1 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your girl Cheeky's and you've reached the 2 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you 3 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: advice on anything and everything you need help with. Maybe 4 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with 5 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: your family, or maybe you need help figuring out how 6 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: to balance your checkbook or how to start a business. 7 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: What arever the cases I want to hear from you. 8 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: Remember these are my thoughts and opinions. And if you're 9 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 1: suffering from an issue or hardship, you should seek help 10 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: from a qualified professional. All right, now, go ahead and 11 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: leave your question at the sound of the beat. 12 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 2: My Cheekyes, I absolutely love your podcast as well as Jennica's. Recently, 13 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 2: I listened to your podcasts with you, your sister, Jackie, 14 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 2: and Mike and how they talk about therapy for their 15 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 2: problems that they had. So me and my boyfriend, we've 16 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 2: been together for two years. We had been constantly finding 17 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 2: these past three months, and we finally came to an 18 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,759 Speaker 2: agreement that we either worked things out or you know, 19 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 2: we need to figure out what's going to happen with 20 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 2: our relationship. We had both came to an agreement that 21 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 2: we're going to try and see how things go. Lately, 22 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 2: we've been doing very great. I came up with this concept. 23 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 2: I guess you could say that every day we have 24 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 2: a Question of the day and we just ask questions 25 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 2: that could better our relationship. So I just want to 26 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 2: know what else we could possibly do to like improve 27 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 2: our relationship, and I guess just get past this rough 28 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 2: patch that we're having. Thank you so much. 29 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 3: I really appreciate you. 30 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 2: I love y'all, And hopefully you're to answer my question. 31 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: Elizabeth, look at this, you're the first one, and yes, 32 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna answer your question because I think it's already 33 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:12,079 Speaker 1: a beautiful thing that you are going as far as 34 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 1: asking a question on't your cheeky's because you are actively 35 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:19,799 Speaker 1: wanting and intentionally wanting to do your part in this relationship. 36 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: So I'm very proud of you. Okay, round of applause 37 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 1: to you, homegirl. And I love that you guys are 38 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: doing a question of the day. I think it's important 39 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 1: also to have date nights, Okay, at least once a month. 40 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: I know it can get expensive, but at least once 41 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: a month where you guys are just enjoying each other's presence. Okay, don't. 42 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 1: That's a thing that happens in relationships. Something I learned 43 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: as well my past relationships is that we get comfortable. 44 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: There's nothing worse than anyone. It can be a friendship, 45 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: it can be at your job. Anyone that gets comfortable, 46 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: it just starts ruining everything, especially in a relationship. So 47 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: date nights, step out of your comfort zone. Do things 48 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: that maybe I don't know, I don't know. Do you 49 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: dress up him? Do you I don't put on a wig, 50 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: like just to spice things up. Anything that's maybe doesn't 51 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: make you comfortable, but you know he likes. So ask him. 52 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: Is there something in our intimacy that I can do 53 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: differently that you would want me to try? Of course 54 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 1: you both have to be open to it, but have 55 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: those conversations and just be intentional. I think you guys 56 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: are doing the right thing. I think it's a great 57 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 1: sign that he is already willing to do all of 58 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: these things. That shows me that he wants to be 59 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: in this relationship with you and he wants it to work. 60 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 1: So again, therapy, couples therapy. You guys know, I'm a 61 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 1: huge advocate. I don't know. Spiritually, that always helps. Having 62 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: God in the middle of your relationship, so meditate, pray together, 63 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: go to church together, stuff like that. You know, but 64 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: you guys are on the right track, so be proud. 65 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: Thank you for your question, Elizabeth, and thank you for 66 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: listening to the pod. Okay, guys, our next question comes 67 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: from Diana. 68 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 3: Hi Cheekyes, I'm a huge fan of yours and your mom's. 69 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 3: My mom was also a very huge fan of your mom, 70 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 3: and she read both of your books. I gifted them 71 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 3: both to her. My mom, like your mom, was a 72 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 3: single mom and left Mexico to bring my brother and 73 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 3: I here to give us a better life. And despite 74 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 3: our disagreements like you had with your mom and our 75 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 3: difficult relationship, at times, she was my world. I lost 76 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 3: her on my eighth and on that same day, I 77 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 3: found out that I was pregnant with my first child 78 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 3: with my now partner. I have two beautiful daughters from 79 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 3: my previous marriage, but this was our first child with 80 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 3: my current partner. Four days later, I lost my pregnancy 81 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 3: and then I had two ten funeral services and masks 82 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 3: for my mom. I'm having a really hard time dealing 83 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 3: with all of it and making sure that my kids 84 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 3: are also taking care of because they lost their grandma, 85 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 3: and she supported me through everything. She watched them. She 86 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 3: was a very big part of her life. I don't 87 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 3: know how I'm gonna go on without her guidance, without 88 00:04:56,880 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 3: her support, without her presence, and without her love. And 89 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,479 Speaker 3: I feel like I am trying, but I'm very scared. I 90 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 3: want to ask you how you did it, because I 91 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 3: know you had to be there for your siblings, sisters, 92 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 3: my brother and I. She was our only parent and 93 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 3: I miss her with all my heart. 94 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: My goodness, Diana, I am so sorry for your loss, 95 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: for your baby, for your mom. That's a lot. I'm 96 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 1: sending you a big hug, like honestly, with healing energy. 97 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: How did I do it? Sometimes? I don't even know 98 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: how I did it? Twenty thirteen was I always say 99 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: it was one of the worst years of my life. 100 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 1: I was learning to relive without my mom and then 101 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: her and I hadn't talked. It was just so hard. 102 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: I think the only thing that got me through was 103 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 1: was my faith, honestly, like not letting go of God's 104 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 1: hand and praying every single day when I was sad, 105 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:56,479 Speaker 1: I would just embrace my feelings like and you have 106 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: to embrace the pain. You have to know that, yes, 107 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 1: I feel this and it's going to be difficult, but 108 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:05,160 Speaker 1: you will. You will get through it. This too shall pass. 109 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 1: You have to believe it. Another thing that made me 110 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: feel better as well was I had my siblings. You 111 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 1: have your children. You have to be an example to 112 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: them and show them what God forbid if something were 113 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 1: to happen to you, how you want them to be, 114 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 1: you know. And that's what kept me going. My siblings 115 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 1: were my motor Johnny and Jenica. They were little and 116 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 1: they kept me going. And I'm like, I want to 117 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: be an example. I want to be strong. I need 118 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 1: to heal through this so that they're okay, you know. 119 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 1: And you're gonna cry, and it's gonna be a rollercoaster 120 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 1: of emotions. The first year is the hardest, but little 121 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: by little it will get better. So do anything and 122 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:46,359 Speaker 1: everything that makes your heart feel good. And know that 123 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 1: your mom wants you to be happy, and she wants 124 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: you to be okay for your kids. Just know that. 125 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: And she's happier wherever she is. She is so happy 126 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: and doesn't have to deal with this world. So that 127 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: should give you some peace for sure. And that's what 128 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: has helped me to know my mom is having a 129 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 1: great old time in heaven, and when God thinks it's 130 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: time for me to see her, it's gonna happen. I 131 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 1: know she's here in spirit, so just know she's with you. 132 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: She hasn't left you, and you're you're gonna be able 133 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: to feel it in certain situations. But I know it's 134 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: a lot easier s than done. So I am sending 135 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: you a big hug and I'm going to be praying 136 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: for you and your family because I hear the pain 137 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: in your voice and I could just I know you're 138 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: feeling and what you're going through. But you got this. 139 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: We got this, Okay the Diana Okay. So our next 140 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 1: question comes from Crystal. 141 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 4: Hijikis love your podcast and I'm a big kind of 142 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 4: you and your mom. I just had a question. I 143 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 4: have a guy that I've been talking to for about 144 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 4: two months, and sometimes it's been a little bit hard. 145 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 4: We have a seven year age gap. He has a kid. 146 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 4: I have no kids, but I don't know if I'm 147 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 4: getting myself into something that is a little messy. I've 148 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 4: listened to your advice and I asked him the questions 149 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 4: of like how he feels for me and this, and 150 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 4: that he just tells me that, you know, I check 151 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 4: off all his boxes like he enjoys my company. But 152 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 4: he feels like it would take about six months to 153 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 4: know if he wants a serious relationship or not. And 154 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 4: he's brought me around his family. He's brought me around 155 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 4: his son, and from what I was told by his 156 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 4: other family members that he doesn't typically do that. But 157 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 4: then I have seen sometimes some shady shit where it 158 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 4: looks like it could be that he's talking to their girls. 159 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 4: I've asked him if he talks to their girls. He 160 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 4: told me no, And I try not to overthink, and 161 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 4: I try to just let it be because it's only 162 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 4: been two months. But do you think I'm getting myself 163 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 4: into something messy or should I just play it out 164 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,679 Speaker 4: and just see what happens and hope that maybe with 165 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 4: more time he will see and feel his feelings more. 166 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 4: He's also not very vocal about his feelings, so he's 167 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 4: more from in his words. He's not a kid, and 168 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 4: he's more of an action's over words. But gulpiness, Okay. 169 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 1: I'm not mad at that. CHRISTI I'm not mad at 170 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 1: him saying that he's more of like actions. I like 171 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 1: that because a lot of guys are words words, words, words, 172 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 1: and other actions don't meet their words. So I think 173 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: you need to just slow your role. It's only been 174 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: two months. If he's straight up telling you I need 175 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 1: six months to know if I want this to be serious, 176 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 1: then you should also like see if you want to 177 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: be with him like in these six months. You know, 178 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 1: like right now, don't worry if he's talking to other 179 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: girls or not. Like it's good. I'm not saying don't worry, 180 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 1: but of course you don't want him to talk to 181 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 1: other girls. I think you should be very like upfront 182 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 1: and say I want to be exclusive. Now if you 183 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 1: find him talking to other girls, and that's obviously a 184 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: red flag and you just you know, shake that or 185 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 1: blow that popsicle stand, you know what I mean. But 186 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: I think you should just take it slow. I think 187 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 1: if he's introduced you to his family, that's an action, 188 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 1: And if his family tells you that he doesn't do that, 189 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: then I think you should take that as a Okay, 190 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 1: there we go. He's showing me with his actions. Don't 191 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: ignore that gut feeling. But I think just take it 192 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: day by day, enjoy if you enjoy his company, enjoy 193 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 1: it like, have some fun, and give yourself six months 194 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: to see if you even want to be with this person. 195 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: And you should also say I want this and I 196 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:25,679 Speaker 1: want that. By the six month, I want to know. Okay, 197 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: is this official and absolutely exclusive and we are together? 198 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 1: And am I the girl or you even the guy? 199 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 1: You feel me? Just chill right now? Chill. I don't 200 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 1: see any red flags right now. I think he's being 201 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 1: very straight up and if his actions are showing that, 202 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:43,679 Speaker 1: then I think you have nothing to worry about. Unless 203 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 1: his actions are showing something negative, then you know what 204 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: you gotta do. Okay. I hope that helped you. Don't 205 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: say that, but I think you're good right now, Crystal. 206 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 1: I think you're good, and just give it some time. 207 00:10:54,920 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: Let me know what happens. Okay, all right, guys. Our 208 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: last and final question comes from for this episode anyways, 209 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: from Maria. 210 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 5: Hi Cheeky's I hope you're having an amazing day. My 211 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 5: question is going to be quick and to the point. 212 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 5: I'm just wondering, do you ever watch I Love Jenny 213 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 5: because I'm watching it right now, and the episode with 214 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 5: you and your mom when you went to Sundance. It 215 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 5: just showcases your guys love in such a beautiful way, 216 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 5: Like you know, you guys are just so close and affectionate, 217 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 5: and you could just see on your face the love 218 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 5: you have for your mother. So you know, if you 219 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 5: don't watch it at all, I think you should at 220 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 5: least watch that episode. I think it will really warm 221 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 5: your heart if you're ever missing her. But yeah, that's 222 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 5: my question. I hope you have a good day. 223 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 1: Goodbye all Maria. You're so cute. I don't know if 224 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:53,559 Speaker 1: I'm about to get my period, you guys, but I 225 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: was like, I want to cry. Anyways, thank you so much. 226 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 1: It's crazy that you bring up that episode of I 227 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: Love Jenny because I was looking at a picture it 228 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 1: came across on my feed of that time at Sundance 229 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:08,679 Speaker 1: when we went to Utah and I was her assistant 230 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: and I was kind of like on my phone. I 231 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 1: was behind her, I was just handling business, she was 232 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 1: just being a superstar, and it was one of my 233 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 1: favorite places to be was by her side. And definitely, 234 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 1: my mom was my whole world, you guys for a 235 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 1: long time, and even though things ended the way they did, 236 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 1: I wouldn't change anything. Because we had beautiful moments and 237 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 1: she definitely taught me a lot and I was able 238 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: to experience a lot by her side. But I do 239 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: miss her, and you're right, I should probably watch I 240 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 1: Love Jenny a little bit more because it's a blessing 241 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: to be able to see her and hear her voice 242 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 1: in that way, you know. So thank you, Maria. That's 243 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:53,960 Speaker 1: a great reminder. But yes, there was a lot of 244 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 1: beautiful love between my mom and I and I'm so 245 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 1: glad you're able to see it because people want to 246 00:12:57,800 --> 00:12:59,319 Speaker 1: come in and try to talk shit and like make 247 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: it look like it was but it wasn't. We had 248 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: issues like any mother and daughter did, but the love 249 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:07,199 Speaker 1: was very special and it still is. We're still a 250 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: power tea. So thank you, Maria, to all of you, actually, Elizabeth, Diana, Crystal, Maria, 251 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 1: thank you guys for your questions, Thank you guys for 252 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:17,960 Speaker 1: listening and watching. Thank you from the bottom of my 253 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 1: heart for being here and supporting my podcast. And hopefully 254 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 1: you learn something as you listen and as you watch 255 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:28,440 Speaker 1: los kiro Mucho, And if you have a question, please 256 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:30,839 Speaker 1: leave it at speakpipe dot com. 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