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Speaker 1: Okay, Kanye June eighth, Ludacris September and so Kanye Kanye older.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 3: Martin Luther King Junior and Anne Frank and Frank.

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Speaker 1: I had to throw a little razzledazzle in there, Martin

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Speaker 1: Luther King and Anne Frank.

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Speaker 2: She was born in like sixteen hundred.

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Speaker 4: No the fuck she was with men?

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Speaker 5: No, she wasn't.

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Speaker 4: She was. She was a diary of and.

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Speaker 3: She was alive around the same time, the same time

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Speaker 3: as MLK, just different parts of the.

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Speaker 2: World, in different centuries.

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Speaker 3: No, oh you know, No, it was during It was

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Speaker 3: around the same time, just different countries.

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Speaker 2: I got her confused with Helen Keller. Bitch. When was

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Speaker 2: she born in the sixteen hundreds?

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Speaker 5: For real?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but it was long tom time.

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Speaker 4: I feel like you just making some shit up, Todd.

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Speaker 4: Look and see when Helen Keller was alive.

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Speaker 3: This is she was deaf and blinde Oh lord.

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Speaker 4: Why I started feeling for because you had to feel it.

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Speaker 2: You have to get a character.

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Speaker 4: Damn. She lived a long life.

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Speaker 3: Helen Helen Keller was born in June twenty seventh, eighteen eighty.

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Speaker 4: Wow. She lived all the way to June first nineteen

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Speaker 4: sixty eight.

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Speaker 1: Damn yeah, no, why because she couldn't see or hear

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Speaker 1: these niggas.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, straight up.

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Speaker 6: Stress free.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, it's your girl Lexp and it's sure

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Speaker 1: girls riding a cold and you are tuned in to

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Speaker 1: another episode of Poor Minds where.

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Speaker 4: Drunk Mind speaks soberthday.

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Speaker 1: We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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Speaker 1: guests today. I know the girls are at home on

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Speaker 1: the car, yall happy that it's just us too today.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they be excited about it.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna rack up some solos for y'all because we

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Speaker 1: do have a lot of guests episodes coming. But we've

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Speaker 1: had a good streak, Like we've had some really really

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Speaker 1: good guesses here. I feel like we've started with a bang,

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Speaker 1: you know, entering what the second quarter, now we've started

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Speaker 1: with a bang.

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Speaker 4: We have you know, it's some great people in.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hopefully by the time this drops, that LA Day

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Speaker 1: would have dropped because the girls are causing the riot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, the tickets are coming, y'all, Like we promise,

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Speaker 3: we definitely got an LA show coming up soon.

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Speaker 5: But again, I.

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Speaker 4: Think I've said this before on the show The process

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Speaker 4: is just not as simple as you would think.

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Speaker 3: We can't just put the tickets on seale, you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, it's a whole process. Were working

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Speaker 3: with Live Nation as our touring partner, and yeah, but.

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Speaker 4: We gonna get them to y'all am.

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Speaker 2: And then.

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Speaker 1: I was dripping here today and I realized something. You

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Speaker 1: know when you see a car and people be like, uh,

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Speaker 1: let me get away from them. They don't know how

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Speaker 1: to drive, or because they car raggedy. I'm that car

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Speaker 2: Ooh uh uh, that's me. I'm the person they avoid.

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Speaker 2: I see. He looked at me from the side. He

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Speaker 2: want to look all the way over. He said, huh

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Speaker 2: he got over us, says, I ain't gonna hurt you.

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Speaker 2: Me and my pup pa. We gonna make it through.

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Speaker 1: Why do we do that as people? You car don't

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Speaker 1: even do nothing. We just see a little bag over

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Speaker 3: But that's how I was gonna say it be cars

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Speaker 3: like that for Shaw because it's like, what the fuck

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Speaker 3: you got going on? Oh yeah about line girl exactly? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: if you got a bag over your window, get the.

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Speaker 4: Fuck away, fags, because it really don't even like seriously,

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Speaker 4: I feel like over time, if it's been like a

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Speaker 3: Like twenty five dollars a week, yeah, and got it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 4: But because they have portable people that will come to you.

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Speaker 3: I have had my window broken, Yeah, I have my

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Speaker 4: They're gonna bring it to your dost.

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Speaker 2: I think sometimes with me, like cause ma, I messed

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Speaker 2: up my bumper? What did I hit? I forgot what

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Speaker 5: No, you know what?

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Speaker 2: Somebody had hit me? I forgot.

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Speaker 1: We was on the way to New York and I

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna get to it.

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Speaker 1: People see that bumper and they get to scooting.

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Speaker 2: Is it really that bad?

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Speaker 4: I've never paid attention.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I can just feel it you know how

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Speaker 2: Know it's there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: No nobody ever shot it.

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Speaker 4: I was like trying to emphathize.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm saying, or Okay, maybe if you started your

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Speaker 3: When it comes to cars though, I don't really think

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Speaker 4: Well, not about the kind of car, just look at it.

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Speaker 3: A lot of people got de ind in their cars

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Speaker 4: Like men really take pride.

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Speaker 4: You can see your reflection.

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Speaker 3: Like men do not play about their cars, And I

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Speaker 4: It's how I get from point A to point B.

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Speaker 3: Even I could say with me, like I probably don't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I definitely crate when it rained, And yeah, I

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Speaker 1: They got to drive through car wash. I feel like

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Speaker 3: Should be though, because I don't like drive. When I

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Speaker 3: those drive through car washes will scratch your cars.

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Speaker 2: No, it's already scratched up.

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Speaker 3: Well for the people who's nice, well are not scratched up.

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Speaker 3: I think they don't be wanting it to get scratched up.

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Speaker 1: It is bad for you. But if you gotta I

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Speaker 4: I don't know though, because like it just depends on

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Speaker 3: Because some people be having cars that's older than twenty

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Speaker 1: Talking about the old schools now. We ain't talking about

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Speaker 4: In our ride type kid. We talk about all just

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Speaker 2: We need to get that up. What is it? The pollen?

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Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: That pollen turned my bitch green.

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Speaker 2: I had to just drive through real quick. Now.

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Speaker 1: See, I don't like to bring it nowhere because I'll

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's one thing I will say I like

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Speaker 4: Is that when your car get dirty, you can't tell

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Speaker 2: See my shit be dusty.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's way more noticeable in a dark car, you.

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Speaker 1: Know how Like when the O those cartoons they run

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Speaker 1: off and they leave the dust behind them.

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Speaker 2: That's exactly what my car be doing. Pound of dust

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Speaker 2: when I take off.

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Speaker 4: That's all right, I'm weak.

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Speaker 2: That's alright though. And you got a little teen. How

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Speaker 2: was your trip to Mexico?

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Speaker 5: It was fun.

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Speaker 3: I had a good time. Yeah, it was very relaxing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it was very nice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, bumba cloud, Yeah it was nice.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I rarely ever go on vacations, and

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Speaker 3: I just like relaxed, chill and don't do nothing. Like

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Speaker 3: I went to the SPA, got a massage, I laid

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Speaker 4: By the pool.

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Speaker 3: I was eating good drinking And that's pretty much what

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Speaker 3: eat at this nice restaurant called Ilios and Cabo, But

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Speaker 3: for the most part, I was really just relaxing, enjoying

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Speaker 4: Not having nothing to do, nothing to do.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it was hot as fuck, though, Lord have mercy,

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Speaker 3: it wasn't a cloud in the sky.

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Speaker 2: That's what I love about Mexico though, like the when

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Speaker 2: the weather.

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Speaker 3: Is good, it's fire. Yeah it was hot. Yes, it

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Speaker 4: Pool and they was burnt up. But it was tomato

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Speaker 1: I was like, Lord when Lena had me cracking up,

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Speaker 1: cause she was just like please, she was begging for

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Speaker 1: her life with all them shots y'alls taking.

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Speaker 4: We didn't really take that any shot.

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Speaker 3: She was being dramatic. We really didn't like we was drinking. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I'm gonna make time to gossip. People got to

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Speaker 4: People everybody gonna still do what they want to do.

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Speaker 3: Enough about people to talk about them. I think they'd

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Speaker 2: That's the truth. That's the truth. So what are your hobbies?

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Speaker 4: I love to read. I feel like I've talked about that.

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Speaker 1: Like I said, I think like as an adult, one

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Speaker 1: So I wanna encourage people to find your hobby as

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Speaker 2: Like I said me, I love a good cartoon movie.

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Speaker 1: So I think sometimes we need an escape as an adult.

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Speaker 3: When I'm ready to just like let my hair down,

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Speaker 3: so that for me, like is a nice release but

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Speaker 1: Everything is to leave this place, bro. I feel like

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Speaker 1: for hours.

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00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:48,479
Speaker 2: Play that game for hours.

447
00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:50,920
Speaker 3: So yeah, but yeah, it's a lot of things though

448
00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:52,680
Speaker 3: that I think about, Like when I was a kid,

449
00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:54,720
Speaker 3: I'd be like, damn, because I feel like I used

450
00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:57,040
Speaker 3: to have so many hobbies when I was a kid,

451
00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,919
Speaker 3: and I will try everything, and I just wonder sometime

452
00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:02,560
Speaker 3: if I would have stuck with things, how much better.

453
00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:04,240
Speaker 3: I would be at it by now, because like I

454
00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:06,639
Speaker 3: actually used to be really really good at drawing. I

455
00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:08,240
Speaker 3: used to play the flute. I used to be really

456
00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:10,200
Speaker 3: good at playing the flood. I was like sticking chair.

457
00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:12,800
Speaker 3: I feel like, damn. If I would have stuck with that,

458
00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:16,360
Speaker 3: who knows where I could have took it. I used

459
00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:19,000
Speaker 3: to praise this, not that I probably would still be

460
00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:20,440
Speaker 3: doing that personal.

461
00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:21,240
Speaker 4: I continue doing.

462
00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:25,960
Speaker 2: Your flute.

463
00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:30,760
Speaker 3: I didn't listen, like I guess at my church it

464
00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 3: was Born South something, but like the kids whatever, we

465
00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:37,639
Speaker 3: had our teacher or whatever, but it wasn't like a

466
00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:40,399
Speaker 3: group we used to. I used to be inquired and

467
00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:42,520
Speaker 3: I actually can kind of hold of the note. But

468
00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,520
Speaker 3: I be really playing a lot on poor minds. But

469
00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:46,480
Speaker 3: in real life, like I really can kind of hold

470
00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:47,480
Speaker 3: a note and sing.

471
00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:47,679
Speaker 4: A little bit.

472
00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,760
Speaker 3: So sometimes I do just be thinking, no, I really can't.

473
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:54,240
Speaker 3: I know, I know that's right, but anyway, so yeah,

474
00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,399
Speaker 3: so i'd just be wondering too, Like if I would

475
00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,359
Speaker 3: have took singing classes and really just took it serious,

476
00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:03,080
Speaker 3: like what I.

477
00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:04,080
Speaker 4: Do you with you?

478
00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,119
Speaker 1: You could have been like the next Lizo because she

479
00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:07,840
Speaker 1: plays the flute and she's sing.

480
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:09,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if that would have been my

481
00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:13,439
Speaker 3: thing per se doing both at the same time, But

482
00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:15,760
Speaker 3: I do wonder how good I could have been there

483
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:20,240
Speaker 3: both separately. Yeah, not together, yeah, not together, but yeah.

484
00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,200
Speaker 4: I used to take hip hop classes too.

485
00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:26,200
Speaker 2: I used to do a boom catch. I was in there.

486
00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:27,320
Speaker 2: We're doing an eight count.

487
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,400
Speaker 4: Yeah see, I still got a.

488
00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,320
Speaker 1: Little rhythm, but I'm just not a like learning then

489
00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:37,760
Speaker 1: a count is hard, Like when they be doing them tiktoks.

490
00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:39,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not doing that, bro, that's too much.

491
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 1: But I feel like when I was younger, I definitely

492
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,440
Speaker 1: I can learn an a count like that. Now I'm

493
00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,320
Speaker 1: be like, uh uh, I'm not doing that. The dances

494
00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:47,000
Speaker 1: are harder now.

495
00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:47,400
Speaker 4: Yeah.

496
00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:50,120
Speaker 3: I was a cheerleader in Pomp Pom for years. Can

497
00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:52,520
Speaker 3: I love a choreograph dance? But now at this big

498
00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:56,320
Speaker 3: age now, yeah, Like you should get a drawing path though,

499
00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,040
Speaker 3: and like just start sketching.

500
00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:01,560
Speaker 4: Maybe I should, my mom, I should do that.

501
00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:03,240
Speaker 3: It made me think about it because me and my

502
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:05,560
Speaker 3: mom were actually talking about that the other day when

503
00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:07,800
Speaker 3: she had called me on my birthday. She was just like,

504
00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:10,479
Speaker 3: I was looking through your stuff and I saw all

505
00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 3: of these pictures that you used to draw. She was like,

506
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:15,200
Speaker 3: and I'm just like, I wonder do you still be drawing?

507
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:16,760
Speaker 3: And I was like, no, I don't, and she was like,

508
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:18,560
Speaker 3: you should have kept doing it. You were so good,

509
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 3: and her and my dad did. They used to keep

510
00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:23,439
Speaker 3: like all of my drawings on the refrigerator and just

511
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:24,880
Speaker 3: all over the house and stuff.

512
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:26,520
Speaker 4: M the last time I was.

513
00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 3: I was in art a lot too, growing up, like

514
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:32,680
Speaker 3: pretty much every year. Yeah, until I graduated from high school,

515
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 3: I was in art class.

516
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:35,960
Speaker 1: I think people can draw are just so interesting because

517
00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:40,159
Speaker 1: drawing it. I got messy handwriting. I can't draw. I

518
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:43,840
Speaker 1: can't none of that crayon. I can barely color in

519
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:46,439
Speaker 1: the line bit mm hmm, I can't do it. My

520
00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 1: mom could draw, my sister can draw. They're both more

521
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,199
Speaker 1: like arty and stuff like that. I just thought it

522
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 1: was so interesting, like still people can draw, cause I'm

523
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,199
Speaker 1: just like I remember we used to. I think I

524
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:59,200
Speaker 1: told this story before. We had this newspaper when we

525
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 1: were younger, and you would.

526
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 2: Draw and like submit your art and if it was good, they.

527
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 1: Would print it. I never my art, never made it.

528
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,680
Speaker 1: And one day I just like I drew tweety bird

529
00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 1: and it was so good. My tweety bird was in

530
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 1: the newspaper. I was like, yeah, I can draw tweeny bird, bitch,

531
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,200
Speaker 1: only like two shapes and drawing tweetybird.

532
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 2: But still I got.

533
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 3: It back because some people can only do like steak

534
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 3: figures and stuff so.

535
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:28,920
Speaker 1: Barely that yeah, I can barely do that a steak figure. Yeah,

536
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:30,880
Speaker 1: I guess a little tough when that neck, my neck

537
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 1: belonged sometimes, you know what I'm saying.

538
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:35,479
Speaker 2: Anyways, Tom, are we drinking today? All right?

539
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 3: So this one today is gonna be called the pyt

540
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 3: pretty young thing, all right.

541
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 4: So this is a low ABV.

542
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 3: However, if you want to add your own spirit of choice,

543
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 3: you're more than welcome. Let's have some Tito's and hers Drea.

544
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 3: I actually went light on yours today. I and add

545
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:50,960
Speaker 3: any tequila or anything, but it does have some peach

546
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 3: snaps it had. I made like this roe boast. It's

547
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 3: like a South African tea that I use. I made

548
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 3: a syrup out of it, and I also added some

549
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 3: BlackBerry syrup, some limon and juice, and then topped it

550
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:03,679
Speaker 3: off with a sparkling rose. Because this is like for

551
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 3: the girls, this is like spring, the summer all right,

552
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 3: and then I garnish it with a couple of blackberries

553
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 3: on a skewer and some fresh mint.

554
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 4: So this is the p y t y'all.

555
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll be doing a damn but they had tea

556
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:17,400
Speaker 1: South Africa.

557
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's real good tied and blackberries is one of

558
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 3: my favorite fruit of all time.

559
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 4: So I let that cheers, y'all, cheers than.

560
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:33,439
Speaker 1: Let me chase mine? Okay, real quick though to I

561
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:35,200
Speaker 1: thought you was gonna know. I came up here Sunday

562
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 1: because I had to do something. I told that Tito's up.

563
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:39,600
Speaker 1: That's yeah, I put it.

564
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 5: It was me.

565
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:43,680
Speaker 2: It was me. I meant.

566
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 3: I was definitely probably like, who the hell been to

567
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 3: be here? It was like somebody's been over here, but

568
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:50,919
Speaker 3: it was me I was. I said, let me make

569
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:52,200
Speaker 3: me a little. I said, no, let me just pull

570
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 3: it too, but straight now.

571
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 4: Okay, help yourself, girl, it's yours. Yeah, okay.

572
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 3: So for topic number two, I wanted to talk about

573
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 3: age ain't nothing but a number, which I do feel

574
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 3: like it's kind of something that we talked about before,

575
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 3: but in a different way. With this situation, though, I

576
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 3: really want to play a little game and see if

577
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 3: we know who's older out of two different people that

578
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:17,919
Speaker 3: are the same age.

579
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 4: Okay, so let's see. Well now maybe damn maybe I'll

580
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 4: see it.

581
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 3: They're wrong, that's two different people that's the same age,

582
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 3: because then they gets it a way or yeah, because

583
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 3: it's supposed to be trying to get sit if they

584
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 3: are at the same age, or.

585
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 1: Guess who's older, or whatever the case may be.

586
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 2: I don't know.

587
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 1: Shit, I'll be surprised that some people when I see

588
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:42,680
Speaker 1: that are so I'm like, oh my gosh, I thought

589
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 1: she was older than me, or I thought she was

590
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: younger to be like, and not because of how they look,

591
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 1: but how you carry yourself, the amount of money that

592
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 1: you make.

593
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, how you got that much money and you

594
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:54,680
Speaker 2: only six?

595
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 1: I be shocked. I mean, just with the TikTokers these

596
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 1: days and all this stuff. I just be shocked that

597
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 1: people being so successful at such a young age. So

598
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: I think it's a lot of different factors in thinking

599
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:09,119
Speaker 1: if somebody's older or younger than you. For sure, cuz

600
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: I don't know some people really be shocking me. But

601
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,880
Speaker 1: I think people be shocked. Like again, like we talked

602
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: about before, how old we are. I've seen somebody say

603
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: that though that it was like, god, damn lex almost forty.

604
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 5: Shut up girl.

605
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean for me, it definitely be the luxe

606
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 3: though they'd be the number one thing.

607
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

608
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, people be looking older than what they actually are.

609
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 3: That's normally the reason why I think people are older.

610
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 3: It's usually how they love, like all of the other

611
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 3: things like maturity and stuff. I guess, yeah, to a

612
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 3: certain extent, but.

613
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 2: It looks Yeah.

614
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 4: Every time I'd be like, Okay, I thought I thought

615
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:44,399
Speaker 4: you was older.

616
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 2: Than that, m or sometimes I thought you were younger.

617
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 4: Younger is a.

618
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 3: Compliment, though, Like that's normally what people say about it

619
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,640
Speaker 3: is thinking that we look younger than what we are.

620
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 4: To me, that's not like a bad thing. That's not

621
00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 4: a bad thing to me.

622
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 3: It's I ain't gonna say it's bad to look older,

623
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:04,439
Speaker 3: but he kindy is. It's not a compliments like if

624
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 3: you're like, if you're like twenty four and people think

625
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 3: you're thirty.

626
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's not a compliment.

627
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 1: But I also think when people tell and we've talked

628
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 1: about this before, but when people tell us we look younger,

629
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I don't.

630
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 2: This is what a thirty six year old woman looks

631
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,400
Speaker 2: like y'all are just some.

632
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:21,920
Speaker 4: I feel like, this is what thirty six year old.

633
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 4: This is what thirty six looks like.

634
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 1: Though now I feel like we do a good job

635
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 1: of taking care of ourselves, like we're just more aware

636
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 1: of health things. So I'm like, this is what thirty six. No,

637
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,479
Speaker 1: I do not look like I'm thirty. I look like

638
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: a thirty six year old, you know, but you look you.

639
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,400
Speaker 4: Look like some thirty year olds because they look thirty six.

640
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 4: What see that maybe is your hobby like to talk?

641
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 3: No, but it's nice. That's just like a fact. Though,

642
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:54,359
Speaker 3: because I'm a person tu it out, I.

643
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 4: Don't see people and I don't say anything like I'm

644
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 4: very much one of those people who be jody, like yeah,

645
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 4: I think.

646
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 3: I probably ain't gonna say it though, unless it's a

647
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 3: topic like it is today show. But I definitely feel like, yeah,

648
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 3: people be looking like that's never been a compliment, people

649
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 3: thinking that you look older. I just yeah, my god,

650
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 3: I would be so upsetid people thought I was older

651
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 3: than I am.

652
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 1: Well, I'll say this, most of the time when I'm

653
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 1: off about somebody's age, it's because of their maturity and

654
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 1: how they carry themselves. I'm like, oh, my gosh, I

655
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: thought you were older than that, because maybe they have

656
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 1: a certain amount of wisdom or the way they speak.

657
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, wow, because I'm childish as fuck.

658
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I like to talk people thinking that I'm

659
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 1: younger than I am, not because of the way I

660
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: look it, because the way I act. Yeah, because they

661
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 1: feel like, bitch, when are you gonna grow up? And

662
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 1: I just realized never. I'm okay with that. I'm just

663
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 1: gonna be a stupid bitch forever.

664
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 4: But I don't know.

665
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,239
Speaker 3: I just it makes me wonder too, and think like

666
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 3: maybe people just don't know enough fun people, because I

667
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 3: feel like we have a good.

668
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 4: Balance of being serious and me and fun.

669
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 3: Yea, you know, some people are just serious and maybe

670
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 3: that's the problem. Like with generations. For us, they were

671
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 3: very serious. Oh that was hardcore.

672
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 2: It was serious.

673
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,680
Speaker 4: But that's because life was serious. Life was very hard.

674
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 4: Life was very hard.

675
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 2: Arbregay said, what's going on?

676
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 4: She was real?

677
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:16,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he died, he died, he did. But times

678
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 3: was hard on the boulevard.

679
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:18,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was.

680
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:20,640
Speaker 4: It's really a little hard for us.

681
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 3: But I think our generation just choose to handle things

682
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 3: in a different way, Like we love to have fun,

683
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 3: we love to laugh. Like Ty said she gonna go

684
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 3: on to vacation, we all were gonna go on vacation,

685
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 3: were gonna have a good time, were gonna find the

686
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,400
Speaker 3: balance of Like, Okay, i might be going through some shit,

687
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 3: but I'm still going to try to enjoy myself.

688
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 4: It makes the best of this one life that I have.

689
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 1: And if I'm being honest, like being older and having

690
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: money helps, Like when I get fed, I'm like nothing,

691
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 1: not so buy something or let me just fly home,

692
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 1: or let me just go somewhere real quick and just

693
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 1: go eat and just I can literally do whatever, So

694
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: that definitely helps. I don't know who said like more money,

695
00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: more problems, Like I'm behaving.

696
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 3: About in free Willy Haint no kids. You can just

697
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 3: pick up and go. Nothing is holding you down or

698
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 3: holding you back from exploring whatever you want to do.

699
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 2: And I don't care.

700
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 1: Nobody would ever make me feel bad about being child free.

701
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 1: Now y'all be like, oh, your life is unfulfilled. Well

702
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 1: you know what I'm doing what I'm supposed to do

703
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: right now? Yeah, cause can you imagine I know my

704
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: mom used to be sick of me.

705
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 2: Can you imagine you just worked a twelve hour shift.

706
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 2: You're tired, and she was.

707
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 4: Working at the plant.

708
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 2: You're hungry.

709
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: You walk the door, you see me her girl, Let

710
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 1: me show you my new tap dance. Oh hell no,

711
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 1: I know she even have had enough.

712
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 2: She had had enough.

713
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 1: So I'm like, no, I can literally be sad, go

714
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: through my emotions. I can do whatever I want. I

715
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: can PLoP on my couch and do whatever. But yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

716
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.

717
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 3: I feel like different things are fulfilling for different people.

718
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 3: For some people, they don't really want kids. I don't

719
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 3: know why they be hard for people to grasp that

720
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 3: some people really don't want kids. Hell, there's a lot

721
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 3: of people that didn't want them to have them and

722
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 3: they shouldn't have Yeah, I don't know why it's like

723
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 3: hard for people to process. Everybody that has children right

724
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 3: now did not want them necessarily. And I think people

725
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 3: who want children and people who don't want to have

726
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 3: children need to stop having conversations.

727
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 1: You don't understand them, they don't understand you. Stop trying

728
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: to convince the other side.

729
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 3: I don't understand why it's so important, But what I

730
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 3: do see a lot of the time is it be

731
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 3: more so? In my opinion, just from the outside looking in,

732
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 3: especially on social media, it always more so seems like

733
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 3: it's people with kids, though they be trying to like

734
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 3: trying to convince people who don't have kids or people

735
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 3: who don't want kids that their life is going to

736
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 3: be unfulfilled if they don't have them.

737
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 4: Are trying to make them realize why they should.

738
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 3: You know, I don't really see people like who don't

739
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 3: have kids trying to convince people that do have kids

740
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 3: that you made a bad mistake or a bad decision.

741
00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: Well, I'll say I think I think that used to

742
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: do that to women a lot, like they would feel like,

743
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 1: if you get pregnant.

744
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:04,719
Speaker 2: It's gonna ruin your career.

745
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think now that you know, we see

746
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 1: like a Beyonce or we see like a Cardi, like

747
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: they drop them kids and they still working and they

748
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 1: still doing what they gotta do. So the industry used

749
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: to make people feel like it was a death sentence.

750
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 4: But I'm not gonna lie.

751
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 1: They was definitely doing that to my girl Cardi when

752
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 1: she got pregnant, and she was just like, no, let

753
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 1: me show y'all what I'm Finna.

754
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 4: Do concert was fine by the way it was. It

755
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 4: was a concert. We had yes, oh my god, we

756
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 4: had fun, so it was a good time time.

757
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 2: But yeah, I just think it's the times are a

758
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 2: little bit different.

759
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 4: So yeah, I don't know.

760
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 3: I just think people should mind a b business and

761
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 3: they overreas like do what you do, what make you happy,

762
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 3: like leave people alone.

763
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 4: Everybody don't want to have kids.

764
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 3: I just do think though, like you said, they should

765
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 3: just stop talking, they should stop conversing all together, because

766
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 3: you never gonna see each other's perspective.

767
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 4: I think a person who already.

768
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 3: Has a child, like you can't go back and change that,

769
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 3: so you're never going to see life from the perspective

770
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 3: of somebody who has the free wheel to still not

771
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 3: have one if they don't want to or still or

772
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 3: change their mind and have one, right, Like, I don't know.

773
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 3: I just think it's a it's a weird conversation. May

774
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 3: be a little played out to me though, how you feel.

775
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 4: Time, Yeah, I agree, I feel like, do what y'all

776
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 4: gonna do.

777
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 3: I'm loving to see like the commentary online a lot

778
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 3: more from the people that don't have kids, because I'll

779
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 3: be sided with it. Because I've been like, yes, exactly,

780
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 3: go be free, go frolick in the grass if you

781
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 3: want to. Because my mama used to go home, she

782
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 3: come home from work and then go straight to the

783
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 3: room and close the door.

784
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 4: And I never understood it until now.

785
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 3: Like you said, you don't work the whole twelve hour ship,

786
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 3: I don't want to talk to none of you.

787
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, and you ain't take that chicken out to

788
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 4: leave me alone.

789
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 2: And then my mom, you know, I had my friends

790
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 2: over because I had the party house.

791
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 1: Then she got to come home to a bunch of

792
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 1: white Yeah, it was time to start a right, Yeah,

793
00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I'm definitely both crowds.

794
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: Like having children is beautiful. I love my nephew, Yeah,

795
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: my sister. My sister loves being a mom, like loves it.

796
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 1: But I love being an aunt and I.

797
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 2: Want to have kids.

798
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 4: But I just don't care what other people choose. Yeah yeah,

799
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 4: Like it's just never been.

800
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 3: Something where I feel like I have to convince people

801
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 3: that don't want to have kids that you should have some.

802
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 3: And I think even once I do have them, I'm

803
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 3: still not gonna be their person.

804
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 4: It's like, well, I got a.

805
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 3: Kid, while yeah, well, why you don't want to have one? Like,

806
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:30,959
Speaker 3: I just don't care. And I think, kind of going

807
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 3: back to what we were saying earlier, it just be

808
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 3: so much shit I can't be bothered to care about

809
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 3: normally if it has nothing to do with me, I

810
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 3: don't care.

811
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 5: Yeah.

812
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 4: Agree, Yeah, it's like that's your life, that's your kouchie.

813
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: Do what you want stretched yeah, okay, okay, but we

814
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: gotta do some examples.

815
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 3: Okay, the first one and Beyonce versus Britney Spears.

816
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 4: Who do y'all think is older.

817
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 2: Britney Spears?

818
00:33:58,280 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 4: I would say so too.

819
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 2: I think by Spears is older.

820
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 4: No, she not, but I know it for a fact.

821
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 2: Beyonce, hmmm, wow, how much older?

822
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 4: Only a few months?

823
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 2: Okay?

824
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 1: Oh but again I think that's just how I know.

825
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,399
Speaker 1: For me, it's because I've been seeing. I've been seeing.

826
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 4: I was gonna say, we just known Brittany longer. What pause?

827
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 3: Morgan is saying it's not right, but on the car

828
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 3: he says, three months Beyonce's birthdays, and.

829
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh Brittany is older.

830
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,760
Speaker 4: But I thought Brittany was a sagittaryus.

831
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 2: Mhm.

832
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:51,800
Speaker 1: The following year, Oh so Brittany is older, right, So

833
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:55,720
Speaker 1: we were right. Then, No, I thought Beyonce is older.

834
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying that, Like, I'm not tripping Beyonce's birth.

835
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 3: Beyonce is a virgo. Britney Spears is a sagittarys. So

836
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 3: Beyond three months older.

837
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,760
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, yeah, yeah, so you were right. Yeah, Okay,

838
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:09,839
Speaker 1: so Beyonce is older. But like I said, I felt

839
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:11,800
Speaker 1: like Brittany was older just because I've been seeing Britney

840
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 1: longer on The Mickey Mouse Club when she was a

841
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 1: mover and a shakeup. By the time Beyond, I think

842
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 1: the first time we saw Beyond, well, she was on

843
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 1: like Star Search, but we didn't we were.

844
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, we didn't know what was going on.

845
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 1: But by the time Beyonce was fifteen, that's when we

846
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: started seeing her. So I saw Britney first, So I

847
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: just assumed she was older. Not because of the low

848
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: Rise Pennies.

849
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 3: You know, the low rides will give it away a

850
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 3: little bit though, but then the low Rise Pennies is

851
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 3: coming back. Everything coming back style, everything be coming back

852
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 3: in style though, everything we have in these full circle moments.

853
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 3: But I knew Brittany was older just because I knew

854
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 3: they were the same age. And then I know Beyonce

855
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 3: birthdays in September, and I knew. I don't know when

856
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 3: Britney spears birthday is, but I knew she was a sagittarian. Yeah,

857
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 3: she acts like it thousand percent acts like a sad

858
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 3: And that's the same because my best friend is the sage.

859
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 4: Yeah mine is sub Yeah, Okay, Rihanna versus a deal. Okay,

860
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say Adele only because but Adele. When we

861
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 4: were introduced to Adele, she.

862
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 1: Was singing ballads on twenty one, had on Fried Nicks

863
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:28,400
Speaker 1: that we saw Rihanna turned up partying repay one up,

864
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 1: bomba clot. Okay, that's Jamaican. What the same thing they

865
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:36,720
Speaker 1: saw on the Caribbean. They cousins, their cousins, their.

866
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 4: Cousin them Caribbean people are gonna cush her as Sorry.

867
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:43,879
Speaker 1: The only reason I say Adele, like I said, because

868
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: I saw Rihanna and her party stage.

869
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 2: We never really saw Adele on her party stage.

870
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 1: We seen Adele in that Jamaican outfit, though she did

871
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 1: party at one time.

872
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 4: Adele, yeah, she had on a.

873
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 2: Jamaican outfit on the well, not Jamaican it was the carrib.

874
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 4: The Carnival, Oh Carnival.

875
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, she said walk on for real?

876
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,320
Speaker 4: She was good her man Jamaican.

877
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:09,320
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know. I don't know. But who's older?

878
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 3: Well, I don't know, but I'm just gonna take a guesskay,

879
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 3: Rihanna only because again me with people birthdays and on

880
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 3: when they are. I know Rihanna is a Pisces and

881
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 3: I think I don't know, I think she might be

882
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 3: a tours maybe.

883
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 4: Okay, thank you?

884
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I did not know that. A.

885
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, she is interesting. All the great ones are.

886
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 5: Yes.

887
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 4: Yes, Chris Brown versus Daniel Khalua.

888
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:49,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say again, I'm just doing it by well. See,

889
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: I can't do it about that because I said, I've

890
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 1: been seeing Britney spears for so long, because we've been

891
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 1: seeing we saw Chris first. But again I would say

892
00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: maturity levels. I would say Daniel Khalua is old. That's

893
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 1: just the vibes he used me. But he's so low key.

894
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 1: We never seen him unless you got a movie. We

895
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 1: ain't seen him since he was playing Fred Hampton.

896
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 4: What you think? I agree, he just seems more mature,

897
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 4: more calm tempered. Yes, Brown gives a little bit more.

898
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:18,919
Speaker 2: He's still doing back.

899
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 1: He's doing a black fed up right now, moon walking

900
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 1: and singing and fucking.

901
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 2: He just had a client.

902
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, all that he doing everything we doing. I'll be

903
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 4: more walking up.

904
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 2: To a week.

905
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, I don't know. I don't know the answer

906
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:39,760
Speaker 3: to this one, but I would let me give.

907
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 4: Chris Brown.

908
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:52,839
Speaker 1: No, Daniel Kalu is older by okay, February twenty fourth,

909
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 1: and Chris Brown as.

910
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 3: What mayfeit not him and Adale got the same bron

911
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,320
Speaker 3: wo Okay, cool, Okay, let's.

912
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 2: Do damn somebody finally older than me? Who damn? Yeah,

913
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 2: I'm always the oldest one.

914
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 4: Ludacrist versus Kanye.

915
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 2: West ooh, I would say, Kanye.

916
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 4: Ludacries that man named Ludacrist.

917
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 7: Woo.

918
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 3: That's my that's my vote. I think that's all of

919
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 3: our vote. Well, I said, kin, I said, oh, she

920
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 3: said Kanye never mind?

921
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Kanye June.

922
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: Eight, Ludacris September. So Kanye Kanye older?

923
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 2: Okay?

924
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:43,439
Speaker 4: All right?

925
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 3: Martin Luther King Junior and a Frank and Frank I

926
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:52,359
Speaker 3: had to throw a little razzled are Martin Luther King

927
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:53,720
Speaker 3: and and and Frank.

928
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,479
Speaker 2: She was born in like sixteen hundred. No the fuck

929
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 2: she was with men?

930
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,760
Speaker 3: No, she wasn't she was she she was a diary

931
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 3: of an She was alive around the same time, the

932
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:06,320
Speaker 3: same time as MLK, just different parts of the world,

933
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 3: in different centuries. No, oh you know, No it was

934
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,760
Speaker 3: during It was around the same time, just different countries.

935
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 2: I got her confused with Helen Keller. Bitch. When was

936
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 2: she born in the sixteen hundreds?

937
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 5: For real?

938
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 2: I don't know, but it was long tom time.

939
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 4: I feel like you just making some shit up, Todd.

940
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 4: Look and see when Helen Keller was alive. This is

941
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 4: she was deaf and.

942
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 3: Blinde Oh lord, why I started feeling for because you

943
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,240
Speaker 3: had to feel it, you had to get a character.

944
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 2: Damn.

945
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 4: She lived a long life, phill.

946
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 3: Helen Keller was born in eight June twenty seventh, eighteen eighty. Wow,

947
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 3: she lived all the way to June first, nineteen sixty eight.

948
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 1: Damn yeah, no, why because she couldn't see or hear

949
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 1: these niggas?

950
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, straight up stress free? Got they called our friend

951
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 4: and killer? Why he don't know.

952
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 5: What?

953
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 2: I don't know. That is not a good nickname.

954
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 4: I guess, like because it's killing with the k instead

955
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,960
Speaker 4: of healing with the age. He would call her healing killer.

956
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god, like stop calling okay, and Frank, Yeah,

957
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, and Frank is older.

958
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 2: She was writing that.

959
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: She was singing her hotel, but she was writing her Dotary.

960
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 1: I'm just saying name, and it's not funny. She was

961
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 1: going through it, So I'm gonna say, and Frank.

962
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 4: Man, girl, way.

963
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 5: Tell you.

964
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say the same thing, just because you know,

965
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 3: I won't say why that's my okay, surprising. It was

966
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 3: Martin Luther King Well old January and then hers is

967
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 3: June twelfth.

968
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 1: Wow, that's crazy, right. I don't know why I thought

969
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 1: she was like sixteen hundred, baby, that's crazy.

970
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,880
Speaker 3: I don't know why you thought that either, because I

971
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 3: did know that it was in the nineteen hundreds.

972
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 2: I thought it was the sixties.

973
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:22,800
Speaker 4: It's just she was. Yeah, that was over in Europe

974
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 4: and then we were here in the United States. You

975
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 4: know she was Jewish.

976
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she won. Yeah, yeah, shout out to my girl.

977
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:33,800
Speaker 4: Well she was Jewish.

978
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: The whole Nazi thing with Hitler, Yeah, okay, now it's

979
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 1: coming back.

980
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 4: It was a tourist.

981
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 3: What's even crazy crazier is that Helen k dying the

982
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 3: same year Martin Luther King died.

983
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 4: They died the same year, nineteen sixty eight. That's not

984
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 4: how does she die?

985
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 3: Now?

986
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 4: I don't know? Let me go back.

987
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 2: This two is getting hot.

988
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 3: It is right, Helen Keller probably of natural causes, no

989
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 3: naturally old as fu.

990
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 4: Martin Luther King wasn't old as fuck when he died.

991
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,320
Speaker 4: I thought, you said, how that Helen Keller died? Oh no,

992
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,800
Speaker 4: we said, and Frank, she passed away peacefully in her sleep.

993
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 4: And Frank Helen Keller.

994
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 3: Helen Keller died the same year as Martin Luther King,

995
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 3: but she was born in eighteen eighty. She lived the

996
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,720
Speaker 3: longest of all three of them. She lived a long life,

997
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 3: and she died peacefully of natural causes.

998
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 4: And the baby, I mean, well, not a baby, but

999
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 4: she was. She was lex.

1000
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 3: You would not pay attention in history because what the

1001
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 3: fuck I could have told you who lives longer between

1002
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:36,919
Speaker 3: Helen Killer and Frank.

1003
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 4: She was a child when she died. That's the whole

1004
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 4: big thing about it.

1005
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:45,360
Speaker 3: Well, that and that's when her diary important, because she

1006
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,439
Speaker 3: was writing them in the attic when she was hiding

1007
00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 3: out from them.

1008
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 4: I remember that, wasn't it in Uh, We're on with Amsterdam?

1009
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 4: Wasn't something in Amsterdam?

1010
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 2: I'm with them?

1011
00:43:55,800 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 4: Yep, see the concentration camp something. It's the Museum of You.

1012
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:01,839
Speaker 2: I went there.

1013
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,280
Speaker 1: That's why I said it was coming back to Minster Titos.

1014
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 1: I knew I had to refresh my memory.

1015
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 4: Speaking of Anne, Frank though, can anybody tell me?

1016
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:10,839
Speaker 1: Why?

1017
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 4: Why the hell did Andre three thousand say that on

1018
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 4: this song?

1019
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 2: What did he say?

1020
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 4: He said? I love who you are? I love who

1021
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:19,879
Speaker 4: you ain't you? So in Frank, let's hit the attic

1022
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:24,879
Speaker 4: and hide out for about two weeks, because why would

1023
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 4: he say that?

1024
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 2: It's crazy people?

1025
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 4: This this is like one of these things we be

1026
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 4: like questionable? Who clear clear that that's actually a sad

1027
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:37,760
Speaker 4: it's a sad story.

1028
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:40,719
Speaker 2: I mean her family.

1029
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 3: Can He ain't say nothing bad? He just said like you,

1030
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,800
Speaker 3: So in Frank, let's heart out for I don't like that.

1031
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 2: I don't like that.

1032
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 3: You don't like that's a sad story because I was

1033
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 3: thinking you ain't like you just found by the day

1034
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 3: in your diaries. My memory has been refreshed and I

1035
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 3: don't like it. I don't like that, bro, give me

1036
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 3: a lot going on on the internet, Like I be

1037
00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 3: falling down deep halls of stuff. So they be making

1038
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 3: this pie which is like it's nothing wait, it's nothing

1039
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 3: but flour, water and sugar. Oh yeah, yes, and they

1040
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:24,359
Speaker 3: be saying that it tastes like apple pie. But when

1041
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 3: he got popular, was like during the Great Depression. No,

1042
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 3: not the Great Depression that was here in the United States,

1043
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 3: but yeah, maybe great Depression.

1044
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 4: But I thought it came from over there during like

1045
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 4: the not they got I said, I saw that too,

1046
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 4: But how does it taste like apple pis?

1047
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:41,399
Speaker 2: And it got no apple?

1048
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1049
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 4: I guess that's the science behind it.

1050
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 3: That's what makes it interesting, is like once you let

1051
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 3: it see it tastes like apple pie, they say.

1052
00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 4: I say, add a little cinnamon too, So maybe that's

1053
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:51,840
Speaker 4: what makes it taste like that.

1054
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:53,839
Speaker 2: Now I see when they do it with a sprite too,

1055
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 2: I d see that.

1056
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,800
Speaker 4: But hey, I could fuck with that because seven upcake

1057
00:45:58,960 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 4: have you had?

1058
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 2: Is tasty with that glaze on them?

1059
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, I like that pretty good.

1060
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 3: So yeah, so and Frank is younger than MLK.

1061
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 4: Wow that Watha Luther. Like my mama always say to

1062
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 4: missus barb. All right, so now it's time to get

1063
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:22,400
Speaker 4: into the bed bowl the bed bow, the bed bow

1064
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 4: bow bow bow bow.

1065
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 3: Now y'all know, per usual, the bed segment is brought

1066
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 3: to you by salt x So. Y'all know this is

1067
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:34,919
Speaker 3: one of our faves. We love us some Salt ex Saul.

1068
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:37,320
Speaker 3: I have been using salt XO for years and pH

1069
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 3: been balanced ever since. Well, I mean it was balanced

1070
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 3: before that, but now it's really really balanced. And I

1071
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 3: love not only just the normal size, but I also

1072
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:47,399
Speaker 3: have the trouble size. Y'all know, I just came back

1073
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 3: from my birthday vacation in Cabo and I had that

1074
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:53,240
Speaker 3: Salt x SO with me. I don't leave the house

1075
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 3: without it, okay. And outside of Koochie wash, they have

1076
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 3: so many other products. Like they have the Sweet Release,

1077
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 3: which is your slippery m if you need a little assistance, or.

1078
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 4: Even if you don't you just want to be a

1079
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 4: little wetter.

1080
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:10,319
Speaker 3: You sin Sweet Released, the Jewel Oil greatful after getting

1081
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,919
Speaker 3: a wags, keeping those ingrowns in that hyperpgentation away.

1082
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,839
Speaker 4: Everything y'all need Salt sol Gotti.

1083
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 2: Shout out to salt ex So. They're my favorite. I

1084
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 2: just did an updated shower routine too, So y'all go

1085
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 2: check that out. Salt egg so is definitely in the rotation.

1086
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 2: So it is, y'all go try that out. Go try

1087
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 2: it out?

1088
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 4: Alright?

1089
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 1: Could you be intimate with a man who talks in

1090
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: a baby voice during sex? First of all, I don't

1091
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 1: really like baby talk period. I think baby talking strange.

1092
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 1: Whether it's coming from a man or a woman. You

1093
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, I don't like it. But as

1094
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: a man.

1095
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 4: Startistic?

1096
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 2: Is that how he says it?

1097
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 4: That doesn't sound like a baby. Well, I'm not a baby.

1098
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 4: That doesn't sound I don't know. That sounded like a pimp.

1099
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 2: That sounded like cat willis, Yeah.

1100
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 4: His name on Friday money Mike. That sound likeney?

1101
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 2: Okay, how does what does baby talk sound like?

1102
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 7: Like?

1103
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: Oh?

1104
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 4: Google, guy, guy, can you shuck this diick please?

1105
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 5: Baby? When? Yeah, that was better?

1106
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 4: Can you shuck this big baby?

1107
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 5: Please? Come on?

1108
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 2: Baby sook my dig please?

1109
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 4: That was better? That was better?

1110
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:33,839
Speaker 5: Right? Yeah?

1111
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 4: That was how I know. No, I don't know why

1112
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 4: I can't think of like what a baby boy? That's

1113
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 4: my baby boy says to be like, oh, come on, baby,

1114
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 4: suck my big please come on, this is so big

1115
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 4: what you're gonna do for big Mama?

1116
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 2: Free? Okay you might like that ship.

1117
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:57,799
Speaker 4: No, I wouldn't like this. It's a little weird. Hell,

1118
00:48:57,920 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 4: where'd y'all put some bass in your boy?

1119
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:00,319
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1120
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 5: Be a man?

1121
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like that. I don't like baby talk.

1122
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 2: Like I've never been a baby talker.

1123
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,279
Speaker 3: It's different if that's your real voice, like some men

1124
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 3: just have like soft, tigh pitch voices.

1125
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 4: That's okay, that's a little Michael Jackson. Yeah, that's okay

1126
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 4: if that's your voice.

1127
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:20,600
Speaker 3: But it's like if you're putting on a baby voice

1128
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 3: and doing baby talk while we haven't said, bab I

1129
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 3: want to suck your chance and whiny because baby's wand

1130
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 3: times I think I'd be thinking, I know you, I'm

1131
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 3: trying we have conversations, and I'd be like, I don't know,

1132
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 3: because it sounds too much like a lived experience.

1133
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,279
Speaker 4: You just sound like some ship you really been through.

1134
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 2: I'm trying to give you an example.

1135
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 4: Why would you making that fame?

1136
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:50,879
Speaker 2: Let me suck your chill.

1137
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:58,919
Speaker 4: You've been through backing your day for real? Chi, Yeah,

1138
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 4: le's gonna live through the Oh god, I don't like

1139
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:07,760
Speaker 4: it early ages.

1140
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 1: Oh god, maybe I did hear it, and I'm just like,

1141
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 1: and I push it in the back of my mind

1142
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:17,720
Speaker 1: with a frank Yeah, I'm just saying I have mad memory.

1143
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:20,399
Speaker 2: I was just saying because I him to the back

1144
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 2: of your mind, all of them, Oh my god.

1145
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 4: Okay, but no, I don't like that though. I don't like. No,

1146
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 4: baby boys don't do that shit with me unless you's

1147
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 4: trying to get kicked out.

1148
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 1: But what if it's something like he's into and like

1149
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: you don't want to embarrass him, but it's like somebody

1150
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 1: you like.

1151
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 4: It, Like, how do you have that?

1152
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 3: I don't like him, but you didn't know. Now I know,

1153
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 3: and now I don't like him, So that axes out everybody.

1154
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 3: Oh yes, that's so weird. That's so weird. I feel

1155
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 3: like you gotta trust people for who they tell you

1156
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 3: they are and show you who they are the first time.

1157
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 4: You're a little weird. I'm not gonna lie.

1158
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 2: I've never heard a man do a baby boy though,

1159
00:50:58,920 --> 00:50:59,879
Speaker 2: like in general.

1160
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 3: Because I also feel like sex is one of those

1161
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 3: things to where you gotta warm up to people. So

1162
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 3: if you're doing that on the first encounter, like the

1163
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,160
Speaker 3: first time that we have in sexy you feel comfortable

1164
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 3: doing it, you're weird and it's.

1165
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:12,359
Speaker 4: More to come.

1166
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:23,840
Speaker 8: Oh he's putting on a diaper, he's a passy. No,

1167
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 8: I agree quickly, and I don't like.

1168
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:30,439
Speaker 2: To kink shame, I really don't.

1169
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 1: I like to let people explore what they want to

1170
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 1: do in their you know, bedroom and things like that.

1171
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 1: But I just feel like that's a little too much.

1172
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 1: And again I'll be kind of side on people who

1173
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 1: like stuff that have to do with.

1174
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 2: Baby with the underage.

1175
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:48,320
Speaker 4: How you feel about people that are like baby food?

1176
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 2: What baby food were talking?

1177
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 5: You know what?

1178
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: Because baby food is actually not that bad, like the

1179
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,320
Speaker 1: vegetables are. The vegetables are, but like when it's the

1180
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 1: fruit and I feel like it's not baby food, but

1181
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,439
Speaker 1: I still eat apple sauce. Oh well yeah that's normal.

1182
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 2: But that's how baby food tastes.

1183
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 1: It's just literally ground up whatever. So I don't feel

1184
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 1: like baby food is bad. But now like, don't pass

1185
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:20,440
Speaker 1: them peas over here, Yeah, don't pass nothing. But honestly,

1186
00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:23,920
Speaker 1: if you're buying baby food and that's what you're eating,

1187
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 1: cause he ready for to put that diaper on, ye,

1188
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:29,959
Speaker 1: that's given role play now yeah, like if I open

1189
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:33,399
Speaker 1: your fridge and you got mashed peas and carrots, what's

1190
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: going on here? Okay, so we're gonna say no to

1191
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 1: the baby voice. I am so sorry, ladies and git no. Yeah,

1192
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 1: I can't do it.

1193
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 3: I definitely feel like I don't know certain stuff be

1194
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:46,760
Speaker 3: learned behaviors though, So it's like, what's upe of porn

1195
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 3: you be watched?

1196
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I feel like everything that

1197
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 1: people are into you were introduced to it. Yeah, so

1198
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 1: it's like, why do you like that specifically? Like what

1199
00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 1: about a baby voice turns you on? Like when I

1200
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 1: hear kids talking, I automatically get annoyed, like off the rip.

1201
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 2: I don't even care a child?

1202
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:12,920
Speaker 4: Yes, oh yes, miss me, I don't want to hear that.

1203
00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 1: No, no, I don't like it outside of my nephews,

1204
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:19,920
Speaker 1: and even my nephews be t you're oh my gosh.

1205
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:23,879
Speaker 1: And see Jackson's voice is actually deep now, so it's

1206
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:28,720
Speaker 1: so weird. Yes, yes, that's exactly how he sounds.

1207
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:29,479
Speaker 2: It's so weird.

1208
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 1: But Peenie, you know his voice is still Peenie, Peenie,

1209
00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 1: He's still peeni. So I got a penie boy, I

1210
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:38,399
Speaker 1: can only take so much.

1211
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:39,760
Speaker 4: Lord.

1212
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 3: No, yeah I don't, but I mean essentially kind of

1213
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 3: women when we have six we gotta sound like babies.

1214
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 2: No, No, I ain't.

1215
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 4: Sound baby.

1216
00:53:57,960 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 3: I mean because I feel like nobody moan and they

1217
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 3: regular voice, they they don't you do different when I'm fucking.

1218
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: Okay, But that's what I'm saying. But I think baby

1219
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: voice is not so much what you're saying, but the tone.

1220
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 3: Well what I'm saying like, I think when when women

1221
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:20,879
Speaker 3: have sex, they don't nobody moan in their real voice.

1222
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 4: It'd be like a little bit more, I peach. It's

1223
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 4: a different tone. Yeah, but you're not baby is It's

1224
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 4: still like grown.

1225
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:31,880
Speaker 2: It sounds grown.

1226
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 4: No, I wasn't saying what I was asking, Dowey.

1227
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds more like grown.

1228
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 4: I know what you sound like.

1229
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 2: You don't gotta do it for me.

1230
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 5: You don't you know what I sound.

1231
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:48,719
Speaker 2: Give me a demo. I've heard it.

1232
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 1: Let's move on, so let us know how y'all feel

1233
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 1: about baby voice. It's a know for all three of us. Okay,

1234
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:01,440
Speaker 1: it's a no for me. So now it's time to

1235
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 1: get into a baby abou aboo boo.

1236
00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 4: Boo boo bo they're doing a macina.

1237
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 2: So I discovered this girl. I didn't obviously, she's been

1238
00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 2: doing music for a very long time. I didn't know.

1239
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:21,600
Speaker 2: So y'all know the singer Ray.

1240
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 4: She has that song baby what else my husband?

1241
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 1: Anyways, she has a sister and the sister Cassin tell child,

1242
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my gosh, it runs in the family.

1243
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 1: So her name is Absolutely, and she has a song

1244
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 1: called I Just Don't Know You Yet. And when I

1245
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: tell you, it is a beautiful ballad. This song, it's

1246
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 1: not like an underground song. I know y'all probably done

1247
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 1: heard it, but I'm telling you it's gonna have a

1248
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 1: good award season. I hope that she gets all the

1249
00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 1: awards because it's such a good song.

1250
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 2: It's one of those songs like when she performs it,

1251
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:54,319
Speaker 2: she's gonna have to have.

1252
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 1: A choir with her. It's like a very good ballad.

1253
00:55:57,480 --> 00:56:01,640
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you music is just so good. It's

1254
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 1: such a good song, and it's just about not giving

1255
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:07,840
Speaker 1: up on love and how her next person is like

1256
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 1: God send you know, She's like, I just don't know

1257
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:10,399
Speaker 1: you yet.

1258
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 3: M hm.

1259
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 2: So Absolutely the song Oh let me not do it wrong.

1260
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:17,800
Speaker 1: You know, if you do it wrong three times? Duran

1261
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 1: pop up, Huh, we gotta do it in the middle. Absolutely,

1262
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: I just don't know yet. That's my bop of the week.

1263
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:23,359
Speaker 2: Pert.

1264
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 3: Okay, So Kline just came out with a new album

1265
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:32,640
Speaker 3: and I love it. I love her album. A few

1266
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 3: of my little favorite songs is I like I Need

1267
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 3: You with Brandy, I like should have Never with Us? Sure, okay,

1268
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 3: I like called me Back? Was he painting a little Johns?

1269
00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:47,399
Speaker 2: I need to listen to that one.

1270
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the one that's the bout right there.

1271
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:53,719
Speaker 3: But to be honest, I mean she has so many

1272
00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:57,880
Speaker 3: other great features on the album, Cardi b Leon, Tommy's Beak, Shane.

1273
00:56:58,080 --> 00:56:58,279
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1274
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 3: But the album itself is just really really good. And

1275
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 3: shout out to my girl too because she is Forest too.

1276
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:05,839
Speaker 3: We've been talking about toss it was but yeah.

1277
00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 1: So I listened to a few of the songs when

1278
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 1: I was getting ready, and I heard the song with

1279
00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:11,360
Speaker 1: her and Cardi.

1280
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 2: Pockets, and I like Pockets.

1281
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:14,279
Speaker 4: Pockets is good.

1282
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 3: Yeah. But it came out and I was actually listening

1283
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 3: to it on my flight when I was on my

1284
00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 3: way to to Cabo. So I listened to the whole

1285
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 3: album and yeah, I really love it.

1286
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 2: Okay, shout out to Kaylin.

1287
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 4: Come on the show, girl, Yes, girl, come sit on

1288
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 4: this couch with us.

1289
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 2: Is it Klannie or Kaylanie? Kaylanie?

1290
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 9: Right?

1291
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:33,680
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll be saying it wrong, y'all know, I'll be

1292
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 2: saying everybody name.

1293
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 4: I'll probably be saying it wrong.

1294
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 2: That's all right, That's all right. Y'all know we don't

1295
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 2: mean no harm.

1296
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, sweet, don't. Okay.

1297
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 3: So now it's time to get into our favorite segment

1298
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 3: of the show, which is pour your heart out. You know,

1299
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 3: if you have any questions, send them to ask Poor

1300
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 3: Minds at gmail dot com. That's as kp oh. You

1301
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 3: are in my nds at gmail dot com. Hey, Lexindre,

1302
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 3: I love you both so much and I'm really happy

1303
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 3: seeing you thrive. I'm in a new relationship, but I

1304
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 3: still want to stay friends with my ex, and it's

1305
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 3: causing intention. Honestly, I think we were always meant to

1306
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 3: just be friends. We build our relationship on friendship first,

1307
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 3: but once we committed things fell apart. I feel like

1308
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:18,800
Speaker 3: I was carrying everything financially, emotionally, mentally, and I even

1309
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 3: tried counseling before ending it. We broke up amicably, and

1310
00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:25,840
Speaker 3: the love that the lift is strictly platonic. We were

1311
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 3: together for six years and I had checked out long

1312
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:30,920
Speaker 3: before the end. Now I've been in a new relationship

1313
00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:33,960
Speaker 3: for a year and she's everything I want. She loves

1314
00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 3: my daughter, supports our home, and is patient with me.

1315
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:39,680
Speaker 3: I was upfront from the start about my relationship, about

1316
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 3: my friendship with my ex, and she said she was

1317
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 3: okay with me, but her actions say otherwise. She gets

1318
00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 3: distant on my exx or when or if she sees

1319
00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 3: her on my social media. I respected every boundary she's

1320
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 3: asked for and stayed transparent, but this keeps coming up.

1321
00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 3: I don't want to lose my friendship with my ex

1322
00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:59,520
Speaker 3: because I truly believe that's what we're meant to be,

1323
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,640
Speaker 3: but I also love my girlfriend. I feel stuck in

1324
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Speaker 3: the middle. I'd really appreciate your insight.

1325
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Speaker 4: HM.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you have to ask yourself what's more

1327
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: important to you. I have kind of always been the

1328
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: girl where I'm like cool with my exes, but I

1329
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:21,520
Speaker 1: won't necessarily say we're friends, like we're cordial cool, Like

1330
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Speaker 1: if they text me, oh, hey, how you doing whatever,

1331
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 1: it's just a high and bo type situation. But if

1332
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: I was ever in a situation where the person I'm

1333
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 1: dating it's like, hey, this makes me uncomfortable, then they're

1334
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:31,400
Speaker 1: getting cut off.

1335
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 2: Like yeah, that's just how I feel.

1336
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 1: I think it's a respect factor, and you have to

1337
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:38,200
Speaker 1: put yourself in her shoes how you would feel if

1338
00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:39,400
Speaker 1: she was cool with her ex.

1339
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:42,640
Speaker 2: And talking to them all the time and in no shade.

1340
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 1: But it's like if y'all were together for six years

1341
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 1: and it was kind of I don't want to say toxic,

1342
00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 1: because you didn't use that word, but it was all

1343
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:51,600
Speaker 1: of these things. I don't even know why you're kind

1344
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:53,560
Speaker 1: of holding on to that. I think when you move

1345
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 1: on and haveing new chapters in your life, it's okay

1346
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: to let people go. So you need to ask yourself

1347
00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:00,240
Speaker 1: why is this friend.

1348
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 2: So important to you? And while you're holding on to it,

1349
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 2: if you've moved on, so I think you can move

1350
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 2: on and respect your girlfriend. That's just how I feel.

1351
01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree.

1352
01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:20,560
Speaker 3: I used to think that was possible when I was younger,

1353
01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 3: because I had an X that I was friends with

1354
01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 3: and we were actually really cool for a really long time, platonically,

1355
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:29,480
Speaker 3: like it wasn't nothing romantic going on.

1356
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 4: It wasn't weird. We were strictly friends, but he still

1357
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:35,480
Speaker 4: had feelings for me.

1358
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 3: It might not have been that on my end, but

1359
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 3: the feelings were still there on his end. And then

1360
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 3: when he ended up getting in a relationship, his girlfriend

1361
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 3: was not okay with that. Like she and I used

1362
01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 3: to again, looking back to the situation, because this was

1363
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:52,040
Speaker 3: like five six years ago, I thought that she was

1364
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,160
Speaker 3: being immature because she was a little younger than us.

1365
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:56,040
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, she just being immature or whatever.

1366
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 3: But I can understand how being in a relationship with

1367
01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 3: somebody knew you still being friends with your ex could

1368
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:07,400
Speaker 3: trigger somebody, And it doesn't necessarily make the new person insecure.

1369
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:09,120
Speaker 4: It's just kind of like, but what do you what

1370
01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 4: are you and the person used to be fucking need

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01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 4: to be.

1372
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Speaker 2: Talking about exactly?

1373
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:13,840
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1374
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 3: That's just me though, And I feel that way with

1375
01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:21,000
Speaker 3: my own relationships, Like I don't necessarily want my and

1376
01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 3: I don't even consider myself to be like a jealous

1377
01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 3: person person or a person who be like monitoring who

1378
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:29,360
Speaker 3: my exes, I mean, not my exes, who my boyfriend

1379
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 3: hang around and stuff like that, Like you could really

1380
01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:35,560
Speaker 3: have your own life and it's fine. But I would

1381
01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 3: be curious if he wanted to still be friends with

1382
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:40,480
Speaker 3: an ex, cause why I don't care about him having

1383
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 3: female friends, but an ex though, Why you want to

1384
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:45,960
Speaker 3: still be friends with somebody that you used to be

1385
01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 3: in a relationship with, that you used to being intimate.

1386
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:50,920
Speaker 3: We I just it's a little disrespectful in my opinions

1387
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:52,560
Speaker 3: to yr new relationship.

1388
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 2: Maybe she allows baby talk in the bedroom.

1389
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 4: Maybe she do Maybe she liked that Google gut guy

1390
01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 4: think ty mmm.

1391
01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 3: I think I agree. If it's a stressful situation, definitely

1392
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 3: cut it off. I do have some exes that are

1393
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:12,919
Speaker 3: still friends, but we cool. We not like besties. Yeah,

1394
01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 3: like if you hit me up in town, cool, we

1395
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:17,800
Speaker 3: can go grab lunch like they married or whatever. But

1396
01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 3: I do we gotta find her line, the fine line

1397
01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 3: current relationship you and if he get out of.

1398
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:25,560
Speaker 4: Pocket, all right, I'm shutting it down immediately.

1399
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 3: But if you are in a situation and it's hurting

1400
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:31,120
Speaker 3: you every time you see this person, Like my best

1401
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 3: friend just broke up with her boyfriend and they live.

1402
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 3: She moved out, but she living in the same neighborhood,

1403
01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 3: so they be running into each other. So even if

1404
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:40,960
Speaker 3: she go to therapy this day and she feeling good

1405
01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:43,840
Speaker 3: and she run into him, that take her five steps back.

1406
01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 3: So it's like sometimes you just gotta cut it off

1407
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 3: and just grow and like heal on your own separately,

1408
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:49,840
Speaker 3: you know.

1409
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:53,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think people will get comfortable with people too.

1410
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 1: It's like a safe You think it's a safe space

1411
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:58,680
Speaker 1: because you've known this for so long, so you feel like, well,

1412
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: I don't know what my life looks like about you,

1413
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 1: whether it's platonic or romantic. You don't want to let

1414
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 1: that go, but it's like it'd be time, yeah, be

1415
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 1: trying to hold onto that a little bit of a

1416
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:09,200
Speaker 1: little bit of something.

1417
01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean, and I do agree with ty.

1418
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 3: I guess I never really thought about it like that.

1419
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 4: A little lunch or something here and there. I mean,

1420
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:19,160
Speaker 4: I guess that ain't really a problem.

1421
01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 3: But like if you talking to them on the phone,

1422
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:23,600
Speaker 3: like y'all be on the phone, chopping it up on

1423
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 3: the phone for like an hour, you always texting them,

1424
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 3: y'all got group checks, and she like, what the hell

1425
01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 3: y'all talking about all the time. But like a little

1426
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:32,760
Speaker 3: lunch here and there ain't nothing wrong with you, especially

1427
01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 3: if you're bringing the other person into the situation as well,

1428
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 3: you know, like, oh yeah, my ex in town, we

1429
01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 3: all all have lunch, you want to come exactly? Well

1430
01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 3: or well, I mean even if they don't want to come,

1431
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 3: but just still letting them know, like yes, yeah, yeah, yeah.

1432
01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: And Also I feel like if it was a situation

1433
01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:56,760
Speaker 1: like if you care that much and you didn't state that,

1434
01:03:56,920 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 1: but like have they met each other? Maybe that'll make

1435
01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 1: her feel better if she met the ex, you know

1436
01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:03,200
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I think a lot of things

1437
01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 1: can happen. But is there a reason they haven't met?

1438
01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:11,720
Speaker 1: If they haven't met, you know, so if the friendship

1439
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: is that important to you, just like the relationship, maybe

1440
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:15,479
Speaker 1: they just need to be around each other a little bit.

1441
01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 2: More, you know. Yeah, I don't know.

1442
01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:22,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Hey, poor mind's I need y'all's opinion.

1443
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 1: My ex had a girl's trip planned to Miami for

1444
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:28,800
Speaker 1: her friend's birthday. I was originally supposed to go too,

1445
01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 1: but then her friend made a comment like you don't

1446
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 1: want to see us in Miami alone, and it just

1447
01:04:33,800 --> 01:04:36,560
Speaker 1: rubbed me the wrong way. On top of that, this

1448
01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 1: friend has said things before about how she misses dick,

1449
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:43,280
Speaker 1: and she comes before my relationship, so I was already

1450
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:46,400
Speaker 1: feeling a little uneasy. I expressed all of this to

1451
01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:49,280
Speaker 1: my girlfriend and told her it made me feel uncomfortable

1452
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 1: and insecure. I even said that if she still chose

1453
01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:55,120
Speaker 1: to go, I'd probably want to break up. After she

1454
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:58,080
Speaker 1: told her friend how I felt. Somehow it turned into

1455
01:04:58,200 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 1: me not being invited on the trip. In more so,

1456
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 1: now I'm stuck wondering was I wrong for feeling like

1457
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:06,120
Speaker 1: that and setting that boundary or did I overreact? And

1458
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 1: based on everything, do you think this is something worth

1459
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 1: revisiting or is it a sign I should just leave

1460
01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 1: it alone. Well, you said she's her ex, so that

1461
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 1: kind of confused me. But also, this is one thing

1462
01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:22,240
Speaker 1: that I have learned to realize in my adult years.

1463
01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 1: If somebody tells you how they feel, you can think

1464
01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 1: it's silly, you can think it's not a big deal,

1465
01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 1: but you still need to acknowledge their feelings because they feel.

1466
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 2: Some type of way.

1467
01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:36,960
Speaker 1: So the fact that you expressed your emotions and how

1468
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,680
Speaker 1: you felt and they tried to uninvite you and make

1469
01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 1: you feel less than that lets you know how they

1470
01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 1: feel about you. I've never had somebody close to me

1471
01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:45,280
Speaker 1: express how they felt about me, and I was.

1472
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:47,560
Speaker 2: Just like, girl, you tripping, I don't give a fuck.

1473
01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:51,280
Speaker 1: Well, probably in my younger years, but now so I

1474
01:05:51,320 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 1: think that tells you all you need to know about

1475
01:05:53,360 --> 01:05:54,840
Speaker 1: the girl and her friend.

1476
01:05:56,400 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 2: Fucked them.

1477
01:05:59,480 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1478
01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 3: I don't really have much to say about that because

1479
01:06:02,560 --> 01:06:03,720
Speaker 3: I do feel like fuck them too.

1480
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:07,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, talking about you missed dick, but you'll go get

1481
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 2: something back.

1482
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:10,240
Speaker 3: But you know, the older we get, I'll be trying

1483
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:14,920
Speaker 3: to give more, you know, elaborate answers to say fuck them.

1484
01:06:15,160 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 4: Yeah. I used to just be like, girl, fuck them house. Yeah,

1485
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:19,400
Speaker 4: but no fucking them for real.

1486
01:06:19,600 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1487
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:22,680
Speaker 1: It's a little weird, just not to acknowledge my feeling

1488
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:25,960
Speaker 1: like you're not acknowledging how I feel at all. If

1489
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:27,840
Speaker 1: I tell somebody how I feel, they brush me off.

1490
01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:30,200
Speaker 1: You ain't never got to worry about me opening up

1491
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: to you ever again. And yes, it's that serious. I

1492
01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 1: just that's how I am. So I think a lot

1493
01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:38,400
Speaker 1: of people need to evaluate their friendships, relationships. If somebody

1494
01:06:38,480 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 1: opens up to you and you shut them down and

1495
01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:42,760
Speaker 1: you make them feel like whatever, you a bitch?

1496
01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:45,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, point period.

1497
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:46,440
Speaker 4: I agree.

1498
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:48,440
Speaker 3: That's why people don't be wanting to open up to

1499
01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:52,480
Speaker 3: people period in the first place, because yeah, you be

1500
01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:55,000
Speaker 3: thinking you friends with people that they care about you,

1501
01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:57,800
Speaker 3: but then people will show you that they don't, and

1502
01:06:57,920 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 3: I think that's a clear sign really care.

1503
01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:02,960
Speaker 2: Agreed, Yeah what you think?

1504
01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:03,160
Speaker 7: Tal?

1505
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 2: I agree? Yeah heartily.

1506
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:07,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, fuck fucking people, girl.

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Speaker 3: but the her like customer service was just so good

1535
01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:32,599
Speaker 3: that I felt like I needed to shout her out.

1536
01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 3: It's called Shaku craft Underscore Crafts on Instagram is c Chaku.

1537
01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:40,400
Speaker 3: So many people were in the comments asking me about

1538
01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:44,080
Speaker 3: my birthday dress that I wore in Cabo, and that's

1539
01:08:44,120 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 3: where I got it from. And I had some issues

1540
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:47,760
Speaker 3: with another dress that I was trying to order from

1541
01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:50,160
Speaker 3: another company and the dress was similar to the one

1542
01:08:50,160 --> 01:08:53,320
Speaker 3: that I ended up getting, and the other company, their

1543
01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:56,280
Speaker 3: customer service was just trash. As fuck if I'm being honies.

1544
01:08:56,760 --> 01:09:00,360
Speaker 3: But I ended up hitting up this woman. I found

1545
01:09:00,439 --> 01:09:04,600
Speaker 3: her on itsy, but I DMed her on Instagram. We

1546
01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:07,439
Speaker 3: were communicating. She I paid for the Driss. She sent

1547
01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:09,599
Speaker 3: it out the next day. She told me she could

1548
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:11,360
Speaker 3: get it here in two three days, which was like

1549
01:09:11,880 --> 01:09:13,479
Speaker 3: we were in the Nika time because I had to

1550
01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:15,280
Speaker 3: go on my trip and I was just nervous that

1551
01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:17,640
Speaker 3: it wasn't gonna get here. She weigh in Turkey, but

1552
01:09:17,760 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 3: the Driss got here. But the dress got here in

1553
01:09:20,720 --> 01:09:23,679
Speaker 3: like two three days and it's just so beautiful.

1554
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:26,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, that was so.

1555
01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:33,240
Speaker 1: The Skims draws for Yeah, I was driving. I was

1556
01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 1: trying to make it to them all to get them

1557
01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:35,280
Speaker 1: damn pennies.

1558
01:09:35,600 --> 01:09:37,599
Speaker 2: Yes, y'all, that was the one.

1559
01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:40,120
Speaker 4: And shout out to Legs because she got me some

1560
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:42,559
Speaker 4: pennies at the last time. A friend that.

1561
01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 1: I had to go all the way to lit y'all

1562
01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 1: know that meme of Santana when he and the car

1563
01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 1: drive and that was.

1564
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:51,720
Speaker 4: Mess because I wasn't gonna make it and I had

1565
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:52,240
Speaker 4: to leave.

1566
01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:54,760
Speaker 3: My birthday dinner was that night and then I had

1567
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 3: to leave the next morning to go to Cabo, and

1568
01:09:56,560 --> 01:09:58,240
Speaker 3: I was not gonna make it to the mall to

1569
01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:00,519
Speaker 3: get those pennies from Skims and let when he got

1570
01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:03,720
Speaker 3: them for me. But yeah, shout out to Licks and

1571
01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:07,960
Speaker 3: shout out draw. I told you, but the dress ended

1572
01:10:08,040 --> 01:10:10,720
Speaker 3: up being South beautiful and South nice and everything I

1573
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 3: wanted it to be. And yeah, shout out to her

1574
01:10:13,120 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 3: because again customer service ten out of teen.

1575
01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 4: I will order from her again. And yeah, I'm gonna

1576
01:10:19,120 --> 01:10:20,920
Speaker 4: get me one. You know, I want my little Mexico

1577
01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:22,960
Speaker 4: trip maw. She got a lot of different ones too.

1578
01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:25,559
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, shout out to her.

1579
01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:28,840
Speaker 1: All right, and poor crew, we'll see y'all on tour

1580
01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:31,879
Speaker 1: this summer, or we'll see y'all next week, by y'all.

1581
01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:32,639
Speaker 4: By y'all.

1582
01:10:37,439 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 5: Here here, Oh.

1583
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 10: Heavy God, all of me right the spuck.

1584
01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:07,360
Speaker 4: You can have.

1585
01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 3: Me thing, God, work my fingers all the way to

1586
01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:16,080
Speaker 3: up bone.

1587
01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:21,920
Speaker 5: Die die.

1588
01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 4: Now, baby.

1589
01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:31,200
Speaker 3: I don't want to be fictitious saying I can get

1590
01:11:31,240 --> 01:11:31,719
Speaker 3: you when.

1591
01:11:31,640 --> 01:11:37,800
Speaker 4: Anything is ridiculous. But anything you ask, if it's in

1592
01:11:38,080 --> 01:11:43,160
Speaker 4: my grass, it's your Oh yeah.

1593
01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:48,439
Speaker 3: Now, I don't got fancy cards or diamond rais. Lord

1594
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:51,679
Speaker 3: knows I will if I make you with this singing thing.

1595
01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:59,479
Speaker 3: Hold down, have facing me because anything I have is

1596
01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:00,760
Speaker 3: your husband.

1597
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:04,519
Speaker 2: You can have behing.

1598
01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:11,639
Speaker 9: I've got all of me right on us by die

1599
01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:21,040
Speaker 9: die you can have navy.

1600
01:12:22,560 --> 01:12:28,679
Speaker 2: Thing O work my fingers all the way to the bone.

1601
01:12:29,520 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 7: Die die.

1602
01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:41,400
Speaker 3: M hm, girl, I know you want to roll Alexis

1603
01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:48,080
Speaker 3: Alexis with the mission down in Texas or like an

1604
01:12:48,160 --> 01:12:52,840
Speaker 3: apartment cell you little it's free paid. But baby, it's

1605
01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:59,680
Speaker 3: all okay. I can't do other things I want to do,

1606
01:13:00,720 --> 01:13:04,160
Speaker 3: but I could love you and I could stay true.

1607
01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:09,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll give you my least dime fits all my time.

1608
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:14,920
Speaker 4: It's shuts whatever is my hand. And if you can live.

1609
01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:23,000
Speaker 10: Thing, I'm gone, hall of mere. I head home a spot,

1610
01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:28,840
Speaker 10: not die.

1611
01:13:31,880 --> 01:13:33,040
Speaker 2: You can have me.

1612
01:13:35,240 --> 01:13:41,280
Speaker 4: Thing work my fingers all the way to the bone.

1613
01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:50,240
Speaker 9: Nom die die hurry here.

1614
01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:58,839
Speaker 2: Well no I don't. You can have up high.

1615
01:14:01,600 --> 01:14:06,519
Speaker 4: Hold on to me, say say I can't handle you

1616
01:14:07,080 --> 01:14:13,719
Speaker 4: leaving me. Just dream dream dream of Jocky Johny.

1617
01:14:15,640 --> 01:14:20,360
Speaker 3: Just give you piece of my please, just believe everything

1618
01:14:20,560 --> 01:14:24,600
Speaker 3: and anything all of me, baby, special.

1619
01:14:29,760 --> 01:14:29,960
Speaker 5: Thing.

1620
01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:35,679
Speaker 4: I've God hold of me right on the spot.

1621
01:14:37,360 --> 01:14:41,760
Speaker 10: And the die.

1622
01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:55,880
Speaker 5: You can hear here, you can hear her, Oh, drunk.

1623
01:14:55,720 --> 01:15:10,160
Speaker 7: Uncle bing.

1624
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:11,120
Speaker 3: Is a

1625
01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:14,880
Speaker 7: Thing a