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Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 2: What's going on?
Speaker 1: Everything good with you?
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, happy to be here.
Speaker 4: Thank you for coming to grace us with your positive energy.
Speaker 4: We you know, every time you speak, you know, you
Speaker 4: just seem to just shine this light on the world.
Speaker 2: So we're excited to have you.
Speaker 5: I appreciate that. Thank you for having me.
Speaker 4: Yeah so so, so let us into the world a
Speaker 4: little bit of what what you got going on, because
Speaker 4: you're an entrepreneur, different ventures and everything like this kind
Speaker 4: of fill us in.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, all kinds of stuff.
Speaker 6: So on four to twenty, I'll be opening up my
Speaker 6: dispenser in Mississippi, which is kind of like home base
Speaker 6: for me right now. It's my first operation that solely
Speaker 6: owned and operate I want, so I'm like super super
Speaker 6: excited about that. And also I'm doing a relaunch of
Speaker 6: my wellness company that I dream yes Wellness uh huh.
Speaker 6: I did like did some rebranding until we're gonna be
Speaker 6: relaunching that over the next month as well.
Speaker 5: Son.
Speaker 4: You speak a lot about I guess, just your overall
Speaker 4: progression just you know, as an entrepreneur, but just as
Speaker 4: a human being too.
Speaker 2: What do you think kind of like caused that.
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, just constant.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna say, challenges, which I don't really look at
Speaker 6: challenges is really just like opportunities for growth, you know
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. So that's kind of what keeps me
Speaker 6: going and constantly like evolving and.
Speaker 4: Uh so, yeah, I guess I would say, like with
Speaker 4: those challenges, some people might say, Okay, these challenges, I'm
Speaker 4: gonna take these challenges and as they would say, crash out,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna eat bad, I'm gonna have toxic behavior and
Speaker 4: everything like that. But what was it that made you say,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna take these challenges and try to evolve and
Speaker 4: rise above.
Speaker 6: I mean, I really learned that, like in order like
Speaker 6: some of the greatest people in the world they have
Speaker 6: like the most amazing stories, like they really they've been
Speaker 6: through some shit, you know what I'm saying, Like the
Speaker 6: most enlightened people, Like they've really like they've been through
Speaker 6: the struggle. And so for me, it was like I
Speaker 6: can sit here and have pity on myself and be
Speaker 6: sobbing and you know what I'm saying and crash out
Speaker 6: like you say, or I can look at this and
Speaker 6: get a lesson from it and take that and help
Speaker 6: that to you know what I'm saying, just like move
Speaker 6: myself forward or really just move forward in life in general.
Speaker 5: You know, there's always a lesson.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're always going to take always everything.
Speaker 7: And if I'm not mistaken, in twenty twenty two, you
Speaker 7: had like a mental and a spiritual awakening that most
Speaker 7: people are the general public with quote unquote call and
Speaker 7: identity crisis. Yeah, So how was it trying to navigate
Speaker 7: through that identity crisis while at the same time being
Speaker 7: a mom and a business owner.
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, that is extremely difficult to do because
Speaker 6: it was like this person that I've been for damn
Speaker 6: near two decades, like r that ain't that's.
Speaker 5: Not me right now anymore anymore.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Like you know that was I mean, it's still
Speaker 7: and forever would be a part of my story, but
Speaker 7: that wasn't I couldn't identify with that anymore.
Speaker 5: So it was definitely struck. It was hard, very very hard.
Speaker 6: But over the past like two or three years, I
Speaker 6: was also working with like a spiritual psychologist. So through
Speaker 6: my work with him, it's like he actually gave me
Speaker 6: the tools to be able to navigate through all of that.
Speaker 3: You know what, I'm so real quick not to count
Speaker 3: you all.
Speaker 7: It's explaining to people what the difference is between a
Speaker 7: regular or clinical.
Speaker 3: Psychologist and a spiritual psychology.
Speaker 6: Man, a spiritual psychologist deals with like they teach you
Speaker 6: about like the what what's really happening. It's not so
Speaker 6: much from a medical standpoint. It's about energy and.
Speaker 3: Spirit, which is why we are right at the.
Speaker 1: End of the day.
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, All that medical bs like
Speaker 6: it deals with what we are at the end of
Speaker 6: the day, which is spirit and energy, right and.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so yeah, it was amazing.
Speaker 6: I mean I learned some amazing things from this man,
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, because you really it like
Speaker 6: psychology is really like the study of human behavior. So
Speaker 6: at the end of the day, it's like, you know,
Speaker 6: teaching you how to relate to yourself and how to
Speaker 6: relate to the world.
Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, what you think pushed you into like
Speaker 1: just trying to be more spiritual?
Speaker 6: Like, to be honest with you, I've always been like spiritual,
Speaker 6: like my whole life, and it's something that I kind
Speaker 6: of like ran from. And I think you'll hear a
Speaker 6: lot of people who are like really just like in tune,
Speaker 6: like they run away from it because it's kind of scary. Yeah,
Speaker 6: I walk up on somebody and I'll damn to get
Speaker 6: a whole old download of like their whole.
Speaker 3: Life, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: I'm like, damn, I don't walk around analyzing everybody, you
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. I'm like being a mind reader
Speaker 7: for real, for real, And it's like no, like I
Speaker 7: don't want to see this right now, I just want
Speaker 7: to exactly.
Speaker 6: So, but yeah, I've been like that my whole life.
Speaker 6: At the age of thirteen, I actually told my mama
Speaker 6: wasn't going to church anymore because it just wasn't I'm like, this,
Speaker 6: ain't it, Like, why am I coming here? Y'all talking
Speaker 6: about what we're doing wrong the kids these days, and
Speaker 6: I'm like, no, that's.
Speaker 3: Not what this is supposed to be about.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so yeah, strive.
Speaker 8: Uh my wife questions that way, and she.
Speaker 1: Loved you to death. To strive, bean bean. And better being?
Speaker 3: What the being?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, just being a better being, Like just being
Speaker 6: a better version. Like I strive at the end of
Speaker 6: the day to be the best version of myself.
Speaker 1: So that exactly, just striving.
Speaker 5: To be the best version of yourself.
Speaker 6: Like I have people to ask me all the time,
Speaker 6: like who who inspires you?
Speaker 5: Or who do you aspire to be?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 6: And I'm like, the best version of myself, you know
Speaker 6: what I'm saying, because it's like it's so hard, like
Speaker 6: you get caught up into aspiring and be like somebody
Speaker 6: and it's not you know what I'm saying, in alignment
Speaker 6: with your purpose and what you were put here for.
Speaker 3: Ye know, we were just.
Speaker 8: Talking about that what people gonna think and I don't
Speaker 8: want people to think.
Speaker 6: Yeah, all of that exactly, And that's what I learned.
Speaker 6: It's like, at the end of the day, people are
Speaker 6: gonna come up with their own stories there ever, regardless
Speaker 6: of what I say or do. So at the end
Speaker 6: of the day, it's like I might as well just
Speaker 6: be me.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, be myself.
Speaker 7: Yes, yes, so at least I'm comfortable, like exactly at
Speaker 7: the end of the day.
Speaker 3: That's really the automatters that matters.
Speaker 8: And that's that's that's that's drawing imagineary line too.
Speaker 1: You're gonna fuck with me or you ain't. Exactly at
Speaker 1: least I ain't got it.
Speaker 8: I tell you that ship that she that she calls anxiety, bro.
Speaker 8: When you know, being fake to somebody.
Speaker 6: I was just about to say, being somebody that you're
Speaker 6: not that should have killed you.
Speaker 1: You gotta remember, you gotta remember and who I was
Speaker 1: for her.
Speaker 5: But when you just you like, that's what it is.
Speaker 5: At the end of the day. You either like it
Speaker 5: or you don't.
Speaker 7: And that's just what And I think it also like
Speaker 7: when you're yourself, it also provides you or affords you
Speaker 7: with a certain comfortability because you know that, like, Okay,
Speaker 7: if these people fuck with me, it's cool. If they don't,
Speaker 7: I really don't give a fuck because at the end
Speaker 7: of the day, like, so, what exactly I got me?
Speaker 7: And that's all the matters exactly, And I'm doing what
Speaker 7: makes me happy and what's fulfilling to meet at the
Speaker 7: end of it, what's gonna keep me going exactly, Like, Yeah.
Speaker 1: You know, you know how just period me? I know
Speaker 1: I do.
Speaker 8: Yeah, but you get what I'm saying. So, so you
Speaker 8: have to do certain ship to be at peace. You
Speaker 8: have to be in certain environments, right.
Speaker 5: You do. That's why I'm on the farm, right.
Speaker 2: That's what you did.
Speaker 1: This says I distrive, destrive a day to day life.
Speaker 2: On the phone.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean that.
Speaker 6: That's why I'm on the farm right now, because that's
Speaker 6: where I really fucking found myself.
Speaker 5: That's where I remembered who I was.
Speaker 6: That's where I became like I'm not gonna say this
Speaker 6: powerful being, but that's when where I came into my power.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, and who I really am
Speaker 5: at the end of the day.
Speaker 6: But yeah, a day in the life on the farm
Speaker 6: when I'm there, I've been traveling a lot.
Speaker 5: But I'll wake up in the morning.
Speaker 6: I try to get up before everybody else does, uh,
Speaker 6: so that I can actually go. I'll go next door
Speaker 6: to the gym, I work out my workout in, and
Speaker 6: then I'll probably meditate a little bit.
Speaker 5: I do like this writing.
Speaker 6: So if I'm like pissed off about something, yeah somebody
Speaker 6: or anything that happened, it's like twelve minutes I just write,
Speaker 6: I say whatever the hell I want.
Speaker 5: Shitty.
Speaker 7: I probably will never say to their face, you know
Speaker 7: what I'm saying, But I write that shit down and
Speaker 7: then I'll learn it.
Speaker 5: Because it like neutralizes the negativity.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, So that's so good.
Speaker 6: That's one of my practices that I do. And then
Speaker 6: I'll do another twelve minutes of just writing about you know,
Speaker 6: like what I'm grateful for, which is a lot, you.
Speaker 5: Know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: Yeah, And then I'll go outside, probably just walk around barefoot, go.
Speaker 7: Yes, because people a lot of people don't understand that
Speaker 7: like walking around walking around barefoot, it centers your energy
Speaker 7: and it makes you one like with the earth, and
Speaker 7: that's what is important for the psychological part of it,
Speaker 7: to like research you and like get you back going
Speaker 7: and shit.
Speaker 5: Exactly, it's very grounded.
Speaker 6: I mean and even in addition to that, like psychologically,
Speaker 6: like physically, like the Earth has so much to offer
Speaker 6: to us, you know what I'm saying, Like she really
Speaker 6: provides balance for us, Like they say, if you just
Speaker 6: walk twenty minutes a day outside, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 6: that's that's good medicine.
Speaker 3: Life changing.
Speaker 5: It really is, Yeah, it really is.
Speaker 4: So I want to know more about this farm situation though,
Speaker 4: like what state is it in Mississippi? It's in Mississippi, yes,
Speaker 4: So what's the process of that, Like you gotta buy
Speaker 4: some land, farmland though it has to be farmland.
Speaker 7: Well, I mean it doesn't have to be, but yeah, yeah,
Speaker 7: yeah you do.
Speaker 2: You did you like what kind of you put animals
Speaker 2: on them?
Speaker 6: Like, oh, yes, I have camels, peacocks, our pacas.
Speaker 2: Wow?
Speaker 1: Shit?
Speaker 5: What else do I have? Tortoises?
Speaker 2: Wow?
Speaker 5: All kinds of stuff?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so this is a tricky question.
Speaker 4: But if you're on a farm, farmers eat those animals.
Speaker 6: So do you know I eat the eggs that come
Speaker 6: from the chicken. But then I also have it's blueberry farm,
Speaker 6: so we have like acres.
Speaker 5: And acres and blueberries, and then I.
Speaker 6: Have a garden where I grow like over sixty different
Speaker 6: types of fruits and vegetables.
Speaker 5: Really, yes, it's so rewarding. It's so hard y'all.
Speaker 6: This last Thanksgiving, so I had like this huge sweet
Speaker 6: potato harvest. I'm sorry I had to tell y'all about
Speaker 6: this because it was Thanksgiving and I had this huge
Speaker 6: sweet potato harvest and my mom cooked candy yams y'all,
Speaker 6: and we had them for like, we had so many
Speaker 6: different just like containers.
Speaker 5: They were so delicious. Ended up freezing some of them.
Speaker 6: But but yeah, it's just rewarding, like you know what
Speaker 6: I'm saying, because it takes a lot to grow.
Speaker 5: I mean, it doesn't take a lot, but it's a
Speaker 5: learning part. It's being raw vegetables.
Speaker 8: How you feel about the food, like the crab food,
Speaker 8: what you eat, your car food.
Speaker 5: I am like very very picky eater.
Speaker 7: I'm a foodie, Like I'll try something, but like I
Speaker 7: really clean.
Speaker 1: Huh. Do you eat meat?
Speaker 6: Yeah, but very little okay yeah, very little, very little,
Speaker 6: mainly like fish and like lamb okay yeah yeah, yep.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So you you lead this community of so many women
Speaker 4: champion you and they salute you, and you kind of
Speaker 4: lead this community of like minded women. Right, Oh, so
Speaker 4: what do you think the key is to getting the
Speaker 4: women who might not be in.
Speaker 2: That mindset to join that community? Trying to say it'll.
Speaker 5: Be surprised, I said, you'd be surprised some of the women,
Speaker 5: Like I get women of all.
Speaker 6: Different backgrounds that come up to me and be like,
Speaker 6: oh my god, drika, like thank you you did this
Speaker 6: for me.
Speaker 5: Get like from strippers to like you know, corporate women.
Speaker 7: So it's like we're doing the work.
Speaker 4: Surpris I guess I'm saying, like you kind of you push,
Speaker 4: like uplifting your men and uplifting yeah, you know that
Speaker 4: type of thing.
Speaker 2: But there there's another energy.
Speaker 4: Out here where it's like, how do we find this balances.
Speaker 6: I'm not with that at all because I for me,
Speaker 6: I feel like at the end of the day, like
Speaker 6: we need y'all and y'all need us, you know what
Speaker 6: I'm saying, And it's a balance, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: I'm trying, but no real talk.
Speaker 6: I really am working on like a program because at
Speaker 6: the end of the day, like a lot of the
Speaker 6: women that's on that kick, it's underlying issues that that
Speaker 6: make them be that way.
Speaker 7: That's all like like if you like, if you if
Speaker 7: you've grown up and all you've ever seen is your mama.
Speaker 3: Getting into it with niggas and fighting niggas.
Speaker 7: Your Grandma and your aunties and everybody that's around you
Speaker 7: that's doing that, then that's all that you know, and
Speaker 7: that's been ingraineding you to feel like this is how
Speaker 7: I'm supposed to be as a woman to.
Speaker 6: A man exactly, and that's just not it. I mean
Speaker 6: even with myself. I found myself now. I call it
Speaker 6: like the past couple of years, like I.
Speaker 7: Been literally like uneducating myself because I had some behaviors,
Speaker 7: you know, from my mom and and ways of thinking
Speaker 7: about like ideas about men or came from her that
Speaker 7: I had to like like, yeah, you know what.
Speaker 5: I'm saying, we're in the new generation. We're not. I
Speaker 5: don't want my daughter to feel that way, right, you
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: So it's all about just like reprogramming ourselves because we
Speaker 6: get caught up in that and it's like that's not
Speaker 6: what it is.
Speaker 5: Like No, like you're my king, I'm here, queen, Like
Speaker 5: let's you.
Speaker 6: Know what I'm saying, Let's live royally like minus the bullshit.
Speaker 5: Sh It's gonna happen. We're humans, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 8: They say anything else about when I got big, that
Speaker 8: you gotta unlearnship just in a lie so much ship
Speaker 8: that we adopted and took on and thought was real.
Speaker 1: Shit is fake, bro. Yeah, oh no, how to say that?
Speaker 2: Shit is wrong?
Speaker 1: A lot of shit that we think and we grew
Speaker 1: up on that.
Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying, what you call it, like
Speaker 8: product of environment you've seen it was okay because it
Speaker 8: was okay.
Speaker 3: Right, really okay?
Speaker 1: Ain't really okay?
Speaker 2: Yeah, not really shit.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a part of that identity crisis shit. Like
Speaker 6: it wasn't just like personal or business shit. It was
Speaker 6: just like me just on learning a lot of shit,
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, just from all different aspects
Speaker 6: of just life.
Speaker 4: So but yeah, yeah, do you think that if if
Speaker 4: some of these people spent like ten, fifteen, twenty thirty
Speaker 4: days on the farm with you, they would heal, Oh.
Speaker 5: Hell yeah I can.
Speaker 6: Everybody that's come to that farm and spent some time
Speaker 6: in a form with me, they left different and with
Speaker 6: a different perspective, with a different mindset because on the farm,
Speaker 6: like there's not there aren't very many distractions at all,
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, Like, you gotta sit with
Speaker 6: yourself on that farm, whatever's coming up for you, gotta
Speaker 6: deal with that on the farm, you know, And that's
Speaker 6: kind of like why I like being there, Like I
Speaker 6: I you know, some people there's a saying about getting
Speaker 6: out the kitchen when it gets too hot or whatever,
Speaker 6: but I stayed in the fucking kitchen because I'm like, no,
Speaker 6: we gotta work this out, like we got to figure
Speaker 6: out how to fix the temperature, and yeah, because this
Speaker 6: is my kitchen.
Speaker 7: And they to keep leaving every time it gets right, man,
Speaker 7: because so many people do that. They're constantly running And
Speaker 7: what are you running from?
Speaker 3: It's not going anywhere, it's not.
Speaker 8: And I must keep saying the same again. You really
Speaker 8: wouldn't care if other people didn't care. That's why people
Speaker 8: be caring about a lot of ship because of other people.
Speaker 8: A lot of ship you wouldn't even you don't even
Speaker 8: give a fuck about just because people know.
Speaker 1: Now you're supposed to care exactly. That's the truth. Like, nigga,
Speaker 1: I really don't even give a fuck.
Speaker 5: I got this whole thing. I'm like, and nobody's dying.
Speaker 5: I'm good. I could give a fun.
Speaker 6: Less like and I always say that that ship is irrelevant.
Speaker 6: That's irrelevant. That's really like, it doesn't matter. There's a
Speaker 6: lot of ship that don't even.
Speaker 1: Matter at all.
Speaker 8: When you think about the ship that you thought matter,
Speaker 8: don't even matter, right, Really, ship sh it matter with
Speaker 8: family and things of that nature.
Speaker 1: I'm saying no, I'm saying you well being and you.
Speaker 2: One of my favorite books is Don't Sweat the Small Stuff.
Speaker 2: It's all small stuff.
Speaker 1: I read that and that changed my all.
Speaker 6: Ship It's irrelevant, but how we relate to it is relevant.
Speaker 8: So you so you firm believe, But what you think
Speaker 8: about is who you are. Like if you sit around
Speaker 8: and think about bullshit.
Speaker 1: You bullshit?
Speaker 5: Hell yeah, because let me tell you something.
Speaker 6: You can sit around there, okay, where attention Why where
Speaker 6: attentionion goes, energy flows, So you're putting energy into that
Speaker 6: negative thought or that negative behavior.
Speaker 5: You gotta get out of that.
Speaker 1: Yes, you got to tell yourself. I talked myself, man,
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, what you say? No, No, I'm talking some about.
Speaker 4: That.
Speaker 5: You're like, no, no, get my head?
Speaker 1: You tripping, bro? Tell you say that you tripping?
Speaker 6: Like yeah, because I mean that's how we manifest. When
Speaker 6: we have thoughts, when we have a vision and we
Speaker 6: put energy into that thought or that vision, that is
Speaker 6: how you manifest.
Speaker 4: So what was the biggest obstacle when you was going
Speaker 4: through that? Was it like anxiety depression or something else?
Speaker 4: Like what particularly were you?
Speaker 2: Do? You know?
Speaker 1: It was fighting life? Life, Life is always life. Trying
Speaker 1: to Yeah, because you don't care, That's what is the
Speaker 1: biggest obstacle is trying to care.
Speaker 5: Bro man, Yeah, should you care?
Speaker 2: Like there's a ship that you will care about?
Speaker 1: Like what Yeah?
Speaker 2: But if if Jade or me call you with a.
Speaker 1: Problem, I'm here for you. But I really don't.
Speaker 3: Get No, I.
Speaker 1: Guess there's a line between.
Speaker 7: Like with me for you, Like what do you call
Speaker 7: that ship? I'm an imput so like I absorb if
Speaker 7: I really love you when I fuck with you and
Speaker 7: I care about you, like if something's wrong with you,
Speaker 7: Like I absorbed that ship I got, but I had
Speaker 7: to realize, like it's so many people that the depend
Speaker 7: on me to help him, Like I was like, you
Speaker 7: know how like when a sponge gets full, it's just
Speaker 7: soft and like it just starts leaking and ship, like ma'am,
Speaker 7: I had to understand, like I can listen and I
Speaker 7: can try to process to help, but I can't like
Speaker 7: let that ship sit with me and let it linger
Speaker 7: because then I don't have any room to fucking try
Speaker 7: to figure my ship out.
Speaker 5: Exact like for real, real like and that ship.
Speaker 7: It took me ship really up until recently to learn
Speaker 7: that a very long time.
Speaker 3: But once I did.
Speaker 7: That, then, like man, life was like so much freer
Speaker 7: and clearer.
Speaker 4: Like yes, concern and care. I'm just saying, if no
Speaker 4: one hits you and be like.
Speaker 2: Pop, I got a problem, bro, blah blah blah, you
Speaker 2: have concern, can I help? I don't concern. You will
Speaker 2: give him advice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that don't mean I don't care.
Speaker 8: I'm saying what I'm saying, I care, but I don't
Speaker 8: give a fuck for really you hang up the phone
Speaker 8: and and damn that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that's extreme, that's what.
Speaker 7: No.
Speaker 1: But some people do that. I used to do.
Speaker 3: I do that. I used to do it.
Speaker 4: So don't care about everybody's ship, But you still care
Speaker 4: about people.
Speaker 1: I care about you. You don't care what they think.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, I care about you.
Speaker 2: I love you.
Speaker 1: When whatever something happened with Stream of Nigga won't talk.
Speaker 2: You can't be upbout.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm not finna.
Speaker 2: You can care too much for sure.
Speaker 8: I can hang off the phone and allow your whatever
Speaker 8: it is that you got er bring my energy down
Speaker 8: and I can't be the best man.
Speaker 1: You're right, You're right, So really, I can't give a fuck.
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 4: I think what I'm preaching is, please don't give a
Speaker 4: funk about what everybody thinking over you yourself.
Speaker 2: But we gotta care about human beings.
Speaker 1: I care him.
Speaker 6: We can't we care.
Speaker 1: You care about your kids because you didn't.
Speaker 7: If you didn't, It's like if you didn't care, you
Speaker 7: wouldn't even begin to entertain or listen to the ship
Speaker 7: that people telling you.
Speaker 1: I don't care to the point gon trigger my anxiety, bro,
Speaker 1: because I struggled and got them overthinking.
Speaker 8: So if I have to kind of reject that to
Speaker 8: I brushed out thinking about he's gonna be okay.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I can't live in ship,
Speaker 1: live in me, bro, I can't.
Speaker 8: I can't I go to shaking all kinds like, I
Speaker 8: can't do it.
Speaker 1: I told you I'll be glitching, Bro, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just have to pray for it and and rebuke
Speaker 1: that something Nigga's gonna happen to you enemy, get it
Speaker 1: out of my mind the worst. You gotta think the
Speaker 1: best for a nigga, you know what I'm saying, and
Speaker 1: move on.
Speaker 5: So it's like no, no, no, no, I was gonna say.
Speaker 7: No, you have to call it being stuck in a lesson.
Speaker 7: You cannot get stuck in the lesson. Y'all think back
Speaker 7: to like Toddler's right, they'll fall out on the fucking floor,
Speaker 7: kick and screaming.
Speaker 5: Two minutes later they're up running around like nothing, like
Speaker 5: nothing ever happened.
Speaker 7: Yeah, we're actually supposed to be that way as adults toddlers.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like it only around, Like it only takes.
Speaker 6: Us two minutes to process and experience an emotion. So
Speaker 6: like somebody piss us off, Yeah we can kick, scream, curse,
Speaker 6: fight all that, but like, if we have the proper tools.
Speaker 5: We can process that in two minutes.
Speaker 4: My wife, my wife and my daughter a great at that.
Speaker 4: Like I'm getting better, Like something can fuck up my day,
Speaker 4: but I'm doing better now now its up two three hours.
Speaker 3: How do y'all deal with somebody that.
Speaker 7: Is in your space trying to tell you about some
Speaker 7: ship that's negative that you don't give a fuck about,
Speaker 7: nor do you want to hear without being rude.
Speaker 5: Come on the queen of that.
Speaker 6: I say, hey, I hear you and understand, but I
Speaker 6: would rather not like exactly, like, that's something that I
Speaker 6: don't want to I am because I have to at
Speaker 6: the end of.
Speaker 5: The day protect like my energy.
Speaker 6: I know that sounds very cliche, but it's I don't
Speaker 6: want to hear that.
Speaker 8: But I'm gonna tell you something. Them folk know you
Speaker 8: really want to kind of hear some little ship. Yeah,
Speaker 8: listen if a niggagga telling you or you don't want
Speaker 8: to hear that ship.
Speaker 3: No, well listen to what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: Because we were somewhere the other day, we me and you.
Speaker 7: We were somewhere the other day and it was somebody
Speaker 7: that was around us that I sort of kind of knew,
Speaker 7: but not really, and they were trying to tell me
Speaker 7: about all of this ship.
Speaker 3: And I looked at you.
Speaker 7: Like, like, what the fuck do you I don't need
Speaker 7: to hear you.
Speaker 1: But I don't even know nothing about that type of stuff.
Speaker 1: I don't even know me.
Speaker 3: You left me for this.
Speaker 1: Because you wanted I didn't know, trying to be rude
Speaker 1: because I I don't want to hear that.
Speaker 6: Bro, you can you can be real nice about it
Speaker 6: or not be nice about it.
Speaker 7: I'll be like that, Bro, I just got it on
Speaker 7: me and then I'm stuck trying to figure out how
Speaker 7: to fuck to get away.
Speaker 3: But it's my space, so I'm like.
Speaker 7: How to fuck do I get you out of my
Speaker 7: space because I'm not leaving my space.
Speaker 3: You came over here with this boys, like, man.
Speaker 5: You just be real. I love you, I care about you.
Speaker 3: I don't even love this.
Speaker 7: I don't I don't want to hear from look, I
Speaker 7: hear you, I see you.
Speaker 5: But I don't have the capacity for this ship.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's my thing because a lot of ship I
Speaker 7: don't I don't know.
Speaker 9: I know I say ship withoutn't even talking.
Speaker 3: What the hell y'all did? Turn to eat on.
Speaker 1: Told automatic.
Speaker 3: Its hot? Now I don't know what the find the
Speaker 3: balance with this ship?
Speaker 1: Like she don't care?
Speaker 8: Okay, but screen keep going hungry with you, bro. You
Speaker 8: can definitely rebuke anything. You can even rebuke pain like
Speaker 8: real physics.
Speaker 1: Man, you.
Speaker 2: Understand she hurt, but it don't.
Speaker 1: Don't you go away fast.
Speaker 8: She's just saying about uh the Toddless how they fall
Speaker 8: out of the crowd, just thinking like you can hit
Speaker 8: your knee right, what.
Speaker 1: Okay, but you still love me, don't trust me. I'm
Speaker 1: just talking ship. But what I'm saying is what she's saying.
Speaker 1: You could fall out and then it'd be all good,
Speaker 1: and it's the same ship with pain, with heartaches, anything.
Speaker 1: But you can fix your mind can fix anything if
Speaker 1: you get them onfucker right.
Speaker 8: You can fix anything because you can damn negative even
Speaker 8: if it's right here, even if it's right here for you,
Speaker 8: even if something happened happening negative to you, you can
Speaker 8: damn there get that ship off, you bro fact.
Speaker 3: But it's a lot of people that like and it's
Speaker 3: fucked up. They don't have the.
Speaker 7: The wherewithal to be able to like rebuke that ship
Speaker 7: because you know how like you be hearing people like
Speaker 7: that die of a broken heart, like their partner dies,
Speaker 7: and then literally they just can't ever come back from
Speaker 7: that ship and then they die like not too long
Speaker 7: and ship like that, Like.
Speaker 3: I just I be like that ship. I'd be wanting to.
Speaker 7: Figure out how to help people like that because it'd
Speaker 7: be like, damn, like you gotta you gotta like live,
Speaker 7: I know, and it's easier said than done, Like when
Speaker 7: you lose somebody or when something like monumental happens in
Speaker 7: your life. But sometimes I get anxiety trying to figure out,
Speaker 7: like damn, how do these how can these people like
Speaker 7: learn to like not be like that or like.
Speaker 8: Some people as fuck. Everybody's here for their own reason, bro,
Speaker 8: That's what I'm saying. We can look at a person
Speaker 8: that's misunderstood, but he could be misunderstood his lane, like.
Speaker 1: Whatever going on in here, like God put him here.
Speaker 8: Like even the people who we think talking to themselves
Speaker 8: and shit, like I don't look at them like they
Speaker 8: all now people look at people like he got in mind.
Speaker 1: He might be in it because people think he different.
Speaker 6: Right, everybody has their own place in life. Like everybody's
Speaker 6: not meant to be the same. And I'm gonna say
Speaker 6: this and this is not like to be offensive or
Speaker 6: anything to any but even in life, like if you
Speaker 6: go back and watch like the movies from even like
Speaker 6: Game of Thrones, right, if everybody was a king and queen,
Speaker 6: like how is everything else getting done? You know what
Speaker 6: I'm saying. It's like everybody has their place in life.
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: There's levels and layers to the universe.
Speaker 7: Basically exactly, Like I feel like everybody has everybody has
Speaker 7: their place in life, like you know, and like to
Speaker 7: answer what you said earlier, I had to learn to
Speaker 7: let people be because I was I used to be
Speaker 7: one of those persons that wanted to like help everybody.
Speaker 1: To be that.
Speaker 3: Well that was me yea like up until like not
Speaker 3: too long ago.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's like you really have to let people be
Speaker 6: because at the end of the day, when they if
Speaker 6: a person really really wants something, they're gonna put in
Speaker 6: the work.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. You cannot do the.
Speaker 7: Work for other people right exactly?
Speaker 2: When is the Drinka Gates podcast coming?
Speaker 3: A podcast?
Speaker 5: Trying to go on vacation right now?
Speaker 1: What you mean?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I mean I've thought about it, but I don't know.
Speaker 6: I have a lot on my plate right now, Like
Speaker 6: I'm working on a bunch of different projects, so I
Speaker 6: don't know.
Speaker 1: Tell me.
Speaker 7: So here's a question that I wanted to ask, like
Speaker 7: speaking of like you doing all of these great amazing
Speaker 7: things and like having these projects and stuff. So during
Speaker 7: your tenure when you were managing Kevin and like doing
Speaker 7: all the stuff with his career, how did you manage
Speaker 7: to keep a balance with that as far as being
Speaker 7: his manager and also being his wife without it being
Speaker 7: a conflict of interest. And was it like any of
Speaker 7: the time during that period when you felt like, man,
Speaker 7: fuck the ship.
Speaker 3: I don't I can't do both type ship.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I actually I did the best that I could do
Speaker 6: at both positions because it's a lot. And I said
Speaker 6: this on another interview, but at times I would put
Speaker 6: like the business before like my person, your marriage. Yeah,
Speaker 6: because at the end of the day, that was like
Speaker 6: all we had, Like I dropped out of school to
Speaker 6: do this ship, you know, so it's like, no, I'm
Speaker 6: gonna put everything into this right, so you know, like
Speaker 6: I have gotten caught up in the business as opposed
Speaker 6: to you know, I'm not gonna say wifely doies because
Speaker 6: I'm a fucking good ass.
Speaker 1: Wife at the end of the day.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: But I mean, you just gotta gotta make it work,
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. And what works for one
Speaker 6: person isn't gonna work for the next couple, or you
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So else when.
Speaker 7: Let me have one more question, So with you being
Speaker 7: in the position feeling like since we gave up everything
Speaker 7: for this business.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put everything into this business.
Speaker 7: How would you explain that to the women or men
Speaker 7: or the people out there that don't understand why their
Speaker 7: partner worked so much?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 7: I mean shit, just what I said, Like I literally
Speaker 7: like dropped everything, like I was in school to be
Speaker 7: a doctor. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, like something
Speaker 7: really safe and guaranteed, and I mean shit, like we
Speaker 7: had to make it work.
Speaker 5: There was no other way to.
Speaker 6: I mean right, we can't just lay up in the
Speaker 6: bed all day, you know what I'm saying, Like, I
Speaker 6: gotta go.
Speaker 7: To work, like shit has to get done, and my
Speaker 7: work is your work. So it's like exactly like that part.
Speaker 6: And it's like it's literally my job to make sure
Speaker 6: that you're making money.
Speaker 7: So I'm gonna do that, you know right right? So
Speaker 7: I mean shit, that's why, like it had to work.
Speaker 5: Work. That's really what it boiled down to.
Speaker 3: It had to work. It had that ship.
Speaker 1: Well we got like like.
Speaker 6: Forever show and now I mean for twenty well seven
Speaker 6: seventeen years in like yeah that that that was our life.
Speaker 6: Like our kids were on the fucking tour bus with us,
Speaker 6: and I had them in the damn little kangaroo pouches
Speaker 6: and ship like on tour. So that that was our life,
Speaker 6: you know, And was that also.
Speaker 7: The prerequisite to kind of establish and teach you how
Speaker 7: to properly run everything that's associated with Drinka and the
Speaker 7: bodyline and you know, all of the products and all
Speaker 7: the stuff that you haven't.
Speaker 6: Oh hell yeah, I mean I'm I feel like I'm
Speaker 6: capable of doing anything because I damn near played every
Speaker 6: position that you could have played.
Speaker 7: The French fries and the burger, did ran a register,
Speaker 7: You fucking fixed the ice.
Speaker 5: Cream exactly that you know, agent, the booking agent.
Speaker 1: Security sometimes, yeah, the.
Speaker 6: Engineer, publicists like I didn't literally I did it all.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, I mean, hell yeah.
Speaker 7: That teaches you how to you do all that, like
Speaker 7: you can do anything, like because it's a lot.
Speaker 1: I was experiencing n W A CP.
Speaker 5: That was cool.
Speaker 3: It was fun.
Speaker 5: It was fun. It was fun. I really enjoyed that.
Speaker 6: It's like like everything I'm doing right now, I'm really
Speaker 6: I'm just having fun.
Speaker 5: Like I'm just doing stuff that I want to do
Speaker 5: and just having fun. So that's hard.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was one of your biggest future goals though,
Speaker 4: we gotta knocked down. I gotta knock this one.
Speaker 6: That biggest future goals, well, like the next big project
Speaker 6: after I open up the dispensary is like my forever home.
Speaker 5: Like that's probably like something really big.
Speaker 2: Forever home.
Speaker 5: Forever home. Yes, building, Yeah, this is gonna this is it?
Speaker 7: Like yeah, oh yeah, grandma yeah, big Mama's house. Like
Speaker 7: exactly every single thing that I could possibly need.
Speaker 5: Is going to be like in that house.
Speaker 6: But yeah, that and I'm like I said, I'm working
Speaker 6: on like a few projects to pretty much help people
Speaker 6: to be able to be better beings.
Speaker 5: Yeah, retreats and things like that.
Speaker 6: Yes, I haven't started it, but that is on my
Speaker 6: That's on my list.
Speaker 5: That's on my list.
Speaker 7: So do you have any other like bucket list type
Speaker 7: ship that you want to do, like before you clock out?
Speaker 5: I have one. It's really kind of vain, though.
Speaker 3: What is it?
Speaker 7: I have to It's real vain, y'all, But I have
Speaker 7: to get a PJ. I'm sorry, but because I live
Speaker 7: in Mississippi, I'm like an hour ten minutes from the airport,
Speaker 7: but there's like a private airport like fifteen minutes from
Speaker 7: my farmer farm. Yeah, and I'm like, oh, this will
Speaker 7: make life so much easier. But yeah, a motherfucker.
Speaker 3: I know it is.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna be smart with y'all, but I'm telling you,
Speaker 6: like driving back and forth to the airport.
Speaker 3: Maybe like some of the vegetables, you can convert the vegas.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna figure it out.
Speaker 3: I'm figure out guy.
Speaker 4: But yeah, what's some of the things that makes you
Speaker 4: be an advocate for like cannabis and cannabis con.
Speaker 6: And because it all goes with like health and wellness.
Speaker 6: Like I said, like I wanted to become a doctor
Speaker 6: because I wanted to help people, and because I was
Speaker 6: really big on like health and wellness. Cannabis just fits
Speaker 6: writ in with that. It's just another plant, you know
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. But you know, they outlawed it for
Speaker 6: their own reasons, you know, and it was financial and
Speaker 6: monetary exactly, you know. So, yeah, cannabis is just another powerful,
Speaker 6: keeling plant that I feel is very beneficial.
Speaker 2: Apart like your strains and your dispensary from.
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, it's infused with love. Like the name
Speaker 6: of it is Love's harvest. Like when you walk into
Speaker 6: my dispensary, it's going to be a whole vibe like
Speaker 6: you're going to be transported to a whole nother place.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 6: Yeah, And just like for me, my mission in the
Speaker 6: cannabis space is to really destigmatize it and make it like, okay,
Speaker 6: like why are y'all tripping on this? It's just a plant,
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, and really just like in
Speaker 6: educating people because that's a big part of it, Sativa.
Speaker 5: Yes, mm hm.
Speaker 4: Did you do you think that some people abuse it?
Speaker 4: Because anything can be abused.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but you know, to eat your own. But the
Speaker 6: thing is like you can't overdose on it, so it's like,
Speaker 6: you know what I'm.
Speaker 5: Saying about the die but.
Speaker 2: Smoke weed all day and just be on a couch.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Okay, So let me ask you this because we had
Speaker 7: a whole huge debate about this.
Speaker 3: And you know, like weed possibly.
Speaker 7: Being a gateway and do you feel like do you
Speaker 7: feel like, no, we weren't talking about we were talking
Speaker 7: about sex.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well I'm gonna ask you we talked about it whatever. Whatever.
Speaker 3: So in your in your opinion, do you feel like men.
Speaker 7: That constantly have to have sex twenty four to seven,
Speaker 7: they have to fuck ten bitch of the.
Speaker 3: Day every day, all day.
Speaker 7: Are eventually gonna get tired of pussy and graduate to
Speaker 7: something else.
Speaker 5: I don't believe in that, No, I don't believe that.
Speaker 6: But I do believe about men that have to run
Speaker 6: through women like that and there's again, like some underlining
Speaker 6: issue that causes him to be that way. But I
Speaker 6: don't think that's a gateway for them to venture.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 7: Know, because it's like, okay, like to make it a
Speaker 7: parallel and to make it makes sense, like, okay, niggas
Speaker 7: a fuck ten twenty bitches a day and they have
Speaker 7: to do this every day. It's the same. It's similar
Speaker 7: to someone the smokes weed, smokes weed, smokes weed, smokes weed,
Speaker 7: smokes we smokes we smokes weed, and eventually they build
Speaker 7: up a resistance to it and they don't get high anymore.
Speaker 7: So they have something else, so they have to try
Speaker 7: to find something else to recapture that high.
Speaker 1: Because cause we go to sleep and wake up, you
Speaker 1: get back high. You just say, how they this is
Speaker 1: all a nigga can do it.
Speaker 7: But it's but but it's been It's been a lot
Speaker 7: of people, and I can pull it up online, so
Speaker 7: I have facts and but it's been a lot of
Speaker 7: people that are the smoke rocks now that started out
Speaker 7: smoking weed.
Speaker 4: I think that all got to do with your personality.
Speaker 3: That personality, environment and and just.
Speaker 1: Environment to smoke dope.
Speaker 3: You can't say you want to smoke dope nothing but
Speaker 3: you bro I can't.
Speaker 7: Say that because a lot of people, a lot of
Speaker 7: people that a lot of.
Speaker 3: People that smoke dope were put.
Speaker 7: Onto dope by people, by other circumstances and other people.
Speaker 7: It's a lot of people that smoke dope. They got
Speaker 7: tricked in the smoking dope. So you can't say, Okay,
Speaker 7: if you smoking with a nigga and the nigga lass
Speaker 7: your blunt and you hit a blunt with a fucking
Speaker 7: nigga in it, then what the you're gonna do?
Speaker 3: And you had no idea that the nick was.
Speaker 7: In the in the blunt, A nigga laces you up
Speaker 7: and you smoke it and you had no idea.
Speaker 1: Now I just sprung out after that one time.
Speaker 3: Some people people aren't aren't able to.
Speaker 7: Aren't aren't aren't strong enough to fucking get past that.
Speaker 3: And it's not it.
Speaker 1: Wasn't their fault they got That's rare because at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, if I'm hanging.
Speaker 3: With people stuff now to this day, still.
Speaker 1: Bro, you know to come I go around some niggas,
Speaker 1: ain't I can roll my own blood.
Speaker 5: I was gonna say, or you have to sit.
Speaker 1: There and yeah.
Speaker 8: That you push it out your pocket rolled up? Bro,
Speaker 8: you been smelling the folks blood. You know you know
Speaker 8: about what a niggas gonna do.
Speaker 3: Man, I'm saying, but it's just you, just.
Speaker 8: Like hypothetically, Jade, I don't think we I don't think
Speaker 8: it's a game with me personally.
Speaker 7: Same thing with the men with that the sex situation.
Speaker 7: That's some ship that they wanted to try.
Speaker 5: You've been been.
Speaker 1: Today. What you doing the game? Yeah? Like you also
Speaker 1: a nigga trick you into doing that. I didn't know
Speaker 1: you just got.
Speaker 4: Bro.
Speaker 7: You just had so much of that that you want
Speaker 7: another sensation.
Speaker 1: What I don't think.
Speaker 10: I don't think it's nigga some ship.
Speaker 1: You don't know. You don't know. I don't know Chinese,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't want to allow her. I
Speaker 1: don't speak it, you don't speak.
Speaker 3: Les.
Speaker 7: We we have established here on big facts today that
Speaker 7: black is not bilingual.
Speaker 1: I'm just like we have established it. I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think. I just don't see it. You don't
Speaker 1: believe in gateways, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 8: I don't think it's it's a gateway to goddamn. Probably
Speaker 8: it's like say, we could be a gateway to like
Speaker 8: a like CBD gum means I trying to c mushrooms.
Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying, I.
Speaker 1: Try some shrooms or something like a like a downer.
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm goin to go from smoking weed
Speaker 1: to want to be get geek. Oh now I want
Speaker 1: to be geek. I was just mellow. We get you mellow.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I don't want to be
Speaker 1: geek now?
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, we to have you sitting over in the corner,
Speaker 6: just yeah, in your own little.
Speaker 7: World, trying to breaking in cars and on the Yeah,
Speaker 7: you will not anybody smoking with breaking in cars.
Speaker 5: It's still ship.
Speaker 10: You want, you want to love the sensation be good?
Speaker 2: Like I had to ask, its being so close to it.
Speaker 4: You're considered have you have you ever considered rapping or
Speaker 4: have you ever privately made rap music?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 7: You know I said that like that because everybody asks
Speaker 7: me this, But I will I'm like the world's greatest
Speaker 7: lip singer though, like I will you just like and
Speaker 7: I will do it just for fun though, but being
Speaker 7: like a rapper singer that professional level that's never ever
Speaker 7: ever been on my list never.
Speaker 5: Will never drop a mixtape.
Speaker 1: Like never, not even for the bad.
Speaker 2: It's somebody call that bad if.
Speaker 5: It was just just for like the fun of it.
Speaker 5: But that's not something I.
Speaker 1: Want to do.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know, yeah, no, no, no damn.
Speaker 4: So another question is do you go crazy in the kitchen?
Speaker 4: Are your skills like, no, I'm.
Speaker 2: Working on my work.
Speaker 3: See.
Speaker 6: The thing is so like I can I say, prepare food,
Speaker 6: but like the stuff that I cook is super clean
Speaker 6: and like just healthy and like nourishing.
Speaker 5: It's not goddamn.
Speaker 3: Big Mama Thanksgiving.
Speaker 5: Dinner, none of that, none of that.
Speaker 3: I rely on my mom with the arm hanging off,
Speaker 3: and I know I.
Speaker 7: Rely on my mom for that, but but I'm working
Speaker 7: on my skills though.
Speaker 6: But I can't cook though, like just you know, simple stuff,
Speaker 6: stuff stuff I want to eat.
Speaker 3: My phone.
Speaker 1: In my phone.
Speaker 8: It wasn't now saying that you knowing this should be
Speaker 8: on now when they can call them gonna vibrate whatever.
Speaker 1: You know, you put what you got it do not
Speaker 1: the story. No, you can put people on.
Speaker 3: Like emergency contact.
Speaker 5: They can get through.
Speaker 2: They get through its own side.
Speaker 3: They'll get through that. Motherfucker's off.
Speaker 1: Let us come to the farm.
Speaker 5: Hell yeah, y'all, like we need.
Speaker 3: A broadcast live from the farm.
Speaker 6: I want to do so much fun, but I'm working
Speaker 6: on that, like I'm preparing the farm for all these things.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, hell yeah, because that's like I want
Speaker 6: everybody else to kind of like experience like you know
Speaker 6: what I experienced there, Like it's really magical.
Speaker 5: Like talk hmm.
Speaker 2: What's the biggest gym you would give to people?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 1: Really?
Speaker 6: Just staying true to yourself and trust in yourself, because
Speaker 6: a lot of people don't. They look to other people
Speaker 6: for like outside validation. Trust yourself, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 6: Like that's what I do. I trust in myself, right
Speaker 6: and I trust in the process.
Speaker 4: Of life, Like you know, what's the process to getting
Speaker 4: to trust in yourself and even more so loving yourself
Speaker 4: because a lot of people don't love theirself.
Speaker 5: No, they don't. A lot of people don't.
Speaker 6: I didn't, you know what I'm saying, a lot of
Speaker 6: people say that they do, but they don't like your behavior.
Speaker 5: Exactly because we don't. We weren't taught that.
Speaker 6: Like as kids, and that's kind of that's what I'm
Speaker 6: teaching my kids now, is self mastery, how to master themselves.
Speaker 6: Like I feel like we should be teaching our kids
Speaker 6: that so that when they're adults, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 6: they'd be much better off than we are.
Speaker 5: But it's just a process, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: Like I have to force myself to take care of
Speaker 6: myself first, you know what I'm saying, And it's hard.
Speaker 6: But when you do that, then you have so much
Speaker 6: more to give, right, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 6: it's just a little process. It could start with just
Speaker 6: thirty minutes a day. Are you just taking some time
Speaker 6: off for yourself, phone off, doing whatever it is that
Speaker 6: you fucking love doing without any interruptions.
Speaker 5: Thirty minutes a day. Start there.
Speaker 1: You've seen Kevin CRD.
Speaker 6: Yes, it's all energy, it's all we're energy.
Speaker 1: She said, Yes, he's.
Speaker 5: A very special person. He's very yes, like real talk. Yeah,
Speaker 5: he's special.
Speaker 3: That's all right.
Speaker 4: We appreciate you blessing us some big facts. Let everybody
Speaker 4: know about all your ventures. What they need to go
Speaker 4: check out if they want some cannabis, if they want
Speaker 4: some wellness, Like, how are the people right now?
Speaker 6: Spill it all the things, all the things. So it's
Speaker 6: Drinka Gates. You can find me at Drinka Gates on
Speaker 6: Instagram at Drinking Wellness for all my wellness stuff.
Speaker 7: Loves Harvest. That's where all the cannabis stuff is. So yeah, come.
Speaker 2: See me all right.
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