1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:06,119 Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio. Hey everybody, 2 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 1: it's Trista and Bob with the almost famous OG's And 3 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 1: we were having so much fun with Gillian Harris that 4 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: we wanted to chat some more. So let's dive back in. Okay, 5 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: so tell us about the wedding. You're getting married this 6 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: year and it's going to be in Europe. We know 7 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: you just had your bachelorette party, beautiful pictures from that. 8 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: Tell us about it, or at least what you want 9 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: to tell. 10 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: Okay, it's actually not in Europe anymore. 11 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 3: Oh, it's not in Europe anymore. 12 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 4: I know. 13 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 2: I told People Magazine it was in Europe because I 14 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 2: really thought it was going to be, but we actually 15 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 2: had booked everything in Italy. I was We've literally planned 16 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 2: the wedding four times and we decided that we were 17 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 2: this summer because we love Italy, and I really struggled 18 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:50,560 Speaker 2: with the guest list, and I was like, this is great, 19 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 2: We'll do it in Italy. Keep it small. But my 20 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 2: mom health has not been great over the years. My 21 00:00:56,000 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 2: mom really struggles with bipolar. She's been really really good 22 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 2: for the last year and a half or so, so like, 23 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 2: thank the Lord, but if she were ever to relapse, 24 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 2: then she wouldn't be able to come, and then my 25 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 2: dad wouldn't come, and I just could not risk that. 26 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 2: So last minute I canceled that wedding again for like 27 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 2: the third or fourth time. And now our wedding is 28 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 2: here in Kelowna, and actually, believe it or not, I 29 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 2: was also convinced to make it. It's like a five 30 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 2: day wedding. So we're actually getting married at a church first, 31 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 2: which if you see news reports of a church going 32 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:36,119 Speaker 2: down in flames on August verbs, it will be because 33 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 2: of me. Lots of candles, you guys, Okay, for anybody 34 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 2: that knows me, you will be shocked. I spent the 35 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 2: entire weekend going through and picking all of my prayers, 36 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 2: picking all of my oh like read I have, like 37 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 2: I want to customize it. So like, no, I'm taking 38 00:01:55,360 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 2: this very seriously. So we're married on at our church. 39 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 2: And it was the same church that Justin's parents got 40 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 2: married at, so that's really beautiful. And it's the same 41 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 2: church that the kids, our kids go to Catholic school. 42 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:08,839 Speaker 2: This is a whole other thing, but it's the same 43 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 2: church that they go to for their Mass every Thursday, 44 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 2: So anyways, that's happening, and then we're having a big 45 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 2: Italian themed rehearsal dinner here at the house afterwards. I'm 46 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 2: very excited about that, just aesthetically, it's going to be 47 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 2: really really fun and not like everybody expectually inherits to 48 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 2: have like whites and pinks and whatnot. It's going to 49 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 2: be like like so much color, like your background, like 50 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 2: so so much color. 51 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 3: And then color. 52 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. And then on the weekend we're getting married at 53 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 2: our farm and it's just like it's a flower there's 54 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:48,239 Speaker 2: flowers everywhere, lots of color. Brides get to wear whatever 55 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 2: they want, bouncy castle for the kids. I don't know, 56 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 2: all the good stuff. 57 00:02:56,320 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 4: That's so I'm excited. 58 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 2: Thank you. 59 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 5: You and Justin have always been such a wonderful couple. 60 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 2: Oh thank you. 61 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: So you waited this long and you're gonna have two 62 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:09,080 Speaker 1: weddings not just fun too. 63 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:11,919 Speaker 2: And then we're having a party the next day. We're 64 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 2: going a Ukrainian themed party because I'm Ukrainian and it's 65 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 2: gonna be on our doc and I have I hired 66 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 2: this lady. She's a Ukrainian refuge refugee. She came over 67 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:24,959 Speaker 2: right during the war, and she has this company and 68 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 2: she makes parogis in the mall, like you know when 69 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 2: you go to the mall and they make like cinnamon 70 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 2: buns in front of you and you can. Yes, it's 71 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 2: like this, but pogis so so we're doing like a 72 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 2: big parogy bar and Caesar's and everything like that. So yeah, 73 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 2: it's like a it's a full on freakin' Yeah. 74 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 5: It's so awesome. I love it. You're getting you're getting 75 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 5: all those all those security deposits back from all those years. 76 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't even know none of those 77 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 2: vendors are even still in business. 78 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. 79 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, we have to start from scratch. But that's okay whatever, 80 00:03:58,800 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 2: that's yeah. 81 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,839 Speaker 1: I'd have done it on your own, even I don't 82 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: put that past you. 83 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 3: You could have done it on your own. 84 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's amazing. I cannot wait to see pictures 85 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: and video and. 86 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 3: All the things. 87 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 88 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: How are the kids feeling about a big wedding or two? 89 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 2: They're excited. I don't think they have any idea what's 90 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 2: what's going on? But Annie's got her dress is the 91 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 2: exact replica of mine. But baby Blue, I love it. Oh, yeah, 92 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,799 Speaker 2: so she's super excited about that there's a woman in town. 93 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:35,799 Speaker 2: So the dress is all like locally made, Canadian owned, 94 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 2: all that kind of stuff, and Leo's they've all got 95 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 2: like several outfit changes and whatnot. But there's a lot 96 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 2: of kids. Like, there's gonna be I think, like forty 97 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 2: kids at the wedding. 98 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 5: That's awesome. 99 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 2: It's gonna be a bit chaotic. I'm a bit concerned, 100 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 2: like we have dedicated babysitters and all that kind of stuff. 101 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:54,719 Speaker 2: But yeah, it's gonna be crazy. 102 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:58,600 Speaker 4: That is so unbelievable. Yeah, wait, so can I ask 103 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 4: so the kids her been like do they even know 104 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 4: that you weren't married legally technically? 105 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 5: Okay? 106 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,839 Speaker 2: Annie barely calls me mom. She calls me Jillian Harris 107 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 2: she does. And everything around our house has like Jillybox Jillian, 108 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 2: like the Jillian are Like if we meet somebody, she'll 109 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 2: be like, oh is that from the Jilly Are they 110 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 2: from the Jillibox or is that Like our kids are 111 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 2: really into our business. 112 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 5: Like oh my gosh, oh yeah. 113 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:27,600 Speaker 3: And there too. 114 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, they wanted they really want me to change my 115 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:32,280 Speaker 2: last name, which I said I would, but not my stage. 116 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 4: Name, right, you got stage name function. Yeah, that's why 117 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 4: Canyon is Canyon. She she she kept Canyon. That was 118 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 4: her maiden name. I just call her Canyon. So she's 119 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 4: Canyon Guiney to everybody. 120 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 5: Yeah. 121 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 2: I love that, but yeah, they know that we're not married. 122 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 2: It's it's disgusted. It is. 123 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 4: So I need to tell you this, Jillian, because what 124 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 4: you just said made me laugh so hard. My son, Grayson, 125 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 4: who's six his he will be and it interests her 126 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:01,679 Speaker 4: to me tell the story a million times, but it happens. 127 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 5: This kind of thing happens all the time. 128 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 4: Like people will come over and he'll go, oh, is 129 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 4: that one of your old girl friends And I'm like, what, No, 130 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 4: that's your mom's friend. 131 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 5: Oh sorry, bachelor Bob. 132 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 4: And like literally he'll say, we'll be like we'll be 133 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 4: at McDonald's at the playland and I'll order them like 134 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 4: milkshakes and French fries, and a fourteen year old girl 135 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 4: will be delivering the and. 136 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 5: He'll go, yep, that's him. He'll be of from the plateland. Yeah, 137 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 5: he'll take a picture with you. 138 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's awesome. 139 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 5: You'll go ahead, bat you Bob, take a picture with him. 140 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 5: I'm like she's fourteen. Bro, she doesn't know why stop? 141 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 4: You know, it drives me crazy, you know, but it's 142 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 4: like he does that all the time. 143 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 2: I love it. 144 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 5: We need to get them together, they need to hang out. 145 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, absolutely, the kids definitely have no problem Ris 146 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 2: and me and us, and they're like, Annie will be like, 147 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 2: actually in Harris, I'm the boss with everyone. 148 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 5: You're like, okay, honey, thank you. 149 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 2: That's right. 150 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 5: Room. You know, if you were a normal employee, you'd 151 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 5: be paid. 152 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 4: You wouldn't get paid to day, but I'm gonna let 153 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 4: you have the day. 154 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 3: And there for seven and nine. 155 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 2: So Leo's turning nine August fifth, and Annie tre then 156 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 2: at the end of September. 157 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 4: Oh my god, I just feel like Grayson and Annie. 158 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 4: Grayson and Annie might be the same person. 159 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, we honestly, and if we do, we should do 160 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 2: a bachelor union with everybody kids while kids and you 161 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 2: can have bounty castles, water slides, we could do challenges 162 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 2: for the kids like we can. You'd be so wholesome, 163 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 2: so much fun. 164 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 5: That would be awesome, dude, like a little bachelor pad. 165 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: Max and Blakesley can babysit. Max Yes, turning eighteen on Saturday, 166 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: Oh my. 167 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 5: Wow, that's unbelievable. Trista, that's crazy. 168 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 2: That's drinking age in Canada. 169 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 5: Oh gosh. 170 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 3: Well hopefully, well, good thing he's not in Canada. No, 171 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 3: I'm just kidding, he he. I don't think he's really 172 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 3: interested in it. 173 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 1: You know, I'm his mom, so he probably hides. 174 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know that he is. 175 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: He's really interested in like working out and taking care 176 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: of his body. So hopefully he's not take. 177 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 2: After his parents. 178 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah he does. 179 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 3: I don't know about me, but thank you. 180 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 5: Meanwhile, the Guinea Boys are doing jaeger bombs. 181 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 2: And it's all about bance. 182 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 5: That's right, healthy balance, that's so funny. 183 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 1: Okay, I do have one question related to the wedding. 184 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: I feel like in society there is definitely this like 185 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 1: pressure to do things in a certain order, in a 186 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:43,080 Speaker 1: certain way, and before maybe you're forty years old, how 187 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: do you feel about that societal pressure? Obviously it's not 188 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: something that you worry too much about because you know 189 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 1: you're you're doing things your own way, which I think 190 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 1: so many kudos to you, But how how has that 191 00:08:56,440 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 1: impacted the decision to wait and how. 192 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:02,359 Speaker 3: How do you feel about that societal norm. 193 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:06,080 Speaker 2: Well, I I always joke that you're gonna have to 194 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 2: like take me down to the aisle and depends like 195 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 2: I've waited for it. But yeah, I mean at this rate, 196 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 2: I feel like Justin and I are kind of already married. Yeah. 197 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 2: Like to be honest, like, it's not that I didn't 198 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 2: want to marry him. I love him, work together, we're 199 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 2: good partners. But I'm a little European that way. That 200 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 2: I also because I'm an only child, I I'm so independent. 201 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I don't know if I want to, Like, 202 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 2: I like being my own person. Like you read the 203 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 2: things that they tell you in this book here, it's 204 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 2: like says like you become one flesh, and I'm like, 205 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:45,319 Speaker 2: I don't. 206 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 5: Not sure I feel about literally. 207 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm I'm not even kidding you. There's one excerpt 208 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:57,199 Speaker 2: I got to bring this up and it says literally 209 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 2: Lord is blessed with the Silent White or something like this, 210 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 2: and I sent it to our wedding party. I'm like, 211 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 2: do you guys see what I'm having to deal with 212 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 2: right now? So I don't really care about my age. 213 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 2: I think when I started to care about my age 214 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 2: is when I couldn't find that person I started that 215 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 2: it wasn't going to happen for me, and I just 216 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 2: even though being a parent and being in a relationship 217 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 2: is the hardest thing in the whole world. It is 218 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 2: so hard. I'm so happy that I'm in it. But 219 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 2: at one point, right before I met Justin, I was 220 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 2: really loving my life and I was like I could 221 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 2: actually get used to this. 222 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:36,559 Speaker 5: Like I was. 223 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 2: Traveling all over the world, I dated whoever I wanted, 224 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 2: I did whatever I wanted. I was fit, Like I 225 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,839 Speaker 2: was like, you know what, I may not want to 226 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 2: do this like relationship kid thing, but having kids was 227 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 2: so important to me, and so yeah, I think I 228 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 2: really really stressed about the timeline of things around the 229 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 2: time I met Justin, Like I was wondering, like I'm 230 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 2: going to be thirty four. I think it was thirty 231 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 2: two or thirty four, and everybody was on their second 232 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 2: marriages for Pete's sakes. So but now where I'm at 233 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:16,720 Speaker 2: right now, I just don't feel like I'm forty five. 234 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 2: Like I don't feel that I'm old. 235 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 3: I feel like you're not. 236 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 5: I feel forty five is not old. I'm at least 237 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 5: compared to us. 238 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. 239 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 5: At least compared to me. I'm the old one, twisted, 240 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 5: just the I only think she's even fifty, Yet she 241 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 5: keeps saying that she. 242 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 3: Had her birth dap it. 243 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: I'm fifty two. 244 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 2: I love that we are gorgeous for our a You 245 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 2: too are a couple of stars. 246 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 5: Oh Bob, you. 247 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:45,559 Speaker 3: Too were alling on you too? 248 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 2: No, I don't, I don't care. And also, like, I 249 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 2: believe that people can get married, remarried, they can go 250 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 2: on to have five marriages. I think you can have 251 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 2: a marriage, you can have babies on your own, you 252 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 2: can get married. Like I think that there's no rules. 253 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 2: I think it's rules that get us into trouble mentally. 254 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 2: I think that ultimately you need to be happy and 255 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 2: do what makes you happy and sets you free, and 256 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:11,840 Speaker 2: that is so important. I think you still have to 257 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 2: work in a relationship. I think there are still challenges 258 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 2: in relationship, but life just doesn't always Who made up 259 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 2: the rules that it had to go that way anyways? 260 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 5: Right? 261 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 6: Right? 262 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, right? 263 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 2: I think it was this. I think I think I 264 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 2: might have been this. 265 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 5: I think I might have been this guy. 266 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 3: I think so, maybe, I think so. 267 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 4: Maybe. 268 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 2: I just don't think it has to be that way, 269 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 2: and our father, father Maurice. I've had quite a few 270 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 2: conversations with him and he gets a kick out of 271 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 2: me because we have to do this course right, and 272 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 2: then you have to do reflections in the course, and 273 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 2: I feel like, how did you feel? I'm like, dude, 274 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 2: I've been doing this for thirteen years. Like they ask like, 275 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 2: who's going to take care of the children, Who's going 276 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 2: to take out the trash? I'm like, Justin and I 277 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 2: have already thought about this extensively for the last thirteen years, 278 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 2: which is why after thirteen years we are now getting married, 279 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 2: because we've actually worked all this stuff out right. 280 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, we got there. 281 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 2: We're We're good now. 282 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:20,440 Speaker 4: I love seeing videos of Justin, like you know, back there, 283 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 4: like surfing with the kids on the water and doing 284 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 4: all the fun stuff. And he's such a great athlete, 285 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 4: man is he is? He still do all that cool stuff, 286 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 4: all the all the sponsored stuff he used to do. 287 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 5: Well. 288 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 2: He so he his main job is still Instagram and 289 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 2: he has a pretty good going at that. He's very 290 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 2: lucrative with with his partnerships and whatnot, which is awesome 291 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:46,319 Speaker 2: and he loves it. So his main things are like golf, 292 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:51,680 Speaker 2: the farm, anything, yard, travel, and then the kids and 293 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 2: he actually like quite a bit of stuff in the 294 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 2: kitchen and whatnot in some fashion, So like don't like 295 00:13:56,360 --> 00:14:00,120 Speaker 2: totally lifestyle like dad dad lifestyle. Sure, yeah, but it 296 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 2: keeps them mostly busy. Is our farm. Our fam is 297 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 2: like a full time job. So we have eleven acres 298 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:11,080 Speaker 2: and right now it's a flower farm, but we ordered 299 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,439 Speaker 2: five hundred oak trees and when those go in, next 300 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 2: string will be we'll have a trouble farm. 301 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:18,199 Speaker 5: Whoa. 302 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 2: And then we I think are going to rent out 303 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 2: our property for weddings. 304 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 4: But yes, that kind of shocked you haven't done that 305 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 4: already with the weddings. 306 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 2: Well, because we are fire here, so farm right, Yeah, 307 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:39,240 Speaker 2: the farm burnt down, the barn burnt down, and then 308 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 2: it's taken us a long time to like rebuild and 309 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 2: replant and all that kind of stuff. So yeah, because 310 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 2: are you in. 311 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 5: La Bomberno, No, I'm in Michigan. Are you to move 312 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 5: back home? No? 313 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 4: No, we got lucky from that perspective, but yeah, there's 314 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 4: but we've often talked about the Canyon's dream is to 315 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 4: have a farm and make it like a wedding farm 316 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 4: because there was a couple in Seattle that we loved 317 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 4: when we lived there. 318 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, so the parks, I'm super busy. It's a 319 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 2: it's a money taker from us, not really a money maker. 320 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 2: But he loves he loves his Instagram. He does these 321 00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 2: like sandwich reviews and like he just loves being on there. 322 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 2: So that's his thing. But sports wise, right at the 323 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 2: beginning of COVID, he we went to the island and 324 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 2: he was showing teaching Leo how to skateboard and he 325 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 2: shattered his ankle. Oh no, because it was COVID. They 326 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 2: did job putting it back together. Yeah, reoperated on twice. 327 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 2: And he has like chronic chronic pain, like to the 328 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 2: point that it's I can see that it's it's really 329 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 2: affecting his his space as a person. Like, yeah, he's 330 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 2: such chronic pain, and he's like he's all about like 331 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 2: no GMOs, no advil, no no pills, no like no medicine, 332 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 2: and so like he just he just lives with this pain. 333 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 2: But November fourth, he's getting a full ankle replacement. 334 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 5: My brother in law just got that. 335 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 2: What. 336 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, you have. 337 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 2: To tak out to Justin and let him know because 338 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 2: he's nervous. 339 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 4: I will, Yeah, you know what, I'll connect them and 340 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 4: they can talk about it. Because my brother in law, 341 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 4: Jad just did one and he's getting ready to do 342 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 4: the other one next year. 343 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 2: Why why did he have to get his ankles replaced? 344 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 4: Well, he so he just had this kind of weird 345 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 4: degenerative bone condition that started coming on. But he was 346 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 4: he played sports in college and stuff and had blown 347 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 4: out his ankle like twenty times, and then all of 348 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 4: a sudden it became a thing where like we'd be 349 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 4: playing golf and we'd look I'd look over at him 350 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:33,359 Speaker 4: and it was like he had like a weird appendage 351 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 4: where his foot should be, and like, what is going 352 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 4: on with you? 353 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 5: He couldn't climb out of bunkers? 354 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 2: She like yes, Like sometimes Justin will get out of 355 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 2: bed and he's literally limping like he's been shot, like 356 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 2: and tell him angle gets warmed up. It's so sad. 357 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's what my brother went through too. 358 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 3: I broke my ankle during COVID. 359 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: Do you remember when we did that like the Roses, 360 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 1: Like we passed the Roses and did that little video 361 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 1: And I was in a boot during then and had 362 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 1: my ankle worked on and. 363 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 3: I have this. I don't. 364 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 1: I wouldn't call it chronic pain, but you're right, like 365 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 1: when I get out of bed, I have to limp 366 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:14,679 Speaker 1: to the bathroom in the mornings, and it is and 367 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 1: I still don't have feeling. Tell us about the children's book, 368 00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 1: like a cute little children's book. 369 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 2: This was Justin's idea, and how it actually started was 370 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 2: we wanted to write a book. I think there should 371 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:40,920 Speaker 2: be a movie about Nacho, but anyways, we wanted to 372 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 2: about Nacho from like Reichs to Riches, how he like 373 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 2: came from Mexico and he just about died and then 374 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 2: he liked, do you know that Nacho had his own 375 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 2: like billboard in Times Square? He was, Yes, he was 376 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 2: featured on the Ellen Show like this dog went viral 377 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 2: on Instagram all the time, and so we wanted to 378 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,719 Speaker 2: write a book about him. But for some reason our 379 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 2: public didn't like that idea. I don't know why, but 380 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,360 Speaker 2: we're going to continue to hit them up for it. 381 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 2: So then they were like, well, we do want to 382 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 2: do a children's book with you though, but not that, 383 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:11,159 Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, that was our idea, Like I 384 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 2: don't know, like so then then Justin and I chatted 385 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 2: and we're like, you know, what would be interesting is 386 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:21,199 Speaker 2: like people look at our life and like, yes, you know, 387 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 2: I still acknowledge the amount of privilege that we have 388 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 2: in our life. We're both mostly able bodied. We live 389 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 2: in such a safe place, like there are so many great, 390 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 2: great things that we have to be grateful for. But 391 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 2: but even if you could took somebody else like exactly 392 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:38,439 Speaker 2: like us, people look at us and think like, oh, 393 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 2: they're so perfect their Instagram life and all this stuff, 394 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 2: But behind the scenes, it's chill, like like like on Friday, 395 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 2: I just bo called off the whole wedding because Justin 396 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 2: put its fucking dirty tuna dish in with my clean 397 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 2: dishes at six in the morning when I'm trying to 398 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 2: we're trying to get we're leaving this condo that we rented, 399 00:18:57,760 --> 00:18:59,359 Speaker 2: and I'm trying to leave it in decent shape. It's 400 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 2: six in the morning. I'm trying to get out of there. 401 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:02,959 Speaker 2: I have wedding meetings back in Colonna, have like an 402 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:05,479 Speaker 2: hour and a half drive. There's a clearly a dirty 403 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 2: side and a clean side. And he was just speaking 404 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 2: dirty tunic, and so all I said was all I said, 405 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 2: was all I said was okay, and I took the 406 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:16,919 Speaker 2: dirty tunis and he's you don't have to be so rude, 407 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:19,440 Speaker 2: and I'm like, I'm not being rude, it's just don't 408 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 2: put your thty tunics and thing. He's like, oh, well, 409 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,160 Speaker 2: you don't have to be accountable for anything. 410 00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 4: Like you're the one that. 411 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:27,679 Speaker 5: I like. 412 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 7: Anyways, So then then at this point, at this point, 413 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 7: like I'm talking like like this, like like not fist, 414 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 7: like not fisical, but look like we're like job and 415 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:37,959 Speaker 7: this job, and that Leo comes downstairs. 416 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 2: He's like, are you guys breaking up? I'm like, yes, 417 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:43,680 Speaker 2: we are again, we're breaking up. I'm like, no, we're 418 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 2: not breaking up, Jillian, You're gonna scar this poor kid. 419 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 2: Like it's like, hey, no, we're not breaking up, but 420 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:56,399 Speaker 2: I want to. But anyways, behind the scene was like 421 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 2: it's chaotic. We just got a new kiddie, got a 422 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 2: new puppy. I'm the worst driver ever. Like all of 423 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:05,120 Speaker 2: our seat, all of our bushes are all trash because 424 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 2: I run over everything, and so like our days are 425 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 2: just absolute chaotic. And it isn't until bedtime that we're 426 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 2: all like, oh, holy right, okay, let's do this. And 427 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 2: every day is the same, and so I just wanted 428 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 2: to write a book kind of about that for kids 429 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 2: that it's okay if it's a show, like as long 430 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 2: as you have each other, everything is going to be okay. 431 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 2: And so there's gonna be a series. Now we're working 432 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:34,399 Speaker 2: on just another perfect Christmas, and then it'll be just 433 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:38,160 Speaker 2: another perfect vacation. But this one is just like everyday life, 434 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 2: like just another perfect day, and just how like the 435 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 2: day starts off perfect, but then how it just like 436 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 2: spirals out of control. 437 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 5: I love it. 438 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 4: I love it, and I need I need I need 439 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 4: that book because I'm listening right now. 440 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 5: Do I show it downstairs? 441 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:52,400 Speaker 4: Yeah? 442 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 5: I love it, just screaming on going, oh my god. 443 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,919 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. That is so cute. Such a good idea. 444 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 1: You know, I always wanted to write a children's book, 445 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,200 Speaker 1: and my literary agent was like, Okay, what's your idea. 446 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't have one. Like, tell me an 447 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,719 Speaker 3: idea and then I'll write it. But I don't know 448 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:14,719 Speaker 3: that's a perfect idea. 449 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,680 Speaker 2: I wonder if you could write something about like finding 450 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 2: love or about the show. But that's good for. 451 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:24,520 Speaker 1: Kids, Yeah, I mean for sure we could. 452 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:29,119 Speaker 3: I that's so true. 453 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, like chat GPT, so Max is obviously eighteen, 454 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:36,880 Speaker 1: He's going to be applying to colleges real soon. They 455 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 1: open up like August first, which stresses me out to 456 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:43,360 Speaker 1: no end. But I literally put in chat GBT, this 457 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 1: is my son, this is who he is, this is 458 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:48,400 Speaker 1: his personality, this is his family life, blah blah blah. 459 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 1: Give me ten college essay topics that he can write about. 460 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 1: And it was like, I'm like, okay, people pay tens 461 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 1: of thousands. 462 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 3: Of dollars for this, and literally it was. 463 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 5: Like, that's awesome, crazy, it's it's it is, you know. 464 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 2: Some of it scares me, but at first stamps I 465 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 2: person really scared me. But then I was like, this 466 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 2: is actually like for so long, I feel like we 467 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 2: were doing things the hard way, so hard and the 468 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 2: way the world has gone with how hard families have 469 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 2: to work in order to maintain their life, like the 470 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 2: cost of living and everything. Make it for some of us, 471 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 2: make it us. I'm good, I'm easy for make it. 472 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 2: Somebody helped, Somebody helps each other out, Like I think 473 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 2: this yeah could be maybe yeah, take a little break people. 474 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like you, Jillian, like I don't like I 475 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 4: don't like that Alexa listens in, and I don't like 476 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 4: Siri knowing what's up and Canyon loves it. 477 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:39,880 Speaker 5: Can you'll be like. 478 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,159 Speaker 4: I was talking about how much I wanted a new 479 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:43,920 Speaker 4: pair of boots, and sirih said, these are the four 480 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 4: that my phone just recently popped up and told me 481 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 4: these four boots are for sale. 482 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 5: I'm like, well, it's going on my Head's Siri. 483 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 3: Gonna pay for those boots? 484 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 2: No, I have no problem. I used to bug me. 485 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 2: I used to bugg me. But if somebody on the 486 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 2: internet could be listening to everything I say and they 487 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 2: can make my life easier because of it, listen, yeah, 488 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:05,120 Speaker 2: like help me with my relationship, my kids, the puppy training, 489 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 2: pee training, I don't know, my my incontinence, Like, I 490 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,600 Speaker 2: don't know, give me help me? Why why do I 491 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 2: pee when I walk? When I fart? Like, help me? 492 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 5: Oh my god, that's so funny. Oh, we gotta do 493 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 5: this more often, Jillian Harris. 494 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 1: I mean for real, but before we go, if Justin 495 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 1: comes in, awesome, But I want you to tell everybody 496 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 1: about the Jillybocks. 497 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:38,159 Speaker 2: Oh yes, okay, so before in right, like in twenty sixteen, 498 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 2: when I first started on Instagram, like a lot of 499 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 2: other influencers, I would get sent all these all this 500 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 2: gifting right from all different people. And when I shared 501 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,159 Speaker 2: it on my socials, Let's say I got sent something 502 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 2: from like Eve Saint Laurent or something, and I shared, 503 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 2: like I got some new lipstick or perfume or whatever. 504 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 2: You know, people are like, oh cool, Jill's really lucky, 505 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,440 Speaker 2: like whatever, but like you think Eve San Laurent really gives. 506 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 2: I shouldn't use them as an example because they still 507 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 2: send me stuff and I really like them. But anyways, 508 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 2: but when I would get stuff gifted from small brands, 509 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:13,600 Speaker 2: women own brands, Canadian own brands, brands that have you know, 510 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 2: historically been marginalized, and I would share, they would lose 511 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,719 Speaker 2: their They would be like, you change my life, And 512 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:26,199 Speaker 2: that feeling was so addictive. Like to know that I 513 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 2: could help other families and I could help other small businesses. 514 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 2: I just love that so much. So that became something 515 00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 2: that I really love to do. But I couldn't monetize 516 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 2: on that. And not to say you have to monetize 517 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 2: on everything, but my platform is worth something and my 518 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:42,960 Speaker 2: time is worth something. And if I kept on doing that, 519 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,439 Speaker 2: I would just be like a billboard. So I was like, 520 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 2: and a lot of these brands wanted to collaborate. They 521 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 2: wanted me to do my own custom products. So I 522 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 2: was like, what if we picked a handful of small 523 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 2: brands and I either picked their favorite product or we 524 00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 2: designed an exclusive product and we curated a box and 525 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,400 Speaker 2: the box was a surprise and we sold that tour 526 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 2: to the customer. Well, what happened was we were like 527 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 2: so excited about this project, we actually like leaked the 528 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:12,639 Speaker 2: whole idea. We shared the whole idea. We brought our 529 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 2: customer along that. When the box launched, we had five 530 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 2: thousand boxes to sell, but we had a wait list 531 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:24,600 Speaker 2: of over one hundred thousand people. Our websites black, everything crashed. 532 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 2: People waited online to get a box for like twelve hours, 533 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,359 Speaker 2: Like people were crying, people finding my phone number, calling 534 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,679 Speaker 2: me like like trying to give me money, like thousands 535 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 2: of dollars to get this box. I'm like, what the Like, 536 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:39,199 Speaker 2: I actually didn't realize like how good of an idea 537 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,160 Speaker 2: this was. So that was five years ago. We're well 538 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,400 Speaker 2: on to our over our fifth year. Now we sell 539 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:47,879 Speaker 2: twenty thousand boxes in one day we do this, and 540 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 2: we do this four times a year, and we completely 541 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 2: sell it one day and we have like donated well 542 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 2: over a million dollars like back into the community, Jill, 543 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 2: and we try to partner with mostly small brands, women 544 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,320 Speaker 2: own brands, like brands that like have a good give 545 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 2: back component, be corporate certified, that kind of stuff. So 546 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,640 Speaker 2: that's kind of the thing. And now we're just expanding 547 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:17,199 Speaker 2: our marketplace so that some of these brands can't do 548 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 2: twenty thousand units. It's just too many units for a 549 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 2: small brand. So we're bringing their product into our marketplace. 550 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,159 Speaker 2: So people who want to shop with values, if they 551 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 2: want to support a small brand, or if they like 552 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 2: you can actually shop buy your values. If you want 553 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 2: like indigenous owned or black owned or vegan, you can 554 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 2: actually shop buy values. And so we're going to expand 555 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 2: that's our big goal this year is to expand in marketplace. 556 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 2: So that's my big baby. I'm super passionate about it 557 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 2: because I don't get to just succeed other people in 558 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,439 Speaker 2: my cirket to succeed. And you know right now with 559 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:51,119 Speaker 2: Amazon and Shean and t Moon all that, like a 560 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,879 Speaker 2: lot of these small businesses are really really hanging on 561 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 2: and by a thread. And these businesses are the backbone 562 00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 2: of our economy. They're the back They're the ones stone 563 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,159 Speaker 2: eating to have the hockey teams. They're the ones that 564 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,919 Speaker 2: are paying the taxes to clean up the streets. Like, 565 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 2: it's so important to support these small businesses. So that's 566 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 2: my baby, and that's mostly what I do. But then 567 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 2: I do Instagram stuff too. 568 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:14,880 Speaker 5: Love it. I love it. 569 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:18,359 Speaker 4: I love that your your your passion turned into this 570 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 4: thing that's actually helping so many people too. 571 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 2: I love it. It's so funny. That's awesome, like curating 572 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 2: the boxes and designing the items and the photo shoots 573 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 2: and like, oh just it's so so much fun. 574 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 1: I love it so fun. 575 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:32,879 Speaker 5: We love you, Jilly, we do. 576 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 2: We love you me and my multiple personalities. 577 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 4: I love you guys, and you guys love no. It 578 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 4: is great, though, isn't it nice when we get to 579 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 4: connect like this? And that's what's so great about the 580 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:50,199 Speaker 4: Almost Famous OG podcast. We bring back superstars like Jillian Harris, 581 00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:52,400 Speaker 4: and you guys get to see that she's just as 582 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 4: beautiful and lovely as you thought she would be. 583 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:56,440 Speaker 5: Right, Trista so. 584 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,399 Speaker 1: Much for having right Oh my gosh, thank you so 585 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:03,119 Speaker 1: much for comingming on, especially leading up to your wedding. 586 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 1: I am so happy for you, guys, and not that 587 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:10,159 Speaker 1: you needed the wedding to make me happy for you 588 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 1: guys and make the rest of the world happy for you. 589 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,640 Speaker 2: I'm happy for us too. It's about it's gonna. 590 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: Be Yeah, Yeah, you're going to have a great time. Okay, 591 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 1: Well tell Justin. We're sad we didn't get to stay high, but. 592 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:25,200 Speaker 2: We're both putting fires today. But we're good. We're good, 593 00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:28,119 Speaker 2: he says. Hi, and you guys can connect over Instagram. 594 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, let me know if you if you can. If 595 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,199 Speaker 4: I think, if you still me number, send me his 596 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 4: number and I'll connect him with my brother in law 597 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 4: for the ankle talk. 598 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:36,880 Speaker 2: Sound good? 599 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 5: All right bye, guys. Thank you so much. 600 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:45,280 Speaker 3: That was amazing. 601 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,280 Speaker 5: She's so dang funny. I mean, honestly, guys. 602 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,400 Speaker 3: I know it's so funny. 603 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:53,920 Speaker 5: And she's going to. 604 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 4: Put our editors to work. They're going to have a 605 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 4: tough time with this one. There's some salting in there, 606 00:28:58,320 --> 00:28:58,920 Speaker 4: which I love. 607 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 3: Oh gosh, no kidding, so true. I was like bombs 608 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,120 Speaker 3: and the Yeah, I love it. 609 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, as always, so great seeing you. Trista awesome talking 610 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 6: to Alian Harris, one of my favorite people from the franchise, 611 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 6: and like you said, definitely someone that we shall look 612 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 6: up to. And I mean the fact that she's doing 613 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 6: that jillybox and has taken care. 614 00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 5: Of so many people that I love it. Yeah, I 615 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 5: absolutely love it. That's the good of what can come 616 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 5: from this kind of stuff, right. 617 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, for real, for real. Well, thanks everybody for listening. 618 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 3: We will talk to you soon. 619 00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 5: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on 620 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 5: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.