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Speaker 3: But for now we'll get into some questionable relationship advice.
Speaker 4: Second Date Update Date. Most women have their own unwritten
Speaker 4: rules they set down for a first date. Now, Alexis
Speaker 4: might not agree because these rules I found online were
Speaker 4: written by men, but they still be good that you
Speaker 4: think that number one always be willing to pay for half?
Speaker 4: Should I stop there? Or do you want me to?
Speaker 4: I can get to don't drink too much? The best
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Speaker 1: Why find this?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Why would it look? Want to remember?
Speaker 4: Anyway? We have a woman on the phone named Katrina
Speaker 4: who has her own unwritten rule for dates that she
Speaker 4: brings someone along on her first one every time. Wow, Katrina,
Speaker 4: welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Hey, I think I'm more amazed that you can find
Speaker 2: someone to come with you.
Speaker 1: Every time, you know, like once or twice as a friend.
Speaker 2: Then I'm like, girl, I am not going on your
Speaker 2: eighth first date if you don't even want to go.
Speaker 1: On their own dates.
Speaker 4: Yes, well, if you would pay for half of the meal,
Speaker 4: that people would be more than excited to hang out
Speaker 4: with you.
Speaker 6: And if you have a third you can triple it.
Speaker 4: You split. There you go. But we want to learn
Speaker 4: about you and your dating life, Katrina, So tell us
Speaker 4: who do you like to bring along on your dates
Speaker 4: with you? Like a friend?
Speaker 7: Honestly, I like to ask my mom to come.
Speaker 1: Oh god, no, jeez, why psycho?
Speaker 6: Okay, no, hold on before you say anything. I love moms.
Speaker 6: If a girls shout up with her mom on a date,
Speaker 6: I'd be so happy.
Speaker 1: No, you would not, That is not true.
Speaker 6: Would give me a hug, I'll get your for.
Speaker 1: A first date? Why would you do that?
Speaker 7: Well, I have my mom kind of creep in the background.
Speaker 7: It's not like she's sitting with us or anything like,
Speaker 7: just to make sure that, like the vibes are right
Speaker 7: and that I'm safe. And you know, you never know.
Speaker 4: Who I'm that you need someone to make sure your
Speaker 4: form is right on the kiss too? So in you
Speaker 4: mean she's just like.
Speaker 6: A random person at the bar. Do you introduce her
Speaker 6: to your dates?
Speaker 7: No, spot on, She's just a random person at the bar.
Speaker 6: Okay, that's better.
Speaker 1: It's better, it's better that is I mean, it's okay.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, girl, I'm glad you're here. I'm glad you listen.
Speaker 3: That feels unhealthy to me.
Speaker 4: Really, Brooke doesn't want to let her children leave the
Speaker 4: house until they're thirty years old.
Speaker 3: I mean, I say that, but I don't really want
Speaker 3: that to happen.
Speaker 4: Just like you know, Brook is definitely going to be
Speaker 4: on the first dates with But hold on, let.
Speaker 6: Me just cut all your steak really quickly, and then
Speaker 6: you guys continue.
Speaker 3: So I'm guessing the mom went on this one.
Speaker 4: We're being so judging here. We haven't even heard the
Speaker 4: date yet. Tell us about what what you guys did.
Speaker 4: And this guy that you went out with, Well.
Speaker 7: To start at the beginning, this guy Jeremy, I met
Speaker 7: him on I know you're gonna roll your eyes. I
Speaker 7: met him on gender.
Speaker 6: But that's way better than.
Speaker 8: The first thing you started this.
Speaker 4: We're gonna try not to judge.
Speaker 5: Keep going.
Speaker 4: You met him online, all right, Well we got.
Speaker 7: On gender, and honestly, we hit it off pretty quick,
Speaker 7: but like it kind of seems stagnant, like it wasn't
Speaker 7: going anywhere. Like we talked for a few weeks, but
Speaker 7: we most talked about food, like we're both just big duties.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, nice, Okay, so yeah, yeah, but it felt
Speaker 2: like it was kind of stalling.
Speaker 7: You say, yeah, like I sort of just had to
Speaker 7: be like, hey, are we going on a date or
Speaker 7: are we just going to sit here and like talk
Speaker 7: about food that we're not ever going to keep together.
Speaker 4: Well, some guys do need that, They need that extra
Speaker 4: push to be like, hey, ask me out already, right
Speaker 4: and after.
Speaker 7: A matter of week, I'm gonna say something like I am.
Speaker 9: That girl.
Speaker 3: So assertive and then bring your mom.
Speaker 1: I love it. The first part.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know. We do this segment to find out
Speaker 4: what things you love and what things you don't. We
Speaker 4: got to figure out what Katrina did for her date.
Speaker 1: I agree, I want to hear.
Speaker 4: Okay, So Katrina, where did you and your mom go?
Speaker 7: Okay? Well he suggested sushi?
Speaker 4: Love that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, So I chose the restaurant because I knew where
Speaker 7: it was my mom and I've been there before, so
Speaker 7: that was also helpful.
Speaker 1: And so you're excited about this date.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I'm all in, I'm ready to go. And
Speaker 7: so I end up carpooling there with my mom and
Speaker 7: we get there like a little early, obviously because I
Speaker 7: don't want to get busted, But I have mom posts
Speaker 7: up at the bar and he and I meet up
Speaker 7: and everything's pretty normal at this point.
Speaker 2: Can I ask, like, when you're separated from your mother,
Speaker 2: are you guys like secretly meeting in the bathroom at
Speaker 2: any point? Are you giving each other signals.
Speaker 5: On the date?
Speaker 7: Not necessarily? I mean there was one point when like
Speaker 7: I got up to go to the bathroom and like,
Speaker 7: I definitely did just one quick check.
Speaker 9: In with her.
Speaker 4: Okay, you guy's risky.
Speaker 1: I look so much like my mom. If someone saw
Speaker 1: me talking, you know, a million percent to.
Speaker 4: Rob leave you for your mom, because it sounds like
Speaker 4: if you only checked in with your mom once, the
Speaker 4: date must have been going pretty well.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean we were making quick work at the
Speaker 7: sushi menu. We did it all, from sushi to sashimi
Speaker 7: to seaweed salad. We had a little bit of everything.
Speaker 2: Okay, section you're leaning in on the foody connection you
Speaker 2: guys have.
Speaker 7: Yeah, definitely, So like it was pretty chill.
Speaker 6: How does a mom date end? Like, does she watch you? Guys?
Speaker 6: I'm being serious.
Speaker 2: It's like because he can't walk her to the car
Speaker 2: because it's her mom's car.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like my mom.
Speaker 1: Has the keys.
Speaker 6: Right now.
Speaker 7: Well, we went outside and yes, I have to get
Speaker 7: in the car with my mom, so like I have
Speaker 7: to finesse this. So I'm like, hey, this was great,
Speaker 7: and I like gave him a quick kiss, but like
Speaker 7: he kind of did seem a little surprised by that.
Speaker 6: You initiated it.
Speaker 7: Yeah, again, I am that girl.
Speaker 1: That's rare in front of your mom?
Speaker 6: Was it in front of your mom? Did you see?
Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, she was like lurking in the background, lurking.
Speaker 4: The cameras out and everything.
Speaker 3: Okay, and what do you mean he seems surprised by
Speaker 3: the kiss?
Speaker 1: How so?
Speaker 7: I don't know, Like I kind of just threw it
Speaker 7: out there. It was quick. He was kind of like,
Speaker 7: looks like he was reeling a tiny bit. I don't know.
Speaker 9: We did just eat a bunch of sushi.
Speaker 7: That could be on me.
Speaker 4: Maybe it was weird for him because his dad was
Speaker 4: also the duke. The mom's over by the bar. Yeah,
Speaker 4: the grandparents are in the car outside.
Speaker 2: It happens, I will love it so hard.
Speaker 4: I really hope not, but maybe it will. If we
Speaker 4: come back, they'll call Jeremy for you and try and
Speaker 4: get your second date update right after this.
Speaker 7: Thank you, hold on second date.
Speaker 4: Update if you're just joining us for the second date update.
Speaker 4: We're on the phone with Katrina, whose first date would
Speaker 4: be an absolute nightmare for most of us in this room,
Speaker 4: but for her, it's totally normal to bring along her
Speaker 4: mom as the third wheel. Just make sure that everything's
Speaker 4: going right. As far as we can tell, her date,
Speaker 4: Jeremy did not know that her mom was even there
Speaker 4: the whole time, watching, peeping in on their first kiss. Katrina,
Speaker 4: did you hold your finger up to give mom a
Speaker 4: count down so that she knew the kiss was about
Speaker 4: to happen? It would have been kind of romantic.
Speaker 7: Well, I think everyone was caught off guard by the
Speaker 7: kiss Mom included.
Speaker 1: For some reason.
Speaker 2: I just imagine your mother in the window of that
Speaker 2: sushi restaurant just banging on it, saying, wait to go, honey.
Speaker 7: Well, thank god that didn't happen.
Speaker 4: Okay, but after the date, your mom did approve of him?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, definitely okay, And we never asked either. Have
Speaker 2: you talk to him since I know that you said
Speaker 2: the kiss took him off guard?
Speaker 3: But maybe have you heard anything?
Speaker 7: No, that's why I'm calling you. It's just it's been awkward.
Speaker 7: I don't know what's up.
Speaker 4: Hopefully we can help smooth things over. We're about to
Speaker 4: call your boy here and hopefully turn Katrina and Jeremy
Speaker 4: into the power couple. Katam me, Hey, got a nice.
Speaker 5: Ring to it?
Speaker 1: Did we need to dial her mom in on the
Speaker 1: other line.
Speaker 4: I'm sure she's watching through one of the windows of
Speaker 4: the studio. I'm going to dial him right now. Let's
Speaker 4: do it.
Speaker 5: Hello.
Speaker 4: Hey, is this Jeremy?
Speaker 9: Yeah? Who's this?
Speaker 4: Uh, we're we're a radio show. We're called Brooke and
Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Hey Jeremy, Hey you doing.
Speaker 9: Hi?
Speaker 4: Hey, you're quite the talker.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So a tough nut to crack, jeff.
Speaker 4: Maybe, but hopefully we can because we're trying to help
Speaker 4: out one of our listeners with this segment we're doing
Speaker 4: called a second Date Update. Basically, you went out with
Speaker 4: a girl named Katrina the other night to a sushi restaurant,
Speaker 4: and we're trying to kind of pick your brain about it.
Speaker 7: Uh, yeah, that was a scam.
Speaker 1: What what did you say? Scam?
Speaker 6: Like you scammed her?
Speaker 5: No, No, I think she's got some kind of operations
Speaker 5: she's running.
Speaker 4: You can you please elaborate because we have no idea
Speaker 4: what you're talking about.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she did not allude to any sort of scam
Speaker 2: when we talked to her.
Speaker 5: It was a date, right, well, all right, we went
Speaker 5: to a sushi restaurant.
Speaker 9: We ordered a ton of food.
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay.
Speaker 9: So at the end the bill came, and you know,
Speaker 9: I have a policy I'll pay for the first day
Speaker 9: usually more than that.
Speaker 5: I just think it's the right thing to do. Although,
Speaker 5: I mean, we had a big night, you ordered a
Speaker 5: lot of food. So the guy came and she put
Speaker 5: down her card too, and I would sink, all right,
Speaker 5: thank god that one, I don't have to pay for
Speaker 5: this all. But two that that's nice of her to,
Speaker 5: like I said, I'd get it. But then she threw
Speaker 5: down her card, so I was like, all right, that's
Speaker 5: cool of birth.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's really considerate, Alexis. It is a nice thing.
Speaker 4: Guys appreciate that and like that about women. Whatever, I mean,
Speaker 4: considerate for next time.
Speaker 1: I get my card. Jeff, Yeah, yeah, she says, Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4: So sorry, Jeremy.
Speaker 5: Keep going, well, but hold on because the bill came
Speaker 5: and I got my card back, and I saw I
Speaker 5: had still been charged for everything, and I.
Speaker 9: Had a quick moment of what's happening. And then he
Speaker 9: turned to her and said, and here's your loyalty card.
Speaker 1: What oh, that's.
Speaker 6: Her favorite sushi playing Wait.
Speaker 2: So like she threw it down, so like if you
Speaker 2: order ten rolls to give the eleventh three or something
Speaker 2: like that type of deal.
Speaker 1: Is that what you mean?
Speaker 9: She was getting some kind of like reward points for
Speaker 9: all the money.
Speaker 1: I just then, oh, it's a scam. Like, why wouldn't
Speaker 1: she throw it down?
Speaker 3: Like you're eating there, you don't have a loyalty card.
Speaker 6: It's weird that she.
Speaker 4: Would get all the benefits from their meal together that
Speaker 4: he paid for. She should have said, hey, here, if
Speaker 4: you want.
Speaker 1: You can join someone buys me Starbucks. It's so hard
Speaker 1: for me not to put my rewards right there. I
Speaker 1: don't know that that's a scalm. I bet she just
Speaker 1: didn't even think about it.
Speaker 4: How much was it? How much was the bill that
Speaker 4: you paid?
Speaker 6: She has got to be a hundred or so.
Speaker 9: I think it was closer to like two hundred bucks.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I.
Speaker 5: Said the scam because I just suddenly got a flash
Speaker 5: of her taking like every internet guy to this one
Speaker 5: place and like racking up card.
Speaker 8: That isenious, I'm racking up the free California rolls and nobody.
Speaker 4: Even knows you're gonna You're creating a little monster in our.
Speaker 1: Studio texting on my friends right now. I'm sorry. That
Speaker 1: is a big accusation.
Speaker 4: It is weird that none of that came up when
Speaker 4: we talked to her.
Speaker 1: So I'm telling you she doesn't even think about it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she just.
Speaker 4: Takes money from guys and gets the rewards to herself. Okay,
Speaker 4: we need to clear this up and actually have Katrina
Speaker 4: on the line. She is on the phone already, by
Speaker 4: the way, Jerry, wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Does it will feel less scammy?
Speaker 9: What are you talking about?
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's how this segment works. We have them listening
Speaker 4: quietly and then have them jump in.
Speaker 7: That feels normal, sir, respectfully, What are you talking about?
Speaker 7: Like I'm running you suggested sushi. I suggested the restaurant.
Speaker 1: Oh she got you.
Speaker 9: Wait a minute, wait, you just said you picked the
Speaker 9: place you picked sushi.
Speaker 7: So what I was going to talk to you for
Speaker 7: weeks on the off chance you would land on sushi,
Speaker 7: even though I told you pick absolutely anything.
Speaker 5: Wait, wait a.
Speaker 9: Minute, just answer me. Yes, you have you taken other
Speaker 9: internet dates to that same place?
Speaker 7: Oh? Quite frankly, that is none of your business. And
Speaker 7: I know that's where my mom and I like to go.
Speaker 7: It's our favorite restaurant, she and I.
Speaker 4: So yeah, because you get all the free food there.
Speaker 2: Come on, you, guys, Jeffer, you really think that she
Speaker 2: is going to spend hours talking to men then hours
Speaker 2: going out on terrible dates with them, like it is
Speaker 2: not worth Like I can't imagine all of that energy
Speaker 2: being worth whatever you end up getting.
Speaker 4: I guess I do see Brooks point. You can be
Speaker 4: running a tighter scam than this. Yeah, maybe you need
Speaker 4: to like streamline this.
Speaker 3: Thank you, The reward is not worth the efforts.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, maybe I'm to buy some gift cards too.
Speaker 5: Next time you keep saying it's not worth it, then
Speaker 5: why would you bother putting down your card.
Speaker 7: You offered to pay. I said thank you because that
Speaker 7: is the appropriate response, and then I my loyalty card down.
Speaker 7: I'm not going to let one hundred and sixty bucks,
Speaker 7: like one hundred dollars bill go without like just putting
Speaker 7: points on my card like you're paying for anyway, Like,
Speaker 7: why not it?
Speaker 4: So you said you and your mom go there? Did
Speaker 4: you use the loyalty points from this date on the
Speaker 4: next time that you and your mom went and ate there?
Speaker 3: Why would it matter?
Speaker 4: I'm just curious.
Speaker 9: I always use my loyalty card when we go and
Speaker 9: eat there.
Speaker 7: And yeah, we went there like a week or so
Speaker 7: after this date that he and I had so like
Speaker 7: technically probably, but I had a lot.
Speaker 4: Of points on that card for several meals.
Speaker 8: The guys, you bought her mom dinner. Yes, I don't
Speaker 8: know why he's so upset about this. Still, I totally
Speaker 8: don't see an issue with this.
Speaker 7: Here's the thing, after hearing the way this man feels
Speaker 7: about me because I'm apparently a scam artist, let me
Speaker 7: just pull the curtain all the way back. Let's get
Speaker 7: so real right now. Sure, the week or so after
Speaker 7: when I went there with my mom was not even
Speaker 7: the most important time that I went there with my mom.
Speaker 7: I think the most note for the time is the
Speaker 7: fact that my mother was there when we were on
Speaker 7: the state in the first place, she would sit at
Speaker 7: the bar.
Speaker 4: Okay, I don't know if Jeremy knew that that's not.
Speaker 6: A real bomb you think it is.
Speaker 7: I The thing is, she was just watching to make
Speaker 7: sure that I don't get I don't know, murdered.
Speaker 4: And then, Jeremy, you gave off. Do you feel like
Speaker 4: you maybe gave off some murdery vibes when you matched
Speaker 4: with her online?
Speaker 3: Her mom was going to save her.
Speaker 9: You thought I was going to murder you in the
Speaker 9: sushi restaurants.
Speaker 4: Maybe not in the restaurant, but maybe the barking one probably, Yeah,
Speaker 4: after you pay the bill. Yeah, they need the loyalty points.
Speaker 3: I think the more important point is did you hear
Speaker 3: that her mom was there?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 9: I don't even understand your mom is chaperoning your day.
Speaker 7: Yeah, because there's a bunch of weirdos on the internet,
Speaker 7: so you have to be careful the internet.
Speaker 4: You Well, it's so romantic at this point, I just
Speaker 4: have to ask if you two would like to go
Speaker 4: out on another date.
Speaker 6: Moms and karens all.
Speaker 4: Invited and Jeremy, we're going to pay for it this time.
Speaker 1: We'll give you your own punch card.
Speaker 5: Yeah, what do you think, Jeremy, This is like more
Speaker 5: twisted than I even imagine.
Speaker 4: There's no scam here. We'll pay for everything.
Speaker 9: Let her go out with their mom. I'm done.
Speaker 1: I like to do that.
Speaker 4: So the loyalty points are running low, though, So who's
Speaker 4: going to pay for that?
Speaker 7: You guys?
Speaker 6: Will?
Speaker 7: You already said you were going to give me a
Speaker 7: guest card.
Speaker 4: Now you're running a scam on us.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I don't know.
Speaker 3: She's really good at it, though, I'm still okay with it.
Speaker 4: I know Brooke ven about four hundred dollars right now.
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,