WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Driving Me Bonkers

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date, Alexis, how many times has Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>offered to set you up on a date with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy she knows and you've said.

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<v Speaker 2>No? Thanks?

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<v Speaker 3>Good?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you not trust Brooke to have any cool,

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<v Speaker 1>young honky male friends for you?

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<v Speaker 3>I think we have different definitions a cool young honkey

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Or are you worried that you're going to show up

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<v Speaker 1>and it's going to be a playdate with her son?

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<v Speaker 5>That might be better than who you guys are almost

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<v Speaker 5>the same age couple.

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<v Speaker 1>One day, well, one of our listeners, Lily, was fighting

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<v Speaker 1>the same way Alexis was. Her friend wanted to set

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<v Speaker 1>her up on a date, and Lily kept on saying no, Lily,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>How you doing, Hey, I'm good. It's good to be here.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I take it your friend wasn't good help

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<v Speaker 5>because you're calling us instead.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually that's the thing. My friend ended up being great help.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh that's not usual.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Well, so she's been trying to set me up

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<v Speaker 3>for a long time. I've been single for probably about

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<v Speaker 3>a year now.

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<v Speaker 5>Is she one that like sets you up with anyone

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<v Speaker 5>she knows? Or is it the same person she's been

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<v Speaker 5>trying to hook you up with.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, the same person.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's weird too, because now it's like this guy

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<v Speaker 1>can't get a date either, So that's.

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<v Speaker 2>A that's smart.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, hey, you're both red flags.

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<v Speaker 4>Though very vibrant red ma green.

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<v Speaker 2>So you eventually met up with him?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Well I kept saying no, you know, because my

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<v Speaker 3>whole idea was like, look, I can find a guy

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<v Speaker 3>on my own, you know, like I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>ruin our friendship if things get weird, like the guy

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't work.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you blame her for it and that's why you No.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she just might feel bad. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I just didn't want to like make things weird between us.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, there's a different level of pressure when it's do

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<v Speaker 6>you know this guy's name?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? His name was Matt Matt, Matt Matt.

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<v Speaker 4>And did you get to like look at his socials?

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<v Speaker 5>Like, did she give you any proof of what the

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<v Speaker 5>goods were beforehand?

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<v Speaker 3>No? She was just like take it from me, Trust me.

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<v Speaker 3>This guy is a winner. Like, I think you would

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<v Speaker 3>really hit it off.

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<v Speaker 4>She must be persistent for you to finally cave.

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<v Speaker 3>She was, because I didn't cave. She tricked me.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh what do you mean.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, we had a big work event the other week

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<v Speaker 3>to like celebrate the big work win. So we all

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<v Speaker 3>went out to the club and after the club, somebody

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<v Speaker 3>was like, Hey, let's bring the party back to my place.

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<v Speaker 3>So we all ended up at a house party and

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<v Speaker 3>he was there.

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<v Speaker 4>And that was by design.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, definitely. Okay, So what did you think when you

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<v Speaker 2>saw Matt?

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<v Speaker 3>So he's easy on the eyes, he's great, and we

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<v Speaker 3>ended up just chatting casual style.

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<v Speaker 7>Good.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't do the formal chat with him, the casual.

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<v Speaker 2>Chat, you didn't take a large bow. Yeah that's nice.

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<v Speaker 5>But did he know that your friend had been trying

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<v Speaker 5>to hook you too up? Because sometimes that's really awkward,

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<v Speaker 5>but it's also could be something you bond over.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't say, oh.

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't say, you don't know if he knew.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I don't know. But at one point in our

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<v Speaker 3>conversation he just drops that he doesn't know how to drive,

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<v Speaker 3>and I.

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<v Speaker 7>Was like, wait, what is like?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it that he never tried to learn, or that

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<v Speaker 1>he tried so many times and failed that he gave.

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<v Speaker 4>Up less could get a license? I mean, can you

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<v Speaker 4>actually failed that many times?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he just never bothered to learn. It just wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>a thing.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, if you live in a big city, you literally

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<v Speaker 6>don't need you know, there's buses.

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<v Speaker 3>Have some preds that just got their license real Yeah, well.

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<v Speaker 1>That's because you're teen, or maybe he's from a wealthy

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<v Speaker 1>family where he has a chauffeur and he doesn't need

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<v Speaker 1>to learn.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that was where my thought mine first time.

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<v Speaker 4>But it doesn't matter. I mean, was that okay with you?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, so of course it's getting late and I'm in

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<v Speaker 3>a very good food so I'm like, hold up, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to teach you how to drive right now. Come

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<v Speaker 3>with me?

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<v Speaker 4>What late night?

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<v Speaker 5>After the club girl, after the club, after the house parts.

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<v Speaker 3>Basically, we went to a nearby mall parking lot and

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<v Speaker 3>I taught him how to drive.

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<v Speaker 5>Fun because I just remember learning to drive as my

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<v Speaker 5>dad in a lot of screaming and yelling at each other.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, it's pretty stressful.

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<v Speaker 2>And how many casualties were there that night?

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<v Speaker 3>Thankfully none?

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<v Speaker 2>That's good.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was a fun time. We just drove

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<v Speaker 3>in circles and laughed a lot, and at the end

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<v Speaker 3>he thanked me for teaching him, and there was a

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<v Speaker 3>little kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I think my driving instructor the same way.

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<v Speaker 2>A good call.

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<v Speaker 6>They teach you don't kiss and drive.

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<v Speaker 4>The others did in the back seat.

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<v Speaker 3>Next so I drove him back to his place, kissed

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<v Speaker 3>me good night, and that was it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god. You have heard from.

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<v Speaker 3>Him technically a little. I mean the next day we

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<v Speaker 3>texted back and forth a little bit and it was

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<v Speaker 3>just like a yeah, thanks, that was fun.

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<v Speaker 7>Ha ha ha.

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<v Speaker 4>They laughed a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that was fun haha. By okay, he was

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<v Speaker 2>more lighthearted than that.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you checked with your friend who was setting you

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<v Speaker 4>guys up? I'm sure she totally knows.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, of course I checked with her because I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, you were right. He's amazing and we

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<v Speaker 3>had a great time kissed out. But no, she hasn't

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<v Speaker 3>heard from him either. She is just as frustrated about

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<v Speaker 3>this as I am, because for once, her matchmaking skills

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<v Speaker 3>seem to have worked. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Right, maybe because you taught him to drive. He's like,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm finally gonna be able to go on a road Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>in another country, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, get dozens of dates left and right. Well, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna find out. We're gonna call him in just a

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<v Speaker 1>minute here, and Brooke is going to back seat drive

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation and tell me how bad of a job

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 4>Somebody needs to be in control.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>How many rom coms have that scene where one character

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<v Speaker 1>teaches the other how to drive a stick shift through

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<v Speaker 1>a corn field and then they veer off almost hit

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<v Speaker 1>a cow and they laugh about it and make out

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<v Speaker 1>for hours in the back seat.

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<v Speaker 6>Dang, I haven't seen this.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't see that either.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, who's in that one country?

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<v Speaker 2>I am gossling.

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<v Speaker 1>White girl here.

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<v Speaker 7>Girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that scene played out in real life the other

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<v Speaker 1>day for our listener, Lily.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think there's kind I mean, no pals.

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<v Speaker 1>It was, and it was just a regular automatic car

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<v Speaker 1>with a millennial who hadn't learned for the first thirty

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<v Speaker 1>years of his life out of job, but she taught

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<v Speaker 1>him how and it turned out to be a great

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<v Speaker 1>night with laughter and kissing. But now the romance is

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<v Speaker 1>stuck in neutral car. We're gonna call this guy and

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<v Speaker 1>try and kick it back into drive sport mode.

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<v Speaker 3>If yeah, you ready to do this, Lily, I'm so ready. Yes.

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<v Speaker 5>Think we're like four cylinder show it's fine, insurance doesn't cover.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm excited for you.

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<v Speaker 5>It's weird that your friend doesn't know either. That was

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<v Speaker 5>so adamant that you two go out. I think that

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<v Speaker 5>that's the strangest part is he's not just calling not

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<v Speaker 5>you back, but not talking to her either.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, he's just like disappear or something. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let's get some answers. I'm gonna call him right now.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll see what he has to say. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 7>Hello, Hey, is this Matt Speakin? Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>My name is jeff You may have heard this voice

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<v Speaker 1>before on a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>He doesn't drive.

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<v Speaker 4>You may not listen, that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have podcasts?

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<v Speaker 7>Sorry, I'm not familiar with it.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Uh, well, you're on a segment right now

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<v Speaker 1>called a Second Date Update, and we're trying to help

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners get back in touch with you

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<v Speaker 1>after you two hung out the other night.

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<v Speaker 2>Her name's Lily.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god? Oh whoa really?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that a good huh?

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<v Speaker 7>Or about?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? We can't tell?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh? You know, I I don't really want to talk

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<v Speaker 7>about this. Oh, If that's okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, I understand your hesitation, but this is how

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<v Speaker 1>the segment works. Like Lily knows that she may be

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<v Speaker 1>hearing something that might be a little awkward, a little uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's just super confused after having a really nice

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<v Speaker 1>time with you the other night.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's just it's just a very difficult situation really

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<v Speaker 7>on your side?

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<v Speaker 5>Is it something personal for you then? Because it sounds

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<v Speaker 5>pretty easy on.

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<v Speaker 4>Her side, she liked you, she'd like to go out again.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's very much on my side.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right. Do you plan to reach out to

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<v Speaker 2>Lily at any point?

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<v Speaker 7>Maybe I'm just trying to figure out a way to

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<v Speaker 7>do it.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you mean, just with a call or text?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we can help you out if you're going through

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<v Speaker 1>something and you need to like work things through.

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<v Speaker 6>Wait a minute, so, are you like involved with somebody,

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<v Speaker 6>because you can just be honest with us about that, bro.

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<v Speaker 7>No, No, I'm not involved with anybody. It's more complicated

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<v Speaker 7>than that.

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<v Speaker 4>You're married, you're involved.

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<v Speaker 2>With many.

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<v Speaker 7>No, not that either.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you want us to just play the guessing game

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<v Speaker 4>for Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't think there's any way you guys would guess

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<v Speaker 7>this one.

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<v Speaker 2>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Really if you could give us just a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of information, because Lily could really use a little closure

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<v Speaker 1>on this. She really fell for you the night that

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<v Speaker 1>she hung out, and she's been completely out of whack

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<v Speaker 1>for the last week trying to figure out what's going on.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I liked her too, So we have a mutual

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<v Speaker 7>friend who's been like trying to set us up for

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<v Speaker 7>like two or three months. Now.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you did know about that, okay?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, yeah, I was in on it. And we

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<v Speaker 7>met at a party and we had this amazing experience

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<v Speaker 7>and driving around the parking lot of some mall and

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<v Speaker 7>she was really cool. So you know, I lived near

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<v Speaker 7>our friends, so I just like walked over her house

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<v Speaker 7>the next morning excited to tell her the news, and

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<v Speaker 7>I'm like, hey, Lily and I we finally went out

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<v Speaker 7>on that date.

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<v Speaker 4>So you talked to her friend?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, and she was I don't know how to scrape.

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<v Speaker 7>She just like had this look of shock on her face.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought she was the one that set it all up.

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<v Speaker 4>So you guys would meet at.

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<v Speaker 7>The party, Well that's what I thought. So then she

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<v Speaker 7>just like blurked out that she was just upset because

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<v Speaker 7>she and like her trying to like set me up

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<v Speaker 7>with Lily has decided that she's now like fallen for me.

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<v Speaker 7>What hold on?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Oh, Lily's friend now admits that she has feelings

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<v Speaker 1>for you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, and I thought she was joking, so, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>did you laugh? I sure did, wow, But she was like,

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<v Speaker 7>it's not a joke. Oh no, she wants to be

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<v Speaker 7>with me, and I like her as friend. We've known

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<v Speaker 7>each other for a long time, but I never thought

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<v Speaker 7>of her that way, especially with her trying to get

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<v Speaker 7>me to date somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>So it sounds like there might be there might actually

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<v Speaker 1>be feelings there for Lily's friend too, from the way

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking about it.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know. I had never thought about it.

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<v Speaker 6>I understand because they do say a lot of times

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<v Speaker 6>when your friends first, things tend to be better. So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>it's you.

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<v Speaker 2>Why is she saying it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Like telling somebody to order fries when it's you that

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<v Speaker 5>really wants the fries.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she was hoping that Lily would reject him so

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<v Speaker 1>that she would be like, see, I guess there's nobody

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<v Speaker 1>left for you.

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<v Speaker 5>But that's a weird way to go about it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>that's gonna be a lot of information.

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<v Speaker 7>Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a horrible position for you to be in,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's kind of a really bad situation for Lily.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you guys got to tell him now.

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<v Speaker 1>I just got to tell you, Matt, this is super awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>But Lily's been on the other line listening and heard

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing. What yeah, Hey, that's Lily.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey Matt, Hey, Hey Lily. Oh, I'm really sorry. I

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<v Speaker 7>still know you were on the like on this hall.

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<v Speaker 7>This's not how I wanted you to find out.

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<v Speaker 3>I am so overwhelmed. I just I don't know what

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<v Speaker 3>this means. Like I thought my friend had my best

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<v Speaker 3>dress at heart and had my back, and now I

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<v Speaker 3>just feel like.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll say, it doesn't sound like your friend did this

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<v Speaker 5>maliciously or tried to hurt you in any way.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like maybe your friend lied to you on purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>She definitely lied about saying that she didn't hear from

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<v Speaker 1>that after the date.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, what is she gonna say? I heard from him.

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<v Speaker 4>I confess my love to him. That would be the truth.

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<v Speaker 7>I thought.

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<v Speaker 4>She doesn't know what to say either.

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<v Speaker 6>Probably, Lily, she was trying to tell you how great

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<v Speaker 6>of a guy she he is, and he's so great

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<v Speaker 6>of a guy.

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<v Speaker 2>She fell for him too.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 5>She's like trying to convince you over and over again,

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<v Speaker 5>and then it finally dawns on her, like, wait a minute.

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<v Speaker 3>For him, it's really making me rethink our entire friendship

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<v Speaker 3>and like what else she might be keeping from me that, Oh, Mad.

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<v Speaker 4>This is so messy for you to be in the middle.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, man, well I don't want to and anyone's friendship

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<v Speaker 7>like mine with our friend or you guys, So the

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<v Speaker 7>three of us could get together, get in a room, talk.

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<v Speaker 4>It out, every guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I like how you think, Matt, this is a good

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<v Speaker 1>problem solving.

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<v Speaker 6>I know, let's all have some drinks again.

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<v Speaker 2>But what's wrong? What's wrong with that?

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<v Speaker 4>Brook? It's not what the women want.

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<v Speaker 1>If you were twenty years younger and a few drinks deep,

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<v Speaker 1>you would be all over this. You'd say, bring seven

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<v Speaker 1>more girls in here and let's have a really good time.

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<v Speaker 4>Could Matt, have you got out with the other girl already?

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<v Speaker 4>The friend?

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<v Speaker 7>No? Not at all?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay jokes aside.

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<v Speaker 1>In all honesty, Matt sounds pretty sincere, like he just

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<v Speaker 1>wants them to all be together so they could talk

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<v Speaker 1>about what's really going on. The secrecy and the keeping

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<v Speaker 1>things from each other.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not working.

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<v Speaker 3>So Matt, I just I don't know what the right

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<v Speaker 3>course of action here is because I liked you, and

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<v Speaker 3>I man.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know, really, I don't have an answer for you.

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<v Speaker 7>I think I think you got to talk to our

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<v Speaker 7>friend first.

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<v Speaker 4>So you can't decide between them.

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<v Speaker 7>Still, No, I don't think it's a matter of deciding.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like, yeah, that'd be a pretty messy road

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<v Speaker 1>for Matt to take.

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean, maybe it's not a bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Idea for all three of you guys to talk it

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<v Speaker 1>out together and we could pay to have you meet

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<v Speaker 1>up at a restaurant or something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Whoa, that's I gotta I gotta put the gotta put

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<v Speaker 3>a big old yellow flag out stare on that one.

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<v Speaker 2>Restaurants. Should we go somewhere else?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I just I've got so much to work out.

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<v Speaker 3>I had no idea this is going to go this direction.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, I'm sorry this is happening. I know this

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<v Speaker 2>is a lot. Keep us posted.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I hope more than anything your friendship, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>gets through this.

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<v Speaker 4>And then Matt, I mean, you're in a win win situation.

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<v Speaker 6>So yeah, let us know who you pick.

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<v Speaker 7>Matt. I don't know, but when when I do, I think, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 7>I mean if I if I end up with either

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<v Speaker 7>of them, it's you know, there's gonna be the baggage

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<v Speaker 7>of the last week.

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<v Speaker 6>It's gonna be tough. Just like when you learn parallel

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<v Speaker 6>parking from one of them. It's like the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna have one of them behind you being like, no.

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<v Speaker 3>You.

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<v Speaker 2>Do the other thing, crank the wheel to the right.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, a lot of adults don't know how to drive, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff in the morning, man, I kind of wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>ask Lily if she would like to do an awkward

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday phone call to her friend to figure.

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<v Speaker 2>Out what was going on.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure. Well, it seemed like Lily was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>reeling in the moment, so maybe we'll ask her off

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<v Speaker 1>the air.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's not.

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<v Speaker 5>Like we can just oh my god, right, she is

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<v Speaker 5>going to need help with that convo though.

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<v Speaker 6>Ye.

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<v Speaker 4>Freend obviously is it coming to her kids? She knows

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<v Speaker 4>it's so awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I've heard that stuff happen sometimes where you're

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<v Speaker 1>use with a person and you try and set them

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<v Speaker 1>up romantically and suddenly you catch feelings and end up

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<v Speaker 1>dating them.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh man, you've heard that before.

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like it's the opposite for two girls are fighting, like,

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<v Speaker 6>come on, you date them?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no data.

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<v Speaker 1>I really hope that we do get an update though

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<v Speaker 1>from this situation. Invested in that to find out who

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<v Speaker 1>he picks, or if he picks no one and goes

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<v Speaker 1>in a completely different direction.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, maybe after this he doesn't have any choices anymore, or.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we broke him from dating forever. So if you'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to be broken from dating forever.

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<v Speaker 2>Email the show. We can help make that happen.

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