 1: is natural, When they say your food is natural, when

1295
01:13:09,760 --> 01:13:14,519
Speaker 1: they say your food is natural, that means nothing, no

1296
01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:20,960
Speaker 1: antibiotics or whatever, no added whatever that is, preservatives or

1297
01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:26,360
Speaker 1: whatever the case may be. So natural would mean well, yeah,

1298
01:13:26,439 --> 01:13:29,240
Speaker 1: that that would be natural because y'all bumped heads on

1299
01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:33,280
Speaker 1: you on your path. Yeah, and it's like, you know

1300
01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:36,280
Speaker 1: what it is, you know what I'm saying. I'm not

1301
01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:38,960
Speaker 1: saying that all connections are lifelong things like I probably

1302
01:13:39,000 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 1: could connect with the rock for me to find the diamond.

1303
01:13:41,560 --> 01:13:44,840
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying connections. So it's like I

1304
01:13:44,880 --> 01:13:47,600
Speaker 1: ain't saying that, you know, you connect with somebody and

1305
01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:50,120
Speaker 1: y'all vibum so good that this is a lifetime thing.

1306
01:13:50,200 --> 01:13:55,519
Speaker 1: I'm just saying this feel good right now? Though, But

1307
01:13:55,640 --> 01:13:59,840
Speaker 1: do we understand how so life is about tribes, right,

1308
01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:02,960
Speaker 1: It is about a journey and lessons. So so but

1309
01:14:03,080 --> 01:14:07,000
Speaker 1: check it out. Life is about tribes and so if

1310
01:14:07,080 --> 01:14:11,320
Speaker 1: you trace it all way back. You understand that that's

1311
01:14:11,360 --> 01:14:13,479
Speaker 1: the same thing with Instagram. That's the same thing that

1312
01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:15,920
Speaker 1: you see the same people in each other's circle and

1313
01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:18,760
Speaker 1: it gets big and bigger. Even famous people. It's a

1314
01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:21,960
Speaker 1: meeting people following them, but it's that same hundred two

1315
01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:24,840
Speaker 1: hundred people that's really in their circle that they really

1316
01:14:25,600 --> 01:14:27,960
Speaker 1: you know, can reach out and touch them if they're famous,

1317
01:14:28,160 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 1: if they're not famous, it's on a smaller level. But

1318
01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:35,400
Speaker 1: what I mean, what I'm saying is okay, so um

1319
01:14:36,840 --> 01:14:39,840
Speaker 1: being in this tribe right, being in being trying to

1320
01:14:39,920 --> 01:14:44,760
Speaker 1: stay inside of of of your of your tribe, or

1321
01:14:44,920 --> 01:14:48,560
Speaker 1: trying to get inside of someone else's tribe. Now you

1322
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:53,600
Speaker 1: fuck me, I fuck you right. My tribe is my

1323
01:14:53,800 --> 01:15:02,320
Speaker 1: tribe is so big. So what happens is it could

1324
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:07,000
Speaker 1: be looked at as a level of disrespect. If the

1325
01:15:07,240 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 1: diamond is next to the rock, and right now you

1326
01:15:16,680 --> 01:15:21,240
Speaker 1: love the rock, but then your one day your eye

1327
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:24,880
Speaker 1: open and say that diamond, man, what was that hold on?

1328
01:15:26,240 --> 01:15:28,920
Speaker 1: I just passed the fucking hold on and you go

1329
01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:32,360
Speaker 1: get the diamond. You know what position that put the

1330
01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:36,600
Speaker 1: rock in. That put the rock in a position to

1331
01:15:36,720 --> 01:15:39,840
Speaker 1: say she wrong. Now for the for the for the

1332
01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:43,000
Speaker 1: girl on or the man whoever's on the other side.

1333
01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:46,240
Speaker 1: They're looking at it as if we just we're just

1334
01:15:46,439 --> 01:15:53,040
Speaker 1: trying this right. But men operate from ownership. It's a difference.

1335
01:15:53,240 --> 01:15:57,080
Speaker 1: Men operate seat and that's where you cancel. That's that's

1336
01:15:57,120 --> 01:16:00,760
Speaker 1: the difference between the situations because men don't rate the same.

1337
01:16:01,240 --> 01:16:08,840
Speaker 1: Men operate from what you fuck with me? Nah, I

1338
01:16:09,000 --> 01:16:14,160
Speaker 1: know him now, I know him. You know that. Even

1339
01:16:14,680 --> 01:16:16,320
Speaker 1: it's not even that I know him. It's just like

1340
01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:20,720
Speaker 1: what nah nah nah, I served him. Now. His people

1341
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:24,280
Speaker 1: come through me. His people people come through me, heaven,

1342
01:16:24,640 --> 01:16:27,800
Speaker 1: So you talk to him, it's my people. I'm saying.

1343
01:16:29,040 --> 01:16:30,759
Speaker 1: I don't got his no one, but that's my people,

1344
01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:32,760
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So, and it ain't that

1345
01:16:32,960 --> 01:16:35,280
Speaker 1: that's his people. It's just that I gotta deal with

1346
01:16:35,439 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 1: this nigga. I gotta see him or whatever the case

1347
01:16:38,880 --> 01:16:40,920
Speaker 1: may be. So what happens is you put me in

1348
01:16:40,960 --> 01:16:45,960
Speaker 1: an uncomfortable like I claim I love you. I know

1349
01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:49,559
Speaker 1: you're around the diamond too much. Like just think, if

1350
01:16:49,960 --> 01:16:52,760
Speaker 1: just think, if you're in a situation with somebody, you

1351
01:16:52,920 --> 01:16:56,040
Speaker 1: gotta make sure you fucking with some secure situations because

1352
01:16:56,120 --> 01:16:58,560
Speaker 1: just think and people insecure, and I am too in

1353
01:16:58,680 --> 01:17:01,759
Speaker 1: certain places. I want to be clear, because there ain't

1354
01:17:01,880 --> 01:17:05,560
Speaker 1: nothing in certain areas, you see what I'm saying. So,

1355
01:17:05,960 --> 01:17:09,400
Speaker 1: but when you're in a situation where you operating and

1356
01:17:09,640 --> 01:17:13,080
Speaker 1: and and this tribe is happening, right, so like my back,

1357
01:17:13,520 --> 01:17:18,439
Speaker 1: like somebody I may have fucked with. So my reach

1358
01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:24,240
Speaker 1: is long, right, I can name all these motherfuckers under

1359
01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:27,360
Speaker 1: my reach that I can say that was stupid? That

1360
01:17:27,680 --> 01:17:31,000
Speaker 1: that that that that that what was that? That? You

1361
01:17:31,040 --> 01:17:34,439
Speaker 1: don't even know? See, because I know because I'm up

1362
01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:36,880
Speaker 1: here looking at it from I'm looking at it from

1363
01:17:36,920 --> 01:17:40,120
Speaker 1: I know what you're dealing with, even though you present

1364
01:17:40,200 --> 01:17:42,439
Speaker 1: it like you're dealing with whatever, and it may be

1365
01:17:42,640 --> 01:17:44,800
Speaker 1: what you feel, but I know what you're dealing with.

1366
01:17:44,920 --> 01:17:47,759
Speaker 1: So I'm looking at it saying, that was the stupidest

1367
01:17:47,760 --> 01:17:49,960
Speaker 1: shit you could have done because you crossed yourself out.

1368
01:17:50,720 --> 01:17:54,000
Speaker 1: Right now, women who feel like they losing, like me,

1369
01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:58,200
Speaker 1: I be sometimes under attack when women feel like they losing. Bro.

1370
01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:02,760
Speaker 1: See that's what I mean by the diamond. You pick

1371
01:18:02,840 --> 01:18:07,599
Speaker 1: the rock up and you're thinking this, yeah, that motherfucker

1372
01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:11,120
Speaker 1: crumble and he say, damn it, diamonds still shining over.

1373
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:17,639
Speaker 1: But now, guess what the diamonds say, because guess why

1374
01:18:18,280 --> 01:18:22,160
Speaker 1: men operate from ownership once you have n't done that

1375
01:18:22,320 --> 01:18:24,439
Speaker 1: on the other side of the street. Now I gotta say,

1376
01:18:25,520 --> 01:18:28,680
Speaker 1: over the fuck you just crossed yourself out. You know

1377
01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:31,559
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Even if I wanted to say, my nigga,

1378
01:18:31,640 --> 01:18:35,160
Speaker 1: look you, you've done that, because I can't. This is

1379
01:18:35,200 --> 01:18:38,160
Speaker 1: how we operate. This is how me and that women.

1380
01:18:38,240 --> 01:18:39,840
Speaker 1: That's why I go back to what we say. How

1381
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:42,479
Speaker 1: y'all can bump into a nigga with this bitch and

1382
01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:46,720
Speaker 1: be like, hey, y'all don't operate the same. And that's

1383
01:18:46,760 --> 01:18:50,120
Speaker 1: why sometimes y'all don't. Y'all don't. I don't see women

1384
01:18:50,160 --> 01:18:52,360
Speaker 1: fuck with a nigga and say, why, what's the problem

1385
01:18:53,040 --> 01:18:56,360
Speaker 1: this man? You don't even know him like it. You

1386
01:18:56,439 --> 01:18:59,680
Speaker 1: don't even know this dude like that exactly. And then

1387
01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:03,439
Speaker 1: it is but the man operating from a different place,

1388
01:19:04,120 --> 01:19:07,639
Speaker 1: say it ain't about knowing them shining. I gotta deal

1389
01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:10,280
Speaker 1: with him. This is nigga. I see, we rub shoulder.

1390
01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:14,800
Speaker 1: We don't talk every day, but but we do. You

1391
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:17,519
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. How uncomfortable does that put me?

1392
01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:23,160
Speaker 1: When we got the same interest. My interests and his

1393
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:27,160
Speaker 1: interest is in the same place. And we two men,

1394
01:19:27,680 --> 01:19:31,360
Speaker 1: So how we operate? Who's insecure? It's gonna show. It's

1395
01:19:31,400 --> 01:19:35,080
Speaker 1: gonna show soon. I don't know who, but somebody gonna

1396
01:19:35,120 --> 01:19:39,719
Speaker 1: show their self is insecure. You see what I'm saying,

1397
01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:42,599
Speaker 1: And this is how things happen. And that's what I'm saying,

1398
01:19:42,640 --> 01:19:44,679
Speaker 1: and I understand it. And you know why I understand

1399
01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:49,000
Speaker 1: it because men operate from ownership and women getting cool

1400
01:19:49,080 --> 01:19:51,200
Speaker 1: with me and shit and doing shit like I was

1401
01:19:51,240 --> 01:19:56,080
Speaker 1: telling you about the things giving thing that you're doing

1402
01:19:56,160 --> 01:19:58,360
Speaker 1: it from a standpoint of Man, I'm just gonna you

1403
01:19:58,400 --> 01:20:00,559
Speaker 1: get a play this. This is my due my people.

1404
01:20:00,640 --> 01:20:10,519
Speaker 1: But like it's the holidays, Like, so we ain't hold on,

1405
01:20:10,800 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 1: So you mean to tell me this nigga? You did

1406
01:20:13,240 --> 01:20:17,080
Speaker 1: what he hold on? Hold on? Hold on? We was

1407
01:20:17,200 --> 01:20:20,640
Speaker 1: just I thought we was. I had you over, we

1408
01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:25,599
Speaker 1: was in the It was kind of yeah, yeah, understand

1409
01:20:25,640 --> 01:20:27,720
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And then a nigga like and so,

1410
01:20:28,040 --> 01:20:33,439
Speaker 1: so my whole thing is is women understanding that nigga's

1411
01:20:33,479 --> 01:20:38,439
Speaker 1: operating from that place because y'all don't. We don't. And

1412
01:20:38,560 --> 01:20:41,880
Speaker 1: next trip, So what do you how do y'all feel about.

1413
01:20:42,080 --> 01:20:45,160
Speaker 1: So can I fuck you and then fuck your sister

1414
01:20:46,080 --> 01:20:49,679
Speaker 1: or not your sist, sorry, because that's that's too because

1415
01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:52,320
Speaker 1: the way you're saying how men operate from ownership is

1416
01:20:52,400 --> 01:20:55,559
Speaker 1: more like you know what I'm saying. Maybe it's more

1417
01:20:55,600 --> 01:20:59,839
Speaker 1: because women you can do it later, women operate from ownership,

1418
01:21:02,360 --> 01:21:05,040
Speaker 1: but that's what I'm saying. When it's your man me,

1419
01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:11,000
Speaker 1: I mean women, women are more gotta be your from

1420
01:21:11,040 --> 01:21:16,080
Speaker 1: the gate a man operates from if he see. That's

1421
01:21:16,160 --> 01:21:19,679
Speaker 1: why you gotta watch what a nigga doing. He niggas

1422
01:21:19,840 --> 01:21:23,680
Speaker 1: is bagging you down. Niggas is powerful. See this is

1423
01:21:24,439 --> 01:21:28,360
Speaker 1: I know, and see I can appreciate it because it

1424
01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:31,280
Speaker 1: does take effort to do this. Ain't something that somebody

1425
01:21:31,439 --> 01:21:33,719
Speaker 1: does that don't like you. I want to be clear,

1426
01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:40,840
Speaker 1: but I also understand what the objective is. Right. I

1427
01:21:40,920 --> 01:21:43,719
Speaker 1: always tell a man, I tell her all the time,

1428
01:21:44,120 --> 01:21:46,760
Speaker 1: just trust my actions. Don't ever let me tell you

1429
01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:50,479
Speaker 1: nothing right. Don't you ever in your fucking life let

1430
01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:53,240
Speaker 1: me tell you something. You trust what I do, right.

1431
01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:57,280
Speaker 1: I've trained her to trust people actions because coming into this,

1432
01:21:58,000 --> 01:22:03,400
Speaker 1: I felt as if you know, I'm suavey, you know,

1433
01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:05,560
Speaker 1: I felt as if I can, I can kind of,

1434
01:22:06,920 --> 01:22:09,479
Speaker 1: you know. I didn't like it, you know, and I

1435
01:22:09,600 --> 01:22:12,680
Speaker 1: know that I got a level of I can articulate

1436
01:22:12,720 --> 01:22:14,680
Speaker 1: a little bit, so it's fine. But but but you

1437
01:22:14,880 --> 01:22:17,000
Speaker 1: was I had to tell a whole up. I see

1438
01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:20,800
Speaker 1: how it's moving you. I see how my attitude and

1439
01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:23,160
Speaker 1: my vade move you. I need you to pay attention

1440
01:22:23,200 --> 01:22:26,320
Speaker 1: to my actions though this is a total package. Don't

1441
01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:29,759
Speaker 1: get lost, right, So I wanted her to pay attention

1442
01:22:29,800 --> 01:22:31,800
Speaker 1: to my actions because, like I told her, this is

1443
01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:34,479
Speaker 1: the exact thing I explained to him. If I'm hitting you,

1444
01:22:35,040 --> 01:22:38,479
Speaker 1: I ain't gotta tell you fuck you. You know it's

1445
01:22:38,560 --> 01:22:41,200
Speaker 1: fuck you because I'm putting my because I'm I'm going

1446
01:22:41,280 --> 01:22:43,360
Speaker 1: upside your shit. Soon as I saw you, I was

1447
01:22:43,439 --> 01:22:46,880
Speaker 1: ten told soon as you came in, you understand it

1448
01:22:47,120 --> 01:22:50,479
Speaker 1: was up. You understand, and that's because it's fuck you.

1449
01:22:50,560 --> 01:22:53,280
Speaker 1: I ain't gotta say fuck you. And the same way

1450
01:22:53,360 --> 01:22:55,439
Speaker 1: though I don't gotta, even though I'm gonna say it

1451
01:22:55,560 --> 01:22:58,920
Speaker 1: if it's real. But trust a nigga, A nigga be

1452
01:22:59,000 --> 01:23:01,400
Speaker 1: holland I love you when treating you like a balgon

1453
01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:03,960
Speaker 1: to that day, I'll say that's so fast early too.

1454
01:23:04,720 --> 01:23:10,880
Speaker 1: You love me. That's scary though, as like that's that's

1455
01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:12,680
Speaker 1: the main thing you have to pay attention to is

1456
01:23:12,760 --> 01:23:15,200
Speaker 1: people actions, because a pair of lips will say any

1457
01:23:15,240 --> 01:23:19,639
Speaker 1: fucking thing and like I said, he a motherfucker will

1458
01:23:19,760 --> 01:23:21,600
Speaker 1: pull that out of that you got damn man so

1459
01:23:21,800 --> 01:23:25,320
Speaker 1: quick and let it fall off it tune bagging you down.

1460
01:23:25,640 --> 01:23:29,240
Speaker 1: And so what happens is women, I want them to

1461
01:23:29,320 --> 01:23:33,240
Speaker 1: understand me, and we operate from you can be That's

1462
01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:34,960
Speaker 1: why you can be a nigga sad bitch in here

1463
01:23:35,080 --> 01:23:38,080
Speaker 1: trying to check you. That's why you can be his

1464
01:23:38,240 --> 01:23:40,519
Speaker 1: third bitch and he'll try to check. That's because they

1465
01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:43,240
Speaker 1: feel like women will go for it. That's what I'm saying.

1466
01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:45,519
Speaker 1: We just operate from damn shout, I fuck with you,

1467
01:23:45,520 --> 01:23:48,679
Speaker 1: you post the fun with me, That's what I'm saying.

1468
01:23:49,800 --> 01:23:57,680
Speaker 1: That's that's damn damn crazy right there. I'm telling you

1469
01:23:57,840 --> 01:23:59,720
Speaker 1: some real But as soon as as soon as it's

1470
01:23:59,800 --> 01:24:03,559
Speaker 1: vice versing, you like like like Dann, why you answer

1471
01:24:03,880 --> 01:24:07,040
Speaker 1: called lest now y'all went on a little date. So

1472
01:24:07,200 --> 01:24:13,680
Speaker 1: that's that's what we're doing. You're talking to somebody. You

1473
01:24:13,720 --> 01:24:15,439
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You like you want to go

1474
01:24:15,520 --> 01:24:17,320
Speaker 1: on a date to something and y'all not going You

1475
01:24:17,360 --> 01:24:19,479
Speaker 1: ain't gonna say nothing. You just have another nigga. You

1476
01:24:19,560 --> 01:24:22,000
Speaker 1: let him know you think he gonna be No, why

1477
01:24:22,040 --> 01:24:23,680
Speaker 1: would you feel some type of way that ain't what

1478
01:24:23,760 --> 01:24:29,559
Speaker 1: we're doing. But there's men periods, y'all. Ownership so dead.

1479
01:24:29,800 --> 01:24:33,960
Speaker 1: So that's why it ain't even about that, because that

1480
01:24:34,240 --> 01:24:37,200
Speaker 1: is the same trait that makes us own the company

1481
01:24:37,680 --> 01:24:39,680
Speaker 1: and keeps us on the head of the sea. It's

1482
01:24:39,880 --> 01:24:42,320
Speaker 1: you don't want that trait to leave because it helps

1483
01:24:42,400 --> 01:24:45,200
Speaker 1: us in so many different areas. You gotta learn how

1484
01:24:45,240 --> 01:24:48,400
Speaker 1: to operate inside of that. And when you're not doing that,

1485
01:24:48,560 --> 01:24:51,040
Speaker 1: that's when you're putting yourself in these situations to ruin

1486
01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:53,759
Speaker 1: your name. I know a lot of women that ruined

1487
01:24:53,800 --> 01:24:56,880
Speaker 1: their name and didn't even know what you mean. I

1488
01:24:57,040 --> 01:25:01,320
Speaker 1: know a lot of women that ruin their name and

1489
01:25:01,479 --> 01:25:04,800
Speaker 1: didn't even know it meaning, mess with him, mess with him,

1490
01:25:05,080 --> 01:25:07,559
Speaker 1: mess with him, mess with him. Whether they thinking it's

1491
01:25:07,600 --> 01:25:11,360
Speaker 1: just conversation, this ain't really, but then it's it's growing

1492
01:25:12,560 --> 01:25:14,800
Speaker 1: and that's what I'm saying. And so, but you gotta

1493
01:25:14,840 --> 01:25:18,519
Speaker 1: operate knowing that you can't change it, operate fucking with

1494
01:25:18,640 --> 01:25:22,000
Speaker 1: what you can change. You can't change the niggas. You

1495
01:25:22,160 --> 01:25:25,040
Speaker 1: gotta operate with what's what's in my control because y'all

1496
01:25:25,120 --> 01:25:28,200
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I know that I can't. You did what

1497
01:25:28,320 --> 01:25:30,639
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So what happens is and I and I've

1498
01:25:30,680 --> 01:25:33,080
Speaker 1: seen this with my own ass. I've bumped into some

1499
01:25:33,240 --> 01:25:36,559
Speaker 1: real thorough bitches that had bad names and it's like shot,

1500
01:25:36,760 --> 01:25:40,960
Speaker 1: you ain't even like it, I you see. So what

1501
01:25:41,160 --> 01:25:46,360
Speaker 1: happens is and and and all the know it's getting back.

1502
01:25:46,439 --> 01:25:49,240
Speaker 1: So y'all niggas need to get it together, okay. And

1503
01:25:49,400 --> 01:25:52,240
Speaker 1: this is the kicker, right, This is how to ship

1504
01:25:52,320 --> 01:25:58,880
Speaker 1: operate so crazy it can get back to to motherfucker's

1505
01:25:59,160 --> 01:26:01,960
Speaker 1: without you even in the in the picture, right, So

1506
01:26:02,120 --> 01:26:04,559
Speaker 1: you don't even know this. Nigga know this. Nigga didn't

1507
01:26:04,560 --> 01:26:09,080
Speaker 1: know this. Nigga didn't know that. Nigga right, But everybody

1508
01:26:09,160 --> 01:26:12,080
Speaker 1: then said, Woo do woo and Woo do woo and

1509
01:26:12,120 --> 01:26:15,120
Speaker 1: Woo do woo, and it's like you're operating out here

1510
01:26:15,120 --> 01:26:17,360
Speaker 1: and you don't even know that. It's like what I

1511
01:26:17,479 --> 01:26:18,800
Speaker 1: was telling you and I was going on my way

1512
01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:21,920
Speaker 1: to allow them. You just never know what type of

1513
01:26:22,000 --> 01:26:25,720
Speaker 1: fucking conversation the motherfucker will be having yeah and your

1514
01:26:25,840 --> 01:26:29,240
Speaker 1: name come up or you come up and then it's

1515
01:26:29,320 --> 01:26:35,240
Speaker 1: like oh yeah, yeah, yeah. It's crazy how you can

1516
01:26:35,360 --> 01:26:38,160
Speaker 1: ruin and see what happens is the social media. It

1517
01:26:38,360 --> 01:26:41,760
Speaker 1: makes it. It makes shit look, like Kevin harn said,

1518
01:26:41,840 --> 01:26:44,600
Speaker 1: deeper than what it really is. So what happens is

1519
01:26:45,720 --> 01:26:49,720
Speaker 1: you so you fuck with let's just say, you fuck

1520
01:26:49,760 --> 01:26:52,000
Speaker 1: with red, you fuck with blue, you fuck with green,

1521
01:26:52,120 --> 01:26:57,760
Speaker 1: you fuck with yellow. They all know purple purple is

1522
01:26:57,840 --> 01:27:03,000
Speaker 1: really if you the person that you would ideally won't

1523
01:27:03,479 --> 01:27:07,599
Speaker 1: that's who that is because purple, no, blue, green race

1524
01:27:07,800 --> 01:27:10,160
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, So now by the time purple bump

1525
01:27:10,240 --> 01:27:13,920
Speaker 1: into you, and not to say, don't funk with people,

1526
01:27:14,280 --> 01:27:17,479
Speaker 1: know how to fun with people. See, that's the that's

1527
01:27:17,520 --> 01:27:20,360
Speaker 1: what that's why people's operating. And that's why I like

1528
01:27:20,479 --> 01:27:24,200
Speaker 1: to talk about that lucky shit, you know, which it's

1529
01:27:24,439 --> 01:27:26,760
Speaker 1: unique because you need to figure out and know when

1530
01:27:26,800 --> 01:27:30,160
Speaker 1: you was in a lucky situation. You gotta realize that.

1531
01:27:30,640 --> 01:27:33,320
Speaker 1: But you don't need to give that a situation that

1532
01:27:33,520 --> 01:27:36,720
Speaker 1: much credit to where you putting all of it. It's

1533
01:27:36,760 --> 01:27:39,839
Speaker 1: just it's such a it's that balance, man, that balance,

1534
01:27:40,200 --> 01:27:47,240
Speaker 1: it's a man it's it's man blown up. But that's

1535
01:27:47,280 --> 01:27:50,519
Speaker 1: why it's just like because let me tell you this

1536
01:27:50,680 --> 01:27:54,240
Speaker 1: about these these colors and all this bullshitt here. I'm

1537
01:27:54,280 --> 01:27:58,040
Speaker 1: just saying, though, even if a motherfucker have because niggas

1538
01:27:58,120 --> 01:28:02,400
Speaker 1: do lie and too, why would you miss out on

1539
01:28:02,520 --> 01:28:04,760
Speaker 1: some look because of some shit that you probably don't

1540
01:28:04,760 --> 01:28:06,400
Speaker 1: even know if it's true or not. Because but just

1541
01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:10,240
Speaker 1: like lying the ownership coming from a man, A man

1542
01:28:10,360 --> 01:28:16,800
Speaker 1: don't want to hear nothing but explain, explain. So how

1543
01:28:17,000 --> 01:28:20,960
Speaker 1: is it about ownership? I'm talking about real deal holes

1544
01:28:21,000 --> 01:28:25,760
Speaker 1: that her who's been fucking you know? Why don't you

1545
01:28:25,880 --> 01:28:28,840
Speaker 1: know why? You know why? Some of these women is

1546
01:28:28,880 --> 01:28:34,120
Speaker 1: better than these men in terms of my trickery. The

1547
01:28:34,320 --> 01:28:37,000
Speaker 1: women working hard. Man, I've been a victim. I noticed

1548
01:28:37,160 --> 01:28:42,360
Speaker 1: the women is the women is presenting themselves. You see,

1549
01:28:42,400 --> 01:28:46,040
Speaker 1: I ain't laughing and smiling, do you see, Hey, y'all

1550
01:28:46,120 --> 01:28:49,840
Speaker 1: know me know if I'm joking, I'm smiling. These women

1551
01:28:50,000 --> 01:28:54,120
Speaker 1: is presenting themselves in a certain way and people riding

1552
01:28:54,200 --> 01:28:57,680
Speaker 1: with it. And then what happens is they bump into

1553
01:28:57,800 --> 01:29:00,840
Speaker 1: a real nigga and they bet that this ship than

1554
01:29:00,920 --> 01:29:05,120
Speaker 1: he is, and they're willing to go further than he is.

1555
01:29:05,280 --> 01:29:08,679
Speaker 1: See that's what you gotta know. Some people is willing

1556
01:29:08,720 --> 01:29:11,040
Speaker 1: to do the tricky real on a whole another level.

1557
01:29:11,920 --> 01:29:17,240
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying, I'm already in and it's like,

1558
01:29:17,360 --> 01:29:21,280
Speaker 1: oh shit, now you's know what I'm saying. So nay,

1559
01:29:21,320 --> 01:29:23,840
Speaker 1: it's like all right, now switch the plane, try to

1560
01:29:23,920 --> 01:29:27,679
Speaker 1: fix it. I'm a fixer. I'm a builder. Most niggas

1561
01:29:27,720 --> 01:29:31,960
Speaker 1: with you know, I'm a I'm a fixer. I'm a fixer.

1562
01:29:32,160 --> 01:29:33,800
Speaker 1: I got it. I got it this fine. Come on,

1563
01:29:34,000 --> 01:29:35,800
Speaker 1: I didn't figure it out. Damn you. You gotta have

1564
01:29:35,960 --> 01:29:37,519
Speaker 1: that in you too, because you were doing it. So

1565
01:29:37,640 --> 01:29:39,519
Speaker 1: let me try to. I gotta get you back on

1566
01:29:39,680 --> 01:29:41,639
Speaker 1: that side. Something ain't right and I ain't doing something.

1567
01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:44,080
Speaker 1: Like I told John, I don't talk about this shit

1568
01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:47,760
Speaker 1: because a niggahoo or woman that's in a position where

1569
01:29:47,760 --> 01:29:49,519
Speaker 1: they feel like they're in little but they feel like

1570
01:29:49,600 --> 01:29:53,000
Speaker 1: they whatever they're gonna say, I can get you there.

1571
01:29:53,760 --> 01:29:55,320
Speaker 1: Come on, come on, come on, come on, come on,

1572
01:29:55,400 --> 01:29:56,960
Speaker 1: I got it that little extra you ain't got I

1573
01:29:57,000 --> 01:29:59,400
Speaker 1: gotta come on, a little letter, a little shit that

1574
01:29:59,479 --> 01:30:01,360
Speaker 1: you I got to come on. And so what happens

1575
01:30:01,560 --> 01:30:05,040
Speaker 1: is like you said, I'm too fine. And that's what

1576
01:30:05,120 --> 01:30:08,080
Speaker 1: happened to women a lot of time because me and

1577
01:30:08,320 --> 01:30:15,400
Speaker 1: is knowing about how long or did it take to

1578
01:30:17,439 --> 01:30:20,280
Speaker 1: to get this? And you just got to know the man.

1579
01:30:20,680 --> 01:30:23,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I can't tell no, no, motherfucker,

1580
01:30:23,280 --> 01:30:26,120
Speaker 1: nothing I'm telling about you. You gotta know who you're

1581
01:30:26,120 --> 01:30:29,360
Speaker 1: fucking were you you you gotta know when I'm around him,

1582
01:30:29,600 --> 01:30:33,400
Speaker 1: not what he presented. I need to start. I need

1583
01:30:33,479 --> 01:30:35,800
Speaker 1: to start not being knows or nothing, but I need

1584
01:30:35,880 --> 01:30:40,519
Speaker 1: to start unpacking this ship. Right. So when the motherfucker

1585
01:30:40,600 --> 01:30:43,040
Speaker 1: asked me a question, I just don't see. This is

1586
01:30:43,120 --> 01:30:45,559
Speaker 1: what I find out doing the podcast. When I play

1587
01:30:45,600 --> 01:30:49,000
Speaker 1: a clip two three minutes long, it loses certain people.

1588
01:30:49,479 --> 01:30:51,640
Speaker 1: They don't know how to comprehend the first part, the

1589
01:30:51,720 --> 01:30:54,800
Speaker 1: second part, and the last part and then be able

1590
01:30:54,840 --> 01:30:57,680
Speaker 1: to answer from that or be able to understand from

1591
01:30:57,720 --> 01:31:00,439
Speaker 1: that perspective. All they got was the last twenty seconds

1592
01:31:00,800 --> 01:31:03,280
Speaker 1: whatever that last little Paul was. It said, that's all

1593
01:31:03,320 --> 01:31:06,320
Speaker 1: that right, And I have to understand that before me.

1594
01:31:06,479 --> 01:31:11,439
Speaker 1: I'm trying to operate, you know, understanding everything. But I

1595
01:31:11,560 --> 01:31:15,040
Speaker 1: think women, it's it's important to understand that me and

1596
01:31:16,120 --> 01:31:20,840
Speaker 1: it's operating from ownership, you know, and and when when

1597
01:31:20,880 --> 01:31:22,960
Speaker 1: a man put a stamp on you, and see, this

1598
01:31:23,120 --> 01:31:26,800
Speaker 1: is the thing. I don't think you have to be

1599
01:31:27,000 --> 01:31:29,559
Speaker 1: girlfriend for a man to try to put a stamp

1600
01:31:29,680 --> 01:31:35,040
Speaker 1: on you. Definitely they're ready, they're ready, especially if they

1601
01:31:35,080 --> 01:31:37,880
Speaker 1: feel like they got them one, because I mean, so

1602
01:31:38,040 --> 01:31:40,960
Speaker 1: many women out here these days, true be told, so

1603
01:31:41,280 --> 01:31:46,240
Speaker 1: lost and so needy and so green, so dumb, don't

1604
01:31:46,280 --> 01:31:49,439
Speaker 1: got like It's like when they meet, want to run

1605
01:31:49,479 --> 01:31:52,680
Speaker 1: into one that actually they can connect with or communicate

1606
01:31:52,760 --> 01:31:56,040
Speaker 1: with on another level. It's like, look, I'm I'm keeping her.

1607
01:31:57,200 --> 01:32:02,560
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. And some dude was like, I don't know

1608
01:32:02,720 --> 01:32:05,200
Speaker 1: because he it can be the man operating from the

1609
01:32:05,320 --> 01:32:08,760
Speaker 1: lucky see, because men know what they know it or

1610
01:32:08,840 --> 01:32:10,840
Speaker 1: not me and the women I think know what they

1611
01:32:10,960 --> 01:32:13,320
Speaker 1: deserve they know about it. If I don't really this,

1612
01:32:13,520 --> 01:32:16,439
Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't get lucky, right, this is a

1613
01:32:16,560 --> 01:32:18,800
Speaker 1: hell of a little situation. Like and you can tell

1614
01:32:19,080 --> 01:32:23,719
Speaker 1: be patient, be sit back and just watch anything that's

1615
01:32:24,160 --> 01:32:26,799
Speaker 1: I always look at shit. Right when the motherfucker asked

1616
01:32:26,840 --> 01:32:29,120
Speaker 1: me for something, I act like I do on him,

1617
01:32:30,200 --> 01:32:32,280
Speaker 1: and I do it on purpose because I want to

1618
01:32:32,320 --> 01:32:35,080
Speaker 1: see that next reaction. And I don't know why I'm

1619
01:32:35,160 --> 01:32:37,400
Speaker 1: doing this, but this is just how I don't I'm

1620
01:32:37,439 --> 01:32:39,360
Speaker 1: telling you, man, in regular life, I don't even be

1621
01:32:39,479 --> 01:32:43,719
Speaker 1: thinking of operating this crazy way because I gotta check, recheck, recheck.

1622
01:32:44,000 --> 01:32:48,639
Speaker 1: I was always taught measure five times, cut once. Yeah,

1623
01:32:49,120 --> 01:32:55,439
Speaker 1: it's true what I'm saying. Measure five time. Okay, there's

1624
01:32:55,479 --> 01:32:57,960
Speaker 1: ten inches. I'm doing that five time for I put

1625
01:32:58,040 --> 01:33:01,000
Speaker 1: the blade on this motherfucker. Ain't no mistakes allowed. I

1626
01:33:01,080 --> 01:33:04,640
Speaker 1: can't afford a mistake. You know why I told them this.

1627
01:33:04,720 --> 01:33:06,680
Speaker 1: It took me so long to get my mind right.

1628
01:33:07,479 --> 01:33:09,559
Speaker 1: You got to know how long you've been working on yourself,

1629
01:33:10,560 --> 01:33:12,400
Speaker 1: and you gotta know what I'm dealing with. Will it

1630
01:33:12,520 --> 01:33:16,439
Speaker 1: run me down? If you gotta deal with if I

1631
01:33:16,560 --> 01:33:19,240
Speaker 1: got room for this era? Do I got room for

1632
01:33:19,320 --> 01:33:23,400
Speaker 1: this era? That's what's important, because if you don't got

1633
01:33:23,520 --> 01:33:26,800
Speaker 1: room for it and you make it, you can't chance

1634
01:33:26,840 --> 01:33:29,400
Speaker 1: it if you don't got the room. Because especially, and

1635
01:33:29,520 --> 01:33:31,920
Speaker 1: we know love, have you been in a little real

1636
01:33:32,040 --> 01:33:35,519
Speaker 1: love I'm talking about, have you been hurt? Have you

1637
01:33:35,640 --> 01:33:39,200
Speaker 1: been in love and been hurt? So we know like

1638
01:33:39,439 --> 01:33:44,160
Speaker 1: that shit that ship like so so it's just you know,

1639
01:33:44,320 --> 01:33:46,760
Speaker 1: our listeners. I won't. I just want everybody that this,

1640
01:33:46,960 --> 01:33:51,280
Speaker 1: this being in love and being hurt may not be extreme. No,

1641
01:33:51,400 --> 01:33:54,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying it was only extreme one time, and that's

1642
01:33:54,200 --> 01:33:56,240
Speaker 1: when I was a young girl. So I'm saying like,

1643
01:33:56,240 --> 01:33:59,920
Speaker 1: I ain't never love like that again, like in love.

1644
01:34:00,240 --> 01:34:03,040
Speaker 1: You know why? I think so you just now find it.

1645
01:34:03,200 --> 01:34:08,120
Speaker 1: You just now your man just now it just yeah

1646
01:34:08,280 --> 01:34:11,000
Speaker 1: so so so as a youngster is is just this

1647
01:34:11,240 --> 01:34:16,040
Speaker 1: right here? And see it happens at about you now,

1648
01:34:16,080 --> 01:34:18,479
Speaker 1: I'm talking about that real one that I'm taking happening.

1649
01:34:20,200 --> 01:34:23,519
Speaker 1: When I was younger, you never really happened like it happened.

1650
01:34:23,760 --> 01:34:26,439
Speaker 1: I never really got I thought that that was like

1651
01:34:27,360 --> 01:34:29,160
Speaker 1: I was in love and so hurt, but it was

1652
01:34:29,200 --> 01:34:31,160
Speaker 1: like I was a fucking kid, Like of course it's

1653
01:34:31,240 --> 01:34:34,160
Speaker 1: hurt because because I'm saying, well, I feel like dad

1654
01:34:34,280 --> 01:34:36,400
Speaker 1: hurt from me being a kid. I don't never even

1655
01:34:37,320 --> 01:34:40,720
Speaker 1: give it all that no adult relationship that I've never

1656
01:34:40,800 --> 01:34:43,600
Speaker 1: been in, I can't say that not yet. That's what

1657
01:34:43,680 --> 01:34:46,360
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I ain't never love no man there much

1658
01:34:46,439 --> 01:34:51,599
Speaker 1: to where I'm like that, Men, this is the time

1659
01:34:51,880 --> 01:34:54,439
Speaker 1: because you just it's like you just jumped off the

1660
01:34:54,520 --> 01:34:58,760
Speaker 1: porch and your feet just said, m feel what I'm saying.

1661
01:34:59,240 --> 01:35:01,880
Speaker 1: And so now you just now paying attention to what's

1662
01:35:01,920 --> 01:35:10,160
Speaker 1: good and if right now it's gonna it's, oh my god.

1663
01:35:15,920 --> 01:35:18,720
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I don't know I'll be won there.

1664
01:35:18,760 --> 01:35:20,920
Speaker 1: But it's like I'm like, I don't know. They ain't

1665
01:35:21,000 --> 01:35:23,160
Speaker 1: like I ain't never had all the relationship and told

1666
01:35:23,200 --> 01:35:25,240
Speaker 1: them that I love him, because I'm saying I probably did,

1667
01:35:25,360 --> 01:35:27,280
Speaker 1: but I'm saying not too worried to be like that

1668
01:35:28,640 --> 01:35:32,000
Speaker 1: real adult relationship love not but you know what to

1669
01:35:32,240 --> 01:35:37,120
Speaker 1: what's crazy is that it's so fucked up because experience

1670
01:35:37,200 --> 01:35:40,360
Speaker 1: and love at that age is so powerful too. So

1671
01:35:40,560 --> 01:35:44,000
Speaker 1: it's like something that you gotta do. But you it's gonna,

1672
01:35:44,120 --> 01:35:47,080
Speaker 1: it's it's it's it's a crazy thing, man, because if

1673
01:35:47,080 --> 01:35:49,280
Speaker 1: you don't do it now, when you try to do

1674
01:35:49,360 --> 01:35:52,599
Speaker 1: it later, you may can't keep up with the man

1675
01:35:52,680 --> 01:35:56,840
Speaker 1: that you like you need to. But it happened to

1676
01:35:56,960 --> 01:35:59,599
Speaker 1: you younger, like I mean, it happened to me younger,

1677
01:36:00,000 --> 01:36:02,040
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna damn play to say it didn't hurt,

1678
01:36:02,120 --> 01:36:05,719
Speaker 1: because he did. But the adult love and the adult

1679
01:36:06,120 --> 01:36:08,679
Speaker 1: love being in love following out of love or being

1680
01:36:08,800 --> 01:36:12,640
Speaker 1: hurt is completely different. It don't make you be like,

1681
01:36:12,800 --> 01:36:14,800
Speaker 1: oh that little shit I was feeling. And you know

1682
01:36:14,920 --> 01:36:18,960
Speaker 1: why though, let me tell you why though. The reason

1683
01:36:19,160 --> 01:36:22,439
Speaker 1: why the dose shit so different, it's cause you got

1684
01:36:22,560 --> 01:36:25,840
Speaker 1: responsibility this so when you're young and it happened, I

1685
01:36:25,840 --> 01:36:28,560
Speaker 1: can't just lay around, mo nigga, when it happened, I

1686
01:36:28,640 --> 01:36:30,720
Speaker 1: still gotta get up and get out of here. I

1687
01:36:30,840 --> 01:36:32,840
Speaker 1: still got it. And it's on my man. It's fucking

1688
01:36:32,880 --> 01:36:35,519
Speaker 1: with him dressing him. I ain't cutting my hair. I ain't.

1689
01:36:35,920 --> 01:36:40,760
Speaker 1: It's listen, somebody listening to what they saying, brother, nigga. Hey,

1690
01:36:41,320 --> 01:36:43,439
Speaker 1: it's fucking with I ain't even putting no clothes on.

1691
01:36:43,600 --> 01:36:48,519
Speaker 1: I'm badly slick. I ain't. And so what happened. I

1692
01:36:48,560 --> 01:36:50,599
Speaker 1: don't even feel like doing nothing right now. And if

1693
01:36:50,600 --> 01:36:53,280
Speaker 1: you like, i'd probably be hurt for a little minute.

1694
01:36:53,320 --> 01:36:55,040
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna I'm not even a little minu because

1695
01:36:55,040 --> 01:36:57,120
Speaker 1: a little minute is so long the time I'm saying, probably,

1696
01:36:57,160 --> 01:36:59,559
Speaker 1: like you know, that week, i'd probably be a little

1697
01:36:59,560 --> 01:37:03,040
Speaker 1: bit or whatever. But I bounce back from this, because

1698
01:37:03,280 --> 01:37:05,800
Speaker 1: that's what you do, bounce back. But it's like he's

1699
01:37:05,800 --> 01:37:08,720
Speaker 1: saying no, but it depends on what. It took me

1700
01:37:08,840 --> 01:37:11,760
Speaker 1: a while a bounce this hill you ain't find to

1701
01:37:11,880 --> 01:37:16,760
Speaker 1: listen check this this one I'm talking about if and

1702
01:37:17,080 --> 01:37:18,840
Speaker 1: Lord knows, I don't want it to happen to you,

1703
01:37:19,360 --> 01:37:21,840
Speaker 1: just don't happen to me. But but I want you to.

1704
01:37:22,040 --> 01:37:24,680
Speaker 1: I want to. I want to have a conversation. I

1705
01:37:24,800 --> 01:37:28,280
Speaker 1: know people are just listening, and it's a great conversation.

1706
01:37:30,400 --> 01:37:36,840
Speaker 1: That adult love, an adult break up, that adult relationship

1707
01:37:37,000 --> 01:37:40,720
Speaker 1: totally different than that seventeen year old relationship. Were going

1708
01:37:40,760 --> 01:37:49,559
Speaker 1: to Vegas, you know, we were going to do back,

1709
01:37:49,840 --> 01:37:52,960
Speaker 1: were going to Dominican Report like we just we So

1710
01:37:53,360 --> 01:37:57,280
Speaker 1: you have to understand the memories and the how we

1711
01:37:57,360 --> 01:38:02,640
Speaker 1: come back from I created all these memories like that

1712
01:38:02,720 --> 01:38:07,519
Speaker 1: when I'm telling me, yeah, so I'm putting it in

1713
01:38:07,640 --> 01:38:10,080
Speaker 1: perspective a little more where you able to say, damn, yeah,

1714
01:38:10,080 --> 01:38:12,120
Speaker 1: because this thing gets seventeen what the most he can

1715
01:38:12,200 --> 01:38:15,280
Speaker 1: do that I'm taking. So we're talking about a nigga.

1716
01:38:16,840 --> 01:38:19,479
Speaker 1: We're talking about a nigga on Christmas. We're talking about

1717
01:38:19,479 --> 01:38:22,680
Speaker 1: a nigga on Christmas is making it real special and

1718
01:38:22,880 --> 01:38:26,040
Speaker 1: doing this and that and then yeah and yeah come yeah,

1719
01:38:26,200 --> 01:38:29,000
Speaker 1: let's yeah, you know what I'm saying, and now that

1720
01:38:29,200 --> 01:38:31,639
Speaker 1: just done been cut from you, and they been cut

1721
01:38:31,760 --> 01:38:34,240
Speaker 1: in a nasty way. That's why I'm just saying what

1722
01:38:34,400 --> 01:38:38,519
Speaker 1: our relationships, our culture, black folks, it ain't never just

1723
01:38:38,720 --> 01:38:42,880
Speaker 1: a nice It's nasty to see that that that that

1724
01:38:43,120 --> 01:38:46,440
Speaker 1: that that that the adult love ending because y'all so passionate.

1725
01:38:46,960 --> 01:38:50,200
Speaker 1: Both of y'all were so passionate, and so we was.

1726
01:38:50,320 --> 01:38:53,519
Speaker 1: We thought, bitch, I thought you just knew everything. You Nigga,

1727
01:38:53,560 --> 01:38:56,599
Speaker 1: I thought you did too. It's just so now Nigga

1728
01:38:56,760 --> 01:38:59,439
Speaker 1: is passionate. So when he comes down, motherfucker's it's better.

1729
01:38:59,680 --> 01:39:03,360
Speaker 1: Mother fuck is this man said, motherfucker's this. So what

1730
01:39:03,520 --> 01:39:06,720
Speaker 1: happens is that motherfucker operating like it, you know, like

1731
01:39:06,800 --> 01:39:11,040
Speaker 1: when King. I have not had that adult relationships where

1732
01:39:11,040 --> 01:39:13,360
Speaker 1: I could just be like hurt like that. That's why

1733
01:39:13,400 --> 01:39:16,679
Speaker 1: I'm cool without my old name. No, No, I think

1734
01:39:16,840 --> 01:39:20,640
Speaker 1: I think that you may not nobody may not have

1735
01:39:22,000 --> 01:39:26,200
Speaker 1: um reached you yet, you know, and not saying that

1736
01:39:26,240 --> 01:39:28,360
Speaker 1: you're gonna get hurt. You made like m V dj

1737
01:39:28,560 --> 01:39:30,559
Speaker 1: Emmy that was together since they were eighteen. You may

1738
01:39:30,680 --> 01:39:32,960
Speaker 1: run into somebody if you shoot off in the star.

1739
01:39:33,600 --> 01:39:36,960
Speaker 1: You see I'm talking about. But what I'm saying is

1740
01:39:37,040 --> 01:39:40,760
Speaker 1: it's experiencing that adult like what she's saying, it's experiencing

1741
01:39:40,800 --> 01:39:44,960
Speaker 1: that adult love and that adult breakup. I just want

1742
01:39:45,040 --> 01:39:48,200
Speaker 1: the adult love without the breakup. Okay, So now what

1743
01:39:48,320 --> 01:39:50,679
Speaker 1: are you willing to accept to keep that? And see

1744
01:39:50,720 --> 01:39:53,320
Speaker 1: that's that's a lot of women Mask said. Now listen,

1745
01:39:53,439 --> 01:39:57,160
Speaker 1: women Mask said, is this love? I want it right

1746
01:39:57,479 --> 01:40:00,560
Speaker 1: and I got it, and if he leave me and

1747
01:40:00,640 --> 01:40:03,360
Speaker 1: if it's fuck up, it's gonna make me have to

1748
01:40:03,400 --> 01:40:07,360
Speaker 1: press reset. And I know what pressing reset. I know

1749
01:40:07,479 --> 01:40:09,400
Speaker 1: with that not even if I hate, I may I

1750
01:40:09,560 --> 01:40:12,040
Speaker 1: might can start over, but I know what they do

1751
01:40:12,240 --> 01:40:15,600
Speaker 1: to me. I know it's setting me totally back what

1752
01:40:15,840 --> 01:40:19,200
Speaker 1: this financially, mentally, whatever the case is. I'm no longer

1753
01:40:19,280 --> 01:40:22,040
Speaker 1: in this position right here if I hit reset, right

1754
01:40:22,160 --> 01:40:25,479
Speaker 1: because we've been building this, Yeah, we've been building this

1755
01:40:25,720 --> 01:40:28,000
Speaker 1: up here with this and then then well I gotta

1756
01:40:28,040 --> 01:40:30,960
Speaker 1: go back to yes and build over again because I

1757
01:40:31,040 --> 01:40:32,920
Speaker 1: can't take and that's what I had. I can't take

1758
01:40:33,000 --> 01:40:35,400
Speaker 1: none of the stuff from this over here because that

1759
01:40:35,479 --> 01:40:41,880
Speaker 1: ain't work. So just think you're losing your time. See

1760
01:40:42,000 --> 01:40:45,479
Speaker 1: a young young age only using losing your time, old age.

1761
01:40:45,680 --> 01:40:49,400
Speaker 1: You're losing your time, your money. You're here for your understanding,

1762
01:40:49,560 --> 01:40:54,720
Speaker 1: your compromising, your your kids involved, your family involved. But

1763
01:40:54,760 --> 01:41:00,280
Speaker 1: it'd be so deep stuff together everything. Yeah, and then

1764
01:41:00,320 --> 01:41:02,560
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, you losing the whole crib. The

1765
01:41:02,720 --> 01:41:08,200
Speaker 1: crib is just like boom, what up? You understand me?

1766
01:41:08,320 --> 01:41:10,960
Speaker 1: I got somebody told me one time, man, nigga, they're

1767
01:41:10,960 --> 01:41:13,120
Speaker 1: gonna call the police on me if I take anything.

1768
01:41:14,280 --> 01:41:17,720
Speaker 1: So I had to just all right, I'm out. I'm trying.

1769
01:41:17,760 --> 01:41:20,200
Speaker 1: I had to leave everything, you know, I had to

1770
01:41:20,320 --> 01:41:23,800
Speaker 1: leave everything, right, So, and that's fine. But what I'm

1771
01:41:23,840 --> 01:41:27,599
Speaker 1: telling you is most people operating saying I can't afford

1772
01:41:27,680 --> 01:41:31,519
Speaker 1: to reset. So what am I willing to accept to

1773
01:41:31,680 --> 01:41:35,400
Speaker 1: stay in this three thousand foot house? You know what

1774
01:41:35,560 --> 01:41:38,439
Speaker 1: am I willing to? So who's doing shit to out

1775
01:41:38,479 --> 01:41:42,920
Speaker 1: of convenience? Who's operating from that? It's just so many

1776
01:41:43,040 --> 01:41:47,920
Speaker 1: dynamic Oh yeah, they do they do that. They treat

1777
01:41:48,000 --> 01:41:53,920
Speaker 1: to keeople kind of saying. Sometimes you said, so many

1778
01:41:53,960 --> 01:41:57,120
Speaker 1: people are not marrying for the awesome like it's supposed

1779
01:41:57,160 --> 01:41:59,320
Speaker 1: to be about love. People are not married's marrying for that.

1780
01:41:59,400 --> 01:42:01,519
Speaker 1: It's like, nigga, this is a business. This is a

1781
01:42:01,640 --> 01:42:04,920
Speaker 1: business proposition like it is. It's good for both of us. Yeah,

1782
01:42:04,920 --> 01:42:07,679
Speaker 1: I love you, but sho, we can make this shit happen.

1783
01:42:08,200 --> 01:42:12,559
Speaker 1: We're together. Yeah, we're moving through life. Yeah easier because

1784
01:42:12,600 --> 01:42:15,800
Speaker 1: you're married. They glorified you got a husband. You got

1785
01:42:15,880 --> 01:42:18,160
Speaker 1: a wife, and you can make some business move that

1786
01:42:18,320 --> 01:42:21,839
Speaker 1: a single motherfucker can't mate. Yeah, because it's two incomes

1787
01:42:21,880 --> 01:42:24,280
Speaker 1: and they trust both of y'all. This one exactly. That's

1788
01:42:24,360 --> 01:42:26,479
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And like I was saying, man, and

1789
01:42:26,600 --> 01:42:30,000
Speaker 1: just thinking about the camera on thing. You ten years

1790
01:42:30,080 --> 01:42:33,880
Speaker 1: in with a motherfucker, they tell you, and it just

1791
01:42:34,000 --> 01:42:37,360
Speaker 1: ain't fun. Just picture of the memories they not had

1792
01:42:38,479 --> 01:42:40,320
Speaker 1: that board and got rich while she will win and

1793
01:42:40,439 --> 01:42:42,880
Speaker 1: been with jay Z Dame that it's all around the world.

1794
01:42:42,960 --> 01:42:46,519
Speaker 1: This so they got real life memories, probably on jets

1795
01:42:46,600 --> 01:42:50,240
Speaker 1: and he got cribs all across the like, so families

1796
01:42:50,320 --> 01:42:52,760
Speaker 1: involved and all that, and all he telling you is

1797
01:42:52,800 --> 01:42:54,880
Speaker 1: it ain't fun no more, Like, what do you mean

1798
01:42:55,280 --> 01:43:01,160
Speaker 1: that what I'm saying, it's rough. It's be rough, my nigga,

1799
01:43:01,280 --> 01:43:04,400
Speaker 1: And I ain't got nothing for you at that point,

1800
01:43:05,120 --> 01:43:08,680
Speaker 1: and not an arrogant and not even arrogant and that's

1801
01:43:08,680 --> 01:43:11,040
Speaker 1: why I'm telling you. And see it ain't even and

1802
01:43:11,120 --> 01:43:14,679
Speaker 1: it ain't even arrogant. I just don't like baby girl.

1803
01:43:15,400 --> 01:43:19,280
Speaker 1: Oh you what, I just it ain't fun. I just say,

1804
01:43:19,640 --> 01:43:25,880
Speaker 1: I'm miserable. But what's making you? How are you the way?

1805
01:43:26,200 --> 01:43:31,679
Speaker 1: The way you care about all this bullshit at her? Right? Exactly?

1806
01:43:32,800 --> 01:43:35,400
Speaker 1: But then you wait to ten fucking years n Because

1807
01:43:35,479 --> 01:43:37,920
Speaker 1: social media so new, That's what I'm telling you. Man,

1808
01:43:38,040 --> 01:43:41,720
Speaker 1: This ship is fucking shit. It's shifting everything music in

1809
01:43:41,800 --> 01:43:44,120
Speaker 1: a time. It's just it's shifting the whole world. This

1810
01:43:44,439 --> 01:43:48,000
Speaker 1: whoever that ship shifted every goddamn thing. You know what

1811
01:43:48,080 --> 01:43:51,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So it's it's it's so new relationships. It's like, okay,

1812
01:43:52,000 --> 01:43:56,240
Speaker 1: how do we do this? You know? Imships don't have

1813
01:43:56,439 --> 01:43:58,840
Speaker 1: social media's yeah, I know a lot of couples they

1814
01:43:59,000 --> 01:44:03,439
Speaker 1: don't have social don't get it. You can't even ain't

1815
01:44:03,479 --> 01:44:06,320
Speaker 1: gonna you know what I'm say, Yeah, because I'm a

1816
01:44:06,439 --> 01:44:10,080
Speaker 1: business I am a business not a businessman. I'm saying,

1817
01:44:10,080 --> 01:44:12,360
Speaker 1: what if you got a businesswoman and she had a

1818
01:44:12,439 --> 01:44:15,720
Speaker 1: social media it ain't necessary, but it is cool if she.

1819
01:44:16,080 --> 01:44:18,040
Speaker 1: I'm not it ain't necessary for me to have a

1820
01:44:18,120 --> 01:44:24,479
Speaker 1: business woman. Oh wow, who okay, yeah, you just you

1821
01:44:24,680 --> 01:44:26,640
Speaker 1: just sit right here and do what you do. Now

1822
01:44:26,760 --> 01:44:29,840
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Yeah, yeah, what I'm saying as far

1823
01:44:29,920 --> 01:44:35,200
Speaker 1: as the business woman thing, especially if it's surrounded in entertainment,

1824
01:44:36,560 --> 01:44:39,000
Speaker 1: like if it's if it's surrounded unless it's under my

1825
01:44:39,080 --> 01:44:42,920
Speaker 1: un brother. But I'm saying so for you, like she's

1826
01:44:42,960 --> 01:44:44,880
Speaker 1: a hair style that I'm a makeup artist like this

1827
01:44:45,280 --> 01:44:48,719
Speaker 1: that's based up. But it ain't ain't entertainment, not entertainment,

1828
01:44:48,800 --> 01:44:53,400
Speaker 1: but you're providing a service. I can funk with that entertainment.

1829
01:44:53,439 --> 01:44:58,160
Speaker 1: You're selling your Okay, yeah, I understand. I'm I'm not

1830
01:44:58,280 --> 01:45:01,160
Speaker 1: just saying something I'm thought timing though, because you're not

1831
01:45:01,320 --> 01:45:05,040
Speaker 1: doing photos shoots in this entertainment for your head thing. Yeah,

1832
01:45:05,040 --> 01:45:06,320
Speaker 1: because what if I got to do her for a

1833
01:45:06,400 --> 01:45:08,599
Speaker 1: video shoot? Exactly, I got to her what they gotta

1834
01:45:08,600 --> 01:45:12,479
Speaker 1: do with you? I mean what you mean came from.

1835
01:45:12,560 --> 01:45:14,360
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying. We're talking about the social media.

1836
01:45:14,479 --> 01:45:17,200
Speaker 1: So I'm saying I need a social media to promote

1837
01:45:17,240 --> 01:45:19,439
Speaker 1: my business, and I'm fine with that as long as

1838
01:45:19,479 --> 01:45:22,920
Speaker 1: it's a product or a service and you ain't selling

1839
01:45:23,000 --> 01:45:25,120
Speaker 1: your celebrity. You just can't be the product, or you

1840
01:45:25,200 --> 01:45:31,519
Speaker 1: can't be selling your celebrities Instagram. So many people try

1841
01:45:31,560 --> 01:45:33,880
Speaker 1: to sell their celebrities. See there's a difference. I give

1842
01:45:33,880 --> 01:45:36,719
Speaker 1: you the little niggas. The game long always been product based.

1843
01:45:37,280 --> 01:45:40,559
Speaker 1: I ain't selling my celebrity like with this what we're doing,

1844
01:45:40,640 --> 01:45:44,000
Speaker 1: I'm selling content exactly. I ain't coming out saying I'm

1845
01:45:44,120 --> 01:45:46,559
Speaker 1: loaning nigga. Check this out, nigga, you better I'm selling.

1846
01:45:47,200 --> 01:45:49,439
Speaker 1: We got something behind me. But that's what I was

1847
01:45:49,479 --> 01:45:52,800
Speaker 1: saying going back to these free ass social media You

1848
01:45:52,920 --> 01:45:58,000
Speaker 1: got Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, out, Bro, what are you promoting?

1849
01:45:58,080 --> 01:45:59,599
Speaker 1: What is it doing for you? If you just don't

1850
01:45:59,640 --> 01:46:04,920
Speaker 1: hear pot party in bullshit, yeah let go. If you

1851
01:46:04,960 --> 01:46:07,320
Speaker 1: ain't no kind of winning entertainment or nothing like it,

1852
01:46:07,479 --> 01:46:09,640
Speaker 1: you just a work it type nigga or something, or

1853
01:46:09,680 --> 01:46:11,640
Speaker 1: even if you just one of these niggas who who

1854
01:46:11,720 --> 01:46:14,160
Speaker 1: in your own man? Your celebrity? Yeah come on, yeah,

1855
01:46:14,200 --> 01:46:17,360
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah check your bass man, dudes

1856
01:46:17,479 --> 01:46:19,560
Speaker 1: is And then they get it fucked up off the

1857
01:46:19,640 --> 01:46:21,680
Speaker 1: Graham like I'll be seeing this take one up and

1858
01:46:21,720 --> 01:46:24,280
Speaker 1: I still can't do it. Y'all be seeing me struggling

1859
01:46:24,320 --> 01:46:27,880
Speaker 1: with it, just in here. We're in here all the time.

1860
01:46:27,880 --> 01:46:31,040
Speaker 1: I don't be because it's rough for me because I

1861
01:46:31,080 --> 01:46:33,920
Speaker 1: ain't cut like that. I stayed with some shit on,

1862
01:46:34,760 --> 01:46:37,960
Speaker 1: so I don't be doing out. They ain't picture words that, man,

1863
01:46:38,040 --> 01:46:40,960
Speaker 1: I'm living And you know what, that's really the thing,

1864
01:46:41,080 --> 01:46:43,479
Speaker 1: Like I said, it's just people be so quick to

1865
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Speaker 1: take pictures. Let me get a picture, take my picture here, baby,

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Speaker 1: if I had pictures of the ship that I was

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Speaker 1: really out here doing what I'm saying, y'all will be

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Speaker 1: blown away. I'm saying it don't been times like I

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Speaker 1: don't travel so many different places where when I'm kicking

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Speaker 1: it and having fun, I don't even be stunning by

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That be me, man, phone ain't

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Speaker 1: even that's the least of my words. I'm really living

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Speaker 1: this right now. So I don't got time. Oh every

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Speaker 1: time I'm so take a picture of me. Take people

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Speaker 1: do that. Oh yeah, I go places and be like

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Speaker 1: I didn't take no pictures. But that's because you're really

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Speaker 1: they're having time like, and I'd be like, I ain't

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Speaker 1: took a picture. Yeah, let me hear in the bed.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, because you'll be like I ain't took

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Speaker 1: no pictures for nothing. I'm really enjoying myself. That's what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. I didn't even get a time, But that's

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Speaker 1: what enjoying yourself as a bout. It's not your mom

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Speaker 1: or your friends didn't be wanting to see the pictures

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Speaker 1: of what they need to come. I got you even

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Speaker 1: take no pictures there? Yeah, because I ain't don't because

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Speaker 1: we're so lit. I forgot. I'm lit man, I'm not

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Speaker 1: like and the gonna be so many things that you

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Speaker 1: got like. I mean, you might have a few pictures

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Speaker 1: like y'all did get this, but you're like, I guess

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Speaker 1: what else is? Damn, I ain't getting no pictures. But sorry,

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Speaker 1: I was in a moment. I was having a having

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Speaker 1: the time of my life at the time, and I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna stop living to say, oh, take my picture

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Speaker 1: real quick. People do that. I'm telling my men, and

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Speaker 1: that irks my fucking sold I'm talking about man o.

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Speaker 1: Men is telling folks, hey, hey, hey, I'm gonna be

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Speaker 1: getting the T shirt, get me right right, ching chong,

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Speaker 1: and they get over and got them. But they do

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Speaker 1: their little one too. And because I'm talking, I can't

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Speaker 1: even I can't do it. First of all, I'm not

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Speaker 1: even can't you take my picture as person? Yeah? Me neither.

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Speaker 1: I'm good. That's why I don't have pictures on it.

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Speaker 1: That's why people be like, damn, you don't really be.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how. I don't fuck with that. I'm

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Speaker 1: so private. I'm a prison of this shit. I don't

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Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on. Feel I'm saying, the

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Speaker 1: dope game got a nigga so fucked up. You just

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Speaker 1: don't know who what went away? You like, man, who

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Speaker 1: watch yourself? Now? You know what I'm saying. That's just

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Speaker 1: how I am. So I can't just be, will it? Niled,

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Speaker 1: Just take this picture for me? Fam, fam you see me?

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Speaker 1: Like you said, even some of the people I deal

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Speaker 1: with or whatever, it's like, nah, I'm good on it.

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Speaker 1: I don't need like they come from their life where

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Speaker 1: it's like or you know, back then when it was

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Speaker 1: like when y'all was growing up in all these social

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Speaker 1: media pictures, picture phones and all that shit, that wasn't

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Speaker 1: heard of. Yea motherfucker didn't even know your real name. Facts, facts,

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Speaker 1: and you know, my ship don't come across no platform.

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Speaker 1: But this is what I'm saying, a motherfucker gotta be aware,

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Speaker 1: alert and awoke at all motherfucking time. So the motherfucker

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Speaker 1: don't know who would win was on around you, big facts,

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Speaker 1: big facts. As long as you're doing that, you're gonna win.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, You're definitely gonna win. We

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Speaker 1: don't did good to day. We won't say married, motherfucking

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Speaker 1: criminal and happy motherfucking yet, and we will be dropping

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Speaker 1: it well. And we want everybody to subscribe right now.

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Speaker 1: I view listening, subscribe, subscribe, rate this motherfucker five fast reviews. Facts.

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Speaker 1: Motherfuck go on, go on Instagram or whatever social media

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Speaker 1: and post us. Let the motherfuckers know we lit. It's

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Speaker 1: up pounds up there to podcast and we'll do some

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Speaker 1: reposting for you eyes as well. Facts. We love y'all.

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Speaker 1: Stay tuned. Man, next week it's out. It's up down

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Speaker 1: forever ever, ever, ever, ever, never thing that long until

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Speaker 1: you grown. So that mean dude, get mad at me.

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Speaker 1: He ain't come. He didn't want a videotape us with

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Speaker 1: his wood Nigga, I don't even know that, dig I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying that I'm gonna just tell I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 1: my hunger I hired what's the name? Yeah, he got

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Speaker 1: mad because I told him this is the last week

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna show a follow. Let me show you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you cannot get mad? Well, you know, nigga just like man,

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Speaker 1: it's like, nah, you ain't want my giving us what

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Speaker 1: we were looking for. Chance after chickens, you didn't deliver. Baby.

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Speaker 1: That girl responded queen in here to be playing? Oh man, man,

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Speaker 1: you get the couple of white show. We need you

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Speaker 1: to post it one hundred times. You feel man, girl,

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Speaker 1: you just not having to be a part of the kid.

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Speaker 1: She want to get hurt, thought he. She said, how

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Speaker 1: are we salary? Let me see? Uh damn? Did I

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Speaker 1: texting fun? She said, what's the salary? She said she

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Speaker 1: would be a good fit if we're trying to pop,

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Speaker 1: babe a girl, we're gonna pop regards. If we're trying

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Speaker 1: to pop, we need to get her on here. Man. See,

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Speaker 1: you let people live in their area just like it