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Speaker 1: Thank you for it.

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Speaker 2: Listening to us on your radio or streaming at the

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Speaker 2: Ihet radio app. I saw a TV commercial for the

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Speaker 2: iHeart radio app. I was watching TV and there it

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Speaker 2: was actually there. We were yeah, so whoa, hey, that's fun.

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Speaker 2: Whoa You ever see yourself on TV and you don't

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: No, oh well I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: It's like I remember when I was a fourteen year

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Speaker 2: old boy in Atlanta and I went to six Flags

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Speaker 2: and it was like summer break and the Channel five

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Speaker 2: interviewed by the news and I went home and it

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Speaker 2: came on and it was like, oh my gosh, that

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Speaker 2: was it, you know, that was it?

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Speaker 1: Well that was the start.

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Speaker 4: Was that their first time on TV?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Wow, look at you now? Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm on less TV now. But yeah, but thank

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Speaker 2: you iHeart for that commercial. That was really nice. All right,

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Speaker 2: let's get to Brian. So Brian is going through it

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Speaker 2: needs a little advice. Brian, good morning, how are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing fantastic. I'm doing fantastic.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, we are here to help you.

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Speaker 2: Now, we've all been in situations of dating and confusion,

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Speaker 2: and that's kind of where we are here, and that's

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Speaker 2: what it sounds like the situation is with you. So, Brian,

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Speaker 2: you are in Wittier, you reach out to us, and

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Speaker 2: what you tell me is that you went and you

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Speaker 2: met this girl on bumble and then you went on

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Speaker 2: a first date.

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Speaker 1: Right, what'd y'all do for your first day?

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Speaker 3: For our first dance? I went, we went to dinner

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Speaker 3: and while we were waiting for dinner, we were just

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Speaker 3: having a good time and uh, and then afterwards we

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Speaker 3: went back to my place to make candy grapes.

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Speaker 1: Candy grapes, grapes.

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Speaker 3: Candy grapes. While we were at dinner, we're looking at

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Speaker 3: TikTok videos and we were like, you know, just sharing

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Speaker 3: TikTok videos and we saw candy grapes and it's basically

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Speaker 3: where you take grapes and you get jolly ranchers in

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Speaker 3: nerds and he melt down the jolly ranchers and he

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Speaker 3: dip the grapes in there, and then you dip them

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Speaker 3: in the nerds. Uh. They're they're really delicious, really sweet,

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Speaker 3: but they're really delicious.

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Speaker 1: I mean it sounds fun.

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Speaker 2: I just went, like looking at tiktoks while you're on

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Speaker 2: the first date, I guess, but the activity of that

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Speaker 1: So then what happened?

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Speaker 2: You come back to your place, you make your candy grapes,

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Speaker 2: and then what yeah?

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I was getting vibes the whole night. We

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Speaker 3: make the candy grapes, and then while we're doing that,

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Speaker 3: more vibes, and then we end up kissing. And then

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Speaker 3: I could see she kind of like was debating on

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Speaker 1: And wait, wait, wait, wait wait debate did what was

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Speaker 4: Like, I mean, it's the first date?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah it was. It wasn't verbalized, but you can

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Speaker 3: kind of see it in her face. She's kind of like,

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Speaker 1: H now do you so?

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Speaker 2: And everything seemed to be going playfully with the candy

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Speaker 3: Oh, the whole night was seemed like picture perfect. It was.

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Speaker 1: It was why did she just I like you?

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Speaker 2: I know you, I've known you for two minutes and

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Speaker 2: Like I want to spend more time with you.

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Speaker 4: Was there any other conversations that were had that night

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Speaker 4: that maybe, like, did you guys bring up politics? Did

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Speaker 3: No, the whole night was fun. Even in the restaurant.

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Speaker 3: We were laughing and like she was getting like touchy

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Speaker 3: philly like when she would laughed, she grabbed my arm.

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Speaker 1: Till what what went? I don't right? Do me a favorite?

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Speaker 2: Stay there. Her name is Callie. We have her number.

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Speaker 2: I think she's agreed to come on. So let's get

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Speaker 2: to that next. Brian stand by, Okay, I don't get it. Well,

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Speaker 2: that sounds totally perfect.

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Speaker 1: What could it be? On air on Air with Ryan Seacrets.

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Speaker 4: On Air with Ryan Seacret.

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Speaker 2: We had Callie on the phone, so Brian and she bailed,

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Speaker 2: but I think she spoke to Ruby. So let me

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Speaker 2: just say this. Brian meets this woman Callie on Bumble

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Speaker 2: they hang out, they watch TikTok videos and they decide

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Speaker 2: and then Brian tells us she was thinking about staying

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Speaker 2: weird conversation, nothing went wrong. It was all like playful

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Speaker 2: of mind, like why why, Like why don't even tell me?

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Speaker 2: So then, Brian and you need to know this. She

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Speaker 2: agreed to come on the air with us CALLI and

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Speaker 2: as we were playing that song, she hung up, but

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Speaker 2: she did tell Ruby what happened. Ruby works in our

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Speaker 2: back room here. So, Brian, do you want to know?

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I have to The night went perfectly,

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Speaker 3: I thought, I don't know what could have went wrong?

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Speaker 2: Now Ruby, yes, Hi, So what's going on in the

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Speaker 2: back room? Who's back there with you?

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Speaker 5: We got Mikaylak So let's hear Colett's laugh.

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Speaker 2: It is my favorite laugh. That's signature, So Brian Ruby knows.

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Speaker 2: Now we have no idea why didn't she just didn't

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Speaker 1: Ruby, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 5: Think she kind of got cold feet. But she did

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Speaker 5: give me a clue. She said that Brian ordered an

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Speaker 5: uber pool for her at the end of the night.

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Speaker 5: M hm, So I think that was kind of the issue.

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Speaker 1: Oh so she shared the car with people.

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Speaker 5: Uh to go home from his house, right, Brian, did

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Speaker 5: you get a pool uber pool?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, that's my that's my default.

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Speaker 2: Usually, what's the issue that you don't want to be

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Speaker 4: I mean definitely not at the end of the night.

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Speaker 4: I mean definitely not every Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know I've ordered it on accident before and

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Speaker 2: then people came in a car and.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, you guys, well, also, it's like it takes

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Speaker 2: So did you think maybe you just spent a little

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Speaker 2: extra on the date and say, hey, here's you by yourself,

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Speaker 2: not with a group of people in a carpool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't even I didn't even think about it.

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Speaker 3: That's my default. When I used I.

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Speaker 1: Mean it really or you didn't think about it. You

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Speaker 1: use it all the time.

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Speaker 3: No, I didn't think about it at all.

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Speaker 1: To bail on, Brian, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: It seems I maybe would bail really, it.

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Speaker 5: Seems, especially because they make you walk sometimes a few blocks.

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Speaker 5: So if it's like late at.

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Speaker 3: Night and I just don't, I don't see.

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Speaker 2: That's the thing, Like Brian doesn't even get to share

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Speaker 2: that it was an honest mistake.

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Speaker 1: And I like Brian. I like you.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes first impressions, you know, yeah, you gotta think.

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Speaker 2: I guess it is a lesson in thinking through your detail.

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Speaker 2: Don't let anything slip through the cracks, especially when you're

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Speaker 2: trying to make those first impressions. You've gotta like Brian,

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Speaker 2: I love logistics. In another life, I'm going to be

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Speaker 2: a logistics manager because I love planning and timing and

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Speaker 2: like thinking about how it's all going to map out,

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Speaker 2: Like it's part of what I love.

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Speaker 1: To make myself crazy and the people around me crazy

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Speaker 1: about it, but I love it.

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Speaker 2: So maybe you just need to like obsess a little

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Speaker 2: bit more on the detail of planning, especially coming out

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Speaker 2: of the gate, bro, because I like you, like you

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Speaker 2: seem like a good dude.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just a little attention to detail. It's like

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Speaker 4: it's late at night, you should have thought about. I

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Speaker 4: don't want to send her home in an uber pool.

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Speaker 4: I want to make sure she's comfortable.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Ah, man, so this is because I actually put

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Speaker 3: her in an uberpool. Man, it's just that such a bummer.

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Speaker 3: I really liked her.

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Speaker 2: Well, maybe she'll hear about this. Ruby does have her number,

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Speaker 2: So if you want a message to go through Ruby

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Speaker 2: to CALLI say it now or text.

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Speaker 4: Text her Brian like it's it's still not over. Hit

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Speaker 4: her up, say you're so sorry. Make it up to her.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I just I just don't know she's gonna

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Speaker 3: read it and not respond to that.

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Speaker 1: Who cares? Yeah, there's nothing to lose.

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Speaker 2: Your shot. Yeah, shoot your shot, Brian. Thank you so

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Speaker 2: much for reaching out to us in good luck.

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Speaker 3: All right, thank you?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: See you man. Yeah, I agree with this, Sisneat. Go

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Speaker 2: for it, you know, honest mistake.

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Speaker 1: Go for it.