1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,639 Speaker 1: We talked to my father over the weekend. For now, 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:05,399 Speaker 1: he's staying at my mother's house. It is a complicated 3 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:09,040 Speaker 1: situation since in the middle of everything is my half 4 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: sibling too, the toddler. Remember remember during the weekend, I 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: went to my father's house and the first thing I 6 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: did was tell my stepmom separately that I've seen her 7 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: Reddit account and I'm going to talk about it with 8 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 1: my dad. 9 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 2: Let's go got him. 10 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 1: She told me that I can't condemn her for something 11 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: she uses as an intimate diary. 12 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 2: But I told her that it's not a diary. 13 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,880 Speaker 1: It's a social network where she makes her problems in 14 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: lives public. 15 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 3: That's actually what I refer to oki storytime as it's 16 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 3: my intimate diary, diary between me and one million people. 17 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, it do be feeling like that if I tell. 18 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 3: You something you can't tell anybody. 19 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:46,480 Speaker 1: It's just in our million people friend group. 20 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 2: That is low key what it feels like. 21 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 1: So if someone other than me discovered her account, then 22 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: what was going to happen? Were they going to believe 23 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: all the things she invented? If her identity was revealed 24 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: on that account by someone else, I would have too 25 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,279 Speaker 1: many problems and could have even been kicked out of 26 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: the academy. Whoa hope he losing your job for stepmom's craziness. Again, 27 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: there's a big difference between saying I'm stressed and my 28 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: stepdaughter behaves like salutes around their father. 29 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 3: Funny if the stepmom was like, no, no, no, I'm 30 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 3: just doing kind of like a flash fiction challenge. This 31 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 3: is all just part of my writing practice. I'm doing 32 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 3: the Artist's Way writing challenge. 33 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 4: No. 34 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: I simply told her that my mother and sister also 35 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 1: know and would come to talk about it too. She, 36 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: for obvious reasons, we just went to lock herself in 37 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: her room, not wanting to talk to me. Is it 38 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 1: obvious that she would do that, I guess because she's 39 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: a maniac. Once we talked to my father, I showed 40 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: him most of the posts and comments. There were so many, 41 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: so many crazy comments that I think it would take 42 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 1: me too long to read them all because they were 43 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: just so long. She's the kind of person who comments 44 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: the biography of their lives in the posts of other people. 45 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 2: So my father got angry. 46 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: My step mother never expressed having a single problem with 47 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: us like that. The situation would be different if we 48 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: knew what she thinks about us. My father went to 49 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 1: look for stepmom, who refused to talk about it and 50 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: was mostly angry with me violating her privacy. My I 51 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 1: remind you yet again, violating her privacy on a public 52 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 1: social network of which any human anywhere could publicly access it. 53 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 2: Don't even don't even need an account. 54 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, if someone posts on your if someone like comments 55 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 3: on your Instagram post, you can't be like, how dare you? 56 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 5: Dare you do? That? 57 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 3: Was dying? 58 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 6: Oh? 59 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 3: Private photo? 60 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: Come on. 61 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:39,079 Speaker 1: My father told her that she's insane for thinking that 62 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:42,799 Speaker 1: my sister and I spicily provoked him that he can't 63 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 1: believe the way she talks about my sister and the 64 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 1: happiness she expresses every time my sister goes to the 65 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: hospital and is not home every time, the happiness she 66 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: expresses every time she goes to the hospital. My god, 67 00:02:56,000 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: but brother sister mother her, what are you talking about? 68 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 1: How she expresses to be counting the days until my 69 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: siblings stopped coming back to the house forever. My father 70 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,799 Speaker 1: told her that she knew he is a father and 71 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: that he would never leave us aside. She made her decision, 72 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: and even so, instead of talking about her problems, she 73 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 1: decided to create an account to play. 74 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:21,559 Speaker 2: At being a victim. 75 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: A victim, she said she needs a place to vent, 76 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 1: but he told her that venting is not the same 77 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 1: as telling lies. Venting is not the same as hating 78 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: your stepdaughters and saying horrible things about them, and she 79 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: could have spoken about it and not just lied. They 80 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: argued a lot, but it didn't get anywhere because she 81 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: just kept defending herself and my father only told her 82 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: that it was over. 83 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 2: There. We go Bye bye, said mommy, bye bye. No 84 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 2: more watching machines through. 85 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: My mother told my father that she is going to 86 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: let my sister and brother be around a woman who 87 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 1: is clearly mentally unstable, because no normal person things like that. 88 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 2: Agreed. 89 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: After arguing too much and even trying to make a 90 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: stepmother understand what she did is wrong, she just justified 91 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 1: herself every single time. My father went with us and 92 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: told her that he is going to come back just 93 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: to see my brother every day, but that he no 94 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: longer trusts her and never saw that side of her. 95 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: She lied for so many years. Hopefully he sues for custody. 96 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 1: We're going to see in these upcoming updates. Not really 97 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: went didn't really go as I expected. I think at 98 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 1: least she hoped she could apologize, but I think she 99 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 1: doesn't even think that she was in the wrong. In 100 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: her mind, everything was totally justified because b. 101 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 3: Biggest stepmom is difficult. 102 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 7: It's hard, guys, and I need to be able to 103 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 7: I need to be able to vent all my feelings 104 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 7: by suck you suck. 105 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 2: You suck. 106 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: But nothing justifies her being so cruel and poisonous. But yeah, 107 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: that's what happened. I think it's her fault to know 108 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: someone can hide that much darkness inside themselves. I wasn't 109 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: close with her, but I liked her to the point 110 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: of sharing my clothes and things with her. So I 111 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 1: also feel sad about it, mostly for my dad. Okay, 112 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 1: here we go. There is an ending bit in Spanish, 113 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: and thankfully it's translated. But you know what, I'm gonna 114 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 1: for fun, I'm gonna read it in Spanish anyways, and 115 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: then we're gonna get to the way I'm gonna try it. 116 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 6: I'll get you Migusierra Simplemente de serraqel alesta, the Demente 117 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 6: perro Keeroke so Dierre Espasio just the ficarsu companimento and 118 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 6: a simplentea detO. 119 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 3: Can I read it now? 120 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 2: Go go ahead? 121 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 8: No, it was Johnstern and you're just trying to impress people, 122 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 8: and you're very smart and you're awesome and we know 123 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 8: so we got to. 124 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 2: Read the translation. 125 00:05:58,720 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 3: I don't want to read the list. 126 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: I would like to just say that she is insane, 127 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 1: but I think that would give her room to justify 128 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: her behavior. She is simply a two headed viper. 129 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 2: Ooh, I like that, and we got some relevant comments. 130 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 1: Not so religious now says is her account still up 131 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: or did she delete everything? She's absolutely insane and a 132 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: narcissist if she can't see what she did was wrong. 133 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: I hope it all works out for you, guys. Stay strong, OPI. 134 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: The last time I looked it was still there. I 135 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: have her email passwords saved on my computer, so if 136 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: she doesn't delete it, I'll tell my sister to do 137 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: it for me. Some people told me that they have 138 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 1: recognized some of her comments, so yes or yes, I 139 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: will delete the account if she doesn't. Uh, don't kill 140 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 1: the messenger. One says, wow, just wow, you think you 141 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: know someone? Then one second, Bet, I'm so sorry for 142 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: you and your family that are dealing with this. The 143 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 1: stepmother is off for Rocker. Does she need constant attention 144 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 1: and approval? She needs therapy, and most likely the whole 145 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: family does, because this is a traumatic event and in 146 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 1: major trust issues are now forming. 147 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 2: Stay well and stay strong. 148 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 9: Ope. 149 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:07,919 Speaker 3: Honestly, I feel like therapy would really help her because 150 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 3: then she gets someone who just gets has to listen 151 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 3: to her all day long. 152 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: Right, she gets real life comments. 153 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 154 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 4: You know. 155 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 8: Another thing that I have is do you think this 156 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 8: is like her alter ego? Because some people in her 157 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 8: alter ego once they are online commenting and like trolling 158 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 8: and stuff like that. 159 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 1: So she's like she's like taking from her real life. 160 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: But she almost has this like knowingly fake persona and I. 161 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 3: Mean that we're true. Then she would have said that 162 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 3: but this is not yeah that this is like oh 163 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,559 Speaker 3: this is fictionalized. Nothing on internet is real, blah blah blah. 164 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 3: But it was like, no, this is how I feel. 165 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like she's like I feel like she 166 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: wants the comments to feel as real as possible because 167 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 1: she also knows she's lying, so it's like, Okay, this 168 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: is this is me, this is what's actually happening. 169 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 8: To me. 170 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 1: Therefore the comments of support feel more real to her. 171 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 2: Through it all, I would guess. But with this that mom, 172 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 2: anything's possible. 173 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 1: I am puting nothing pasta But guys, we have yet 174 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: another update. Ladies and gentlemen. I think I think this 175 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: is about a month later. A month later, yeah, one 176 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: month later. 177 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 9: Here. 178 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: Hello, it's been a little while and I honestly forgot 179 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: to make an update. Not many things have happened, but 180 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: I just want to update for people who were worried. 181 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: My younger brother has been visiting us. Our father still 182 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 1: lives at my mother's house. Luckily, my step mom lets 183 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 1: my dad bring him home some days of the week 184 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: and on weekends. I deleted her account weeks ago. It's gone, 185 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,959 Speaker 1: and she didn't tell me anything about it or if 186 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: she saw any tiktoks or post about it. Maybe she's 187 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: now afraid to use Reddit or something like that, which 188 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: is like kind of amazing. 189 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 2: Like the way that she would like vent and lies 190 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 2: is kind of gone, which is awesome. You look so 191 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 2: satisfied right now, there we go. 192 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: I only deleted the post, but there were too many 193 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: comments and I honestly didn't want to waste my time 194 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: deleting them one by one. I'm not sure if comments 195 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:03,440 Speaker 1: are automatically deleted with the account as well. 196 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 8: Does it it just says like deleted and then the 197 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 8: moderators usually delete comments. 198 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 3: If it post is deleted, it'll say deleted, but the comments. 199 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 2: Say the comments and possy. 200 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not going to talk too much about her 201 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: in my father's relationship, but she continues to deny that 202 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: she did anything wrong and has a very misogynistic way 203 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 1: of thinking about women and apparently does not intend to 204 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 1: change her way of thinking. It's too crazy, how now 205 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 1: we know her dark side. At the same time, she's 206 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: still her with my little brother and even my father. 207 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: So this kind of like more better loving, Like it 208 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: seems that before OPI didn't fully understand. She's like, oh, 209 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: I didn't even realize that she didn't want to learn 210 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: sign languages and was like dismissing, you know, the the 211 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: little sister that that uses a sign language and whatnot. 212 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 2: Manipulate, manipulative. 213 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: My father is separated from her for now, but because 214 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 1: he doesn't have the money to pay for the divorce, 215 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: she said if they don't come back. 216 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 2: Together, she will not let me enter her house. 217 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: After what I did so my father just to stop 218 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: trying with her after what OPI did. 219 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 2: How about we talk about what you did? 220 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 1: And Opie literally did nothing, literally did nothing but share 221 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 1: what you said. 222 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, like you, you said it. You can't get mad 223 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 3: at people for repeating what you said. Like, if you 224 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 3: can't stand by what you said, then you shouldn't have said. 225 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 1: It's literally the same as like you, this is almost 226 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: exactly what it is, but you write down stuff that 227 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 1: you say about everyone. Opie takes a piece of paper, 228 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: walks over, get hands up. Yeah, that's literally what Opie did. 229 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:30,439 Speaker 2: It's kind of like. 230 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 3: You wrote down all of these nasty things and then 231 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 3: you posted it like a lost dog sign, and then 232 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 3: you're like, what that was private? 233 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 10: Yeah? 234 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,679 Speaker 1: Hey, I wanted people to take the little tabbies so 235 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 1: they could call the number for the lost dog. 236 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 3: You did the Martin Luther thing where he posts the 237 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 3: ninety nine. 238 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 11: I don't know ninety five thesis, ninety five thesis to 239 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 11: become a Lutheran church. 240 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: Hm, I have one percent memory of what that is. Heck, yeah, 241 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: I have no idea what legal arrangement they have on 242 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 1: the house or what will happen when they divorce. But 243 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,680 Speaker 1: I guess my father is going to leave the house 244 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 1: to her. Ooh that that seems not fair, and he's 245 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 1: going to find another place to rent in order from 246 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:14,719 Speaker 1: my younger brother to suffer as little stress as possible. 247 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:22,679 Speaker 1: That like the line is perfectly separated in our reading, app. 248 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 3: I want the little brother doesn't suffer. 249 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:29,840 Speaker 1: As little as possible that from a separation. For a toddler, 250 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 1: moving out is a lot of anxiety. Absolutely, so it's 251 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: better for him to stay comfortable in his place, which 252 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 1: now that makes sense. He's giving her the house for 253 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 1: the benefit of his three year old son, which I 254 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: get that. 255 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 2: I get that. 256 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have any problem with that, and neither would 257 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 1: my siblings. I prefer my brother have a home and 258 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 1: suffer as little as possible from the separation. So, yes, 259 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: that's happened. I'm surprised that a month has passed. I 260 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: feel like it's been seven years. But these kinds of 261 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 1: serious processes the last months, so nothing interesting or anything 262 00:11:59,640 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: like that. 263 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 2: It's happened. For now. 264 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 1: I'm glad my little brother can be with us. And 265 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 1: we have another update from one point five months later. 266 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:09,839 Speaker 1: But Sophia, let's talk first of all, the stepmother is 267 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:11,440 Speaker 1: as cold as this room now, and do you need 268 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:11,959 Speaker 1: a blanket? 269 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:15,839 Speaker 3: No, I'm actually I've got this. It's just going to 270 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,719 Speaker 3: be in the episode now goes. I love that, and 271 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 3: they're gonna be like, what interesting outfit you have? 272 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 2: I I love that. We just have very little overall amid. 273 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 9: Yeah. 274 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, like like cloth overall overalls. 275 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 12: You know how it goes. 276 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: Oh, let's talk about a little bit before we get 277 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 1: in the next update. So making all this right decisions 278 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,599 Speaker 1: with it here? Do we have any disagreements on No? 279 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 3: I think that I'm glad that he left the step 280 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 3: mom and the stepmom is getting at it seems like 281 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,439 Speaker 3: they're trying to work out the the co parenting thing. 282 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, that seems to be going okay. It's like, hey, 283 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:52,560 Speaker 1: he's stepmom is letting him take the baby, he's giving 284 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 1: her the house, so there seems to be a budding 285 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 1: functional co parenting I think. 286 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 11: So, yeah, yeah, that's how I have to handle it. 287 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 11: I think I think everyone as well as possible, obviously, 288 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 11: everyone except for stepmom, but for. 289 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 3: The step mom, who handled everything terribly and should go 290 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 3: to the cloud. 291 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 9: Cloud quick use. 292 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 8: A lot of people suggested that Sophia read Spanish I 293 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:17,319 Speaker 8: found her a beautiful poem to read. 294 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 3: What I wanted to read. I wanted to read the one. 295 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 10: That gend okay, I bet pronuncia and la sentensia they 296 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 10: are more condeen con memorial. 297 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 9: There you go. 298 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 8: What's the English translation. 299 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 3: There are kisses that announce for themselves the sentence of 300 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:45,199 Speaker 3: condemn condemnatory love. There are kisses given with a glance. 301 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 3: There are kisses given by memory. 302 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 2: That's sweet. 303 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:48,440 Speaker 9: Thank you. 304 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 8: I like it. 305 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:49,599 Speaker 5: I like it. 306 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 1: You crushed it. You quick guys claps in the chat? 307 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 8: Why would you speak something beautiful? 308 00:13:56,200 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 9: That's great, that's great. 309 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:58,840 Speaker 2: I loved it, all right? Are you ready for this? 310 00:13:59,000 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 3: Uh? 311 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 1: Beautiful reading this disgusting? Updated so one and a half 312 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 1: months later. Hello, it's been a while since I last 313 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:10,679 Speaker 1: posted here. Op always says that, yeah. 314 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 3: You're stop like, you know what? You know what I want? 315 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 3: What for all Reddit stories? I just don't. I don't 316 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 3: want you to say. I'm so surprised that so many 317 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 3: people like this. No, oh it's been so long. No, 318 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 3: just just kid, just get do it, just get to it. Oh, 319 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 3: thank you so much. It's so nice that everyone give 320 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 3: me the word. 321 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 2: No, how about this one? 322 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: I just wanted to give one last update before leaving 323 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 1: this for a few months. No no sense things give 324 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 1: me the story sends things like divorces take a lot 325 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 1: of time long process, much more so when minors. 326 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 2: Are involved and we're not talking col h. 327 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 1: If my father and stepmother agree on everything, the divorce 328 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 1: process can be finished in three months man, but if 329 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: not can last up to a year. 330 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 2: It all depends on them. Yea, divorces are crazy. 331 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 1: This will probably be a pretty boring update, but I 332 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: want to reassure people who are worried about me and 333 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 1: my siblings. My father has the screenshots of everything, even 334 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 1: the video of me entering her Stepmom's account from her 335 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: email on my computer. I don't think it will do 336 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 1: much good during the divorce since the internet laws are 337 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 1: a grey area, but it's always better for him to 338 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 1: have that just in case. 339 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 2: Needless to say, step Mom. 340 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 3: I liked kimberly Fine somewhere in the world. Sofia just 341 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 3: got a mad pregnancy your style. 342 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 1: That's hilarious, dude, kimberly Fine with the great comments. Needs 343 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 1: to say, step Mom will be in maybe three months 344 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 1: if everything goes well. Officially, only my little brother's mother 345 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 1: and no longer my stepmother. Luckily, she lets my little 346 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 1: brother come to my mother's house and spend time with 347 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 1: my father and us as always. 348 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 2: He comes almost every day of the week. 349 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 1: By the way, we come every weekday to the live stream. 350 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 2: If you just tap her profile you can join it. 351 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 2: Segway achieved. 352 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 11: Yeah, by the way, you can come every day. 353 00:15:57,680 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 2: Listen, Sophia. 354 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 1: Sometimes the word choices aren't my strongest such. 355 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 2: Okay, come on. Anyways, back to the story. 356 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: My father is going to leave the house to her, 357 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: so the divorce will be the least stressful. 358 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 2: For my little brother. 359 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 1: At one point, my father wanted to ask her to 360 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 1: let me stay there on the weekends when I come 361 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 1: back from the academy, but I told him not to 362 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 1: do that. Honestly, I'm afraid to wake up and find 363 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: her on the end of my bed looking at me 364 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:23,440 Speaker 1: like misery. 365 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 2: Not sure what that means. 366 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to share a house with her at all. 367 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 1: I know what that means. The only and last time 368 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: I had a conversation with stepmother again, I asked her 369 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 1: if she wasn't ashamed of anything, and she totally normal. 370 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 3: You know, it's embarrassed. 371 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 2: Embarrassed. 372 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 1: I think The most person affected by this was my sister, 373 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: who feels she has suffered discrimination from our stepmother, and 374 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 1: honestly I believe her. 375 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 2: Uh me too, me too. 376 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 1: My sister has told us about some situations that she 377 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: has let go of but now realizes they were more 378 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 1: micro discriminatory behaviors against her. Although they were not things 379 00:16:58,320 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 1: like making fun of her in front of her face, 380 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 1: they were microaggressions that we often decide to ignore, but 381 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 1: they are done with malice. 382 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:07,680 Speaker 3: All the stuff against the sisters. 383 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 1: Against the sister correct a moondo. For example, my brother 384 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:15,480 Speaker 1: said that my stepmother once said that my father sons 385 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 1: celenbien del horno. 386 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 3: Good to leave. Well, celiir is to leave. 387 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:23,959 Speaker 1: I think maybe we'll get the explanation here. 388 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 2: At the time he took it, Yeah, could we actually 389 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 2: looked at it real quick, Carley, they will come out 390 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 2: well from the oven. 391 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 1: Oh little baby bacon in the metaphorical oven of pregnancy. 392 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 2: Oh, like a bun in the oven. 393 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 1: At the time he took it as a random comment 394 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,119 Speaker 1: maybe we are overthinking, but he now thinks it was 395 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 1: something with a double intention towards me and my sister, 396 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 1: like like, oh, my baby came out of the oven, 397 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 1: my oven. But these two mmm like saying that we 398 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 1: didn't come out well again. Things we like to ignore 399 00:17:58,280 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 1: and think. 400 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:01,880 Speaker 2: Nah, it's just a can't mean it that way. She's 401 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:02,719 Speaker 2: never apologized. 402 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 1: She has the kind of mentality that the husband is 403 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: only the wife's man, and the partner comes before the children, 404 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:12,919 Speaker 1: which in my opinion is bs because she's only jealous 405 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: of me and my sister. Imagine being jealous of your 406 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:16,679 Speaker 1: husband's daughters. 407 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 2: It's stupid. 408 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: Stepmother strongly believes that she didn't do anything wrong except 409 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 1: not to have written that in a secret diary. At least, 410 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:27,160 Speaker 1: she now admits that maybe in ten years she'll realize 411 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: everything else. My father, for obvious reasons, has gotten tired 412 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 1: of trying to talk to her in a mature way. 413 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:36,200 Speaker 1: So they're going to divorce, and I guess she expected 414 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 1: it because she didn't make any fuss nor anything like that. 415 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: Divorces are long and an expensive process, so for now, 416 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 1: my parents and stepmom two at least she's a good 417 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 1: mother to her own son. 418 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 2: Are focusing on not letting my young. 419 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 1: Brother feel those chaotic vibes, and my parents are taking 420 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: care to not let my sister. 421 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 2: Feel too bad. 422 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 1: Either they will go for joint custody since my father 423 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: could not take care of my little brother twenty four 424 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 1: to seven because of his work and anyways, uh, they 425 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:03,960 Speaker 1: would not give it to him since he does not 426 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 1: have a house or all the things that the court 427 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:09,439 Speaker 1: asked for. I guess to have full custody because he 428 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:11,120 Speaker 1: did give her the house that. 429 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 2: They were living in. 430 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,359 Speaker 1: I think the least affected by all of this is 431 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 1: my other brother, who is in dad. She's a bee 432 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 1: just find another girlfriend mode. But I guess that's just 433 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 1: how teenagers. 434 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 2: Just move on jim Bro. 435 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 9: Forget about her. 436 00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 3: Go to the rock climbing gym. You'll find someone else. 437 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:32,160 Speaker 2: Climb the hate away brother. 438 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 1: Anyways, there were people who found some of the posts 439 00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: or even comments, which surprised me. 440 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 9: Lol. 441 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:43,120 Speaker 1: I've also been getting harassment from people who from that 442 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,160 Speaker 1: sub I guess like the stepmom the evil Stepmom. 443 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:49,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, the evil Stepmom is center minions to right. 444 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 1: But know that I've already deleted the account. Congratulations for 445 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 1: those who found the account. 446 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:59,640 Speaker 3: Man, man, you know, some people are just wild. 447 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:03,400 Speaker 1: I think this it's it's a horrible situation. But yeah, 448 00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 1: thank god stepmom got exposed not a day later, than 449 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 1: she already was. 450 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, and also, I mean it's good that you're like, 451 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:12,879 Speaker 3: obviously bad situation, but it seems like your whole family 452 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 3: kind of stepped up and supported everyone. Stuff from your 453 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 3: dad didn't take any any bad behavior. He was like, 454 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:19,360 Speaker 3: you know what, we're gone. 455 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: We've seen We've seen many a time where the dad 456 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 1: is like, no, this is my wife and why would 457 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 1: do you know? No, there was no crazy man x 458 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:31,359 Speaker 1: except for her. But guys, if you at least love us, 459 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: make sure to subscribe. 460 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 3: We love you and Sanama. 461 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 9: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. 462 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,640 Speaker 2: Time for okop Reelam. 463 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 13: I don't care if it's Easter. I'm gonna get this 464 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 13: kid to worship Satan. And here's how I'm gonna do it. 465 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 9: Show me how you would worship Satan. 466 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 12: Suck on that Satan God's. 467 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 13: Cheating, Arianta. Also, this is my girlfriend Arianna. She's supping 468 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 13: in for John while he's out, and obviously, as you know, 469 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 13: she would suck the Devil's to worship worship. A little background, 470 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,200 Speaker 13: I twenty email, live in a big city, and yard 471 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 13: space for entertaining is a luxury. I inherited ten acres 472 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 13: of land from my grandfather, which he bought in the seventies. 473 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:14,720 Speaker 9: Isn't that nice? 474 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:17,879 Speaker 13: It's a dream location for an Easter egg hunt, and 475 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,719 Speaker 13: ninety percent of family events are held on my property. 476 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 9: Like it. 477 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 4: Okay, we'll be We'll have a farm with our commune 478 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:27,360 Speaker 4: and ten acres, ten acres and twenty children. 479 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 13: There are two houses on the property, my house that 480 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 13: I built two years ago and my grandfather's house, which 481 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,400 Speaker 13: has remained untouched since he died. I am an atheist 482 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 13: and you will not catch me in church, but I 483 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 13: have no problems celebrating religious holidays like Easter. If there's 484 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,240 Speaker 13: food involved, well duh. 485 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,160 Speaker 12: That's what holidays are for food. 486 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,880 Speaker 13: Yeah, it's not for whoever the birthday was or rising 487 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 13: from the dead. I mean, like what he just swept 488 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 13: in and all bringing us to a celebration. 489 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 9: Come on. 490 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 13: My dad and his wife are more active in church 491 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,200 Speaker 13: than most of the family. My family was getting together 492 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,199 Speaker 13: for Easter and my dad asked me as a favor 493 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 13: to let his wife invite her church friends for an 494 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 13: egg hunt after lunch, and I reluctantly agreed. This pious kid, 495 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 13: who I thought at the time was twelve or thirteen 496 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,400 Speaker 13: from his size, but I found out that he was nine, 497 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 13: asked me why I never go to church. I guess 498 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 13: it's the fat kid easter. 499 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,400 Speaker 12: Eggs what his size means. It's just a fad. 500 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 4: I feel like I don't know how old anybody is now. 501 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,840 Speaker 4: I mean, I look like I'm like fourteen and I'm 502 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 4: twenty five. 503 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 9: I would say you look twenty five. 504 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:25,560 Speaker 13: Keep in mind, I have never met this kid in 505 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 13: my life, so I can only assume he has heard 506 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,920 Speaker 13: something about me from my step moum all. I said, 507 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 13: was church was not my thing? He yesked why not? 508 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 13: I said a different point of view, and he wanted 509 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 13: to know what religion I was. I said, I do 510 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,360 Speaker 13: not belong to any religion and I consider myself an atheist. 511 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,520 Speaker 13: He asked what is that? And I said, I don't 512 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 13: believe in a higher power. From that conversation, he told 513 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:45,680 Speaker 13: me I was a devil whofferer. 514 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:46,880 Speaker 2: You're a devil worshiper. 515 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:51,679 Speaker 3: Get away from me, stay dead the devil. 516 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 9: I was like, what the right? Because he's like, why 517 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 9: are you calling me a devil? 518 00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 4: For? Yeah, I inviting you to my home and now 519 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 4: calling me a devil worshiper. 520 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 12: I'm freaking hosting this East d Egg. 521 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:04,439 Speaker 3: Hunt for you, you. 522 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:07,120 Speaker 9: Worshippers. 523 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:11,160 Speaker 13: Oh okay, but op devile's down. 524 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 9: I told him I was a devil. 525 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,200 Speaker 13: Worshiper and in the house he would see my animal 526 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:18,359 Speaker 13: sacrifices mounted to the wall. 527 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,879 Speaker 12: Dude, this guy, he's funny, but like a little. 528 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:26,360 Speaker 13: I told him everyone thinks I got those deer from 529 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:29,119 Speaker 13: hunting there sacrificing. 530 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 9: The kid lost his shit. 531 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 13: He ran screaming to his mom that I was a 532 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:40,479 Speaker 13: devil worshipper and sacrificed animals. He was crying with snot 533 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 13: running down his fat, little chubby nine year old that 534 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 13: looks like a thirteen year old space Okay, before we 535 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 13: talk about the eventual fallout from this and the stepmom, Sam, 536 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 13: you know, we talk about a lot of really hard 537 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,679 Speaker 13: situations on this podcast. 538 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 9: Oh baby, the hardest. 539 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 2: And you know, Sam, that's not the only thing that 540 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 2: we need hard in this world. 541 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 13: Fellas if you're trying to play a little game of 542 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,679 Speaker 13: Hide the zucchini and you want that zucchini to be nice, 543 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,440 Speaker 13: firm and strung, I think you're gonna want to hear 544 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 13: about our next sponsor. 545 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 1: We are working with Blue Chew Ladies and Gentlemen. 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Come on is it blue choo 562 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 13: dot com for more detail an important safety information and 563 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 13: I just want to thank blue Choo one more time 564 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,520 Speaker 13: for sponsoring this podcast and making the hard things hard 565 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:08,639 Speaker 13: and are life easy? 566 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,639 Speaker 1: Oh yes, back to the episode, did go pas an 567 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: a hole for like poisoning this? 568 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:14,880 Speaker 13: I would love to know what you guys think first, 569 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 13: but yeah, yeah, for poisoning. 570 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:17,480 Speaker 9: But in the comments, by the way. 571 00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,160 Speaker 4: Well, I mean, listen, we lie to kids about all 572 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:20,880 Speaker 4: sorts of stuff like Santa. 573 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 11: But. 574 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 9: Dude, are we gonna have kids kids about Christ? 575 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,879 Speaker 12: Would you not tell them that that you're a double worshipper? 576 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 5: I would not. 577 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 4: Would you have had like a philosophical chat with the 578 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:37,920 Speaker 4: kid about like, okay, I would. 579 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,439 Speaker 13: Have done that, but I wouldn't have doubled down and 580 00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 13: said I was a double worshipper and scared the living years. 581 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 12: Old shook around my kids. 582 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,719 Speaker 9: But he's like a scar to this kid for a lot. 583 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 9: I think it's an a hole move. 584 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 12: You think it's not just stay at that house. 585 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 13: But okay, Arianna loves to torment kids. At first, my 586 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,439 Speaker 13: dad and stepmom did not get what the kid was 587 00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 13: saying because I don't hunt. Dare mounted on the walls 588 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,959 Speaker 13: belong to my grandfather. My dad asked, why does this 589 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,959 Speaker 13: kid think you are a devil worshiper and deer. I 590 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,639 Speaker 13: told him the kid was nosy and made assumption that 591 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,399 Speaker 13: I agreed with. I got yelled at by the kid's parents. 592 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 13: They are yelling at me right in the face, and 593 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 13: I could not stop laughing. Telling me about my prosperity 594 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 13: and that I weave. I told them to go take 595 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,080 Speaker 13: their superstition off my property. If I live in hell, 596 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:24,679 Speaker 13: they get. 597 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 9: The hell out of it. 598 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:27,120 Speaker 12: Was funny, it was good. 599 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 13: See you know it's funny when she says that was funny. 600 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:33,160 Speaker 13: That was good, really funny, Sam love your ponds really 601 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 13: making me laugh. Yeah, all right, I am catching so 602 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,639 Speaker 13: much hell drama. Lama Bahama. Step mom is saying I 603 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,879 Speaker 13: have humiliated her in front of the entire. 604 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 9: Church, and she will never forget me. 605 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,120 Speaker 12: They're gonna call her Kathy Karen. 606 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,639 Speaker 9: Ooh, look at her, she's catching on. 607 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 13: I told her I don't give because I'm a Satan 608 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,640 Speaker 13: worshiper and reminded her I only tolerate her. My dad 609 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,439 Speaker 13: wrote a public apology on his Facebook on my behalf. 610 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 13: There was some backlash room of the fan and he 611 00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,880 Speaker 13: deleted it. I feel a family meeting coming on which 612 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:04,119 Speaker 13: I won't subject. 613 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:05,679 Speaker 12: Myself to intervention for this. 614 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 9: It is an intervention, bro, You're. 615 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,400 Speaker 4: Gonna try to send him to what's the thing called 616 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:11,920 Speaker 4: where you go tell the priest. 617 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 13: Like, oh, confession, Could you confess you're such a good 618 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:14,639 Speaker 13: little Catholic? 619 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:15,880 Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm a good Catholic. 620 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 13: Am I the ale for agreeing with this little brat 621 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,919 Speaker 13: about his assumptions? Guys, I want to know what you 622 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 13: think put in the comments? Well, all you're type it away, Ariana, 623 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 13: what do you think? 624 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 12: What do I think? 625 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 13: Is he the a hole? We already discussed a little bit, 626 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 13: but a definitive answer. 627 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 4: I think the little family funds. Okay, they're trying to 628 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 4: shove there. 629 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,719 Speaker 13: But because your definition of family fund, all right, let 630 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 13: me know if you agree with Arianna. 631 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 9: Also, this is my girlfriend, Arianna. Please be nice to her. 632 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,120 Speaker 13: She's summon in for John while he's gone this week, 633 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 13: and I'll see you in the next episode. 634 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 2: I was paid to do nothing for eighty nine days, 635 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,200 Speaker 2: but today is the deadline and the company found out. 636 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,520 Speaker 9: Okayop, this is Okayop. 637 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 13: I'm Samuel Daughter and I'm John Frot and we tell 638 00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 13: the bunny of stores on the internet. 639 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 2: Yeah we do. 640 00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:58,119 Speaker 9: I don't know. 641 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 1: And I'm wondering, Sam, what's like the first instance of 642 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 1: you forgetting something like, what's been the biggest downfall of 643 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:06,200 Speaker 1: you for getting something? 644 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 13: I put like a couple thousand dollars in this random 645 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 13: crypto bank thing, and I had literally like I had 646 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,479 Speaker 13: a moment last a couple of weeks ago where I 647 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:21,200 Speaker 13: was like, I have forgot my keys and I had 648 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:24,399 Speaker 13: no idea where it was. Yeah, and then I remember, 649 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:26,159 Speaker 13: oh wait, wait, I think I said one of my books. 650 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,120 Speaker 13: But I had to like go through every single book 651 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 13: to find where I had written down these keys on 652 00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 13: like a post it note, which is not the most 653 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 13: safe method, before holding all of my bank details, which 654 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 13: is basically what one of these things are. So yeah, 655 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 13: I totally almost got screwed over. But luckily I found 656 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 13: it and I was able to regain that money back. 657 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 2: That is good to hear. 658 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's kind of like the equival of like the crypto, 659 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,960 Speaker 1: stuffing the money in the mattress, right, like your key 660 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:55,960 Speaker 1: to the crypto. 661 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 2: Is like the cash. 662 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 9: Yeah. 663 00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:02,240 Speaker 13: Yeah, definitely something I shouldn't do and am going to 664 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 13: be better about going forward, hopefully. 665 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:04,680 Speaker 3: Well. 666 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 1: I have a story about someone who also made a 667 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,680 Speaker 1: grave mistake, except it wasn't just his own money, it 668 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 1: was the company that was at stake. 669 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:16,640 Speaker 13: Oh my god, those steaks are big when you're dealing 670 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 13: without fortune. Five hundred big old warm buffet business. Daddy's 671 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 13: gonna come with his club and a curb stop, ready 672 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 13: to take action. 673 00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,360 Speaker 1: Bigger steaks and a tea, bone a baby, let's get 674 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 1: into it. I was paid to do nothing for eighty 675 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 1: nine days, but today is the deadline. 676 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 2: And the company found out. 677 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 13: Oh no, the company found out you were doing your job. 678 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 13: Rats foiled again, foiled again. 679 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 1: All right, So I've been a student with the public 680 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 1: service for about two years now. My position, obviously Maxking specifics, 681 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 1: can be best described as a risk analyst, where I'm 682 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 1: given fifty to ninety days to review a file, confirm 683 00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 1: risk slash liability is feasible, and then start drafting the country. 684 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 9: Okay, sound simple enough. 685 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,840 Speaker 1: Sound straightforward. The fifty to ninety days depends on the 686 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 1: overall value of the work. As a student, I was 687 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: only seeing the easy, low value workload with a fifty 688 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 1: day expectation. I'm pretty good at my job, and I 689 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:14,520 Speaker 1: was able to get it completed in five to ten 690 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 1: days and would officially submit around twenty five to thirty days. 691 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,680 Speaker 2: Yes, this is what the typical government worker does. 692 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 9: Wait, so they just chill for off all weeks. 693 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, yo, I finish it in five days, 694 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 1: but I'll give it to you in a month. 695 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 13: Wow, that is some expert laziness right there, dude, extremely 696 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:38,680 Speaker 13: expert lazy. I'm glad our government is in such good hands. 697 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 1: Government efficiency maybe Now, I thought this was a fantastic 698 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,920 Speaker 1: plan as I was consistently getting praise for my team 699 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 1: for how hard I work. Wow, he's literally doing it 700 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 1: so late and consistently getting praise. 701 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 13: I love like that is the the bar is set 702 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 13: so low for government work that you can sit on 703 00:30:56,200 --> 00:31:00,040 Speaker 13: your ass for two weeks and get paid and people. 704 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 9: Pray for it. 705 00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 2: Dude. Rough, Now, the work here is not difficult in 706 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 2: any way. 707 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,560 Speaker 1: Even worse than only does he not work for two weeks, 708 00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 1: But the work isn't hard. It's not difficult, but it 709 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 1: is extremely tedious. For example, tomorrow is likely to consist 710 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 1: of three to four hours of hard labor of looking 711 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 1: at memes and scrolling through Reddit, and then one hour 712 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 1: of actually working, which is eventually extended into a lunch 713 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:27,560 Speaker 1: and then. 714 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 2: Going home early. 715 00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 1: The one hour still gives me enough time to be 716 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 1: productive for the day and submit a few things to 717 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 1: my team. 718 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 2: Now, let's go over the f up from earlier this morning. 719 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 9: Oh no, I'm ready for it. 720 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 1: Almost four months ago I was offered a full time 721 00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:43,480 Speaker 1: intermediate contract with the same team, which I gladly accepted. 722 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,040 Speaker 1: This just meant that I would receive a similar workload 723 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 1: but with higher values. So you know, it's not as 724 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,640 Speaker 1: much the you know, low value stuff anymore. 725 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 13: So he's gonna get the exact same amount of workload, 726 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 13: but he's just going to have more time to do it. 727 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like this, just like if I f it up, 728 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 1: it's it's monumentally important before matter. In my head, I 729 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 1: was thinking, fantastic, higher value equals more time to f 730 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 1: around and get paid for it. 731 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:09,080 Speaker 2: Burrah. 732 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 5: Oh. 733 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 13: Pea's of mind is uh is not built for employment. 734 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 2: Maybe it is honestly. 735 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:16,800 Speaker 9: What you should do. 736 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 1: Well, this was certainly not the case this morning. As 737 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 1: I entered work, oh No. Six forty five am, I 738 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 1: walk in and get weird stanky eyes for my entire team, 739 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:29,720 Speaker 1: leading into the director's office. 740 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 2: Seven am. 741 00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: Finish unpacking my computer files and go for my coffee 742 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:37,680 Speaker 1: as per usual. Right seven fifteen am, I get called 743 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 1: into the director's office. Let's call him director Jim. Jim 744 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,960 Speaker 1: and I have spoken maybe twice in all of two years. 745 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,480 Speaker 13: Oh my god, Jim is not very active in the office. 746 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,720 Speaker 13: Even imagining everyone just sitting on their ass like twenty 747 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,960 Speaker 13: four to seven. Yeah, government work, baby, it needs to 748 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,280 Speaker 13: be done twice or not at all. 749 00:32:53,480 --> 00:33:02,480 Speaker 5: Yes, Jim, good morning everyone, Opie. Did you forget something yesterday? 750 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:06,720 Speaker 13: I love like I'm imagining this just like a massive 751 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 13: Texan dude. 752 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, uh Dim from Dimsdale dimodomes. 753 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 13: Yeah, that's odd parents, but that he is even better. 754 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:20,640 Speaker 1: Yes, he's a cartoon, but it works for this. Yes, 755 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 1: I'm trying my hardest to think. Mm no, I replied. 756 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 1: Jim asked again, are you dang diddli sure you didn't 757 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:36,760 Speaker 1: forget something? And naturally I start to panic. What the 758 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,800 Speaker 1: f could I have forgotten? Why is he asking me twice? 759 00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 2: Why is he even talking to me? 760 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 7: Oh? 761 00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 5: No? 762 00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:44,479 Speaker 1: I asked him if I could go get my notebook 763 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 1: because I track everything there and I don't really have 764 00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:48,000 Speaker 1: the specifics in my head. 765 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:50,240 Speaker 2: He refuses and says. 766 00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 5: File x x three. Did you forget you were a 767 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 5: signed file x x three, not x x three. 768 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 13: The double x x marks the spot that you didn't 769 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:04,880 Speaker 13: realize that you had to mark. 770 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:09,360 Speaker 1: Sucker awkward silence for me, because there was this file 771 00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:13,360 Speaker 1: assigned to me right around the time my full contract 772 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:17,320 Speaker 1: signing and that was one of the highest value files 773 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:18,000 Speaker 1: of them all. 774 00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:22,719 Speaker 13: Oh no, so Op is messing up on literally the 775 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:25,840 Speaker 13: Super Bowl of government projects. 776 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,839 Speaker 2: All the file. Now here's the thing. 777 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,239 Speaker 1: I was given eighty days to complete this when it 778 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 1: was assigned, but the deadline is today at two pm. 779 00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:38,440 Speaker 9: Oh no, you better work fast, op, Jim. 780 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 5: Go get girl up comfort now, boy boy, I want 781 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,200 Speaker 5: to see way At and who I can just signed 782 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 5: to clean up this nonsense mess. 783 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 1: This is also extremely awkward because yes, technically I didn't 784 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 1: forget about it, but what I couldn't admit was that 785 00:34:56,200 --> 00:35:01,280 Speaker 1: the file was actually completely done, like done done? 786 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:02,919 Speaker 9: What? Wait? 787 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:06,399 Speaker 1: How Jim starts asking me what I even do all day, 788 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:10,600 Speaker 1: threatening to get the IT department to see my browsing 789 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 1: history and Internet activity. 790 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 9: No, Op, no, no. 791 00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:15,240 Speaker 2: At this point, he's. 792 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:19,080 Speaker 1: Gone from his normal pale, white calmmself to red in 793 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,280 Speaker 1: the face, pacing back and forth. 794 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:22,240 Speaker 9: Oh gosh. 795 00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 2: I asked Jim not. 796 00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 1: To involve any of my colleagues, as I assured him 797 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,719 Speaker 1: I could clean up this mess myself. I get to 798 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,279 Speaker 1: my laptop and quickly make a new folder for Jim 799 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,239 Speaker 1: to see, titled XX three. He opens it and it 800 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:38,160 Speaker 1: contained just the initial documents. My office needs to start 801 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:41,440 Speaker 1: a file, but nothing more. So basically like the beginnings 802 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 1: of it, but not the whole thing. Right, He lays 803 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,880 Speaker 1: into me, asking what I've been doing for the last 804 00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:48,840 Speaker 1: seventy nine days. 805 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:55,000 Speaker 13: Oh my goodness, nothing, nothing, nothing. 806 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 2: OP says, this is a fair question. 807 00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 1: I asked myself often to be honest, and Jim also 808 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 1: said if I don't have this completed by two pm, 809 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 1: he will terminate me as I am still on probation. 810 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:07,840 Speaker 9: Oh no, the job's on the line. 811 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,680 Speaker 2: Dude, everything's on the line now. 812 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 1: Like I said, the entire file from start to finish, 813 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:14,080 Speaker 1: is already complete. 814 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:15,400 Speaker 2: So what's missing? 815 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:20,319 Speaker 1: You might ask the necessary approvals and signatures for my team. 816 00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 2: Leader and Jim, the director of our office. 817 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 9: Oh so he's fine, So he just needs to get 818 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:25,239 Speaker 9: the signatures. 819 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 1: These signatures usually take a week to get and are 820 00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:31,960 Speaker 1: required before moving on to finalizing and posting in our system. 821 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:36,400 Speaker 1: I finished this entire MOFO in early October, one week 822 00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:38,319 Speaker 1: after it was assigned to me. Oh my god, but 823 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,920 Speaker 1: I completely forgot to submit the individual documents as I 824 00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:45,239 Speaker 1: progressed with it, and that eventually led to me completely 825 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:46,560 Speaker 1: forgetting all about it. 826 00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:47,600 Speaker 2: Now the thing is like. 827 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:51,840 Speaker 1: Actually like op was an overachiever. It was an overachieved 828 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:53,920 Speaker 1: That's why he forgot. But here's the thing. If he 829 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: tells him that, then it blows his cover. Then they 830 00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 1: know that the whole time he was doing these that 831 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 1: like five days and then sitting on them the whole time. 832 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,320 Speaker 2: So that's why I couldn't show the original files. 833 00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:07,359 Speaker 1: Oh god, now here we are on Reddit posting about 834 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:10,279 Speaker 1: my f up as opposed to actually submitting my own work. 835 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:14,400 Speaker 1: So he's literally writing this in the middle of the chaos. 836 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 13: Oh my god, Oh my god, he's writing it in 837 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,279 Speaker 13: real time while his boss is yelling at him. 838 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,600 Speaker 1: For real, It's been almost ninety minutes since and honestly, 839 00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:25,799 Speaker 1: I'm panicking, bru, get back to your work. 840 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:27,280 Speaker 9: Yeah. 841 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:29,160 Speaker 1: I have no clue what to do right now. Do 842 00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 1: I submit the entire file now to Jim for his signature, 843 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:36,560 Speaker 1: completed top to bottom and own my dishonest action, or 844 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:40,239 Speaker 1: submit one doc every thirty minutes to seem like it 845 00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 1: all went out today to get it completed by two pm. Man, wow, 846 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:46,959 Speaker 1: and there is an updates. Oh wait, there's an update, 847 00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 1: so we get to see what happened. Yes, I took 848 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:52,280 Speaker 1: the wise advice from many of you, and submitted everything 849 00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,960 Speaker 1: with an apology, so he basically decided to blow his 850 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:59,520 Speaker 1: cover for his lax work style. Jim called me back 851 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:03,080 Speaker 1: into his office a few minutes after submitting and I 852 00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:06,280 Speaker 1: explained how I lost track of time. He signed everything 853 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,040 Speaker 1: and let me leave with a handshake. Thank you for 854 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,719 Speaker 1: all the assistants, as I would have just continued panicking. 855 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 1: Came here to bench, but got a lot of useful advice. Wow, 856 00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:16,920 Speaker 1: they literally gave him the solution. 857 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 9: That's amazing. That's amazing. 858 00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 13: Shout out to Reddit for actually helping with life advice. 859 00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:25,239 Speaker 1: That's aw and that's so crazy, Like literally in real time, 860 00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,839 Speaker 1: people came together and he's like, you know what, I'm 861 00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:28,680 Speaker 1: gonna do it this way. 862 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,359 Speaker 2: Thanks guys. That's pretty I'm gonna do that next time 863 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:31,960 Speaker 2: I run in here. 864 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:35,200 Speaker 13: You Reddit for helping us solve our life problems. But 865 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 13: you know what else can solve your life problems? 866 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:37,719 Speaker 10: Ooh? 867 00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:42,120 Speaker 1: Subscribing to Okay Opie, subscribe on YouTube, follow us and 868 00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 1: Spotify and TikTok. 869 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:44,839 Speaker 13: If you want to be a real one, support us 870 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 13: on Patreon because you get to talk to us on 871 00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 13: our discord channel. 872 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:52,480 Speaker 2: Yeah you do join the family. Casey's neforious Devien Muhammad, 873 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 2: Amanda Wilcomb's Connor Desiree, Keegan Simmons, and Kathy Quigley see 874 00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:57,560 Speaker 2: us soon